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TUESDAY, DECEMBER 16, 2008
Love Systems Tip of the Day: She has a boyfriend
This will be old hat to those experienced with Love Systems, but itcame up in a student'sone-on-onewith an instructor last week that I was observing, so I thought it was worth a quick tip.
(Quick note on that - I don't normally hang out on ourinstructors' one-on-ones, so don't book one thinking it'll be partof the package (unless I'mteaching one myself , which is rare). Ido it sometimes for quality control and to help share bestpractices across instructors. It takes a lot of effort to make sure we have a great system of peer review, student review, and my review across everything Love Systems does, and we spendinfinitely more time at this than anyone else.Most people think it's for the long-term brand benefits, and Isuppose it is a little bit, but I think the benefits are actually moreimmediate. Not only do we almost never get refund requests -even though we offer a full money-back guarantee on everything we do, no questions asked - but it's part of what letsall of ustakeso much pride in Love Systems. I've seen what happens to otherguys when some instructors start slacking...it's a cancer. Evenguys who normally give 110% start slacking as well, and thenthe whole places loses its reputation. It's sad how many once-good dating coaching places have fallen victim to this and aretrading on yesterday's glories).
Anyway...Beautiful women ("9"s and "10"s) almost always have a boyfriend,or someone who fills a boyfriend-type role in her life. Why shouldn't she? Did you think you were the first guy to noticeher? The first guy who knows how to attract her and can fulfill heremotionally and physically? Yeah, some women are on the rebound, others have decided totry being single for a bit, others are really selective, etc., etc. - butin general, don't expect a beautiful woman to not already have atleast one man in her life. Sometimes it's a "serious" relationship with Mr Right and sometimes it's "Mr. Right Now".Now, here's a key implication - remember fromMagic Bulletsonhow a woman's emotions work "backward" in terms of beingattracted to a guy? She's looking for a guy with a sense of humor,status, social intuition, and so on, but what she actually respondsto is
what men who have high-value characteristics aregenerally like.
To use a cliched example, women like confident men, not becausethey are confident, but because confident men tend to have a lotof qualities that women look for (success, ambition, leadership,social intuition, etc.) and men who don't have these qualities don'tusually come across as confident.So, beautiful women with boyfriends....they are used to lower-
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