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Paul Elam
FALSE RAPE CULTURE,
FEMINIST GOVERNANCE
Challenging the Etiology
of Rape
Wehaveallhearditbefore.Anytimeaseriousdiscussionof
rapemakesittonationalairwaves,thereisalwaystheobligatory
feministpinhead,presentedastheexpertdujourthatsomehowfeelscompelledto
admonishallofustorememberthatrapeisnotaboutsex,butpowernotaboutphysical
attraction,butaboutcontrolanddomination.
Ofcourseitallgoesbacktotheneedtodocumenteveryillintheworldasanartifactof
patriarchy,whetherithasanythingtodowithpatriarchyornot.Thatisoftenthecase
withfeminists,asmostoftheirtheoriesonmodernculturerequireasystemic,sinister
andpatentlypatriarchalmalevillain,orthosetheoriesfallapartattheirshoddilysewn
seams.
Thesemoronscouldactuallymakeonewonder(ifonemoronicallychoosestotakethem
seriously)whywomenarethechosentargetsforrape(outsideofprison)atallifithas
nothingtodowithsex.Ifitisjustaboutpower,shouldnttheprimaryvictimsbechildren
ortheelderly?
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Bernard'sonarollherewiththisone.And
youwillberollingtoashedeliversanother
thoroughfisking,Infernostyle.
A man is a rape supporter if
Membersofthesexualgrievanceindustry
maketheirbreadandbutterfromrape
hysteria.Theirlivelihoodactuallydepends
onrapehysteria.

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Thisbringsupafewmorequestionsthatweareusuallyveryhesitanttoaddressoutside
ofPCcontrol.
Butfirst,letslistentoUncleBern,whorecentlyaddressedthistopicinhistypicalno
nonsensemanner:
Now,letstakeitastepfurtherthatjustacknowledgingthefactthatusingourbrains
forcesustoconcedethatrapeis,infact,aboutsexandreproduction.Indeed,thatsthe
onlythingthatmakesanysenseatall.SincethePCedictstobelieveotherwisearewasted
inaplacelikethis,itraisesyetanotherquestionthatneedstobeasked.
Dowomenaskforit?
Idontmeanthatinthesensethattheyareliterallyaskingmentorapethem(thoughthis
clearlydoeshappenoutsidethecontextofthispost).WhatImeanis,dowomenwho
dressandactprovocativelywhotauntmensexually,toyingwiththeirlibidosfor
personalpowerandgain,etc.,havethesametypeofresponsibilityforwhathappensto
themas,say,someonewhoparkstheircarinabadneighborhoodwiththekeysinthe
ignitionandleavesitunlockedwiththemotorrunning?
Obviously,westillblamethecarthieffortheactualtheft,butdontmostofusturntothe
personwhoownedthecarandatleastwanttoask,Whatthefuckwereyouthinking?
Wouldnttheinsurancecompanytakeadimviewofpayingaclaiminthemidstofsuch
stupidirresponsibility?
Weshould,though,alsorememberthatatleasttheguywhosethimselfuptohavehiscar
jackedwasntdoinganythingsinistertobeginwith.Stupid,butnotsinister.Wecantsay
thesameforsomeofthesewomen.
Inthatlight,Ihaveideasaboutwomenwhospendeveningsinbarshustlingmenfor
drinks,playingontheirsexualdesiressotheycangetshitfacedonthebetadolepaying
theirbartabwiththepussypass.Andthewomenwhodrinkandmakeout,doing
everythingshortofsexwithmenallevening,andthengotohisapartmentat2:00a.m..
Sometimesbothofthesewomenendupbeingthevictimsofrape.
Butarethesewomenaskingtogetraped?
InthemostsevereandemphatictermspossibletheanswerisNO,THEYARENOT
ASKINGTOGETRAPED.
Theyarefreakingbeggingforit.
Damnneardemandingit.
AndalltheoutragedPCdemandstogethuffyandpointouthownothingjustifiesor
excusesrapewontchangethefactthattherearealotofwomenwhogetpummeledand
pumpedbecausetheyarestupid(andoftenarrogant)enoughtowalkthoughlifewiththe
onrapehysteria.
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glowingabovetheiremptylittlenarcissisticheads.
Inmyopiniontheirplightfrombeingrapedshoulddrawaboutasmuchsympathyasa
manwholosesawalletfullofcashafterleavingitlayingaroundabusstationunattended.
Perhapsifwestartcurbingoutautomaticoutrageoverwhathappenstowomenwhoare
beggingforandinsistingontrouble,thenmaybeafewofthemwillbemoreproneto
decisionsthatturnoutalittlebetterforthem.
Justsayin.
[addendum]IhavenotedtheobjectionsofsomeMRAsheretothe
perspectiveexpressedinthisarticleabouttheetiologyofrape.After
carefulconsideration,Irejectthoseconcerns.Iamnotpaintingmenas
incapableofcontrollingtheirsexualimpulses,butsimplyacknowledging
thatthereisatinyfractionofmenwho,forwhateverreason,wont.AndI
amsuggestingthatifwomenareconcernedabouttheirsafetyfromacrime
likerape,acommonsenseacceptanceofthatandchoicesconsistentwith
thatknowledgeareinorder.Imaynothavesaiditasdelicatelyassome
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Paul, I find myself in two minds about what youve said here. Certainly, rape has
and often is used as a convenient way to falsely villainise fatherhood (patriarchy),
but I also think that theres more scope to things with rape as well. Cases like
mistaken identity for example, which does happen.
I do agree that there needs to be more accountability with women though with
how they dress, in the same way that you would expect someone traveling
through a dangerous area to take precautions- of course that doesnt justify the
actions of the rapist in any way shape or form.
Another problem which I have to say your article is guilty of falling into the trap of
is the stereotpyical rape picture of male rapist, female rape victim.
Ultimately I think the big problems here, as you have correctly pointed out, are
both the way feminism denies the notion of female accountability while
continuing to try and paint a picture of the stereotype of female victim, male
perpetrator.
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