Overcome FEAR (for the guys)
While I was doing some stuff at work the other day, I decided to do a little thinking about why guys arescared to talk to females. This is what I came up with...-You are scared of rejection.-You are scared of embarrassment.-You are scared of the unknown.-You are scared of what she might do if you start talking to her.You are scared of admitting that you're AFRAID...and about 1000 others.What exactly is fear?And what can you do to overcome it?Well, let's start with what fear is, then we'll see how to get past it.I heard a good definition of
The things that you feel fear about are usually not real...just "false evidence".Think back about the last 7 things you felt fear around.Did any of those things come true?In most of those, you'll find that the fear did NOT come true.I heard like 96% of the things that people fear and worry about, never come true.This is true in my own life.Fear is an emotion, or an emotional state. It's an amazing and wonderful emotion... because it can helpsave your life in certain situations.We humans are amazing. We can just IMAGINE things and feel fear in response to the mental images.I'm sure you know exactly what the problem is...it can IMMOBILIZE you at critical times.Have you ever seen a woman that you'd like to meet, but you just couldn't walk over and start talking toher?No? It's never happened to me, either.What was the problem?It wasfear.Fear that she'll get upset, or fear that she'll have a boyfriend... or fear that she'll embarrass you in front ofothers... or fear that you won't know what to say to her...