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Ways to use your time to have successful relationship 2

Ways to use your time to have successful relationship 2

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Published by olufemi fasanya
Most singles are knowledgeable in the act of love from the novels, films and magazines they have gone through; you don’t have to guess why these singles have crisis in relationship issues the most.
Most singles are knowledgeable in the act of love from the novels, films and magazines they have gone through; you don’t have to guess why these singles have crisis in relationship issues the most.

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Published by: olufemi fasanya on Dec 02, 2009
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Ways to use your time to have successful relationship 2
Wise King Solomon made a profound statement, he said, ‘
There is time for everythingunder heaven.
’ I was speaking to an adult single recently; I said to him that becausemost of us measure time by years, it’s the reason we don’t comprehend how fast time isactually running. If I asked you how old are you; you will mention your age in years asthe usual response of people. However, there are other ingredients that make up theyears- they are seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, before you get to years. I strongly believe that our lives are measured by the second; every tick of time, you are agingthough it never really shows until after those seconds has culminated to minutes, hours,days, months and finally years.If there is time for everything, it invariably implies that if time is not properly used in anorderly manner, crisis is will be the end result in the life of such an individual.Disorderliness is the reason for most of the heartbreaks singles have gone through in the past; the time they ought to spend developing themselves academically is spent onrunning after the opposite sex or falling in love with the opposite sex. At a tender age,such singles believe they know everything about love because they have read, watch andsang songs on love. I was in a youth/singles week of a church recently; I said to those thatattended- from the time you leave secondary school to your 3
year in the university, youshould have one major goal, which is to get admitted and leave with a good grade.Who do you think should be blamed for people who are not married at 40; God, devil or the person? Who will you blame if you get to the age of 40, broke, still single andsearching? To many, the devil will take the blame; they will attend prayer meetings to killwitches, bind demons and break curses. To others, they will conclude that it’s their Godordain destiny. To the smart ones who wake up to reality and want to still experience achange; they will put the blame on themselves and take corrective step.The proof of disorderliness is all around you; you’ll see young ladies who should be inthe university pregnant for a rascal who can’t even take care of himself (that is if theyeven know who the father of their child is, because of their involvement with multiple partners); young men who want to be rich over night sitting in cyber café looking for a‘maga’ to hit through 419; you’ll see young ladies who have been ‘hit’ sexually by nearlyevery guy that that they had been involved with and they wonder why they end up beenditched by them; you’ll see young guys sagging and talking big. I can tell you one truth;they are wasting time and invariably their life. Anyone can blame the leadership of thenation for their predicament; however, the reality is
what you sow, is what you will reap(QED).
There is time to get serious with your academics; time to seek and develop relationshipwith your Maker; time to develop healthy relationship with people; time to learn how to be productive; time to ‘toast’ a babe etc. When you spend the time to be educated inchasing babes around, you will get what you want, but you will end up in the future poor and broke.
Here are some of the ways I suggest that time should be spent-
Spend time to be knowledgeable-
I guess that you have heard this statement, ‘
Readersare leaders.
’ That is a thought provoking statement; the reality is that the statement istrue. People who succeed read; interestingly, people who also failed are knowledgeable.However, the difference between the two groups is what they are reading and what theydid with what they have learnt.Most singles are knowledgeable in the act of love from the novels, films and magazinesthey have gone through; you don’t have to guess why this singles have crisis inrelationship issues the most. I have written this statement in some of my write ups in the past, I am going to include it here again.
You’ll rarely find people who sing, write andact love parts that have successful marriages.
You don’t have to go far to prove mewrong or right; this are the mentors of most singles, no wonder they don’t havesuccessful relationship too.
We are all ignorant in all subjects of life,
is the wise saying of Pastor Poju Oyemade;only wise people seek for knowledge in any area of life they want to see success. There isa culture we need to address in this side of the world-
read to pass and then dump thebooks.
That can work out for our academics to a great measure; however, when it comesto real life event, you’ll end up a failure if you do that.If you want to have a successful relationship that will end in a lasting and happymarriage, you’ll need to dump some of the trash that you read and watch (romantic and pornographic films, books and magazines). You’ll need to overhaul your mindset, byrenewing it with healthy and balanced information. Never assume that you know what ittakes to make your relationship succeed, Reverend Sam Adeyemi said, ‘
Assumption isthe lowest form of knowledge, to a fool, assumption is knowledge.
Spend time to do what you read-
One major difference between a failure and a personwho succeed, is what they did with what they know. Mere words without proper actions,is the undoing of many. Knowledge you have heard is power; I quite disagree with thatstatement. Knowledge is only power when what it contains is used by him who has it; soyou can find people who are graduates, yet failures in other areas of life because whatthey have is intellectual property that is of no good if it can’t produce result.It is the doer of what they know that are blessed, not just those that are readers but notactors of what they read. Interesting, in acting, the actor is given a manuscript to read andis told the pattern he’s to play his role. If he gets too smart by not making use of themanuscript, he will wreck the film if such indiscipline is tolerated. Guess what, norelationship succeed outside of following laid down principles; those principles are likethe law of gravity. It’s universal.If you read a sound book on relationship, you will note that abstinence from premaritalsex is advocated with a passion on it; break the rule, you will end up breaking your life.

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