Here are some of the ways I suggest that time should be spent-
Spend time to be knowledgeable-
I guess that you have heard this statement, ‘
’ That is a thought provoking statement; the reality is that the statement istrue. People who succeed read; interestingly, people who also failed are knowledgeable.However, the difference between the two groups is what they are reading and what theydid with what they have learnt.Most singles are knowledgeable in the act of love from the novels, films and magazinesthey have gone through; you don’t have to guess why this singles have crisis inrelationship issues the most. I have written this statement in some of my write ups in the past, I am going to include it here again.
You’ll rarely find people who sing, write andact love parts that have successful marriages.
You don’t have to go far to prove mewrong or right; this are the mentors of most singles, no wonder they don’t havesuccessful relationship too.
We are all ignorant in all subjects of life,
is the wise saying of Pastor Poju Oyemade;only wise people seek for knowledge in any area of life they want to see success. There isa culture we need to address in this side of the world-
read to pass and then dump thebooks.
That can work out for our academics to a great measure; however, when it comesto real life event, you’ll end up a failure if you do that.If you want to have a successful relationship that will end in a lasting and happymarriage, you’ll need to dump some of the trash that you read and watch (romantic and pornographic films, books and magazines). You’ll need to overhaul your mindset, byrenewing it with healthy and balanced information. Never assume that you know what ittakes to make your relationship succeed, Reverend Sam Adeyemi said, ‘
Assumption isthe lowest form of knowledge, to a fool, assumption is knowledge.
Spend time to do what you read-
One major difference between a failure and a personwho succeed, is what they did with what they know. Mere words without proper actions,is the undoing of many. Knowledge you have heard is power; I quite disagree with thatstatement. Knowledge is only power when what it contains is used by him who has it; soyou can find people who are graduates, yet failures in other areas of life because whatthey have is intellectual property that is of no good if it can’t produce result.It is the doer of what they know that are blessed, not just those that are readers but notactors of what they read. Interesting, in acting, the actor is given a manuscript to read andis told the pattern he’s to play his role. If he gets too smart by not making use of themanuscript, he will wreck the film if such indiscipline is tolerated. Guess what, norelationship succeed outside of following laid down principles; those principles are likethe law of gravity. It’s universal.If you read a sound book on relationship, you will note that abstinence from premaritalsex is advocated with a passion on it; break the rule, you will end up breaking your life.