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RELATIONSHIPS
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Arun VedheraUnderstanding Human Relationships and a few tips to improve them
Relationships are always an important part of life. This include all relationships - self, Higher Power,friendship, love, marriage, relationship by choice, relationship by birth and relationships in School/college or Workplace. Learn what makes them tick, why they sometimes go wrong, what one can do about it, and why they are so precious.
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Man does not live by bread alone. Our need for the
expression of ourthoughts and feelings
is a universal emotion, irrespective of ourNationality, Religion, Caste or Tribe. We all
crave the love and warmthof our fellow human beings
and even our pets.We take mother’s affection and father’s pride in our achieve
ments asgranted and reciprocate the same emotions for our own children. It hasbeen well established that ‘
well balanced two parent families
’ are thesingle most important contributing factor in producing well-balanced andhappy adults.
Acceptance by our peer groups and approval in the eyes of our friends is very important for our sense of belonging.
In the high-stress-fast-moving urban societies, the sacrosanct institutionof marriage has been under increasing stress, with higher rates ofseparations (divorces), live-in relationships and single parent families. Arecent study in the United States has determined that
live-ins before engagement and marriage lead to a very high rate of divorce.
While the without commitment, walk-in, walk-out lifestyle and nuclearfamilies appear to give us unlimited independence to enjoy our lives, thefirst and foremost consequence of this is erosion of all bonds, which arethe basis of all our Relationships.
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DINK (Double Income No Kids)
partners in the Metros seem to bepost- poning having children as they are too occupied with their careersand are then stressed out to have time for the children. Further, tounwind they need two expensive vacations every year and cannottherefore manage this lifestyle with kids in tow.
Two Income parents increasingly pamper their children
withmaterial gifts and gadgets to compensate for the lesser time they seemto have for the children. This obviously leads to
arrogant and alienatedchildren
who can be very sweet while asking for the next ‘play station’and will be soon vary of that as well, as of everything else. The parentswant to give their children the most expensive education and all thephysical comforts, particularly on the grounds that the children musthave everything they lacked.These sentiments are very good and understandable, but do notacknowledge the downside, i.e. that the children need to experience andlive in the real world, full of normal hardships and comforts. They needto walk, travel in public transports, go out and play, buy clothes andgadgets one by one etc.
They need physical time and proximity fromtheir parents
, which Swiss Chocolates and play stations cannotcompensate for.The question of living with the in-laws (or should we call them out-laws!)would be extremely distasteful to the daughter-in-law. Even the husbandwould find the middle class or older generation thinking of his parents to
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