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worship services we do not punish children, oradults for that matter, for expressing the joy that ourlove of God and Goddess, and each other, elicits inour hearts and minds and tongues.Along with joy, however, there is also a place forreverence. We have a very special privilege aschildren of the Divine. Each time we gather togetherto celebrate that special bond of heart and spirit thatwe all share, we are blessed with the very presenceof our Lord and Lady, who walk amongst us,through and around our circle, touching each of us.This is certainly a time of joy, but it is also a time of wonder, and of reverence.What is reverence? Well the dictionary defines itthus,
A feeling of profound awe and respect and oftenlove
(The American Heritage® Dictionary of theEnglish Language, Fourth Edition. )Sounds exactly like what I feel towards the Divine inmy presence. I suspect it fits well with most of youtoo. But what about joy? Well let’s go back to thedictionary for that too:
the emotion of great delight or happiness caused by something exceptionallygood or satisfying
(The American Heritage®Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition.)So when we combine the two we get profound awe,great delight, respect, happiness, and loveWow, quite a range of emotions. But to those whohave experienced a truly moving ritual, where thepresence of God and Goddess, ancestors andelementals, is so palpable that the breath of mortaland immortal fills the air with the mist of magick andecstasy, this wash of emotion is all too familiar.Sorry? My Point? Oh, I’ve done it again, haven’t I.Well I guess my point is, joy and reverence inbalance is the key to a ritual that blesses everyone.Too much “reverence” leads to a somber and dolefulchurch service where the most exciting thing thathappens is when the preacher stops talking, and themost spiritual thought on your mind is whether youcan get home in time to catch the beginning of thegame.On the other hand, too much joy can be just as bad.Ours is an experiential religion, a faith where God/ dess is felt, rather than being read about.Distractions during ritual elements can ruin thatexperience. This is not to say that you should expecta profound religious experience every single timeyou enter the circle, but you can bet that, at anyparticular ritual, someone may. Distractions from theritual element by joking or chatting might just ruinthat experience for that person. The other thing toconsider is the well-being of the Priestess and Priest.They are very busy people up there by the altar.Along with performing the ritual and all it’s elements,they are responsible for channelling the energy youall put out, monitoring each celebrant for signs of distress, being prepared to receive messages fromthe Divine or other beings, and even rememberingtheir deosil from their widdershin. When someonespeaks, the Priest/ess must stop what they are doingand listen. If it turns out to be nothing more thansomeone cracking a joke, it’s an unwelcome break in conversation.Now please don’t get the impression that I’mforbidding all expressions here, far from it. What Iam saying is try to keep it appropriate, in balance.Between each ritual element there is a break in theflow. During these little breaks the energy rewinds,the ritual pauses, the ritual leaders take what mightbe likened to a little break in the action. Everyoneappreciates a little levity at these times, it helps usunwind and prepare for the next element. Duringritual elements, however, the casting, the invocations,the spellwork, the blessings, the feast, the dismissals,please try to make sure you don’t cause adistraction for other people. Remember thatsomeday it might be you who just misses the touchof Goddess because some chicken crosses the roadwith a fireman or something. I am not, in any way,however, discouraging spontaneous expressions of faith or emotion that your experience may promptyou to give. Those are gifts from the Divine and areentirely appropriate to share.Joy and reverence in balance. If you alwaysapproach your rituals with profound awe, greatdelight, respect, happiness, and love, you will findthe balance and you will leave more blessed thanwhen you entered.Oh, and feel free to laugh at me during story time...Another reason for mentioning these ideas is that it isnow clear to me that my interest in this book hasmuch deeper roots than I originally thought. I amnow amused to look back on how I was slowly ledto want to read this book. First I saw it on a libraryshelf and thought, “Oh, neat, I’ve seen all kinds of books on magic but never one on Finnish magic”.Then it occurred to me that I knew a Finnish family.Then I figured I might as well buy the book (one of
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