Let\u2019s talk about "emotional connection" for a second, because there is obviously nothing wrong with doing little tricks to make the girl turned on and having some fun - but some guys are afraid to realize that deep down inside they want a "special lady"... and they want that "special lady" to love them -- admire them -- and to respect them...

approaching this completely wrong!
They get to caught up in \u201ctricks\u201d that they lose touch with being REAL.
So the guy willmirror her movements as his only strategy for establishing a connection.
And they spend too much time on stuff like that... And I\u2019m not saying that it doesn't

enough for you to find "sexual value" in her?
Would it take 1 minute?
Would it take 10 minutes?
Would it take 100,000,000 minutes?
Would it take 100,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 minutes?
How long would it take?

But as far as the connection, it's aMore Powerful Approach to honestly see thevalue in the woman that you are attempting toconnect with... instead of taking on the mindstate that you are 'trying to build rapport' or taking onany mindset that pulls your focus away

from doing what really matters - even if there exists some degree of effectiveness\u2026
Read that again if you need to\u2026
Soconnecting with women is all aboutfinding a woman with value...
If the woman has VALUE
...then see her as the precious woman she is. See her as the tender, sweet, good natured

Then the last thing left is VALUEING yourself\u2026
Then thesuper last thing left is HAVING CONFIDENCE that she will 'secretly figure
this out\u2019 on her own\u2026
Then thesuper duper last thing is realizing that this will lead to theperception that you
have VALUE...
And then thesuper duperduper last thing is letting her know that part of your VALUE is
that you see VALUE in her (and in others)...

If all of this holds up, then you would havesecretly engineered a connection... (in other words, if you are communicating with a confident woman, there is a very good chance she is going to value guys who are confident.)

These guys irrationally think it's easier to connect with women they don't really value
(i.e. Dumb Women, Lady Crackheads, Skankie-Hoes, etc...) but indirectly they are
communicating to themselves a REASON not to effectively build confidence\u2026and going
after what they really want...