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Love Systems Insider: Top 10 Lessons from Years in the Game

Love Systems Insider: Top 10 Lessons from Years in the Game

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Veteran Pick Up Artist, Future, Reveals Top 10 Lessons from Years in the Game
Veteran Pick Up Artist, Future, Reveals Top 10 Lessons from Years in the Game

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11/08/2012

 
Love Systems Insider
Date: October 2009
Hey guys,Savoy here with a special LSi: one that I didn’t write at all!But before I get to the good stuff, I just wanted to let you know that here at Love Systems we’realways looking for a few good men. We regularly post Love Systems internship opportunities onThe Attraction Forums. You can check them out here.
 In my blog last week I announced that the most popular and highest voted instructor at the 2009Super Conference was the Love Systems demon known as Future. If you missed it, check out the full post onmy blog .  Since it’s clear people want to hear more from the man, I want to let you all know where to followhis blog .To celebrate, I asked Future to prepare his top 10 list of things he’s learned along theway. Here he is, in his own words:
 
Introduction – How I Got Here
Some of you don't know me. I've been away for a while. I'm from Tampa, Florida but I lefthome to attend boarding school when I was 15. Since then I've been in the military and lived allaround the world until I finally decided I liked Manhattan more than anywhere else on the planet. Most of the time, Tampa is a memory, syllables almost without meaning that leave mymouth when people ask me where I'm from.Periodically I return home though, and every time I am treated to a new place. The city may nothave changed too much, but I have. The experience is different. You might relate if you’ve ever returned “home,” reconnected with old girlfriends, reread old books or watched old moviesagain. For some reason,
The Crow
doesn't resonate with me nowadays as much as it did when Iwas in the seventh grade!
 
I leftLove Systemsin winter 2007. For all of 2008, I was wandering the land of the normal. Ihad a rigorous job at a digital special effects company, and I could usually only find time to goout on weekends if I went out at all. And I had a girlfriend, a monogamous relationship with awoman I loved very much. For all intents and purposes, I went back into the Matrix (Savoynixed my request to have my handle changed to "Cypher" when I came back to work for LoveSystems). When my circumstances changed - I left my girlfriend, and my job left me - I thoughtfor approximately seventeen nanoseconds about coming back to the company that helped me,trained me, and gave me the chance to change the lives of thousands of men like me. Just likeseeing Tampa's palm trees again, coming back to Love Systems has given me a chance to look atthe world of dating science through new eyes, a new perspective I hope to give back to mystudents in the programs I teach. Here's what my own Luke 15 has taught me:
Top 10 Lessons From Years in the Game1.) If you don't use it, you lose it.
As I mentioned above, I was in a monogamous relationship for much of 2008. It ended badly.There I was, a master of female psychology, a world-class pimp, and I thought I'd found a girlworth trading in all the other girls. It turned out her tongue wasn't made of roses and her skinwasn't gilded in gold. She was flesh and bone, blood and water: just another girl. I'd beenteaching guys how to see women for who they really, really were, and I had been duped by a“10” with a great cover story. I felt like a fool and a failure.I took that feeling into my encounters with new women, and my game was trash because of it.The next few months were not pretty. Starting in January 2009, the pendulum swung the other way, and I was back in the saddle in a way even my pre-relationship self would envy. What Iexperienced, that slump after a serious relationship, wasn't weird. It's typical of any guy wholearns this stuff and finds himself weeks or months or years away. As I found to my delight,once you learn Love Systems, it's kind of like riding a bike, as long as you're willing to put thetime in.
2.) Nothing teaches like approaching.
 Unlike a lot of guys fretting over their love lives, I had my history and knowledge as a LoveSystems instructor to fall back on when I hit my slump. Even still, I couldn't knowledge my wayout of my unplanned celibacy. What finally helped me was approaching. A lot. I had to make thetime. Anyone who's drawn to Love Systems tends to be smarter than your average guy, and
 
smart people are really, really (really) good at coming up with B.S. excuses not to do whatever itis they don't want to do. No one likes getting shot down by the women they desire, so avoiding that is a pretty easychoice for most smart people. Thankfully the reward for practicing this skill - for daring to fail -is the height of human physical sensation! There is no way to get around the need for practice. If you're familiar with Love Systems but you don't go out and practice, then you're just watchinganother movie or TV show.Magic Bulletscan be a neato look at the world of dating, or it can bea life-changing textbook for your relationships with women. The key is real world practice.
3.) Sex is easy.
 Don't let anyone tell you different. It's easy to make fun of standard female dating advice, "Just be confident!" but there is a ring of truth there. If you are at ease with yourself and unapologeticin your sexuality and your approach, you can get laid. A lot.Many of our students attend workshops not looking for a mere port in the storm but to startmaking real choices in their sex partners. When my slump ended, I started getting a lot of solicitations for sex from random girls, but they weren't always the quality I wanted. And that'swhy I will forever be grateful for my initial bootcamp.Once the old wheels started turning again, I remembered the best gift Love Systems bestowed onme, a diagnostic tool like no other that could help me see what women were saying, understandtheir motivations, and understand myself and my relationship to women in the long run. It justisn't that hard to find someone who will have sex with you, so the real question is whom do youwish to share the gift of YOUR sex?
4.) Come from a place of abundance.
One of the main concepts we teach at Love Systems is pre-selection by women: the notion thatyou spend a lot of time around beautiful women, beautiful women are normal to you, and youexpect beautiful women to be attracted to you. If you're just learning this stuff or you are on thefence about taking a bootcamp,your results with the women you desire will improve by simply talking about your beautiful ex-girlfriends (tactfully, please). But, that's only part of it. See,
asmuch as pre-selection is attractive, neediness is female kryptonite.
When I relearned game,the better I did the better I did. Whatever you can do to balance a healthy display of indifferenceand affection, that is what you must do to attract the women you desire. The more you feel

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