jd2201my

Thank you for sharing this with all of us, gives me insight to what goes through a person in pain and grief...makes me appreciate my loved ones even one...May God bless and heal you...

Froggy

No need for pardon Haim. Honesty is a gift between friends. Pain plays a big part in some of the issues with friends. But here in the US, people don't "do" death and grief well. After the requisite 3 months of mourning, many friends think that should suffice. For some of us maybe it is enough. But I think many of us have to sort through just what they are really mourning before they can move past it.

hkadman

Noone can fathom the depths of pain you're suffering from, but you're more couragous and strong thatn you realize and you've risen to incrdible heights. I don't know if I'm allowed to say it, maybe the pain prevents seeing the few freinds who would keep the old ties with you despite your tragic loss. Hope you'll pardon me Haim

Froggy

Thanks wordsolutions. It's good to know someone who has walked this same journey feels what I'm trying to say. I think both the sudden unexpected kindnessess as well as the hurts are the thing that impacts us when struggling through grief. God bless you.

wordsolutions

Well said -- I became a widow at 32 with two small young children aged 3 & 5. It's not that long ago, I could relate to all of this article. Very well said.