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WHITE
PARENT TRAP
Imran and Jemima Khan in London
in 1996. Inset, Sita White with
Tyrian in 1995. Just weeks before her
death, Sita wrote a letter to
the Khans demanding $10 million,
but she never sent it.
INSET BY JON FREEMAN
MISCHIEF
raven-haired, 41-year-old former model. at four o’clock at Sita’s pretty $2 million
O
Forty or so mourners were at the church home, on the top of a hill at the end of a
service, none of them blood relatives of the cul-de-sac in Beverly Hills.
deceased; Sita’s mother was not in atten- Camilleri had had a stormy relationship
dance, nor was her sister, her half-brother, with Carolina for many years, and he was so
or even her daughter. Nor was her step- angry that in the end he felt that he hadn’t
mother. The pallbearers were led by one said enough nice things about the deceased,
John Ursich, 41, a strikingly handsome which he later regretted. “I wanted to say
Argentinean-born waiter, who had wed Sita how generous she was,” he says. But, he be-
in June 2002, but who was divorcing her lieves, she would have enjoyed the mayhem
at the time of her death. She claimed in surrounding her death: “She was a drama
legal papers that he had been abusive to queen!”
her. (He denies this.) Ironically, Sita’s death got her the atten-
Two nights before the service a group of tion she had craved and been denied in
Sita’s friends, including London financier life—not only from her father, who had pro-
Nicholas Camilleri, former British race-car fessed to be disappointed in her and her
driver Rupert Keegan, former model Inge sister, but also from her onetime lover for-
n May 24, a Hazebroek, and real-estate investor Ali Win- mer Pakistani cricket star Imran Khan, who
gloriously sunny Monday afternoon in Los ston, had sat sipping champagne at Mr. refused to publicly recognize their daugh-
Angeles, a funeral service was held at the Chow in Beverly Hills. They were confused. ter, Tyrian, now 12.
St. Monica Catholic church for Ana-Luisa “Who sent that e-mail?” asked one of Sita’s
A
(Sita) White, the 43-year-old daughter of friends, referring to a missive outlining the t six feet, Sita had been
the late Lord Gordon White, flamboyant complicated funeral arrangements. “Who’s a striking woman, with
head of the American arm of the giant coming?” No one could give answers. blond, curly hair, big blue
industrial conglomerate Hanson P.L.C., The eulogy was given by Camilleri, 44, eyes, and a slim figure,
which he co-founded. On the morning of an intense, rosy-cheeked man, who surpris- which she maintained ob-
May 13, Sita had dropped dead right be- ingly, given the occasion, had a bitter tone. sessively all her life. In
fore the start of a 9:15 class at the Yoga Camilleri railed about the fact that Sita’s 48- recent years, fast living,
Works studio on Main Street in Santa Mon- year-old sister, Carolina, had called friends drugs, cosmetic surgeries, and endless fast-
ica. She had been there with her step- and family that morning to say she was not ing had taken their toll, but in her late teens
mother, Victoria White O’Gara, a stunning, going. In fact, she had even gone to court she had been considered a beauty—not per-
to try to stop the funeral. As an alternative, haps as stunning as her older sister, Caroli-
Carolina was holding her own private vigil na, who modeled, but nonetheless a beauty.
Sita was a garrulous, vivacious soul,
who loved to laugh, and her laugh was in-
fectious. She wanted a life of excitement—
it was in her genes. At one point she drove
a Ford Econovan, the interior of which
she’d had outfitted like a Learjet. Before
392 VA N I T Y FA I R
ONE FOR THE MONEY
Lord Gordon White with Victoria Tucker
at Heathrow Airport, 1992. Opposite: left,
Sita outside her house in Beverly Hills,
December 2003; right, Sita at home, with
photos of Tyrian and Imran,
December 2003.
L E F T, B O T H BY F E R G U S G R E E R ; R I G H T, BY D AV E PA R K E R
“Here I am,
the bearer of bad news.
As always. It’s mind-
boggling,” says Victoria.
TWO FOR THE SHOW
The Khans in 1997. Opposite:
top, Sita with Imran; bottom, Lord White
with his son, Lucas, at Sita’s wedding
to Francesco Venturi, in 1986.
“This is not
about revenge,
it is about justice,”
wrote Sita
to the Khans.
her death she drove a Hummer. A lesser Sita told a confi-
vehicle would not have done. dant that as a tactic
After the service Sita’s body was neither to get her fair share of
buried nor cremated; rather, it was returned the estate she intend-
to the morgue, where it remained on ice ed to befriend her step-
until the autopsy results came in because mother. Her father, says
the L.A.P.D. had still not ruled out homi- a source, had taught her
cide. Only two months later, after careful to “keep your friends
examination, was it determined that she close, but your enemies
had died of natural causes, specifically an closer.” After separating
embolism in the lungs. The embolism had from O’Gara in 2002,
most likely been the result of a poorly dif- Victoria moved back to
ferentiated sarcoma, a cancer that develops L.A. from Idaho, where
in the soft tissues of the body. Surprisingly, she’d been living with him
perhaps, given Sita’s history, there were no on a 4,000-acre ranch. Ac-
traces of drugs. cording to the divorce pa-
That Sita and Victoria White O’Gara pers, she had felt isolated
had been together in yoga class seemed pe- and lonely there. Once they
culiar to many people, since it is recorded lived closer, Victoria and Sita
in a legal document—and her friends also started talking regularly on
say—that Sita had disliked her stepmother. the phone. Sita even displayed
Victoria had been married to Lord White, Victoria’s photograph among
40 years her senior, for three years when those in her house.
he died, at age 72, in 1995. “Think Steph- But Sita was biding her
anie Seymour, but five times as gorgeous,” time, waiting for the financial
says one person in describing Victoria. Sita resources to target her step-
felt that Victoria (along with her and Car- mother. She planned, among
olina’s 29-year-old half-brother, Lucas) had other things, to try to halt a
taken her share of what Sita estimated to Christie’s sale arranged by Vic-
be a $400 million estate. (According to Lu- toria of furniture, paintings, and artifacts
cas’s spokesman, both the allegations and from Sita’s father’s estate.
estimate should be treated with caution
S
and skepticism.) Sita and Carolina had ita had, over the years, con-
each been left a house in California, togeth- fided her concerns about her
er worth about $2.25 million, but these inheritance to her father’s old
technically remained the property of Pana- friend Thomas Corbally, a
manian trusts. The two also received month- devastatingly handsome man
ly payments of around $13,000 each from who had once been an intel-
an offshore trust, the principal of which ligence agent and a roué. He
they could not touch and, they claimed, had reportedly romanced heiresses Doris
never knew the details of. Duke and Barbara Hutton and fashion
In addition, they had gotten “accelerat- designer Mary McFadden, among oth-
ed” payments of approximately $500,000 ers, and he had informed the U.S. am-
each, in exchange for signing papers that bassador to the U.K. about the Profumo
stated they accepted the fact that the British affair in 1963. Throughout his life he
part of their father’s estate was worth noth- had maintained a close but discreet
ing. The sisters signed, so Sita said later, relationship with Kroll Associates, the
under great pressure and without fully un- giant private-investigation and security
derstanding what they were doing. firm.
Corbally had been a kindred spirit
L
ord White died in 1995 at with Lord White, who had come to
U.C.L.A. Medical Center, America in 1973 as plain Gordon White, that he was concerned to
where he never woke from with just $3,000 and a telex machine. White the end that, even though Sita was extraor-
a coma brought on by years had used Corbally’s professional services dinarily high-strung, some of her accusa-
of failing health due to lung to help do due diligence on nuts-and-bolts tions should be investigated. Renee says,
disease. Assisting in his care companies that needed paring down to “Tom knew that Gordon White didn’t in-
was Victoria’s mother, Dixie achieve greater value. White helped build tend for the daughters [Sita and Carolina]
Tucker, a nurse. Lord White’s death certifi- the Hanson empire by acquiring and to get the bulk of the inheritance. He felt
L E F T, BY C A N N G U Y E N
cate is missing from the Los Angeles Coun- streamlining them. Like Corbally, he had they couldn’t handle money well, and he
ty recorder’s office. Shortly after her hus- an eye for the ladies, in his day squiring was disappointed in them. But Tom did
band’s death, Victoria moved her former such famous beauties as Grace Kelly, Joan think that there had been more money left
boyfriend, Tom O’Gara, into her and White’s Collins, and Ava Gardner. for them than they got.”
Bel Air mansion. She married him on New Corbally died at 83, just a month before In November of last year Sita and Ca-
Year’s Eve 1996. Sita did. His widow, Renee, 60, confirms rolina concluded C O N T I N U E D O N P A G E 4 1 4
S E P T E M B E R 2 0 0 4 VA N I T Y FA I R 395
Monarchy of George II that’s just the way it is,” replied Bush. “Ful-
ly prepared to live with it.”
war with too little regard for the legality of
the means and too much confidence in the
Whatever the result—and it is too close to sustainability of the ends. Above all, he has
sponsibility for the daunting task of restoring call right now—the American electorate will brought the nation’s finances to a parlous
order there. It is far from clear what the have passed its judgment on the Bush pres- pass. Political expediency has repeatedly
outcome of the planned elections in Iraq— idency before the year is out. Historians been allowed to trump economic rationality.
or in Afghanistan—will be. There is certainly generally have rather longer to make up their But then, why should George II care—
no guarantee that the winners will be friendly minds, but this one has already reached a any more than Henry V did—what a mere
to the United States. provisional verdict. Like Henry V, this pres- historian thinks? Let Bob Woodward, the
Bush has made it clear that he will not ident has shown a great deal more mettle Shakespearean Chorus of this modern his-
complain if this year’s presidential election than his youthful conduct led the world to tory play, have the last word: “‘History,’
becomes a referendum on his foreign poli- expect. He has waged not one but two vic- [Bush] said, shrugging, taking his hands
cy—even if that means he loses. “[What] if torious wars. Yet his achievements seem out of his pockets, extending his arms and
this decision [to invade Iraq] costs you the flawed and fragile. It is far from clear that suggesting with his body language that it
election?,” Bob Woodward asked him in he is the strong, decisive ruler his advisers was so far off. ‘We won’t know. We’ll all
December of last year. “The presidency— would have us believe he is. He has waged be dead.’” ■
414 VA N I T Y FA I R S E P T E M B E R 2 0 0 4
(According to one of Lucas’s attorneys, I am requesting a response within 7 days. dinner, and Sita told Bretzfield that she was
over the years Lucas had assisted his sister Should you choose not to respond and agree beginning to have doubts about the Saxbys.
generously. Lucas’s spokesman adds, “As to these terms, the fall out from media inter- Bretzfield told Sita to visit her lawyer im-
vention in both Pakistan and the U.K. will be
you’d expect from a brother, he did assist his mediately.
certain and out of my control.
sister financially from time to time.”) “I said, ‘How could you have done this,
The second letter was to Imran Khan Appalled, Ehrlich told her not to send the Sita? How could you have put your money
and his wife of nine years, British heiress letters (she never did), and to be wary of the in something you know nothing about?’” re-
Jemima Goldsmith. (On June 22, it was Saxbys if this was the advice they were giving. calls Bretzfield. Sita looked helplessly at the
announced the two had divorced.) Imran is Nixon says Sita had confided to her plans older woman. Finance had never been her
famous both for his dazzling good looks to pursue Victoria as well. “Cameron Saxby, forte.
and for having led Pakistan to the World strangely, was the one encouraging her in According to Sita, after Nixon told her to
Cup cricket title in 1992. The son of an en- this,” says Nixon. ask the Saxbys for documentation of her in-
gineer, he attended Oxford University. In vestment, she went over to their ramshack-
1995, after romancing a series of English so-
ciety beauties, he met Jemima, the daugh-
ter of billionaire financier and industrialist
T his spring Sita made out two checks
amounting to approximately $2.4 million
to the Saxbys, which, she claimed she was
le rented bungalow in Beverly Hills, where
Richard had her sign two documents, which
he said were proof of her investment in
Sir James Goldsmith and Lady Annabel told, would be invested and would double an entity known as Zacky Farms. When
Vane Tempest Stewart. He she took them to Nixon on
was 42, and she was 21. May 4, the lawyer identified
They were instantly smitten them as a promissory note
and married within months. and an indemnification.
After the wedding Jemi- Nixon told her the Saxbys
ma converted to Islam, and had not invested her mon-
the couple moved to Paki- ey, they’d borrowed it,
stan, where Imran formed and that she was to receive
his own political party. In $20,417.67 each month as
2002 he was elected to Par- interest on the loan.
liament, but his party has That afternoon Sita and
had little impact. The cou- Nixon walked to the Bank
ple have two sons, Sulaiman, of America in Century
now seven, and Kasim, now City, where Sita had two
five. accounts, and closed them.
Illegitimacy is frowned The next morning, at nine,
upon in Pakistan, and Im- they walked to a branch of
ran has never admitted pub- Preferred Bank, also in Cen-
licly that he is Tyrian’s fa- tury City, where the Sax-
ther. In 1997 Sita filed a pa- bys had an account. Sita
ternity suit and a Califor- and Nixon succeeded in
nia judge declared him the getting the Saxbys’ funds
father by default, since he there frozen for three days.
didn’t show up to contest it. Robert O’Brien, a high-
Sita’s letter to the Khans power litigator hired by
read: Sita, followed up, obtain-
Dear Imran and Jemima, ing an injunction to prohib-
I feel the time has come to it the Saxbys from with-
address the issue of Tyrian’s ORPHAN IN THE STORM drawing or transferring any
future. I want to make it clear that I have re- Sita White with Tyrian in 2001. money from their account. Of the original
moved myself from the equation. This is not Tyrian will now choose whether to live in $2.4 million, $1.6 million was still in the ac-
about me, this is not about revenge, it is about London with Jemima Khan or in Central count; around $800,000 was gone.
justice; justice for Tyrian. California with Sita’s sister, Carolina. By this point Sita was hysterical and call-
As we have been unable to come to any
agreement in the past, I have taken the sole ing just about everyone—including Victoria,
financial and emotional responsibility for Tyr- who says, “She was under a tremendous
ian’s up bringing for the past eleven years. within five years. On April 15, Tom Corbally amount of stress. I was on the telephone with
Acknowledgement of your obligation and re- died. Sita and Cameron flew to New York, her every day—I think 5, 10 times a day.”
sponsibilities is long over do. where Sita attended the funeral. According
I am proposing that a Trust in the amount
of 10 million dollars be established for Tyri-
an. . . . This proposal is a final offer to bring this
to Sita, during the trip Cameron asked her to
exchange blank checks, as a matter of trust.
Cameron later made out one of Sita’s to
T hat same day Sita revoked her will and
amended the trust, removing Cameron
as trustee and Tyrian’s guardian. She named
issue to a close without legal intervention. . . .
Refusal to respond is not acceptable. herself, for $2,500—which she said was for Nixon as her executor. The trustee was now
I am in contact with a lawyer in Pakistan travel expenses. Sita claimed she was puz- Citibank. Cameron faxed over a letter to Nix-
and people of substance who are greatly dis- zled, since she was already covering these. on’s office, saying she was resigning as co-
turbed by your lack of willingness to do the At Tom’s funeral Sita had bumped into an trustee because of evidence of “perpetual
GILES HARRISON
right thing. They are standing by to inform the old friend of her father’s, Nancy Bretzfield, illegal drug use” by Sita.
proper authorities and institute the action nec-
essary to force the acknowledgement of Tyrian’s
described by The New York Times as “a Sita had been known to dabble in co-
existence and your financial obligations which fixture on the Southern California social caine, crystal meth, and other psychoactive
could have enormous political implications. scene.” Back in L.A. the two women had substances—particularly while she was mar-
S E P T E M B E R 2 0 0 4 VA N I T Y FA I R 415
Sita White death from Victoria, but when asked about
this, Victoria told Nixon, “I’d rather not say.”
man she speaks to.” For his part, Imran
told The Sunday Telegraph that he was “al-
Eventually someone from the Department ready thinking about looking for a second
ried to John Ursich, who says that during of Children and Family Services took Tyri- wife, saying: ‘ . . . I’ll see if I’m able to find
their eight-month cohabitation he had felt an from school, and in the evening her aunt, someone by my next birthday.’”
at one point as if he were “staring death in Carolina, arrived to take her. Imran Khan
the face.” (On June 5, 2003, almost four
months after Ursich filed for divorce, he and
jetted in from London.
M eanwhile, John Ursich’s attorney, Vicki
Roberts, called Nixon to tell her that,
Sita testified in a hearing called to address
her request for a restraining order against
him. She claimed he had abused her several
T hough he still did not publicly acknowl-
edge Tyrian as his child, he and Jemi-
ma issued a statement saying they were
assuming attempts to recover Sita’s money
from the Saxbys were successful, he wanted
half. Nixon was appalled. “That is Tyrian’s
months before, but Ursich said the charges prepared to be her guardians. However, inheritance,” she says. “It’s all she has.” The
were fabricated. He said that Sita had been Carolina quickly hired a lawyer, who peti- battle lines were drawn.
strung out on booze and cocaine on the tioned the court to get temporary guardian- The day of the funeral, Nicholas Camil-
date of the supposed incident, and that it ship of the little girl and so that, follow- leri says, he called Victoria to ask her about
was she who had been abusive. He claimed ing a trip to London this summer, Tyrian Sita’s last moments and to inquire if Victoria
that on the day in question he stopped her could choose whether to live with Jemima would be attending either the funeral ser-
from drinking a bottle of vodka, and that he or with her aunt. (In December Jemima had vice or Carolina’s vigil. Victoria said that
gave her money for a cab; Sita’s battered ap- moved back to London with her sons, in she was too busy to talk and that she was
pearance in photographs taken shortly after order to pursue a master’s degree.) taking her children on a field trip, so, no,
the incident, he said, were due to a rash, co- Imran, it turns out, is now supporting she would not be attending either event. She
caine abuse, and anorexia. The judge sided Carolina’s bid to be Tyrian’s guardian. He later told Vanity Fair that she’d been freaked
with Ursich; no restraining order was issued, speaks to Tyrian once a week, and he sent out by all the calls she’d gotten from people
and the case was dismissed.) Still, several her flowers on her birthday. Apparently, she’d never heard of. She downplayed any
acquaintances say, to depict her as a drug father and daughter get on fine. Jemima, connection she had to the Saxbys and any
addict is wrong. “She was certainly not high meanwhile, speaks to Tyrian by telephone role she might have later had on the day of
most of the time,” one person recalls. Nancy daily, though, according to Nixon, Jemima Sita’s death: “I don’t know anything about
Bretzfield remembers her as being “clear- now feels Tyrian’s family is the best place the Saxbys,” she says. She adds, “They’re a
eyed and lucid. I couldn’t see she was on for her to be. couple. . . . I can’t get that far involved. I
drugs.” According to Nixon, Sita knew that Je- can’t talk about it right now, because there’s
In the matter of Tyrian’s guardianship mima and Imran were in the process of di- just a whirlwind of stuff going on. But I can
Sita replaced Cameron with Jemima Khan. vorcing, but made Jemima Tyrian’s guard- tell you the whole thing is so sordid. . . .
Sita had never met her, but she wanted her ian anyway. Tyrian lived in London for Quite honestly, it’s funny that you’re call-
daughter to be closer to her father—she had nine months in 2003 and six months in ing. . . . We have more people coming out
even had Tyrian’s name changed last year 2002, and though she had stayed with Nich- of the woodwork than you could imagine,
to Tyrian-Jade Brittania Khan-White. olas Camilleri, she had gotten to know the just wanting a piece of the money . . . and
Khans—and Jemima’s mother—extreme- then here I am, the bearer of bad news. As
Sita White form of Imran, for whom Sita left her first
husband, the photographer Francesco Ven-
turi, in 1986. White was, to put it bluntly,
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was 15—something that Hugh Hefner found racist, and, according to one of his friends,
Press Agency/Getty Images, by Chitose Suzuki/A.P. out about only afterward. “She didn’t look he told Imran that if he married Sita they
Wide World Photos, from A.P. Wide World Photos, by 15—I can tell you that,” says someone who would not get a penny of his money. None-
Dennis Van Tine/London Features, Todd Williamson/ was there. theless, Sita had Imran’s child, the result, she
Film Magic, Jon Kopaloff/Film Magic, from Hulton When she was 18, Gordon White, then would always say, of one last act of love-
Archive/Getty Images, by Bruce Glikas/Film Magic,
58, spotted her one evening. He later told making in 1991, after the relationship had
from Central Press/Getty Images, by Debra
L. Rothenberg/Film Magic, Debra L. Rothenberg/ his close friend the actor George Hamilton, run its course.
Film Magic, from the Neal Peters Collection. “I just have to have that.” “He was com- In July 1992, to his friends’ astonishment,
Page 228: From Central Press/Getty Images pletely smitten,” says Hamilton. “He pur- White, then 69, married Victoria, then 29.
(Spitfires), from Keystone/Getty Images (Hitler), from sued her.” Four years later, when she was “He always had made it clear that he never
Reuters/Corbis (memorial), from U.S. Army
22 and he was 62, they began dating. At wanted to do that,” says a friend, pointing
Signal Corps/Time Life Pictures/Getty Images (Yalta).
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the time, Victoria had already met and fall- out that he had married Northrop only when
Page 240: Both from the collection of Dominick en for Tom O’Gara, a handsome, wealthy she was pregnant with Lucas.
Dunne. entrepreneur from Ohio, who had been run- Most people think he changed his mind
Pages 242 and 251: Production by Jo Matthews. ning a Rolls-Royce garage in Beverly Hills because of a bizarre incident that had oc-
Page 252: Left, from A.P. Wide World Photos; right, and who was starting to be very success- curred in Aspen just six months before,
from the Boston Herald/Polaris.
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ful in the armored-car business. O’Gara on New Year’s Eve. White was staying in
University of Wyoming via Casper College/A.P. Wide is almost universally described as “a really George Hamilton’s house. Sita was there,
World Photos, from A.P. Wide World Photos. nice guy,” but eventually Victoria allowed as were Lucas and Victoria. That afternoon
Page 263: Left, from Getty Images; right, from herself to be drawn into White’s web, though Victoria had had a bad fall on the slopes
A.P. Wide World Photos. she remained friendly with O’Gara—some- and had bruised her neck and back. Re-
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thing that came to haunt White, according portedly, she later took painkillers and a
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Patrick McMullan. to a friend of his. strong drink. The police were called, and
Pages 292–93: Production by Emily Roth; props Despite his age, Lord White cut a glam- White—who soon after this, according to a
by Nick Tortorici. orous figure. He kept a string of racehorses friend, had bruises on his face—spent the
Page 294: From Polaris. in Ventura County; in addition to his Old night in jail because Victoria claimed he’d
Page 296: From the Potomac News/Polaris. Hollywood–style house, Beverly Park, in beaten her up. Tom O’Gara reportedly
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Polaris.
Beverly Hills, and other California houses, sent his plane to pick up Victoria, who de-
Page 312: From AFP/Getty Images. he kept a New York apartment on Park Av- clined to press charges and soon returned
Pages 320–25: All photographs courtesy of enue; there were endless private planes and to White, claiming that the painkillers had
Aperture Books. helicopters. “He was the type of man who’d been to blame and that she had been mis-
Page 332: Props styled by Terry Wong; from absolutely insist on landing on the lawn, rath- taken to think he had hit her. (Victoria de-
A.P. Wide World Photos (Osama).
er than the helipad,” says one old friend. clined comment on certain subjects for this
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A.P. Wide World Photos (Bush Sr., Osama), by White was six feet four inches and ath- piece.)
Charles Dharapak/A.P. Wide World Photos (President letic. He learned to ski at 54, making it down “Gordon was very frail at this point,” re-
Bush), Rick Wilking/Landov (Texas ranch). a black-diamond run only nine days later. calls a friend, whose account is echoed by
Pages 348–75: Production by Lawrie Bird, The son of a publisher, he loved that he’d others. “He’d been told by his doctors he
Jeannette Shaheen, Stacey Hug, Tara Rehak, Nick been knighted in 1979 and later given a peer- was dying.” Evidently, White never wanted
Gallery, Thanis Maretis, and Boris McNertney.
Photo assistance by Joel Griffith, Shane Sigler,
age and that, even so, the British upper class to discuss the matter with anyone. “He was
Bryan Firestone, Michael Murphy, and Jeff Tautrim. looked down its nose at him. the type who’d fall on his sword if he had
Special thanks to Maryann Ridini; Heather Watts; to,” explains Hamilton.
Chelsea Black & White Lab; Boylan Studios, N.Y.C.;
Carol Taylor and the staff at the Beverly Hills Hotel;
Smashbox Studios, L.A.; Altour Travel; Barbara
B y the time he met Victoria, Carolina
and Sita (from his first marriage, to Eliz-
abeth Kalen, a half-Swedish, half-Venezuelan
Whatever transpired, White married Vic-
toria the following summer. Skeptical friends
were quickly excised from his life. They
Derwin; the University of Miami, Diving; YMCA
Aquatic and Family Center, Orlando; and the Palm society beauty) were older than Victoria. Lu- also disapproved of the fast lifestyle he was
Beach Polo Equestrian Club. A very special thanks to cas, whom he had by his second wife, the now living. “I couldn’t bear to see what was
all the athletes who participated, their representatives, actress Virginia Northrop, was in high school going on in that house [in Bel Air],” says a
sponsors, and the U.S. Olympic Committee. in England. White was a busy man, and al- close friend. “It was no way for a sick man
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though he made time for a fairly hectic so- to be living.”
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Globe Photos; inset from Rex USA.
cial schedule, he never did manage to make
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much time for his family.
His daughters had become a source of
torment for him. Left to their own devices,
D ocuments obtained by Vanity Fair show
that Victoria was to receive the Ventu-
ra ranch, some art, and the horses, and she
Page 395: Top, from Sunday Publications Ltd./Rex they’d raid the secret drawer in his bath- was to live in the Beverly Hills house after
USA; bottom, from Alpha/Globe Photos.
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room in the Park Avenue apartment, where White’s death only until she could pur-
Photos. he kept a stash of drugs and condoms. “Ev- chase a new house out of the $10 million
Pages 400–401: From A.P. Wide World Photos erything was in that drawer,” says someone settlement she would receive. She was then
(8), from Bettmann Corbis (2, 4, 5), from Black Star who saw it. “The girls learned how to pick required to put the remainder in a trust,
(7), from Culver Pictures (3, 6), from Photofest (1). the lock.” from which she would get a monthly income
Pages 402–3: From Globe Photos.
“He just wrung his hands in despair,” says of approximately $15,000. She was not to
Page 407: From Getty Images.
Page 415: From Splash News. a close friend. While Carolina went clubbing have access to the principal. Lucas, who was
Page 419: From Rex USA. and dated rough boys he did not like, Sita’s then 20, was to be the main heir to his fa-
Page 420: From Corbis Outline. undoing, in her father’s eyes, came in the ther’s great wealth.
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Lucas, by this point, had grown into a what we are to receive or how we are to de- an outsider observes. Victoria, meanwhile,
tall, virile, handsome young man, with dark rive income.” has reportedly gone on a few dates with the
curly hair and a genial disposition. White The O’Garas’ marriage fell apart in 2002, wealthy but perpetually single New York
was particularly proud of his son’s prowess soon after Tom O’Gara suffered a substan- financier Teddy Forstmann.
on the polo field, something he had never tial reversal in fortune following an ill-fated Victoria says that the reason she is holding
had the opportunity to achieve himself, giv- merger of his armored-car business with a sale of artifacts at Christie’s is that without
en his middle-class origins in Yorkshire, Kroll in 1997. Once the divorce was final, it she is not sufficiently liquid to pay off a
England. “Gordon wished he’d paid more last year, the mud between Victoria and Tom $2.5 million mortgage on her Beverly Hills
attention to Lucas,” says Hamilton. “In fact, started to fly in a particularly ugly custody house. In her divorce records, she claims that,
just before he died he said to me that if battle over their three small children. She, excluding the White trust, whose principal
he had two last wishes it would she can’t touch, she is worth
have been to have gotten to approximately $15.6 million.
know Lucas better, and to have
a horse farm.”
After White died, problems
remained. According to docu-
I
n the months before Sita died,
she went over to her stepmoth-
er’s house “a lot,” according to
ments, various disputes arose Victoria.
about his estate. Still, says one “She was really very lonely,”
old family friend, White would Victoria says. Boyfriends came
have enjoyed the turmoil he’d and went but did not mean
created—he liked to exercise his much. In the spring, as the re-
power over people. lationship with the Saxbys was
But some of his friends were unwinding and she deeply re-
appalled by his treatment of gretted her intense involvement
his daughters. “It was unfair with them, Sita told the accoun-
for Gordon to leave the girls tant Wendy Barlin that all she
the way he did,” says a family had to live for was her daugh-
friend. “They were not the sort ter, Tyrian. It was almost as if
of girls who could cope without she had had a premonition that
money.” she might die.
The vigil held by Carolina
never even seen a complete version of our vate investigator to dig up information on get you a job,” she told him. She did. “She
father’s will and only bits and pieces of his Tom. A few weeks later Tom asked the same got him back on his feet,” said Tyrian.
will and various trusts. We have never seen investigator to turn the tables and investigate The great pity was she couldn’t do as
any section of any will in which it is stated Victoria. “They’re trying to break each other,” much for herself. ■
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