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42 There Is No Unmarked Woman
by Deborah Tannen
Some years ago I was at a small working conference of fourwomen and eight men. Instead of concentrating on the discussion Ifound myself looking at the three other women at the table, thinkinghow each had a different style and how each style was coherent.One woman had dark brown hair in a classic style, a crossbetween Cleopatra and Plain Jane. The severity of her straight hairwas softened by wavy bangs and ends that turned under. Because shewas beautiful, the effect was more Cleopatra than plain.The second woman was older, full of dignity and composure.Her hair was cut in a fashionable style that left her with only one eye,thanks to a side part that let a curtain of hair fall across half her face.As she looked down to read her prepared paper, the hair robbed her of bifocal vision and created a barrier between her and the listeners.The third woman's hair was wild, a frosted blond avalanchefalling over and beyond her shoulders. When she spoke she frequentlytossed her head, calling attention to her hair and away from herlecture.Then there was makeup. The first woman wore facial coverthat made her skin smooth and pale, a black line under each eye andmascara that darkened already dark lashes. The second wore only alight gloss on her lips and a hint of shadow on her eyes. The third hadblue bands under her eyes, dark blue shadow, mascara, bright redlipstick and rouge; her fingernails flashed red.I considered the clothes each woman had worn during thethree days of the conference: In the first case, man-tailored suits inprimary colors with solid-color blouses. In the second, casual butstylish black T-shirts, a floppy collarless jacket and baggy slacks or askirt in neutral colors. The third wore a sexy jump suit; tightsleeveless jersey and tight yellow slacks; a dress with gaping armholesand an indulged tendency to fall off one shoulder.Shoes? No. 1 wore string sandals with medium heels; No. 2,sensible, comfortable walking shoes; No. 3, pumps with spike heels.You can fill in the jewelry, scarves, shawls, sweaters -- or lack of them.As I amused myself finding coherence in these styles, Isuddenly wondered why I was scrutinizing only the women. I scannedthe eight men at the table. And then I knew why I wasn't studyingthem. The men's styles were unmarked.THE TERM "MARKED" IS a staple of linguistic theory. It refersto the way language alters the base meaning of a word by adding alinguistic particle that has no meaning on its own. The unmarked formof a word carries the meaning that goes without saying -- what youthink of when you're not thinking anything special.
First, in Tannen’s piece, carefully focus on
the techniqueof opening and closing the essay with the samereference, quotation, or anecdote: framing. What isthe effect of this strategy? Also, what is Tannen’stone?
Second, reflect on your notes and thoughts; thinkaloud on paper; reconsider your notes; ask questions; andthink about your thinking.