If you act like it’s a big deal, it will be. If you act like it’s not a big deal, it might not be
.(This applies to a lot of different things... especially relationship management, dating multiplewomen at the same time, or friends with benefits – all covered in our Relationship Managementcourse.)
- Yes, I know it can look awkward when you sit next to a hot girl when there are plenty of empty seats. Take the hit and do it anyway. Better for it to be a bit awkward at first andyou have the whole flight together than for you to be too cool for that and spend your flight between Mr. Fat Ass and Mr. Body Odor while you watch someone else picking up your girl.The same thing applies if you’re a college student. If you can sit anywhere on the first day of class, sit next to the hot girl. So what if it looks weird for a few minutes? You’ll be sitting withher all class – or the whole semester if they make a seating plan.(And if you’re in college, you really should check out the Social Circle Mastery.)
Love Systems insider Tip #2 – If you have assigned seats anyway...
Start talking to her in the departure lobby like normal. If you can get into the “Comfort” phase of the Emotional Progression Model, it’s worth trying to change your seats. Say something like:
“You know, I always get stuck sitting between two 300-pound idiots who won’t shut up thewhole flight. You seem kind of normal, except for
(something she said that you can tease her about).
If you promise to be good, I’ll switch seats so we can sit together. Where are you sitting?”
Then, when she shows you her boarding pass, take it from her so you can have a look. Say, “
I’ll be right back
” and go to the gate agent with both boarding passes and say that you and your friend want to sit together.
Do not ask her first or act like what you’re doing isn’t 100%normal
. Then come back with both of your new boarding passes and tell her she can have thewindow seat for rescuing you from the 300lb talky twins.