3 EasyWays toHelpYour MarriageIf you are desperately looking for a way to save your marriage, first of all let me just say you are notthe first person to ever ask this question, and you are not the first person to ever experience any maritalrough patches. Whatever you are going through - infidelity, lies, constant nitpicking, money troubles,issues with your children - you are not the first.As long as you realize that there are problems in your marriage, you are taking a step in the rightdirection. Now, if either of you are thinking about getting a divorce or separating, think again. Divorceis not always the best answer to solving your marital discord. And even though you might think divorceis a clean cut answer, it could possibly not be the best idea in your case. Divorce should be a last ditcheffort because you never know when life might change.So if you want to give your marriage one more try, there are some effective tips I can tell you about thatare perfect for any marriage, no matter the length of the marriage or if only one partner is on board. Now is the time to do something because the only thing that counts is what you do, not what you say.1) Stop casting blame on your partner.Whether or not you believe the problems lie within your partner, "it takes two to tango," so the both of you should work with each other to improve the state of your marriage. Take cheating as an example. If your spouse was being unfaithful, you would undoubtedly wonder why they did this and what makesthe other person so much better than you. Perhaps you do not enjoy each others companionship as youonce did. Have you really done everything humanly possible to work through this?2) You should not only communicate with your partner, but also listen.Do you always listen to everything your partners says? More often than not, you probably ignore himor her than listen. Despite if you are having a good day or bad day, you absolutely have to understandhow they feel and where they are coming from.