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Love Systems Insider: No Woman Is out of Your League!

Love Systems Insider: No Woman Is out of Your League!

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Are You Worried about Your Looks? No Woman Is out of Your League!
Are You Worried about Your Looks? No Woman Is out of Your League!

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Love Systems Insider
Date: December 2009
Too Short? Too Old? Too Asian? Scars? Not Good Looking?
Okay, I was kind of joking about the “too Asian” part. There’s a stereotype that Asian guysdon’t get the girl, but if you’ve ever seen Asian Love Systems instructors Mr. Mor Bonsai in action, you know that’s not true.But, it got us thinking about obstacles and how to get over them... And here’s why it’s lucky that you are (I assume) a man. There’s not that much an ugly,overweight, or too old woman can do to attract more than a small number of men. As a man, youcan almost always be attractive to women based on your personality.You know by now that this doesn’t mean having a “nice” personality. It means being able totake her on an emotional journey, create humor, imply pre-selection, and take advantage of all of the other building blocks of attraction I talk about in my book,Magic Bullets.The great thing about personality is that you can improve it.
No woman is ever inherently “outof your league.”
Oh, sure, she might be out of your league now. If you’re new to Love Systems and meet asupermodel at a party, you might not hit a home run. This year. But, when you meet her againnext year, watch out.At the same time, I’m not going to lie to you. OF COURSE looks matter. OF COURSE your agematters. It all matters.For instance, if there was a guy who had the same skills as I do but was also good looking... thatwould be insane. They’d need to lock him up; he’d be that good.But so what?
 
Most people don’t have every possible advantage for every possible activity. I’m good at basketball, but I’m kind of slow. With women I don’t have a deep voice or naturally goodlooks. The only reason I got so good with women and dating was that I made the right changesto my personality.Most women are the same way. They dress to show off their ‘best’ assets and neutralize their worst.You can do the same. There are lots of obvious things you can do to neutralize what’s holdingyou back, or (usually more accurately) what you THINK is holding you back. For example:
Too short?
Wear shoes that give you extra height. Like an inch or two.
Stereotype?
Look different. Both Mr. M and Bonsai have fashionable outfits andhaircuts that short-circuit the “boring Asian guy” stereotype before she even talks tothem.
Weight?
Dress to avoid, sure, but don’t explain or excuse. If you gained a lot of weightduring a stressful time in your life and you want to work it off, that’s great. You canmention that in passing (when talking about goals) in the “Comfort phase.” Not before.If you don’t know what the “Comfort phase” of a pickup is, you need to brush up on basic pick up technology. Get the free download of theLove Systems Triad model.And then there are specific routines you can use for different situations – to turn any obstacleinto a strength or to deflect it.One of my best natural friends (yes, naturals use routines – it’s human nature to repeat whatworks instead of reinventing the wheel) is 5’7. He loves tall women and has a great routine – itworks because he is funny, and comedic delivery is huge – on how much tall women love him because there’s no risk they’d even be looking up at him and see nostril hair.Physical obstacles go further than that. At the 2008 Love Systems Super Conference(every October the world’s best pick up artists come to one of the hottest hotels in Las Vegas for aweekend of fun, information sharing, and training), there was one guy who came in oncrutches. He went home with a beautiful woman the second night – prettier than most guys haveever dated.So, it should be no surprise that one of the best pick up artists in the world – Mr. M – admits thathe is: “Asian, short, and not really good-looking.” And yet he picks up Playboy Playmates.
 
So we got him, along with rising Love Systems star Keychain, to talk about picking up womenand physical obstacles.Keychain isn’t classically good-looking either: It’s our newest interview andsubscribersare already raving about it. Here’s a quote from anemail I just got this morning:
"I never thought I could turn my burn scars into an advantage. I’ve been too shy to even go out  for as long as I can remember. I heard Mr. M and Keychain on the last interview and I decided I had nothing to lose by trying. Let me tell you, Savoy, I had the sexiest woman eating out of myhand when I made her work so hard to get me to tell her my story. She spent the night and the

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