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Maureen Thomson
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Like many women, I love less, the process was alarming in
Oprah--love what she stands for, its simplicity. I found it discon-
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cold day in you-know-where before of paper that was so frighteningly
she ever makes an honest man of easy to both obtain and rescind
Stedman. Marriage is an archaic was necessary in order to legiti- ized--what marriage means to me,
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institution that treats women like matize my marriage. If ever I mar- and probably to most people who Spri cceptin
chattel and is solely for those ried again, I theorized, it would make the leap with any degree of ng g
among us so insecure that we be solely for the legal benefits of consideration and insight. The act Mer & Summ
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need a piece of paper legitimizing marriage. of marrying someone is to stand dise r
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our feelings. Halle and Oprah give But something funny happened up before the world and proclaim
simultaneous nods meant to convey on my journey (nowhere near) to unequivocally that out of all the
beyond other people in the world, I choose
the shad- you to be my partner. And wonder
ow of a of wonders, you choose me! Yes,
d o u b t it is a legal sanction, but it is also
their cer- an act of courage and commit-
tainty ment stating, "I will choose to love
that mar- you even when the glow fades (or
riage is simply disappears for a while). I'm
beneath head over heels about you on this
t h e m - day and on the days when I'm not,
-their I will not leave."
l o v e It is a risky business, this pub-
relation- lic declaration. We risk looking
s h i p s quite foolish if down the road we
far tran- must break this commitment (as
s c e n d adroit as we've become at blam-
the notion of the prescribed nup- the altar. After a couple of years of ing our exes for everything that T-F 9:30-5:30 / Sat 9-5
tials to which so many of us have being with this man, my attitude goes wrong). After all, if we never
adhered. Marriage, in short, is for changed. It was subtle at first… sign the piece of paper in the first to be there in the morning. It has
the conventional and unimagina- hardly noticeable. It begin with place, we can quietly move on with more than legal ramifications. It's
tive among us who require govern- an irritation that there is simply our separate lives if we no longer even more than a promise to love
ment and/or religious sanction of no word in our language to use choose to make the commitment. "until death do us part," for no one
our conjugal relationships. The when alluding to the other half in Divvy up the pots and pans, the can promise that with certainty.
piece of paper is not a guarantee one's over-the-age-of-40 lifelong friends and decide upon custody What it is, is a public proclama-
of happiness. committed relationship. "Lover" of the dog and it's a done deal. No tion that you are human, and in
All I can say is BAL-O-NEY! sounded too sexual, "significant public declaration needed to start your humanity, you want a part-
Okay, I could say more, but I do other" too pretentious, "partner" the relationship--no public decla- ner in life, someone with whom
have an editor! Believe it or not, has been pretty much coined to ration needed to end it. Painful, you are better together than you
I used to have a somewhat simi- describe same-sex relationships yes, but not public. There is no are alone, someone that you do
lar opinion. Not about the chattel and "better half" came across as "D-word" on our record. When we not need to complete you, but who
part, but about the piece-of-paper cutesy and reminiscent of the 50s. date the next person, we can hon- enhances your life in a way unlike
part. Having been married and I started using the word "husband" estly say we've never been mar- any other. You are announcing to
divorced more than once (let's just to describe Jeremy long before we ried. That is oh-so-more socially the world--not just to each other-
leave it at that) and being in the were married only because it was acceptable--even now. -that you are vulnerable yet will-
wedding officiating business, I've the closest word I could come up Getting married opens us up to ing to take a monumental leap of
witnessed firsthand how easy it with to let people know who the the possibility that utter devasta- faith solely with one other person,
is to get married and divorced in heck it was I was talking about. tion might enter our lives down the trusting what you know as well
this state. I'm not kidding; it blows Besides, it was way shorter than road--a failure that must be made as what you do not yet know. It is
me away why so many people go saying, "the man who shares my public record. And for those of us exhilarating; it is risky; it is a will-
to Vegas to get hitched when in bed." who have experienced the disinte- ingness to take on the hard work
Colorado a marriage license costs Then the discomfiture spread gration of a marriage in the past, as well as the joy--both when it is
all of 10 bucks and you don't from the linguistic to the emo- the risk is even more pronounced, easy and when it is hard. And it's
even need a minister or a judge to tional. Our relationship didn't feel for we know that the certainty of not for everyone--especially the
marry you. Any couple (even non- complete. I did some inner reflec- our love in that moment cannot faint of heart. But it is for me and
residents of the state) can marry tion…was I insecure? Conforming be guaranteed to last a lifetime. for many others.
themselves without anyone else to societal pressure? Ethically, did We know that the perceived love of And that, Ms Winfrey and Ms
present. Yes, you can self-marry. I feel a need to be married because our life can turn into the perceived Berry, is why I wear this ring on
You can even pick up a marriage I officiate at marriages for a living? bane of our existence. my finger.
license at the DMV. Not roman- And hey--was that my mother's So marriage is more than the Maureen Thomson is the owner
tic, by any stretch, but certainly voice I heard inside my head? No, piece of paper, it's not--as Michelle of Lyssabeth's Unique, Joyful &
simple. And while it might detract it was none of that. I pondered Pfeiffer said to Robert Redford in memorable Ceremonies. She can
from the momentousness of the some more… was it that I had Up Close and Personal--the reas- be reached at Maureen318@com-
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Ditto for divorce--especially if ously to other men in my life--men
you don't have kids. When my for whom I'd not had the same
ex-husband I ended our marriage, level of connection I have with
we had our papers filled out by Jeremy? Was marriage a title I To Advertise: 303.458.7541
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ourselves and paid our $180.00. as some sort of badge of honor?
Three months later, our marriage (Believe me, there are some days
was officially over. Of course, we he deserves one!) But no…that
had no children together and split wasn't it either.
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