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• Send invitations. Your personal invitations might sound
something like, “Will you come to my house at 730pm
on Thursday April 15th for a gathering? I am hosting a
coffee party with chocolate cake to talk about how The
United Methodist Church can be more welcoming
to LGBT people.”
• Some people will ask you why you are hosting a
BOLD gathering. If you have two minutes, tell
them your story of self or simply name and describe
a beloved LGBT person in your life and mention
how much you want them to feel welcome in your
church.
In addition to your phone calls and word of mouth
invitations, Facebook, internet invites (like evite.come),
letters, postcards, and announcements in your church
newsletter can help invite and remind people to attend.
A Plan for your BOLD Gathering:
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flexibility. A few core elements will help you tell
your story, encourage sharing, and invite everyone to
become Believe Out Loud Disciples.
Begin the BOLD discussion by thanking everyone of inclusion, then I ask you to join me in supporting RMN.
for attending and sharing why you chose to hold a gathering. Every person who fills out and sends in this envelope speaks
Encourage participants to get to know one another by asking up for the strong the call for inclusion and justice in The
a simple question, United Methodist Church. Also, I invite you to join me
• Why do you attend the church you attend (if you do)? in sharing financially with RMN. This movement needs
• When was the first time you understood that inclusion of everyone who supports full inclusion to participate in a
all sexual orientations and gender identities is a justice tangible way. When you join me in supporting RMN with
issue? $10 per month from your credit card or checking account,
• What would you change about The United Methodist you give RMN the resources needed to transform the Church
Church? into the full expression of Christ’s inclusive love.”
Tell your story of self and invite the participants to share Give people about five minutes to fill out and seal
their stories of self. As the group begins to discuss what their cards. Remember, most envelopes which leave your
could be better about the church, invite them to consider gathering will be forgotten and not returned. If someone
taking tangible action for change by becoming a Believe Out does decide to take their envelope home, encourage them to
Loud Disciple. call you when they send it in, so that you can celebrate their
How To Invite People to Become a BOLD Disciple: commitment with them.
A Believe Out Loud Disciple (BOLD) does three things: After you have collected the cards, consider singing
• Commit to the movement for Full Inclusion by signing a together or offering a prayer of thanksgiving and hope for
RUM card. (RUM = Reconciling United Methodist) the continued growth of The United Methodist Church
• Share their story and invite two other people to become towards full inclusion of people of all sexual orientations
BOLD disciples and gender identities.
• Pledge a regular contribution to RMN
Pass out the RUM envelopes and invite each person to
respond. For instance: “If you feel as I do about the importance
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