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Real-Time
Relationships
The Logic of Love

Stefan Molyneux, MA
Host, Freedomain Radio
www.freedomainradio.com

2By the same author:

On Truth: The Tyranny of Illusion
Universally Preferable Behaviour: A Rational Proof of Secular Ethics
The God of Atheists (A Novel)

Available ath ttp://www.fre e dom ai nra dio .c om /bo oks . h tm l
For my beloved wife Christina, who teaches me all that is true, and
shows me everything that is possible…

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The Freedomain Library, Volume 4 Version 1.0 Extended Edition, January 2008
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CONTENTS

CONTENTS.......................................... ................................................... ................ 3 REAL-TIME RELATIONSHIPS: THE LOGIC OF LOVE..................................................10 CULTURE........................................... ................................................... .................12 PHILOSOPHY AND INTIMACY.............................................................................. ..12 RELIGIOUS “REALITY”.................................................................................. .........14

POSITIONING.................................................. ................................................... ....... 16
THE ARC OF A RELATIONSHIP................................................................................16

CAUTION.................................................. ................................................... ............ 17 SEX. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 THE LOVE BOMB.................................................. ................................................... .. 18 THE PLATEAU.................................................. ................................................... ...... 19 THE HICCUP.................................................. ................................................... ........ 19 THE DESCENT.................................................. ................................................... ...... 19 LYING. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 ENTOMBMENT.................................................. ................................................... ..... 21 THE AFTERMATH.................................................. ................................................... .. 23

WIN/LOSE.......................................... ................................................... ................25
TRUST............................................. ................................................... ...................27
CLOSURE AND SELF–TRUST.................................................. ....................................... 27
HEDGING.................................................. ................................................... ............ 29
BAGGAGE........................................... ................................................... ...............29
LOVE.............................................. ................................................... ....................31

LOVE AND OBJECTIVITY. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 LOVE – COMPARED TO WHAT?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32 INTERNAL STATE,OR EXTERNAL FACT?................................................. ......................... 33 LOVE AND PLEASURE.................................................. ................................................ 33 LOVE: A TENTATIVE DEFINITION.................................................. ................................. 34 LOVE AS A RESPONSE.................................................. ............................................... 36

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