Love Systems Insider
Date: May 2009
Hey guys-Recently we had a mini-seminar in which we took questions from the Love Systemscommunity. One of the very common themes was how to make things physical. I’m really gladthat came up – it’s a subject that resonates a lot with me.From the time I was in high school until I discovered Love Systems, I was the king of “Let’sJust be Friends.”I was either the greatest potential friend on the planet... or women found me nice enough but notsexually desirable.Since not all that many of these women followed up “Let’s Just Be Friends” with friendlyinvitations to come around to parties and meet their hot friends any contact at all, I’m going tohave to go with door #2.A lot of this comes down to
SEXUALIZATION
.That was one of the confirmed gaps in the oldMystery Method CorpM3 model. The M3 modelwas good for emotional progression, but didn’t quite nail the physical or logistical side – although of course we patched it up and retrofitted it enough that it was still the best system for attracting and dating beautiful women.The new Love Systems Triad model actually solves this from the start – AND goes much
further.By combining Emotional, Physical, and Logistical progression, not only are certain pitfalls somuch more obvious and easy to avoid (like Let’s Just be Friends), but a whole second-generation level of insight and shortcuts is unlocked. Just a couple examples:
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How far is too far to go emotionally before you get at least to “Romantic Touch.”
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When your physical progress means you already have emotional attraction – even if shehasn’t said a single positive thing to you.
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Why Let’s Just Be Friends Happens.
Emotional Progression without Physical Progression = Let’s Just Be Friends
We’ve been teaching and testing the Love Systems Triad in bootcamps and with advanced
students for the past year with amazing results. We finally decided to release it to the broader Love Systems community as part of the long-awaitedLove Systems Routines Manual Volume 2.Anyway, now that we have this structure in place, it’s a lot easier to explain some moreadvanced techniques...... and that’s why this month’s interview series (and this newsletter) is on sexualization. We wanted to use the new powerful model as a vehicle for some of our breakthroughs over the past two years. And so we brought on one of the world’s greatest experts at “turning it sexual:”
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Braddock : A senior Love Systems instructor and co-creator of the Love SystemsSocialCircle MasteryandInner Gameprograms. Braddock is especially well known for being a
hick from Oklahoma using humor, banter, role-plays, and rapid verbal and physicalescalation to succeed with women. He’s also a master of phone and text game andhas agreat blog. Alright, let’s get into some
News You Can Use
before coming back to how it all fitstogether. We’ll start with just three of the many sexualization techniques covered in theinterview.
Sexualization Technique #1: “Baiting”
After there’s a bit of mutual attraction, start throwing out low-level “bait” to see if she bites.A good baiting statement should be light and playful, and usually ambiguous.For example, I use baiting to test whether a woman has a sexual vibe, especially a sexuallysubmissive vibe (if you can lock onto that and know the next few steps, you can play thatsituation like a violin).So, when I find something I could (playfully) react to, I can say:
“You really need to be put in your place.”
There’s a certain look a woman will give you if you do that right (and if she’s the right girl to begin with). It’s like you gave her the secret handshake. She’ll look back at you for a couple of seconds, wondering if you “get it” or if you just accidentally stumbled on the right words. Whenshe does this, hold eye contact, and don’t react. Wait for her to say the next thing.In the interview, they reveal a “bait” line to use the first time you're giving a woman a tour of your house. Toward the end, casually point at a closed door and jokingly say, “
that’s the stairsdown to the dungeon in the basement
.”Some women will be intrigued and make a sexual comment in return. Others won’t – but youdon’t lose any ground with them because it’s an ambiguous statement that could be taken inmany different ways.“Baiting” is how women flirt too, so be on the lookout for things she might be “joking” about or things that could have a double meaning.WARNING: As plenty of mice, rats, and fish know, going after the bait may not always be a good idea. Sometimes a woman will say something sexual to you to see how you’llreact... but you fail if you do. This is a whole different subject – to learn how to handleevery test, check out Soulon handling tests.
Sexualization Technique #2: Role-plays
Role-plays are great because they give you the freedom to enter territory that might be harder or inappropriate to enter “on the level.”This applies to anything, not just sexualization.For example, I often tell a woman I’ve recently met that she’s amazing and fun and I’m going totake her around the world with me packed in my suitcase. She’ll usually laugh and respond
inthe context of the role play
– like “only if the suitcase goes first class.” Further conversation jokingly planning our trip still makes her feel some of the emotions that she’d get when thinkingabout traveling the world with someone she likes.(CajunandTenmagnetare also masters at this and did a great interview on Role-Playsa few
months ago.)One of Braddock’s great techniques that he goes into a lot of detail on in the interview is role- playing that the relationship is ALREADY sexual. Tell her you were a sweet innocent guy before she tore your virginity away from you.
Love Systems Insider: Sexualization
How To Take Things Sexual and Avoid "Let's Just Be Friends"
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