Alpha Relational Dynamics

by Rion Williams

Introduction

Chapter 1: What is Relational Dynamics?

Chapter 2: Power of Awareness

Chapter 3: The Relational Formula

Chapter 4: Elements of Life

Chapter 5: Circle of Life

Chapter 6: Purpose of Life

Chapter 7: Balance

Chapter 8: Golden Rule & Karma

Chapter 9: Power of Influence & Causality

Chapter 10: Chaos Theory & Bu�erfly Effect

Chapter 11: Power of Production

Chapter 12: OFC Tilter

Chapter 13: Power Relationships

Chapter 14: Basic Relationships & Interdependence

Chapter 15: Hierarchical Relationships & Subcultures

 Chapter 16: Macro Social Dynamics

Chapter 17: Destiny vs. Fate

Chapter 18: Identity: Social Constructs & Influences

Chapter 19: What do Women Want?

Chapter 20: Body Language & Physiology

Chapter 21: The Power of One

Chapter 22: Control

Chapter 23: Massive Self-Control & Awareness

Chapter 24: Sexual Transmutation

Chapter 25: Stimulus-Response

Chapter 26: Above the Influence

Chapter 27: The Architects

Chapter 28: The Social Matrix

Chapter 29: Television

Chapter 30: Sexploitation

Chapter 31: Cultural Differentiation

Chapter 32: Looking at Relationship Reality

 Chapter 33: The Pregame of Leveraged Power

Chapter 34: Female Behaviorism Rundown

Chapter 35: Awareness of Energy

Chapter 36: Tri-Fem Characteristic Cognition

Chapter 37: How to Differentiate Inner Character

Chapter 38: How to Differentiate Natural Energy

Chapter 39: How to Differentiate Social Character

Chapter 40: Tri-Characteristic Differentiation & Grounding

Chapter 41: Fearlessness Around Beauty

Chapter 42: Dealing with Matrix Women

Chapter 43: Relational Model of A�raction

Chapter 44: Respect

Chapter 45: Personal Power Manifest:

Chapter 46: N.E.O.

Chapter 47: Silver Bullets of Influence

Chapter 48: Runaway

 Chapter 49: Return to Innocence

Chapter 50: Natural Grounding

Chapter 51: Trial by Fire

Chapter 52: Applying Relational Dynamics

Chapter 53: How to Get Over an Ex

Chapter 54: R.D. for Relationship Counseling

Chapter 55: R.D. Applied for Business Success

Chapter 56: How to Overcome Dependencies

Chapter 57: Your Newfound Alpha Power

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 Introduction
Welcome to the next evolution. I’m Rion Williams and I’m excited that you will also
experience quantum leaps in growth as I have. It is a wise decision and you’ll reap the
rewards for a long time. Your success with women will vastly improve because there
is something greater than your own limited (relationally) ‘inner game’.

We’re going to start making sense of this mad, mad, mad world and how you fit in so
that you can have power aligned to YOU instead of having it work against you.

The real key to Alpha character and success with women is not in learning lines, tech-
niques or how to be naughty and funny. The answer is in understanding who you are
and your relationship to the forces of influence that have repressed you (and continue
to all the time).

That is the only healthy and real fix and no one else is teaching it.

Relational Dynamics is about seeing and knowing. It is about aligning yourself with
universal principles or truths. It’s seeing the details in the big picture and seeing the
big picture in the details. It’s understanding the root behavioral characteristics in
women and knowing your relationship to them.

R.D. will free your mind so that you may never even get angry again (or even head-
aches) unless universal principles are obviously violated, and because you know the
truth, you’ll step up and be a man.

Your own power will be more pure and less diluted. Women will respond to you more
because you have become more of what women want.

No more games or trickery necessary. This is taking care of about 90% of ‘the game’
itself.

It is kind of by chance (or is it?) that the direction of my life would lead to this level of
understanding that one would argue even the greatest philosophers never reached on
this subject. Back in history, they didn’t have to deal with some of the things we do
today.

Now, countless millions of people will go through life without clarity of purpose and
feeling like they will never be fulfilled. With Relational Dynamics you’re going to take
your power back that has been literally stolen from you. You will be able to be pursue
happiness with much more effectiveness than before.

If you’re here to be more successful with women, take heed. This is the Jedi level train-
ing that hasn’t existed before. We’re going to deal with the main missing component;
the universal/natural game. Straighten this area out and your inner game will be fine.

There is only so much guilt, blame and pressure a guy can take responsibility for. Sure
you have to take accountability for your past actions, but with this program, you’re go-
ing to be liberated. You’ll find out that it’s not just you and your inner game that are ‘at
fault’ for your lack of consistent success with women.

You’ll find out that women are also at fault and more importantly we’re going to deal
with the root cause itself which has affected this current level of reality in your life-
style.

The results of applying R.D. and having cognition of your relationship to the forces of
influence and taking control back for yourself? You will see. Your natural character
will rise. You will literally ‘go alpha’.

Women will notice you more and respond to you. You will closest to sex at all times.
Everything you do will be the right thing and you won’t have to worry about what to
say because you have become ‘what women want’.

There is a ton of leverage that is repressing your natural character that we can and will
take back. When we can clearly see and understand the forces that have kept your
natural character level low, we will then be able to put them in their proper place in
relation to you and your life.

Doing that will clear the way for your natural character to rise. Remember you were
born as a strong, natural alpha. It’s only through time that forces of influence (primar-
ily social) have just repressed the natural character that was already there. All men
were born with it.

And remember that your natural character is the one thing that ma�ers in a�raction
and the mating game. It’s what women respond to and it’s what they want. Sex is bet-
ter for them with a man of high natural character that they can ‘respond to’. It’s like a
narcotic to them.

Why? Because being a man of high natural character (confident, congruent, fearless,
comfortable in his own skin, self control and personal authority) is the equivalent of a
really beautiful woman. It’s the closest thing to survival of the fi�est and passing on
the best genes for healthy children who will also be survivors.

But you’re a self-admi�ed wimpy Beta guy or wussbag? Well, if you are then it’s going
to take a li�le more work than someone who has higher character across the board but
you’re in the right place (if not the only right place).

Most of what I speak is from my own experiences and observations of universal prin-
ciples through life. Alpha Relational Dynamics is not just my own opinions or theo-
ries on things. I would say that it’s the closest to universal truth that we can get, albeit
filtered through my cognition of the principles.

I am concerned about the practical application as you will see. This isn’t just theory.
We will be going through practical exercises as well to help you apply Alpha Relational
Dynamics to your life.

I have not really studied the great philosophers though I have always go�en ‘A’s in
psychology and I believe I can give many sociologists a run for their money primarily
because they haven’t differentiated themselves from the force they are trying to figure
out.

With Relational Dynamics we will be looking at the roots, the elements and their rela-
tionships to each other. This I believe to be the only true and pure solution not just to
real success with women but to absolute personal power and influence which you can
apply in any chosen field.

The answers are simpler than they seem yet are so hidden and profound that many
people will spend a lifetime of ignorance to them. That is how the architect’s and pur-
porters of the social matrix want it to be. Almost every other guru or teacher will deal
technique based or work with surface solutions.

These methods will not yield the true and pure results of dealing with the root itself.
R.D. will change and maybe save your life. Most importantly you will be able to be
your true and powerful self. You will also have a level of intuition that exceeds many
women. Are you ready for this level of power?

Do you want women to MELT when they find out who you really are (o�en within
the first second)? That is where I’m at because of R.D. Your ‘close’ ratio will skyrocket
with women. Why? Because you have the power and you have what women want
and they KNOW that other women want you.

When you can see the world through the understanding eyes that I do, you will be in
fascination with very many things. You will also be able to have power, influence and
great effect in any field you choose to apply R.D. with commitment.

All producers understand the relational dynamics of the field they are producing in.
Align yourself with R.D. and your personal power will grow exponentially, especially
over time.

More on me..

Growing up in the the midst of the social matrix yet still thinking independently and
never sticking just to one social subculture plus my experiences with cultural differen-
tiation have all allowed me to get this unique level of perception. For an American to
have my level of awareness is very rare indeed.

It’s my understanding of the influence of the social matrix and my differentiation from
it that allows me (as compared to someone else outside of it) to help you overcome it. I
think as a producer and have previously promoted the social matrix and I understand
it’s power. I will help you to differentiate yourself from it.

Therein lies your greatest power to regain your independence; through understanding
the forces of influence and being cognitive of what you allow into your independent
character (the Matrix analogy).

I have photographed, retouched and promoted the female sexploitation that I talk
about which is at the root of the forced reality. I have also been a nightclub promoter
in Miami, Chicago, Houston, Malaysia and Honolulu. I teach people how to make
women sexier in their photographs.

This is important because I’m not just another drooling guy, but I’ve been a part of the
root of creating that influence which is at the base of your repression; an architect. I
have also grounded myself in 1,000’s of hours of natural energy and I will help ground
you in much less time than it took me.

There is a lot of leverage for you to overcome your massive lifetime repression and
that’s what we’re going to do. We’re also going to differentiate the different energies
and characteristics of different women. If you have the video portion of this, it’s going
to be pre�y exciting.

We’re going to overcome your fear and emotional response to beautiful women, be-
cause if you DON’T do it then you don’t stand a chance but fools mate with them. This
is about being a man of high character (which is what women want). It’s about having
power, options, abundance and choice in your life. That’s R.D.
Throughout this training program, you’re going to hear a lot of things that are so pro-
found you might not understand them at first. I encourage you to go over certain ar-
eas until they ‘hit you’ or you understand them. I will try to use examples as much as
possible and where necessary so that it will help you become aware of the point I am
making.

Everything may not ‘hit you’ all at once in a great epiphany. It may start to sink in
point by point, here or there..but I really do encourage you to keep digging deeper, the
truth exists and keep going over this program until you can see and feel it.

You will know when things are sinking in because they will really start overwhelming
you with their raw power. We are dealing with the elements of life itself here and if
you don’t shed any tears you’re not close to ge�ing it or growing in character.

You’re going to be cognitive of things which have been hidden your entire life and
it will be overwhelming at times. Consider this a very independent experience that
you’re going through and take it seriously. Resist any urge to give up and go back to
the social ‘candy’ of pick-up lines, etc. because you will still be powerless.

We are going to align your universal/game to the true elements of what’s going on.
We’re not going to try and align your inner game to a screwed up social reality like oth-
er’s teach. This is the real deal and it’s value to you will be perhaps more priceless than
anything else you have experienced in your life. And it will be that if you apply it.

If you’re ‘Beta’ you CAN go ‘Alpha’. Once we ‘change’ (by aligning to the truths) your
thought pa�erns, then your own physiology and behaviors will change from the inside
out (and not the outside-in like others teach). This is the only real and lasting change.
This will give you the character and power to pass any woman’s ‘tests’.

You will become the ‘real deal’ which is actually just more of who you are. You have
tremendous power and were born with it. You’re a living miracle who has just been
repressed.

Expect to cry. Expect to get furiously mad. Expect to be humbled. Expect to laugh.
Expect to relieve the burdens of repression, frustration and confusion from your life.

Expect massive internal change as you actualize and realign yourself to the truth of the
elements around you (like Neo in the Matrix). The level of results you’ll experience
including around women, will be incredible. That’s priceless too. I can’t even explain
it; I’ll leave that for you...so send me a good testimonial.

If you’re going to live by the truth, then you’re going to have the juevos to stand up to
those who want to repress the truth (including you). There are corrupt systems and
people out there that do not want to have win/win relations with you, they want to
have power OVER you. It’s up to you to know where you stand.

And when it comes to success with women, alpha relational dynamics is extremely im-
portant...almost a prerequisite for the ‘average’ good guy to actually change and have
success with dating and women (without acquiring bad habits).

I’m not saying that I myself have it all figured out but,

More than one man reading this book is going to go from known Beta ‘nice guy’ to
perma-Alpha just by not accepting anything less than pure interdependence from
other people.

And that’s just a part of it.

We’re going to do crazy stuff you’d never think of. This isn’t all glitz and glamour (al-
though the RESULTS ARE). In order to take your power and actually GROW as a man
you must do different things as you’ve been doing because you’ve been repressed.

So, stick with R.D. because it’s not just a book or training program, it’s a way of seeing
life. It’s a habitual lifestyle process for me and I want you to adopt it because it will
help you make the right decisions and choose healthy (including sexual) relationships
that you want.

Throughout this program you will continue to realize and adapt the raw power of Re-
lational Dynamics for your lifestyle and being able to operate/seduce/inspire beautiful
and powerful women.

It’s time to truly become comfortable in your own skin in the face of anything.

Let’s begin!
 Chapter 1

What is Relational Dynamics?

If you’re still struggling to understand the term Relational Dynamics and what it repre-
sents or means, here is the best place to resolve that.

I will go into an in-depth explanation so that you be�er understand it and start to be
come ‘aware’ of it and how it relates to everything you do or experience. It’s so big of a
concept that it’s hard to sum it all up quickly.

Relational Dynamics is an understanding of the elements and constructs of life and

how they relate to each other to form behavior, substance, effect or truth.

It is the cognition of independent elements in any product/construction/relationship

and how those elements relate to each other. People of power such as producers, ex-
ecutive and architects use it to create an effect.

Your ability to understand your relationship to the root elements involved in any situa-
tion or application will consequently determine your level of power, control and influ-
ence in life.

This is the global perspective and clarity (once you understand it) that you have
dreamed of searching for. It is used by the most powerful people including producer’s
of any kind.

You only need reflect on it and apply it to your life or the areas you want to achieve
mastery. I am the messenger, the il postino Rafiki.

For the first time EVER released....the only 100% pure and REAL solution to so many of
life’s problems.

I am SO excited about this and I hope you are too. If you want the greatest leverage to
RAISE your own ability to become high in character and a�ract women, make the right
decisions and succeed in life you are in the right place.

In a sense R.D. is the cognitive form of metaphysics under ‘Universal Science’. Keep in
mind that I’m not an acclaimed metaphysician (they’re coming back!) or philosopher
although I do happen to think at that level.

We will not be looking at more complex metaphysical elements such as gravitational

pull or the relationship between two slightly different apples, but rather how more
practical and important things in your life relate to each other, the root cause of your
repression and (re)gaining your massive natural character that women respond to like
crazy (and much more effectively than any other training program out there).

I am concerned with the application of relational dynamics in life. Hence I will be talk-
ing about more practical things than Aristotle did when it comes to applying personal
power (Alpha) and being effective with women; hence, Alpha Relational Dynamics.
We will also be looking at ‘alpha’ women.

Don’t worry, it won’t get too complex; however, it is quite profound and everything
may not ‘hit you’ all at once. I have not even studied metaphysics myself because I
haven’t had to, I’ve reached a level of understanding throughout life that allows me to
have a tremendous practical and personal power to produce and create effect.

Relational Dynamics is Real-ational dynamics in a sense. We will deal with the Rela-
tional Formula and elements. R.D. is taking the representational best of philosophy,
science, sociology, psychology and then understanding and applying it.

Within it is the formula for power, influence, production, effect and even sex.

Within Relational Dynamics we will be looking at Cause and Effect. We will also look
at Stimulus - Response. We will look at Causality and we will differentiate the differ-
ent elements that have repressed you and align them where they belong.

I want to make things simple, practical and applicable for you. Yes I have always got
A’s in psychology and I can run circles around many sociologists. I’m not claiming to
be ‘whatever’ so critics can start criticizing me, I’m just concerned with being effective
and ge�ing this level of knowledge across to you to apply to your life.

Applying Alpha R.D. you will become fearless around women. Your natural character
will raise because we will pinpoint the forces that have repressed your independence
and we will put them in their rightful place so that your character can rise where it
belongs.

We will deal with the root elements of power and influence which are involved and
understand their relationship to you and your relationship to THEM. We can also use
R.D. to differentiate the three feminine characteristics and your relationship to them.

This will allow you to handle and potentially seduce the most beautiful women in the
world.

‘Positive thinking’ combined with ignorance of the relational elements involved won’t
get you anywhere. There’s no reason to be naive. I’m going to uncover incredulous
things which you will probably get furious at because they’ve been hidden from you
your entire life but have influenced you beyond fathoming.

We’re going to get you to take your power back so you can live as a man of real charac-
ter. A man that easily stands out to women. A man that is closest to sex at all possible
times. A man that all he has to do is meet new women and build up enough history
with them in order for them to justify having sex with him (you!).

We’re going to leverage all kinds of power in your favor and we’re going to make up
for those compounded years of inner turmoil and regression. This is where it starts,
right here.

You’re going to be privy to information which other top expert’s in the world aren’t
even aware of because they haven’t differentiated themselves from the elements nord
defined them clearly.

And I can name names because through their words and actions I can tell they don’t
have it yet.

You will have more knowledge than them on certain issues. Alpha Relational Dynam-
ics will ground you in the truth and the truth will set you free; free indeed. Relational
Dynamics is your path to power.

You’ve seen those websites where ‘Everything you know about dating is wrong’...well,
everything you know about those websites is (literally) wrong. This is the real deal.
Those teacher’s are still trying to find their way through a confusing social reality (and
that’s the ones that come the CLOSEST to the truth). It’s simpler and yet more pro-
found than they can even see.

Everything that exists is formed of elements that have a relationship to each other,
whether naturally created, man-made or a combination of both. You can take anything
that currently exists and break it down into the independent elements to understand it
more.
This will give you knowledge to be able to potentially combine those elements to form
new creations or productions. It will also give you the power to solve great problems.

Ignorance of Relational Dynamics or in our case, ‘your lack of how your independence
relates to women, society, and the three root behavioral characteristics women repre-
sent’ is exactly why you are confused, inconsistent and frustrated with women.

You’ve been taught to deal with impure relational elements. It’s all you’ve seen or
known. Yet the most effective of ANYTHING involves pure relational elements.

In R.D. we have to look at each independent element in it’s purest, constructive form.
We have to work with the root cause because evidently everything is simple, it’s only
the combination of different elements together that have compounded to form systems
that have led to repression and ignorance of one’s own relationship to the elements.

Throughout this book you will understand R.D. a lot more as well as understand how
it applies specifically to living a lifestyle of power and effectiveness with women. In
fact, those men who are successful with women are applying R.D. without their cogni-
tion of it but they are not le�ing any other source repress their own natural character.
They are usually social outcasts and we’ll get into that.

It is only because of the tremendous forces of influence that have repressed our power
as men, that we now have to take a real proactive angle on solving it. Because we
aren’t the social outcast’s (who have not let any social influence oppress their charac-
ter), but because we grew up as part of the social matrix, the only solution is to have
cognition of our relationship TO the powers that have repressed our characters and
independence.

Besides Alpha R.D. I see no other way other than to be a pure social outcast or to some-
how modify our behavior to adapt to the unnatural society itself (yet still be ultimately
powerless as a pawn). Otherwise there is no pure power unless you grew up so it
didn’t affect you and you jetset to Europe every two weeks.

Relational Dynamics and COGNITION (knowledge and awareness) of your relation-

ship to the social matrix and female powers is about the only thing le� for you to live a
life that is free from repression.

..A lifestyle that will empower you because the power of truth speaks beyond the pow-
er’s of contrived influence. Relational Dynamics and your cognition of your relation-
ship to the power’s of influence (based on the Relational Formula) will truly set you
free and empower you.
Your character will be free, you will have power as a man, your physiology will
change, you will be congruent, you will be a man of character, power and influence
and you will become Alpha who has broken free from the amazing forces of bondage
and you will become what women want.

THAT’s Relational Dynamics.

Understanding your true independence and your relationship to the forces of influence
will empower you more than any NLP or hypnosis can because you are aligning your-
self to the elements of life, the universal principles. We will do this clearly in the video
‘Relational Mapping’.

YOU are at the root of what ma�ers here. It’s making sense out of a very oppressive
and confusing world.

You will be able to be REAL and be yourself. You won’t care what women think of you
and they’ll want you more. You won’t give your power up to anyone unless you want
to.

To be effective with women you have to be accountable for your actions. What women
want is a real man of character who is independent and not nervous or afraid of her so
that she can trust you to ‘take care of her’ in the bedroom.

So to sum this Chapter up:

Relational Dynamics extends beyond chemistry or physics, it represents and essentially

defines everything. It also includes the relationships between men and women, man
and nature, man and anything else.

Alpha Relational Dynamics is your awareness or cognition that a relationship DOES

indeed exist. R.D. includes your ability to differentiate each of the independent ele-
ments that are involved in any relationship, production, or situation and align them
properly for synergy.

At the root of R.D. is the Relational Formula (see that Chapter for more information).

I encourage you to see the world through relational dynamics in that you understand
your relationship to (as much as) everything around you..this is kin to universal align-
ment; your ‘global game’. It’s much more powerful than your limited ‘inner character’
alone.
You will see throughout this program and you will be aware that you can exercise ‘free
will’ to influence the future or your intended outcome.

Seek the truth by looking at the pure elements and their relationship to each other in
any problem. The good news is that real and greater truth is on your side. Will you
accept it?
 Chapter 2

Power of Awareness
From dictionary.com

Cognition is; “The mental faculty of knowing, which includes perceiving, recognizing,
conceiving, judging, reasoning, and imagining.” or “a conscious intellectual act “

Not surprisingly the antonym of cognition is ‘ignorance or unawareness’.

So if you’re not cognizant (or aware) of the underlying reasoning or elemental truths
that exist around you, then you are unaware or ignorant of them. This is how most
people live. They’re ignorant to their relationship with most everything around them
(especially beholden to the power of the social matrix).

They’re not aware of their own power or who has the most influence in each situation,
therefore they will be ‘used’ o�en by others and lack true power in their lives. Natural-
ly women are more aware of the energy or relationship between people but naturally
they’re not supposed to use it to their advantage other than say to empathize.

They’ll keep their intuition and judgments to themselves or share it with a few close
friends. Now with their extreme socialization they are not as intuitive as they once
used to be, especially in socially distorted environments.

When you consciously pick up your perception and awareness of the elements around
you and how they interact, you will be more aware of the knowledge of reality rather
than be ignorant of it. You will become the influencER and not just being influenced or
programmed. You will have massive self-control and wisdom beyond your age.

Do you have to be cognizant (consciously aware and knowledgeable) of the processes

and relationships around you in order to get through life?

No...you can be ignorant to the awareness of why things are the way they are and get
through just fine (just with a lot more struggle, challenge and drama) but when you
consciously increase your perception of Relational Dynamics, you will be able to un-
derstand the answers and direction to take quite soon.

You will look for real value in everything instead of just hopping on the bandwagon.
As a man, you’ll have the strength and intestinal fortitude to follow your own path.
And if you aren’t cognitive of the relational dynamics around you, you are either un-
aware or ignorant. Ignorance is not bliss. When the media keeps you ignorant or un-
aware of their massive power of influence over you, they keep you under the influence;
just where they want it.

If you don’t have any moral judgment or reasoning ability to filter (before our new-
found cognition), you will continue to be massively programmed by the forces that are
out to influence you. They are the ones with power.

More practically, when you are AWARE OF your actual relationship to society, televi-
sion, women, female independence, female sexuality, other men, etc. you will have
more power. You will BE empowered.

Why? Because (applied) KNOWLEDGE is POWER. There is a great veil hidden over
the land of countless millions of ignorant people that keep them from ‘knowing’. It’s a
perfect trap too, they only see what’s in front of them.

You’ll see how much power you have lost and how others have o�en abused that
power even though you let them because you were unaware or ignorant (of your true
relationship to them). You might even get kind of mad for a while at how much others
have used or abused you.

In ‘The Matrix’ remember the scene where Morpheus tests Neo in the dojo? He says
something like “I can’t really have this much power.” Relational Dynamics and self-
awareness will empower you to realize that you can do almost anything especially
when you leverage other people into the equation. Why?

Because you DO have the power; the power of one and it is great. It is greater than
your inner state of mind because you can harness natural and universal energy as well
as synergize with social ideals by going N.I.S. Alpha.

So in a way, all of these other people who aren’t cognitive (aware) of what’s really go-
ing on (relational dynamics) and don’t know their relationship clearly to all of these
other independent stimuli out there (they’re just being a sponge response), they are liv-
ing their lives blinded or unaware and have limited power...

Other forces will continue to influence them beyond what they would accept if they
just became cognitive of their own true independence and control.

I didn’t even know about Plato’s story/analogy but one of my student’s compared my
work to Plato’s Alleghory of the Cave.
The answers to just about everything can be found in relational dynamics and alliance
with it. These are the elements and laws of life. This is a tremendous amount of power
that you can harness and all you have to do is be AWARE of or cognizant to them.

The years of ignorance and powerlessness will be shed away once you are aware of
your independence and your relationship to the powers of influence around you. This
entire study on Relational Dynamics is a cognitive process for you.

We’re thinking about it and bringing awareness to the forefront and we’ll go through
the different elements and examples so you can really understand your relationship to
major forces of influence in your life. We’ll see things for the way they really are in-
stead of being unaware (like most people live) and only seeing what others wanted you
to see.

And as men, we’ll use our newfound power for positive good into the world (instead
of negative value like ‘Scarface’).

When you become aware of what has been really going on with the social matrix it
SHOULD piss you off. For me, I generally realized how much power I lost over time
and was almost angry at times thinking about it but I took my power back and I’ve
been essentially fearless ever since.

If you don’t feel some kind of emotion yet, you haven’t fully differentiated it’s clear
place (the social matrix) and you haven’t taken your power back. My relationship with
it is ONLY interdependent. I hope you can reach my level of power and awareness on
this because it will empower you for your lifestyle.

Let me restate that because it’s SO important; when I became fully AWARE and percep-
tive of the social matrix (it all hit me at once), my entire physiology changed and I was
finally at a level of inner peace (though I was pissed off at the level of control the social
matrix had even over me and how I’d been blinded all those years).

You’ll know your place in relation to the world and in the circle of life.

You’ll also be aware of ‘cons’. Coincidentally that’s what it all is; the social matrix is a
CON(struct) of a group of stimuli to get an entire culture to ‘respond’ and be ignorant
to the level of power they hold over them.

They are repressing humanity in a way but doing it so SNEAKILY that it’s incredibly
pervasive and invisible so that no one hardly is ever aware of it. UNTIL NOW BABY.

Until you are CRYSTAL CLEAR on the power and influence of media (television, mu-
sic, radio, media, magazines, advertising) and can clearly see what it is doing, you’re
going to be less than the man you could (and should) be.

If you’re still thinking, but I want to get back to my SportCenter it’s on in a few minutes
then you haven’t got it yet.

If you continue to flirt with the enemy (of your pure freedom) like that (without reach-
ing full independence), then you’re still in a co-dependent (disempowering) relation-
ship.

I recommend stepping aside HARDCORE, and consciously taking your power back
and THEN a�er quite a while going back (if you feel you can control yourself and your
choices for YOURSELF) when you can be interdependent.

We do this in the video training of Relational Mapping.

You should only go back (if at all) when you feel that your interested has faded or that
you have your independence now and can take it or leave it.

Hey, I watched only 2 t.v. shows but I stopped doing that as well. There’s nothing
that is ‘so important’ that you have to see it. I’ve even missed the past few Academy
Awards (as I’ll be in that industry later).

You don’t ‘have to’ see anything and until you can ‘get that’, they’re the ones who have
the power and influence over you. Why? Because that would be a dependency. This is
serious stuff too by the way. They’ve got 100 millions of people wrapped around their
fingers.

That’s what they’re good at...reeling and sucking you into it so you just ‘have to’ keep
watching a�er the commercials (so you can watch the commercials).

Do you have to be a ‘radical’ and completely disavow your relationship to it just to be

fully independent? Like moving to another country, etc.? No.

You CAN BE interdependent with the social matrix (win/win) which basically means
that you are aware of all of the messages coming in and if something crosses your inde-
pendent barrier without giving you worthwhile value you’ll stop that source of influ-
ence from coming in.

But I talk more about this elsewhere but it’s not just ignorantly soaking it all in, it’s a
full awareness of your own power and your relation to those influences.

Awareness and then cognition of Relational Dynamics (the elements involved in situ-
ations) is your key to clarity, power and influence. It will raise your natural character
massively once you can differentiate the major repressing elements and put them in
proper relationship to you where they belong with Relational Mapping.

Clarifying the social matrix and seeing it is one of the most important things you can
do. Differentiating it and clarifying it, that’s awareness. I teach you to see it as a single
independent element that is separate from you when training yourself to ground your
relation to it.

Don’t remain ignorant like most people in society are conditioned. This cognition here
of relational elements is your key to freedom and power.
 Chapter 3

The Relational Formula

Where I saw the ‘Relational Formula’ was first in Stephen Covey’s “7 Habits of Highly
Effective People” and this is the one thing that stood out the most to me; the relational
formula itself.

Since reading that book about a decade ago, I have taken this concept and have used it
to start to realize what is actually going on in life. I have seen and continue to see the
world through the eyes of the universal (relational) elements as much as possible.

Doing so has caused me to rapidly develop years beyond my age (if not decades) in
certain areas. So for you, understanding the relational formula and how it applies
(throughout this book) to your life will give you a much greater insight into living a
more successful life. Here it is:

Dependence - Independence - Interdependence

So this is it above. The three components of the relational formula (and foundation of
Relational Dynamics) are dependence, independence and interdependence. So let’s
start ge�ing into them.

When you were born you were dependent on your mother and father for support. It
was a necessity because without certain survival needs taken care of, you would have
died.

You were helpless for so many years and they had to take care of your food, diapers,
and safety. Once you reached a certain age (officially or legally) of around 18 years old,
you became essentially ‘independent’.

When you unofficially became independent you could now completely take care of
yourself without ‘needing’ anyone else to do it for you. Say you ended high school
and went off to college on your own. There is a lot of growing at that time because you
are finding that you have to make all decisions on your own now. You had to get your
own food, pay for your meals and lodging in many cases.

Note how the military categorizes people under the age of 18 as ‘dependents’ of their
parents.

So why am I talking about all of this boring stuff that you already know or take for
granted? Because if we’re going to have a real and permanent change, we have to look
at the things that other seduction or self-help guru’s don’t deal with. We have to go to
the ROOTS.

All roots lie in the relational formula. Each atom is ‘independent’ and how it relates
with others to form other independent elements relating to other systems or elements
determines almost everything.

Herein lies one of the secrets of life; you really are independent and if you are, you
would only operate interdependently with other people. But very few people do. In-
terdependence is the ideal. Ideally it’s a win/win situation only called synergy.

If you could live a purely independent life (which includes financial independence)
and you were fully actualized in your independence, you would be fearless in all en-
vironments, people would respect you more, business deals would be easy to put to-
gether, you would be able to prevent most negative types of people and relationships,
you would be able to feel other people’s energy and you would be able to add value to
the world.

You would also be able to a�ract healthy, beautiful people into your life as well as solve
minor to great problems with a fraction of the mental effort.

You see, at the age of 18 (in the western culture) people are thrown out into the world
of social influence . It tells them who to be, how to act, etc. so what happens is that
although by default an adult is legally ‘independent’..they’re not.

People become co-dependent on their job, work, loved ones, relationships, etc. and find
ways to justify it (and the social matrix helps them justify it too). They are not really
being free. If you were FULLY independent, you would be completely FREE.

You would be at a level of liberation and quality of life that few in the world have ex-
perienced or enjoyed. You wouldn’t let your own immediate social environment ‘dic-
tate’ who you truly were.

You would be rich in inner and outer beauty. That’s pure independence. It’s a level
of self-control and self-esteem that drives you and fulfills you. It’s an exact awareness
of how and where all other forces of influence stand in relation to your own personal
power. It’s being able to sense con artists, incongruity, trouble and B.S. from a mile
away.
Doing the Relational Mapping video exercise will help you truly gain your relational
Independence. Then it’s up to you to apply it to all areas of your life. One of the few
co-dependencies I have le� is breaking through to financial Independence.

It’s a level of clarity and intuition that you can have about reality and other people, just
like I do. It’s being able to see right through a woman’s beauty to her real and true self.
It’s about knowing whether a relationship could even work out or not.

It’s about being able to handle yourself in threatening situations, around drama and
crises and to clearly make the right decision to save yourself and your loved ones.

All heroes are ‘Independent’.

So there must be varying degrees of Independence but we don’t have to get into that.
Your ideal should be self-actualization (pure independence) as well as financial inde-
pendence for absolute freedom.

This would mean ge�ing rid of all of the forces (or ge�ing control over them) that have
currently repressed you from being your true full self.

Remember seeing Maslow’s hierarchy of needs? Self-actualization is at the very top.

And if you look down at the ‘ants marching’ trying to find themselves in life but never
taking the time to have some pure independent time, they are so close yet so far from
self-actualization themselves.

Once you’ve got your basic needs taken care of, you can reach a higher level of aware-
ness and power. You can grow and be ‘more’ in character and depth. You can improve
and represent things beyond yourself within your own independence.

I adopted the philosophy of kaizen (continuous improvement) to my life 9 years ago

and have been doing that ever since. I’m a Renaissance man of sorts. And what so
many people will do is not take full accountability.

They’ll blame their job or their boss. It’s quite clear then to me that they are not fully
independent. They have a choice and are making their relationship to work and others
a co-dependency (out of necessity and we’ll need each other).

There is a level of power that you can have that you’re not aware of in your indepen-
dence, a true power of one. That can be leveraged by giving more value to more peo-
ple because they will help you grow stronger and richer.
If you haven’t taken full accountability and responsibility it’s time to say ‘the buck
stops here’. No one else can do it for you either because you are independent. Be in-
terdependent only in your relationships with others. Even at work. Hold your weight
but go above and beyond..add value and you’ll receive it in return.

Improve yourself in your free time or start a business on the side. Use the time that
you used to watch t.v. to take control over your life and start taking up different hob-
bies that you’ve always wanted to do.

If you’re dealing with people who use words like ‘need’, ‘have to’, or are making ex-
cuses or pu�ing blame on ANYTHING or anyone outside of themselves..well, it’s
predictable. That data you have extrapolated is telling you a lot about their ability or
(inter)dependability.

Do you really want to work with this person or are they going to end up making ex-
cuses and draining your energy down? You want to work with someone who is an
independent go-ge�er. Keep this in mind if you are interviewing people.

They should be willing to ‘add value’ because they are independent and their energy
can spread outwards, not asking about what they can get away with in a work environ-
ment because they don’t take full accountability.

Do not treat women and dating as a co-dependency. You do not ‘need’ women. You
do just fine on your own. In fact if you have any ‘needy’ behavior coming across, she’ll
feel creeped out.

Keep it an interdependency; a win/win situation but remember with a�raction and dat-
ing/mating it’s not a business deal or quid pro quo (this for that), it’s in the RMA. That
means you have to remain the stimulus for her to respond to. Any variation on that
and she’ll lose interest or a�raction.

Let’s talk more about relating the elements.

A rock group is composed of different members; each playing their own independent
part yet all of them are working together interdependently to form a synergy called
music.

They each can play their own part or just start doing their own thing but it’s when the
group synergizes the talents all together that there is great harmony. These are the ele-
ments. They are in a win/win relationship with each other and have to be or the musi-
cal components wouldn’t mesh together synergistically and it would sound like a train
wreck.

Socially developed harmony is conscious and logical. It can be learned. Nature has in-
terdependence and harmony through itself, well, naturally. As an independent human
you have the ability to choose and learn any skillset that you could imagine (or even
make up new ones).

Because it is consciously developed by man, it can be learned, taught, re-taught and

relearned. For example (name anything); skateboarding, video games, football, music
production, cooking, carpentry, designing, surfing, flying a plane.

All of these are consciously developed by man. Even within each of them there are in-
dependent elements. For construction it’s tools and the materials you’re working with.

Construction, cooking, sports, teamwork, music, products, so�ware, hardware, and

anything you can imagine ALL have elements that they are comprised and composed
of. Most people will never realize this but when you can, it will give you an extraordi-
nary power of awareness and ability to produce as well.

Cooking is a synergy of different (food) independent elements. That’s all it is. Synergy
is the positive result like a really good and delicious meal. If the ingredients (elements)
are mixed together haphazardly or in the wrong proportion it isn’t very synergistic or
interdependent and doesn’t yield the desired result.

To be an expert at anything you basically have to be an expert at using the elements

and combining them together so that they are in a win/win relationship.

If you build houses, you are a master of the skillsets and components required to in-
terdependently produce a house. If you build computers you know that everything
has to be ‘just right’ or in other words; in perfect harmony with it’s surrounding and
counterpart components in order for it to work properly (or synergize) into the desired
result.

If any of the elements drops in it’s representational independence or quality, it will af-
fect the quality of the entire relationship.

If you have built your own computer before, you were being a producer (of sorts)...
you were taking different components (independent elements) and synergizing them
together into one final independent piece of which you could operate interdependently
(win/win) with it to achieve other tasks.

Cohesive thought, writing, even business analysis...all of it is just pulling together in-
dependent components (ie. words) and using them as tools to create a greater purpose.
Even a monkey can type Shakespeare if given enough time..but think about this; isn’t a
best-selling novel still just a collection of words?

It doesn’t even do anything until you take on a relationship with it; most likely a win/
win relationship where your investment of time can yield entertainment or an imagi-
native journey including emotional response on your part.

If an author can create a high level interdependent experience of trading value between
the reader and the book, then he or she can have a success on their hands (as long as
other people are having a great experience with it as well).

When you pick up a drink, you have taken on a relationship with it as well. The atoms
have been arranged into a substance (ie. a bo�le) so that it can hold the synergistic re-
quirements of that specific drink so that you can enjoy a win/win relationship with the
drink itself.

You name it and we can talk about it’s elements and how they have a relationship.
How about photography? Digital or Film?

Everything is comprised of elements (including air), EVEN THOUGHTS and thoughts

are turned into actions to have some sort of affect or relationship on the world or with
others. It’s all relational dynamics.

Different languages have different units of phonetics, symbols or le�ers which begin to
form the synthesis of communication.

We already talked about your body which is comprised of countless elements and syn-
ergistic systems (to remain healthy). In fact, sickness occurs when one of the elements
doesn’t uphold it’s own independent weight anymore...this then has a negative affect
on the other elements within that system. For example, blood clots.

There are even different kinds of music which either REQUIRE you to forcibly listen
to it (stimulus-response) and there are other types that actually help empower YOU to
think more in that time.

You see, there really ARE different types of relationships that are going on, which are
o�en hidden.

For example coffeehouse or atmospheric music, even jazz. That seemingly subtle dif-
ference can make a huge difference. Especially when you consider the disempowering
lyrics that are out there...I see it coming from a mile away and it hits me as I’m instant-
ly aware and I will turn off that source and prevent it’s passing influence.

Different genres of music are comprised of quite o�en different tools or instruments.
But entire process is the same; the synthesis of elements.

Understanding relational dynamics will also help you solve relationship problems and
get over loss and grievances faster (such as X-girlfriends or boyfriends).

Look at stadium events like the World Cup, American football, etc.. The centerfield ac-
tion or game is the stimulus and all of the people are the response in that kind of rela-
tional environment.

On a side note; some people make it a dependency...their team MUST win because
their entire being and emotional self is wrapped up in it.

LOOK AT THE REAL RELATIONSHIPS THAT EXIST.

My thoughts; don’t make it a dependency (even though there is so much emotion tied
up in it). If your team loses an important event, see it for what it is; yes it might be
more than a game but it’s not on a lifeline of life itself.

When someone shoots a futbol player for scoring in his own goal, they were viewing
the relationship as a co-dependency (we ‘need’ to win).

There is a lot of emotion connotated with dependency. Words such as ‘must’ and
‘need’.

Look at the love song lyrics that are out there again.

I have refrained consciously from using these words (of dependency) in my life and I
stop myself and rephrase the sentence to keep my own independence and relationship
with everything so that I’m the powerful chooser. Why? Because I am independent
and I operate only interdependently with others and other forces.

I do not operate out of dependency and when others use words like that, it clues me
into their character some more and is quite clear.

Because you’re independent, you can differentiate yourself from any co-dependencies.
You have that ability.

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH WOMEN IS never a DEPENDENCY, so don’t make it

that way. When you understand your independence that means you’re not going to
hand your balls over to her on a pla�er with your words and actions.

Stop yourself if you find you’re in a moment where you’re acting ‘dependent’ on her or
ge�ing too excited because you’re ge�ing close to ‘lucky’ or ‘ge�ing some’. You have
to remain independent and that means being in control over yourself and taking ac-
countability for your actions.

Within your independence, you no longer ‘need’ anyone. So now you can operate in a
win/win relationship with them and everything else (such as society) instead of le�ing
them try to make non win/win relationships with you.

Other experts will look at it and not be able to differentiate ‘when’ exactly that you’re
behaving a wussy or that the slight subtle shi� of power has changed but when you
can see the world through relationship dynamics (your relationship to her and her
power, etc.) you’ll KNOW when your independence is being violated or when you’re
‘slipping’ into social programming or giving her the undeserved (stimulus) power.

If you look at people walking down a busy street during lunch hour, they are all going
their independent way yet usually avoid running into each other..this isn’t an empow-
ering (transformational) or influential level of interdependence.

When you give money to buy say a magazine, that is transactional interdependence.

Their relationship at that time is usually to avoid the other independent people walk-
ing around. But there are countless opportunities in life where you can start a chain of
events because of your influence as a power of one.

The ideal is to synergize with people by being at a transformational level of interde-

pendence. Where you can add value to their life and vice versa.

When you’re really excited about something and talking to your best friend or a friend
and they’re kind of ignoring you (because they’re thinking about their independence),
this isn’t real synergy. You must have their full independent a�ention at a high level in
order to have real synergy.

A d.j., comedian, or back in front of a large crowd is having an influence (heck, babies
might get made that night because of it). Their relationship to the crowd is that of in-
terdependence with each person (ideally called ‘synergy’) unless an independent per-
son lowers their own independence or their opinion of the band or their relationship to
the crowd.

Ideally for all, it is a high level of interdependence where win/win value is exchanged
both ways. The band gets, money, fame, fulfillment, influence, power and a�ention
and the audience gets more value and entertainment added to their independent life.

In any environment though (especially social) there are all kinds of relationships
that are going on. The influential trajectories are the hidden ‘power’ that is being ex-
changed all the time. To deal with the entire world, just ‘be’ independent and have
N.E.O. control as in the exercises.

The more you understand Relational Dynamics and the Relational Formula, the more
it will sink in and then you’ll be looking at the world with eyes that see and know in-
stead of eyes that are ignorant.

Sports games are slightly different because they’re not fully there to entertain the
crowd alone (they’re there to win and o�en get paid) but there is an interdependent
relationship there too.

ALL sports are interdependent within itself. The relationship of each player, the ball,
the stadium and the crowd is all interdependent (consciously produced for a win/win
relationship). The relationship of the coach in that he has power and influence over
them.

Everything and anything is basically comprised of the Relational Formula and you can
‘break it down’. Look at a football team or any sports team; it’s all independent play-
ers working together interdependently in relationship to an opposing team who is also
working together. The greater the effectiveness of each independent player and their
synergy as a team, the more they’ll win.

That’s probably why Greece beat the U.S. National Basketball team..our player’s were
TOO independent and cocky and just didn’t synergize ‘together’ very well.

When you can understand the relational dynamics involved in anything you’ll start to
see how everything fits together and you can solve problems by dealing with the root
issues in the relational formula.

The war in the middle East continues because one or both ‘sides’ are being less than
transactional interdependent. Because they do have to ‘relate’ to each other somehow,
they are a lower state of interdependent ie. a ‘win-lose’ state of interdependence in the
minds of both (it’s in the book ‘7 Habits of Highly Effective People’).

They are trying to repress the independence of the other side (ie. Hezbollah vs. Israel
or Allied security forces vs. insurgents). This is a coercive power-submission or win-
lose type of relationship.
In order for us to win, you must lose.

Sports teams do this but in a healthy way because they still respect the other side off
of the court. Terrorist ideology has a metaframe of win-lose or even lose-lose. Suicide
bombers are lose-lose. They’ll take their own life down with the lives of others.

You can find ‘relationships’ everywhere so I encourage you to see things through the
eyes of the relational formula and how they relate to each other (relational dynamics).

To broker peace, both sides would either have to compromise or respect each other’s
independence. Unfortunately these ba�les (of winning influence) have been raging for
1,000’s of years and neither side wants to give up their own independence (rooted on
their ideology).

Ba�les for Independence and ba�les for power/influence have helped form much of
history and geopolitics.

The generic definition of physics is: The science of ma�er and energy and of interac-
tions between the two.

Remember the ‘elements’ they talked about back in high school? Without bringing that
back up a�er all this, I think you get the idea. Everything has to be a part of relational
dynamics or it doesn’t exist.

It’s just a metaphysical re-frame and global context.

Traffic itself is an interdependence. All of these independent vehicles (including air-

planes) are going their own way, respecting the independent of others in order to not
make a co-dependent relationship.

Accidents happen because of co-dependencies, never because of interdependencies.

For example the driver lowers in his/her independent competence (even for a few sec-
onds) and/or a vehicle itself lowers in it’s independent competence by a part failing.

Then this interferes with the independence of other competent drivers, throws off pure
(transactional) interdependence and creates a co-dependent relationship (or TROU-
BLE). Think about the truth of that.

And also, if a young kid just can’t drive very good, then they haven’t reach a level of
independent competence (or control) where he/she should be out there on the road to
have a relationship with other drivers and the road.
Here’s an interesting concept. Why on earth there are so few traffic accidents in Bang-
kok especially considering the level of chaos? Entire families riding on mopeds, bum-
per to bumper traffic and nonstop busy-ness.

I call it organized chaos. If it were in NYC or in Buenos Aires or elsewhere, all kinds of
accidents would be happening.

It comes down to the relational formula. You are a BETTER driver if you are relation-
ally AWARE. Aware of your own independence and your RELATIONSHIP to every-
thing else that is going on around you (primarily the other drivers).

Most accidents happen because one driver was ‘faulty’ and they dropped in their level
of independent capability.

I would say put fate on your side by always being independent (competent) and be-
ing quite aware of what’s going on around you. That’s why there are more accidents
with some people who are on cel phones or focusing on just themselves or what went
wrong at work.

Relational Dynamics can save your life. It will also prevent a lot of stupid drama.
When I’m approaching a door, I know how some people just kick it open so everytime
I’ll approach the door from the side. I call this ‘pro-state’. It’s kept me out of a lot of
trouble where other people fall into co-dependencies.

And sure enough, just a while ago some guy threw open the door from the parking
garage where I lived and it would have hit me on the head but I approached from the
side. I always make sure there aren’t cars coming around the corner in a parking ga-
rage to prevent co-dependencies and drama.

If you don’t have ‘control’, you don’t have independence in a situation and you are ask-
ing for trouble or failure. That applies to anything. If you don’t have ‘control’ of the
basketball, you’re going to get walked over.

Take the interdependence of driving seriously but casually...just be aware of it and

don’t lower your competence. If I even have a feeling that something is going to hap-
pen bad with my car I will separate myself (in relationship) to other vehicles so that I
have some room for error and this actually saved me from bigger drama once.

I spun out at 76 mph because the rear right tire somehow exploded (vehicular lowering
of independent competence or loss of control) but fortunately (as always) I remained at
a superhigh level of independent competence myself in order to be able to handle the
situation to the best possible conclusion.

Most people in that situation would probably ‘respond’ dramatically to the situation
and lower their own independent competence to make the situation worse but not me;
I remained the independent stimulus in thought so I could still work with the situation
effectively as possible.

Fortunately the closest car was 1/3 mile behind me a�er I parked on the side of the
ditch to inspect.

Point is; awareness and following closely to relational dynamics and being indepen-
dent at all times has already saved countless people’s lives. Ie. Firemen who are inde-
pendent/competent who know how to act because they know their relationship to fire,
parachutists know their relationship with their parachute, a relationally aware person
doesn’t follow the crowd in a club fire but finds the alternate escape route, etc.

Even Jason Bourne who will quickly grab a tool is creating a win/win relationship (in
his reality) because he is fully independent and instantly can assess and know his RE-
LATIONSHIP to his environment and surroundings.

Most people don’t have a clue and it puts them in potential trouble especially when
they ‘respond’ (and lower their independence) or ‘follow the crowd’. BE independent
at all times and it will allow you to handle crises as calm and clear as possible, using
your clear awareness and relationship to your surroundings.

If you’re stuck in a disempowered, ‘responsive’ state of mind there is going to be more

bad drama in your life. Use relational mapping to differentiate yourself and you will
see the world differently and live with a lot less drama.

They key to mastering yourself is not just within yourself but it’s really about under-
standing your RELATIONSHIP to everything else and the powers of influence. You
are ultimately an independent person (officially actually once you reached the age of
18).

Notice again that in the military, people under the age of 18 are called ‘dependents’.

The ideal way you should habitually operate DAILY with everyone and everything
around you is ONLY interdependently. That is in win-win relationships. That is what
powerful and influential people and businesses do.

Co-dependent and blameful/pass-the-buck type of relationships (of all kinds) will fail
because they lower the independence of one or more parties and they drain the energy
Take accountability for yourself and your actions. It’s pathetic how much ‘pass the
buck’ mentality exists. Part of the justice system makes me sick too; I’m not even going
into that right now but involves relational dynamics and karma.

Understanding relational dynamics will also save you from financial loss and destruc-
tion. My father has chosen bad business partners in the past. If you can simply and
clearly know to Never work with anyone who isn’t fully independent/competent them-
selves (or proven) you will save yourself from drama or destruction.

You MUST hold your own independence. You cannot fully ‘trust’ others...what I’m
saying is..always make sure you have a back-up plan and can confide in yourself. Even
your best friends will fail you.

But if you can’t trust yourself or hold your own commitments (and you can see that
in other people) how on earth are you going to be able to trust ANYONE else...you’ll
‘hope’ that they pull their end through because you can’t!

I can see red flags sometimes the INSTANT I meet someone. If you’re not ‘aware’ of
these signs (and they are o�en quite small), then extrapolate that person’s action into
the future and you’ve got a pa�ern of destructiveness and untrustworthiness.

If someone talks about someone behind their back to you...you can be assured they’re
doing the same thing to you.

I am independent so I won’t put other people down and rarely talk behind their backs
and even then I balance it out by saying something good about them. This is Karma.
The Golden Rule.

I think it boils down to this; the people are each independent and aware of themselves
and they are also aware of (and have respect for) other people. It’s this respectful inde-
pendent (one) and interdependent (relationship to all others) value that prevents acci-
dents from happening too o�en.

So for your empowerment, your true independent self is unlimited as it can continue to
grow and improve in what you represent and in the value that you can bring and ex-
change with others.

Remember and ‘be’ as one with yourself. Don’t be a social byproduct without full
control, you ARE independent. This can be clearly done to give you more power and
control than EVER through the video relational mapping exercise.
Socialistic systems were put in place to put more focus on the communal good instead
of the individual. You don’t have to live under that oppression because ironically the
social matrix is almost more socialistic in it’s influence than actual socialistic systems
because they’re not held back or coerced into becoming someone they’re not sure about
that they can’t even see.

If a friend says he’ll call you back and doesn’t, that’s ok. Don’t hold it against him.
It’s not a dependency. Friends will let you down sometimes in big ways when you
thought you could count on them. Think of a time this has happened.

I had a friend who said he would meet me in Miami but he cancelled it and I was stuck
by myself that weekend but it didn’t ma�er; R.D. I was independent as well back then
so I didn’t let it affect me beyond that.

The point is you can’t really depend on anyone and most people can’t even depend (or
trust) on themselves. That’s why as an independent man it’s important that you have
the utmost integrity to doing what you say you do. This is also why I’m VERY wary
when other people to ask me to make commitments.

Truth is, I only make 2 or 3 real ‘commitments’ (of new habits) per year and it’s even
hard to keep them. If you know you’re not independently 100% ‘GO’ on a certain deci-
sion that someone is forcing you into, take time out to go over it with yourself so you
can make a solid yes or no decision by looking at all the relational elements involved
and seeing if it represents your ideals or where you’re going.

I remember voting against my entire LC (local commi�ee) in Washington at a confer-

ence because I felt the other National candidate more represented my ideals (more in-
terdependent actually). I defied the peer pressure of that immediate social group and
they thought I was joking but I stuck to my guns anyways.

They voted for the other candidate because it was majority ruled to get our one vote
as an LC. It takes strength and your newfound independence will be tested quite a bit
but you don’t have to fold under any pressure if you know where you stand.

I was on a plane to Germany from Detroit and there was this really frustrated man
who was cussing and swearing. He was a seat next to me. What did I do? It didn’t
bother me one iota.

I remained fully Independent and my heart didn’t skip a beat. I didn’t ‘cave in’ to a
response of his stimulus environment; he would have had the power then. I would say
99% of people would have been ‘affected’ by a situation like that.
He kept ranting and raving for quite a while but I retained complete independent
composure and did my thing; flipping through a magazine or whatever. My energy
remained high in character. Don’t give your power up for anyone and go through the
video exercises to be that high in character.

Throughout the rest of the program you’ll be�er understand the relational formula
itself. Remember though that it is the Root of Relational Dynamics:

Dependence - Independence - Interdependence

Notes:

Action step: Be conscious everytime you use dependent-oriented words and rephrase
the sentence until you are consciously always being interdependent with everything
around you.

Relational dynamics will allow you to spot weaknesses in people, friends and espe-
cially potential relationships. Remember that things should remain win/win (pure
interdependence), otherwise someone is taking advantage of someone else. Listening
to their words you’ll be able to understand their thought pa�ern and how they relate
to others.

If a friend is saying, “but this certain girl makes me feel this way”. You’ll know that,
no she doesn’t...you let her ‘make you’ feel that way. Remember that as a man, you’re
the response. So you’ll be able to point out co-dependencies and you can offer to help
your colleagues by giving advice that works (R.D.) and they’ll ‘owe you one’.

Nothing is a dependency as an adult (until you have kids).

The more alpha you are, the more traditional of a woman you should end up with.
That is, if you want it to actually last. You’ll find that she’ll empower you with her en-
ergy, humbleness and support instead of nagging, challenging and questioning you.

Seems like a miracle to those who’ve been in marriages with independent women?
Well...it’s how families stuck together throughout history (and still do around the
world). The answer for my own father is a very traditional woman but he still gets
distracted when he sees a screwed up woman with blonde hair and big boobs with all
kinds of demands and expectations. I’ve told him.

If you don’t get relational dynamics, you’ll forever be confused by how ‘hot’ this wom-
an is (and your physiological response of I don’t deserve she can have any man) vs.
how much ho�er another one is and how ‘unsure’ of yourself you feel.
A woman’s body and sexual nature (not social) is something to celebrate and edify,
NOT be scared of so understand your relationship to that (throughout this program).

You can have higher social status by giving more value (to influential people)
 Chapter 4

Elements of Life

There ARE definitions and there ARE elements involved in every situation, relation-
ship, material or product. We don’t have to look at the periodic table of elements to
understand this (thank goodness, right?!)

If you can understand your relationship to the elemental influencing forces and (closer
to) everything around you, you will be able to be empowered with LEVERAGE and
you will be able to keep your energy centered like never before.

You will be much more capable as a person. You will have the clarity of a monk (who
is consequently surrounded by simpler elements). Alpha R.D. deals with understand-
ing your relationship to the highly developed technology and constructs of our mod-
ern world (social and nurture based).

I know that there are people out there in the world that would pay me more than a
million dollars for the exclusive rights to this level of information.

Apply Relational Dynamics,

Problem solving becomes easier, making judgments and decisions which fall in line
with your destiny become second-hand. You will be able to live life at a full pace yet
still be making most of the right decisions and saving yourself from boatloads of tur-
moil just by understanding the elements and seeing when other people don’t fall in
line.

Physics, geography, psychology, sociology and metaphysics are very practical fields
of study. Everything deals with the relationship of different elements or independent
variables.

Side note: I hated geography in my ‘schooling’ (which consequently punishes you in-
stead of rewards you for how well you perform AND doesn’t teach you the most im-
portant things like money and success with women!).

Now, I know that geography is one of the most important and practical things. It’s
INSTANT rapport with countless women that I’ve had. I’ve learned that REAL educa-
tion comes from the streets or actual life itself. ‘Commencement’ ceremonies mean ‘the
beginning’ or ‘continuance’. So I’m proud of you for actually CONTINUING to learn
here.

Looking at the relational formula, things essentially are simple. You can even break
it down into individual atoms (now they are saying there are elements smaller than
these).

These are the basic elements themselves. Your entire body is constructed of indepen-
dent elements that operate interdependently with each other to form systems such as
your cardiovascular system, your respiratory system, your muscular system, etc..

You could study this for years as many have (such as Doctors) and still not clearly un-
derstand the simplest root of it all: relational dynamics and how EACH of the indepen-
dent parts relate to each other.

Hopefully with that amount of education they would realize that (and they do) but
looking at the ‘big picture’ from the outset of anything is a key into wisdom.

And when you know that everything IS and MUST be related to each other somehow,
life and it’s elements will become much more clear. So much so that even a child could
understand if taught.

Your body itself is a living miracle. THIS is the power of interdependence. Each per-
son is special, wonderful and unique in that they are each a miracle. There is also no
limit to the level of personal (inner) and social development that they can reach in life.

I have 6 foster kids in developing countries around the world. They are natural. In
fact people in 3rd world countries have an advantage to those in first-world..it just has
to be acknowledge and recognized. I hope you can see and feel it. For example, real
African people (from many countries) are some of the friendliest and obviously ‘down
to earth’ people you will EVER meet.

So much of the ‘natural’ game of natural success with women is really just clearing
away the clu�er of social (b.s.) influence and it’s effect on your life. You should and
must be able to differentiate it’s specific influence before you can really progress for-
ward or you will continue to be ignorant or blindsided.

The mating game itself is a natural process and completely biological. Anything that
gets in the way can be generically considered as social influence.
Women’s current disability to ‘respond’ and play the mating dance of ‘flirtational’ re-
sponse (NOT prickteasing), showcases the current state of relationships. Lessened is
the ability of men to differentiate the truth from social distortion and programming.

It’s up to you to KNOW the natural/sexual/biological truth within women. Their in-
herent BIOLOGY says that they ARE a woman. And you are a MAN. There are cer-
tain advantages with each but know that a�raction and sex itself is that the male is the
stimulus and the female is the response.

How? Because NATURALLY she has to APPROVE of him BEFORE she ‘opens up’ to
him. She has to be a�racted to him enough and trust him to be a strong and able (al-
pha) male to provide the best chance of survival for their offspring.

Your own biological character is important and powerful. The biology within you
represents the male species throughout the animal kingdom. You’re at the TOP of the
food chain and it’s up to you to embrace that power that is greater than your own ‘per-
sonality’ and ‘interests’.

This is your natural character; it’s a STRONG and essential part of the circle of life. It’s
an element of life and you can harness that leverage representationally in your own
character as just 1 of the 3 characteristics you provide to women.

Automobiles, airplanes, transportation, music, food are ALL composed of independent

elements that operate independently with each other. There is leverage between the
elements that will o�en create energy or movement.

Conscious awareness is not some freaky thing. If you’re a part of a social culture that is
just shoving all kinds of messages at you and have no control over the filtering process
you’re going to be a wreck. You’ll be a complete program.

It’s ok to be influenced. I am saying and recommending that you keep the full ‘aware-
ness power’ for yourself. This means consciously choosing and making decisions on
what things you like and don’t like.

If you don’t differentiate or separate yourself from it, you’re STILL a part of it. Aware-
ness and clarity of the problem in the first place is the first step. So gain cognition of
YOUR natural character and inheritant birthright of power; it’s what women respond
to so just reach to that part of them.

That is biology that is life; it’s greater than ANY level of social or ‘inner’ develop upon
their characteristics. Female biological/natural inheritance represents a RESPONSE to
man in which she has to approve of him first.
He must be strong. Differentiate this from her social and inner and you’ll be a modern
day Alpha; a KING.

Notes:

If there are women (or lesbians) reading this part of it or just wanting more power and
to ‘further’ themselves socially that’s fine. I don’t have a problem with women who are
already interested in that taking that lead (interdependence) but just know that I (or
most of my students in their right minds) wouldn’t and couldn’t hold a serious rela-
tionship with you (romantically or commitment-ally).

I’ve been saying this for a long time. Natural character is the real richness.

Social Matrix is over-rated. Why? Because there is unlimited depth, character and pu-
rity in natural character.

Don’t find sources alone that just kinda take you away...go to the root. Power of One
- hans zimmer

The most BEAUTIFUL PART? NONE OF IT IS ACTING. ALL OF SOCIAL IS ‘ACT-

ING’ because it’s conscious and logical

Henry David Thoreau spent a lot of time in nature. I’m the type of person that it’s
more of a challenge to synergize with nature (in nature) because I view it objectively
and relate it’s components together, etc.

It would take some time to really ‘feel’ nature and get back down to your natural roots
without interference of consciously developed thought.

THE social matrix and influence is SO strong...that if YOU can get ‘on top’ of it or
‘aside of it’ and put it into it’s lockbox where it belongs so you will have so much damn
power like you were supposed to.

I want you to get to a point where you can recognize all of the forces that are trying to
influence your behaviour and instead of automatically becoming a ‘response’ to that
stimuli, I want you to have awareness and complete self-control over your life to gener-
ally say;

“I know exactly what’s happening here and I can see the TRUTH. I can see it for what
it really is and I am the only one who can make a decision whether I’m going to let that
 Chapter 5

Circle of Life

In order to differentiate and see clearly that which exists now, we have to look clearly
at the roots in order to grasp the pure representation of what each element means
(more on that in order chapters), but here I want to look at the animal kingdom and
nature.

“There exists a delicate balance..” -LionKing

Watch ‘The LionKing’ and you will get a nice big picture view of the Animal Kingdom,
especially in the opening sequence.

When you look purely at nature and the animal kingdom, it is clearer to see the circle
of life. Everything is interconnected to each other yet in a natural hierarchy. And
guess who is at top?

Yes, humans (because of our ability to leverage tools or weapons) but not just that,
MEN more specifically. That is what you are biologically rooted to no MATTER the
level of social status or exploitation any woman has, she cannot procreate without you
(per se).

You are man and represent man. You represent about 49% of the world’s popula-
tion. The rest are females or women (with a few thrown in who are confused or have
switched sides).

In the circle of life, plants are eaten by small animals who are eaten by large animals
who are eaten by larger animals who decompose and fertilize back into the earth to
grow plants again.

That’s a simple way to put it. I don’t have time to go into the relationship of what spe-
cies eats another species (find out from scientists or Discovery Channel), just as long as
you get the idea.

In nature, there is a natural and sustainable way of life. Animals of all kinds know
how to eat, meet, mate and reproduce while naturally or instinctively understanding
their relationship to the environment and other animals they are around. They gener-
ally know their place in the circle of life and do what it takes to survive and replicate.
It’s not the lot in life for men to be ‘below’ women or in servitude to them. Here would
be the point where I mention that animals are not foolish to let anything (such as add-
ed value or female exploitation) get in the way of the mating process. They remain
natural and while some may argue that the Beta males of a social group ‘aren’t ge�ing
any’ when applied to humans.

My response to that is, what are they doing in a social group that would repress their
own natural instincts? All males can and deserve to mate (with desirable females) if
they claim that right. Why not leave and either start your own group or do whatever
you want? It’s uniquely human to be able to ‘go alpha’ because the world is wide open
and you don’t have to partake in a closed social group where some meathead is being
selfish.

I talk about this on my forums: h�p://www.modelmagnet.com/forums/

Anyways, nature isn’t always kind-hearted. Only alpha members within any distinct
social group have any kind of leisure and servitude. For example, the female lioness
does the hunting and brings the food back to the lead male who eats first.

The circle itself though is more like a great co-dependency because animals will fight
each other for survival rights, but many learn how to survive in a balanced relationship
without too many going extinct within a short timespan.

There is a lot to be learned from nature itself and the animal kingdom. Primarily
about our own natural character. You can learn a li�le bit about social behavior as Jane
Goodall was studying gorillas in Africa but primarily it’s the natural characteristics we
can learn or remind ourselves of (such as reproduction).

What may ma�er the most (drawing from the animal kingdom) is fearlessness and
courage, the ability to reproduce, live and procreate with fear (not le�ing ANYTHING
get in the way of nature).

This is all natural character. Shamelessness is another feature amongst most species of
animals. Animals don’t consciously commit suicide either and as far as I know only a
few species kill for the sake of killing (except for food) unless challenged.

Let me briefly mention ‘Nature’ vs. ‘Nurture’

To put it briefly, you’ll find that my training here categorizes ‘Inner’ and ‘Social’ Char-
acter quite clearly as ‘Nurture’. Don’t worry about the rest of what it means as we’ll
get to it, but can you see how I’ve categorized it?

The female (and male) ‘natural’ or biological character I’m just clarifying and differenti-
ating as ‘nature’. Everything else as ‘Nurture’ as is defined within the 3 primary repre-
sentational characteristics.

I am basically ‘proposing’ that it can be clearly differentiated from our other ‘root’ char-
acteristics. Though some would debate that our ‘Nature’ influences our behavior such
as in studies of twins who never met each other where they ‘behave’ a similar way
(which could be construed as ‘Inner’ Character), I am looking at ‘nature’ as our pure
biological inheritance itself; as men (and of women).

You were born a dependent yet essentially fearless (except for fear of loud noises) and
with the eventual ability to externally procreate.

All other fear has been conditioned into you (“don’t run into the street” “No.”..)

The female biological difference is primarily that of the internal reproducer...such is

throughout most all of the animal kingdom.
We can look at the ‘nurture’ traits in comparison to the ‘natural’ traits. The ‘nurture’
traits essentially define who we are as unique individuals and what we represent.
These experiences of growing up impress upon us new ideas, ideologies and behaviors
that we use to further define who we are.

Essentially much of our Social influence has represseed our natural character as men.
Our biology is there and confused by the amount of social and environmental variables
that are now in play. It’s amplifying our natural desire and also keeping it just out of
reach in a way (environmental sexploitation).

So just be aware of the ‘nature’ vs. ‘nurture’ issue. Your hope and true power lies in the
fact of a simple differentiation and trusting in that throughout this program.

Fortunately it CAN be differentiated on the most sweeping and important terms (and
besides, if you’re behaving ‘uniquely’ similar to your lost twin, that can now be defined
as an ‘Inner’ trait).

You’re a male, she is a female and we’ll talk more about this later and in helping you
overcome the power game.

To look at your ‘natural character’ some more, reference the recent Details Power Issue
where ‘sperm’ is on the power list. The sperm have their mission whether it be known
to you or not. They are driving a force of powerful influence (that society exploits).

This is your biology that is powerful. All men share the same feature; it’s a power that
is greater than you. You represent that so I recommend you take control over it some
more by knowing where this exploitation stands so that you only have win/win rela-
tionships with it and stop feeling ‘repressed’ by it.

If you can, take care of the root ‘behavioristic’ first and foremost because that’s what
a�racts them anyways. Everything else is a waste of time if you find yourself question-
ing what to do when you’re in bed with a woman.

And I’m not talking about ‘skill’. Sex is natural and everyone was born to instinctively
know how to do it.

My natural character (and that of other Alpha’s) is so strong that it literally ‘takes over’
and makes sure that the seed is sown. Because I can differentiate it, I am aware that it
IS physiological and separate from my logic. The same with women but on a greater
scale in a way.

What’s it like? It’s like an irrepressible force of lust that is driving me forward and
wanting to leap outside of my body. This biological ‘Alpha’ energy is strong and
knows what to do.

Remember that man is the stimulus? Well, women are the response. They don’t have
this energy that wants to leap outside of their body. They have a force of lust that
wants to be taken over in their body. They want to be swept away on the inside.

They are the internal reproducers. They’re desire is different. Making out and heating
them up opens them more to the emotional idea of their body ‘taking’ in the energy/
seed of a man.

They’re desire and feelings of lust don’t leap outside of themselves like in men. Instead,
when ready the ‘flower will open it’s petals up to you’. It’s important to understand
that distinction (in ge�ing over your conditioned ignorance).

Anyways,

High School is a perfect example of a social hierarchy and there are always a few alpha
males at the top. If you decide to define yourself within that social subculture (not nec-
essary for subsistence anymore), and you’re lower on the scale you’ll feel like crap.

You can make your own social subculture if you want and be the ‘alpha’ of that group
in which most of the women will be a�racted to you for their desire to be connected
with a high status male.
The point is you’re not restricted anymore in today’s society especially when you iso-
late ‘society’ and ‘other people’ as elements outside of your own powerful indepen-
dence.

The world is your backyard. You can just ‘be’ an alpha male and people of all different
kinds of groups will notice it without you having to hold roots down or win social ap-
proval within different subcultures (social/tribal groups).

Perhaps more important than not being restricted to evolutionary thinking where hu-
mans are ‘pack animals’, free your mind and realize your own independence. You
CAN subsist and survive on your own and you can add value to social groups without
being pigeonholed or repressed by them.

Social tribes are not required for subsistence anymore, you can take care of yourself.
Use social groups or subcultures to your advantage by adding value to them and
they’ll add value back.

Humans alone have the potential to go way beyond subsistence and just ‘surviving’.
And with half of the world being female, you have a LOT of options.
I really encourage you to get into the LionKing and see it like you’ve never seen it be-
fore. Look at it as a pure analogy for taking back your power and finding your place
in the Circle of Life. You are at the top of your own lifestyle. You have inherited the
place as man, at the top of the food chain.

Keep working on clarifying your destiny if you don’t know it yet but keep growing
in your natural character. A�er all, it’s what women respect and it’s what women re-
spond to. You owe it to yourself and to them.

It is ESSENTIAL that you are able to differentiate your natural character from your in-
ner and social character. Study the Character Continuum to understand it more and
ground yourself in natural/alpha character of masculine and feminine (to understand
what it’s supposed to be like).

Your natural energy CAN be differentiated or isolated. Become aware of it and grow
in natural character by applying R.D. dynamics. Your natural character will grow im-
mensely when we can clear away the clu�er of repression that is on top of it; then your
natural character can rise back to where it’s supposed to be just by understanding R.D.

Apply the other exercises as well to continue to grow in character. Do things that will
allow you to tap into and be aware of your strong Alpha/natural energy. You do have
this biological part of you just as do all male animals. Isolate it from social character
and influence as well as your ‘inner’ game and you will be set free.

Notes:

“A bird will fall dead from a bough, without ever feeling sorry for itself.” -Poetry in G.I.
Jane

You can even draw influence from different animals such as the independent and high-
soaring bald eagle.

Dogs are pack animals. People have said that humans are also pack animals. I would
challenge that assumption. We have the full ability to survive by ourselves and differ-
entiate ourselves from social society or culture.

We have that full natural ability and can survive in doing so. Only those people that
are co-dependent on others wouldn’t be able to survive.

Differentiate each element of what’s going on here instead of just being a conditioned
response because you see tits and ass.
 Chapter 6

Purpose of Life

So what do you think it is? I think it is not just to go through our biological directive of
living, eating, sleeping and reproducing. I think it’s to add value to the lives of others.

This doesn’t mean oppressing them or coercing them, it means to live interdependently
and harmoniously. To give value and also take value. To contribute to improve the
quality (mental, financial and well-being) in the lives of others.

As a fully independent man who keeps his power for himself, you’ll be able to do so.
When it comes to your dating lifestyle (if you so choose) it’s to add value to the lives
of each and every woman who you are with by celebrating her natural character. It’s
about le�ing her have an unforge�able physiological experience from your level of
high character (the equivalent of you sleeping with a really beautiful woman).

How does it fit into Relational Dynamics? Well, you could say the purpose of life is
to create synergy (the highest form of win/win interdependence). And only the most
independent and capable people can create synergy and consistently. You can become
so independent and knowledgeable that everything you touches literally turns to gold.

This is because you apply relational dynamics and you can learn any new skill quickly
and know how to fix problems, create synergy and add value.

When you ‘add value’ to other people’s lives they will reward you for it. O�en with
money. So seek out DAILY places that you can add value to other people’s lives. See
the world through new eyes (that of freedom) and approaching women will be a joy
because nothing can harm you. Only the purely independent can consistently be inter-
dependent. Be a force of influence. Be a CAUSE and not a coerced effect in life.

If you are in a transactionally interdependent situation with your workplace, the ideal
would be to free yourself from the co-dependency of it and being reliant on finances.
Make sure to read that Chapter but you would ideally be freed from it.

Yes you may find yourself being a ‘leader’ by ‘stepping up’ but that’s what women ad-
mire anyways. Especially when you are congruent and consistent in your high level of
character you won’t have to have the words to say or worry about what might happen
next, she’ll HELP YOU take things to the next level because your work was already
done; you ARE what women want.

Rich Dad’s formula for becoming a billionaire is “Give more and more value to more
and more people.” Find ways to do that in full effect and you’ll be a billionaire and
feel like it on the inside as well. It’s all ‘adding value’ which is an interdependent win/
win relationship between you and other people.

So in choosing your own destiny or purpose in life (if it’s not yet clear), try to align it to
one that adds value to other people’s lives and you’ll get a lot more leveraged return on
your investment.

With all the philosophies out there, I recommend that you (like I) take from them as if
it’s a smorgasbord in front of you. I agree with Ayn Rand’s rugged individualism but
unlike her, I think that there are Relational Elements involved such as the Golden Rule,
and giving back to the world. Keep on learning as life gets more interesting as you go.
 Chapter 7

Balance

Some people will disagree with me but I say that you ARE at the center of your uni-
verse. In fact you must be or you would just be an inconsequential speck of dust.

If you can find your place in the circle of life and live as an honorable, respectable Al-
pha male who gives value, you will be near the top; much more than a speck of dust in
relationship to the world.

You can take the best of all kinds of philosophical influences to shape your life. You
could find natural energy within zen buddhism for example but also take advantage of
Capitalism to give more value to more and more people. It’s up to you to balance your
life. You have the power to make your decisions and choose your influences.

The world will keep spinning and others will say that the world doesn’t revolve
around you. Right, it doesn’t; the earth will continue to revolve independently of even
the most powerful human beings in history. Just know that you are important and that
you ARE independent yourself and can have a valuable win/win exchange with the
rest of the world. You are a unique miracle in your own right and that’s before your
potential for self-actualization and value contribution.

Understanding your relationship to other powers of influence and taking full responsi-
bility for your own independence is essential. You can view the world and other forces
of influence as things beyond your power or you can take control of what you do have
accountability for; yourself.

So, I encourage you to keep power for yourself by choosing it. Accept it and embrace
it. It will come much easier when you have removed the clu�er that has oppressed
your natural character. Being alpha means not being overwhelmed at the scope of the
world or even being in the middle of a large crowd. You STILL know your place as a
man. Independent and unique from all of the rest.

I also encourage you to live your life in balance. Yin & yang. The chinese symbols of
balance. Equal and opposite energies that co-exist in a relational balance When you
are cognitive of the elements and influences you have let in your life or that exist, you
can put them into the place where they belong. Without talking too much about bal-
ancing your life (because it’s a whole different business/life topic), I just want to say
that you’ll get a lot more out of life.
I have a balance of straightforward confidence bordering on outright cockiness at times
yet it is balanced out by my humility as well. Being a leader and alpha male means re-
specting the balance of nature and harmony but you aren’t afraid to stand up for your
rights or the rights of others when they are violated.

Personally, I try to never say anything into the atmosphere that is just asking for a retri-
bution because I feel that opposite may come and find me. I am careful that the words
I say don’t violate universal principles or ask something bad to happen.

Be a positive force of influence by being the stimulus/control who HAS control over
himself and relishes it. By taking conscious control and seeing how much influence
other sources have had on you, you’ll be able to more easily balance life out in your
favor and spend time on things which add value to your life or others instead of pro-
grammed/mind-numbing experiences (such as t.v.).

When it comes to women, they obviously are the satellites in your magnetic orbit.
They come back like boomerangs in your Umlau�ahn (orbit) because they are a�ract-
ed to YOU. This is the only way it works (looks at women’s actions in relationships
that have started) despite how much society promotes that women are the sun and you
are in orbit around them.

Don’t allow women become the stimulus when it comes to a�raction and dating be-
cause it’s not what they want either (despite their social conditioning). You really
should be yourself and let your true colors shine. You MAY find (some of you will)
that these women you over-rated for YEARS have li�le to offer you and that your own
development is MUCH more important so that you may not want to waste anymore
time with these women.

Aligning yourself to a screwed up reality like other guru’s are teaching isn’t the right
answer (Style admits it himself in his own way in ‘The Game’).

You are what ma�ers in the game of a�raction because if you don’t have the character
in the first place, it’s a huge struggle against leveraged forces that aren’t in your favor.
You know that you HAVE TO BE the stimulus in dating and mating otherwise her at-
traction and interest will fade.

Knowing that alone should allow you to keep your own high character and centered
energy as the stimulus. Doing so finally gives her room to respond so she can be a sat-
ellite in your orbit. You know the biological truth and reality of a�raction (you are the
stimulus) so live by the truth and don’t be blinded anymore by the coercive yet invis-
ible repressing forces that have brainwashed you.
KEY: THE SOCIAL INFLUENCE ISN’T WHAT WOMEN WANT EITHER WHEN IT
COMES TO LOVE AND ATTRACTION. IT’S UP TO YOU TO SAVE THE DAY BY
LIVING THE TRUTH. DON’T EDIFY OR ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR SOCIAL CHAR-
ACTER’S PLACE ABOVE YOU BECAUSE IT ISN’T.

Even if the rest of your life isn’t perfect or together yet (even financially) don’t let that
be a hindering co-dependency that would stop you from living the lifestyle you want
with women. So be independent and operate interdependently with women by giving
them room to respond to you. They are ‘real’ just like you.

You don’t have to let your focus on women overtake the balance in your life. Let it
just be a part of it because you do have other things going on (women are not enough)
because you are Alpha. Make them satellites in your orbit as well as the other things
you have going on and don’t let their immediate objection to this idea throw you off
because it’s the only way they respond and stay with a man.

Women themselves are confused because society is promoting them to be the opposite
of their natural desires but you understand this. They DO want a man who knows
what he wants and where he’s going and you are that man.

Hey, you’re a man and with that comes certain rights, powers and responsibilities so
you may as well take advantage of it to give women what they want; a REAL MAN!

Living a life that is balanced is something that you can start with today but you’re go-
ing to consciously have to take control and put things into their proper place. With
R.D. we’re re-balancing you to the real truth.

As an individual at this point, you have a choice to make. Are you going to continue
to let other sources of influence tell you how to live your life or are you going to con-
sciously take ABSOLUTE control over your life?

The people who make a difference in the world are ones who add or contribute value
to other people’s lives. That’s it. It’s that simple.

A decade ago I made a personal commitment to continuously improving myself and

to generally live by universal principles. I’ve only maybe read the book ‘7 Habits of
Highly Effective People’ only twice or so but the influence I allowed it to have on me
was enormous. To allow myself to ‘see the world’ through new eyes I adopted looking
at things as universally as possible.
I have done this for about a decade and even have ta�oos to represent the importance
and influence of universal principles. It was through consistently experiencing and
seeing the world first-hand AND objectively that allowed me to reach this level of
awareness, power, and understanding.

Yes there are purely natural people and there are also extremely socially defined peo-
ple. For you, most likely, life requires a BALANCE of those a�ributes. And perhaps
you have searched for years to try and figure things out. The fact that you are search-
ing and going down a path of self-discovery is to be admired. So few people do that in
a consumerist society of overkill.

Yes a lot of my influence is strongly Eastern (and there is even more for me and you to
discover there). In a sense it helps balance out the Western in me.

I am unique. You are unique. If you can consciously CHOOSE the forces that you
would like to influence you, your power as a person will immensely grow. In fact, you
will become the Stimulus instead of the Response.

Stick around for a few years and I’ll be talking more about living balance in life.
 Chapter 8

Golden Rule & Karma

Just a quick chapter on ‘The Golden Rule’ and Karma. This basically represents re-
spect.

“Do unto others as you would have done unto yourself.”

Relationally speaking, it means (ideally) a positive, value-adding influence to others

lives. Do good unto others and add value to their lives and they’ll do good unto you
(stimulus-response).

If everyone lived the Golden Rule of living independently with interdependent win/
win respect for others then there would hardly be any problems in the world. How-
ever just case-in-point.

Terrorists who violate universal principles by lessening other people’s independence

through oppression and fear are still living a version of the Golden Rule (it’s how
they’re being ASKED to be treated through their actions) because someone is going to
send something near that level of energy back at them at some point in time.

Align yourself with universal principles, relational dynamics and have respect for
yourself first and then live your life by respecting other people and doing unto them as
you would have done unto yourself. Because it all starts with the power of one and if
each person lived by the positive golden rule, we’d all be fine.

Those that don’t respect others and try to influence them through oppression are vio-
lating the formula..they are asking for that karma of negative energy to come back at
them.

Karma is similar to the golden rule. It’s about the energy, actions and effect you put
out into the world or to influence other people. It’s also an awareness of that energy
that will come back to you based on what you put out. In other words, the more value
you give to other people, the more value they’ll give back to you. The more harm you
do, the more harm that will come back to you.
Karma: Hinduism “The total effect of a person’s actions and conduct during the suc-
cessive phases of the person’s existence, regarded as determining the person’s destiny.”
- Wikipedia

So if you act with honest and value-adding intentions throughout your life, that energy
should come back to you. If you really want to see it in effect, follow the relational
formula by living pure, respectful value-filled influence to a massive number of people
and you will be richly rewarded.

In light of Relational Dynamics itself, it’s the ideal of utmost independence in yourself
and utmost win/win interdependence in dealing with others essentially. Living your
life to the fullest but always treating others with respect and the independence that you
expect (and are) yourself.

The only thing that would existentially incur you to even think of doing harm to oth-
ers is negative social programming or influence but you can overcome that by aligning
with your true natural (positive) self.

--

Relational Dynamics IS representative of the (closest thing to) truth. I suggest to align
yourself with the truth because that is unfound power that you can harness to over-
come all fear and incongruencies.
 Chapter 9

Power of Influence & Causality

h�p://dictionary.reference.com/browse/influence

“A power affecting a person, thing, or course of events, especially one that operates
without any direct or apparent effort”

This topic is so huge in itself that this book itself is about understanding influence and
gaining control over your life and to effect upon others such as women. This topic is
dispersed throughout this ebook.

Make sure you read the Chapter on Chaos Theory/Bu�erfly Effect because it goes hand
in hand with influence.

Influence is the one great invisible force of effect in life. And if you don’t change your
actions, you’re going to continue down the same path. Here I want to make you aware
how important this concept is because as it applies to your lifestyle and RIGHT NOW,
you’ll be able to be a more powerful person who is realizing his dreams (instead of be-
ing ignorant).

Look at the Back to the Future trilogy and how powerful the moment is where Biff
goes back to the car to pick up the Almanac (in Part II) for example. The point is, the
smallest actions can lead to amazingly HUGE ramifications in the future. You’re influ-
encing your future RIGHT NOW. It is being wri�en.

One way of looking at influence is called Causality. Here is the definition from wikipe-
dia.com

Causality:

The philosophical concept of causality, the principles of causes, or causation, the work-
ing of causes, refers to the set of all particular “causal” or “cause-and-effect” relations...
Causality is the centerpiece of the universe and so the main subject of human knowl-
edge; for comprehending the nature, meaning, kinds, varieties, and ordering of cause
and effect amounts to knowing the beginnings and endings of things, to uncovering
the implicit mechanisms of world dynamics, or to having the fundamental scientific
knowledge.

In natural languages, causal relationships can be expressed by the following causative

expressions: i) a set of causative verbs [cause, make, create, do, effect, produce, occa-
sion, perform, determine, influence; construct, compose, constitute; provoke, motivate,
force, facilitate, induce, get, stimulate; begin, commence, initiate, institute, originate,
start; prevent, keep, restrain, preclude, forbid, stop, cease]; ii) a set of causative names
[actor, agent, author, creator, designer, former, producer, originator; antecedent, causal-
ity, causation, condition, fountain, occasion, origin, power, precedent, reason, source,
spring; reason, grounds, motive, need, impulse]; iii) a set of effective names [conse-
quence, creation, development, effect, end, event, fruit, impact, influence, issue, out-
come, outgrowth, product, result, upshot].

In other words, being a ‘causer’ you are in effect having an influence in life or other
people around you. By consciously choosing your actions you can cause a certain ef-
fect to happen to influence the overall outcome that you desire and the direction you’re
going.

Another way of seeing it is that people who have power and influence apply causality
to have a (hopefully positive) effect on other people. Or, if you want to have power,
you ‘cause’ or influence the effect upon others that you desire. That’s what powerful
people do.

When you can influence others you have power. The more you can influence, the more
power you have. I want you to remember that you can harness power by influencing
people (through adding value in interdependent relationships) but let’s look at the big-
ger picture of influence itself.
When looking at the 3 characteristics in men or women; Nurture (Inner and Social
character) is rooted in causality (and actually Nature itself is procreated through ances-
tral seedlines based on Causality).

Yes, you have your own thoughts but you’re mostly le� to sort through all of the mes-
sages that are coming down upon you to determine who you are. That’s why people
have a hard time finding grounding, have mid-life crises and can’t find out who they
are; they don’t differentiate themselves from those forces of influence and spend more
time alone.

The messages keep coming non-stop. Powerful people are independent and exer-
cise influence. People before you have helped forge and influence your own beliefs
through this great chaotic network of causality throughout history.

Influence is how all of the elements sway, determine or have an effect on each other.
Examples of Causality (and thus, influence)? Birth, death, life, suicide, homicide, war,
history, sex, power, money, thoughts, actions, habits, lifestyles, economy, family, behav-
ior, sales, social status and the future. All of it is rooted in influence.

All independent elements relate to each other somehow (otherwise they are just sepa-
rate independent elements that never come in contact). When one of the (independent)
elements (such as you) has an effect on another, this is influence (or one of the other
causative verbs). If you want to be an ‘effective’ person, you would be a person of
power and influence that gets the outcome he wants.

Think of every minute as a clean slate of potential change for the future. Since we are
all connected in some way, everything that happens is somehow dependent on influ-
ence and history to determine the future. When you consider all of the variables in-
teracting with each other each second to determine the future, it absolutely looks like
‘chaos’ theory.

Your cognition of this will help you understand life, influence and power and your
ability to harness it for yourself. It would be impossible for anything to not be a part
of the relational formula (or dynamics), therein lies it’s unlimited power. Just so you
know..no one taught me this; I figured it out on my own through my own observations
and insight into life.

To understand influence more at it’s root we have to look at the Relational Formula
itself.

Dependence - Independence - Interdependence

Anything that ever happens in nature, history, socially, or culturally can be rooted in
influence. Influence also means change. The elements are moving and either adding
from or taking away from someone else’s independence. Influence through the eyes of
time (my version of chaos theory) can lead to a chain reaction of other ‘influential’ or
impactful events.

A man can independently get on the subway in NYC, bump into a lady who spills
her coffee which reminds a passerby of some old event who later tells a story which
reminds another person to get in touch with someone else and that person decides to
buy a plane ticket from a travel agent who now made her quota who ends up ge�ing
pregnant that night because she was delighted. That specific baby ends up being the
President of a University.

I made that example up but that just gives you an idea of the enormous power of influ-
ence and how we are all a part of the relational formula. That should give you an idea
of the power of each moment and how you can influence or ‘effect’ your future.

The more hardcore action you to take in the direction you want to go, the much more
likely you’re going to get there. Action itself is causative, that’s why it’s important to
take action on these exercises to influence your outcome.
You ARE who you are today because of influence. Beyond your natural/primitive/bio-
logical character is something called ‘nurture’. If anything at all, it has repressed your
biological nurture that allows you to mate and reproduce.

Other than your natural character, you are derived purely from something called ‘in-
fluence’ or the effect of Causality. Most of that influence was environmental or ‘social’.
In many ways, you ARE a byproduct of the environment and influences (including
circumstances) in which you were brought up in and experienced.

Yes I used to be in Amway. I didn’t make any money but I invested in the motivational
tapes and went to seminars. I allowed that to influence me. Some people who didn’t
take accountability for their actions tried to blame it on a co-dependency when it broke
that the upline was making (almost) more money off of the support system than the
products themselves.

The way I saw it with my upline was that we each got something out of our investment
even when we were almost coerced into the system of support. We looked at the value
in our investment (keeping it interdependent) instead of placing blame and making it a
co-dependency (others were ‘using’ us).

Take accountability and you’ll find the value in it. It’s helped the three of us in differ-
ent ways. The woman is a successful real estate manager in Madison and her husband
(my good friend) is ge�ing back into film and music production. We all look back
upon that time in our lives as something we’ll never forget because we found it as a
positive influence.

You can learn a LOT from the trials of your past. The level of influence and motivation
I got from those investments of tapes, books and seminars (and failures) has helped me
so much (it will probably never be quantified) even though I didn’t earn a dime in that
business.

We didn’t try to ‘sue’ and create a co-dependency, we saw the value and kept account-
ability for our actions. I really wish more people would be like that. Don’t wuss out
on things; take accountability for yourself.

People who try to profit from other’s mistakes or to create co-dependencies without
taking accountability for themselves makes me sick.

It should make you sick too. Ie. the woman who sued McDonalds for millions because
she spilled coffee on her lap when she was driving - that’s pathetic. At the MOST, cov-
er her hospital bills for a few thousand dollars. The world would be perfect if every-
one would BE interdependent (win/win).
If you want to be a real man, you’ll be independent and take accountability for yourself
and your actions. Don’t be a wimp. Be a man and step up. If you make bad decisions
(and R.D. will help you to stop making those), step up to it, learn from it and move on.

There’s all kinds of stories of influential people who got rejected so much and became
the greatest successes. Nelson Mandela, Abraham Lincoln, you name it.

Look at the biographies of extremely successful people and you’ll find there was a
small point in their past that influenced them and set up a new paradox. I encourage
you to read biographies of people you admire.

VH-1’s ‘Behind the Music’ and other specials are excellent places to see causality as
well as the type of relationship they have (stimulus or architect) upon people as the
response; and they’re just normal guys who started ge�ing good at one thing and tak-
ing it from there.

Or winning a casting audition for the ‘Mickey Mouse Club’ leads to Justin Timberlake,
Xtina, and Britney years down the road. There are COUNTLESS examples because
everything is essentially chaos or bu�erfly effect looking back.

Robert Rodriguez was interested in film and made ‘Bedhead’ around his home. Then
he made El Mariachi on money from a month in a hospital for research. He made
those things happen which influenced where he is at today with his own multi-million
dollar in house studio and being in demand for bringing productions under budget
and profitable (rare and he does it consistently).

George Lucas was inspired by the influence of Flash Gordon and ‘The Hero with 1,000
Faces’. All rock groups can recall their original influences; they walked into a ‘you
name it’ concert and it forever changed them. There was a Coke commercial where
Jimi Hendrix was a kid and saw a guitar near a Coke machine and an accordion near a
Pepsi machine.

Few of the great people weren’t aware of who else they would have become if they
somehow ‘missed’ that initial stimulus or influence. Laced throughout the Back to the
Future movies are examples of this. If George McFly didn’t stand up to Biff, he never
would have danced and then kissed Lorraine to eventually give birth to Marty.

Can you see how powerful each moment is? Your own potentiality is unlimited. Can
you start to see how maybe being a sponge to television is a waste of your time and
future?
I want you to be conscious of taking accountability. Accountable ultimately for your
control over each moment.

And this means being accountable for all of your past admission of social matrix influ-
ence, because hey - you just didn’t know (because they didn’t want you to have your
true freedom and power!). Take accountability in everything you do and you’ll be able
to have more influence for even the near future of your lifestyle.

Look for value. Don’t be the guy that buys something and already knows he was go-
ing to get a refund on it by placing the accountability on something outside of your-
self. Take responsibility and step up. Apply relational dynamics and you’ll see literal
miracles happen.

Look at anything and it is rooted in Causality or influence. The entire music history...
all of it is connected and rooted in chaos theory/influence. New styles are changing
and formed based on previous styles and someone bringing something new to the
table (independently) to synergize a new style together.

The people at the top o�en get together and exchange what they’re doing to even form
new ideas (ie. Metallica and Guns’n Roses recording albums in studios near each oth-
er).

My promoter friend saying that Snoop has Jay-Z’s phone number and they all gener-
ally do that (that’s high level interdependence amongst independent and influential
people).

R&B has it’s roots in rock & roll, soul and gospel. Ancestry and anything with ‘roots’
is exists now because of influence. New music styles, new people, new cultures, new
languages, new architectural styles, new subcultures and subgenres, new movies, new
interests and new countries all have ‘roots’.

New babies and billions of dollars (in effect) were made because of the ‘effect’ of Elvis
walking into Sun Studios in Memphis in 1953.

h�p://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elvis_presley

You are here because of the exact moment your parents met each other which didn’t
seem ‘big’ at the time (try thinking about the influence of your great great grandpar-
ents and that exact chain of events that had to happen in the unlimited possibility of
the world). If there wasn’t the power of one or interdependence, no one would have
any influence on anything and nothing would ever ‘happen’.
Wars were made, blood has been shed, economies moved, cultures formed all because
the power of (influence) one initial stimulus and it’s ‘effect’. It just gets confusing be-
cause there are so many independent elements (and new ones being synergistically
created daily). So the point is to question how everything fits or relates to each other
AT ITS ROOTS and you will not only be able to solve problems but you’ll be able to be
much more effective.

Anything can theoretically be traced to it’s roots.

In fact you could say that anything that exists socio-culturally (beyond nature) is
ROOTED in influence. One independent element at that time ‘evolved’ or influenced
other elements which became interdependent to form something ‘new’.

It’s like a great family tree or spider web in a way and there is no limit; it’s chaotic and
the number of combinations are impossible to calculate. Every day humans are creat-
ing new independent elements to synergize with other elements and when you con-
sider the infinite possibilities in synergizing elements together (in mediums such as
music, architecture, so�ware, construction, toys, video games, clothing, you name it) it
only adds for more ‘new’ things.

There will always be something ‘new’ but all that ma�ers is that something offers win/
win VALUE. When something offers positive value it will grow and prosper due to
it’s win/win interdependent relationship with the other independent elements. This is
how ‘buzz’ spreads.

One person receives an independent stimulus of something new, responds well to it

because it adds value to their lives (positive influence) and they want to influence other
people by adding positive value to their lives so they’ll forward that stupid email that
scares you a�er staring at the picture. And those people tell other people. That’s influ-
ence as well.

Without the interdependent relationship though, the independent production (what-

ever it is; which is comprised of synergistic elements) will stay independent. It can’t
influence at all unless and until it has relationships with other elements (ie. people).

The great plagues and viruses, those are comprised of elements which take away from
the independence of people; not good because they try and make a co-dependency.
Health itself is the perfect synergy of all of your independent components and their
pure interdependent win/win relationship to each other.

If you have a bad influence such as a virus which lowers the independent status of one
of your organs, it will change the relationship into a co-dependency and have greater
effect.

The reason there are so many people is because nature or God made sex very desirable
(even without the unnecessary exploitation of it), is so that a man and a woman could
share in a win/win synergistic experience by coming together so they would want to
mate. Yes, you heard it here; SEX IS INTERDEPENDENCE. Now are you listening!?
How much positive value do you want to add to and influence in other women’s (or a
woman’s) life?

It’s all about adding value in your ‘relationship’ to others. That’s how producer’s and
business people become multi-millionaires and so forth; they positively influence oth-
ers. They create something of independence that adds value to (or positively influ-
ences) the lives of others.

So if you have something of value (and you do as a high character male), then it’s sim-
ply a ma�er of EXPANDING your ability (leverage) to get your independent value
more out into the relational formula by making it more received by an unlimited num-
ber of people who will synergize with it’s value (ie. se�ing up a win/win relationship
with a distribution company).

Oh, business itself is interdependence. So is music. So are all products, movies, cul-
tures, vehicles, transportation, food, cooking, d.j.ing, computers, hardware, so�ware.
All are comprised of independent ‘elements’ that have a positive ‘effect’ or influence
on the other independent components to achieve a desired result which can add value
(hopefully) to the lives of others.

As humans we’ve created new elements from existing ones in order to form new op-
tions of value in life. All of this on top of nature and has actually taken us further away
from nature (from the industrial age to the information age and advancement of tech-
nology). The past has influenced where we are today.

Technology itself is all about interdependence rooted in influence. New technologies

will be developed because of new independent elements (formed of previous knowl-
edge/ones) to create an unlimited and improved number of relationships/aka products
or solutions.

I had one girlfriend who joined the Navy for 6 years just so she could be closer to me
in Hawaii. She ended up marrying another guy (because I finally broke off connection
like I should have much earlier). But that’s the power of influence..even though the
decision was hers, my influence led her (to consider going) down a new path.

There are a trillion different ways to view influence so I’m just giving you an overview
enough here that I think you get the idea and take this on and view anything you want
and understand why it exists by tracing it’s roots of influence, etc.

Look at The SugarHill Gang and Grandmaster Flash..the roots of hip-hop...

The Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor and lowered/challenged the independence/peace

of the U.S. so we responded because of cause and effect; we had to do so in order to
uphold our democracy and the ideals of others like us...leading to the atomic bomb
(comprised synergistically of atomic elements) which had a tremendous influence on
history.

Japan and Germany’s direct impact by starting or participating in past wars influenced
(karma) the future so that their military’s are mostly limited to self-defense. Now, Ja-
pan is ge�ing back to more nationalism and pride in their culture ‘independently’.

History is comprised of influence usually stemming from one event or person which
had a hugely growing ‘effect’ over time once it chain reacted with other independent
elements in the relational formula.

How do you think ‘Titanic’ the movie became so popular? Through a chain reaction
‘buzz’. Speaking of the Titanic itself, the ship lost it’s full-on independence (of effec-
tively sailing) when it came into a co-dependent (lossful) relationship with an iceberg.

The eyes of relational dynamics and influence/chaos theory will help you understand
life itself and a�er studying in different fields throughout my life so far, I am still not
aware of anyone who has opened up a can of worms like this to find answers and tap
into raw power. You’re welcome. I think this book will have an influence ;)

Influence is probably the most invisible yet clear ‘thing’ in existence. If you can begin
to understand it, you will be dealing with a lot of power.

Experts at anything understand and know the relationship of the elements together
and I talk about this more in the Production Chapter.

“The New York rapper, also known as Biggie Smalls, was one of the most influential
hip-hop artists of the 1990s.”

Influence is EVERYWHERE and it’s happening right now in ‘realtime’. Frontpage of

MSN: Don’t kill Harry Po�er, authors urge J.K. Rowling Think about the level of influ-
ence she has because she has added tremendous value to the lives of other indepen-
dent people interdependently.
However when it comes to this relationship probably millions of them are now co-de-
pendent on Harry Po�er..”DON’T kill him..please please.” They ‘feel’ like they are at-
tached or connected with something so importantly. For example futbol fanatics! They
are heavily influenced.

When you can influence people or persuade them, you have power and you can also
make a lot of money.

You can watch the next commercial or msn homepage update and not ‘get it’...you’ll
still be caught up in it. You REALLY have to separate yourself from all of that influ-
ence in order to gain the bigger picture perspective on everything. When you under-
stand your relationship (interdependent only) to the other forces of influence, you can
choose whether to accept an influence or reject it if it doesn’t add value to your life.

Guess what? If most people are just soaking up the influence of the social matrix, then
you can see the effect that it’s had and it’s quite obvious. Why not consciously choose
influences that help you become a be�er, stronger man of character? That’s what I’ve
done and it has made a huge difference.

I will take things and get something different out of it than what the producer’s intend-
ed because I cross-reference it with my knowledge, the principles and other influences
a�er I’ve taken it on into my own. I allow things to influence me if they have positive
value that I can extract (or sometimes I force myself to find it fast).

“At the heart of the crisis for the United States is a broader struggle with Iran for influ-
ence in the Middle East.”

Websites like eHarmony are basically trying to match up social expectations. Look at
the pure roots of what works: biology. Women who are CLOSER to their own natural
roots are the ones who have less interference from other forces that will distract them
from doing their biological duties.
At the root of most (behavioral) problems with women and relationships is primarily
social influence. It adds up a�er years of it too. When you can understand the raw
power of influence and then look at social influence and how directly impactful it is
when compared to ie. no t.v. you’ll see how behavior has been altered or influenced
across millions of people. Behavior that is AWAY from their natural roots.

Women who have more social influence and programming find it a challenge to just
go back to their pure biological roots..they must find a balance. Why do you think the
birth rates have dropped dramatically amongst first world women? They’re empow-
ered, they have options and independence. They think logically, get caught up in their
careers and have grown away from their natural roots (of reproduction).
Remember that our grandparents had more natural and traditional ‘influences’. Once
you can understand all this (the big picture), that these behavioral pa�erns of women
and how they act are all rooted in influence (primarily SOCIO-CULTURAL influence),
you will be ge�ing somewhere with relational dynamics.

It should all start to piece together here. Use the root of behavior, the root of each
element in order to fully understand it and how it relates to you...that is what we will
continue to do here.

A few minutes ago I found out that Steve Irwin the ‘Crocodile Hunter’ died from a
stingray strike to the chest. Think about all of the relational dynamics involved there.
He lived a life of taunting danger but why did that have to happen then? If the sting-
ray was a few feet further away it may never have happened.

The stingray (and maybe Steve himself) created a co-dependent relationship by get-
ting really close (as he does a lot) and although Steve could have killed the animal if he
knew what was going to happen, he didn’t know and the stingray’s poison hit the spot
where it affected him the most..probably near his heart.

Steve has been known to force a co-dependent relationship with the animals by not act-
ing natural (staying away from) these dangerous creatures. Relational Dynamics could
have saved him but the countless millions of people wouldn’t have been educated and
entertained by him if he didn’t create those dynamic relationships with the dangerous
animals.

If he had arrived a minute earlier it may have been prevented. All of the relational
dynamics involved influenced a certain event. This will in turn affect countless other
people in a way.

I named our family dog ‘Anne’ influenced from ‘Where the Red Fern Grows’ a long
time ago growing up.

So just be aware of ‘causality’ and that it is at the root of ‘nurture’. Those influences
that people gain will further determine their behavior and how they act.

The social matrix itself is rooted in causality and influence. We will use that knowl-
edge to help you overcome it in Relational Mapping.

It’s time for you to have an influence on people a�er all these years.

Notes:
Begging is a dependency. Beggars are acting dependent.

The Japanese in 1941 bombed pearl harbor forcing a co-dependent relationship by

coercing power over us to lower our independence. Now they are one of our strongest
allies BECAUSE we are interdependent win/win. At that previous point in history we
were not interdependent with them. R.D. is everything and when you can tap into that
power, you HAVE the power. All producers understand R.D. for their field, it’s impos-
sible to have influence without it. Your conscious cognition will xlr8 your potential
and effect.

VH-1’s Behind the Music. The History Channel. Biographies...

all causal influence

Look at photos of female celebs without makeup and start to see the visual truth of
what’s beneath; sexploitation and social influence to get them to do that in the first
place; it’s all a ‘mask’.
 Chapter 10

Chaos Theory & Bu�erfly Effect

Bu�erfly effect
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
For other uses, see Bu�erfly effect (disambiguation).

The bu�erfly effect is a phrase that encapsulates the more technical notion of sensitive
dependence on initial conditions in chaos theory. Small variations of the initial condi-
tion of a dynamical system may produce large variations in the long term behavior of
the system. This is sometimes presented as esoteric behavior, but can be exhibited by
very simple systems: for example, a ball placed at the crest of a hill might roll into any
of several valleys depending on slight differences in initial position.

The phrase refers to the idea that a bu�erfly’s wings might create tiny changes in the
atmosphere that ultimately cause a tornado to appear (or, for that ma�er, prevent a tor-
nado from appearing). The flapping wing represents a small change in the initial con-
dition of the system, which causes a chain of events leading to large-scale phenomena.
Had the bu�erfly not flapped its wings, the trajectory of the system might have been
vastly different.

Recurrence, the approximate return of a system towards its initial conditions, together
with the sensitive dependence on initial conditions, are the two main ingredients for
chaotic motion. They have the practical consequence of making complex systems, such
as the weather, difficult to predict past a certain time range (approximately a week in
the case of weather).

Chaotic dynamics
For a dynamical system to be classified as chaotic, most scientists will agree that it
must have the following properties:

it must be sensitive to initial conditions,

it must be topologically mixing, and
its periodic orbits must be dense.

Sensitivity to initial conditions means that each point in such a system is arbitrarily
closely approximated by other points with significantly different future trajectories.
Thus, an arbitrarily small perturbation of the current trajectory may lead to significant-
ly different future behavior.

Sensitivity to initial conditions is popularly known as the “bu�erfly effect”, suggesting

that the flapping of a bu�erfly’s wings might create tiny changes in the atmosphere,
which could over time cause a tornado to occur. The flapping wing represents a small
change in the initial condition of the system, which causes a chain of events leading to
large-scale phenomena. Had the bu�erfly not flapped its wings, the trajectory of the
system might have been vastly different.

Sensitivity to initial conditions is o�en confused with chaos in popular accounts. It

can also be a subtle property, since it depends on a choice of metric, or the notion of
distance in the phase space of the system. For example, consider the simple dynamical
system produced by repeatedly doubling an initial value (defined by the mapping on
the real line from x to 2x). This system has sensitive dependence on initial conditions
everywhere, since any pair of nearby points will eventually become widely separated.
However, it has extremely simple behavior, as all points except 0 tend to infinity. If
instead we use the bounded metric on the line obtained by adding the point at infin-
ity and viewing the result as a circle, the system no longer is sensitive to initial condi-
tions. For this reason, in defining chaos, a�ention is normally restricted to systems with
bounded metrics, or closed, bounded invariant subsets of unbounded systems.

Topologically mixing means that the system will evolve over time so that any given re-
gion or open set of its phase space will eventually overlap with any other given region.
Here, “mixing” is really meant to correspond to the standard intuition: the mixing of
colored dyes or fluids is an example of a chaotic system.

You alone are sensitive to initial conditions especially when you’re the response to oth-
er powers. That in turn will cause an effect an influence on you without your aware-
ness. It will start a whole new chain of events into who you become without ever real-
izing who you would have become otherwise.

About 9 years ago I independently came up with what was already known (unbe-
knownst to me) as Chaos Theory. Not the mathematical version but rather the applied
version be�er known as ‘the bu�erfly effect’. I was just thinking about the effect of one
person’s actions and how it influenced history.

Columbus didn’t really ‘discover’ the new land because there were already people liv-
ing there. What he did though was undeniable..he set off a chain of events that helped
shape world history by opening up a greater awareness. Greater and greater actions
occurred in a chain of events a�er the small step of ge�ing off of the boat (in Bahamas
actually).

The movie “Bu�erfly Effect” deals with Chaos Theory and if you could go back in time
and change something, it will change the end results of the future o�en dramatically.
The “Back to the Future” trilogy also deals with chaos theory across time as well as
“It’s a Wonderful Life”.

The Spanish Hernan Cortes ‘burning of the boat’s’ to defeat the Aztecs had a perma-
nent alteration on the course of Mexican history. Now they had Spanish influence and
language that melded with the native history to form the new culture. So I like to look
at chaos theory as the power of influence.

Some say that a bu�erfly flapping it’s wings can through a chain of growing events,
change the weather on the other side of the world...whether that is exactly true or not
at least represents Chaos theory through time and history (aka the ‘bu�erfly effect’).

Look at these excerpts from Wikipedia.com:

The most notable achievement of Cortés career was the invasion of Mexico and con-
quest of the Aztec empire. In 1518 Velázquez put him in charge of an expedition to ex-
plore and secure the interior of Mexico for colonization. At the last minute, Velazquez
changed his mind and tried to revoke his order to prevent the brash Cortés from steal-
ing all the glory that might come from the expedition[citation needed].

The decisive ba�le in this campaign was the siege of Tenochtitlan. Cortés’ victory over
the Aztecs at Tenochtitlan enabled the eventual Spanish conquest of Mexico.

Cortés married one of the daughters of Emperor Montezuma II and gave the other
noble women to his men.

Cortés initiates the construction of Mexico City

Cortés began the construction of Mexico City on the Aztec ruins and brought many
Spaniards over to live there. It soon became the most important European city in North
America. He managed the founding of new cities and appointed men to extend Span-
ish rule to all of Mexico, which was renamed New Spain. Cortés also supported efforts
to convert Indians to Christianity and sponsored new explorations.

Can you see how a certain action has created such a compounded effect throughout
history? History is also being made RIGHT NOW.

So if you look at time itself. We all have 24 hours in a day and each new minute has
never happened before. You can do things that will shape your future massively just
by taking some small steps or perhaps being influenced by someone else. If you think
about it, every moment is chaos because we are all in one great interdependency that is
connected with each other.

For example, think of a really good friend and then think of how you met that person.
Or maybe a lover. Now look at the small action it took which you may have missed if
you didn’t take the opportunity to meet them or weren’t introduced...you would NEV-
ER have the pleasure of their company throughout the entire time since then..it would
not exist.

You can read the biography’s of different band’s and how they formed...o�en there
were very close calls as to who would become a part of that group and who wouldn’t.
A chance posting on a wall calling for ‘open auditions’. Someone who knows someone
who they met at a Christmas party.

All of these seemingly inconsequential events have ended up influencing the world
through countless millions of people. Yet had they not ‘met’ or taken that small step,
none of it would exist and their influence wouldn’t have reached.

You will understand life a LOT more when you understand relational dynamics. You
will be able to analyze different situations and extract the truth out of it. Think about
things in terms of cause and effect and how it influences behaviorism.

I remember my mother taking me and my brother to junior high yearbook commi�ee

meeting. That started a whole chain reaction of my involvement including running
for and ending up being senior class president of the largest high school in Wisconsin.
Why?

Because she influenced me to ‘get involved’ and I took it on my own to ‘get involved’
in high school (10th grade) because it was a fresh start at a new school and it made a
world of a difference.

Smelling perfume on the first day of 8th grade was when my relationship with girls
changed to being a response to that stimuli. That in turn affected my behavior as well
as the rest of my environment (also rooted in Causality) which only made it worse un-
til I regained proper alignment through R.D.

You can look back on your life and even pinpoint the exact minute when you were in-
fluenced and made a new chain of reality occur through history.

That’s chaos theory as practically applied through time or history. Scientists would
probably want me to refer to it as the ‘bu�erfly effect’.
Remember, though that you are who you are today because of your past INFLUENCES
and decisions. And each of those decisions and actions were made at a moment.

You can alter the future by take action (doing the right things) today and start a chain
of events that will lead your to who you want to be.

People who have the most influence are those that are in powerful or win/win relation-
ships with other people. These are the ones that started the influence of the social ma-
trix and sexploitation itself...it’s all a great chaotic bu�erfly effect but at it’s root, know
your relationship to it.

You have power over women naturally to allow them to respond.

Notes:

Peace is a synergy amongst independent people. It’s based on respect for other people.
In fact it’s

If you’re confused or not an expert in a certain area it’s because you don’t know the ele-
ments involved or how to synergize them together.

The compass analogy.

Take a flat world map and a protractor and ruler. Find where you are at in the world
right now and choose a direction, any direction. Follow that path (via ruler or string)
in that direction and mark that point where you end up.

Now go back to the beginning and I want you to move that path just a hair off of the
previous path. Now follow that path an equal distance. Notice that you ended up in a
completely different area and that the distance of your final destination ended up be-
ing incrementally further away from the minuscule difference at the beginning? This is
the power of influence.

Don’t underestimate it and chaos theory when dealing with time. Therefore it is in
your best interest to take absolute control and allow influences in that will lead you in
the direction that you want.

Otherwise, if you just follow what society or others want (even ‘primarily’) you’ll end
up WAY off from where you wanted to be. With relational dynamics however, we’re
taking you on a plane from where you are right now to much closer to where you
 Chapter 11

Power of Production

Production is essentially synergizing elements together to form a new independent

elemental representation to add value to other people’s lives. Find more ways to syner-
gize and add value and you’ll make a lot of money with a lot of power.

At the root of production is cognition of the elements and how they relate to each other
(relational dynamics).

Relational Dynamics will empower ANY producer or anyone who wants to produce or
add value to the world. Awareness and clarity of the elements you are working with
will help you be�er differentiate their relationship and potential to the other elements
you can synergize them together with.

EVERYTHING is composed of different elements. Watch your favorite music video

and you can elementally break it down (once you understand relational dynamics). It’s
impossible for something NOT to be comprised of elements. Understanding the es-
sence of life, energy, relationships and production itself will give you massive power in
combining those elements.

Consider that every person (in the world) that you meet or could meet is composed of
the same elements as you (but one chromosome off for the difference in sex) but they
just have different (mostly to all) social influences. That’s it. They have different influ-
ences (experiences) in their history.

This is what makes a Paris Hilton who she is and different from a Nicky Hilton. The
fact that their grandfather started the Hilton Hotel chain just gives them the influence
of higher social status to begin with. That is why their experience of life (started off) at
a different (social) level than most.

Put the social aside and you wouldn’t really ‘know’ Paris until you got to know her real
personality and spent time with her.

I’m sure there is a real girl inside there somewhere! That’s the part you want to reach
through to.
All productions are conscious(ly) developed (unless they are candid documentary
style..) however they CAN synergize with nature and natural elements. Also, the natu-
ral elements of those representing the production can shine through. Nature itself can-
not produce ‘music’ but it naturally synergizes countless elements together.

Professional music producers will be able to hear a song once and actually isolate the
different elements or ‘tracks’ in their mind because they have to understand the rela-
tion (and synergy) of those elements in order to produce itself.

If you want to learn a new language, all you have to do is understand the different
elements themselves and how they fit together. Vocabulary is your understanding of
different words. Studying sentence structure and grammar is the synergizing of the
independent elements of each word itself (vocabulary).

When you educate yourself enough you’ll be able to ‘differentiate’ some words from
meaninglessness and start making sense of things, otherwise you’re just ignorant. For
example I’ve learned to speak a bit of Thai and I can quite easily differentiate the pho-
netics and words whereas before I was completely ignorant.

Unlimited elements (especially those that are consciously derived and new ones are be-
ing created daily) creates for an unlimited variety of new production (or influence).

When you get ‘good’ (at relational dynamics) you will able to single out exact influenc-
es of a person’s style, energy or personality. This is very advanced relational dynamics
and can create a TREMENDOUS amount of synergy (when used properly).

You want to be an effective producer who really brings new and fresh value, step out-
side the westernized culture in the first place and get back to real nature or roots. Iron-
ically Sco� Storch was the keyboardist for ‘The Roots’ and then went on to be the hot-
test music producer (in my mind) out there and he is drawing influences from (music
in) the second and third world countries.

We now have mostly socially defined/influenced people who are producing (or record-
ing artists including women) which means that we have gone even FURTHER away
from our natural roots. I feel that a lot of artists are only socially defined and just try-
ing to ‘cover’ a new microniche before someone else does.

They all look like a variation of some band you already heard before and they sound
like others except slightly different. It’s understandable but if you can’t see this is all
social influence then you don’t have as much power as you should.

Just study the relationship of how to synergistically put those elements together and
you’ll be a master at anything from construction to music production to product de-
sign.

For example, if you just think that someone has ‘talent’ who can make music or all you
do is hear it you would be a LONG ways away from producing music yourself. But
if you sat in a studio and started to see different instruments or sound loops and how
they start to fit together you would be well on your way to producing ‘something’.

Production isn’t just for music or for movies, nor is it just for chickens to ‘produce’
eggs. Production is any new and independent creation in ANY field that other people
can then have a relationship with (and get value from).

Another tip for you if you’re a producer (of anything); the higher the quality of your
elements, the be�er the quality of your end result. That’s why hip-hop producers are
always looking for the ho�est or newest sounds or ‘beats’. I am all about using ‘A’ class
elements myself.

In graphic design, the higher quality your elements, the faster, easier and more profes-
sional it becomes to get an incredible result. Since I can design movie posters I’ve no-
ticed that it’s actually EASIER for the high-end professionals because they’re working
with the highest quality elements (production stills) than someone who is using their
home camera and isn’t professional.

I’ve also noticed how easy it is to re-create madison avenue advertising design so I
created a Photoshop training program on how to produce those designs (on DVD). It’s
quite easy dealing with high quality elements and then it’s just a ma�er of synergiz-
ing their relationship to each other. Add a few vectors, some good typography with a
great production still and you’re about finished.

Reasonably high priced quality name brands cost more because they have quality ma-
terials within them to start with. For example Mark Nason boots uses super high qual-
ity Italian leather; stuff that will last and looks good. It will outwear and outperform a
cheaper version because of the high quality (independent) materials. Synergize all the
high quality (independent) components (like stitching, heel or sole, zipper, etc.) and
you’ve got a product greater than the sum of it’s parts.

Look at the best chefs..they use only the finest ingredients. You can’t build a house on
sand because the relationship to it would not be very synergistic. It would be a co-de-
pendency instead of a win/win relationship.

The ‘calling’ to produce and grow in character: Mike Judge went through it a�er his
short pilot/demo to produce dozens of new skits and he didn’t have an idea then of
what kind of content he would produce, but he did. Peter Jackson had ‘the calling’ as
well in doing the ‘Lord of the Rings: Trilogy’.

A 7 year production backed by two major studios; there was no choice BUT to step up
his game and produce...it HAD to be done (at a high level of interdependence). So
they both grew into it. What can you learn? Set BIG goals in which you have to de-
liver.

It’s not a dependency but if Peter Jackson let the production go half-ass he would
probably never make another film (with studio backing) EVER again. And the final
‘production’ went on to influence countless people and make Academy Award history
(Return of the Kings Oscar sweep).

It’s about ‘stepping up’ like Rocky Balboa...rising up to the challenge. So get yourself
a major goal and become the man you have to be in order to fulfill that dream. Your
character will grow immensely.

You can take any influence and make it awesome/popular/promoted (look at ‘Revenge
of the Nerds’ or ‘Napoleon Dynamite’). This is what independent/alpha guys do. In
fact you can make it more popular than it was originally because of the value YOU take
out of it. For example, Beavis & Bu�-head.

I never really realized how satirical and awesome it really was until I started view-
ing them on my own (outside of MTV) and drawing my own value out of it. Now I’m
unashamed to say I love it (even though I love complete different sources of influence).
Does it make me uncultured? No, it makes me MORE cultured and diverse.

I’m not a pretentious guy and there is actually a TON of humour in those skits that
completely makes fun of society. I wore bellbo�oms in high school and had a cult fol-
lowing.

Once you can differentiate that there are elements involved in anything and you can
start to ‘see them’, you will be much closer to resolving a situation or achieving your
desired result. This means that you could take on anything new and learn it fast.

Master the elements involved in any field and how they are supposed to be synergized
and then you can create your own original productions.

How can Shrek2 be so effective? Relational Dynamics. Compare even Atari before.
The relationship between the elements was new and pre�y basic. NOW, we have ad-
vanced the elements to a higher level of interdependence with each other.
We have the ability to model and render full 3-D realistic figures (composed itself of
independent elements of shapes, sprigs, etc.) to interact with other elements to interact
with fantastic 3-D landscaping elements.

Add to that a fantastic plotline with fully developed (independent) characters done ef-
fectively to their peak and everything adds up to a modern masterpiece of synergy of
all of the elements.

There are countless examples of synergistic productions; I have consciously sought out
to break down the elements involved in other expert productions. I have thought like
a producer for over a decade and it gives me personal power and eventually unlimited
social power as I continue to apply it.

Cocktail soundtrack is a perfect examples of synergy all the way around the house.

Note how ‘just the right song’ comes on and synergizes with the action. For example,
the universal representation and youthful freedom of ‘The Power of Love’ when it
kicks in when Marty McFly’s late for school and starts skateboarding on the back of
vehicles to get there and meet his girlfriend. Great synergy; learn to see it.

Very importantly, learn to think like an Independent producer who is separate from
the repressing influence of the Social Matrix. They are the people at the top (or at least
‘aside’) who feed ‘the system’.

Don’t just ‘accept’ and ‘be’ the conditioned response (at least have an equal true value
exchange for your time but start to see these things. Robert Zemeckis isn’t a good look-
ing guy, neither are a lot of those guys yet they have power because of the relationships
they have (they’re independent and work around leveraged interdependence.

Look at the diagrams and the videos and you will really see this quite clearly. They
have power and influence.

Hit producers will o�en pull in independent samples from decades ago to synergize
with more modern elements.

U2 influenced coldplay

Why was Titanic so effective for example? Let me say this; just about EVERYTHING
becomes an enjoyable experience when you understand the elements and the impor-
tance of what they represent.

In fact you’ll actually begin to extract value and create new value out of it (this is an
interdependent relationship instead of just a stimulus-response).
You’ll know that when Kate Winslet drops her eyes and looks up again at Leo in Ti-
tanic (or the music video...) that she’s fascinatedly interested in him. That’s relational
dynamics (and it effect was re-produced).

In fact, you will find that you will gain NEW influence by cross-referencing (elements)
relational dynamics from one source into another area when you understand it.

This puts you at a level of fascinating curiosity (of life) in just about everything.

You can find value in things that people say ‘suck’ and cross-reference it with some-
thing else you know of to create a new influence on the world or a new value or angle.
Why? Because the focus is on you and your power. You’re not just

the response ‘watching’ but you’re proactively thinking of the elements and how they
interact with other options to influence something else.

The past couple of paragraphs were influenced (off of my state) from when Kate Win-
slet drops her eyes and li�s them (and I can go in all kinds of directions with that...
speaking of one of the most effective is in ‘Last of the Mohicans’ and you’ll know
which part).

You won’t just see ‘random happenstance’ you’ll see that everything has a purpose and
relationship. It will quite o�en blow your mind. You’ll get more value (and entertain-
ment even) out of everything; that’s relational dynamics.

Through R.D. you’ll view things proactively and interdependently instead of just soak-
ing it up like a sponge like most people, with it ge�ing lost with all the billions of other
messages.

Is it too objective? Not when it comes full circle. You’ll realize that you see the univer-
sal representation within each of the elements and their relationship to each other (ie.
watching “My heart will go on” music video).

When you can differentiate and see the Matrix at this level including the relationship of
man and women of love, it will shake your ground because you truly understand it on
a deeper level.

Just watching this music video (once as it’s been years), I can see the relationship be-
tween ship and sea and literally every detail like seeing the Matrix including what’s
real and what’s ‘produced’. It’s hard to explain but if you can see the Matrix and the
relationship between every aspect and consciously process it fast, you will be on a level
of few people on earth.

You will have an unearthly, unexpected level of cognition that will give you a lot of
power, especially to create new value on earth as you’ll see new directions or combina-
tions of the elements in which you could take things.

If you don’t understand what I’m saying, perhaps through time you will. Most people
wouldn’t have a clue because they are used to a lifetime of being the response instead
of thinking proactively as the stimulus how to create and add new value.

When you can see new possibilities and understand and apply relational dynamics
you can easily become a millionaire with power and influence provided you have the
resources and freedom to get your vision across (in any field without a ‘ceiling’).

You can even control the stimulus of producing emotion as a producer. Not just as a
producer but in your daily life, you can cause a response of emotion within women
and within the people you interact with DAILY.

How do you create emotion? (I should have charged more for this)...you tap into the
primal and universal elements. Love, life, death, risk, tragedy, jealousy, hope.

The most effective producers can create a stimulus (the production of ie. a song or mu-
sic video, etc.) that create a ‘response’ of an intended emotion within people.

I cannot and will not reveal any further EVEN FOR those potential producers who will
challenge me or meet my future level of production (don’t get cocky kid ;).
 Chapter 12

OFC Tilter

This is going to be a perfect example of Relational Dynamics and applied effectiveness.

I knew what was going on then cognitively but it’s only with relational dynamics that I
can clearly pinpoint exactly what was happening.

When you are aware of the independent elements involved in anything, you are much
more able to understand their potential relationship to each other for great control,
power, influence and effectiveness.

If you were blinded to each element or to it’s relationship you would think it was just
‘happenstance’. Having awareness of the relational dynamics in ANYTHING = power
and control; and in this case that power and control was about 100 times greater than
anyone else had come close to.

Apply relational dynamics (as I did in this perfect example) and you can revel in your
ability to influence the outcome to your favor and add value to other people’s lives.

I’ll paint the picture for you. It was the summer of 1995. I was going to college at UW-
Madison in Wisconsin. I wanted to have somewhat of an adventure and get further
away from where I was so at the summer job fair at Memorial Union I saw a poster for
Valleyfair. Well I ended up deciding to work there that summer and that’s what I did.

My mom drove me to Shakopee, MN (south of Minneapolis) where I shared an old

church (and it’s extension building) with several other Valleyfair workers (co-ed).
Since I didn’t have a vehicle then I either rollerbladed to work or hitched a ride with
someone.

Upon hearing that I was going to work in the ‘kiddy’ park I was kind of disappointed.
A�er all, I wanted to be on the ‘big rides’ where there were more people my age. So I
was stuck in ‘Half-Pint Park’.

To cut a long story shorter, it was an awesome summer and it was actually kind of fun
running the rides for kids as I would make them laugh and give them invisible guns to
shoot each other with on the airplane ride, tell them there were sharks in the pool be-
neath them, etc.

Now to get to where we’re going here, there was one ride on our rotation which WAS
an adult ride (‘family ride’ actually).

This was the tilt-a-whirl or ‘Tilter’ as we called it. Almost all of the rides at Valleyfair
have a set level of performance in which the synergy between the rider and the ride
differs only on the users end because the ride is always THE SAME. Sure each user’s
experience will be different.

Some people will have the time of their life, other’s will cry (even some adults), others
will puke, others will sit there staring straight ahead ge�ing mad, it’s actually fun to
see. But most of the rides are always the same. The rollercoaster does the exact same
thing everytime...it’s relationship to the track, it’s speed and inertia are the same every
time.

So now that you understand that, let’s go back to my beloved ‘tilter’. This is one of the
VERY few rides that is variable and has a vastly difference degree of potential experi-
ence. You can ride it one time (and not spin at all) and your experience may be differ-
ent the next time.

The tilter is a ride with 7-8 carts which can operate or spin independently of the entire
base which rotates all of the carts in one 360 direction. So you can have each of the
carts spinning their own direction, spinning furiously or not spinning at all during the
ride as the base makes it’s 360 degree rotations.

As usual I figured things out on my own but it took me half of the summer just to real-
ize that I had the ability to have an influence on ge�ing a cart onto what I called the
‘vortex’ or that I had any real control (or power to influence) myself. The first half of
the summer it would just happen by chance.

With the ride there is this thin metal pole that sticks up that moves the ride as well as
brakes it. Most operators will just put it on ‘go’ and then completely brake it when it’s
done (there was some drama about not doing what I ended up doing but I won).

Some will try to fool around with it to control the carts but without much effect as they
usually just stuck to ‘the rules’ anyways (of turning it on and then off at the end of the
3-6 minutes).

So when I realized that by edging the brake it would change the spinning sequences
of the carts albeit somewhat haphazardly through inertia, but it would at least mix the
ride up a li�le bit. Throughout the summer a�er that I slowly started to gain more
control and influence and towards the end of the summer..well, I’ll get there.

If you’ve ever ridden in a tilt-a-whirl you will know if you’ve ever been in ‘the vortex’.
Most riders don’t get to experience the ‘vortex’ and those that do will either love it, hate
it, hate you, have a crush on you, stumble away or puke. Eventually I gained enough
synergy (high level or transformational interdependence) with the machine’s control
bar (and each of it’s carts) that I could decide who I wanted in the vortex.

The vortex is when a cart will hit a certain level of inertia in it’s relationship to the mo-
mentum of the rotating main base of the ride. What happens is the cart and the people
in it will hit a magic invisible fulcrum and start spinning about 6 times faster than they
were before.

They’ll do dozens of rotations in their own cart on one full 360 degree rotation around
the ride. The ‘effect’ of ‘the vortex’ (the ultimate synergy between user, operator and
machine) is that the people get PLASTERED up against the back of the tilter as it just
whips them around and around.

I gained so much pleasure out of consciously choosing to put people in the vortex be-
cause most of them just loved it. A group of mixed pre-teen kids or some teenage girls
would unexpectedly step under my control of the tilter, having no idea what they were
ge�ing into yet with a huge smirk on my face I had absolute knowledge of what was
about to happen.

And remember this was only a�er I reached a level higher independence (in my aware-
ness and ability) and pure interdependent synergy with the machine. It was a beau-
tiful relationship. In fact, the touch was so ‘delicate’ in controlling and braking the
bar (we’re talking mere millimeters of adjustment) that I ultimately had near absolute
control over the tilter and each of the carts.

I could take people on and off the vortex at ease. I could make a tough person puke by
keeping them on the vortex long enough. That’s influence baby.

I’ve had people give me rounds of applause a�erwards, throw up, girls ask for my
number, teenagers running back around to on again, customer service recommenda-
tions and awards and one time I said while I was locking everyone in, “If you’re happy
and you know it clap your hands” and 3 carts clapped their hands in unison.

Not to even mention the consistent SCREAMS coming especially from girls in the
vortex. I would purposely make some kids bored by keeping them off of it and then
choose to get them on the vortex and watch their faces light up. The vortex was vi-
ciously hardcore too yet each independent rider had their own experience or relation-
ship with the vortex. It was there..it was the stimulus and they were the response.
Actually I was the stimulus, lol.

The effect of high level synergy I had with these most of these people brightened their
day and le� them (if they didn’t throw up or feel too queasy) with probably the best
experience of the day. It felt so good to have the power, effect and influence of ge�ing
value across at the best level.

I had a record of not ge�ing ‘pukers’ throughout summer and I said ‘screw it, let’s go
with this’ and I started to TRY and get people to throw up so I could add it to my tally
(14 for the summer but I didn’t start trying to the last 1/3).

When someone puked, you would have to shut down the ride and throw some pixie
dust on it or something and clean it up with towels and a broompan, then you could
re-open the ride and get ‘em spinning again.

Now remember, the socialistic a�itude would be to provide the transactional interde-
pendence: Turn the ride on, let it run and whatever happens, happens but turn it off
when it’s over. Usually one or two carts would (beyond the control of the ride opera-
tor) hit the vortex randomly and not for long in that method of operation. The rela-
tionship was just between the control bar itself (not the operator) and the machine’s
elements.

But look what happens when we (I) become cognizant of the entire process. When I
understood my relationship to the machine through the control bar I was able to con-
sciously and swi�ly improve the overall synergy and ‘effect’ experience.

My awareness that I could control it alone when it hit me at least doubled my effective-
ness in giving people good rides. When I became more aware of the vortex and the
relationship to what fulcrum is best to start it spinning, I started to gain more effective-
ness because I was differentiating each of the elements.

There IS a vortex. How does it start? How do I start it consciously? Where does it
start for each cart? Ok, now how do I stop it? How do I get 2, 3, 4 carts on the vortex
simultaneously?

These were things I became aware of by having a discerning and high level of interde-
pendence relationship to the machine. I was improving my relationship to the ride and
I had respect for it’s power.

Whoever would have thought that the full level of influence really did come down to
just a few millimeters of tweaking (light hits of the brake, etc.) to have THAT level of
effect? Thus is such in the hands of a master of any art. They understand the relation-
ship of all of the elements and they know what the ultimate level of ‘flow’ or success/
influence is and through synergizing the elements together, they can create a tremen-
dously powerful effect.

You could sit a joe blow in a music studio with ALL of the elements to produce the
next big hit but if he doesn’t understand the relational dynamics in that field, he is FAR
away. Someone who understands relational dynamics alone will be able to get to an
on-par level of basic music production within hours.

This is what I have done in just hours. Why? Because I understand relational dynam-
ics. I’m a professional graphic designer and have been for a while. That is ALL about
the independent elements and their relationship to each other; it is ‘design’. I’ve been
able to effectively create movie posters because of relational dynamics.

With the tilter I had control over the design I wanted and was able to have a tremen-
dous impact through discerning each of the independent elements and their relation-
ship with each other.

So, back to the tilter...here is the best part of all. I literally did the impossible. It was
around August 26, 2005 at Valleyfair. It was my last Saturday working and I had
special requested to O-C the tilter. Within our group we affectionately called it OFC
(open-f*cking-close).

This means I didn’t rotate to the other stations, I was at the tilter all day and my co-
workers had to bypass the tilter because I was there.

Before the park officially opened, I thought to myself: “What would happen if I could
get every single person, all day long on the vortex?” Then I thought that, “No, that’s
impossible...too many people.” And then I decided, “Let’s do it.” And I did the impos-
sible. I put every single cart the entire day on the vortex.

Now, granted there was a general time limit and I would say that I went over that time
limit by a minute each ride, but all day long I had the longest line ever because people
were hearing the SCREAMS and going to tell the rest of their group at the park to go to
this ride. Plus, the social proof of having a long line helps; it MUST be a good ride and
people leaving the line would even tell people in line but you could tell they LOVED it.

So during the day, I had to keep track of each cart (understanding my awareness of the
independent elements and my relationship to them) so I could ‘take care’ of everyone.
The entire day I was ‘flowing’ at a level of synergy of a Michael Jordan in his heyday in
relation to these elements. No one makes every shot, no one comes close.

As far as I know, I’m the only person in history who has ever done it; and I’m not a
Carnie..I was just there for one summer but when I became cognitively aware and
understood the relational dynamics, I would keep tweaking and improving until I had
absolute influence.

Now, I could have reached mastery level from scratch within say, a week of O-C’ing if I
started from scratch because of my clarity on relational dynamics. You want to master
and get good at anything and fast?

Relational Dynamics; understand your relation to the elements and how to get them to
a high level of synergy and keep tweaking until you’re there. You’ll learn what doesn’t
work fast and there’s no harm done.

I’ll never forget that day. Running the tilter alone (usually a total of 2 hours a day)
made my summer and it gave me something to look forward to. Remember that none
of my co-workers could consciously put even one cart on the vortex (as far as I know).
And here I was making sure all of the carts on each ride were on ‘the vortex’ PLAS-
TERED to the back wall of their cart.

That was thousands of people in one day. Sometimes I had 4 on vortex simultaneously
and then I’d do a flick of my wrist and mix it up to put the others on and some (like
cute girls or something) would be on the vortex the ENTIRE ride (3-6 minutes). I espe-
cially enjoyed doing that or to some teenage boys who usually loved the vortex.

The sense of power and fulfillment that came from my cognition (knowledge) while I
was making sure these unsuspecting people had their ride bars locked in was priceless.
They didn’t pay me enough for the value I gave these people but I got value in return
because I gave so much to them.

*Disclaimer: No one was hurt (other than throwing up) and I fell within park and su-
pervisor regulations at all times. Although I don’t think they knew the level of control/
power or influence that I had at least on that last day!

You reach that level in your field you had be�er be ge�ing paid very well!

Keep in mind that no one else could even do it ‘on call’ or ‘at will’ like I could. In fact
I became known for my prowess but that day I unofficially made park (and tilter) his-
tory. My effect and level of influence compounded by maintaining the highest level of
synergy throughout the 12 hour shi� and consistently whupping people around on the
vortex.
The overall effect of influence from my control was I’d say 100 times greater than any-
one else had (or anyone else working in the park for that ma�er).

That day, those people had no idea how much power and control I had. To them, they
didn’t have an awareness of the relational dynamics and they didn’t have to. They
were there to have a good time and ultimately ended up being influenced on what was
a high level of synergy (also outside of their cognition).

This was 100 times greater than happenstance. Without my awareness of my indepen-
dent ability and the relationship to the machine to create a synergy I would not have
been able to had anywhere NEAR the level of power, control and influence that I did.
And it was power, they were PUTTY in my hands!

For some of those kids it could have been the Best day of their life and I had the biggest
single part to do with it.

Within relational dynamics lies the key to success. Through cognition alone of the
relational dynamics involved in that situation (and for you, in ANY situation) I/you can
reach a level of power and influence that is dynamically effective and influential. A
level of influence that is MUCH greater than without cognition.

Take the peak performance or ideal (or of other producers examples) and it’s that level
of relationship between the elements that you want to control.

Business, cooking, teaching, sailing, farming, auto repair, surgery, producing music,
architecture, construction, furniture building, carpentry, graphic design, driving, fly-
ing, so�ware engineering, magazine editing, programming, dj’ing, technology, editing,
remixing, bartending & mixed drinks, juggling, spinning bo�les like Tom Cruise in
Cocktail, engineering, problem solving, circus acts, machines, vehicles, electricity, HR
management, atmosphere, marketing, and sustainable life itself - you name it. It’s all
about relational dynamics; the relationship of the elements synergizing together.

You can learn about ‘anything’ once you understand the elements involved and how
they relate to each other. You can master new fields, even create new fields (and defi-
nitely products), you can have power and influence on a world-class level once you
master relational dynamics within that field. So LOOK at the elements in your field of
interest, understand them and be cognitive of them.

Then understand their relationship to each other and the ideal relationship. Study oth-
er professionals who have effectively synergized those elements together (ie. top mu-
sic producers, top chefs, top architects, top fashion designers) and you can learn from
them or you can learn by yourself (like I usually do) just by seeing an entire production
complete and then differentiating each of the elements within it and then reconstruct-
ing them on their own.

That is how I created Star Wars posters that look as good as the mass-distributed ones
(and no one taught me; it was all relational dynamics and cognition) and that’s how I
OFC’ed the Tilt-a-whirl and influenced thousands of peoples lives that day.

And the relational dynamics involved with becoming a very successful ladies man?
Well..it’s understanding your relationship to your own biological character, the social
matrix and her three energies/responsive characteristics; that is the root that will get
you to Alpha character and fearlessness in congruency around women. At that point
you won’t need to be dependent on the lines or words to say.

If you look back in history there never had to be any ‘pick up lines’..people just were
social with each other and met through social groups. Even without social groups
now, by being close to NIS alpha all you have to do is make connections with women
and deal with her natural character and you’ll be a modern day Don Juan because you
already have what she wants (the narcotic stimulus-response relationship off of your
high natural character).
 Chapter 13

Power Relationships

Remember that there is ‘always a relationship’. ..A true relationship that is o�en hid-
den.

You should be able to sense who has the power in any situation or relationship if you
are cognitive and thinking (instead of le�ing your brain be a mushy sponge of a re-
sponse).

The Home Depot commercial where the house-leading wife says, “I’m going shop-
ping” and the husband is on the couch...”:at the home depot”. And he says, “(uhh..)
should we take the truck?”

Can you see what’s going on here and how representational of our society it is? The
weak wussy guy who has been repressed so much by his dominating wife. Even if it
is a subtle shi�, it is very real. I’ve seen all kinds of relationships where the wife is the
leader.

Few relationships (of man and woman) have a pure 50/50 dynamic. In that case, the
wife has at least 51% control.

Or how about the pet ad where it says ‘man’s best friend’ but the dog is si�ing on the
‘wo’ and runs away to say ‘woman’s best friend’. There are a million examples and I
just want you to think for yourself about what’s really going on. See how it is reflective
of our society and remember your relationship to it.

Hey, I love independent women too...they make awesome friends because they’re more
interesting and intellectual. They make great sex partners too but to actually live with
(YIKES).

It’s up to you to decide if you want to make that kind of compromise with your des-
tiny unless you KNOW (and time will tell) that she’ll support you instead of break you
down.

A man is supposed to lead the relationship naturally and the woman will step up and
do it if she has to. Nowadays anyways, by default they o�en just kind of tend to take
over the reigns because they forgot what their natural role was especially if the hus-
band doesn’t ‘stand up’.

With Beavis & Bu�head, Bu�head is the obvious ‘leader’ of the two. Begin to see the
relationship dynamics that exist around you. Keep power for yourself by consciously
choosing to stay powerfully independent and only operating with others interdepen-
dently.

Power/Authority-Submission can also be overt like when Biff Tannen is slapping

George McFly on the head. Being Alpha and high in natural character means you’re
going to have to stand up but you won’t mind it as much anymore because you know
it’s the right thing.

Power plays can be subtle but they are real; the represent the greater context of what’s
going on and can be extrapolated over time to form a solid picture. When you meet
a woman, there is an invisible relationship that is going on and it o�en determines
whether you have any chance at all with her. This is how and where most guys fail.

And because it’s usually invisible it’s all that most other expert’s know how to focus on.
Keep your power to yourself in the first place by remaining the stimulus and she’ll be
able to trust you and can then start opening up more.

She is looking for a man she can ‘trust’ and ‘respond’ to but it’s not going to be you if
you keep responding and giving her the pedestal power relationship. It’s about you
BEING a man of equal or greater power to any woman on earth and you can do that
through Relational Mapping.

Just keeping your power for yourself in relation to her is priceless.

Plus, you’re backed up by powerful universal laws and principles; powers that are
much greater than your own ‘inner’ game. Harness them and use that leverage be-
cause women are using tremendous social and inner leverage when you meet them.

Your independence is a universal right, so claim it. You have that same quality as ev-
ery other independent entity.

When you enter any new situation, look at the actual group dynamics. You can see
it for example on reality t.v. shows. Look who starts to take control, who is a natural
leader, who starts bossing others around and o�en who ends up really being a leader
in the end because he was just not taking a part in the group right away, etc..

You can actually watch things happen. In past group dynamics people will think they
had power over me because sometimes I didn’t participate right away but when it
came down to more of a ‘test’ through time they’ll know what they’re dealing with and
that I was actually the most resilient of all of them.

For example the 10 year class reunion gathering where my outspoken bossy vice Presi-
dent (who had a token wussy husband) seemed to take control of the meeting when it
was still me all along who had control.

I just made sure she knew her role and that everything was on me to make sure this
thing happened which it did. I knew my ‘relationship’ as Class President to the others.

You don’t have to ‘match’ an outspoken person because o�en they aren’t the ones with
real power. A real leader and powerful person will be able to influence people over
time without having to intimidate and repress others.

Here’s a scenario of a power relationship.

One person is si�ing in a prime spot, leaves and someone else is si�ing there who re-
fuses to move...well, guess who just went up the social hierarchy. And it’s all about his
congruency with it too; does he have the character to take on the challenge if necessary.

Now, you don’t have to be that guy that tries to take over other’s space. In fact you can
just be the independent and strong observer if it’s not necessary that you be a ‘part’ of
the group.

A good alpha or leader is one who the other’s can trust to lead without compromising
their own respect. A good leader allows other’s to be influenced under his leadership
allowing them to save face.

In many environments the hierarchical structure is already set (like a job or a military).
I’m just encouraging you to eventually step up in every case you know that you should
because that is who you’ll become. I’ve found that I’ve become a group leader more
than I thought I would just because of my character growth and experiences.

As you continue to grow you’ll find yourself stepping up and taking on more responsi-
bility and quite o�en other’s will not challenge your authority. If they do, either com-
promise if possible, step down (your choice) or stand your ground. Those are deci-
sions a leader has to make.

Whoever has the strongest influence or more power usually wins and influences the
other. As you go through life, you’ll notice the actual relationships between people
including who has power and who doesn’t. Obviously you will.

Look at ‘Project Greenlight’ for example. Who has the power? Ma� Damon & Ben Af-
fleck as producer’s and financiers. So bring in a new director and make him look like
crap and showcasing it so that no ma�er what he does he is still subject to higher ap-
proval or heresay.

That’s why I could never be a studio director (unless I was using them for my own ex-
perience before I breakway). It’s up to you to be independent and effective enough in
your own right to form the relationships that you really want.

For example, George Lucas. He operates win/win with Hollywood and distributors.
He has enough financing, experience and capital to do things independently (Skywalk-
er Ranch, etc.). He even offers his services to others in the industry; that’s real power.

But he’s not subject to anyone else; he keeps control by being fully independent and
only working win/win with other power players. Compare that again to Project Green-
light where they can make you look like shit if they really want to BECAUSE OF THE
TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP.

Porn stars are still essentially subject to the hierarchy of their producer or who is pay-
ing their paycheck.

So why keep YOURSELF in relationships of disempowerment by acknowledging or

working with people as if you’re in a hierarchy and they’re above you (like almost all
seducers and PUA’s do no ma�er how they try to re-frame it ‘inside of them’).

It’s up to you to be independent and powerful. Then you can choose to only operate
interdependently with women. Be the George Lucas from the start instead of the new
Project Greenlight guy (who has to prove himself). You’re already proven by being
high character independently (and much of that comes from being independent itself).

In the beginning of a relationship with a woman though, if you don’t set the frame
that you are the stimulus and lead of the relationship, she’ll o�en just step in and ‘take
over’ by default now that she’s independent (if that’s who you’re with). Marry her and
it will be a subtle and not-so-subtle daily power struggle or balance.

With a lot of these challenging, independent women you’re GOING to have to assert
yourself when they cross the line or try to tip the power back in their favor. There’s
almost no way around it; (they have ‘become’ this). This will let them know that you
have standards.
Alcohol, drugs or guns don’t kill people although a person’s (chosen) relationship with
it may. People kill people and co-dependencies kill people.

Women can get away with a lot without taking accountability for it but do assert your-
self when necessary if she is violating your principles or she can leave the relationship.
It’s easier to be that Alpha man of power with the leverage of the relational formula on
your side.

This is all your responsibility but perhaps most importantly from this lesson, apply
R.D. so that you can ‘be’ that man of higher character who gives all women room to
‘respond’ to him. You don’t have to give up your power for anyone.

Everything runs across your decision ‘desk’ first. Apply N.E.O. training live!
 Chapter 14

Basic Relationships & Interdependence

I’m going to keep things short here as I talk a bit about relationships in the ‘Relational
Formula’ Chapter and the rest of the program.

I want you to be ‘cognitive’ of the TRUE relationships that exist between people and
other sources of power and influence.

Ultimately you want to truly be ‘independent’ so that you can be interdependent in

relation with all other people and forces of influences. Most people just aren’t; they’re
o�en stuck in submission positions at work or in a response relationship to the stimu-
lus of the social matrix without their cognition even.

When you differentiate yourself (as in the video ‘Relational Mapping’ exercises), you’ll
experience a whole new level of power and control that you never realized you had.

For now, let’s look at the model below:

Say that you want to achieve a large goal. YES, there is power within one but it’s o�en
limited by the time you have.

In order to ‘take on’ or accomplish a really large ‘goal’ it would be beneficial to gain
some leverage.

Simply, this o�en means having other people working for you to leverage your time
and resources to accomplish the goal faster. They may even do things that you aren’t
capable of but you’re the manager or producer; yet YOU have the power.

So this is you in the middle yet you’ve gained some leverage in the form of other peo-
ple, power or resources in order to accomplish a huge goal.

The examples here are absolutely limitless so I’ll just give one; Peter Jackson and the
LOTR trilogy. He was the main man, yet he had a ‘team’ of 1,000’s of people working
towards the one, clear goal of producing the movie version of the book (or essentially
their adaptation).

It would take him probably 1,000 years to have done every render, every costume
change, every edit, every soundcheck, every lunch catering, every pyrotechnic duty,
every weapon design, every expense decision, every legal agreement, ETC.

But he was ‘the man’. The powerful producer and director. He had such a great task
before him and the investment of two major studios that he HAD to step up to the
plate. Quite a difference from ‘The Frighteners’.

So ultimately I’m saying that if you really want power, influence, respect, money and
acclaim you should operate INDEPENDENTLY and pull together the interdependent
resources (because that is what all of those relationships are) to overcome any dream,
goal or vision that you have.

So in the bigger picture again; you want to have LEVERAGE in order to overcome or
accomplish a huge goal.

NOW...let’s just go directly to women. If you want to ‘accomplish’ or ‘overcome’ a

hugely edified goal of a very beautiful and desired woman (keep in mind it’s still an
interdependence of win/win value), then you’d be�er have some LEVERAGE in order
to deal with her POWER.

In reality, if you don’t have some kind of way to ‘deal with’ her very visceral power
right upfront, you will prevent anything from happening. These things aren’t natural.
It’s her social character (and inner o�en as well) that has become so edified and devel-
oped that it is ‘above you’ on a hierarchy - IF you play the social game.

Truth is; you ARE independent and real. And so is she. The leverage you can have on
YOUR side to go up against these women is not techniques, pick-up lines and the sort;
it’s knowing your true relationship to the root of her power.

It’s also actually BEING and OPERATING fully independently. From there you would
only be interdependent with other people (including ALL powerful and beautiful
people); you’d never let them violate your own independence because that’s what we
essentially are; one and equal biologically.

Powerful people ONLY operate interdependently and they’ll o�en stand up to protect
their own rights if someone threatens to change the relationship.

If Peter Jackson were to say to his FX department head, “I’m sorry, this project is just
too big and I can’t do my part.”..chaos would probably ensue and it would be stupid;
HE ALREADY HAD THE LEVERAGE AND RESOURCES TO GET IT DONE; they
were available TO HIM.
So with women and ‘seduction’, you already HAVE the leverage. It’s just up to you to
accept it. If you take an approach where you’re the FX head and trying to start direct-
ing the entire production itself you’re going to LOSE and FALL FLAT.

That’s an IMPROPER relationship. Look at it this way; You are not the lowly guy do-
ing costume check with her as head of production so that you have to answer to her
and do what she says.

When it comes to a�raction and sex itself there is no other way than you being the
‘head of production’. She cannot procreate without you.

You ARE the stimulus biologically and everything else has just go�en in the way. Just
because she may be the stimulus ‘socially’ doesn’t ma�er. You don’t play that game.
You’re not on that crew.

Biologically sex will rarely happen in ‘free will’ without the man being the natural
stimulus and the woman responding biologically/naturally. You’re not a millionaire
with good looks, etc. it doesn’t ma�er...you’re the producer of the mating game.

And you have all the leverage you could want to go ‘up against’ that large goal of giv-
ing a woman value. It’s not even a large goal because in production, that which seems
great is o�en in ‘realtime’ just more ‘work’.

Enough for now; check out the video portion and be cognitive of your relationships ul-
timately so that you only maintain win/win relationships with other people and you’ll
will go a LOT further in life and with women.
 Chapter 15

Hierarchical Relationships & Subcultures

I just want to quickly delve into this topic to help you gain a greater sense of awareness
and self-control/power.

It’s not to say that you should ever deny social culture or community but rather just be
aware of what’s going on and then you can ideally add value to each new social group
that you are thinking of joining.

In nature, you could study groups of animals such as chimpanzees or prides of lions,
packs of wolves, etc.. There is usually a hierarchy of which there is one clear leader.
It’s not always a democracy because the leader could take the lion’s share of the food
and females. Most subcultures are not really democracies in their structure.

When we look at groups of humans in their immediate group of subculture, it’s impor-
tant for us here to understand the relationship between all of the elements. It’s quite
simple. If you ever want to join a new social group, subculture or field of interest there
is almost always a hierarchy. This can consist of different levels of social status.

You will start out at the bo�om and work towards the top. The top of a subculture or
social hierarchy is the leaders or best of that field (o�en the originators or most effec-
tive people).

Here are some hierarchical relationship structures; frat houses, military, corporate
work environments, high school subculture cliques, even business conferences of ex-
perts in a certain field.

You can be an expert in one field and then join another area you’re interested in and be
right at the bo�om. Now here’s what ma�ers; if you don’t understand your relation-
ship to this new subculture, you’re probably going to feel like crap.

I remember going to new conferences saying ‘I deserve more respect and awareness
than this’ but it wasn’t until I started offering value to the people near the top of the
hierarchy that my own status within that social group started to rise. Even then, don’t
take social status too seriously and don’t be dependent on it.
Separate that from who you know who you are and it will leave you always with a
clear conscience no ma�er where you go.

Even when people challenge your ideas, etc. as long as you are grounded in your own
independence you’ll notice that people will respect you a lot more everywhere you go
and sometimes they will do favors for you.

You will also be able to negotiate a lot more because you’re being interdependent with
others; you’re not draining any of their energy by making your relationship needy, or
co-dependent.

They can’t change who you are. Men, don’t let anyone violate your independence I say.
Men of power and influence don’t let other’s repress them. You don’t have to be an Al
Capone or Scarface and shoot people down who disagree with you.

If you grew up in a social environment where there wasn’t any promotion of drugs,
sex, danger, smoking and the ‘coolest’ people were actually good role models (like
things used to be and are in much of the world), then you wouldn’t be having all these
kids being under negative influence or being pressured as much to ‘fit in’ to raise their
status within that hierarchy.

Now media and society glorifies these behaviors so it makes the ‘pressure’ stronger for
impressionable young kids trying to find themselves and only seeing social groups as
an option. I could start an entire nationwide high school campaign of individualism
with the resources..maybe it’s something you could do.

I notice the abovetheinfluence.com campaign and that is definitely a start. It’s about
time something like that is ge�ing across but it’s not enough. The moral fabric of our
culture has been unwinding for the past few decades to the point where we take it for
granted now.

The social matrix itself would have to identify with and promote the right ordeals in-
stead of just a few outsider resources.

Unfortunately even preachers are ge�ing caught up in scandals. Look at it this way.
When sex is just a natural part of life, it’s o.k. The focus is somewhat on pleasure in a
relationship but more for procreation as compared to what is going on now. Now the
act of sex is completely exploited and blown out of proportion so money can be made.

Where are the feminists now? I think that matrix women have adopted traits that
feminists stood for. It’s morphed into our socio-cultural reality now; women have in-
dependence and o�en more rights than men (look at court cases).
This social characteristic of sexploitation and it’s propaganda, is flagrantly waved in
front of us to sell products. NOW...all of us are somehow so much more aware of it
and we all want it MORE than we would have before or if we were living in a Muslim
country (o�en where women are required to veil themselves).

There’s no competition there to ‘outdo’ other women and raise your own social status
towards the top ideal. The reality there is to fit in and now exploit yourself.

The fact that there is sexploitation and the literal carrot is being waved in front of the
donkey which can never reach the carrot makes us so much more aware of sexuality
so that this massive repression takes place in those who cannot reach the carrot. That’s
where the architect’s want you to be but you know you don’t have to be a part of the
social hierarchy where you are below these women in status.

Even preacher’s will now do things they never would have done before when every-
thing was kept in control. Now it’s just all sexploitation and it’s RAMPANT in western
culture.

It’s the promotion of a woman’s inherited sexuality that is now exploited socially. Even
in many relationships, part of the challenge is that the guy is always viewing women of
a higher standard (seemingly impossible beauty) when compared to his wife.

In fact I would go as far as to say that although adult people must be accountable for
themselves (because they are independent), social influence is at the root of ALL of our
problems.

It is the boon. It’s why we have the most developed technology and fields of expertise
as well but it’s also our downfall.

Without ge�ing too deep into it, the social idea of empowering women (for be�er and
worse) has set a chain of events into occurrence that where we are at now is such that
all romantic relationships with these women become a challenge.

When a woman is placed on a pedestal above you in a relationship, this is the opposite
of nature and she will lose feelings for you. The relational reality of a�raction is man =
stimulus and woman = response no ma�er how many feminists or people try to think
it through ‘logically’ (socially).

Your relationship to a woman’s sexual/natural/emotional nature: Remember that

women are the response in the game of a�raction and you’ve been the response in the
social exploitation.

Someone once said that men pick but women choose (their mates). Let them want to
‘choose’ you by being a man of desired characteristics.

It is up to the man to lead but when he is operating naturally he can take a woman to
the point where all of her logic is out the window and she HAS to have sex with him.

Look, it doesn’t ma�er if she is the most beautiful woman in the world by society’s defi-
nition..she is STILL a woman. She has a natural response part of her that would allow
a man to mate with her. So in order to bed a women of this calibre, you would have to
get her physiological response to you (and you alone) to a certain point.

Most likely in your case, the women you want are much higher than you on the social
(status) scale. That’s a hierarchical relationship if you play that game.

If you are high in natural character yourself, then in many cases all you will have to do
is just meet new women and spend enough time with them so they can justify having
sex with you.

When someone says something that intends to ‘put you down’ you’ll know your rela-
tionship to it and that you aren’t in any hierarchy; only equal trade of interdependence
so you won’t allow it. (Relational Mapping).

Differentiate yourself from subcultural and social influence through relational map-
ping and you’ll be able to retain your strength in any environment or hierarchy. It’s
how I kept sanity throughout 4 years of military service.

Notes:

The real answer is not in learning lines, techniques or how to be cocky and funny. The
answer is in understanding who you are and your relationship to all of these forces.
That is the only healthy and real fix and no one else is teaching it.

That is the way of nature. It’s not rocket science. You just have to BE a man of solid
natural character.

Create your own self-reward hierarchy of natural grounding influences as I have done.
 Chapter 16

Macro Social Dynamics

We can generically cover an understanding of much of the social world in this short
chapter by looking at ideologies which represent the relationship of most of the people
involved to their government and economies.

Why is this important for R.D.? Because you will be able to see who has the power and
in which areas. You’ll see dependency, co-dependency, independency and interdepen-
dency.

Before I quickly look at macro social dynamics, let’s cover your basics first.

Through all of this of course I assume that all of your basic physiological ‘needs’ are
met. That means you are in an interdependent situation with subsistence because as
an independent human you have the resources to buy food and get food (sometimes
really good food).

It’s just a reframe...yes you are dependent on food, shelter, defecation (had to say it)
and a mostly stable body temperature to ‘live’ but it is so easy to fulfill those basic
needs now that your relationship to them becomes one of interdependence. You can
fully choose from abundance, what when and where you want to eat and even live
(with enough resources).

So with those physiological ‘things’ taken care of, (as referenced in Maslow’s hierarchy
of needs) you can consciously move on to self-actualization and self-transcendence.
And this is what we are doing. Just be aware of your relationship to your basic needs
and that they’re taken care of (you’ve got that handled right?).

If you were in a situation where, say you grew up in a 3rd world country, then most of
your focus would probably be on covering your basic necessities.

You might spend much of your day harvesting food and doing laborious chores (your
relationship with the land for subsistence). Be grateful that you live in a first world
country...too many of us just take it for granted.

Why do immigrants o�en make such great business owners or hard workers? Because
they respect the level of independence and newfound resources that are interdepen-
dently available to them when they come to ‘the west’.

Plus they usually have a strong work ethic and don’t take it for granted while some-
one’s day is ruined because their cel phone ba�ery died or they can’t reach their lawyer
in the Hamptons.

It might benefit you to think about your relationship to the rest of the world, other cul-
tures and your country’s relationship to them as well. Just to have more awareness and
knowledge/power. Poverty within the U.S. is a problem.

It should not be happening and is a byproduct of disempowering influence and a dis-

empowering environment which people are brought up in. I don’t have time to go off
into this subject but it still comes down to each individual and what they make of it (so
let’s get them some positive influences).

One benefit (to those who were lower down the economic scale) of socialistic cultures
is that pre�y much everyone has their basic physiological needs met. Sociological ide-
ologies have had a tremendous influence on people’s relationship with others, religion,
business and their government.

I have sponsored 6 foster kids for over 5 years now and have visited two of them. It’s
an interdependent relationship because they’ll still ‘survive’ without my support. But
I donate money monthly to the 6 different children and their families which includes
Plan International support within their community to be�er their environment.

The children each write me a couple of times a year and we communicate back and
forth. It’s a special kind of win/win relationship and I feel I have been doing something
important that has sent me good karma back.

Look at the United States and it’s history. We (since I’ll speak as an American) gained
‘Independence’ from Great Britain in 1776. Our National Holiday is called Indepen-
dence Day. Now we have an interdependent relationship with them.

People fight around the world for the cause of democracy which in my words is re-
spect for other people and representation of them.

The mo�o of the U.S. Special Forces is ‘de oppresso liber’ which in Latin means ‘Free-
dom from Oppression’. If you think about the cause of Democracy throughout the
world, it is based on ‘respect’. Respect for one another.
So what happens with terrorists is they are essentially disrespecting other people.
They may have one selfish ideal but the problem is that it violated universal principles.
They create and instill fear in others essentially oppressing them.

Can you see the relationship between the people and the government in each following
case (representing generally millions of people each) and how they differ? This is a lot
of daily influence.

I just wanted you to get a bigger picture of things and see that each person (who IS an
independent living being) can be affected according to their socio-cultural ideology.
Some ideologies are less empowering than others.

It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that most advancement in fields has come from
Capitalism because you’re giving people the freedom to independently add value
(or synergistically with others) instead of repressing that ingenuity for the ‘common
good’. Yeah, you got me, I’m a hardcore Capitalist. But it’s all about value.

Wikipedia definitions:

Communism is an ideology that seeks to establish a future classless, stateless social

organization based upon common ownership of the means of production and the ab-
sence of private property. It can be classified as a branch of the broader socialist move-
ment. Communism also refers to a variety of political movements which claim the
establishment of such a social organization as their ultimate goal.

Socialism refers to a broad array of doctrines or political movements that envisage a

socio-economic system in which property and the distribution of wealth are subject to
social control. [1] As an economic system, socialism is usually associated with state or
collective ownership of the means of production. This control, according to socialists,
may be either direct, exercised through popular collectives such as workers’ councils,
or it may be indirect, exercised on behalf of the people by the state.

Capitalism is an economic system in which the means of production are mostly pri-
vately owned, and capital is invested in the production, distribution and other trade
of goods and services, for profit. These include factors of production such as land and
other natural resources, labor and capital goods. Capitalism is also usually considered
to involve the right of individuals and groups of individuals acting as “legal persons”
(or corporations) to trade in a free market. The term also refers to several theories that
developed in the context of the Industrial Revolution and the Cold War meant to ex-
plain, justify, or critique the private ownership of capital, to explain the operation of
such markets, and to guide the application or elimination of government regulation of
property and markets. (See economics, political economy, laissez-faire.)

The word “tribalism” can refer to two related but distinct concepts.
The first is a social system where human society is divided into small, roughly inde-
pendent subgroups, called tribes. In this sense its usage is similar to that of the word
Feudalism. Tribal societies lacked any organizational level beyond that of the local
tribe, with each tribe consisting only of a very small, local population. The internal so-
cial structure of a tribe can vary greatly from case to case, but, due to the small size of
tribes, it is always a relatively simple structure, with few (if any) significant social dis-
tinctions between individuals. Some tribes are particularly egalitarian, and most tribes
have only a vague notion of private property; many have none at all. A shared sense of
identity encourages the development of altruism. As a result, tribalism has also been
sometimes called “primitive communism” (though this term clearly does not apply to
all tribes). One thing that is certain is that tribalism is the very first social system that
human beings ever lived in, and it has lasted much longer than any other kind of soci-
ety to date.

Each of these ideologies affects how the people involved generally relate to their gov-
ernment, others and the economy. China is still Communist but they are having a wild
spread of Capitalism and growth.

We can go on and on but don’t really have to. I just wanted you to see how these root
forces of influence can shape people behavior pa�erns and how they relate to other
people.

There are a lot of people making money in a Capitalistic society like America and those
are the producers, dealmakers and developers. It’s the people who are independent
and take responsibility that are the stimulus.

It’s not the people with entitlement mentality who are primarily acting as a response
(look at how people will demand things from the government instead of stepping up
and taking care of themselves).

Think about what value you can offer to other people instead of how much you can get
for nothing. With women, you have to offer some kind of value and that’s usually your
natural character but it will open more doors to have a great image and social character
as well as being a great personality (NIS alpha).

The social dynamics of the social matrix itself is the most important one that we cover
here and you must understand your relationship to that for sanity and natural success.

Notes:
We’ve gone from the Industrial Age to the Information Age but in the overwhelming
amount of knowledge that can be harnessed for power and good, many people would
rather sit back and turn their brains off and be programmed so they don’t have to al-
ways think.
 Chapter 17

Destiny vs. Fate

I see Destiny as having conscious control over the design, influence and direction of
your life.

If you want to grow in character tremendously (inner), then I would recommend

choosing a clear, definitive purpose for your life. I know what mine is clearly and that
helps me grow more into the person who represents that.

Look at Peter Jackson and LOTR trilogy; he HAD to step up to the plate and deliver in
directing such a huge production. It stretched him and it was a clear end goal in mind,
there was no option BUT to make it happen to a very high standard. Set big goals for
yourself and commit to reaching them all within sight of your greater destiny.

Fate is viewing life as a co-dependency or you not having control or choice over what
happens. People who live like this are completely repressed. They feel like they have
no control over much of anything. They are powerless but the person who takes con-
trol and realizes that he CAN choose the direction of his future, lives an empowered
life.

It’s pre�y clear, the difference between the two. I encourage you to take time to re-
ally figure out what you want to do in life and more importantly, who you want to be
(yourself but ideally) and what kind of influence you want to have. I’ve repeated an
affirmation of my own destiny at least 20 times a day, every day for the past four and
a half years. That is something you can do as well but make sure you have finalized
your destiny...it took me many years to get clarity on that largest of topics/goals.

To figure out your destiny is a separate field of study but just focus on your ultimate
purpose in life and it will probably take weeks, months or years of thinking quite o�en
to ultimately figure it out, unless it’s something more general (ie. ‘to improve myself’).

Remember this, the choices you make will determine the actions and will influence
your future outcome. If everything remains an interdependency throughout life you’ll
be good to go. Accidents may happen along the way where someone else is at fault or
you are both at fault for dropping in your independence for one second but generally I
strongly believe in Destiny.
It’s through your thoughts that lead to actions that lead to habits that lead to your des-
tiny.

And if there was someone who had everyone in line and knew everyone’s date of
death, when I’d go up I would say, “I don’t want to know. Don’t tell me.”

You can study gruesome accidents, etc. and realize how precious life is and how it can
slip away because of one element involved dropping in it’s own independence and
thus creating a co-dependency. But going through life scared isn’t full independence,
it means you’re le�ing other things repress you. Carpe diem. Seize the day and just
believe in your destiny (see ‘Return to Innocence’ lyrics).
 Chapter 18

Identity: Social Constructs & Influences

Without ge�ing too in-depth into a sociology study here, I just wanted to brief this
area.

You are who you are today because of your past influences and decisions. If you want
to be somewhere else than where you are right now, you’d best change your thoughts,
actions and habits.

It might be time to get some NEW influences. Influences that are more aligned with
where you want to go so that you have an improved identity and state of mind to be
able to handle that level of lifestyle.

Your identity is your social history in a way. Past events have actually shaped you
whether you were aware of it before or not. Since you are hopefully aware now that
you have control over the direction of your life and that you can consciously CHOOSE
new influences, why not do that?

Your biology and nature is already taken care of, it exists. The only thing le� for you
to do is to reach a synergy with your natural/biological character by clearing away the
repression of it’s existence.

Yes, you have a sex drive but we’re going to understand it’s place more throughout this
program. Maybe the desire for results brought you to this program, good.

Your nature is that you are a man and the more in touch with that you are (high natu-
ral character), the more effective you will be with women.

You can ‘turn on’ the natural part of you (and what it represents; fearlessness, comfort,
authority) and boost it’s awareness and affect on your identity and life.

So in nature vs. nurture, you are physically how you are (which can be altered) and
it may arguably have SOME effect on your character but the rest is ALL nurture. It’s
your character development primarily because of social influence but also from per-
sonal choice that allows you to be who you are today.

Think about who you really want to be as a man (or woman). Other self-help guru’s
might focus on what things you want to have and where you want to live..and that’s
important, but I want you to think about your character. Think about your identity
and who you really want to be.

Don’t you want to be an interesting, valuable and unique person who has a lot of value
to offer people? Think about the ideal you.

Being comfortable in your own skin means having a high natural character but it also
means being congruent with your identity and inner character (personality). You
should be happy about who you are today despite all the wasted years when you
didn’t know any be�er or were oppressed. Today is a new starting point and it’s time
for you to choose some new influences.

When you can choose new influences, choose ones that will help you grow in the di-
rection of identity that you see yourself being. If you want to learn a new skill to be a
more interesting and confident person, choose that and set out a timeline for le�ing it
influence you.

I have consciously chosen to get involved in certain things which retrospectively (and
I knew it would) have shaped my current identity and character. Other people are
merely social byproducts or stereotypes who have li�le inner or natural character le�.
They only care about how other’s perceive them and how they look in the eye’s of oth-
ers.

I have unlimited humour because I can do impersonations and quote all kinds of
movie quotes. And because I was a free thinker instead of a social stereotype (I’ll o�en
choose to use different ones to my advantage sometimes), that’s been more power to
me to draw from the plethora of influences I have to create new, funny things at any-
time.

It’s time to take conscious control over WHO you are. Most people don’t know who
they are and just kind of dri� through life following the social norm or a subculture
they think they identify with. However you CAN consciously CHOOSE who you want
to be and you can direct yourself that way.

Once you can break out of the programmed mode and really start thinking for yourself
and taking control of your life, your income earning potential will start to skyrocket.
Your newfound level of (growing) independence will be able to work independently
with other sources to add more value to people’s lives. And with Relational Dynamics
you should be able to excel within any field within record time.

There’s a saying; “it’s all been done before.” Well, I disagree. It’s NOT all been done
before. New (human developed) elements and technologies are being created all the
time by humans that can allow new synergies, systems and products to be formed
which will have a new and lasting impact on countless people. You can be a part of
that.

So it’s up to you to take control from this point onwards of your identity. Don’t just
be a social stereotype, instead draw from a cross-referenced section of influences that
YOU have chosen that help form your more powerful, universal identity. It will help
break you free from conformity and pigeonholing.

It’s most important for your inner character and what ma�ers is that YOU approve
of yourself instead of others. There’s a lot of pressure in a socially oriented culture to
‘fit in’. You’re old enough now to understand and see exactly what’s going on and if
you’re going to have any real influence, you have to be differentiated and independent
from that level of coercion.

The ideal is to always be fully independent and taking in new influences to grow your
character. It is also to only operate with other people and sources interdependently in
win/win situations.

We have so many people that we can call ‘characters’ because they are quite unique
and stand out. It’s more important to be a MAN of character who has control over
himself and consciously chooses his own influences and direction in life. Your identity
will be ever-evolving on this journey through life.

Don’t ever stop evolving. The most prolific rock groups or performers are the one’s
that keep reinventing themselves and adding more value (ie. u2, madonna, p.diddy) to
the world but still are who they are.

Meg Ryan was such a socially upli�ed ‘good girl’ but it said nothing about who she
was as a person. Then when they found out she had an affair it tainted her. A lot of
celebrities will be open about their mistakes because it makes them seem more human/
real and down-to-earth, plus the publicity helps.

Sometimes I wonder if they do things on purpose and wouldn’t be surprised...some-

where a recording artist’s manager is saying, “ok it’s time to boost your identity and
record sales so carry a loaded gun in your car and try to get stopped by the cops”.

I’ve also noticed that celebs will piggyback on something another celebrity just did (ie.
acknowledge their long ba�le with alcoholism).

Relational Dynamics is about being your true and empowered self and when you’re
aware that you could have made different decisions in the past and you’d be a differ-
ent person, why not start right now to create a bu�erfly effect on your future to BE the
ideal man you want to be?!

It’s important to be aware of social influence and that if you want true power, you have
to have a win/win relationship with it in which you are taking conscious control until
you can maintain a near unconscious level of competence (like I can).

It may obviously seem that we are social creatures but the ‘machine’ has become so
influential it’s extending beyond the influence of Socialism itself. Fight back by differ-
entiating yourself (through Relational Mapping) and gaining true control so you can
carve your own identity; one that is much more under your control.

Choose your own ‘bullets of influence’ and stop the negative bullets of influence using
Relational Mapping; N.E.O.
 Chapter 19

What do Women Want?

To put it as simply as possible, women want men of high character. More specifically
they want the reciprocal value they get around a man of high character in the three
characteristic areas (natural, inner and social).

Being with the man of highest character ensures a healthy social position as well as
protection and provision so that she can ultimately nurture their healthy, vibrant chil-
dren.

It ensures through natural selection, a high quality of life, the best chance for survival
and continued value for her.

Yes women want ‘romance’. This is essentially just a socially taught ideal mixed with
portions of inner and natural character response (thus their emotions will build up the
fantasy as well). Being ‘romantic’ is an issue I’m not covering here but at certain times
I’ve been very romantic with some of my women.

Women are extrapolating those male characteristics that you represent right when they
meet you and acknowledge your presence. They’re essentially judging you more than
you ever knew.

This can be looked at in my F.A.R.M.

Women have the power to choose but their decision is a li�le different than yours.
They are the internal reproducer and have to be more selective.

The closer you are to her expectational ideal, the more easily she will be opened up to
the possibility of being with you (much more readily) once she can see those character-
istics.

Nothing means as much as being a man of high character. That man has power and
choice amongst women.

Women are always the response in mating relationships.

They will always respond to men and that’s why they choose different men and act so
seemingly illogical sometimes; they ARE the response. They will respond differently
to men because each man’s character is different and they have to determine the level
of value that means to them.

So if you’re nervous, she’ll respond and be nervous AROUND YOU.

You’re telling her o�en everything she thinks she has to know about you so you want
to be telling her the right and accurate things.

You can rarely fool a woman’s intuition.

In order to have consistent success with women you have to BE that man of high char-
acter across the three areas you represent; your natural, inner and social character so
that they can respond how they want to respond.

Then you have to make connections with women (or have them connect with you) and
because you’re high in character (what women want), success is quite predictable.

O�en, all you’ll have to do is just help her get through her remaining inhibitors (of
logic and paradoxical social expectations).

Once you become a man of higher character and don’t drop in character around her,
you will start having much more consistent success with women across the board.

If you don’t have high social status or good looks, then you’ll have to at least be strong
in natural (alpha) character otherwise it’s a numbers game.

You’ve done almost all of your work by ‘being’ Alpha because you’ll represent ‘power’
and other universal aspirations WITHIN your character. This is infinitely greater than
your limited ‘inner game’ (which has an initial power ratio of ‘1’).

And when I say ‘inner game’ isn’t enough, know that I’m saying your ‘inner character/
personality’ alone isn’t enough.

You’re N.I.S. character allows you much greater leverage and power because you DO
represent something in those areas...

..Powers that are greater than you or that you have allowed to destruct you. Powers
that will initially put you on a level with women who are playing the power game.
“BUT ISN’T THERE A SHORTCUT OR TRICK?”

Yes. That’s called fools mate and all kinds of other teachers will teach you how to
have inconsistent success with women until you actually DO become a man of higher
(ahem, social) character (like many of them have become).

There’s no substitute for a man of real character and self-integrity TO that character.

And whether you actually represent it or not right upfront o�en means everything or
nothing.

So you may as well face it (the rewards are worth it though).

And of the 3 characteristics you represent, your natural character is most important by
FAR. This is where the mating dance occurs. It’s a power greater than yourself and it’s
what’s been greatly repressed.

BECOME a man of high natural character and you can sexually fulfill countless women
(and represent/carry that knowledge with you) by reaching through and dealing with
their natural character which is the response to yours as the stimulus.

What is this Alpha natural character?

It’s masculine energy, lack of insecurity, personal authority, self-centered resolution,

fearlessness, being the leader of the pack, your biological and sexual nature, the coura-
geous warrior, intestinal fortitude and strength.

It’s power leverage ratio is infinite and you can represent it. It’s much greater than
your ‘inner character’ could ever be.

Real character cannot be faked. It can be ‘acted’ but incongruencies will slip through
around the women you want the most and they’ll prevent success.

Women want to know they can TRUST you upfront physiologically to ‘be’ a man. You
can then balance that with your other characteristics and her ge�ing to know you.

Ideally you would want CORE physiological change to ‘go Alpha’ leading to natural
success with women.

This is the real thing that is completely different than other approaches where it looks
like you’re making progress when they tell you to ‘stick your chest out’ and ‘walk slow-
er’.
I now teach raw, core physiological change (here) that comes from becoming Alpha;
not from a surface/technique oriented focus. This real change is priceless by the way
because women notice and you’re becoming much more of a real man (once again,
what women want).

Then you don’t have to ‘act’ or worry about anything because you can just ‘be’ around
natural women.

The game IS easier when you represent ‘what women want’. It’s not as hard as it
seems and it’s much more consistent to give value to women.
 Chapter 20

Body Language & Physiology

You probably know how important your nonverbal behavior is when it comes to at-
traction. In fact women will o�en reject you if you have poor body language right
when they notice you (respond to your character).

It doesn’t ma�er if it’s not fair that she is representing social powers that are greater
than her; you just HAVE TO know your relationship to it...and in doing so, you’ll keep
your energy and power for yourself.

It is to your benefit to not just have good body language but to actually have the
thought processes that BACK UP your body language. In essence, your physiology
itself will change and grow once you grow inside.

Because without the actual thought processes (re-aligned via Alpha Relational Dynam-
ics here), you wouldn’t be able to ‘act’ consistently as a man of strong natural character.

What comprises ‘great’ body language that women respond to?

Well...it’s deeper than just the physical aspect of what you are showing..it’s what you
‘represent’. Remember that women (when not socially distorted) can sniff out any in-
congruencies in a man’s character through his energy and action.

Ideally you would be the man that can walk into a room and women just melt instant-
ly. When there are no obstructions, a woman will KNOW when there is definitely an
Alpha male in her presence.

And they can also ‘judge’ other men accurately such as the cologne models you see as
the NIS ideal in advertisements if they see one of them in person.

Women will give you more of a shot if you have high character (of if they’re in a social-
ly distorted environment) just because you have higher natural character and a strong,
authoritative presence.

Women want to be able to trust you (and have to if they’re to sleep with you), so if you
don’t have the actual character to ‘back up’ your body language, they’ll eventually find
it anyways and then you’re not ge�ing anywhere with her.

Women will test you to see if you’re really a man of high character who can ‘hold it
down’ for her. If you’re just acting and faking it, she’ll find out. And the ho�er women
are, the faster they can find these things out.

They were born to know what to look for and respond to in a man (the alpha provider,
protector who can pass on the most fit genes for her kids).

Now they are also judging by a mix of social expectations (see the F.A.R.M.) but you
know that even if you’re not in her social subculture (or whatever) that it doesn’t mat-
ter; you have natural character which shows itself in a strong ‘presence’.

When women are ge�ing approached by men daily, they’re cognition and experience
gives them a good insight into what man is B.S. and what man is real. A real man re-
tains his own character and is comfortable in his own skin; he doesn’t ‘respond’ to her
or drop in character.

You can practice ‘techniques’ all day and still NEVER have the actual character to be
able to pass her tests (leading to sex). So..

People telling you to do techniques like (walk more slowly, stand up straight and stick
your chest out, etc.) are only focusing on the external and not the internal, therefore
most of those exercises I think are fruitless despite the immediate impression that re-
sults are there.

Doing that, you’re just ‘acting’ anyways without the mental (or natural/inner character)
wherewithal to back it up.

Because you’re NOT that man of character she was looking for, that’s primarily why
your results have been so inconsistent (other than the issue of women holding their
own success back because of social distortion).

I’ve been there as well before because I was nervous and incongruent around ‘tight’
women because I didn’t understand my relationship to them; I became the ‘response’
instead of remaining at the level of character I was.

So it may ‘seem’ that you’re actually ge�ing somewhere (which seems good for the
teachers) when you practice those ‘action’ exercises but you’re actually not dealing
with the real issues and core itself.

With Relational Dynamics, we’re dealing with the core; your natural and inner charac-
ter. Your level of natural and inner character will manifest itself outside in your non-
verbal behavior (even unconsciously).

NOTE: This Chapter is just about making you more aware of body language and phys-
iology itself. Your changes will occur when you apply the rest of the training and re-
align your natural game. Real changes stems from the inside-out.

All you need to be a great actor is congruency of character. That’s it. I just read an ad
in Maxim (where you’d be�er know your relationship to) two days ago from Hennessy
(which I read a�er I wrote the line above), “Great acting is being able to create a char-
acter. Great character is being able to be yourself.” -John Leguizamo

Character is what women are looking for in a man. Ultimately an N.I.S. Alpha man
who is high in all three areas; natural, inner and social.

He has eternally enough value to continue offering to a woman and she knows that he
is what other women want so that makes her want him more.

And how do they know if you’re a man of character who she can trust to lead you to
sex? She judges you (see the ‘RMA’ and ‘A�raction Defined’) based on representational
details of each of your 3 characteristics.

She reads your nonverbal body language primarily to (instinctively) gauge your natu-
ral character. It’s in your entire presence (global and the details) that will determine
whether you really are that man or if you’re just ‘acting’ it.

When you start talking to her, it will become more apparent where you stand (and
hence where she might stand) if you drop in character, especially as a response to her.

O�en all you have to do is just ‘BE’ a man of higher character and superhot women
will be interested in you for no other reason than you DON’T drop in character as a
response to her.

ALL of your heroes and leading men remain high in character no ma�er what happens
to them. You’re aligning yourself in good universal energy.

I go into this more in detail in the RMA videos but your nonverbal body language es-
sentially represents your state of mind and level of character, even though you may not
be aware of it, women generally are (especially co-depending on the environment).

People and women will respond off of YOUR character in different situations or cir-
cumstances. That’s why women will respond differently to different men; because they
are always the RESPONSE when it comes to a�raction.

Can you see how much it ma�ers that you are ‘squared away’ to begin with instead of
focusing on ‘lines’ to somehow trick her into bed (women are sharper than that).

I’m teaching you to HAVE the level of character of a strong alpha male through under-
standing your relationship to the social matrix, your biology and the three feminine
energies.

You can grow even further by improving yourself across the character continuum and
especially by doing the further natural grounding exercises.

All of this will help you to naturally radiate confidence and lack of insecurity that
women will be able to read/judge and extrapolate off of you. When they do that in an
open environment and see that you have value through your high character body lan-
guage, they are supposed to respond and give you nonverbal signals (flirting) to initi-
ate the mating process.

Remember you always start it because your work is in being high character and they
are supposed to non-verbally respond. If they DON’T respond and you are close to
true alpha, it doesn’t bother you because you know you are comfortable with yourself
and that it’s most likely the socially distorted environment (and their social develop-
ment) that is clouding the woman’s natural character-reading skills to see your true
character.

Then it will just take some time to make the connection and let HER see that you really
are the man. Don’t ever let the lack of flirting/mating abilities of socially developed
women throw you off; they’ve been affected by the social matrix as well.

Understand that they were taught more to pricktease or ended up being dismissive
(because of their own independence) instead of flirting. Natural or more pure and un-
corrupted women know how to flirt and they Will let a man know when they’re inter-
ested.

It’s important you’re aware of this fact so that you don’t take all of the blame like you
used to onto yourself and let it further damage Your psyche. If all you have seen is
women being cold, dismissive and rejecting it’s time for a dose of natural energy or
cultural differentiation. Anyways..

Your body language will represent your inner state and the fact (hopefully soon for
you) that you don’t drop in character (when challenged, approaching or connecting
with a woman) will tell her that she can trust you to be you. At that point she should
be opening up even more to you.

Women love being right so confirm their idea that you’re a man of high character by
staying high in character simply by remaining the stimulus who is centered in his own
energy. Your body language radiates confidence and security. You are the same man
before during and a�er any woman you interact with.

You may tell different stories with different women but that’s because you’re inner
game is so deep and you’re so interesting, you can do whatever you want but you’re
still you. You represent a LOT and if you don’t, then grow your inner character by be-
coming more interesting and ge�ing more experiences under your belt.

For an exercise, look at the physiology of a really weak Beta male and then compare
him to an iconic Alpha male. Again; others will just look at their body language and
try to emulate that of the Alpha men thinking this is how we can get closer but if you
really look at it, you want to have the mental character and natural state of this level of
man within.

This is what we’re working on with Relational Dynamics; all of the ‘stuff’ that others
just couldn’t put their finger on.

If you’re still wondering what the techniques are you have to let go.

Techniques are social devices in a consciously developed world. This IS the Jedi level
training so trust that your physiology WILL change because it WILL when you assimi-
late R.D. and the truth into your character.

All you need to be a great man of inspiration and a�raction is a congruent high level of
character who doesn’t drop in character (response) when in front of or interacting with
beautiful women (or others).

You can try and ‘act’ or ‘emulate’ the body language of other men of alpha character
but you just don’t have the true natural/inner character to back it up.

So when you do begin to differentiate and focus on the independent sources that have
repressed you, you can put them into place where they actually belong in your life
(away from repressing you) and you’ll actually FINALLY have ROOM to grow in char-
acter.

You’ve just been repressed by powerful, influential forces that was beyond your 100%
conscious control. That’s it bro.
So when you can push away all of the clu�er and only deal with things interdepen-
dently (win/win) in life, then your natural and inner character will skyrocket.

There will be NOTHING in the way anymore because the freeway is clear. Now your
level of natural character will rise (along with our other exercises there..) and your in-
ner character can remove all of the previous burdens and you can just BE. Be yourself.

It will REALLY help you to understand the Character Continuum inside and out as
well as the F.A.R.M. and the RMA.

The beautiful thing is, that when you do all of this, you’ll be experiencing somewhat
of a miracle...your natural character will rise. This means you will be becoming more
fearless, more in self-control, more assertive, more respectful, more independent, and
more a man of authority.

This will, in turn raise your Inner Character as well because you’ll be free to be your-
self; true colors.

You will notice the minor miracle taking place; your physiology will CHANGE. You
will FIND yourself HOLDING eye contact, you will find yourself walking and moving
more slowly. You will find yourself in much greater personal power and self-control.

You will find yourself COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN. It’s OK to be you (a�er
all these years)! And you’re more of a man than you ever where because you just have
to clarify a few things that have just been holding you back.

THAT is the real power and the real change. You’ll find that you’re not afraid to speak
up anymore. You’re not afraid to put your foot down when something crosses your
boundary.

You’ll find that you’re not actually acting but you ARE this man of higher natural char-
acter. You can finally just chill and be yourself. Nervous energy and tension will leave
your body.

Welcome to the next evolution. Doesn’t it feel be�er? Isn’t every minute more enjoy-
able knowing that you can just fully be yourself knowing that no one else will be al-
lowed to repress your independence?

If you’re not at this level yet, don’t worry...you’re ge�ing there.

More advice? Here’s what I want you to do. When you grow in natural character by
actualizing your natural character’s power and moved away the forces of repression,
‘be aware’ of your body language. Notice that it is changing. Just be aware of it.

If you WANT to practice techniques of walking or moving slowly, etc. you can but I
don’t deem it necessary unless you want to pace ahead of yourself just a bit. It’s more
important to have the real thing.

At Cliff’s List Convention, I said that these ‘techniques’ were B.S. unless they were used
on ‘top of’ universal principles.

So as you grow here, go ahead and take conscious notice of your body language. Stick
your chest out and shoulders back. One thing I sometimes do is move my arms out to
the side (for a visual; giving the armpits room to breathe) like the heavy bodybuilders
walk.

For me, when I saw the social matrix itself, it hit me in a blinding flash of light. I was
thunderstruck. All kinds of tension le� my body and I couldn’t believe the level of
truth that was hidden all those years.

From that moment on I’ve been fearless and comfortable around all people. I went
alpha. My body language changed even instantly as I was relieved of the internal re-
pression.

Now..when I moved on to ‘extrapolate this, bitch!’ and a�er I came up with the Rela-
tional Model of A�raction, my character rose even more. Now I could really see that
my physiology had improved. I was walking slower with more authority and I could
hold anyone’s eye contact until they looked away because I had the character to back it
up.

For you, most wonderfully of all, is that women will start to notice you more. They
will start responding more. And here’s some good news; when you become natural
alpha again (you were born with it), the most natural women will be able to read your
soul.

They will actually RESPOND physiologically to you (when in an interdependent situa-

tion...walking in the mall doesn’t really count).

No more pick-up lines. No more wondering what she’s thinking or whether you’re do-
ing or saying the right thing. It doesn’t ma�er; you are what ma�ers and women can
take it or leave it. And until you reach that point, you’re not there yet.

Remember, (I have to say this again) that social matrix women have been so developed
away from their natural/sexual character that they will not always be able to see even
an NIS Alpha when he is in front of her, ESPECIALLY in a socially distorted environ-
ment. In naturally responsive environments you’d be ge�ing laid every night (as I’ve
done).

In more superficial environments and socially distorted ones your only mission is to
(while remaining high character) break through a woman’s social distortion so that she
can see your natural character.

All you have to do is go to places with women and start making casual connections;
your body language and confidence will speak volumes and then you can amp things
up from PG-13 to rated R (but not rated X) in your dialogue.

By remaining high in natural character at all times, you will ALWAYS be sending the
right body language signals instead of having to act (like I used to do sometimes even).
This puts you at an ‘always on’ level of reality.

Then it’s just up to you to meet new women and raise their F.A.R.M. enough so that
you sleep with them and give them the value they want.

I’ve said this many times; women love sex the most with men of high natural character.
There’s more value in it for them. To them it’s the same as you sleeping with a SUPER-
HOT woman. That’s the equivalent and we’re ge�ing you there if you aren’t there yet.

Embrace your new power a�er being in awe of it at first. You do deserve it and if you
don’t ‘control’ yourself, others will influence you and women won’t be able to receive
the high value of being with you unless you ARE higher in natural character.

A man of high natural character will always makes the right actions around women.
So let go of ‘what to say’..that’s only a sign that you’re NOT there yet and with R.D.
you should be soon. You’re not playing the ‘video game’ anymore.

Mating is a natural process of stimulus (you) and response (her). Deal with her on the
‘natural’ character/response level and refuse to deal with her on her exploited social
level and your world will change. It’s the only way to get to sex with her anyways (un-
less you’re a multi-millionaire with great looks).

Remember that these women (prickteases and o�en Prada’s) are primarily making
decisions about men socially because of their life-focused center on social status. This
o�en leaves them even more bored and unfulfilled. You can sneak in around that by
being a ‘real man’ of natural character and you’ll be the one whose arms she ends up
in.
BE high in character and just start making connections. Expand your social network
and magic will happen because you are what women want. You body language will
speak volumes to receptive women.

This isn’t acting, it’s the real thing and women know it because he is this man of con-
gruency throughout. She can’t get enough of it...she can continually respond to his
high natural character in the future therefore she wants him NOW or she’ll lose him to
another woman because he IS what women want.

And because he is always making the right actions, he DOES make them upfront and
women can tell the level of integrity and purity he has to his character (when they’re
not socially distorted or influenced).

Your inner state of mind manifests itself in your outward appearance. Consider it as
an energy or state of mind that surrounds you.

Now imagine if you never realized this!

You can do techniques such as what many others teach and get a quick fix. But if you
look at the truthful formula of

Thoughts - Actions - Habits

You’re not doing anything to permanently change, Plus it’s not stemming from the
original source itself your thoughts. Sure those exercises can influence and affect your
state of mind, they aren’t permanent or lasting unless you made a habit of them and
connecting a continual positive state to them.

But with Relational Dynamics and the training you’re going through, you should be
conscious that your own physiology is changing. If it’s not then you have to delve
deeper into clarifying relational dynamics for yourself. Remember there is a LOT of
leverage for you when you can clearly see the social matrix and your relationship to all
of the oppressing forces.

Your natural character will leap up your own character continuum. With it, your body
language will change because you actually will be unafraid of those sources that have
previously repressed you because you can kick their bu�s to the ground. You have
more control over yourself and your reality and have moved the forces of natural op-
pression away so you MUST grow in natural character.

Remember that you were BORN WITH IT. Go over the Chapter on your relationship
to your biology many times if you have to but apply Alpha R.D. and you WILL experi-
ence that strong, permanent inner growth and representation.

If you were super-beta before and have gone alpha, get a hold of me and let me know.

Notes:

One of my favorite things to say: “This is NOT a dependency.” It just helps remind me
of my reality and the right decisions to make.

If you want to grow further in natural character, I encourage you to choose some trials
by fire perhaps.

Relational Dynamics vs. NLP: Watch out baby! Maybe I’ll start an ‘institute’ someday
or something.
 Chapter 21

The Power of One

This is a very important concept. If you can understand and live it through applying
relational dynamics and influence, you will lead a richly rewarding life.

This is actually the title of a fiction book by Bryce Courtenay that influenced me so
much that it even altered the course of my life (through my conscious choice). Since I
shouldn’t be holding anything back here I’ll tell you a bit about it.

I never really told anyone this yet but I ended up joining the U.S. Army for four years
based off of the Rhodesian mines experience he goes through in the book towards the
end, otherwise I never would have even thought of joining. That’s the power of influ-
ence right there!

It’s about an English boy growing up in South Africa who goes through all kinds of tri-
als and tribulations but ends up having a mystical yet real influence on countless num-
bers of other Africans. They made a movie about it with Morgan Freeman a while ago
but that version doesn’t do the book justice.

However the soundtrack by Hans Zimmer is one of the main sources I have used for
(re)gaining natural balance back in my life..it is deeply rich, emotional and natural. (I
still haven’t seen the musical but I’m sure it’s another grand independent representa-
tion that makes up the entire LionKing dynasty).

It comes from another place entirely un-influenced by social Western culture; a place
that is much closer to nature. It is representative of the people, legends, tribes, myths
and land of southern Africa. Everytime I listen to that soundtrack it brings tears but it’s
a very independent thing for me and makes me more humble and strong as a man. I
choose to let that value in and it has greatly inspired me.

I had a friend from South Africa who I had listen and he was mesmerized because he
knew what they were singing as well. You may not ever love the influences that I have
chosen as much as I do but you don’t have to; you can still learn a great deal from them
or ground yourself in natural energy.

I encourage you to find sources (productions) of inspiration that can help you re-bal-
ance, grow, improve yourself, and differentiate yourself by consciously choosing to let
that influence you. I’m talking about consciously finding and choosing your own bul-
lets of positive influence. And of course you’ll let them in with full 100% control.

This is something I have done for over a decade and it has enriched my character be-
yond fathom. Ideally you would choose not just socially ‘cool’ or derived sources but
sources which are connected to nature or influenced by nature.

This is why I love new age music, Hans Zimmer, The Lionking, The Power of One,
foreign music videos, etc. because they are all ‘closer’ to nature itself. In fact even in
socially defined music videos you will be able to feel and sense the natural energy of
the people and it is different than that of ie. American ‘acting cool’.

When you are conscious of how you are acting you are not being natural unless you
are ‘acting’ congruently with that. It’s good to be aware because that’s what a big part
of this is all about but I’m saying you would probably want to be more ‘natural’ and
‘real’ instead of aware and trying to act a certain way to win over approval of others.

So back to ‘the power of one’ itself. It’s really about influence which is (as we know)
“the act or power of producing an effect without any apparent exertion of force or di-
rect exercise of command”.

In the case of the book itself (which represents it perfectly) it’s about the effect this
one/independent growing boy has on countless others (interdependently in a win/win
situation).

Throw a li�le chaos theory of influence into the mix and you’re looking at probably 1
million things+ that happen a�erwards in other people’s lives because of an initial in-
fluence that was stimulated by the power (or effect) of one.

Even in the movie “Old School” Vince Vaughn’s character at the wedding references
Chris Columbus and “you’re here, so that worked out well didn’t it?” That’s the power
of influence of one man (like him or not) that caused an impossible number of chain
reactions (interdependently) a�erwards that let to all of us being where we are today.

In the movie ‘Back to the Future’ when Michael J. Fox is scrambling to get his parents
together instead of his mom falling for him, I think that even he wouldn’t have been
born. Why? Well because over the years her level of a�raction for George would have
grown because he was more of a man for sticking up for her (that’s a chain reaction
off a stimuli/event itself) so that they would have had sex more o�en or on a different
night.

And when you consider that there are millions of sperm released EACH time sex takes
place and that only one of those sperm is the half that would have been him, there is so
much variation that he would have been a different person entirely because a different
sperm would have reached the egg instead.

Just thinking about that is pre�y deep but it proves that you are indeed a miracle. In
the ending of the movie his new sci-fi book is published which was influenced from
MJFox going into his room pretending to be from another planet.

One SPECIFIC sperm though and one egg come interdependently together to form one
zygote which becomes you; out of MILLIONS of possibilities. And maybe your wife
only had sex with you that night because you had a good day at work so you made
dinner for her all because your co-worker had a birthday party.

We just aren’t aware of all of the POWER of influence (and your ability to create or add
value) that it causes because it’s just happening in realtime and we rarely look back to
see the chain of events and how different they would be.

Think about it. Any chain of event can branch off in unlimited ways. We are all inter-
dependently connected. One event, one person, one comment, one look, one le�er, one
epiphany, one production, one phone call, one word, one email, one compliment, one
promotion, one sentence, one book, one song, one cd, one restaurant, one second, one
man, one bullet, one dance, one kiss, one meal, one night, one gi� or one MOMENT...
ALL are a power of ‘one’. That will have some kind of effect or ‘influence’.

Chris Columbus or a Hernando Cortes would have fainted if they had any idea the
level of influence/effect they would have on world history. It cannot even be fathomed.
Calculations in both cases probably extend into the trillions (of following events from
that one influence or moment).

It’s all because the power of one. The time/space continuum would result in a great
paradox as Doc Brown says.

Remember that YOU are ultimately ‘one’. You are independent. But within that inde-
pendence are powers that you can ‘represent’ that are more leveraged than you alone
could be.

That’s why I don’t see it as ‘inner game’. That’s an initial power leverage of ‘1’ when
meeting women. Within your entire N.I.S. character though, there is unlimited room
for representation that contributes to your ‘one’ whole. It’s just like any production;
within are countless other elements.

You ARE more powerful than you realize, especially when you harness natural power
(unlimited) and even social to use to your advantage to ‘represent’ WITHIN your ‘one’
character which is comprised of the 3 (NIS).

When you can be aware of the (positive) potential power or influence you can have
on countless people, you will realize how important you are. You have more freedom
than you can imagine so don’t hold yourself (or social influence) prisoner anymore.

Imagine breaking free and having the resources to go anywhere and do anything.
Would you do it? Or would you keep working a repressed yet comfortable life at a
job?

Runaway from the comforting ignorance of the social matrix; it’s the only way you’ll
have true independence and power. Then know your relationship to those powers.
Soon you may be doing great and powerful things because of applying relational dy-
namics and operating from a powerful position instead of a conditioned unpowerful
one.

And when it comes to success with women, your character continuum represents a
unified you with harnessed energies that are greater than yourself. You are still one
and you can have a lasting effect on one woman’s life even with just one night with her.

Look at the diagrams in the video on how to take your power back by differentiating
yourself from the Social Matrix and you will have a greatly leveraged power of one.

You’ll be able to defeat (in a sense) that tremendous power that has repressed you.
When you are in ‘the light’ you will be able to now influence people because you have
more personal power.

You actually have to NOT CARE what others think. You can consciously choose to
keep all your power and respect for yourself in the face of challenge, turmoil or social
pressure.
 Chapter 22

Control

Pure independence means absolute control and self-discipline over yourself. It means
taking full accountability for your own actions and not blaming others.

If you have pure independence you HAVE full control, not someone else who is influ-
encing you. You THOUGHT you were independent but (likely) you really aren’t if you
look at your current status of different types of relationships.

By default, many people are just giving away their own (independent) control by let-
ting others influence, coerce or persuade them to get them to do what they want.

When you have full awareness and cognition of your independence and your relation-
ship to everything else AND you take accountability for your actions, you will have a
LOT more control over your life.

When you have real CONTROL over your actions, you will be able to cause the desired
effects you want to happen much more o�en than if you didn’t. This can be applied to
anything.

If a person playing volleyball doesn’t have independent control over his own actions,
then he won’t be able to effect the outcome he wants or be able to operate interdepen-
dently with his team. He won’t be able to achieve the skill of bump, set, spike or to
synergize with the team for offense or defense.

Yes, in certain skills you will have to acquire or ‘learn’ the ability to control your in-
dependent actions, but that’s all it is..then you can get the results you want. But by
understanding relational dynamics and just being aware that you HAVE TO have that
level of independent control, will allow you to reach it faster because you will get your-
self up to speed to TAKE accountability fast to achieve the results you want.

You’ll be more cognitive of that entire new learning process in order to have control
over your actions. When you reach a basic level of independence and control (instead
of co-dependency and carelessness), you’ll be able to be interdependent with the other
elements in anything, such as the other team members on your team.
Look at Metallica, Green Day or U2. These bands are perfect to study how well they
synergize together. They each (band member) independently have mastered their own
instruments by having a full level of accountability and control over it. Kirk hammet
of Metallica plays his guitar almost every day of the year.

When each person has a full level of control and independence (and knows their re-
lationship to the group through past synergy) then they can come together to mas-
terfully synergize, flow and take things to another level. All those years of being ac-
countable and taking control over their own instruments allows them to create a very
strongly desired effect.

The socialistic, bureaucratic, careless way of thinking is just not being accountable. It’s
le�ing whatever happens happen and if something goes wrong, placing the blame on
someone else or trying to sue them. These kinds of people who feel they don’t have
control are not operating independently.

My father and I (and some friends) were involved (still are) in a Forex investment. The
Feds froze it and now the lawyers are trying to sue the investors for investing in it. My
father has been through a lot of trauma in his life and many situations like this because
he doesn’t always apply R.D.

For example he’ll get into risky things hoping that someone else will be ‘good’ on their
word even when it’s quite obvious they won’t (based on their previous track record).

But the people who are out there being unaccountable are not capable of creating a
high level of synergy or value. Some government or postal workers that I have seen
who just don’t take control over their own independence create a co-dependent, unac-
countable, hapless environment.

This a�itude is pathetic. Incompetence is pathetic and I don’t have the patience for it
especially when I’m the producer or person at the head. Why? Because I have con-
trol and I know how everything is supposed to operate so I o�en have to babysit each
supplier to get them up to speed because they lowered in their independence trying to
make things difficult for me.

Have integrity to yourself and take full control so that you can trust yourself to do
what you say. Then, others will be able to trust you. Set the standard yourself and
then hold that high standard for others and you won’t be afraid to put them in check
for trying to abuse you. Entrepreneur’s HAVE to have control. Take that state of mind
and be proud of your independence. Then you can leverage other sources to get a lot
more done.
I encourage you to accept responsibility. All leaders step up and take accountability for
their own independent actions. It’s how they achieve higher success. Learn to develop
more skill and faster learning ability simply by choosing to be accountable for your
own independent actions.

Realize that no one but you can make it happen. So when it comes to women and suc-
cess there, despite what has happened in the past (because of social repression), you
STILL have to take control and responsibility for your past actions. If you still feel like
you’ve been used (it’s in the past now), then you won’t be fully accountable and you
will be less than independent in character, thus less of what women want.

Put everything into it’s proper place with R.D. and you will be able to regain control
again over your life. Take accountability for your past failures (knowing what oppres-
sive influences they stemmed from) and take responsibility now for your future ac-
tions.

If you don’t take full accountability (even though you’ve been unknowingly pro-
grammed to behave a certain way), then you will continue to struggle. Taking FULL
accountability for your failures (even when essentially caused by social influence) will
allow you to get things into proper alignment quickly.

Take control over your past decisions and behaviors and you’ll be able to move on with
a clear mind because it’s not just your ‘inner game’ that’s been to blame.

And when you fail, learn from it...don’t slump off with your tail between your legs like
a dog does in a stimulus-response (master-pet) environment. Be independent and get
right up anyways because there is no reason to drop in character.

When a cat does something stupid like gets itself stuck in an empty Aquafina case and
hops around the living room bumping into walls for 30 seconds it doesn’t hunker in a
corner a�erwards...it is still high in character. I remember a guy from California who
tripped as we were walking across the street in D.C. at a conference and he just got up
smiling like it was supposed to happen.

Even when bad things happen, stay high in character. “I get knocked down, but I get
up again.” from Chumbawamba. That’s what it’s all about. Women want to be around
a man who takes accountability for his actions and self...that is a powerful man.

And if you don’t have full control over your actions (and not 100% independent), then
you are sway to other forces of influence (ie. other people) which will overpower you
and push you in the direction they want you to go when it may not always be an inter-
dependency. Life will be a lot more miserable if you live like that.
At least when you have control you can see more clearly and know when others are
screwing up or trying to use you. This can apply to any situation.

Either you have control or you’re (knowingly or unknowingly) giving it away.

For example (it’s everywhere, just run everything through R.D. first), a used car sales-
man who is pressuring you to buy a car who says ‘trust me’ but you’re not fully aware
of the blue book value.

This means that your independence when it comes to that situation is less than full...
you don’t have full control (or full leverage), therefore someone else can overpower
you because they know more than you do in that situation.

The answer? Do your research, be armed with knowledge so that you can negotiate
with people and come to a win/win situation instead of being used because you didn’t
have full control/independence/awareness of your end of the deal.

In fact, don’t go into major deals or situations unless you have full control and knowl-
edge over the facts involved on your side. You then have independent ‘control’ and
can keep things interdependent.

Just by being aware that someone could be ‘using’ you to their advantage in a lose/win
relationship, should be enough for you to make sure of where you stand first. If you
armed yourself with the knowledge of how the car repair industry operates (at some-
thing like www.carsecrets.com), you would have a full level of independence and con-
trol in your relationship to a car repair shop.

You would be able to not let them screw you over by calling out their B.S. You would
keep it a transactional win/win situation by having control over your rights and inde-
pendence in that case.

When it comes to women, if you don’t clearly have your own independence and con-
trol over yourself taken care of and handled, you’ll fall under the powerful influence of
the power’s that she is leveraging. You might slip into a pussytrance or even do stupid
things like have them use you for gi�s and meals instead of sleeping with you while
neither of you feels good about it.

But a fully independent man who also understands his relationship to all of her char-
acteristics and those forces of influence will be able to handle himself around the most
beautiful women in the world. This is probably the major reason why you bought this
program.
When you have control over yourself, women can trust you to ‘take care of things’
when she’s around you and in the bedroom.

Remember that the special relationship between you and women (for ‘dating’, etc.)
falls under the Relational Model of A�raction. Always retain control over yourself; it is
an alpha trait and all of the heroes have this ability to remain high in character no mat-
ter what happens to them.

If you get angry at something it should only be because of a violation of pure inter-
dependence (and gain control back quickly) otherwise you will be a LOT happier by
being in control.

You should get to a point of pure independence that you understand as I do, that your
own energy never has to change or sway for anyone else’s. When you go into new en-
vironments, you HAVE control over yourself and you’re comfortable in your own skin.
Heck, you’re the only sure bet anywhere you go. You’ll be able to then have influence
because you’re just not going to sway or change who you are for each different envi-
ronment.

You won’t be ‘responding’ to women and le�ing them be the stimuli or ‘control’. You
be the ‘control’ in each situation and new encounter with women and you’ll be fasci-
nated at the wide levels of response you’ll receive (dependent on the other relational
variables and her history of social influence, etc.).

A woman can’t respond naturally to a man who doesn’t have control over himself. If
he’s responding to her, she has become the stimulus and that is the opposite of natural
a�raction..she can’t feel anything for him even if he meets her social expectations or
ideals. Sleeping with him just wouldn’t feel right. So stop being this guy if you were
in the past.

Taking control means understanding the forces of influence, pu�ing them in their place
(removing them) and increasing your own natural character to the point of full person-
al control over yourself in any environment. This is a priceless reality that I expect you
will reach with Relational Dynamics and your application of it.

It’s a reality that probably has never been taught before and it’s something that men
will live decades without and be jealous of other men who have this level of control
and therefore influence. Those are the men who get the chicks.

And if the woman in front of you isn’t interested, it doesn’t ma�er because you know
that there are millions of other women who DO want what you have (high NIS char-
acter) and strong self-control in any environment or relationship, especially around
beauty and women.

So take conscious control over yourself, your past and your decisions. You will be a
much more powerful person. Don’t pass the buck.

Notes: More Random Thoughts on R.D.

There are certain (high quality) songs of tremendous influence (for me) that I won’t
even consider playing until I approve it 110%. That means if it comes on on the radio
I’ll turn the station. Look, either you have the power or you don’t, get it.

Pick your absolute favorite influential songs and LIMIT when you hear them but edify
them more and get more out of them. Do not take them for granted. Fortunately be-
cause they SHOULD be universally/naturally connected you’ll be able to get more out
of them (literally indefinitely) like I do.

When you have pure independence (like me), it won’t ma�er what anyone else thinks
or says or ‘disses’ about your personal influences. YOU and your choices are all that
ma�ers; otherwise their independence (and NOT YOU or YOURS wouldn’t ma�er).

If YOU don’t have full control (or awareness) of your independence, someone else is
AMOG’ing you.

When you reach my level you will be looking at some images of female social exploita-
tion in total DISGUST because you know what it is and you’re stronger than that. In
the Lionking when Uncle Scar unrightfully takes over the Kingdom and scares Simba
away by blaming him, Rafiki shakes his head. This is what has happened essentially.

The social matrix is the Uncle Scar that has taken over the land and made it dark. The
rightful King (or person in control) of your own life is you and it’s up to you to take
it back. The more you watch the LionKing the more you should realize not only how
‘natural’ and close to earth it is but also how it is a perfect analogy for Relational Dy-
namics and life.

I never gave in to peer pressure for drugs, smoking or alcohol. Not once. Before I had
my first drink when I was almost 20 I had a good discussion with myself. Even then I
was consciously choosing to make it an interdependent situation and I’ve had control
over that since before I started. Yes, I could reform the entire AAA curriculum or meet-
ings with relational dynamics but I don’t have time. Why don’t you?! But just give me
credit where necessary ;)

Action Steps: Relational Mapping of Differentiation

At first you may want to put the blame on society because it is the cause of much of
your behavior however you STILL have to take accountability. So a�er you se�le down
and have put the social matrix into it’s place, consciously take full accountability and
then your natural and inner character will rise up the chart.

Notes:

If we as people had more positive sources of influence and would take independent
accountability, there wouldn’t be much to any willful crime as those people would be
responsible for their actions (and not willing to risk giving up their valuable influence
on others) instead of blaming it on sources (of influence) outside themselves as many
o�en do or not caring.
 Chapter 23

Massive Self-Control & Awareness

So how do you gain a superior level of self-awareness and control?

Well the fastest way would be what you’re doing now..understanding relational dy-
namics and differentiating yourself from the stimulus-response relationship of powers
of influence. It’s clarifying your ‘true’ relationship to the powers of repression.

However, it would help if you’ve already taken a lot of time out in your life to ask
yourself leading questions and self-defining questions such as ‘Who am I?’ ‘What do I
really want to do?’ ‘What is my destiny?’

Doing this will ground you in your own character more instead of just being the
sponge-like conditioned social byproduct.

If you are just a social byproduct who is unaware how much he has been influenced,
you’re not going to have too much value to add back to the community at large un-
less you can differentiate yourself, be unique and truly independent and then can give
back.

If you choose to stay in a modern, Westernized culture, I would recommend ge�ing

control over the bullets of influence and influential trajectories that are coming at you
right now and daily.

And to do that, first you must be aware that there are influences which have been
harming you or repressing your independence. We do this through Relational Map-
ping and N.E.O. in the video portion and the diagrams.

You be the one making the decisions instead of le�ing your brain go to mush by plop-
ping in front of the t.v. That’s the lazy man’s way. Remember, it’s ‘their’ job to keep
you entertained to keep you a part of the system.

It’s about time we have men of real character again back in this country and other
Westernized countries.

And the men of character we do have..guess what? They’re not the one’s si�ing in
front of the t.v., they are the ones who have choice and control over their own lives and
the direction they want to go.

It’s imperative that you have integrity to yourself and your own decisions as much as
possible. All of us can work on that. To help gain more self-control I encourage you to
set goals and reward yourself when you reach it. This will prove that you can further
trust yourself.

People without self-control will ‘respond’ to anything that is a stimulus (a con, another
person, t.v., ideas, directions) without being fully aware of in control of themselves.
They can’t even trust themselves because they don’t have self-control or even aware-
ness that they could have self-control.

Find something to you that is SO GOOD and only reward yourself with it when you
reach a certain goal. For me, what I did was agreed to go to the best steak dinner in
town and a movie a�erwards once I made my first sale online.

Then I did another one at a certain financial goal which took me around 7 months a�er
that but the victory was so sweet and I proved that I had self-discipline and integrity to
myself..

If you can have the self-discipline to stick to your guns, you’ll be able to accomplish
some amazing things. But you MUST have integrity to that commitment and it can-
not be violated. ONLY reward yourself with something ultimate when you know you
deserve it.

Do that for the bigger goals and this way you can keep working towards it. But it’s
important that you have as much integrity to your smaller daily goals and decisions as
well.

Once you’re aware of your relationship to others and that you should only operate
with them win/win, you will be able to tell when others are trying to get you to do
something.

Unfortunately this cognition may only piss you off at work even more (because they’re
telling you what to do) but deal with it while you can and try to set up something else
in your spare time if you’re serious about true freedom/independence.

I made certain choices to get me away from that environment which included living at
my dad’s house a�er the Army just so I could gain my true independence through my
own business.
What looked like a co-dependency was a transactional interdependency (he made
more than enough to cover my rent from an investment channel I gave him) and ulti-
mately now I don’t answer to anyone but me because I have my own businesses.

If someone is ‘telling me’ to do something most likely I won’t do it. I don’t comply
to the influence of others demands. I did that enough in the U.S. Army which by the
way is a huge dependent system which is holding it back from much higher effective-
ness. The teams that are always most effective are interdependent such as Delta Force.
Why?

Relational dynamics once again. There, each man is given more respect and ‘indepen-
dence’. He is known as an operator. There’s no dependently flavored repression going
on (and believe me, I was in the middle of it for years), so now the operator’s can work
constructively at a much higher level of effectiveness because they each have their in-
dependence and the real respect of the other people on the team.

Then, they can work together to achieve phenomenal things. Special Forces teams
are similar although not with that high level of independent respect for each member.
Sure there is still a hierarchy (of having a team leader and rank) to hold it together but
when it comes to fire teams, you are each equal and independent anyways...how you
‘relate’ to each other will quite o�en determine your success or failure. Keep it win/
win.

There, the Army should maybe hire me to form be�er teams and achieve more consis-
tent results. Maybe it’s something you could do to earn 6 figures (or even be a go-to
sharpshooter business analyst who fixes problems). All you have to do is implement
interdependent systems and doctrine for a more cohesive and effective operation
which is win/win.

Anyways, so just be aware when someone is telling you to do something. That’s why
I’m an entrepreneur..I ONLY answer to myself. It’s very clear when someone else
wants me to do something that I’m not comfortable with or that would violate my ba-
sic independence. I don’t let that happen.

I am fully independent and fearless in state of mind/character wherever I go and it

doesn’t ma�er where I am...why would I change? Just like 007, I’m the only variable
here that I can not only trust but that I know is a sure thing.

When you can be at this level if you aren’t yet, you’ll be able to have an EFFECT on the
environments you go into (social) or otherwise. If you’re stuck lower down the hier-
archy at work, yeah I can understand that but it’s not something I deal with anymore
because I consciously chose not to.

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO DECIDE and choose what kinds of relationships you
have and participate in.

At least ‘be’ independent in all other areas of your life and understand your relation-
ship there should only be temporary if you want true freedom (financial indepen-
dence). Either way, don’t let it affect the other areas of your life, you CAN differentiate
work and that relationship with the other separate relationships (of more empower-
ment) in your life.

Ideally you’d find a position that allows you to offer more value to that corporation or
business such as being an independent consultant or contractor instead of being ‘un-
der’ them in the hierarchy.

But back to the point here of massive self-control and awareness. It’s up to you to em-
brace your independence and consciously choose to operate interdependently with
others.

Ultimately you would ‘free’ yourself from co-dependency on money by creating finan-
cial independence for yourself. This will give you even more resources to live life at a
higher scale of synergy with others.

But be aware of your independence and your relationship with others. You have the
right to reject anything you don’t like if you don’t agree with it before ‘le�ing it in’ to
influence you. Your own awareness will help you be a much be�er judge and decision-
maker to the things that are best for yourself.

It will also save you from a ton of turmoil from bad choices or relationships with con
artists, etc. because your level of awareness will seek out any red flags they are sending
of a co-dependent relationship and you’ll be able to extrapolate them (fast forward or
enlarge them into the future) and say, “no.”

This is just part of what self-control can do for you. Does it mean that you are self-con-
scious at all times? Actually, not at all. That has to do with your social character and
whether you care about what others think or not.

Your self-awareness and self-control is really part of your independent or ‘inner’ char-
acter; it is the logical part but doesn’t override or get in the way of your great comfort
in yourself of your natural character.
Your logic of ‘inner’ character allows you to do what’s best for your overall character
and helps in being cognitively aware of the relationships to other forces of influence.

Maintain relational purity as o�en as you can. That means win/win relationships or
exchange of value. Don’t depend or expect things from others.

Notes:

Another example for me is that there is a certain mixed music VCD that I only watch
several times a year.

The reward of watching it is so good especially because of the value I get out of it each
time. I know what it is for me but you have to find something that is an unquestion-
able reward for you for when you accomplish certain goals that you set (such as com-
pleting a new project, etc.). And here’s the thing, it is 100% independent for me.

The last time in fact, I ripped out the cel phone ba�ery and threw it across the room be-
cause the integrity of the experience is 100% mine and cannot be interfered with in any
way. That is a super-high level of interdependence in the relationship I have with that
chosen source of influence.

Compare that to someone who gets distracted by another bullet of influence...someone

calling and stopping the one thing they love the most just so they can chat with some-
one else. That is not interdependence.

When it’s TIME for you to take time for yourself, DO IT. Men have to find their own
space and rebalance. Find something that will renew and reinvigorate you that is in-
spirational and use it only as a reward for achieving certain goals.
 Chapter 24

Sexual Transmutation

In the book ‘Think & Grow Rich’ by Napoleon Hill which was wri�en in the early 20th
century, he briefly brought up a subject called ‘sexual transmutation’. No, it’s nothing
to do with gender reassignment, it’s about the transference of (influential) energy.

Sexual transmutation is the drawing of sexual energy or awareness of a woman’s sexu-

ality and using it to inspire you as a man. It can be used to your advantage or for mo-
tivational purposes. It can be used for example to help soldier’s get through wartime
(thinking of their woman or an objectified woman or sex itself).

He only briefly mentions it in the book but I’ve gone on to further differentiate and
expand on it here.

There are different kinds of sexual energy and of course different ways in which to
transmute it. Remember when Count Dooku throws lightning at Yoda but he catches
it, harnesses it and can redirect it elsewhere (or dissipates it)?

That’s transmutation...it’s the conversion or adaptation of energy. Men throughout his-

tory have been inspired by women and their natural (or pure sexual) energy and the
act of sex itself. They have used it to create great things and endeavoured to improve
themselves because of the influence of sexual energy and the desire for more of it

But let’s dig deeper into it. There are two basic kinds because of the fact it is an energy
(which can when differentiated or isolated by itself be called ‘independent’), it can be
used to have an influential effect on the user (and his relationship to it).

Since man is a part of the relational equation (in this case the response or acceptor of
the energy), he can choose or control the level of effect or influence he wants it to have
IF he is cognizant of it. He can transmute the sexual energy (or influence) positively or
negatively.

The two basic kinds of sexual transmutation are positive and negative sexual transmu-
tation. Positive is indeed where a man would use a specific woman’s energy (or even
thought of sex, or images of sexuality) for a productive or inspirational effect which
could lead him on to achieve more in his daily life or within a specific field of endeav-
our.

Sexual transmutation has an almost invisible yet powerful grip of influence on men’s
lives and it’s up to each independent man to transmute that energy properly.

There is also negative sexual transmutation. The sexual energy itself is independent
and can be used for good or bad. Negative sexual transmutation is things such as
jealousy, rape, murder, hostility etc. and on the less serious side, negative sexual trans-
mutation also leads to repression, confusion, frustration, resentment, self-denial and 40
year old virgins.

It’s interesting to look at how exploited sexuality itself has become. Now there is a
great deal more awareness than say, 100 years ago when women could not uncover or
reveal any skin at the beach. So what kind of effect does this have?

It’s not just in the media everywhere, women have actually adopted this as a social re-
sponse as well. Sex is everywhere now and the energy is there yet multiplied by enor-
mous quantities. It is up to you as a man to convert it into positive influence instead of
le�ing it repress you or frustrate you or WORSE.

Because the carrot is still being held just in front of the donkey where it can’t reach it,
you have to allow the carrot (in this analogy) to inspire you to be more productive by
understanding your relationship to it, otherwise it will wreak havoc.

You don’t have to have a muse or a mistress as a source of positive sexual transmuta-
tion..the social matrix is overwhelming you with sexual energy (and exploitation/ac-
centuation) everyday.

Women who adapt this social character to look like the socio-sexual ideal of today
(so� porn) are carrying a LOT of power leverage upfront. In seduction, you’ll want to
neutralize it all and see through to the true, feminine character. Her social character is
only preventing more sex from happening for her.

Learn to see the representation for what it is and differentiate that same aspect within
each of the women you meet and you will have power and influence back on them.

For women, romance and strong male character is like their aphrodisiac or positive
sexual transmutation. You can be that man of high N.I.S. character who provides influ-
ence, anchor, hope and desire for the women in your life.

Remember that you are the model of a�raction for women. You are the magnet which
‘a�racts’ her and keeps her to you because of your growing natural character. There is
a tremendous value in the mind-body-spirit response that a woman feels around a man
of high natural character; it’s addictive and it’s what ensures sex and the continuation
of life.

This response is the essence of her natural energy and character at it’s peak (in the
charts in synergy with yours). Isolate and deal with her natural energy and you can
grow in strength as a man yourself. The balance to your character; in perfect harmony.

Be aware of the different root feminine characteristics (or energies) through that part
of the training and take on that state of mind in dealing with women by knowing your
relationship to each of them as I’ll train you.

Ultimately it’s about inspiration instead of desperation so don’t let it get out of control
anymore. Apply Alpha R.D. to cut through her leveraged social or inner character and
you will be inspired by the true feminine/natural character of them. A�er all, that is
where the seduction is for both of you.

Notes:

When you can differentiate feminine energy, you will be at a level above 99% of men in
the social matrix. The other 1% don’t care and/or don’t get it either.

I ADORE natural feminine energy..it’s the source of life and pure sexual transmutation.
but I’m not naive to think that this is the energy that these socialized girls are throwing
off.

Remember that women are the response to this STRONG social influence, they will
more easily become a byproduct of their environment by nature. You as a man are
LOST if you’ve followed it because for years it’s confused the heck out of you.
 Chapter 25

Stimulus-Response
Before we get to Stimulus-Response;

Why are we talking about all of these somewhat boring subjects when maybe you just
want to be seducing more women (or any woman)?

Well because if you don’t understand the underlying relational dynamics you’ll contin-
ue to do what doesn’t work or is inconsistent. And you will continue to be repressed
and anguished, perhaps forever.

The level you can/will be at and the (sexual) rewards (for women too) are well worth it.
In fact, you will be able to go through the entire seduction process with minimal dis-
turbances without having to worry about what you are saying or doing once you are
congruent with relational dynamics and your place in the game.

All you will have to do to ‘seduce’ new women is to meet them (make connections,
which is easy coming from our understanding/reality here) and build enough history
or rapport with them to take them to the bedroom. That process becomes near auto-
matic anyways and when they help you it’s an efficient process.

But even then, it really is about her being able to trust you (physically and naturally to
be a man of high character)..and it’s really about interdependence. Not ‘taking’ or self-
ishly ‘ge�ing some’ from women (deriving from your social anxiousness and instant
gratification), it’s about adding value to their lives by celebrating their natural/sexual
character and giving them pleasure.

It means holding back instead of aggressing forward when she’s not ready. It’s a deli-
cate and natural (unconscious) process of you both pushing and pulling back and forth
building her anticipation leading to sex as her F.A.R.M. rises in response to you.

I have anguished men write me once in a while with a slur of expletives or pent up
repression against hot women. Yes, it’s kind of rude towards me and distasteful but
I can still understand where they’re coming from but now I don’t have any empathy
anymore; learn my stuff. Learn the reality of what’s going on so you can influence
women’s sexual nature instead of le�ing repressing forces influence you.

Yes I’m talking about you will be ge�ing laid more than ever once you apply relational
dynamics and get your global and inner game taken care of (then social is EASY be-
cause you’re fearless, more laid back and women are generally more responsive...natu-
ral ones being VERY responsive).

In fact, a woman’s social distortion or barriers or justifiers are the ONLY thing that’s le�
in the way between her sleeping with you.

Let us look at the stimulus - response type of relationship and how it relates to success
with women.

Throughout this book it is mentioned that women have become the (social) stimulus
with the exploitation of their sexual character for men to ‘respond’ to (physiologically)
throughout the media in order to ‘influence’ their purchase decisions. Keep in mind
that men are naturally simpler.

Women are more empathic naturally. Men are interested in sex the most and then hav-
ing a woman be ‘nice’.

Now, I’m clearly grounded that I would rather have a high natural character ‘nice’
woman instead of a sexbomb for a long-term relationship. That energy never dies and
she is the intended behavioral ‘response’ to me. She’s closer to her biological roots and
can make the relationship last.

YES, I would prefer a woman’s natural energy (for long-term) over her level of beauty
or ‘sexiness’. I’ve just recently clarified this personally too. Their energy is inspiration-
al and being Alpha in natural character, I now am aware of it very clearly (as my dual
balance). Call it natural feminine energy induction, but seek to ‘know’ that.

Go to my seminars and I’ll show you more examples..there’s also some in the video
training here I think.

But back to this S-R relationship. A woman’s sexuality which was never THREATEN-
ING to a man has now been exploited to be the stimulus for men to hit them where
they’re weak.

That is exactly what’s going on and maybe you were never able to differentiate it be-
fore either (it took me almost 30 years to see that). If you can just clearly let that sink
in, you will take your power back for yourself and know that you must be the stimulus
instead of just continuing to respond to every new ‘message’ that the pipeline/media
feeds down the tube.

Independent people, leaders and alpha men are the stimulus in life. Why not with
women?! They should only ‘respond’ when their alpha status is threatened or they
have to stand up for their (universal) principles.

Look at the ‘Rock Star’ relationship or the ‘boy band phenomenon’. Who is the obvi-
ous stimulus? DUH and guess who is the response; the screaming women.

Women love these guys because their social character is off the charts (remember the
power leverage ratio we talked about?) plus the other screaming women only makes
them want them more and have to ‘prove’ themselves to them (like backstage a�er the
show).

Sculpting environments like that is not a lesson for here and don’t get thrown off by it..
you just want to leverage as much as you can congruently within your character too.
Usually that’s biological; your lack of insecurity around these powers.

So mainly, look at the stimulus-response relationship. Now flip it; guys are essentially
approaching women of the same level; they’re like rock stars yet they’re already WAY
below them in that hierarchy...they’re the obvious response because of how they are
acting to the smallest detail.

Now, let’s say you’re a roadie (who is still below them in the hierarchy) yet you’re com-
fortable around these guys. Maybe they’ve told you to seek out some ho�ies to bring
back stage. Or say that you’re a promoter or reporter: what kind of relationship do you
have now?

Interdependent. You’re on an equal but same level essentially when it comes to re-
spect. They may have their big show right here but you’re also your own single person
as well and have things going on.

So how do you treat them if you’re the promoter or reporter? As an equal. You’re not
in ‘awe’ of them and thrown off. You’ll see selected women coming in backstage and
feeling ‘lucky’ (sound familiar?) for their chance to be near the stimulus. But to you,
you’re just on an equal basis with them - the rock stars or boyband.

You see, there ARE relationships going on and that simple difference of S-R or INTER-
DEPENDENCE makes ALL the difference when it comes to women. BE independent
and treat them at least as TRUE equals (though still the stimulus yourself) instead of
acknowledging you’re just one of the new breed of salivating groupies who is dying to
get close to them.

With most guys that are thrown off; it’s a clear stimulus-response relationship in which
they are succumbing to. These women ARE (also) leveraging social character like the
rock stars. But they’re really just people and would prefer to be brought down to earth
(they have to respond off of you remember?).

STOP TREATING HER LIKE A ROCK STAR and simply reframe the entire relation-
ship itself. Don’t mess around with techniques, hypnosis and ‘inner character’ treatises
because it’s child play compared to relational dynamics.

It’s like a woman coming backstage saying I’m not going to be nervous or show that
I’m interested BUT IT’S SO DAMN OBVIOUS because she’s going backstage. The dif-
ference is in truly being differentiated. Then you’ll be comfortable and ‘indifferent’
because you’re not playing that game.

I encourage you to cut social influence off completely for a while so you can under-
stand what’s going on by le�ing this all sink in. Then turn the t.v. on and watch com-
mercials with the volume off and look at it through the eyes of relational dynamics.
Ask yourself:

What message are they really sending here?

Who has control over my own reality?

Am I the intended ‘response’ here?

Am I aware of what is going on?

Can I see how obviously or blatantly they are using a woman’s sexuality to try and get
me to buy this product?

What product are they trying to get me to buy?

Is the woman even aware that her sexuality is being exploited to create more revenue?

What kind of emotional response are they trying to elicit from me?

Can I feel myself somehow connecting with that product (or wanting it/approving it)
only because I see a beautiful woman?

Does the woman enjoy being a pricktease?

What would this woman be like in person?

In order to remain the stimulus you are going to have to filter what comes through to
you if you are going to remain powerfully independent (ala N.E.O.). The best way to
start is to turn off those forces in the first place or CLEARLY understand your relation
to them and their intentions (like I do) so that you don’t just ‘fall into’ your old habits
or turning back on SportsCenter and ge�ing sucked back into the social matrix itself.

It WILL take some discipline on your part.

The seriousness of the issue if you can’t differentiate it.. If you just ‘soak up’ all of this
social programming and advertising that’s coming your way...what’s going on here?
Who is being the stimulus and who is being the response?

Remember, there is ALWAYS a real relationship...and it’s o�en hidden.

We used to have more men of character (ala Cary Grant’s) in history because they im-
proved themselves and were very careful of le�ing certain influences in which would
take them away from their own destiny.

One relational element has the upperhand power. Stimuli-Response.

Either those wings you just picked up that (are the stimulus) are smelling SO good that
they just have to jump into your mouth OR you have the self discipline to know that
you are always the stimulus and that means you have self-control.

You can wait to experience that transactional relationship until you get home because
of the traffic.

In classical conditioning, Pavlov’s dogs responded to a number of different stimuli (not

just bells), in order to trigger the salivation. Now for you it’s not just lipstick but bigger
breasts, tighter mini-skirts, etc. Alpha R.D. resolves that by actualizing your true rela-
tionship to that force of power.
You’re not the response in a�raction because it doesn’t work for actual sex; that is a
social device used for money.

Look at the social matrix and YOUR environmental (social) influences growing up.
They’ve all tried to push their ideas and programming on you.
You were conditioned in all kinds of ways; how to act around people, what to say,
what not to do, how to ‘treat’ women. It probably didn’t take the dogs too long to con-
nect the ringing of the bell with salivating.

My mom has a ritual of feeding the pets a snack before she goes to bed; that’s condi-
tioning. So in recognizing the stimulus-response relationship, know that you have
been conditioned MUCH MUCH more than that.

You’ve probably received millions of individual influential trajectories that you al-
lowed into your character that have ‘conditioned’ you when actually someone else had
the power over you to influence you. A�er millions of signals (ie. t.v. commercials) it’s
hard to differentiate the truth anymore.

That’s why we deal with the ROOT of where it all stems from in the first place. Doing
that you can remove the entire burden away from your character and start anew so
that YOU can be the stimulus and stop being under the impression and invisible forces
of others.

Look at a hit song go on in the club and see how people will ‘respond’ to it. Their be-
haviors and actions will change...women will start acting sexier and even behaving
differently all as part of the stimuli-response relationship.

But who is INFLUENCING that? It’s the DJ’s choice of a certain song; HIS idea at a
certain moment. I want you to get thinking as a Producer...a person of ‘cause’ yourself
because those are the powerful people; the 1%.

If you’re not aware of what’s going on in the relational environment, you’re being an
ignorant puppet of other forces.

When a crowd does ‘the wave’ at a stadium event..this is a tremendous amount of win/
win synergy

Be aware of all bullets of influence and consciously CHOOSE what to let in or not
through N.E.O. Relational Mapping.

This is like the Daniel-San training to become the Karate Kid who wins the champion-
ship in a way.

By remaining the response to other people’s true influence over them, most people
can’t fend off the bullets of influence that are coming at them at machine gun fire rate,
so for countless years, these influences ‘add up’ (chaos theory) to define so much of
who they are.

Many people don’t have much of a personality or inner character at all and really are
mostly social byproducts or social stereotypes. They actually play life pre�y safe too
because they can escape to their fantasy world instead of living it. ..Wannabe’s of real
character but you’re different, right?!

More people are a balance of both S-R but if you’re just ‘basking’ in the social matrix or
going back to your old habits and continuing to let the bullets in, you will never have
the personal power you could.

With millions of ‘signals’ or stimuli coming at you, it’s up to you to differentiate them.
I’ve noticed I’m confused and fragmented a�er watching a li�le t.v. in the past..I can’t
focus on myself because I’m thinking of li�le things.

Leaders are readers (vs. watching t.v.).

When you’re always the response, someone is above you in that relation..they’re the
one with power and you’re essentially disempowered.

For the television relationship;

The people become like the salivating dog who wants more; the NEXT flavor, the next
t.v. show but it’s actually NOT a dependency. It doesn’t ma�er, the people treat it like a
dependency.

Meanwhile, the t.v. producers / architects are scrambling to come up with new content
to appease the masses to give them more power and keep the cycle going.

They’ll put out new ‘pilots’ of new t.v. shows and put an ad in a magazine or t.v. guide.
I see what’s going on as being differentiated myself and it’s kind of stupid.

Despite the restless (because it’s socially rooted) and fickle consumer consciousness, it
STILL the Architect’s who have the power in the stimulus-response relationship.

If they can get you to watch and stay entertained they still have the power, otherwise
it’s the OTHER networks at that time slot who have the power and influence because
the consumers are still stuck in the mass ‘zombie-like’ responsive co-dependency of
that relationship with t.v. (which was their choice).

You dont’ have to play the social game, since you have power independently you’re
equal to the greatest of any of them; it’s all in how you interact with people

To help you have the leverage to make such a change of differentiation, maybe you
should see the damage it has done or would continue to do.

Look for the actual relationships that exist.

Do you have inner peace or are you trying to find yourself? Do you get restless? Do
you care what other people think?

Do you have social anxiety in front of women or crowds? All of these things will repel
a woman from wanting to sleep with you. We have to work on the root of it all itself;
your natural character.

The sexual natural character in women is what you have to focus on. THAT is the part
of her that is the ONLY path to sex itself in reality. And yet all of these other seduction
teachers (most of them) are still WRESTLING with the confusion of a woman’s social
character or how to ‘break it down’ or defeat it.
If you focus on her socially promoted/aligned character you will be unstable because
she IS the obvious stimulus socially. You have to differentiate all of this and operate on
the natural level.

You don’t have to deny her causal social status but like me, I don’t even care..in fact I
devalue a woman’s socially exploited character because I know it has li�le to do with
who she really is in the bedroom; she will rarely lead anyways there despite being the
object of a�ention/stimulus.

I know that my relationship to a woman who is acting like the social stimulus is all a
contrived ‘control’ because of her causal nurture environment.

She has to know that you as a man are going to lead. That is your natural role in the
bedroom. She won’t let anyone who is nervous, twitching and/or drooling over her
even allow that prospect to develop (of sex with him). That’s why who you are upfront
speaks volumes.

If you’re really strong, she should pick that up very quickly and then can trust you to
handle her in the bedroom and then she’s interested.

You have to lead as a man and if you’re focusing on her as the socially aligned stimu-
lus, you’ve become the response and it’s not possible for you to lead the way then (even
if you ARE a great Alpha like guy away from her). When you play the game naturally
and with her natural character/response, everything is flow.

When you know your relationship to feminine characteristics and ARE the stimulus
by keeping your power for yourself (true independence), you will be the same man
in front of the most beautiful women in the world. You’ll allow room for them to re-
spond.

You’ll have defeated their initial ‘power leverage ratio’ because you know your re-
lationship to it. Nothing ma�ers but her NATURAL and responsive character. She
WILL respond to your character, so BE the Alpha stimulus that you’re supposed to be
so she can respond the way you want.

This is how you have success with women and the times you have before, you DID tap
into your natural (and hers) character. So when you just ‘are’ on the natural level as the
stimulus in a�raction (and at all times), then you are much closer to her response sexu-
ally because women are born to be aware of and know of a man of strong natural char-
acter (confidence, fearlessness, alpha characteristics, ability to procreate, masculine..).
“It’s all in the Charts”. Her a�raction response will rise to your character as the stimu-
lus. Her response will be different for different men because they have different char-
acter.

The best thing you can do is BE closest to the universal female ideal/expectational re-
sponse by being high in N.I.S. character. This is what you’re doing now, you’re ge�ing
there.

Women will look for you to be the positive stimulus. As long as she can trust you to
fully BE who you are (congruency), she can decide to ‘respond’ to your reality. Women
are looking for a man with a strong reality.

These strong men most likely are clear on their relationship to social B.S. That’s why
women go for bad guys; it’s his high natural character and it’s about time that real and
balanced men raise their natural character because they ARE more deserving.

Take any pure, natural woman and put her in the social matrix of American nightlife
and social culture/influence for 5 months and she will turn into a different woman.
She’ll say she loves you and then she’ll go out with her new girlfriends dressing sexy,
ge�ing a�ention and who knows what else.

She’ll have this power (socially derived) where she’ll now play with a man’s heart...
she’s torn between her new decisions. Such is the case of my new good friend and we
talk about it all the time. Still, his relationship to her is not a co-dependency so I’m still
working with him on it.

Especially because women are a ‘response’ and are more adaptable to their immediate
surroundings.

Ignorance = confusion and awareness = clarity in our case with Relational Dynamics.

The SOCIAL act of sex is representatively called pornography (now so� porn has influ-
enced much of the economy and daily lifestyle of the mass people).

It is used to INFLUENCE men (and women to raise their social status) to make certain
buying decisions.

BE the stimulus who keeps his power for himself so that women can respond by know-
ing that no ma�er what social leverage she is using, you know that it’s throwing off her
naturally responsive character (the only way she’ll really get to win/win sex outside of
a porn contract).
They can’t change who you are and they ALL have natural/feminine character which
‘responds’ to alpha men. The rest of this training will help you grow in alpha character
as well as become and remain the stimulus in your relationships with other sources of
power and influence (especially women).

It doesn’t ma�er HOW beautiful she is, you remain the stimulus and high in character.
Let women be the response because any other way is the opposite of nature and won’t
get you anywhere.

You ARE a man and it is NOTHING to be ashamed of. Be proud of that fact and also
know that women are looking for ‘real men’ (and that means not falling into social
ironic brainwashing). Bask in the beauty of her natural body..it is NOTHING to be
afraid of. In nature if you were ever afraid of procreation you’d be the lowest male on
the food chain with rare a chance to procreate.

Remaining the stimulus in the metaframe of the relationship: If a woman is still held
up with intimacy issues or wants to keep me for the long-term (part of the problem
because I am a desirable ‘long term’ catch) or for me to take her out and buy her stuff I
WILL drop her a�er the fourth date at the latest (even Prada’s).

I don’t buy women gi�s that appease them. O�en times even for me, the relationship
starts out ‘logically’ (ie. off of online, etc.) and because I know I can take any woman to
sex, I’ll get caught up in the 4 date rule (drop them a�er that if didn’t have sex).

In order to be the stimulus, you’re going to have to let them know what your lifestyle
is. If I go along with a more equal reality, of course it will get to sex but now I’m like;
no, right up front.

It’s my way or the highway and I’ll let them generally know, “Look, I only have time
and interest for a physical relationship right now so I respect you and your decision of
wanting a ‘dating’ relationship but that’s not for me at this time. If you want no-strings
hot sex, give me a call. Nice meeting you, bye.”

This means NOT ge�ing all of the girls. It means dropping some; even HOT ones. It
also means never ge�ing rejected because you let them know you’re lifestyle up front.
I’ll teach more about this somewhere else because dealing with Prada’s it’s something
you’re probably going to be going through; those who have strong socio-logical expec-
tations.

(The best way is to meet them in a conducive environment such as a hotel bar or night
place).
Consequently I always do let them know (in the past) but sometimes too late. I’ll lay
down an ultimatum because I got fed up. Ironically almost all of them boomerang
back to me (sometimes months later) because of my character anyways.

If she’s trying to lead the relationship or to frame it for what she wants, and it’s not
what you want (and you’ve even told her) - get out dude.

The man must lead the relationship and if you have difference of opinions and she’s
le�ing too much of her social development get in the way of even your first sexual en-
counter (within 3 or 4 dates), she doesn’t deserve you.

Give her an ultimatum and drop out. There’s plenty of other women out there who
would like to have the best sex of their lives.

For years what I have done is when I have positive thoughts I will a�ribute them to
my main internal directives. This means when I’m watching i.e. music video’s and I
feel a strong impulse of value I’ll directly connect it or ‘autocalc’ it to it’s representation
where it belongs.

This subconsciously adds up and compounds in my favor. It’s just a high level interde-
pendency and habit that I have where I remain the stimulus and all else is a part of my
reality if I choose it to be.

The animal kingdom doesn’t let ANYTHING get in the way of mating when it’s going
to happen. There is no social ‘logic’ or ‘added value’ b.s. that would stop a Lion from
mating with a lioness. This is pure natural character so when you can see and actual-
ize that it’s your birthright to provide the seed for a woman to procreate, then you’re
ge�ing somewhere.

But you must understand each of the elements at full independent representation so
that you know how to place them together and how they interact/relate to each other
(which we’re ge�ing to).

When Rafiki shakes his head at Uncle Scar’s taking over of the Kingdom. There IS
hope..it’s time for YOU to take back your rightful place because if you don’t, it will con-
tinue to be ruled and influenced by other forces. But you HAVE the power. You don’t
have to be greater than it, you just have to be in harmony with your true place in life.

Allow yourself to be influenced (by sources you consciously approve of) that no one
else can change your mind (as to their residual value and effect it has had on you).
You’ll come from a new place. A new level. Like standing atop Pride Rock with
awareness and power/influence over what’s going on instead of just being an antelope
or whatever. It’s time to be the lionking of your life where you are the inheritant and
independent stimulus; it’s who you were MEANT to be.

Notes:

When you walk in a nightclub with the dancefloor as the nexis, all of those people (99%
I’d say) are under the influence. They are behaving accordingly as a response accord-
ing to the stimulus. I just thought of this...what would happen if the element (of influ-
ence) the music wasn’t there?

Well, the people wouldn’t be responding and they’d think it sucked but as producer
here let’s keep the people dancing and just take out the element of the music or turn it
all the way down. Imagine the level of power you would have then...you’d be able to
actually interact with people. When they film nightclub scenes for movies there isn’t
any volume, they add that in in post-production so that they can actually ‘hear’ the ac-
tors.

A woman cannot see your true soul in that environment because of the social distortion
and the illusion of social status that influences her decision making.

We’re coming from the frame of NATURAL women with a li�le social thrown on top
vs. SOCIAL women with more social thrown on top (and when these SOCIAL women
try natural they just can’t connect or be real): a world of a difference

We’re not just taking power back for the men but we’re doing it for the (sexual and re-
lational) benefit of WOMEN.

If men take the power back then women will realize how overrated they were and be
even more desperate (instead of the other way around). I don’t know if they’ll change
(as a response) b/c it would take a mass socially approved movement to rebalance the
Force but a�er women have had their ‘heyday’ for 3 decades it’s time men stand up
and bring light back to the balance of nature and relationships. A mass rebalancing.

When you’re watching women in music videos, natural energy is closer to ‘real’ and
‘acting’ or conscious heightening/awareness is closer to social/logical/fake
“Are women expecting me to chase them and just playing hard to get, or am I just beat-
ing myself up about one broad? Also why do I get mixed signals flirting and lots of eye
contact and smiles but it would kill her to stop and ask me a question. In this world of
the liberated women are women still generally standoffish and evasive until a guy nails
her on it.” -David C.

Natural RMA stimulus-response is the source of all life. Tap into that baby. Social ex-
ploitation/distortion is the source of 40 year old virgins because men are the response
instead of the stimulus.

.....real sex is not like a porno unless you can get her to that point or lead the way..it’s a
NATURAL thing.

Alpha men in history and in nature are used to impregnating as many women as pos-
sible.

Ultimately what you want to do is differentiate the social matrix and everything that
stems from it as a single, independent power that is equal to you.

Re-frame everything so that you have an equal (or greater) power relationship with
it (very few people other than producer’s really DO). It doesn’t have to influence you
UNTIL you let it.

You’ll know that when someone has a bad radio station on or the volume is just a li�le
‘too loud’ for your taste you’ll LET THEM KNOW. Why do you think James Bond has
such a discerning taste? He knows who he is and most importantly, he knows his rela-
tionship to others. He’s not afraid to be alpha and just ‘be’.

If a woman is testing you but you know she wants you to say the wrong thing don’t
cave in. Perfect example, I was talking to this one girl with two of her sidekicks just
there upstairs at a club (where it was quieter) and she was trying to say it would be
sexy if a man would ‘try’ being homosexual or something just once.

She was testing me like a mo’fo but she didn’t win no ma�er how hard she tried to
‘influence’ me to change my mind. Turned out she was married (which is like le�ing
the air out of a balloon for me) and this aphrodite was telling me that she massages her
husbands feet and that they don’t have problems. Hmm..some kind of incongruency
there.

You can learn the lines and even be a pre�y boy but if you don’t have the character to
back it up or understand relational dynamics NONE OF IT MATTERS, she’ll move
onto the next daydreaming with her vibrator.

The Military Recruiter’s sexual abuse cases. You want my opinion? I don’t think you
can handle it. Of age women who provoke, flirt and nonverbally ask for or have con-
sensual or dating relationships with recruiters to raise their own (social) status, fine.
Leave it at that. Dismiss it.

Just don’t put all the blame on the man like he’s the only one ‘at fault’ because you’re
using him. Where’s the balance and accountability there? This is not a dependency
when she willingly participates.

Actual rape where she wasn’t responding and was coerced or forced into it I can un-
derstand, but real consensual relationships (where she probably had the best sex of her
life) and then tries to ruin a recruiter’s career or life without taking ANY accountability,
that’s not right.

Where’s her accountability? Prickteasing women can literally get away with murder
and they dependently put all the blame on the man. I would think that those women
would have some kind of negative karmic reaction for their part.
 Chapter 26

Above the Influence

Before we get into being ‘above the influence’ or ‘aside of it’ I want to bring this up:

I had no idea the power of what my grandmother was doing when she would watch
her show “As the World Turns” and she would ALWAYS turn down the volume when
the commercials came on.

That simple act represents pre�y much everything. She consciously chose to watch
‘her show’ and yet she didn’t let commercialistic/social influence interrupt HER reality.

It’s only been recently that I fully understood that. In fact our elders have looked at
what’s going on and shook their heads to it. It’s like when Uncle Scar takes over the
Pridelands from the rightful ruler. Well, it IS up to you to take it back; take back your
power and position for yourself and have control over what is and can be yours.

Let me also say this about my grandmother. She was in a way the ‘lead’ in the relation-
ship with my grandfather (on my mother’s side) but you know what? She MADE the
relationship work and she knew her role. They stuck together and made it through
thick and thin. She knew her place and she edified her husband beyond his death
even.

What has happened to the (not all but many forced reality) women today who despite
ANYTHING that they will say (or try to justify) are basically homewrecking challeng-
ers who have such demandingly high expectations. Without knowing it in who they
have become, they habitually ‘take over’ the relationship just because it is who they
have become because of (once again) one thing; social influence.

Li�le do the actual homewreckers know that they would be a completely different
woman had they grown up in a different social culture. And once you can see and un-
derstand this reality, you will be above the influence.

And when an independent woman is talking to you about this, it’s basically her social
programming talking because in a best case, a marriage becomes a compromise. It’s
like when two stars collide when two empowered and independent people come to-
gether.
That is why we have a 50% divorce ratio in the U.S.A. and around 70% in southern
california (the ROOT of socio-cultural influence itself).

I haven’t ever smoked or done drugs (outside of prescription) to date. Many people
don’t believe me but the truth is I never fell into ‘peer pressure’. I remember kids at
high school trying to ‘find themselves’ and fit into any group that would take them.

Many would start smoking out front because of one reason ‘peer pressure’ (ie. social
influence). They wanted to ‘fit in’.

Look, I’m not denying the importance of social peer groups. I’m saying if you’re a
truly independent person you’ll be interdependent with all kinds of groups that can
benefit you and that you can add win/win value to.

Don’t ever do it just to ‘gain acceptance’...that’s real close to a dependency. Keep the
power for yourself. Do you have to be an outcast? No, it’s important to be involved..
it’s part of life but I encourage you to ONLY operate interdependently and be aware of
exactly what’s going on. If some group tries to ‘persuade you’ to do something you’re
not fully yet clear on yourself, say NO.

Snoop Dogg himself could offer me a joint and I’d still say ‘No’. That’s the power of
control I have over myself...that’s pure independence that doesn’t fall into social pres-
sure or social influence. It would be ‘his’ reality then. No.

I only operate with other people interdependently. that means I respect them but I
expect them to respect my independence as well. And when people try to ‘cross’ that
line, it’s VERY clear to me and it will be to you too once you achieve a full level of in-
dependent energy and awareness. Ask yourself at what price would you compromise
certain values of yours?

Ask yourself what level of social influence or peer pressure would it take you to ‘cave
in’. It really is a gauge. Remember your thoughts determine your actions determine
your destiny. If you aren’t fully independent and disagreeable with what someone is
imposing upon you, you maybe fall into that person’s stronger reality.

And if you weren’t clear with it, you’re going to feel ‘used’ almost (a�erwards). It may
seem ‘cool’ (which only a social function itself) to do something that someone wants
you to do in order for you to raise your own ‘social status’ in that specific situation but
if you know that you’re not fully clear about it within yourself and your pure indepen-
dent, I suggest saying NO.
If, for example you already ‘smoke’ or whatever and are open to it, it can be a moment
of synergy but remember this; independent people generally respect other indepen-
dent people...even those with different opinions and beliefs.

I sometimes VIOLENTLY (if that’s possible) turn off the radio when I hear advertising
come on because I know exactly what it is. 99.9% of people in this culture will just con-
tinue to soak it up all up like a sponge, being the response. Yes they have found ways
to develop ‘who they are’ but they are still a social byproduct of sorts because of the
SOCIAL culture in which they grew up in.

Countless people will always feel ‘unse�led’ or ‘restless’. Why? Because all of these
social bullets of influence have already penetrated them so much that they can’t see
anything solid anymore...they’re search for the next ‘ho�est’ thing or turn to drugs.

Speaking of dependencies; how do you solve drug or alcohol dependency? Simple.

Have a person take their power back by keeping it an interdependent relationship
instead of dependent. Have them say, “No...I choose NOT to smoke/drink right now.”
It’s all about being ‘independent’. That person is ‘above’ the influence when they are
fully being independent.

Only have one stream of influence coming at you at one time and be aware of it so you
can let it through (approve) of it or not. For example, I rarely listen to the radio any-
more (and have stopped watching t.v. for over a year).

Instead I choose what movies I want to watch and listen to my own collection of music
which I (repeat I) choose. If I’m listening to LaunchCast on Yahoo messenger, I will
skip to the next song if I’m not feeling one song at that moment.

I have complete control. It’s quite a difference that it makes and that’s what I encour-
age you to do. Build your own digital collection of music which has a positive influ-
ence and be the d.j. yourself.

Speaking of d.j.’s and I don’t want to talk long about this subject right now; when you
step into a nightclub. What’s happening here? Do you have any control anymore?
Hah. Only if you’re the d.j., the owner, a popular celebrity or a promoter. This is the
perfect example of social influence and society.

Look at how fake and controlled the environment is and yet how strong it’s influence
is. Women will not be themselves AND will change furthermore (as a response) when
a certain influential song (stimulus) comes on.
If you’re not aware of what is actually going on and that it is a very contrived environ-
ment you’re going to feel like crap in many cases. It is possible to have fun still but
even that is easier done when the ‘social’ environment is more open MEANING the
music is turned way down, the environment is neutralized so people can actually com-
municate instead of be limited to one person’s idea (the dj - different than yours) of
what should be played.

What I’m saying is, you can actually sleep peacefully at night knowing what is actually
going on and that under that controlled of an environment (if you start thinking more
as a producer yourself), you would KNOW exactly how to make that environment
be�er or more conducive for real interdependence instead of a fake, socially contrived
hierarchy of status.

I think that people are sick of going to clubs and it’s very tiring. Why on earth aren’t
there actual places to actually ‘connect’ and meet people? I’m talking an open environ-
ment where there is no D.J. yet there is so�, quiet music that has an atmosphere like a
wedding reception right a�er dinner? Drinks, a nice environment, classy people and
h’ors deouvres.

Take the women off from the B.S. social pedestal and bring them back down to earth;
neutralize the environment so people can actually connect and let their true talents
com out (without pretension). Then we’ll really see who has game! I don’t have
enough resources yet and yes I thought of the idea but if you’ve got the resources, it’s a
‘gamble’ (until it takes off) but millions of women and men just want to ‘meet’ people
and actually socialize instead of living in such a fake reality as most nightclubs where
it’s a direct stimulus-response to the environment in a loud environment.

The lounges I’ve seen so far suck too because the music is way too damn loud. I’m tell-
ing you, this can make a lot of money and when I have the financial resources I’ll do
it and without a singles club membership or anything. The social matrix is still really
lacking in real places of interdependence.

There are great women out there and a lot of great guys who would be fine if they just
had a conducive environment for meeting people to see who they really are without all
of the social distortion and B.S. default elevation of women who slip into the response
of prickteasing and cold-fronting.

Things that are socially derived and naturally derived. Look at nature itself as be-
ing quite simple. Procreation and the basics of life and survival; food, water, shelter.
When you can differentiate that a guitar solo from Van Halen, the latest trend, latest
music video, the latest band, the winning streak by Tiger Woods, or that you beat your
highest score on a video game is ALL 100% socially (consciously) derived you can start
to understand your relationship to it.

I encourage you to ask yourself what is socially derived and what isn’t. People’s lives
become so screwed up because they have basically become co-dependent on the forces
of social influence.

That’s why celebrities are so screwed up and their relationships never hold; they rep-
resent social (conscious) influence. It’s ALL un-natural no ma�er how ‘cool’ they are.
They become co-dependent on what other people think (the social/communal) and try-
ing to please other people without centering their own energy and independence and
pu�ing that first.

I would recommend finding powerful bullets of influence that are either culturally
differentiated (which will bring you back to your natural power) or that will help you
grow and improve in other positive ways.

In fact, with a deep understanding of relational dynamics you will be able to find value
in anything that comes across ‘your desk’. You will be able to choose from the smor-
gasbord more clearly because you can SEE what is in front of you in focus.

You can find influences that other people would just ‘pass over’ or not even ‘get’ AT
ALL.

Your awareness of relational dynamics will help you to prevent relationships that
would fail. Yes, I’m talking about interpersonal relationships. If you weren’t aware,
you’d get sucked up into a relationship because that’s just how you thought things
were or what society promoted.

She was independent yet you had some sparks and your differences but maybe you
thought you could ‘work them out’ because that’s what everyone does, right?

Put it this way...if you’re compromising your true integrity to yourself and being your-
self when you’re around a woman just to allow ‘room’ for the ‘power’ I will guarantee
future strife. My favorite example? Angelina Jolie and Brad Pi�.

She basically OWNS him in that relationship (no one else will say it). We’re talking
about a man who used to be the “#1 bachelor” and look what happens in that kind of
relationship and influence.
She becomes #1 and it is the opposite of both of their biological natures. It’s a socially
influenced relationship. Brad Pi� is now repressed and less than a full man because of
this. Her a�raction for him fades because he falls into her strong (socially developed)
idea of reality.

If you want more substance than just a marriage contract or kids to ‘keep’ a relation-
ship together (by the strings) then if you’re single, this book should be worth thou-
sands of dollars to you because you’ll understand the type of woman who can keep
and hold a real relationship.

Hint, it’s not ‘miss wonderful’ who you put above yourself, sorry. That’s society who
developed her and it’s society who says it will actually work out.

My own father was divorced 5 times because he chose empowered women and yet he
is still a very traditional man. HE didn’t change...the women did. Men are wondering
‘what the hell happened to the women’.

Without ge�ing too deep into this subject (I have a whole 362 page ebook on it), let me
just say this: if you can learn to read a woman and see how natural or socially influ-
enced she is...you’ll be able to have an idea whether a relationship could actually work
out or if it’s going to be a complete repression/struggle of yourself or filled with com-
promises.

Yeah you might say but ‘of course I would marry a woman from my own culture’.
That’s still your problem if you’re thinking that (no offense) because that’s what soci-
ety taught you to think. Look at cultural differentiation and it could save your life and
turmoil.

There are countless millions of more ‘natural’ women out there (who don’t even speak
your language) yet would still make more effective wives, mothers and caretakers than
many of the women in your own culture.

Yes that seems to be a radical ‘idea’ but think about it. If a woman is so socially de-
veloped and influenced that she has her own career and essentially more power than
a man why WOULD she want to regress just back ‘down’ to her more natural roots?
A�er all, she has all of this (social) power.

It’s just taken for granted...it IS who she IS. And if you can’t see ‘what it is’ for ‘what is
REALLY is’ then you’re going to be on ass end of things through much of your life and
maybe you already have
So, in order to be ‘above the influence’ you’re going to simply have to differentiate
yourself from the social matrix (as ‘one’) with relational mapping. You can reframe
your relationship with it because you have complete control over what you let in and
how you ‘exchange’ value.

Differentiating yourself independently will give you enormous power and you can
maintain that through N.E.O. and managing the influential trajectories as we’ll get to.

Notes:

Affirmation: “I am above the influence because I AM the influence.”

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I despise 80’s metal rock in general but I love song’s and artists that break through that
stagnant quagmire such as “I can’t stop loving you” by Van Halen. This is effectiveness
that reaches universal level and can’t be contained by an oppressive stereotype upon it
limiting it to just a secular niche market that immediately identifies with it socially.

If you truly want a wider view on the world and you’re stuck in just liking a few sub-
culture genres of ie. music you’d best widen your perspective and find value in more
things beyond that..seriously.

Aligning yourself to more universal principles is not giving up anything, it’s becom-
ing more of a balanced man that represents more universals ideals and more of what
women want. If you JUST like 80’s classic metal you’ll probably a�ract just those kinds
of women and only accept them...get beyond that if that’s you. There’s a much greater
world.

One of the most important things you can realize that ANYTHING social or that you
run by socially is not a dependency. So if you’re a producer for example and run some-
thing by a ‘crowd’ that means a lot to you and it doesn’t quite synergize (or even if it
does), it doesn’t ma�er what their ‘reaction’ or ‘opinion’ is if it’s fully represented in
your independence.

This is a very important distinction because nothing can change the value which you
have already received.

Become more universal in ‘character representation’ by accepting and leveraging the

powers that are aligned naturally and greater than you; the relational formula.
 Chapter 27

The Architects

I talk more about this in the video portion of the Alpha Relational Dynamics program,
but I wanted to bring it up here as well.

As in ‘The Matrix’...there is Neo, Morpheus and ‘The Architect’. The Architect was the
one who created the Matrix in the first place. He defined it’s general rules and proto-
col.

By now you know that I reference and talk a lot about the ‘social matrix’ or the ‘forced
reality’. In essence it is analogous to a ‘programming influence’ upon countless peo-
ple/clones/responses that they just cannot see.

All they see is what’s right in front of them and as open as it may seem in it’s offering
to them; it’s really a strategically designed relationship of which they are not cognizant.

In the social matrix, there ARE architects and they are real. They are continually creat-
ing the new codes and programming that will influence and consequently determine
the behavior of countless people.

In order to have cognition here we have to differentiate and acknowledge what’s going
on. Los Angeles is the epicenter of the social matrix. The highest number of ‘archi-
tects’ exist there.

Some of them aren’t even cognizant of their own relationship to the social matrix it-
self...they are just ‘in the industry’ or doing ‘computer rendering’ at an FX house, etc.

The people that have the TRUE power and influence (which is quite o�en HIDDEN)
are the architects aka executives, financiers, producers, promoters and distributors.

This is what most people can’t see in relation to their social reality and where they
stand. They definitely are NOT aware of the amount of influence that has already been
HAD upon their life. Quick reference; cultural differentiation and causality.

People (nurture) are social byproducts. Their are the essential amalgamation of their
environment, surroundings and experiences. In First World countries and Western cul-
ture this stems from the ‘social matrix’ itself; the most influential socio-cultural identity
ever to exist in history.

It’s reach is probably near 2.5 billion people now to some degree or around half of the
world and definitely most or all of the civilized world.

Remember in the movie T2..there was a scientist who created a new program/code that
eventually enabled robots to take over the earth? Arnie came back to prevent that from
happening (as far as I remember). He was an ‘architect’; a person of influence.

The current Architects have mass popular society within an invisible relational system
of stimulus-response (see my ‘Television’ Chapter).

Don’t think these people are real? Look at the 2006 ‘Details’ Power Issue; the 40 Most
Influential People under the age of 42.

You’ll start to see the people who are really behind what’s going on. Surprise; it’s NOT
the Paris Hilton’s and the ho�est new actors or actresses. It’s definitely not the women
you are edifying.

The ‘Architects’ are the people that are feeding the whole system itself. They are
‘above’ the porn star type women and even above most recording artists. They are the
hidden people that have the real ‘pull’ and influence.

The producers, the media, the bankers, the financiers, the CEO’s, the producers, the ef-
fective entrepreneurs, the high-level negotiators..

Your cognition of this fact is important to your understanding of and then differentia-
tion from the social matrix.

The Bill Gates’, Michael Dells’, the guys who started Yahoo, Hotmail, YouTube,
Myspace..the Timbalands, Sco� Storch’s, Kanye Wests’, Steve Chens’, Jimmy Wales’,
Sergey Brin & Larry Pages’, Ryan Kavanaughs’, Tom Andersons’, JJ Abrams’, etc.

If you didn’t know who some of them were; of course you didn’t. They’re architects.
The people with the REAL power and influence who o�en best stay behind the scenes.

THESE GUYS ARE ABOVE THE SOCIAL MATRIX.

Guys like Clive Davis, Jerry Bruckheimer, R.E. Turner, Henry Ford, Wright Bros. (the
level of bu�erfly effect a�er Ki�y Hawk!), Russell Simmons, it goes on and on.
The architects are o�en so good at hiding all of this that most people ‘accept it’. They
see what they see in front of them and ‘this is life’. Just like the flame shadows on the
wall in Plato’s Allegory of the Cave.

The system is SO perpetually strong and non-stop in it’s ‘programming’ that most
people would never escape it’s grasp or influence.

It’s primordially important to look at the TRUE relationship of what is going on. Just
take a look here and see if you start to ‘see’ the true reality. The whole system is flaw-
lessly invisible unless you can differentiate yourself from it like I did (and a Neo).

Without differentiating yourself from the inherent, repressive Stimulus-Response rela-

tionship, you would forever be trapped from your true power without ever knowing
that you probably have more capability than some of these dudes.

The potency of what is represented already in this Chapter is quite strong so I’ll let it
sink in.

Mind you, I am one of the Architects (and think like one) and I will probably become
one of the most powerful and influential ones long term (shhh), but it’s really up to you
to KNOW what is really going on and see the TRUE relational reality.
These people aren’t stuck ‘under’ the situation, they’re on top of it. Welcome to the
secret reality that was always right in front of you.

Stick to the relational maps instead of being sucked right back into their response pow-
erlessly when you turn on the t.v. again. There are people behind ALL of it that have
more power than you in that relationship.

Be powerful by only operating interdependently with the social matrix.

Maybe you’ll even become a powerful and influential Architect or Producer yourself.

You know how simple this can be? Perfect example right here and I really want you to
think about this:

You can write any kind of sentence or paragraph. Now, as producer you have the #1
voiceover artist in Hollywood. YES, I mean the guy who does ALL of the voices. Now,
have him read your paragraph and realize the strength of representational indepen-
dence and universal quality it brings.

ALL YOU DID WAS WRITE A PARAGRAPH and bring one other fully independent
element into the play. HELLO. Do you have any idea how much power that is?

What if you worked on that paragraph to make it sound like something interesting and
cool and then had him read it? All of a sudden you’re representing a lot of power that
is much greater than you...especially when put into the proper channel (even promoted
on the internet).

Now you’ve become the ‘stimulus’ for countless people to ‘respond’ to. And be-
cause they know of ‘the voice’ they instantly fall into the ‘this must be good’ category.
They’ve been conditioned to.

Think about all of this and how much power you can REPRESENT by thinking differ-
ently and applying relational dynamics!
 Chapter 28

Social Matrix

What is the social matrix?

It is a tremendous, ever-reaching network of programming that hold’s the power to

control, influence or sway countless millions of men and women. It’s most significant
aspect is that it’s effect is invisible to 99.9% of those who are a part of it (including most
of it’s icons) and it’s top objective is to now profit from the exploitation of feminine
sexuality.

If you live in a Westernized culture, it is all around you. It is so pervasive and influen-
tial that you have been conditioned to take it for granted. It has become an invisible
force of incredible influence on your life that has repressed your true power for many
years.

Sadly it will continue to repress millions of men without their awareness of WHY.
That’s exactly how the architect’s want it to be. They will continue to influence and
coerce their intentions amongst millions of unsuspecting people. It’s power has grown
much stronger just in the past 3 years alone.

It’s influence is so strong that it’s flipped around the balance of power and now it’s the
outcasts who succeed more with women than the actual good guys. The bad boys,
outcasts and jerks succeed with women because they don’t let the social matrix affect
them, thus they are the only men seemingly le� that have retained their natural charac-
ter and don’t drop in character when around women as a response.

The social matrix has conditioned you to be a RESPONSE to the sexploitation of wom-
en as the stimulus. And, indeed they ARE the stimulus. This is why it’s near impossi-
ble to not have an emotional response to their power and beauty when you are in front
of them.

The flipping around of the stimulus-response in a�raction is why EVERYTHING is so

screwed up. By default you have been ‘programmed’. It’s up to you to differentiate
yourself from it and reclaim your power by understanding your relationship TO the
social matrix and women. Therein lies the only (now) known path for real and bal-
anced men to regain their power (I should become a billionaire because of this).
Men’s lives will continue to be destroyed and repressed. We now have 40 year old vir-
gins.

The social matrix is..

MTV, porn stars, paris hilton, myspace.com, jessica simpson, independent women,
mean girls, television, radio, movies, advertising, nightclubs, fashion, and the indus-
tries that support it (fashion, cosmetics, porn, cosmetic surgery, health spas, gyms,
entertainment).

Furthermore the social matrix is Desperate Housewives, bleached hair, plastic surgery,
taunting, teasing, tantalizing, bitchiness, fantasy, fake boobs, las vegas, it’s consumerist
commercialism itself.

It’s realtime effect is invisible unless you look at causally.

Is this commercialism really pu�ing the consumer first? All of these brand name cor-
porations competing for your a�ention to further promote the programming of this
forced reality.

It may seem like you have the power and that’s the beautiful trick of it all. That’s how
the whole cycle keeps running. And aren’t they trying to influence you to ‘buy’ any-
ways?

Advertisers support the real brainwashing; t.v. programming itself as the nexis. You
may have more options and benefits of Capitalism but really you’re being influenced
beyond belief by the programming.

But where you see it as the most challenging of all; prickteases.

Yes, the women that you want the most. The women you just want to sleep with the
second you see them. The one’s that flaunt themselves and their sexuality. The ones
that crave a�ention from men only because they were taught to and saw it around
them in others to raise their own social status.

You have to know that the ONLY reason they are like this (and have grown away from
their natural roots) is because of social influence alone. The reason and answer is with-
in cultural differentiation; compare them to women in other (more natural) cultures.

The social matrix has added so much value to the social version of her sexuality that
the women that fall in line with this program don’t act natural. Their behavior has
changed.

They are co-dependent on their social status and what people think of them. Ironically
they won’t sleep with a man unless he has high natural character. Li�le do they know
that they are just a clone of what the power’s of influence want them to be.

By the women dressing sexy and acting like a pricktease (or pornstar), the architect’s
know that more men will buy products to try and alleviate this frustration or get closer
to these women which is just an illusion. I am not representing the social matrix.

I am here to take you away from it so you can actually succeed with (these) women by
regaining your power. I’m not here to continue the illusion of ge�ing closer to them by
waving the carrot in front of the donkey who can’t ever reach it.

With so much social influence and pressure that is the standard in Western culture to-
day, it is BY DEFAULT easy to lose sight of our roots and the simpler things in life.

In fact, life itself isn’t that difficult when you look at it biologically (purely natural). It’s
now so complicated and challenging because of one primary thing: social influence.
And yes it is so visceral and REAL.

The way women have treated you is so REAL isn’t it? Yes. And that’s why you MUST
know your relationship to the real truth.

You have seen real behavior but you haven’t seen another different reality. You haven’t
seen the reality of her natural character. Learn to see this and live this and you’ll be a
Don Juan.

So much programming comes down from the social matrix and it’s so POPULAR that
it’s near impossible to be cognitive of what’s going on unless you can step aside. Turn
on the radio and you’re zapped into it. Speaking of that...

Love songs and the fruition of current social dogma (I mean culture) is that your rela-
tionship to a woman or a man that you love (or think you love) is that you must be de-
pendent on them. Look at the lyrics and it says it all. In fact, look at the words some-
one says and you can find a lot about them.

When songs are saying, “She’s so high above me...a cleopatra, etc.” or “I’d die for your
love” and blah blah blah..do you REALIZE what’s going on here? People are ge�ing
‘programmed’ by this as such that THIS is how to act and what to say to the people we
are interested in. NO. It doesn’t work like that.
You must understand the TRUTH of reality (based upon relational dynamics) to know.
What this Wussy-producing propaganda represents are idealized social standards
which connect to the heart and emotion.

They synergize with how a man ‘feels’ about a woman but only because he is le�ing
himself be the ‘response’ to her instead of doing the only thing that works; le�ing her
be the response.

If you want to listen to love songs I’d recommend listen to it from women, not whiny
guys but either way know where you stand in relation to it so you can filter that influ-
ence properly instead of le�ing it continue to destroy your character and behavior pat-
terns.

The fact that it was consciously produced (as a representation of emotion) should make
you wary anyways.

Think of those songs as a ‘representation’ of how you ‘feel’ and not how you socially
‘behave’ and you’ll live a lot healthier dating life because once a woman knows she
‘has you’ her a�raction and interest will start dropping beyond her conscious control.

When you can realize everything that has influenced or controlled your behavior in the
past and realize that it is all kind of STUPID and disempowering, you will start to have
a real level of resolve and strength within yourself. Your energy will become more cen-
tered and you won’t be whim to the next wind of change or trend.

Understanding your relationship to those lyrics and popular songs will save you from
severe frustration yourself. Understanding your relationship to the elements of life
including other people, powers of influence and society could probably be THE most
important thing you’ve ever done for yourself and that’s why this book is NOT cheap.

Now there are divergent enclaves of respute such as ‘The Man Show’ where it’s ‘safe’ to
be a man and revel in that environment. Ultimately you aren’t a stereotype but rep-
resent much more to women and will be making that initial (for connection and sex)
relational ‘fusion’ instead of helping to create the current separation even further.

Look at Jewel...hate to say it but she did ‘sell out’. She fell under the influence of the
forced reality’s commercialism and had herself ‘made over’ (to look more like the social
ideal of blonde beauty).

It used to be her independent/inner character that she let out (and which made her
famous) but she gave in to the social influence to try and sell more records. I mean it’s
understandable (sort of) but I know on the inside she didn’t feel that great about it be-
sides shallowly being accepted a li�le more by the main ‘purchasing power’ people.

Even ‘Good Charlo�e’. Look at the punk philosophy; it’s anti-social, anti-matrix. I’m
sure they didn’t ‘fully’ intend to become so famous (hmm..) but you can see that they
have synergized with pop culture (the matrix) itself. The lead singer is/was dating
Hillary Duff and mingling with hip-hop artists.

Maybe you have to be Trafalgar square U.K. to be true punk (ie. Rancid) and remain
outside the social matrix to fully stay aligned with your punk values but then again
you wouldn’t reach as many people with your message.

What a dichotomy huh. But for ‘Good Charlo�e’ they could have been ‘using’ the
social matrix to their advantage to get the message out...you’d have to have a candid,
disclaimer-signed discussion of the relational dynamics with them to find out.

If you were only brought up or trained in your culture then that is what you have been
influenced by. In fact most people just take it for granted as part of life. But if you’re
aware that there are some disempowering things going on in Western culture then I
would recommend strongly that you step away from it all, get outside the country and
look at it objectively (what’s been going on) and look at it through the eyes of other
cultures.

If you’re not aware of the repressing social matrix and it’s tremendously strong-arm
level of influence on people within it (one could say that all women who were pure
become corrupted by it) then you wouldn’t have control over the level it has influenced
you.

You might be 80% societal programming yourself but just didn’t know it. Most un-
dergrads don’t know what their major is and it usually changes...they’re just following
what everyone else is doing and what they thought they were supposed to do (heck,
it’s how I started out).

Fortunately because we are not dependent on social groups (or tribes) for subsistence
anymore, each person has the potential to completely differentiate themselves from it
and use it to their advantage instead of being held under the coercive influence of it.

Rare is that man who has been ‘under the influence’ yet has regained his full power
(because of the S-R relationship). This is a man that will stand out amongst men and
women.
To succeed with women, all you have to do is operate with them on their natural char-
acter. Know that they are causal byproducts of their social environment which allows
them to leverage and exploit social powers that are greater than themselves (your natu-
ral ability to stimulate her response is also greater than yourself).

Know your relationship to her social character and seek out her natural character with-
in her. Don’t fall into the conditioned ‘response’ of her exploitation which is purely a
socially produced function.

It may shock you to hear this but at the root of the social matrix is money. It’s about
money and money is power. Somewhere around the time of Marilyn Monroe, produc-
er’s and executives realized that they could make a LOT of money by exploiting the
sexuality of women. They could ‘sexify’ women to reach to the one weakness of man;
his desire for sex.

The formula worked out great, because women could choose to participate in this and
model themselves a�er the leading icons and start to receive all of the same a�ention.
Their own social status began to rise and they could use this ‘sexual currency’ to over-
power men and gain free meals, gi�s and services from men.

This whole system has only grown stronger. It’s almost irreversible and it worked.
The architect’s who continue to perpetuate the social matrix are making so much mon-
ey because they have got the women to fall in line to the entire program that the wom-
en don’t even know they’re a part of it and the men are completely clueless.

Working in tandem with the exploitation of women’s sexuality through media and
advertising is the li�le thing called ‘female empowerment’. I go into more detail on
this in the ‘Men’s Guide to Women’ but this is a huge part of what has repressed you as
well.

I will keep repeating it; the influence and force of the social matrix is SO strong that
it’s nearly impossible to break if you don’t differentiate yourself from it. It is SO per-
suasive and SO gravitational. It is designed to put you into a direct and mindless ‘re-
sponse’ mode so that they can continue to ‘program’ you. This isn’t to be taken lightly
either because it’s effect on you and countless millions of men affects them daily.

There is a great divergence in the force of nature (and the mating game). It is called
social influence. It has flipped the power of nature upside down and mother nature
doesn’t like being repressed.
The number of women who are being ‘corrupted’ and falling under the influence of the
social matrix is compounding. It’s probably doubling every year now as the force of in-
fluence and the number of people becoming a direct byproduct grows stronger. Social
pressure grows stronger.

Now just about any woman can massively improve her image to fall in line with their
role models..get a boob job, bleach their hair, tan, get lipo and electrolysis and look like
a porn star clone. Then they’ll predictably get all kinds of a�ention from men.

FYI: I originally called the ‘social matrix’ the ‘forced reality’ in my breakthrough
‘Men’s Guide to Women’ ebook. That eBook will help you further understand the root
of the social matrix itself.

As always, Relational Dynamics is understanding the elements of influence and your

relationship to them. You will only have true power when you can differentiate your-
self FROM the powers that have influenced you up until now.

First we must have you ‘see’ the matrix yourself. Cultural differentiation will help you
to view it objectively and comparatively. Even the so-called ‘anti’ system people (like
American punk music) is still a part of the social matrix...they’re even stuck within it.

People will spend their whole lives trying to ‘fit in’ or abverse their personality in ‘the
system’, forever trying to ‘find’ their place in life. Byproducts such as marriage coun-
seling, the seduction industry, the porn industry, NLP, hypnosis are all systems that
are advertly trying to fix people or help them fit into the system which they still can’t
clearly see.

They will go their ENTIRE lives without clearly seeing or differentiating the power of
influence they are under..no wonder there are few people of character le� anymore. If
other’s who are outside of the system tell them to ‘runaway’ they won’t listen or under-
stand.

People outside of the system don’t understand the enormous impact and grip that it
has on people because they’re not a part of that culture or grew up in it; it’s easy for
them to see and say what’s going on but they won’t feel the impact that someone like
me had when I finally broke away from the matrix into my own full independent en-
ergy. Their morality and judgment is clouded, their personal freedom stunted.

Sure most people in our socio-cultural society are an amalgam of different (social)
influences and they’ve kind of turned into their own personality by semi-choosing
from the influences that came at them (socially). But what are they doing? They’re
likely following what society told them to do anyways and are stuck at a job, living the
American dream or so they hope.
I’m talking about pure empowerment here...I know what the neighbors are like where
my dad grew up. Ever hear the saying, ‘for some people their backyard is their world
and for others, the world is their backyard’. Well you can guess which one I am.

Everyone (mostly) is interesting in some way once you get to know them but I prefer
people like me. And you probably do too! Well if you’re the world is your backyard
kind of person, be that and find others like you...you’ll probably have to move if you’re
in a small town around small-minded thinkers.

If you still can’t ‘see’ the matrix, you will continue to confuse a woman’s exploited
social status (promoted as the stimulus) with her natural sexuality (which is the RE-
SPONSE to you as a man).

When you have seen the matrix you will be fearless around her because you’ll know
what represents the matrix (where she is just a programmed response trying to fit in)
and you’ll be able to see right through all kinds of women to their real self. You’ll also
be able to recognize other people who are not a part of the matrix and especially those
who are.

Social culture is the root of our demise and personal repression/disempowerment.

Nature and natural selection did fine on it’s own but society and social influence has
turned it upside down.

It’s up to you to take the power back for yourself with everything in it’s proper per-
spective. It’s just like in the Lionking..Uncle Scar unrightfully takes over the land but
Simba comes back to take his rightful place and restore the natural order and balance
despite the challenge.

And when he does, the light and abundance is brought back to the land. You restore
your natural order by realigning things where they are supposed to in your life and
there will be an abundance of women because despite the irony of their ‘power’ they
resent it when it comes to romance and relationships. You have to get this as a man.

Many people once they see the Matrix were close to outsiders anyways and they don’t
choose to stick around. I’m talking more than just a backpack trip to Europe before
you went to college.

Soon you can turn things around and use social influence to YOUR advantage to make
YOU a more powerful person when connecting with women. It’s all about you and
your power. You’ll be able to ‘represent’ many things. This will make it easier for her
to raise her level of interest and a�raction to you making ge�ing to sex much faster.

Keep in mind that social influence in any woman’s life is her social character and how
she behaves because of that social environment.

So when a hot girl is like acting when the camera is on all the time (conscious)..they’re
just duplicating the models and porn stars.

Learn to see the socially derived character within women through the video training
and take that cognition onto your own. It’s your path to handling the tremendous so-
cial leverage she represents.

Notes:

Most of the people who want to produce want to do it for higher social status (sex,
money, power). Note the HUGE success of The LionKing and even Ice Age that deal
with more natural elements of sorts.

You don’t have to align yourself to one ‘group’, ‘subculture’ or ‘clique’. In fact, I’ve
been the kid who went in and out of different social groups because I wasn’t depen-
dent on them and didn’t let myself be ‘defined’ (socially) by any of them. For over a
decade I’ve been consciously grabbing bits and pieces of experiences in all kinds of dif-
ferent subcultures and the whole time, allowing them to form a strong me.

I was ultimately what was important and came out on the other side. I took value out
of those different groups but didn’t define myself to that subculture. I also don’t ‘rep-
resent’ any single city either. Those that do, respect but I can’t be held down like that..
it’s too limiting and the city itself becomes more important than the person in a way.
I’ve above that...I represent several cities.

Think in terms of YOU and separate yourself powerfully through the Relational Map-
ping. This will ground you in power and control.
 Chapter 29

Television

Wow. Where do I start?!

The most powerful proactive action STEP that you can take to start is to turn off the t.v.
That’s it. Followed by the radio.

That digital cable box on top of your t.v. can be the greatest (invisible) enemy you’ll
ever know. It’s power of influence is elusively EVASIVE.

If you have been conditioned to habitually ‘watch’ t.v. then you have more work to
do. It is difficult to break habits but you should have enough leverage here to take the
power back for yourself and do it...it’s not going to kill you to miss your favorite show.

If you occasionally watch t.v., you’re closer to ge�ing a handle on bringing your power
back. The things that you take for granted as part of our social culture have been the
exact forces which have influenced your behavior over decades.

This is the same source that continues to edify the beauty of women beyond reality and
the same source that is helping transform men into weaker guys.

If you feel you MUST watch t.v., therein lies the entire problem itself. You’re making
it a dependency. I don’t care how entertaining or interesting a certain t.v. program
is (they’re made to be that way to sell products through advertising support), YOU
DON’T ‘NEED’ TO WATCH IT.

I don’t care what new fall preview there is or the next season of ‘whatever’, you
DON’T need to watch it.

Ouch.

Ok, I’ll lighten up to say that if you really are ‘interested’ in seeing a certain program,
this is the effective solution:

Choose one or up to three t.v. shows that you feel add SOME kind of value to your
life (even if it’s entertainment value) and take control over it so that it’s only a win/win
situation.

You have to reframe the relationship because there IS ALWAYS a relationship.

What you would do to gain control back is treat it like a movie basically. Don’t turn the
t.v. on until the exact minute the show comes on.

Watch the show itself and turn the volume down when the commercials come on (yes
BREAK that conditioned habit of just ‘watching’ the commercials because this is about
YOUR power, not theirs).

Turn the t.v. OFF the minute your show is over. If you don’t ‘take control’ over your
life you’re just soaking up all of this ‘programming’ as a sponge ‘response’. It is taking
away your independence...in fact, when you are ‘watching t.v.’ you cannot think inde-
pendently.

Your mind can’t think freely or focus on another task when it is occupied (esp. in a S-R
relationship).

There is only ONE stimulus and one response so the best thing to do is to set the
metaframe of ‘this is MY show’ and this is when I watch it. This would be an interde-
pendent ‘win/win’ frame where you only accept value into your character.

‘I have conscious control over this show. Nothing is a dependency and I can even turn
it off and walk away to care of my own things during it if necessary’.

This metaframe will make a huge difference.

You see, when you watch t.v. you become a passive participant; you are the direct RE-
SPONSE and are almost unable to think independently. Even with watching sports or
playing video games, you’re living in a fantasy world and doing nothing to help your
real world social skills.

So many people just continue this; living in these fantasy worlds that are marketed to
them to experience emotions instead of actually living that life for themselves.

Men are not the only ones to blame either. Women get caught up in soap operas, ro-
mance novels and their ipods, only further separating themselves from a socially inter-
active reality. Studies have been done that show that we even have fewer friends than
we used to.

Millions of people are living so ‘independently’ and escaping to their own fantasy
worlds (t.v., video games, books) that almost everyone (in America) is lacking in actual
SOCIAL interactive skills.

AND, they generally play it safe around social environments so they can retreat back
to their divergent fantasy world.

It’s time that we take control of our lives and be more interdependent (interactive) with
each other, more like a familial society or like old Europe.

The pressure to live in these fantasy worlds is just a contrivance of the social matrix ar-
chitects (corporations seeking profit). YOU can make a proactive choice to actually live
the fantasy and BE interdependent yourself with other people.

It has created a HUGE divergence.

You can ‘rescue’ some of these women from their own fantasy (and career) worlds and
bring them into your reality. You can be their ‘stimulus’.

Be acutely aware that all of these non-stop sources from the architect’s will continue to
try to program or influence you. They are designed quite o�en so that you aren’t even
aware that you’re being influenced. In fact right when you could think about what’s
going on in a t.v. program, commercials come on to do the thinking for you.

The point of commercials is to influence or get you to do something. Through 2 or 3

decades I’ve been more pessimistic and unimpressionable as far as commercials than I
would say the average person. Even back long ago, I still held quite a bit of awareness
and control over what I chose to actually accept.

There are a lot of great things about a commercialistic society such as competition and
the tendency for the consumer to have control over B.S. price-fixing and secret raising
of interest rates once they have you ‘hooked’ (which is still happening with Banks and
financing institutions where they hold the control and expand their control).

You just have to understand your clear relationship to it all if you really want power.
Ultimately you would ‘free yourself’ from it’s influence so that you only operate purely
interdependently or win/win with any sources of influence. Part of that equation is
financial independence which I’ll mention again later.
Do you really need 30 choices of toothpaste?!

Non-stop commercial programming: this is one of the reason’s why I love movies. I
get to CHOOSE what movie I want to watch and when; without interruption. Without
‘programming’. It’s in a controlled se�ing and most importantly there are no other
social influences trying to program me. I can stop it or rewind it if I want.

I’m choosing an interdependent win/win relationship here; one in which my inde-

pendence is preserved. Even if there are product placements in a movie, I’m aware of
them and I’ll kind of tease about them if it’s too obvious. There are several movies that
I have allowed to influence me because I look for and derive value from them. Certain
influences have helped define who I am because I let them.

I remain the true stimulus because I’m choosing to allow a certain influence ‘in’ to in-
fluence me and then I can review it’s influence a�erwards.

Look for influences that add real VALUE to YOUR life and lifestyle. Ideally these
would be universally aligned productions or resources. Examples would be Gladiator,
LionKing, Star Wars, Last of the Mohicans, and many hero movies actually where the
man ‘steps up’ into his true character and goes through challenges.

News itself has a negative slant..they have the power to ‘be objective’, then how is it
that if they really are that we never see the good side of things? You never see photos
of the positive efforts of U.S. involvement in the Middle East.

You turn on the news and they start talking about death and what’s wrong in the world
today. This enters your brain which has become the stimulus and all of a sudden you
feel crabby and fragmented...DUH.

T.V. has become the nation’s number one babysi�er. We’re raising a nation up under
that influence. If you’re not aware of what’s really going on there (kids will soak up
anything in front of them), you’re in deep. Kids aren’t old enough to be (independent)
able to clearly differentiate fact from fiction, violence from t.v. violence, and tongue-in-
cheek from reality.

When you are listening to advertising, you cannot freely think. There is a one way
relationship that you really don’t have any control over. The choice you have to make
is to listen to it or not and therein lies your power. It’s imperative you understand the
type of relationship (relational mapping will clarify this).

When I’m listening to the radio and advertising comes on while I was thinking or want
to think I turn it down (or off) immediately so I can’t receive that ‘channel’ of program-
ming.

When you hear an advertisement, it is a program/channel/stream that is coming across

into your brain. That is the source (stimulus) and you are the response or ‘sponge’.
You cannot change it’s content.

So the media which is the root of the social matrix has a society-molding hold on shap-
ing and influencing people’s thoughts, behaviors and actions for the past few decades
and will continue to in the future.

Commercial culture today is absolutely brainwashing those people who soak it up like
a sponge. If you can’t see this or haven’t been aware of it, you’ve BEEN a part of the
system that money-producers want you to be a part of. You take it for granted.

Look, there’s GREAT and entertaining ‘programming’ (which is what it is) that is on
with different stations or shows. How do I know? I’ve thought like a producer for
over two decades. They HAVE TO make great shows so people keep watching them so
they can make more money from the advertisers. I’ve seen bits and pieces previously.

So for action steps...

If you REALLY want empowerment and fearlessness you shouldn’t ‘half-ass’ this; “ok,
i’ll just turn the t.v. back on and watch Le�erman, etc.” NO. You must see your re-
lationship with crystal clarity (as in the Matrix) if you want FULL absolute personal
power, fearlessness, influence and control.

You must (I hate using dependent words like that but I want to get the point across)
fight the forces that put you into a weaker ‘response’ type state. Frame it so that if
you’re going to do something in relation to a behemoth, keep it interdependent (as I
talk about elsewhere).

THERE IS ALWAYS A RELATIONSHIP. BE COGNITIVE AND IN CONTROL. SEEK

VALUE ONLY IN EXCHANGE FOR YOUR TIME.

Watch it with a wary eye (during the exact time schedule you set) instead of just ac-
cepting everything as fact. Yes, look for value but be conscious of what you do and
don’t like or agree with during the entire show; that is very important because it keeps
the relationship interdependent. “That joke was DUMB...that was stupid...haha, ok I
like that one.”
Don’t just ‘soak it up’..keep it a conscious banter back and forth in a way. This way
you’ll get more value out of it anyways because you’re still cognitive.

Here’s one possible action plan. You don’t have to get rid of the t.v. or throw it away
but instead, just have your cable disconnected. What’s that? You had to THINK about
that? Wait a minute...what IS your relationship to t.v. programming? Is it a dependen-
cy?

I’ve stopped watching t.v. If you don’t see it as being closer to an infectious poison
than your redeemer you’re in relational trouble.

Have you become such a response that they forced a co-dependency out of you? If you
were TRULY independent, you could walk away from the t.v. at ANY point during any
program.

When you say you ‘have to’ watch a show that means it’s become a dependency and
you have lost full control. Something like 99% of Americans own a t.v. set and the t.v.
is the center of the matrix...can you see the MASSIVE influence that is happening and
altered our culture, buying pa�erns and behaviour?

Zombie Nation

T.V. and the ‘architects’ have control and influence by being the stimulus. And most
people aren’t able to differentiate the signals or retain a true interdependency with it
like we can.

When I used to have cable there were about two channels of actual value; the Discov-
ery channel and the Travel channel. Now I’ve seen there is a Food network which I
think could add value to my life but I would always be ‘aware’ of these influential tra-
jectories and my true relationship so that it’s clearly adding value to my life.

Doesn’t it leave you with a SHALLOW, unfulfilled feeling to just waste time channel-
surfing? Especially when you know you’re not ge�ing anything done? The one time I
actually watch t.v. is when I’m in a hotel, I’ll channel surf a bit until I find some crappy
t.v. movie.

I enjoy doing that..it’s an experience for me where I’m in control. Who is being the
stimulus there? I am, I have control and can turn it off at any time. So I’ll watch part
of a crappy t.v. movie before I go to sleep in the hotel.

There’s too much ‘programming’ being fed to you for you to sort it out or filter (dur-
ing you can’t until you reach my level because it’s a stimulus-response relationship and
your brain differentiate so fast) even AFTER you’ve watched it all.

And NO you are not dependent on Le�erman or Leno. Let the rest of the culture be if
they want. If you’re SERIOUS about taking control of your life you will turn the t.v. off
completely. If you are dependent and watch too much, then you can work your way to
absolutely minimizing it and still under relational control.

And even be�er from a tape of Ed Foreman ‘Terrific’ he says (paraphrased)...’if you
don’t like something that’s coming down, turn the channel’. And I say, turn off the
channels until you’re ready for relational control (no the remote control makes it seem
like you’re in truly charge but that’s the illusion....your control is REMOTE!)

‘Garbage in, garbage out’ as my dad says. He also says, “Kame apart” for K-Mart.
And “I’ve got the squirshy hurts” for something else.

The social matrix probably has had an undeniably violent hold or grip on you (ask
yourself if it has). MTV is one of the central forces of social influence.

Put it this way, I’m going to be a music video producer and I only watch a few minutes
of MTV a YEAR (I watch videos from sources over which I have control over). Launch-
Cast on yahoo will give you more control where you can be the stimulus.

If you’re just soaking it all up like a sponge like countless millions of others, when
what it does is further bit by bit, image by image engrains you as a response to all of
these sexy women you are going to continue to struggle with these women (or even
close to it) in real life.

MTV programs and influences you PERIOD, unless you are one of the few people in
the world who is cognitive of it and can consciously choose to limit it’s effect and pro-
cess that relationship through the eyes of pure interdependence as fast as I can.

When I do watch, I’m very critical and objective because I know what it’s trying to do
and what’s going on.

Social status is everything to so many people, they would live and die by it yet that
doesn’t have to be you. You are aware of more important things; your natural charac-
ter, real balance and real inspiration that stems deeper than the next fickle fad.

In Last of the Mohicans, Cora doesn’t have ‘feelings’ for Duncan even though they’d
make the ‘most marvelous couple in London’. She falls for the high natural character
of the independent hero (Nathaniel Hawkeye) OVER Duncan’s high social character.

The media; they’ve conditioned you to be the response and they make billions off of
it. And without real awareness of what’s happening you allow yourself to be pro-
grammed and you build up the fantasy even MORE (that women are the exalted stim-
ulus) to stand much less of a chance with super hot or high social status women (unless
you can somehow be like those guys with bling and erratic behavior pa�erns).

If you want real personal power, you must have complete control over commercialism/
T.V.’s (and MTV’s) influence on you. You can be above the influence through Relational
Mapping and applying N.E.O. (nano elemental oversight).

You HAVE the true choice to stop ANY bullet of influence or know your relationship to
it. This will happen when you become ‘one’ and truly differentiate yourself from the
social matrix so that you are powerful.

Keep that t.v. relationship interdependent which means that you only watch it to re-
ceive balanced value and because of the density of programming that means that you’ll
probably have to cut WAY down on the time you’ve been watching t.v.

When you turn the t.v. (back) on (see you have the power of choice there), and the first
light enode hits your receptor cells and the audio hits your ears, your brain cannot act
independently because you have become the response to the t.v. (THE center of the
matrix itself) being the stimulus.

Hey, I can’t say it enough so I hope it’s really sinking in because this could be the hard-
est step for you.

STIMULUS-RESPONSE

That IS the relationship unless you can consciously gain control and awareness of it.
Ask yourself; is this really a win/win value exchange situation here? Am I learning
something?

Hey, it’s ok to take a break and let your brain go to mush for a short period of time (I
do it every few months), but other than that and keeping control over that, you’re go-
ing to become someone who is influenced more than you thought and you’ll care too
much about what other people think of you and ‘do I fit in?’ because you’re viewing
things on the social level.

Until you have the level of awareness and cognition I have (even I had to ‘work’ at it),
you should get to the point of at least viewing t.v. and commercialism from a third
person perspective. Look at it objectively in light of relational dynamics. Don’t just be
a ‘response’ who sucks it all in.

Have control MOST to ALL of the time and be truly AWARE of all types of relation-
ships that you’re in.

How much harm can one boob tube do? It’s already been done. It’s influence has tre-
mendously affected female behavior as well. Social influence is the invisible root or
nurtured ‘behaviorism’. Don’t believe it? Look at cultural differentiation.

People ‘think’ they have control by choosing which stations they watch during the
average 5.3 hours/day. When they are really only making a decision during maybe 1.5
minutes of that time which includes flipping stations and taking a leak. Li�le do they
know their brain is soaking up (as a response to the direct stimuli) all of that ‘program-
ming’ information.

“yeah but commercials are ok because I get to watch all my shows for free.” Boy, you
don’t get it do you. That’s exactly where they want you (not to mention you ARE pay-
ing for your cable/satellite service).

Now it’s time to take our power back through R.D. and understanding your relation-
ship to it and everything it represents. By being a ‘response’ 90% of the time in life,
you’ll continue being a ‘response’ to women where success is fools mate at best.

LIVE your life as the stimulus DAILY in everything you do so that you are le�ing oth-
ers respond to you and you’ll have more of the ongoing character to be the stimulus
around women instead of being the habitual response.

Spend more time being the stimulus to develop the habit of it and you will be a much
more powerful person. Women are not a�racted to men who are the ‘response’.

Learn to critically look at every message that is coming at you when you are in that
relationship. See what it means and think about where it came from and what it repre-
sents. Think like a producer and who has the power of influence here.

Take the action steps and TAKE YOUR POWER BACK. Stick to your guns too.

The Home Depot commercial where the house-leading wife says, “I’m going shop-
ping” and the husband is on the couch.
 Chapter 30

Sexploitation
(Beauty and the New Power)

It’s very important for you to realize the now prominent exploitation of a woman’s
sexuality and understand your relationship to it. I call it her ‘social’ character. Not the
definition that communicates with others but the part that represents (and defines) her
social persona and image (influenced from the social matrix).

SEXPLOITATION. It is purely a social device.

This is what is going on and it’s probably what has you ‘hooked’. The danger is in
thinking that ‘this is just the way it is’. The danger of that is that you have become
what the architect’s and controller’s have wanted you to become, someone who is
strongly under their influence.

You have probably been a man who edifies a woman’s sexuality and who creates a
growing fantasy that separates him from reality. I used to do it to because it was all I
really knew. But now I know be�er because I can ‘see’. Now I have made female sexu-
ality (not just the fantasy) a part of my lifestyle.

Men have edified the exploited nature of these woman so much (just look in Maxim or
on myspace.com), that this objectification creates a fragmented fantasy world. When
they actually meet a woman like that they fall right into the programmed response to
the beauty and power of that stimuli.

Using a woman’s body to flaunt, tease and stir instant fuckable desire is used to create
billions of dollars.

You’ve been programmed to be ‘in awe’ and sucked in as a response and you don’t
know how to handle yourself around this fantasy that you’ve edified so much. There’s
no way anything you say is going to work on her unless you’re literally a movie star or
millionaire.
You’ll continue to have an uncontrollable response if you don’t handle it..there will still
be some bu�erflies because of the leverage of social power you’re going up against.

Women have become the stimulus for men to respond to; that’s the relationship. That
was the whole plan that the architect’s of the social matrix want you to believe.

It generates billions of dollars in revenue for them and you are just a pawn who has
lost full control or clarity on his own life and the social dynamics have changed so that
all of these women are now ‘above’ you socially. They have the (social) power.

We don’t see their true characteristics (until here).

Even the girl down the street.. All she has to do is dress like them, put on makeup and
act like them and she has power over you (if you let her) if you fall into the ‘response’.

I mean what does the AFC HAVE to offer these high status women? You have to have
something to offer her and it probably isn’t high social status yourself unless you’re
Ashton Kutcher or something.

You should already know the answer and it’s in the RMA charts. You have REAL char-
acter to offer her, most importantly NATURAL character (fearlessness, alpha domi-
nance and self-control).
A woman’s NATURAL/sexual character (and her response) is something that should be
edified, not the exploitation of her body and image which is her social character. Her
new identity is so important to her that it defines almost all interactions with people;
she’ll view them socially first (talking about the women that fall in line to this).

The porn industry itself is the exploitation of a woman’s body in relation to men. All of
it is meant to influence men to make purchases of the products and build up a fantasy
world even more.

Now, we’ve got all of these women on myspace.com and in the club’s with the same at-
titude of porn star women; they’re prickteases that appeal to fantasy and not reality.

A woman in a porn video is purposely flaunting and teasing with her own body to ap-
peal to men’s fantasy. It’s a conscious act. When you’ve had sex with as many natural
women (as someone I know really well), you’ll realize that this isn’t at all what women
are like (unless you lead them into that at the time of sex).
You don’t have to even meet natural women in order to figure that out though; you
have this program.

It’s important for you to differentiate this exploited, bitchy, porn-star, teasing, flaunt-
ing, unnatural, behavior and to realize that it is simply a social CON-struct and NOTH-
ING more. The exploitation of sexuality is PURELY human. So what IS natural? Flirt-
ing. It’s when a woman responds to a man of high natural character who she has some
immediate potential interest in.

Matrix influence has been so strong that so many of the women have forgot how to
flirt by sending out subtle to clear signals of interest in response to a man’s character
(s.o.n.a.r.r.).

They only know how to pricktease because that’s what they see their role models do-
ing. Even Angelina Jolie; she’s a REAL pricktease and Aphrodite. The devil in dis-
guide hiding under good deeds.

Her shower scene in Tomb Raider is all conscious...no woman who is natural actually
takes a shower like that, flaunting herself consciously. Unfortunately so many guys
just can’t tell the difference anymore because all they see is prickteasing going on EV-
ERYWHERE.

Hey, just take accountability for yourself because by DEFAULT you have become a
response to it (unless you were a real social outcast already).

Men have tried to figure out women for centuries and here with my training I think
we’re closer than anyone else has ever come. Once you know the ‘game’ and their
games you don’t have to put up with it because you’re not ignorant anymore.

These exploited women have by default become a symbol of high social status (o�en
for no other reason than their own genetics and then falling in line with the social ide-
al). These women usually want someone of higher social status than themselves, so if
you’re not that guy you would logically think there’s no hope.

However, it’s your natural character that over-rules her social character. You can make
her feel a�raction for you and that is a priceless value that say a boring, low character
millionaire can’t offer her. Let’s look at the stereotypical standard first and take it from
there.

Fembots (not the same as but the name influenced from Austin Powers): A bleach-
blonde pricktease of an American woman who falls in line with the new social ideal
and gains instant social status because of it (also known as ‘pop tart’). The closest ref-
erence point are porn stars.

She will wear clothes and a lot of make-up to accentuate and exploit her body and
sexuality. She usually has a bitchy ‘hands off’ a�itude with it.

She doesn’t o�en know how to flirt anymore but she knows how to pricktease guys so
she can manipulate them (like the architect’s are manipulating men and Prickteases).

They are almost dependent on their social status and they’;l do things such as ge�ing a
boob job and anything else to heighten their ability to rise up the social ladder.

Now she knows she can get the a�ention of millions of ignorant, drooling guys just by
falling inline to the fembot program and finding similar friends. Who leads all this?
Look at the highest status and recognized women in the social matrix. For example,
Jessica and Ashlee Simpson, Pamela Anderson or Jenna Jameson.

The social matrix is there for her to spend money too (that’s the whole point and what
makes the cycle go ‘round). Makeup, clothes, fashion, accessories, cosmetic surgery,
magazines, nightclubs. People care so much about their social status and judging now
that they o�en forget just how to ‘have fun’.

Because there are so many of these ‘fembots’ out there (that seem to be replicating
throughout the social matrix), even more guys will fall prey. In Relational Dynamics
we look at both sides whereas almost all other seduction teachers focus on the men
(and put the entire blame on the men as if women are angels).

I am the one who looks at female behavior as it’s not just the men who are at ‘fault’ or
‘to blame’. In fact, trying to align men to a backwards social reality can only be more
psychologically damaging. Style himself says that what he went through to become
the #1 pickup artist didn’t prepare him for a real relationship.

What I see is that these young women who fall in line with this fembot program (now
you can find them in any nightclub in the U.S.), have become so socially oriented and
superficial that they have grown away from their own natural roots.

When J.Lo sings that ‘love don’t cost a thing’ she’s talking about her natural character
response to a man of high natural character. Then she’ll also sing/talk about all kinds
of social excess and flashiness. THE KEY HERE IS TO DIFFERENTIATE these charac-
teristics.

That is your literal salvation and POWER. No other training program out there teaches
you this either.

If you can’t differentiate a woman’s social character from her natural character, you’re
screwed (or rather, you WON’T be ge�ing any). They’ll continue to ignore or use you
for your other qualities (like free dinners).

If you can’t differentiate between sexploitation and raw feminine character you’re liter-
ally doomed to be a ‘chunky charlie’.

See the sexploitation around you, get comfortable ‘seeing’ it, isolate it and gauge what
level it’s at (paris clone, Lindsey clone, wannabe, etc.). Go through the exercises on
video that I have (if you have that portion) and that will really help you to differentiate
her social character (exploitation).

A woman’s social character CAN BE DIFFERENTIATED. That is your hope. Because if

you can’t differentiate it and put it in it’s proper place (in relation to you), you’ll forever
be a ‘response’ to the obvious social FACT that she is high(er) social status than you.
And I’m talking about the NEXT woman you see on the cover of a magazine or the
next super-ho�ie that you see in person. When you CAN differentiate her socially
sexploited character and put it in it’s proper place, you will be fearless and finally able
to deal with these women because you know that the only way you’ll succeed anyways
(unless you like gold-diggers) is to ALWAYS let her be the response in a�raction to
your character as the stimulus.

I go over this in other section’s as well but it’s your natural character as a man that she
dreams of and desires. It’s up to you to lead women through their own social distor-
tion to experience your high natural character.

Note: There are a LOT of visual examples in the video portion

You do this simply by being your high character self and se�ing the frame of the rela-
tionship near the beginning. Because of her character she’ll want to sway and take con-
trol over you (prickteases or prada’s) which is why you MUST be strong in character so
that she knows her relationship to you.

Unfortunately you may have to keep things just physical because an actual long-term
relationship with these women...well, yikes I don’t want one. It’s over-rated. If you
want daily drama go ahead but don’t say I didn’t warn you; look at the statistical 50%
divorce rate.

Am I being radical? I’m being REAL. The impetus for it all is also within the power of
the social matrix. That is why countless millions of men are sexually frustrated beyond
belief; they’re still succumbing inadvertently to the powerful influence of the social
matrix. And it’s dominion is growing stronger.

Until they can differentiate themselves from it, they’ll never have real power and
they’ll continue to have fear around these women who are not only beautiful and su-
per high in social status but also have super high maintenance a�itudes.

It’s so powerful and influential that the next song you hear could easily sweep you
back into being the ‘response’. Know your relationship to sexploitation and a woman’s
social (sexually exploited) character.

Relational Dynamics and your training now will allow you to actually deserve women
like that and then you’ll question if you even want them. Prickteases are the opposite
of who I would want to live with; it’s all a consciously derived fantasy.
You will learn how to see through the facade of ‘showcasing’ to the real woman inside.

Even their daily drama I don’t want to deal with so that’s why a lot of my relationships
I just keep sexual by framing it at the front.

If they bring drama or I see more red flags, I give them an ultimatum with no fear of
loss and they’ll o�en come back just for sex. These pop tarts have a low inner character
and low natural character (if you view it like a man’s character continuum) and super
high social character.

Prada’s have low natural character, peaked inner character and almost as high social
character as pop tarts. More important though is the F.A.R.M. and her response to you.

Cosmo is the literal bible of Prada’s and how to be the ‘ultimate’ independent and fash-
ionable woman (ie. 1 Victoria Beckham). Prickteases are more into being the ultimate
guys girl with role models such as strippers, porn stars, pro cheerleaders, and certain
movie or musician stars.

Now, in women’s defense I’ll say a few things. Many women have some balance of
each level of characteristic.

Not all of them are pure Prickteases or even pure Prada’s. I have more personal inter-
est in the Prada’s because these women actually are intelligent, capable and indepen-
dent as well as beautiful..they’re more like me! I can relate to them and connect with
them on an equal level (or now a sexual level).

These women WANT to find good men, in fact o�en desperately so. They want men
of high character (NIS). They want a man who is comfortable in his own skin, a great
personality and humorous as well as financially well-to do (or be�er).

Tell the editor’s of Cosmo that I’m the answer to what they’re all looking for! Real and
balanced men like you and me.

The question is whether we’d want to be in long-term relationships with them knowing
their lack of interest in child-raising and the divorce rates.

It’s not the women’s ‘fault’ that by making themselves look be�er that they intimidate
most men they meet. One would think it would a�ract ‘the right’ kind of men to them.
Well, it kind of does.

All of these ‘nice guys’ are close to the balanced ideal they’re looking for except for one
major thing; they’re low in natural character through repression (you can graph it on
the charts) because they were a lifelong response to the stimulus of social conditioning
and programming.

They also believed it when the movies, books, counselors and music says to ‘tell her
how you feel’, buy her gi�s, etc. but it’s deeper than that. Women became the stimulus
and got used to it. It used to work when women weren’t as socially distorted or edi-
fied.

It was OK to give her a real compliment. And it still is in some cases but guys drop in
character and she knows that she’s the stimulus nonverbally so nothing will work for
him.

Now the only thing she seems to a�ract are bad boys jerks who she ends up being at-
tracted to and he torments her emotionally. You already know the answer to this; it’s
his natural character. It’s what the actual ‘catches’ are missing because they’ve got so
much else going for them except the one thing that ma�ers the most, high natural char-
acter.
Obviously Alpha Relational Dynamics will put things in perspective and solve that for
you provided you apply it. You’ll be able to connect with these women and help them
get over any final inhibitors they have.

Remember that you don’t play the social game anymore, therefore you can’t be clas-
sified within it or pigeonholed into a subculture for her to reject. You’re independent
and you’re also ‘above’ her social status because you really are separate from that sys-
tem’s influence.

And guess what?! FINALLY, a man who is worthy and on her level! She should be
taking that opportunity to make sure she knows you before another woman does.

Don’t forget that thing called ‘social distortion’. Your social character should be the
only thing that fluctuates (if anything). And this is only because the social ‘environ-
ment’ you are in is o�en a co-dependency; it is still involving other people where
someone else has even constructed it and is the social alpha - not you.

It’s too much effort to try and become social alpha if you’re just a regular guy com-
pared to the leverage of what you’re doing now.

Handle your natural and inner character and work on your social (connections and
people skills) but don’t try and ‘master’ the clubscene if it isn’t you. The powers of
influence are so strong there and although I will be teaching how to be social alpha in
that environment, it’s still so distorted that women will still think they’re the (‘hot shit’)
stimulus even if they aren’t plus they won’t be able to see your true character.

The dj and loud music is the stimulus and the crowd is the response. There’s too much
distortion going on that is all socially developed, contrived and controlled. It’s a waste
of time if you’re not social alpha to try and secure women in that environment unless
you’re actually having fun and can let your character across.

Look at things this way; a woman can always develop MORE socially. She can do
things and wear things that will help her a�ract more a�ention from men.

But she can’t go back habitually to her pure natural roots and energy. How can a man
have control over this and balance it out? Because he is a man, he was born to be the
stimulus.

Once a woman ‘develops’ it will take a lot for her to remain in a natural state. Why
would a career woman want to just ‘drop down’ to raising kids?! See what I’m saying..
that’s the problem in a sense.
Social involvement is generally more important to women that’s why they take it more
seriously than men do. That is why they have changed more than men and have
adapted to this new reality; because they are the response.

She has too much power and favor now socially. In order for that to happen and be
more natural as a woman, she would have to completely dis-acknowledge social influ-
ence itself and as a man you would have to close off that influence by literally living in
the middle of a rainforest and bringing her back to a more natural state of mind.

She would have to live in an environment and re-integrate into a place where a wom-
an’s traditional/natural role is glorified and not her social one. Remember that she is
the stimulus and will adapt. It will be harder to re-adapt to her most natural roots.

In her favor, you would have to take all of her other opportunities or career advance-
ment options out of the way, etc. in order for HER to focus on her natural role of being
a mother.

Have her focus on what’s most important; raising the kids and being a good mother
and wife. Nagging, demanding and fighting is not being a good wife. I understand
the development of women today so just know what you’re ge�ing into if you choose
one of these socially developed or ‘empowered’ women. It will be a power struggle at
best.

The music videos I show you of natural women BEING natural are fascinating. Here’s
the thing, you could show an American produced music video of ie. Beyonce (or name
anyone) and you could ask 1 million matrixed men what kind of woman is more desir-
able and I would be the ONLY guy out of 1 million to say the natural (ie. thai) women.

Ironically that answer is what gives me power over these ‘socially’ desirable women
while the other 999,999 are out of luck unless they’re ie. a famous basketball player. I
am the guy who stands a chance with them (just let me meet them in a real environ-
ment) while all these other guys would fall prey to the directive of the architects of the
matrix.

Prickteases such as recording artist females and music videos are created to make sales
by giving men a li�le hope but keeping it just out of reach. Are you man enough actu-
ally hold one of these women down? I doubt it, I wasn’t ‘man enough’ before to do it
because I was nervous around them too.

It’s not until you REALLY know who you are and/or understand relational dynamics
can you have enough character to hold down a woman like that..
If you’re nervous or having ANY bu�erflies le� up front, the level of woman you want
can’t trust you to take her to the bedroom. You have to be on an equal or greater power
level at the get-go.

Ironically the women know that their natural character (biology and intuitive response
to a man) is important despite their own allegiance to the social matrix. What an inter-
esting paradox.

They will still make decisions based on their biology about who they sleep with. It’s
more powerful than their sexploitation so see through to it and operate with them on
that level; natural where you are fearless and know where her social character stands.

And I really do believe that the natural women are more desirable not only because
I’ve experienced so many of them (and know how they support a man as well) but be-
cause it is the way of nature. They’re more pure and uncorrupted.

Somewhere hidden within all these prickteasing women is a part of them that is (and
should be) absolutely jealous of these natural women. It’s the one part of themselves
that these socialized women have lost touch with and in the big picture, they’ve got
nothing on the real natural women.

Real, natural women are the women that can hold and keep a relationship yet no one is
upli�ing them in the forced reality!

They are the women that want to let their man be the man, who will support and upli�
him instead of breaking him down. Think about it. Studies have been done (and it’s
OBVIOUS) that these kids are be�er adjusted, the husband makes more money and the
relationship sticks together more o�en than, you know.

All the women that are in music videos and flaunting their sexuality are only doing it
in the first place because of social influence ITSELF. ‘Independent woman’ is now cel-
ebrated and allowed in it’s roots from social influence going back a few decades.

I appreciate natural beauty and women who don’t have to make themselves up. Bil-
lions of dollars are spent across different industries because of the sexing up or ‘made
up’ (improved accentuation) of a woman’s natural features...and guys keep falling for it
when if they could just see it for what it really is would think twice.

There have been campaigns that tried to promote natural beauty (such as Dove) to the
mainstream social matrix but it just doesn’t work. Men want to continue to see the sex-
ploited beauty and women want to be like those women. None of it’s natural.

If you can see the matrix you will be ahead of everyone else and close to being on top
of the influence because you have differentiated yourself independently from it. In fact
you might laugh at how seriously people take it.

And if you don’t know what’s going on, you’re going to fall into the trap and the next
beautiful woman that walks around the corner who synergizes with that edified social
ideal you fell into, you’re going to lose whatever centered energy you had and you’ll
have an uncontrollable emotional ‘response’ to that stimulus. DON’T DO IT. For your
own sake.

Because women also don’t respect you when you fall into it. Because on the inside that
still want men to be men despite the repression society has promoted.

Why do you think porn is such a huge industry? It’s an outlet of all this amplified re-
pression.

Look at Tag body spray...just a complete sexploitation right there hi�ing directly on
the heart of it. Get this product and directly or inevitably women will be all over you.
Didn’t take a genius to figure that one out.

Even the ‘True’ online dating ‘ads’...it’s ridiculous. True ‘SOCIAL’ or true sexploita-
tion that is only developing the drooling ‘response’ trigger of that stimuli. I see right
through that with Superman laser beam eyes!

But you may think you don’t know enough about her without ge�ing to know her
some more. By then you’ve already lost the power struggle upfront and the powers
she’s fronting.

Throughout the exercises this will kind of prove the entire point itself; you should get
to know her for who she is instead of edifying the social or sexual part of her. It’s time
to judge people on their character right?

Even these women don’t realize they are byproducts of the social matrix and social
influence EVEN the most ‘powerful’ of them. And to think that you are above it all
because of Relational Dynamics.

Your natural character as a man can fulfill a celebrity woman’s sexual desires. She is a
real person as well (natural character/response remember?). You view it all ‘socially’
like they want you to and you’re screwed (rather NOT ‘screwed’ with her).
You can say, ‘yeah but we live in a social culture’. Of course, and if you continue on
the same path you will continue to let it repress your true independent power. “Well I
represent this (social) or I represent that.” Great.

You want to actually have an influence on more people like you? Then become a pro-
ducer instead of continuing to soak things up.

The more time you have as the stimulus being in control of all of your actions, incom-
ing influences and environment (vs. being a response), the more power you will have.

Unfortunately, the social matrix is not going to go back towards the natural direction
even though hundreds of millions of people are ‘missing something’. Can it ever be
‘beat’ on a mass social scale? Well, if it is it’s going to take my future influence and a lot
more in order to completely turn the tide.

I know that countless millions are feeling they are missing ‘something’. The thing
they’re missing is their natural character (or their roots) because they’re being pro-
grammed every day ‘socially’ and not naturally.

There is rarely any natural energy le� within the matrix and if there is, it’s fleeting.

We’ve grown too ‘socialized’ and not only that, the social programming doesn’t stop
(just turn on the t.v. or open any magazine). Social barraging influence keeps people so
confused and powerless.

Today’s leading women such as prada’s and pricktease’s are becoming MORE of who
they are and living their lives even more under the influence than ever before (even
compared to five years ago). And men are becoming more and more afraid and ques-
tioning of their relationship to women.

Today’s men are becoming MORE frustrated because of the decapitation of their reality
into an idealized fantasy. Within millions of people is a divergence or divide between
their social and natural character.

Some men have even lost it completely almost without hope. This root influence has
already led to rape, suicides, murder, gambling and overt consumer spending through
the massive sexual paradox that is created.

Being interdependent (relational) with women in which you might be interested in

physically, romantically or for long-term means; take it to the RMA. You’ll act as you
are but understand your relationship isn’t a ‘business-like’ one but rather that you are
the stimulus and she is the response.

Being independent and understanding/applying R.D. means that you’ll never have
to worry about ‘what to say’ or what others think at all. You’re high in character (and
with some effort like this) and you’ve already done your ‘work’.

Notes:

Other alpha men and high status people will respect you more if you remain who you
are. Even if you’re different from them, they’ll respect you for being independent, of-
ten for no other reason than that other people act co-dependent around them and drain
their energy.

Don’t look for them to say something for your to ‘respond’ to, just be yourself and re-
tain your independence no ma�er what. Can you still have people that influence you?
Yes. Can you edify them?

Yes as long as you view it as a win/win situation and in that when or if you were ever
to meet them you would respect them the only way; interdependently and as an equal.

If you’re ‘bowing’ before them like countless other fans do they’ll just view you as a
response to their character as the stimulus. You want them to see you as an equal so be
it. They’re human too and had influences just like you did.

Being social is similar to ‘acting’, ‘pretension’ or looking around to what others think or
how you should act. Being interdependent is being independent yourself and respect-
ing others as other independent human beings from which you can trade value from.
There IS a difference.

Too many people are ‘pretentious’ and also cautious because of not wanting to disrupt
others or violate the programming standard from society.

The social matrix is the corruptor for those people who don’t have control over their
full independence and will just let it in. It will take away their purity, it will. If you
bring a natural woman here, marry her and let her watch t.v. and soap operas and she
will ‘change’..she will develop the way that social influence wants her to develop. Sad
but true.

Are there ANY real male role models le�? The architects and perpetuators are so fo-
cused on keeping women the main focus.
 Chapter 31

Cultural Differentiation

Cultural differentiation. This is the one thing that allowed me to finally ‘see’ the social
matrix itself and it was the first thing I told to David DeAngelo when I met him (“ever
hear of cultural differentiation?”).

The question I asked myself for a whole decade was:

“How can I have success with women every time I leave the United States and yet it’s
so difficult in the U.S.? (And I AM a great catch!)”

If you grew up in a Westernized country (including 1st world Europe, Canada, Aus-
tralia or the U.S.), and you’ve never le� that culture you grew up in then you just don’t
know what you just don’t know.

There’s a whole world out there with different beliefs and customs. In most of Europe
they’re more aware of other cultures but it’s still a strong first world influence.

Students email me a lot saying how strong the Social Matrix of influence is and how it’s
growing in places like Finland, U.K., Australia, northern Italy, etc.

The priceless experience of my previous world travels allowed me to focus in on those

cultures and see the U.S. from a different perspective. I could compare different cul-
tures to the U.S. and I could also compare ‘foreign’ women to U.S. women.

That whole decade from 20 onward, I still preferred international women. Not because
they were more ‘exotic’, but because they were more responsive and open-minded.

Part of what helped lead me on that path was my involvement in AIESEC (eye-sec), the
world’s largest student-run (college) organization (www.aiesec.org). I had friends in
25 countries that I would spend emailing instead of ge�ing college coursework done.
Compare that to my brother who stayed in his hometown and never became aware or
quite aware just what else is out there.

Unfortunately most American’s are quite content in their ignorance of the rest of the
world. How is this so? Well, the programming of the social matrix keeps them igno-
rantly content and busy. If you’re American, I hope that you aren’t anymore if you ever
were (ignorant).

Of course I love my country and would have died for it in my 4 years serving, but back
to the relational formula: the one thing above and beyond independence is interdepen-
dence.

If America generically represents independence and my people are too proud repre-
senting independence, they’re losing sight of the one thing that is beyond it; interde-
pendence. My having relationships with people in 25 countries in college was interde-
pendence. It opened my mind BIG TIME.

I was VP of Reception at AIESEC Madison (UW-Madison). This meant I had to orga-

nize parties and welcome international trainees to the states (including paperwork)
who were hired by U.S. corporations.

I organized over 30 events in college including multi-state parties. Being involved with
so many international students and workers allowed me to see things in a different
light. None of them hated America and there was so much we could learn from each
other.

So a�er I dropped out of college my junior year, I went on a trip to Brazil by myself. It
worked out that I was invited to the AIESEC conference ALDS (Americas Leadership
Development Seminar) in Rio. So I had about a week or so to myself (staying in youth
hostels) and then met up with AIESECer’s to go to the conference.

So in Brazil I got to experience more natural women. Even then I felt that this experi-
ence would add more intrigue to my life and it did. Sadly, many people who are stuck
in the social matrix won’t even choose to do something like that to experience a differ-
ent angle on things...they’re too content in their repressed, limited and habitual life-
style.

So back to the point of ‘cultural differentiation’...throughout the decade I still couldn’t

‘figure out’ American women and their behaviorisms. And then it finally hit me. I was
watching ‘Stepford Wives’ and how they mock the traditional housewife and thinking
about things a�erwards and then I was just lightningstruck. It hit me all at once...I saw
the matrix and everything made sense.

It took a decade to figure out and that was WITH me consciously seeking to under-
stand other cultures more and objectively analyzing American popular culture. Cul-
tural differentiation; the ability to separate social matrix (American/Western) culture
from other cultures and compare them afforded me a priceless level of wisdom.
I had to go to SouthEast Asia three times in order to (unintentionally) get close to the
breakthrough not to mention 1000 hours of language study and cultural study. There’s
not way someone is just ‘by chance’ going to stumble across the answers when they
grew up in the restricting social matrix that keeps them within the tractor beam of
mainstream culture.

It was cultural differentiation that SAVED ME from a life of ignorance and loss of true
self-control. And it is this that is the impetus of why you are reading this, otherwise it
would not be writ. Yes, that’s the power of influence and I mention elsewhere, other
people around the world can look at and mock the social matrix and see how repress-
ing it is to those people...but you know what?

They would be talking on closed ears. It’s not unless you have been stuck WITHIN the
tremendously oppressive influence, would you have one iota of how much it means
to really understand it and free yourself from it. When I saw the social matrix and it
struck me, a lifetime of burden was li�ed off of my shoulders and I hope that you can
experience that SOON as a result of choosing to invest in this program.

I believe it takes someone like me; someone who grew up in the social matrix and who
understands it to lead other men OUT of it to regain their own personal power. It can’t
be done effectively by someone who looks on from a third perspective and never was a
part of it because no one would listen to them.

So I’m glad that I can help you take your real power back for yourself and just remem-
ber that it was because of cultural differentiation that I was finally able to break free
and differentiate MYSELF from it.

That is one of your PRIMARY goals; see the social matrix and differentiate yourself
INDEPENDENTLY from it. The level of power you’ll regain can’t be fathomed. And
I encourage you also to not only seek cultural differentiation yourself (away from the
forced reality) but to GROUND yourself in the natural roots and energy that is out
there, outside of the social matrix.

If you just didn’t know anything else there was to know, you’d forever be ignorant hav-
ing NO idea the level of oppression you were under. You may have to literally ‘fight’
to break free from the massive level of control and influence that you have been under;
and you have to want it (your freedom) BAD.

Understanding other cultures and more natural people (and more responsive women)
will be perhaps the greatest breath of fresh air you’ll ever have. This is because you’ll
realize that it’s NOT been you that’s at the root of the problem.
So many guys just take it all on themselves and it devastates their psyche when it
comes to women because the ‘guy’ is supposed to take the lead. Most of the main-
stream men have been repressed and damaged psychologically because of this.

But when you can get cultural differentiation and see the matrix you’ll know where
everything fits into it’s place and that natural/responsive women are much more desir-
able for long-term relationships. That feeling of liberation is priceless. Seeing and put-
ting together the pieces of the puzzle is nirvana compared to continuing to live under
ignorant oppression.

You’ll also see how screwed up so many of the matrix women are and wonder, “why
on earth did I overrate them before!?” Simple..because that’s what they wanted you
to do when they had control. I encourage you to view everything from a third person
perspective, get some different cultural experiences and relate them to the social ma-
trix. The more you know, the more powerful you’ll become.

There is a lot of leverage on YOUR side, you just have to use it. Understanding that
there is more to life than a consumerist, backwards (naturally) socially powered society
is VERY refreshing.

And the more things you study that are outside the forced reality, the more balanced
and INTERESTING of a person you’ll become. I know fragments of a dozen languages
that I can use to instantly synergize with people from that culture. That’s just part of
my inner character.

I also know a LOT of geography which creates an instant connection and rapport with
(international) people. Since I’m interested in them in a social way, they’re interested
in me and since my natural character is always high, it doesn’t take long for women to
notice.

One more thing here about international women, the more natural they are, the less
you have to know their language to take things to sex. In fact, you’ll be able to bask in
the fact that it IS a completely natural process. I’ve been with so many women whose
language I couldn’t speak yet our ‘relationship’ was successful.

And then there are other women who are stopping their own success with men be-
cause of all of their social development ON TOP OF their natural character even
though you can FLUENTLY speak with them. Knowing this will also relieve the re-
pression on top of your unlimited character. It’s all R.D.
If you don’t believe me, go to one of my recommended places. You really should expe-
rience natural women for yourself. You’ll find that you have to rely on your body lan-
guage and non-verbal behavior more but that it’s OK because she is actually respond-
ing to you on the ‘natural’ level.

This was a huge part of my cultural differentiation; experiencing and grounding in

natural energy including the mating process with natural women.

If it wasn’t for cultural differentiation and ‘natural grounding’ I may have never es-
caped the strong influence of the social matrix.

On another note which is relevant:

I have a habit of 30 minutes of language everyday. I have done this for almost 3 years
now. I will either listen to (primarily Pimsleur) language tapes or cd’s. Otherwise I
will o�en watch foreign music videos or karaoke music videos (which allows me to see
the words).

Since I took German for 7 years, I will speak that if I don’t have access to technology.
I did this during Hurricane Frances when I was stuck in Orlando a�er a conference.
Actually to be more accurate, I did my 30 minutes a day for 2 years straight and then I
opened it up the third year (as a reward) that I must average 30 minutes a day over the
course of the year. This allows a li�le more flexibility as long as it still adds up.

This habit of mine has tremendously helped to differentiate my independence AWAY

from the direct stimulus-response relationship of the social matrix. Anything that
brings a different perspective (and in this case cultural differentiation) allows you to
ground yourself in energy that is different or opposite from the social matrix.

In fact anything that you consciously choose to do WITHOUT outside interference or

direct programming empowers your independence even more.

Funny thing, you’ll never see actual promotion of cultural differentiation coming from
the matrix sources; you might see travel ads but it’s only catered towards the quick fix,
fast re-balancing of someone before they return back to the influence of the matrix.

You see, they don’t want you to know ‘what else’ is out there and they’ll keep you dis-
tracted SO good that you hardly have time to even think about gaining REAL cultural
differentiation because that might take you away from their influence over you and
they would lose money and power.
Sure there are certain people who live in the matrix who are more cultured or ‘earthy’
who live in Europe half of the year, go to foreign film screenings and despise the social
matrix but I’m talking about you. I’m not talking about expat’s who have found more
freedom (and have discovered the secret of natural women) outside the U.S. either,
we’re talking about you. I’m talking about real people, real men who can’t just be a
‘cultured’ outcast that easily.

I’m talking about mainstream men that are still heavily under the influence of the
forced reality. Using cultural differentiation will help balance out your own character
as well as make you much more interesting. It will also help you to differentiate the
energies of different people and women to create synergy and rapport very fast.

The reason women respond more in Montreal is because they speak French as their
primary language. Go to Toronto and the women are icier like American women. This
is because English is their primary language there. Does it make that much of a differ-
ence? Yes it does. It’s a whole different frame of mind because they are thinking differ-
ently in the first place.

I had a French girlfriend once in Hawaii (there’s a reason it’s called the ‘french kiss’)
and her energy was very natural (once we were past meeting) and she was quite ro-
mantic. The point here is to ground yourself in energy and knowledge that is different
from the programming of the social matrix. Study other cultures and get another view.

You can do this through language study, traveling, experiencing more natural women,
having international friends, watching foreign t.v., foreign movies, learning geography,
foreign music videos and did I mention traveling? Particularly to more natural (third
world) countries.

Cultural differentiation by doing a lot of the aforementioned opportunities (pick a

language you’re interested in!) will give you a greater perspective on the world. It will
help you to differentiate yourself from the social matrix which is very important.

Do whatever you can to make sure you have the bonus package of international/natu-
ral energy examples.

I draw from these natural feminine energy a lot and it further grounds me in natural
energy (vs. social B.S./contrived energy). It will help you to clearly see. And if you can
runaway from the forced reality itself for a while.

Go to a more natural cultural to see for yourself and know your relationship is that you
can embrace this into your own character representation instead of blindly following
the programmed ideology of the architects.
Get back to your roots, ground yourself in strength and natural induction. It will tre-
mendously add leverage to your character and cognition.

Notes:

At new year’s eve I will make 1-3 new commitments for the next year and I will stick
to them. I find that any more than that is really challenging. I encourage you to do the
same thing and have the integrity to yourself to stick to them.
 Chapter 32

Looking at Relationship Reality

With all of the relationship ‘experts’ and counselors (that are a part of the social matrix
themselves) you would think that there would be an ‘end’ to marriage relationship
problems yet they keep coming up, HMMM...

Once again, we look to relational dynamics and look at the independent elements. In
this case, the husband and the wife. And we would also look at roles models of mar-
riages that have stuck together, primarily traditional marriages throughout American
history, world history and other cultures.

It’s glaringly obvious to me what the root of ‘most’ of the problems are. With R.D. you
can solve problems by going to the pure root source and looking at how the other roots
relate to each other.

Yes men are weaker (generally) today but it’s because of being a response and having
to deal with woman’s newfound power that society has given her. This is the root in-
fluence of most marriage relationship problems (her empowerment) today. It’s not:

Money

Chores

Debt

The In-Laws

As I said on stage at Cliff’s List Convention, “It’s women’s empowerment”. On their

behalf, yes, they ‘are who they are’ (for be�er and worse). They WERE brought up in
this culture which gave them all of this power, opportunity and responsibility.

The root cause itself has become SO prevalent and taken for granted that it’s virtually
invisible. It’s become engrained and evolved into our social culture but no one can see
it and the blame gets put on men while these women get away with literal murder and
without taking accountability.

In most marriages it has become a ba�le of two independent wills all of a sudden. The
woman has expectations, her own career and she o�en finds herself in the midst of
now her traditional role (being a mother and housekeeper) which she has consciously
avoided (if she was a career woman).

Now she has to struggle with a career and being a housewife/mother. It’s understand-
able from that angle but let’s broaden the perspective again.

Today’s average husband ends up just being who he always is habitually. And he ends
up wondering why the relationship is so challenging, how she can be so demanding
and worst of all: her nagging.

What’s really going on? They’re both being their true selves and stuck in a relationship
that has certain roles (albeit which are pressure more towards her side).

Who has REALLY changed more over the past 40 years? Man or woman? Woman.

Choosing to live with an independent woman (who is fascinating, intellectual and

interesting) is a double-edged sword (sorry ladies). There is just going to be a lot of
drama you’re going to have to live with and accept beyond just the basic sexual stereo-
types of traditional marriage.

It will ALL come out in a co-dependent habitat like living together. The pure inde-
pendence (and thus interdependence with synergy) they had when dating is gone.
Aspects of co-dependency are now thrown into the mix and neither one of them are at
their full independent and amazing peak (in relationship to EACH other).

Ok, so how do you keep it together if you’re in that kind of relationship? Remember..

You have to look at the root elements and NOT focus on who is spending what money,
etc. in determining a more global and effective solution. When a couple takes space
out from each other and brings their level of respect back, then they’ll be able to com-
municate more.

Yes it means GETTING AWAY from each other...probably something most ‘counselors’
wouldn’t recommend but it’s quite clear to me. When you respect each other’s inde-
pendence more, then you can work be�er to resolve your issues yourselves.

It’s quite simple to see the effect of the influence of the empowerment of women yet
this has bypassed most (or all) of these so-called experts minds. The empowerment of
women ‘can’t’ be the ‘cause’ of all this...no, relationships are just ‘always’ like this and
challenging (from their state of mind).
So in relationship counseling, what is the way to KEEP a marriage together? Keep it
interdependent or bring it back to an interdependent win/win level (at least transac-
tional). My real recommendation is to give each other back their independence and
give each other space.

It’s the co-dependent environment and that relational context in which they live that is
a weakness in the equation.

Some celebrities KEEP their marriages together by traveling a lot and being apart. It
makes the interdependent win/win level of sparks actually still exist instead of falling
into daily co-dependency (I need you, you need me, or we’re stuck together so much
we hate each other).

So, to wives I would recommend to give your husband his space without nagging him
about it. Men require it more than women do in almost all cases. Women being more
social should spend time with other people they can emote and empathize with.

Couples that are married for decades have generally kept the temperature at around at
least a transactional level (ge�ing used to cohabitation without terrorizing each other).
They’ve learned to respect each other’s space and have go�en used to each other’s hab-
its.

And at times they’ll bring it back to synergy again by acting young again or rekindling
their romance a li�le or doing special things together.

Keep in mind that our grandmother’s even if they were more independent-spirited
weren’t as judgmental, demanding or nagging as today’s women. Our grandmother’s
knew their role even if they had to do a lot of the work. That is to be admired and re-
warded.

Today’s wives who do support their husband and ARE trying to make it work while
dealing with several roles, I can understand (I just wouldn’t be a part of it). The man
should be ‘man enough’ to cover the entire income somehow so that she can focus on
raising the kids.

Tradition worked, that’s a big part of what I’m saying so for yourself just think about
what kind of marriage you would want to have. A supportive wife who knows her
role (and let’s you be you) or a nagging, demanding ‘wonder’ woman who daily chal-
lenges you and your decisions making you dread coming home (simply because she ‘is
who she is’ because of social influence and development).
Think about it; it’s more real than you know if you’re still single. So I would stop
over-rating these women even the Prada’s who seem to be everything as sung about in
countless wussy songs.

The more ‘wonderful’ she is, the less control you’re going to have in a long-term rela-
tionship and generally the more you’ll have to give up as a man unless you can some-
how keep the ba�les to a minimum and miraculously keep it interdependent.

Marriages aren’t supposed to be power struggles. Just be aware of these characteristics

because as a man YOU can be intuitive too instead of just naive and leaving ‘control’ to
them. Women used to be relationship experts but not anymore (the one’s we’re dealing
with).

Notes:

If a person trying to make a deal says ‘trust me’ but has failed in the past, with previ-
ous people or in the li�le things you’ll be able to predict the trend. If someone is tell-
ing you ‘secrets’ about someone else that are supposed to remain secret, guess what
kind of action they’re going to do behind your back? Yep. Don’t fall into gossip either
if you want to remain a man of integrity.

If a woman has been divorced in the past and will try to justify excuses..remember,
there is usually a reason. If she is still single, there is still a reason (social influence and
the divergence).

If a woman ‘feels’ co-dependent on you once she knows you, that can be fine but don’t
you turn co-dependent on her because then she’ll leave you. You have to remain inde-
pendent and represent your power as a man.

It’s good to be compassionate (a special interdependence) but don’t ever let it violate
your independence.
 Chapter 33

The Pre-Game of Leveraged Power

Why are things so damn difficult?

Because there is a true and hidden relationship that you weren’t aware of before and it
now defines the game at the very start.

OTHER FORCES OF POWER AND INFLUENCE HAVE NOW ENTERED THE PLAY-
ING FIELD OF ATTRACTION AND DATING

..and up until now you were probably ignorant of these powers and your relationship
to them. I used to be too.

It’s now a game of leveraged power IMMEDIATELY

with women and if you don’t know what’s going on, you’ll continue to be crushed in
comparison to the leverage of social power these women represent no MATTER what
other favorable means you have such as looks, money, pick up lines, or social status.

Yep, ‘inner game’ alone isn’t enough because there are much greater forces that are go-
ing on before you even know it. She’s ‘FRONTING’ all kinds of socially derived power
and you’ve been ignorant to it.

You have to know your relationship to it and ‘neutralize’ it before she’ll open up her-
self to you.

YES, it’s absolutely stupid and ridiculous when you think about it and how much these
women are preventing their own fulfillment, but it’s true...that thing called ‘social in-
fluence’ and peer pressure is VERY strong; it’s overruled ‘logically’ and ‘upfront’.

So now these women by becoming byproducts of their unique social culture (and I’m
talking even the BEST of ‘em) are still pu�ing on this ‘social character’ and portraying
characteristics and amplifications that are only rooted from their social influence.

Most guys within this social culture (influenced by the social matrix and most of the
First Worlds countries now), will be thrown off by this POWER that is being displayed
upfront that was originally supposed to a�ract men but now only prevents real rela-
tionships from forming.

Do you know that by giving up your power in relation to her (o�en unconsciously),
you have now all but lost the game! Yes, BEFORE it even began (in your conscious
mind).

Unfortunately you have lived in a reality where her power is VERY real but you’re not
cognizant of your true relationship to that power.

When you ‘drop’ in character in response to her beauty and power, she can’t trust you
to be a man or to ‘be’ yourself. Don’t take it personal but she has to make decisions
and FAST to protect her own self-interests.

She is only looking for a man of stable character so that SHE can open up to him and
allow HER physiology to respond to him. Even the slightest bit shaky, insecure, incon-
gruent, nervous, palpitating man of ANY caliber doesn’t do it for her..she immediately
puts up a red flag.

She’ll put up a yellow flag if she decides to give you a chance to further ‘prove your-
self’ because you ‘might’ have other characteristics of interest to her. Those are usually
afforded by good-looking men or guys with social proof.

If you’re just not that guy, you’d BETTER be grounded in your true relation to her.

If you want to open the doors to relations with many women, you just have to ‘be’
that man of Alpha character who doesn’t inadvertently hand over his power AT ALL
TIMES.

So how do you ‘be’ this man? Alpha Relational Dynamics of course. In order to get
to the ACTUAL process of mating and relational fusion you have to DEAL WITH the
B.S./socially derived ‘fronting’ that is going on.

Women DO have tremendous powers of leverage. This can o�en be stated as an initial
power leverage ratio.

If she’s a Paris Hilton she has a power leverage ratio of 100,000,000:1. If you play the
game ‘socially’ you don’t stand a chance.

For even lesser clones or the like, what you have to do is AT LEAST BE equal in initial
power value or higher BEFORE the game can even ‘begin’.
How do you do this? Well...Relational Mapping alone will allow you to truly be ‘inde-
pendent’ and powerful and includes in relation to ALL women (once you remain pure
to the integrity of it and yourself). That is a huge start.

Simply by not acknowleding her social status (and I mean in EVERY FIBER of your
body and representative physiology), she’ll recognize that you’re an equal to her;
you’re not playing the same ‘power/social’ game.

That in itself is a huge advancement because you’ll be able to truly BE congruent and
comfortable around your own skin in the face of a million to one power ratio (socially).
Yep.

To gain even MORE power (other than just independent differentiation from the social
matrix and it’s byproducts), you will represent and harness your natural character.

This leveraged power ratio is infinite; EVEN GREATER THAN ANY DEVELOPMENT
OF SOCIAL STATUS within ANY woman. So accept it, embrace it.

Once you harness that leverage (which is much greater than yourself or your own ‘in-
ner game’), you will REPRESENT (within your total character) a power that is equal
or greater than any of the most beautiful, gorgeous or sexy women you could come
across.

How? Because you are man and you have inherited masculinity and external repro-
duction (as well as the power that comes with that). SHE; no ma�er her level of ‘social’
development (all a causal byproduct) can never reproduce without you and your rep-
resentation no MATTER how independently wonderful and/or slu�y she looks.

Your goal is to be ‘equal or greater than’ her in the initial power ‘game’ that is played
(and which seduction and dating experts overlook). It’s up to you to ‘pass’ her tests
with the enormous front (I know it’s so unnatural) so just know your true relationship
to it and represent a leverage ratio your of greater than hers and you’re in.

THEN you can pick things up where everyone really starts because she IS extrapolat-
ing and judging you on YOU no ma�er the power game that is going on and that she’s
representing. So you don’t have to align yourself to a false reality where you’re much
lower than her; play the real power game.

All those other guys that get rejected and (secretly) most of the teacher’s out there;
they’re just fighting against this power game that they don’t understand that happens
right up FRONT.
Ya’ ge�in’ it?!

So, in summary of this Chapter:

There IS a very REAL power game that is going on BEFORE anything even gets to
happen and that’s how most guys (and what most seduction teacher’s are teaching) fail
and do so inconsistently.

The answer is within Alpha Relational Dynamics; becoming congruent with cognition
and harnessing the powers of leverage that are much greater than your own limited
game could ever be.

Once you truly know your relationship to her social and inner character (no ma�er
how ‘alpha’ developed she is..and it doesn’t ma�er), you will be able to be ‘comfortable
in your own skin’ around these women.

Hey, they ultimately HATE playing the stupid social ‘power game’ upfront but their
influence and pressure to do so has been so strong that it’s habitually become them and
their behavior.

Save them from their misery by REPRESENTING natural power that over-rules so-
cial character and influence, because the only way you’re ge�ing to sex ANYHOW is
through her NATURAL character (and not her prickteasing, frontin’ social character).
 Chapter 34

Female Behaviorism Rundown

There are some overrated women in our society. No offense to them; I mean they are
socio-cultural byproducts behaviorally, but it’s up to you to understand what’s actually
going on in order to prevent turmoil or win the affections of the ones you would like
for your version of a relationship.

Men will objectify (the exploited sexuality), over-rate and edify so many women with-
out ge�ing to know them at all. This happens within a second quite o�en. And with-
out knowing it, that seemingly uncontrollable response prevents their success with
these women.

Women who are daily edified socially like this have grown further away from their
natural roots. When they get all this edified a�ention (provoked by the forced reality)
of course it’s going to go to their head and change their behavior (unfortunately).

Men aren’t doing anything to help the cause by continuing to pander to these women
but the whole system was setup for men to be the ‘dumb’ response to these women
who can supposedly have it all (because they are being offered it everyday on a silver
pla�er).

Other experts will (o�en through roundabout ways) put all the blame on the men like
there is nothing wrong with the women themselves (because they’re still acting in the
meta-frame response to align themselves to women’s power as the stimulus).

This is why it’s very important for you to realize that it was really social influence that
created this in the first place.

The power is in Relational Dynamics and not in surface solutions that don’t deal with
the root issues of Causation that define their behavior. This is why your change will
be worth the investment you made as compared to other teacher’s who only deal with
techniques instead of real, habitual change.
So let’s look at some different women in their ‘Alpha’ quality and start understanding
them (then the more ‘Beta’ women are even easier to deal with)...

Each independent woman is her own unique (inner) person but there are two general
(broad and sweeping) categories of women which men put on pedestals which I call;
Prickteases and Prada’s (or career women). There is another category which is the least
‘edified’ whom I currently call the (naturally representative) ‘pure’ ‘pastoral’ or ‘pro-
vincial’ women which we’ll talk about later.

Prickteases are the Ashlee Simpson clones or myspace ho’s who exploit their sexuality
but actually aren’t very intelligent (or don’t show it) yet are the ones men want to sleep
with the second they objectify them.

They have been around a few decades but are especially growing in popularity now as
a response to our social culture. Remember the Marilyn Monroe pose of the air li�ing
her skirt up? That’s a premiere and classic example but even back then, most women
weren’t like that.

It’s not just L.A. anymore, it’s reached to probably every high school in America by
now and the extent is strong in other Westernized countries as well.
The Pricktease’s always make sure they look hot and sexy to be able to push the but-
tons on men (as they aligned with the social promotion of sexuality). They have gener-
ally forgo�en how to flirt because they are, a�er all, prickteases. Showing photo’s of
their tits or ass is not an uncommon thing now.

They o�en have the ‘you can’t ever have me/bow before me/you’re not worthy’ look on
their face. Ironically doing this is preventing their OWN success but you’ll see it’s all
just a game that has defined social behavior.

Flirting is the natural process of sexual communication and prickteasing (I draw this
reference from the movie ‘Dazed and Confused’) is the social process of a woman be-
ing the stimulus for a man to respond to.

It’s not natural and it’s muy importante for you to understand first that there IS a dif-
ference and second, the difference between flirting and prickteasing. You should be
able to clearly see a woman who has the energy, image and mindset of being a stimu-
lus/pricktease. In fact, they’re everywhere so it’s easy to find.

So when you can differentiate what’s really going on between different women (in your
training), start looking at the basal things first; is she a Pricktease, Prada or Natural?
In training it helps to look at extreme (or stereotypical) ‘Alpha’ cases of each to further
help you differentiate it’s independent/ideal representation.

Then you’ll be�er be able to judge the mixture of how each of the three independent
characteristics relate. The video training will REALLY help you see this.

We can get you at a level of intuition that rivals natural women. This is a lot of power.
You’ll know what women to run from (or tell your friend ‘don’t do it man’) o�en just
by judging their character and it’s representation in your extrapolation.

You’re turning the tables on them to prevent heartache and trouble for yourself. It’s up
to you to qualify women and just put your trust into it. A�er interacting a bit you’ll
especially be able to tell her level of character in each area.

Women ‘screen’ men and their judgment is quite accurate (provided it’s not clouded
through social distortion when judging). Because men can’t generally ‘judge’ women
accurately (because their own unawareness gets in the way), they fall into countless
traps including ge�ing married again just because they see boobs and blonde hair
instead of all the red flags of warning (when I or even you soon could SEE them just by
looking at her picture).

If you feel negative or an independent or pricktease ‘spirit’ in a woman’s photo, chanc-

es are with that thought pa�ern that she is going to be that person in real-life and
you’ll get the full experience.

You’ll be able to discern when women are ‘acting’ or not. Unfortunately so many
Prickteases have ‘become’ the act. They have become so consciously derived in taking
on the socially exploited ideals that they have lost touch with their natural character
until they’re lucky enough to kiss a real man.

When you are actually ‘meeting’ women, it’s her actual actions that will back it up and
prove if you were on the right track of judgment or not. I’ve socially stereotyped guys
before and said I don’t think I could be friends with them and it turned out differently
but remember that with women you are dealing with a whole different specimen.

The Relational Model of A�raction comes into play and the dynamics are quite im-
portant and influential for a real relationship. Seeing any warning signs and red flags
early will save you time and money.

It’s time that you start holding women to a higher standard (real character) and stop
accepting her just because she looks good..judge her on HER characteristics and char-
acter not just her looks. What ma�ers primarily is that she has natural and humble
energy for the long-term if you want a peaceful relationship.

All KINDS of women out there look good (society told them to amplify it). It’s not
wrong to extrapolate character off of women (women do it ALL the time to men). Ev-
eryone judges everyone anyways and first impressions DO ma�er.

I’m teaching you to look past just a woman’s beauty and even her ‘wonderfulness’ to
the larger scope of her character and how it relates to you now and in the future; that’s
Relational Dynamics.

Quite predictably a Prada is going to bring demands and drama with her into a serious
relationship and it will be an ongoing power struggle but somehow guys just don’t see
that upfront until it’s too late because she’s just so ‘wonderful’.

She will repress your freedom so if you know that upfront you’ll be more careful about
what kinds of relationship you set up with them. I have several beautiful Prada friends
but I just couldn’t marry them.

Yes I’ve been in relationships with some as well so I know what I’m talking about other
than just observing. I broke up with a really intelligent one recently.

They make awesome friends though because they are interesting and fascinating. It’s
up to you to be accountable for your life and having as much control over it as pos-
sible.

Oh, by the way;

YES, you can have sexual relations with prickteases, prada’s and naturals.

I talk about that a bit in other chapters and in my other information products but it’s
important for you to differentiate these characteristics and what they represent and
how they relate to you so that YOU have the power, congruency and character to
DEAL with them (instead of being intimidated or le�ing them run all over you) so that
you CAN have sex with them.

Prada’s (aka ‘Miss Independents’) are intelligent, intellectual, go-ge�ers which are
quite intimidating to many men yet seem to be the more ‘long term’ desired type for a
relationship when compared to Prickteases.

They still look and dress sexy and beautiful but it’s more conservative and repressed
when compared to Pricktease’s. She can be a devil in disguise though as countless mil-
lions of married men have found out.

So what if she actually IS more intelligent and capable than you in the workforce?
You’d be�er understand your relationship to that and that’s all. You still have favor
and power to keep her around you. If you don’t understand your relationship to her,
you’re likely going to be intimidated from the get go.

These women are very strong-minded and o�en quite sure in their ways. They are also
the ones who make keeping a relationship with them challenging so keep that in mind
as well.

She can be ‘miss independent’ but if you read the cards right = future divorcee (50%+
and more if you’re an Alpha male) because you couldn’t get along with her.

Use that knowledge as leverage in your mind. Hey, I’m not bashing women, I’m look-
ing at the reality and it’s about time they be held accountable for themselves (even
though they’re a social byproduct).

Statistically they have fewer kids. Part of that is less desire (or application) for sex be-
cause they are so socio-logically developed.

If you let her ‘lead the way’ and just kind of go along with things, that resentment is
going to build up and you’re going to have to let her know.

I let that happen in two of my relationships and it didn’t work out. They lost the at-
traction because I wasn’t being myself anymore.

I’ve been there but now I let them know much earlier when I see the warning signs. If
I’m feeling repressed in who I am around her I’m going to bring up the truth even if it
means dropping another independent woman.

With the extreme level of social development for either Prada’s or Pricktease’s, this
makes it challenging for them to lower themselves down to their traditional role of
nurturer and supporter a�er being essentially programmed by society.

They were brought up in the culture that influenced them to be like this but you STILL
have to be accountable for the reality of your relations with them and the influence
they bring to the table.
Women can be quite dismissive or aloof and they don’t ‘need’ men anymore (to pro-
vide for them).

You just have to understand your relationship to this type of woman (and her three en-
ergies/characteristics) if you are going to have any kind of relationship. I recommend
either a strictly physical or strictly friendship relationship with empowered women (or
Aphrodite’s) as opposed to a ‘balanced’ real relationship.

Even years ago I would categorize women I was interested in based on their energy.
There were two basic categories; women who I would want to have a serious relation-
ship with or women I wanted to have sex with immediately (Prada’s vs. Pricktease’s).

It was the shy, skinny, tall, dark-haired, demure women who I didn’t even think of
having sex with, rather it was their energy (which I now realize is NATURAL or uncor-
rupted) which I was fascinated by and drew from (just seeing them or being around
them).

This is the natural balance that lasts a lot longer; whereas, the women who I just want-
ed to sleep with, I didn’t pick up natural energy..it was primarily a socially developed
over-sexification/vamped up energy. Consequently even a decade ago I realized that
I couldn’t be in a long-term relationship with this type of woman because that ‘short-
term’ energy is fleeting.

When a Pricktease ‘pop tart’ is habitually used to being the stimulus, yes it’s refreshing
for her (when she gets through her social distortion) to be with a real man so that she
can finally respond sexually (naturally).

Keep in mind though that a�er the fun, she will go back to her socio-logical habits of
being the stimulus. She’ll go back to her daily drama and you HAVE to know where
you stand (on a solid foundation).

Some experts will say it’s your fault because you didn’t punish her when she misbe-
haved but in actuality, these women are SO habitually developed into their behavior
BEFORE they ever met you. It can be dangerous to try and tame the shrew ‘long term’.

Empowered emotion equals drama.

YES you can ‘tame the shrew’ and I’ve done it but you can’t tame her for too long be-
cause her logic and social development WILL come back. You’ll have to rock her world
in the bedroom (which is easy when you’re high in natural character) if you want to
keep her around and even then it will be her struggling between her natural (desire for
you) and her social (go out and party with the girls to get more a�ention from other
guys) in any sort of ‘dating’ relationship.

Ask yourself if you really want all of that drama of a relationship other than the physi-
cal with this kind of woman.

Maybe you do just want to sleep with a lot of Prickteases; well, that’s also why I’m here
to help you. But you must know where her status and power resides in relationship
to everything else and then you will be able to succeed with these women fairly o�en
when you just start making connections. How?

Because you’ll have the rooted strength of character and knowledge/cognition of your
power and relationship to her and her power. It shouldn’t take her long at all to see
that you’re not intimidated by her and that is RARE. In fact, the ho�er they are (if you
can find ‘em) the more they’ll probably respond to you (based on the environment as
well).

Keep in mind though that it’s the natural character and energy of a woman that should
promoted, cherished and upli�ed because it’s the energy that makes the world go
around. This is the energy that guaranteed human propagation (off of the stimulus of
masculine character).

If you can differentiate this within a woman and know where you stand in relation to
her other characteristics you WILL be a modern day Casanova.
It is the woman who goes through labor and gives birth (but with an anesthesiologist
it can’t be that bad!). A man should always respect women for what they do. Mother’s
are VERY important and we can’t exist without them.

Stated another way; it’s natural women who make the world go ‘round. It’s the socially
exploited Prickteases that make economies go ‘round. It’s the Prada’s that also help
make the economy go ‘round by working in it and having an influence (which I don’t
deny of course) but the social matrix is still primarily run by men.

What happened to the feminists and their stance on the sexploitation of women?
Hmm...I guess that idea just kind of got drowned out. Because sexploitation is ram-
pant and everywhere now. Once again, you must know how you stand in relation to it
or it will overwhelmingly repress or frustrate you.

Check this out from a recent online article:

“By 2009, predicts the National Center for Education Statistics, the male-to-female ratio
within the college population will reach 39 to 61 percent. “

Wow. The downstream consequences of this demographic reality seem obvious to me.
A�er all, research unrelated to gender proclaims the following formula quite defini-
tively:

More College = More Money + More Power.

If that’s true, 30 years from now women will be making most of the money and they’ll
be running society.

That would certainly mark a turning point for civilization. Despite Greek legends
about Amazons and anthropological reports of the occasional matriarchal tribe such as
the Iroquois, no major society in recorded history has seen true parity of money and
power between men and women. The United States would be the first.” -

-The Rise of the College Woman

by Tamim Ansary

That represents the social matrix which is very real. There’s examples like this every-
where because it’s the ‘social reality’ that we live in.

It’s so real that it’s all some people know. So much focus is on the social development
and opportunities that women have that it just takes them further away from their own
natural character. And men are confused because they thought they had the power.

Look at all the manchild pre�y boys you see (like Prada ads with men). Just another
byproduct. It’s important to realize the force of social influence (nurture) is ALL rooted
in Causality. I make this really clear throughout the rest of the program.

You don’t have to hate women for everything they’ve become, just understand your
relationship to it. I love my Aphrodite girlfriends, they’re awesome.

There may be a purging phase where you are extremely independent and almost
vengeful against some women. I went through a bit of this (around some women in
some environments) even though experiencing much greater success but I’m finally
ge�ing to consistent relational fusion and ultimate seduction.

Within each of these ‘developed’ women is a natural part of her that is pure and re-
sponsive to you..you just have to help bring it out of her. I’ll be helping you differenti-
ate this natural energy later.

Soon you’ll be able to smile and actually look beyond the fact that she is a social by-
product and see her for a real person.

And ironically you already know what to do when you are in this character and when
she is in that character. See ‘Return to Blue Lagoon’.

To me, I don’t think I’ve ever met an American woman over 25 who still had natural
energy like a Celine Dion. Why? The power of social influence is THAT strong. It is
that powerful that almost ALL women will be influenced by it within the social culture
(especially nowadays). And sorry, but I’m not really interested in Amish women; I
don’t know about you!

Women today will grow further away from the natural/biological character and energy
that they were born with because social influence takes over. We just take it for grant-
ed (what we see) because it’s in front of us but that’s the trap.

This is depressingly sad in a way. Now, the only time these women will return to their
natural character is if they even get to have sex with a man or go through that process
and then they’ll slip into the natural mode usually when they are kissed, but when sex
is over, the logical and social ‘thermostat’ will raise back up to where her social charac-
ter was...far away from her natural character.
She’ll be under your spell for a li�le while but then she’ll get back to her logical mind
which will want her to o�en be in control of when she wants to have sex. When I’m
‘seducing’ women, in bed it’s actually innocence (her natural character), it’s not the op-
posite as some people say it’s taking away (society has taken away her innocence..I’m
bringing it back in a way).

I’m adding value and we’re sharing an experience. I’m bringing out her raw natural,
feminine character, the part of her that is emotional, physiological and a mind trip.
You will be doing this with women too I’d imagine.

Natural character is what men should be seeking in women for a long-term relation-
ship and not her level of social influence or social status. Why on earth do you think
we have a 50% divorce rate!? Social influence.

The society that gave her power and opportunity and then exploited her sexuality
EVEN THOUGH other experts will put all the blame on the ‘wussified man’ and try to
warp him to fit the new culture instead of empowering his real self.

We’ve go�en away from the balance that worked; the more natural reality where peo-
ple understood their relationships to each other instead of challenged them. Would
you seriously want to live with a diva? It would be living hell on earth almost every
day!

Yet men will consistently OVERRATE the social (exploited sexual or even her social/
logical/intellectual level) aspects of women. They’ll primarily do it because society
keeps prickteasing them (the blueball syndrome) as they are the conditioned ‘re-
sponse’.

Men have been conditioned to ‘respond’ like the Pavlovian dog experiment as soon as
they see any woman that resembles the current socio-sexual ideal.

The natural way of things is that a woman ‘responds’ to a man’s (alpha) energy/charac-
ter and is a�racted to him (and he ‘appreciates’ her natural character but isn’t thrown
off by it because it’s a harmonic and loving balance for him).

Society has flipped it around by taking the one thing men want the most and sexploit-
ing it so that women becomes the stimulus instead of the response.

Their natural warmth, response, generosity, caring, affection, empathy and solace are
covered up and replaced with an exploited, socially developed, consciously accentu-
ated part of them and thus history changes.
Countless millions of men become repressed and confused, millions of women become
demanding, nagging, homewrecking bitches, and trillions of dollars are made off of it
(including a�orneys and counselors). Why?

Because the natural character of the woman has been lost touch with and the socially
influenced portion of their own sexuality has been exploited to raise their own social
status (to move economies).

It’s important you understand that I’m o�en being repetitive but these different angles
will help it all to sink in I think.

Ok, what about the empowered, independent ‘career’ women again? It’s still all social
development that moves her logically beyond her natural character. She became this
person (ie. an Oprah) because of being in the social environment that encouraged and
allowed it in the first place.

Ok...if men don’t understand their relationship to ‘miss independent’ and her power,
they’ll never be able to fulfill her desires either. It’s up to him to know natural suc-
cess but it’s really just that women have changed much more than the men (although
through time the effect has compounded repression upon them).

No one is holding women accountable to blame or for any of this. When really, society
just used/influenced men and transmuted them into the ‘response’.

Yet in actual relationships overtime where real character comes out, most men are just
being ‘themselves’ (unless they’ve got a real firecracker wife).

Somewhere an ‘architect’ (see the video training) took over the equation like Pavlov
and turned the stimulus-response ratio around.

Then the bad boys who aren’t socially influenced (and don’t care) just go ahead and tap
into the natural part of these women.

So all of these ‘independent women’ who are so proud of it, have essentially lost touch
with their natural and innocent character. It’s all become a social game of who can get
the highest social status. And about all of the people in the society don’t have a CLUE
as to what’s going on (especially so many of the social matrix’ sociologists).

And the women you take for granted in thinking that ‘relationships are just a chal-
lenge’ and this is the type I would se�le down with...maybe a career-oriented woman
who is fascinating, intelligent, ambitious?

We’re talking about a woman who isn’t an Ashlee Simpson clone; a woman who has
class, culture and intellect and is beautiful in a non-Paris Hilton way. All I’m saying is
be aware of your relationship to her power.

You are still a man and have the advantage over her naturally (to have her respond).
If you find yourself repressing your own thoughts and not fully being yourself while
having a lot of compromises and small debates (or not having those and repressing
them for later), go ahead and extrapolate that into the future and see what kind of rela-
tionship you’re going to have.

You see, when you deal with an independent woman’s social expectations (not just
about sexual exploitation) of what her personality is, her likes and dislikes and what
she likes in a man you’re going to be in for an awakening. It may have been sexual at
the start but a woman like this is going to basically withhold sex from you (and from
herself) because of her own ‘logic’.

This is a part of why real relationships are frustrating. More natural women however
are closer to their sexual nature and also to making sure their man is pleased instead of
having so many logical things that can just get in the way of your physical relationship.

One of these women might want to make the relationship work but you’re just going
to have to deal with whatever characteristics she HAS because they’re likely not going
to change. And the more set ideas and opinions she has on things (huge red flag), the
more troubled waters lie ahead for you.

Though admirable for her intellect and wit, the independent and intellectual woman
with career goals, etc. has become more than a traditional relationship can handle. She
grew up not needing men or not having to have them provide for her (women were
still independent back in history mind you) so she just became this woman who society
wanted her to be (as a metaframe).

Li�le does she know that she would be a completely different woman were she
brought up in another social culture.

I can debate with feminists forever but the point here is, if you choose an independent
‘wonderful’ woman you’re going to get the FULL package. She will naturally want to
control much of the relationship and you will not be the full man you can be. You will
see all sides of her including her logical and illogical expectations and demands.
Compromise and respecting each other’s independence by keeping it interdependent
as much as you can is about the only thing that can keep it together (besides kids but
even then..).

There is nothing worthy about divorce.

So who has the power during all of this? By default, women and the architects/society.
I say, it’s time for YOU to take your own power back and have absolute control over
your life and lifestyle.

You do NOT have to stay stuck in the invisible social trap where women dominate (yet
above them are the Architects, producers and promoters). And it’s against women’s
best interest too. This creates tremendous opportunity for you because you ‘know’!

If anything you can use your knowledge of it to root and ground yourself in absolute
power and self-control like I have. How? Because I SEE and understand my ‘relation-
ship’ to all of these elements of power and influence. This is what I’m teaching you
here and now.

If you weren’t able to ‘see it’ or differentiate it before, then by default as a man you
were brought up to ‘respond’ to all of this (backwards of a�raction) influence that has
been coming down with women and their exploited sexuality being the stimulus.

Re-read that last paragraph.

It may seem like an ‘uncontrollable’ physiological response when you see a superhot
woman in your vicinity and don’t know how to approach or what to say. At this point,
she’s already sensed your energy and you don’t stand a chance.

The solution is not to have a physiological ‘response’ in the first place. When that hap-
pens you’re just objectifying her SOCIAL character (because men are NOT afraid of a
woman’s NATURAL character).

If a woman had a bad natural character or energy, she wouldn’t be chosen by men for
a long-term relationship in which he would provide and protect her and the children.
This is what’s happening in a way but men aren’t realizing it until too late.

Commercialism has become like so� porn in so many ways...all exploiting a woman’s
sexuality ‘socially’ in order to make sales for the people controlling the influence and
women will become like that in order to raise their own social status (by harnessing
that social power of leverage that is greater than their own personality).
Porn itself is the social exploitation of a woman’s sexuality. The visual imagery, the at-
titudes, all caters to male fancy and fantasy. Porn itself is sexual exploitation (although
not of the women per se as they ‘agree’ to be a part of it). Natural sex itself is not at all
like porn and the heightened vampiness of the women.

Edify the real feminine energy of a woman to get to the womoan. That character is
within all of them no ma�er what balance or level of behavioral characteristic she rep-
resents.

Notes:

In ‘Win a Date with Tad Hamilton’ the popular Hollywood actor realizes he doesn’t
have his priorities straight in life and meets Rosalee, the highest natural character
woman he’s met in his life and he is awestruck by it. She’s the most ‘real’ thing in his
life and he wants to draw more from her energy to ground himself. When you become
a naturally grounded man who has his act together (inner and social) as well, you’re a
real catch.

Sex itself isn’t what spoils a woman’s purity and natural energy. Social influence is
what spoils her purity and takes it away. I know of natural energy women that have a
lot of sex but are still high in natural energy and would make great wives. I know of
impure, neurotic women who rarely have sex who have li�le natural energy.
 Chapter 35

Awareness of Energy

Here we’re going to start ge�ing into awareness of ‘character’ and energy. This will
help you to understand the type of behavior that exists and how you relate to it. Much
of it you have been ignorant to.

First; this is just from my awareness and observations but have you noticed how cats
behave differently from dogs? Now I am especially aware of it because of R.D. cogni-
tion.

I think it’s just important to understand these differences. Cats are related to their
feline big brothers; lions and tigers (the ‘kings’ of the animal kingdom). Cats gener-
ally have a fearless and independent energy. They just don’t care, nor do they ever feel
sorry for themselves.

You can tell it to stop doing something and it will keep doing what it wants. It’s own
independent center of energy stays with it. You can learn a lot from the animal king-
dom and even studying cats and dogs.

Men today are behaving like whipped puppy dogs around women. They have become
the response to women being the stimulus. It doesn’t work that way and women aren’t
a�racted to that even if they might find it socially or logically acceptable for a man to
be ‘at her heels’ treating her like a Princess.

Dogs are quite different from cats. They are pack animals so in a relationship with a
dog there can only be one master. This also means that the master is the stimulus and
that the dog is the response but the dog will o�en ‘test’ the master for authority posi-
tion.

Domesticated dogs and people; that is a special kind of relationship. Cats operate
more independently instead of as a response to their masters so it’s more of a pure in-
terdependent relationship or even just two independent elements; a cat doing it’s own
thing and you.

You notice why men and women love (domesticated) dogs so much is because how
they respond to you. They get excited when you’re around and get very energetic if
you’ve been gone for a while. They are also aware when you want to scold it.
They are very emotional creatures and they are also very intuitive. Domesticated dogs
as a relational ‘response’ (like women are in a�raction) have to be very aware of energy
and receptive so that they know what is ok to respond to and what isn’t around the
stimulus (master).

This is why domesticated dogs (I’d say) are 10 times more intuitive than cats. If you
want to be a ‘dog whisperer’, what’s basically going on there is he is being the authori-
tative stimulus in his entire body language and energy so that the dog will respond
and be calmer under his command.

Dog’s you run into will o�en test you for your authority to see who really has control
between that relationship. But I still prefer cats.

As in the movie ‘Meet the Parents’, my paraphrase of Jack Byrnes (Robert

DeNiro)..”Cats don’t sell out like dogs do..You yell at a dog it will lower it’s tail and
cover it’s genitals and walk away.. Cat’s make you work for their affection.”

People love dogs so much because they ‘respond’ to humans. This makes people think
the dogs are geniuses because they’ll do what you tell them and usually obey. It gives
the owner more fulfillment and a sense of power and pride.

Unfortunately men are behaving like puppies or dogs (response) to the stimulus (mas-
ter/control) of women and sexual exploitation.

Once you accept your complete independence if you’re a man you will be able to reach
levels of intuition that rival many women through differentiating the different charac-
teristics and energies of women.

So when applying it to humans; what I want you to do is to begin to differentiate the

energies of a woman. Instead of just objectify her socially exploited beauty and falling
into the ‘programmed’ or conditioned ‘response’, I want you to seek out her 3 different
energies or characteristics and know what your relationship to each of them is. If you
want absolute power and effectiveness you will NOT drop in character around women
because you are the stimulus to them.

You will stay high in character (just like you are around your buddies) instead of
‘dropping’ in character when you are around women. When you stay at the same level
of character (because you’re independent and know your relationship to her energies),
then women will FINALLY have a chance to respond to you because you are the stimu-
lus (no ma�er what level of character you’re at).
So by not dropping in character around hot women and just actually ‘being yourself’
you’ll be a lot be�er off than a GREAT catch of a guy who does drop in character when
around women.

Remember, millions of guys have been conditioned to drop in character as a response

to beautiful or powerful women. You can be the real guy that doesn’t. This means that
you can just be yourself and this represents ‘natural success’.

And then of course you will be continuing to improve your own character across three
areas (natural, inner or personality/interests and social) to become an even more fasci-
nating guy.

To have success with women you cannot drop in character around her ESPECIALLY if
you aren’t that high in character already. Plot your own character continuum out (in
my separate RMA training) and the level you are always at is where you should be at
around women.

If you ‘go above’ and act comfortable when on the inside you’re bu�erflies, you’re just
acting. If you drop in character around women you’re slipping into the conditioned
response so she couldn’t be a�racted to you. Your energy then isn’t that of a strong
natural character.

When you can stay the same man before, during and a�er because you understand
your relationship to her 3 different characteristic responses and energies, THEN you
are ge�ing somewhere. Women will be able to respond to you and they’ll be more in-
terested and you don’t have to be a jerk.

So the clearest answer and action sequence to having success with women is to be the
highest man of congruent character that you can be (and of course the same when
you’re around women) and then just make connections with new women by just being
social.

Then it’s just a ma�er of building enough history (rapport) between the two of you so
that she can justify sleeping with you. Wash, rinse and repeat. How? Because your
ultimate goal or prime directive is to BE the man of NIS alpha character (or as close to
it as you can). This means improving yourself in all three areas.

Other than that, it’s understanding your relationship to the 3 female energies/character-
istics. This is your way to leverage insight that should overwhelm and then assimilate
into your character. I will teach you how to ‘read’ these energies with accurate intu-
ition.

What are the three representative feminine energies or characteristics? Simple. It’s the
same as in men. Natural, Inner and Social. Let’s take a look at them in the eBook here
to start becoming aware and cognitive of them.
 Chapter 36

Tri-Fem Characteristic Cognition

Remember that (beautiful women) are very aware of a man’s energy and character.
They can tell if he is congruent or not in who he is. THIS is what ma�ers; does he live
in a strong reality of his own or not. It’s a waste of time (in my mind) to study ‘pick-up
lines’.

You’re in the RIGHT place for real and effective change with leverage. Because if you
don’t get your own global and then inner ‘game’ sorted out, no pick up line is going to
work anyways. This is what you should be focusing on and this li�le Chapter here is
worth the price of admission by itself.

In fact I encourage you to go over the profound strength of this chapter several times.
Let it sink in and do the exercises and for goodness sake STOP thinking about pick-up
lines. In fact you don’t have to say much at all and it doesn’t ma�er what you say (“I
saved money on car insurance”) when you get this area taken care of.

Social is logical...a woman’s response in a�raction is intuitive and emotional. Her de-
fenses will be up if you play the game on the social level and place her ‘above’ you.
Play the game on the purely natural level (but use social character to your advantage)
and don’t forget birth control.

Here’s the thing; the actual reality of whether you ARE strong and high character in
front of women will be proven when you meet and interact with them...so what has to
happen is that your natural character has to rise and stay at that level around women
(and basically at all times and will rise higher during making out and sex).

And remember that it’s your thoughts that determine your actions and affect your
physiology and energy.

So to get your natural character to grow through fast yet real and effective change
(we’re talking a CHANGE in your physiology), I recommend Relational Dynamics,
understanding the RMA and this exercise (as well as my audio cd program; ‘Overcom-
ing Fear of Aphrodite’s).

Then, once you are this man of high natural character (who isn’t a jerk), you will be
able to seduce the most beautiful women quite o�en just by meeting them and devel-
oping enough ‘history’ (or rapport) with them to take it to sex.

And it doesn’t ma�er HOW beautiful they are because you understand your relation-
ship to it all. This gives you a rock-solid ‘inner game’ no ma�er WHO you are as a
personality.

I want you to practice differentiating the three different (response) parts of a woman;
this is the huge action centerpiece of this program.

Any and every woman HAS three root behavioral characteristics which CAN be differ-
entiated. All you have to do is know your relationship to each of them (and the repres-
sive social matrix).

The answer is NOT in going out there and approaching hordes of women because that
is only a superficial surface solution. The answer lies within and knowing your rela-
tionship to the characteristics and energies of any woman.

This one exercise (later taken to beautiful women in-person) ON TOP OF understand-
ing relational dynamics (and the Relational Model of A�raction) can help you over-
come fear of even the most beautiful and most powerful women in the world.
So let’s get started.

When you look at a woman I want you to look at and differentiate the three different
areas; her natural/sexual character, her inner character and her socially derived charac-
ter.

What’s a great place to do this? Magazines like Cosmo, Victoria’s Secret, I especially
recommend myspace.com and hotornot.com

Remember, we’re starting with photos of women to get your thought process aligned
correctly and then you can move on to being fearless one-on-one in front of actual
beautiful women. Follow through with the video portion of this if you have it.

So when you’re looking at a photo of a woman I want you to FIRST pick out the social
part of her. To me it’s CLEAR AS DAY with women who are a part of the sexploitation
and I see right through it.

Don’t just see glorified sexuality..understand it, what it represents and it’s relation to
her other characteristics. Look at the make-up, the tight clothes and the bitchy a�itude.

This is 100% social influence. It is NOT natural. If this exact same woman grew up in
a more natural culture she would not be doing any of this and she would actually feel
ashamed of herself for doing this.
Think about how long it took her to get ready and ‘sex herself up’ for this photo. Think
of the conscious accentuation that is going on that exists beyond just naturally waking
up. Can you feel how all of this vamped up sexiness is being used as the stimulus to
influence (even control) economies?

The powers that be are using (yes using) women’s sexuality, making it social, exploiting
it and essentially tapping into man’s single weakness in order to get them to buy prod-
ucts and this woman that you are looking at is only acting and behaving the way she is
because of social influence.

Notice how most of it is geared towards men and the perpetuation of other women to
join in the high social ideal. It’s in mainstream programming and commercials. Now,
compare that to how sexuality isn’t exploited when advertisers are marketing specifi-
cally to women such as housewives.

In the video portion I talk about the fashion industry a bit and the more respectable ap-
proach there because they’re target is ‘independent women’.

Here they might cater to a woman’s independent inner character (and sometimes show
the husband as being ignorant to household chores) but they’re not exploiting a wom-
an’s sexuality.

Look at a toilet bowl cleaner commercial and you’ll see an average yet fairly good-
looking woman acting fairly normal. It’s just important to see things as they really are
and to think about what’s really going on; what message are they ge�ing across?

Back to the women who align with this programmed social ideal, they know that if
they dress like this then they’ll be the stimulus so that men will give her a�ention and
favor, and like clockwork they usually do. It’s up to YOU to hold her to a higher stan-
dard and see through this part of her so that you’re different from all the other guys
anyways.

She may test you etc. but you’ll stand your ground because you know what’s really go-
ing on and you won’t cut her any slack for it; I don’t. You’ll be able to pass this level of
woman’s tests.

Ok, remember sometime in the past seeing photos or video of a National Geographic
special where you saw naked upper body tribal women? THIS is natural. Do you re-
member seeing nude art or tasteful representation (ie. in some European commercials)?

This is celebrating the natural and basic sexual beauty of a woman. It is not the same
as the socially derived sexploitation. You must be able to distinguish the difference. It
is rare to see natural feminine character in modern programming today.

Some examples of feminine natural character are of Lorraine (his mom) in Back to the
Future and how she acts around Marty when he’s in 1955. Also Kate Bosworth in ‘Win
a Date with Tad Hamilton’.

A great example of a relationship is in ‘From Here to Eternity’ where the woman (Don-
na Reed) has this social front in her environment but she responds and is interested in
the man’s natural Alpha character (Montgomery Cli� as Pvt. Prewi�). She has pride
but ultimately devotion to her man. Awesome flick by the way.

When you’re looking at photos of women in the exercise, in order to see her NATURAL
character K.I.S.S. Keep it simple (stupid) because life (naturally) essentially is.

If you’re not able to single out her natural character then just go back to the purest
ROOT of the elements that you can find (it always works); Look to the animal kingdom
if you want but it all boils down to this: SHE IS A FEMALE and you are a male (unless
you’re a female reading this).

So, be aware that she is a female...don’t look at her socially exploited status anymore
right now. Just look at and focus on the pure simple fact that she is a female and that
without you (or man) she cannot reproduce. Don’t move on to the next photo until
you can let that sink in.

She is a woman. She has breasts, a vagina, different reproductive organs than you or
I do (as men). Whether she IS a�ractive naturally or not, she is STILL a woman. This
fact can be celebrated naturally because of the natural experience you can give her but
don’t over-rate or edify her natural status more than is deserved.

Remember that our grandparents and those before them WERE natural. They didn’t
have the levels of powerful social influence coming in and throwing things way off.

The fact that you are a man should be celebrated because with that comes certain re-
sponsibilities; you are the leader, you are the king of the jungle, you are the conqueror.
She is nurturer and caretaker; this is her biological inheritance. And if you sense her
social influence is to strong, you’re probably right in that it’s going to interfere with her
‘natural’ ability to fully be that nurturer at all times.

That’s why we do have lower birthrates amongst these developed women throughout
America and the first world countries. A perfect example of that is the neighbor couple
in ‘Cheaper by the Dozen’ who have ‘one’ special kid (and the wife is leading the rela-
tionship.
Not to mention that THEIR relationship comes into jeopardy when she gains her in-
dependence going out there to promote her book and she has all these demands when
she comes home.

When viewing women for exercise, focus on her natural character alone right now. Iso-
late that fact from her inner and social character. She is a woman. She is a female no
ma�er her level of beauty. You are a male and that means you can lead her through the
process of a�raction by pure simple fact of being a male.

Defocus the socially exploited sexuality and just see her as another mammal of the op-
posite sex, pure and simple. If you don’t feel any of her natural ‘energy’ then focus on
the fact she is FEMALE.

No ma�er how ‘pre�y’ she is, her biological role is to ‘respond’ and eventually repro-
duce so until you have the inner strength to ‘be’ a strong man around her, the chances
are unlikely you’ll be with that physical calibre of woman (unless you go somewhere
where you become the social alpha).

Beauty itself is in the eye beholder and the concept differs from culture to culture
which implies that it’s a conscious/social/logical thought.

You walk into a nightclub whose environmental relationship is influenced by 1 person

(the d.j.) and what his idea of it is, is really the pure stimulus (and a really loud one at
that) and the entire social environment is CONSTRUCTED to be a response. This is
hard to work around but it can be done and how?

Be social alpha and synergize with the environment. I’m a promoter and can teach you
to be the #1 guy in that environment but don’t beat yourself up over being inconsistent
in that environment because it’s completely fake and unnatural. Aligning yourself to it
can only damage you if you don’t know the truth. Anything that looks ‘sexy’ or ‘made
up’ is all a social characteristic (even scary).
Give me a conducive ‘open’ environment and watch me work baby. A wedding party
of single girls or actual lounge with an environment that focuses on the people instead
of the stimulus-response of one person (the dj) and it makes a huge difference. Then
the truth will be seen. It’s rare to find that environment anymore in the social matrix
that isn’t socially distorted.

Aren’t people ge�ing tired of the same old stimulus-response of nightclubs where no
one can really be themselves?! And that’s coming from a promoter - me! But I know
where I stand in relation to it all. I always sleep in peace at night because I understand
what’s going on and that it doesn’t affect me either way; with a woman or without.

Third and finally we’re going to look at a woman’s inner character or her personality.
This is much more important than her social status yet guys get caught up in how sexy
or cool she looks (which is all social). Remember that she’s upholding that ideal any-
ways and doesn’t always look like that.

Have you seen photos of celebrity women with their makeup off? I have. And if they
rated a ‘10’ they became ‘8’s with their make-up off. You will become aware that make-
up is a social stimulus device meant to have men ‘respond’.

You should be able to start visualizing the women who are overdoing it (I’m not saying
Tammy Faye, what a horrid thought..I mean the ones who are using it effectively but
still vamping up themselves) and differentiating natural beauty from ‘made up’ beauty.

But we’re focusing in on a woman’s ‘inner’ beauty or personality. This is easier to see
in natural women because they’re not ‘acting’ socially. On hotornot.com go through
different countries and start picking out women who definitely have natural beauty
and those who have obvious socially (and consciously) derived character.

If she is flirting or pu�ing on a pose, then it’s a sure bet it’s her social character. Become
the auto-response to that and you lose.

It’s harder to see the real personality of the ‘social’ or ‘vamped up’ women because they
are hiding behind the facade of society. That isn’t her true self anyways (and if it re-
ally is, it’s SCARY). Learn to put her social influence aside and this ebook is once again
worth the price of admission for you.

Because then you won’t be giving her all of this added value anymore; you’ll treat her
as another real, live human being. And hopefully her real personality is that she actu-
ally IS down to to earth. Those are the kinds of women you would want a long-term
relationship with.
It’s easier to see ‘inner’ character in the Independent or career women (Prada’s).
They’re not flaunting themselves as much and they seem to be good catches. These
women have developed their inner character and have a healthier social life instead of
fake, pop tart friends (although many are crossing over to the dark side).

Think of a typical gorgeous NYC woman. This is a woman who has strong inner char-
acter and personality.

By starting with the most extreme examples or stereotypes you can begin to fully ‘see’
these characteristics in each woman more readily. The problem with Prada’s is that
they are equal to men now in Inner character (even above sometimes) so in an actual
dating ‘relationship’ there’s going to be a lot of differences of opinion (inner character
struggles between you two).

Nature is what works for the propagation of life. Society is effective intervening in
many cases from that happening. So all of this is to help you sort it out and awaken
yourself to the truth.

Ok, so back to the women. Notice the social front a Pricktease woman is pu�ing up
and how you can’t see through to the real her. You can look at music videos and if you
didn’t know any be�er you would think that the women always act this ‘high above’
everything. They can’t keep that act up and the one’s that do are very damaged psy-
chologically..it’s unnatural and unhealthy.

And look at how psychologically disturbed Mystery himself is/was for trying to align
himself to that reality.

Look at the unflaunting yet obvious Inner character of an Independent woman. The
inner character is the devil to reckon with. It is different than the shallower pop tarts
who are pu�ing their ass or tits right in front of your face online. The inner character
of an independent woman (for be�er and worse) has destroyed many men and many
families.

Character is more important in men (for a�raction) than it is in women but you still
have to understand that. A woman will not choose to be with a man of low character
across the natural, independent and social aspects unless she is really low character
herself. For a man it is more desired that we have beauty followed by niceness in a
woman. That is what ma�ers and that she will be a good nurturer.

Just an aside; if you want to raise a family and keep it together I would suggest choos-
ing a traditional or natural woman instead of an empowered, demanding woman who
has drama and will end up nagging and potentially taking more than half of your
estate.

But millions of guys continue to fall into this trap because they don’t see any other op-
tion. Marriage should be a blessing and not an ongoing compromise or ba�le. Will
Prada’s get mad at me for saying this? Yes, they already have.

But back to exercising, you want to differentiate the different characteristics and stop
overrating both her inner development and her social powerplay.

Look at a woman for who she really is, her soul; her natural and innocent character
that is somewhere still within her. The eyes are a great place to start. The more aware
of yourself you become as a man, the more you will have the intuitive powers that
women do.

Differentiating the characteristics and knowing your relationship to them will allow
you to ‘percept’ what level she is at in either of the three areas. You soon won’t be
over-rating her social development (rooted in Causality itself).

You will be able to effectively read people and their energy. You will know that even
though a woman has a seemingly wonderful inner character, it can also be your com-
plete demise because you don’t see the other half of it when put in a relationship with
you.

You should be wary of falling into that trap and becoming a ‘response’ to her control
and power.

You will be able to see huge warning signs like ‘RUN, RUN’. I can point out women
like this o�en IMMEDIATELY yet somehow my father keeps ge�ing a�racted to them.

Here’s examples of women with known ‘personalities’ or strong inner character (who
have become more like men in that fashion); Hillary Clinton, the new Chancellor of
Germany, Paula Zahn and other newsanchor women, Oprah Winfrey, etc.

As scary as it is to think about in some cases, even these women have biological func-
tions which are the same as all of the other women in the world.

Angelina Jolie. If you don’t understand her power, where it came from and that she
too still has a natural/sexual part of her, you’re going to succumb to the social influ-
ence. If you want to bed the most beautiful women in the world you cannot be afraid
of them.

The answer? You know it; relational dynamics. Understanding your relation to her
social power, her personality (or powerful state of mind) and her biology.

To get more advanced in the exercise you can start going through the thought process
of being fearless and seducing her. I have done this before as well when looking at
pictures.

I will ‘sense’ my natural character in that I know what to do (we all do, we just have to
clear away the social clu�er) and that no ma�er how beautiful she is, she will respond.
First you have to differentiate each of the 3 different aspects of her and her indepen-
dence.

Someone wrote me and mentioned that doing this is similar to the Gunwitch method
of visualizing sex with a woman. You can do this when you have control and under-
stand your relationship to her powers quite easily.

Unfortunately most guys will melt around the social character because they’ve been
conditioned to respond to her. To actually get somewhere you can visualize mating
with her natural character...take her from the social ‘fantasy’ into the natural ‘reality’.
It REALLY may not be anything like a porno and you’d best get that out of your mind
because that’s a consciously derived fantasy. You have to be the stimulus and take her
from that social character and fantasy into her natural character; that’s seduction.

See the original Italian ‘Swept Away’ and as the two get stuck on the island through
time, watch the complete change of an Alpha (developed) Inner/Socialite woman into
her natural/raw responsive character. It’s PRICELESS. OWN that movie.

A�er a while you should get good at quickly differentiating between the three different
aspects of each woman. Your own character should be growing in the process as well
and I’m not a big believer in ‘techniques’ because those are consciously derived how-
ever this is one way that you can effectively overcome your incongruencies and fear
around women and beauty so that you can actually be closer to success with them at
all times.

Remember that they can pick up your energy (when there is no social distortion) very
fast. Sometimes all some of these edified women want is just ANY man that isn’t afraid
of them and then they might choose to sleep with him and fast.

But the natural part of her ideally responds to and desires a fearless man who is high
in natural character and when you ARE that man you don’t have to keep using pick up
lines. You just have to make a connection and let her feel your energy and since you’re
playing the game ‘naturally’, it will go from there as you lead and she responds.

Remember that your success with her is consistently (NOT FOOLS MATE) determined
by her rising level of natural a�raction response to you. S.O.N.A.R.R. is the science of
natural a�raction response reality; essentially the (modern day) mating game.

To seduce women, operate on the natural level and represent your natural character to
deal with hers.

There is nothing to be afraid of because throughout nature, there is no fear in the mat-
ing process. Species would go extinct if there was fear yet now because of social influ-
ence we have 40 year old virgins who have become afraid.

They’re focusing on the socially exploited part of her character but you know be�er.
You don’t play that social game because that’s all it is; she wouldn’t be flaunting herself
if she grew up in a different social culture (that wasn’t influenced by the consumerist
socio-centric society).

You’re now seeing the real picture and yes it may mean having to hold your ground
and gently ‘pu�ing a woman’ in her place so she knows that she can’t get away with
B.S. around you.

Hey, it’s not supposed to be like that but these women have become ‘something’ else.
Deal with the natural part of her and celebrate that. I reward women who respond to
naturally because that’s what they’re supposed to do.

If a woman puts ‘you’ down socially or even for buying her a�ention, just understand
your relationship to all of that. Your power as a man is in your natural character. If
she’s seemingly got ‘it all’ and is an Aphrodite, you STILL have power over her in one
area; natural character. How?

Because you can stimulate her response by remaining high in natural character. You
can affect the natural and purely sexual part of her even if she is stronger than you in-
dependently or socially.

Return to Blue Lagoon..(hmm another island theme!)

So what favor do you have ‘naturally’ as a man? (Especially if you don’t have a chis-
eled body?) Put it this way; all the lesbians in the world can’t procreate. A woman can-
not continue her prime biological directive of being a mother WITHOUT a man/men.
That’s the balance of nature.

Nature chooses whether it’s a boy or girl and it balances out around 49 % men to 51%
women in the world. So your favor NATURALLY as a man is that you are the initiator
or ‘stimulus’ of the process of a�raction or the mating dance.

It is the role of women to respond to you and your character(istics) whether she non-
verbally senses your energy or whether you make the connection first.

If you don’t understand your relationship to all of the sexploitation you’re probably re-
ally being repressed. In fact this is why we have 40 year old virgins and that is just one
of the byproducts of sexploitation. It has created an unrealistic gender gap between
men and women because of this unearthly ideal.

We have added and edified so much unearthly value to this unnatural standard that
women will now get surgery and do anything they can do ‘synergize’ with that social
ideal. Doesn’t it almost make you feel sorry for the women who don’t come close to
meeting this social ideal?

Learn to isolate the female’s social character and put it into it’s proper place when
viewing images of women (and then in person); you’re not a part of the social ‘game’
because you’re independent from it AND you have power over her naturally.

A good gauge of whether it’s natural or social energy is quite simple, if you’re stuck..
just ask yourself if you just would want to fuck her or if you’re interested but without
the immediate desire to fuck her. This is a quick gauge of feeling out Social or Inde-
pendent (even Natural) character in women.

Be careful though because the Prada’s (or independent women) who have grown intel-
lect and a habit of being dismissive around men are more of a hidden surprise (your
long-term demise). It’s their strong Inner character which is actively thinking on the
inside and forgot how to naturally respond to men or flirt.

When you see a woman and want to immediately ‘do’ her without feeling her natural
energy, this is her social character (aligned with the matrix). This gauge is just to help
you differentiate social energy from independent or natural.

Remember that Prada’s aren’t as flaunting of themselves, they used to be the natural
women you would want. They just have a different kind of characteristic development
(inner character). This becomes fickle and judgmental towards men logically (RMA) so
you must work with the natural and emotional level.

When you’re watching these natural women in the (foreign music) videos, soak up
their (sexually transmutative) natural energy. For me, I’m not thinking about ‘sticking
it to them’ or screwing them. I’m drawing from their natural and feminine energy. It
gives me strength whereas a quick fuckable girl (like the american music video/social
matrix girls) are here one minute, gone the next.

Real men should want a woman whose positive and pure sexual/natural energy they
can CONTINUE to draw from. She is a woman they can ‘make love’ to instead of just
wanting to screw her the second they see her and then forget her.

Unfortunately so many women are socially falling into the environmental trap of be-
ing ‘prickteases’ and also unfortunately, continuing to be overrated by countless men.
Am I the ONLY one who wants to bring balance back to the force? If that’s the way it
should be, fine because I’ll represent it on national t.v.

Do you want to harness the energy which makes the world go ‘round and culminates
in sex or do you want to represent the energy which keeps you as a socio-cultural re-
sponse in order to lead you away from sex in a fantasyland where you’re a consumer
and the women remain unfulfilled (because they are social responses themselves)?

Make your choice hot shot because women still won’t get to sleeping with you unless
you have natural character or her ‘natural’ response has risen enough. You will have to
portray mostly through your body language that you aren’t afraid of her, that you are
self-centered in your energy and that you know what to do.
You can beat the system by acknowledging it’s independent awareness, differentiating
it and choosing what level of influence (if at all) you will let in to your own indepen-
dence.

If you’re American, ever notice how fat and homely women o�en are the nicest people
you will meet? These women are kind of ‘outcasts’ of the social ideal so they retained
more of their natural character.

No offense to those homelier women, but please don’t just think that those are your
only options either. You might just have to see the bigger picture and step outside of
this social matrix of influence.

The social matrix and media is sending nonstop messages every second of the day to
KEEP people involved in the social matrix. This is in the form of even an image or pic-
ture itself.

Sometimes the pre�iest ones are the most screwed up. It’s because they’ve gone the
furthest away from their natural character. Yet when they do have sex they choose the
most obvious natural character men there are; bad boys and jerks who emanate natural
character because the other men have had their natural character repressed. It’s up to
you to be the other option who is more balanced.

It’s up to YOU and you alone to step away from the ‘game’ and not only see what’s go-
ing on but get a different outlook on the world and life itself.

If and when you can get to my level of understanding of this all (you see, natural men
outside the influence can look on it and shake their heads but I’m still a part of this
culture in a sense so it takes someone like me to represent what’s going on because I
am root American and people will listen) the social matrix will almost make you sick at
times because you can clearly see a woman’s social influence and that she has become a
social byproduct just trying to fit in and other men will continue to fall for it.

It would be a relational deathtrap to try and have a real relationship with a pop-tart.
You’d get bored a�er sleeping with her enough times because that’s all you’re doing
mentally anyways when you see her. You just want to fuck her.

And Prada’s get even more ‘you’re beautiful’, ‘you’re wonderful’, ‘you’re so far above
me’ type behavior from men than pop tart prickteases. You think you want a relation-
ship with them but do you know that it will be two stars colliding and that everyday
will be a relational power struggle in which your character must be repressed to allow
room for hers?!

When you can see the social matrix (or ‘forced reality’) you will WANT to get away
from it and even step outside of it to travel around the world and experience much
more natural and real women. You’ll understand that these idolized women (Prick-
teases) are actually really screwed up on the inside because they have become social
byproducts.

I have seen natural women come to the United States, get ‘corrupted’ (in a sense) and
more socialized as a response to our culture to fit in and I shake my head like Rafiki.
They were more of a catch before they wanted to fit in so I give props to the women
who DON’T want to become like the American ideal.

Cultural differentiation was the one thing that allowed me to finally pinpoint the oth-
erwise invisible social matrix. In fact countless millions of people don’t even know it
exists because it is ALL around them and it’s ALL that they know. They are stuck in
the matrix and oh it is GOOD and keeping them in it.

That’s why so many American’s literally aren’t even aware of other cultures (or even
care), because they’re so stuck up in the busy-ness of the new messages that the sourc-
es send down.

A�er all it’s what we know and there’s always something ‘new’ everyday to respond
to. There’ll always be the next ‘hot thing’ socially.

If you bring a foreign wife into a first world country I would strongly recommend get-
ting rid of the T.V. if you haven’t already. You want to have a relationship for what you
saw in her first; not the social byproduct she can become.

Remember, these women actually DO have this a�itude much of the time so you re-
ally HAVE TO know your relationship to it..that’s the only real answer. Know where it
came from and understand your relationship to it.
Unlike other experts, I will NOT put the blame on you when you enter a relationship
with this woman who is ALREADY developed like this. It ISN’T your fault for her ha-
bitual behavior even though she is still the response in a�raction.

That’s more pressure on you when there are other elements and characteristics in-
volved long term.

Her response relationship to men here is completely jaded in the fact that she will turn
back to her causally rooted (and un-natural) stimulus ways because it’s habitual.

You should not have to turn into an asshole in order to ‘tame her’ if you’re around her
too much like other experts essentially imply to scold her behavior.

You might have to NOT have a longer relationship in the first place. YOU’RE NOT AT
FAULT FOR HOW THEY ARE. I’m saying the BLAME ISN’T on you alone. But you
have to know how to work around it.

You’re taking a part in the social process of a�raction when you ‘respond’ to this beau-
ty or when in person to this part of a woman’s character. And that’s why you (and I
before) have failed. It’s not what women want but the pressure of social influence is so
strong, they’ll keep doing it.

The clothes she wears, the makeup, the bitchy look, the a�itude, the vamped up and
exploited sexuality is all her just trying to climb the social hierarchy like society pro-
motes.

I talk a lot about Jewel (who does have talent but sold out) in the video portion; here
look at the other girls and how prevalent their social character is.
She gets free meals, rides, a�ention and silver pla�er service so why not use and ex-
ploit this sexual currency?! (she thinks)..a�er all ‘everyone else is doing it’ or ‘of course
i should’ or ‘I’ll have more power if I do, so why not? It should a�ract more guys.’

Yeah...and keeps on a�racting them until it’s all blown out of proportion.

It starts around the time of high school and only grows worse. Compare the cliques
and strong social hierarchy of high school to a uniformed, traditional school. Now I
understand and respect what these traditional schools were doing. I talk more about
this in my Men’s Guide to Women (which will help you understand more of the social
matrix and where it came from).

Sexploitation of society and our women falling into that trap: Don’t fall for it. Be in-
dependent from it. See it for what it really is and understand your relationship to it.
She’s waving her ass right in front of you I want you to see what’s really going on and
for what it is. She’s just caving in to social pressure because now everyone else is doing
it too.

How to conquer your ‘uncontrollable’ response is something we’re working on. It’s
been uncontrollable because you didn’t have control; you were allowing yourself to BE
a conditioned ‘response’ to that stimuli. Take control, know your relationship to it and
you won’t be the response anymore.

Ok, she can have a ‘10’ ass for your sexual/natural character but her inner character
is saying ‘my ass is TOO fat’ (insecurity) and the social part is telling her shallowly to
wave it in front of guys and flaunt it to get yourself some a�ention and raise your own
social status by ge�ing some social approval by exploiting your sexuality (a power
much greater than your inner character).

You MUST be able to differentiate these areas clearly and you should already be doing
this. If you’re distracted by her beauty or sexiness you’re not differentiating yet and it’s
not going to help you. You HAVE TO isolate the different aspects of who she is (and
FAST) if you’re not already alpha in natural character like I am.

You will reach a certain point where you just instinctively ‘get it’ without having to
differentiate. This can be called unconscious competence but in training and ge�ing
there, go through the exercises and keep differentiating the three characteristics of each
woman.

If you are just continuing to see and respond to (your perception of) her beauty, you’re
not going to stand a chance with her. Why? Because you are giving her this socially
connected ‘added value’ and placing her as the stimulus. You as a man MUST be the
stimulus in the game of a�raction.

This is why she chooses bad boys and jerks, they’re not le�ing all of this social influ-
ence get in the way of their own natural character so they are remaining the stimulus.
She wants a balanced Prince Charming ideally but will take the closest thing to it for
sexual relationships. You can be a man who is more than just a jerk and she won’t
want to let you go.

When looking at women in photos, video, music video, t.v., or in person and her be-
haviour and energy is that she expects men to fall down before her, or that she is obvi-
ously accentuating and exploiting her sexual nature then she is trying to be (or being)
the stimulus (‘look at me and if you do i’ll hate you for it, buy me this and that’, etc.)
which society says you are supposed to respond to.

If on the other hand she is being humble, demure, smiling (not acting) and happy you
should compliment her.

(Yes, Parker Posey is still somewhat real! duh)

Millions of women have even forgot how to flirt because they don’t do it anymore and
being a pricktease is not the natural process of a�raction. That is the SOCIAL process
of a�raction.
Remember that a beautiful woman’s sexuality and her social use to exploit it are both
powers that are greater than her own personality. They are leveraged. Your power
over that is your natural character (no ma�er your level of inner game or social status).

And guys just don’t get it. They’ll keep falling for these venus flytraps because all they
see is tits and blonde hair. These are women that o�en couldn’t keep and hold down a
long-term relationship if they tried. Why? They’ve become too socially oriented and
grown away from their natural role as nurturer.

In fact, once you got to actually know her inner personality and real character you
might wish you had NEVER met her. See why it’s important to see relational dynam-
ics and the TRUTH? You want to see her for who she really is; not who society expects
you to ‘respond’ to in order to get you to be influenced and buy products.

These women are just falling in line with that to raise their own social status for a�en-
tion and approval. You don’t need any self-validation from other sources...it is ALL
within. Keep in mind I’m talking about the ‘most’ socially approved and beautiful
women.

When you see a girl’s ass blatantly in your face as an online photo, think about how
far we have got (degraded in a way) socially for this to now be acceptable. When you
have sex with a woman it’s only with her natural character; it’s emotional, it’s not logi-
cal or ‘thought out’.

Building rapport is independent/inner/personality synergy between a man and a wom-

an. A�raction itself is purely the natural/biological characteristics between a man and
a woman that are synergizing. When a woman says ‘chemistry’, it’s mostly an intuitive
emotion or feeling which is her sexual/biological nature responding to a certain man
(who is high in natural character).

It is not her social (or ‘logical’) brain who is making that decision. She could socially
or logically choose to sleep with nice guys but she is not a�racted to them because they
are low in character therefore she can’t ‘respond’ to them or get the ‘click’ or synergy
of ‘chemistry’ with him. And once she didn’t get it shortly a�er meeting him, the guy
probably doesn’t have a chance anymore.

How do you make a woman feel a�racted to you? Is it something you say? Is it the car
you drive? No. Those are all social devices. It’s who you are; it’s your current level of
natural character (which had be�er not drop) when you around her.

A woman can have social expectations and she’ll look for that in a guy but if you want
to succeed with women sexually then focus on your natural character the most. That is
where you are biologically like a magnet when you have high character.

Sometimes with these socially influenced women you will quite o�en just have to
break through their own social distortion that is ge�ing in the way but once they can
see that you are that man in there, then you’re good. So you have to hold your ground
and BE high in character even though they don’t respond the way they should (like
more natural women do).

I reward women who respond to me naturally. What does this mean? I know that as a
man I have power over women...I have the power to initiative their physiological at-
traction response in relationship to me and my character/energy.. Seek out their natural
character and energy.

So...when a girls flaunting her TITS or ASS..

HELLO...this is just her social character.
If you can’t differentiate it (natural is where YOU have the power) you’ll continue to
flounder. And that’s the only answer -the sage

And remember that your version of a woman’s beauty when it comes to sexual a�rac-
tion is your natural character. It’s your level of confidence, self-control, authority, inde-
pendence, lack of insecurities in any environment especially in response to a beautiful
woman.

If you are comfortably congruent and there is no social distortion, her a�raction re-
sponse to you will rise even if you aren’t that good-looking. Learn to see and differen-
tiate a woman’s energies and it will help you remain strong in character especially in
relation to her.

Notes:

I can sense energy when I meet women. I have around a 50% accuracy ratio in guess-
ing where someone is from (country). Also another li�le secret; GEOGRAPHY. What?!
Yep, geography. It’s how I ‘open’ most of my sets or approach and talk to new people
or women.

Especially if I sense their energy is non-American (and I can tell) then I will especially
want to talk to them to find out where they’re from and where they’ve been...I’m just
being ‘social’. So if you want to really expand your options of building rapport and
synergy, know some geography.

I recommend (ideally) learning all the capitals of the countries in the world and know
generally where each country is. This will take you a long ways and it also shows that
you are a cultured and interesting man because you already have made a connection
with them and know something about them FAST.

Perfect example; walking through the v.i.p. section of a lounge/club and the Ameri-
can blonde women are stuck up in their own energy ignoring me and there’s this li�le
Asian girl who drops her jaw when she sees me. It’s not my looks; it’s the whole pack-
age (my character).

I instantly knew she wasn’t American or been here long. Why? Because she wasn’t
socially distorted like the other women were. She is a woman who would be a prize
for the long-term (provided she doesn’t stay here too long and get more socially cor-
rupted).

So she dropped her jaw (like she should have) when she saw me in a strong physio-
logical response. This tells me that she is quite natural because she is sensing my pure
energy and closer to my soul whereas the other women can’t anymore.

That’s why it takes longer with these Westernized women to develop a�raction; social
distortion and influence has been interfering from their own natural process of a�ract-
ing men.
 Chapter 37

How to Differentiate Inner Character

The audio and video training on this is excellent but let’s take a look here.

‘Inner Character’ in women..

This is basically her state of mind, personality, interests and taste in clothing or style.
Keep in mind that the more developed she is, the less likely she may end up in a real
relationship with you because you don’t want to deal with daily drama (that’s up to
you).

It’s easy to pick out these Independent women. These aren’t the ones who are out their
being pop tarts and flaunting their sexuality. These are the more discreet ones who
many would think have ‘everything’ a guy could want. They’re smart, beautiful, edu-
cated and know what they want.

The best way to start is by picking the stereotypical examples so you are aware of this
‘character’ and then take it from there. Think of really independent women. Their pri-
mary energy is their inner character. It has been allowed to develop within the social
matrix so that now these women rival men in many areas including intellect and pro-
ductivity.

It’s important for you to understand that independent women who aren’t flaunting
themselves like prickteases but still dress well, are dominant in Inner character. If she
takes control, is bossy, states her mind, is demanding you will definitely know she has
this inner character. She doesn’t even have to be like that.

Eva Mendes in Hitch is the perfect example. Cosmopolitan magazine is the Bible of
Independent women or Prada’s. They are smart, cultured, career-oriented and can take
care of themselves. But you must know where you stand in relation to this or you will
forever be stuck in a loop of fateful, powerless mistakes.
This ‘Inner’ character CAN be differentiated and therein lies your hope and power.
Just like you have characteristic a�ributes that define who you are and how you think;
so do women.

However, no ma�er the level of development she has had (and represents in front of
you), she was still a byproduct of her social environment in the first place which AL-
LOWED HER to ‘develop’ as such.

She would probably never acknowledge the truth in that she could ever ‘be’ anyone
else than who she is (and you may not either); that is dead wrong. Causality and but-
terfly effect is at the root of everything; about ALL nurture and development.

If Oprah didn’t grow up in a culture where there were these levels of opportunities,
she wouldn’t be who she is today. If she was born in Indonesia for example, she just
wouldn’t have eventually grown to be who she is. That’s just one representative ex-
ample.

It’s important to discern this characteristic that makes a woman ‘unique’ but to know
that when it comes to seduction, it’s o�en ge�ing in her OWN way of sexual (natural)
fulfillment.

Her inner and logical character will dictate what she wants (sociologically) but it’s her
NATURAL character that is the true response.
So don’t over-rate her intellect or ever place her above you; you deserve beauty in your
life and must always remain the stimulus. Let them respond and be a�racted to you.
Finding and differentiating her inner character (if it’s not OBVIOUS already) is best
done during the rapport phase where you just find out a li�le about her to overcome
basic niceties before ge�ing to sex (in most cases).

You’ll find that if you’re in an actual dating relationship with one of these women that
they will inherently make a lot of the decisions about what the both of you are going to
do. I dated two women like this who I kind of just sat back and lowered my character
so that they could ‘be independent’. That was years ago.

Don’t ever fall second-rate for her sake too. Unfortunately it may mean HAVING to
put these women in their place because society took them away from their natural
roots. If you don’t, they WILL lose a�raction for you.

You don’t want to become the ‘manny’ of the house do you with your glorious wife
leading the family to fulfill her social ideals, do you?

Think about it and think about all of the ‘added value’ that you’ve given these women
so far. You haven’t seen the other side of them and many who have KEEP falling for
the same trap by ge�ing into new relationships with Prada’s.

When dealing with an Inner driven women, she has to feel she knows you a li�le bit
so respect her qualities but do NOT over-rate them or be in fascinated awe of ‘what a
catch’ she is.

If you find her so fascinating and are blinded by her level of intellect, etc. you risk put-
ting her as the stimulus and even at 51% of the power and favor in the relationship and
she’ll still lose interest in you.

You can remain for the most part an enigma or mystery but find out a li�le bit about
her on your follow-up date. Find out what she represents, what her interests and
tastes are. And just know that she is different from you and she can never change your
knowledge of what you already know and love even if she disacknowledges it.

Distinguish the inner character (personality, opinions, viewpoints, goals, level of intel-
lectual development, etc.) in every woman you encounter but know your relationship
to it and you’ll be fine. Prickteases have a lower inner character (sorry girls) than Pra-
da’s do.

I would say almost the entire seduction industry is focused on bedding prickteases
(social character women). There is very li�le out there on the Cosmo type Prada’s that
have more to offer (until here).

Even so, it’s up to you to KNOW these characteristics and your relationship to them.
No ma�er how ‘developed’ a woman is, she is still ‘real’. She has an internal character
that is truly feminine and non-threatening (believe it or not).

You can appreciate a woman’s level of development TRULY but only a�er you reach
a level of cognition and grounding such as through Alpha R.D...otherwise you would
continue to skew it out of relational proportion and ‘never get any’ except for a rare
fools mate.
 Chapter 38

How to Differentiate Natural Energy

In the women that you have been programmed to respond to and lust a�er, it’s going
to be difficult to find their natural energy/character because it’s been covered up so
well. One thing you can do is visualize an essence of purity and responsiveness in the
shape of a red glowing ball of energy near her heart.

Now imagine that it’s been covered up with layers of ice that protect it very well. It’s a
special ice that can only melt as a response to men who can get to it, those who can see
through her protective/developed outer persona.

Just know that it does exist and it is there. She has desires and dreams to and it will
rarely happen by her continuing to play the social games she does. Yes, the social ma-
trix has influenced women to have many new opportunities but has all but taken away
the most important one; romance, love, and lust fulfillment.

Now, the icy and developed woman usually a�racts jerks because all of the other men
are drop in character when they see her and thus ‘respond’ to her. The jerk deals with
the natural energy within her or by default doesn’t care and is acting so ‘alpha’ that she
her energy finds it’s way out of the cold exteriors.

If most ‘nice guys’ and healthy catches could be grounded in the fact that their natu-
ral character was born to trigger HER response to them, they would be fine. You have
been dealing with her Inner and Social development and that is your demise. Aphro-
dite’s especially are a cold case.

You’re one way in is their ‘weak’ spot; their natural, pure and innocent core that is deep
within them. If you ‘play’ the game any other way than natural you’re delaying effec-
tiveness and she’ll likely lose interest anyways or not view you as an a�raction.

Note: this ‘weak’ spot is not to be abused or taken advantage of...keep everything win/
win and you’ll be fine. I only say ‘weak’ because a woman’s exercise of it in reality is
weak in comparison to her habitual inner and social behavior. Fantasizing with a vi-
brator is just creating a more separate ideal instead of a real one.

Look; REAL FEMININE ENERGY IS NOT THREATENING.

When you experience real feminine energy - her true, innocent and humble natural
character..you’re not overwhelmed by the prospect of sex with her. Around natural
women, you actually feel somewhat complacent at times about the idea of sex and they
want to give it to you more to hold onto you.

It’s this natural energy and spirit which are lasting. She will ensure sex with you to
keep you around. This true natural character is o�en the OPPOSITE of her social char-
acter, so know that and deal with it.

If her true sexual energy was threatening to men, she herself would be risking the
chance of her seed dying out with no procreation.

I want to show you a perfect example of true feminine natural energy here AND she’s
an entertainer:
 h�p://www.welovepalmy.net/special.htm

Check out those video clips and start to feel how real and pure she is. Other women
should be envious of her purity. She’s half thai and half belgian. She’s not the pre�iest
girl in the world but her natural character almost blinds you to it.

She hasn’t sold out her social character at all like any of these other women you have
probably edified daily have.

You can only get a sampling here (remember ‘extrapolation’) so I recommend you or-
der those video cd’s from www.ethaicd.com if you don’t have my bonus package.

What is happening to a large extent today with many women is that they have lost
touch with their pure and natural character because of the new social reality; which
has crusted more programming on top of it. Birth rates HAVE dropped too in these
countries yet continue onward in more natural countries (ie. throughout Africa).

In essence, this ‘icy’ and unnatural behavior is ‘scaring off’ men because they o�en
want nothing other than a quick lay with them. Naturally men were more the threat-
ening ones in the sense of being able to protect and provide for his mate.

Social influence is the causal root of jeopardizing their own repression and potentiality
of procreation. This conditioned disillusioning of making you think that you’re ‘lucky’
to ‘get some’ is ridiculous...it’s all a social device. YOU’RE the one with the power.

Put more focus and visualization onto the end result and state where you take this
porn style ‘social’ character and tame it with her non-threatening, innocent response.
Yes, this part of her is vulnerable and that’s why she has to trust you (to be a man). Re-
spect that part of her ALWAYS when you can differentiate it.
So if you want to succeed with the women who are socially edified, apply R.D. and
know your relationship to each of her energies. Practically, her natural energy is (for
example) when she is kissed and slips into a different state of mind; her social pro-
gramming will fade away.

You may not be able to see it with a lot of these women because they aren’t pure and
innocent in natural energy all of the time but just know that you can bring it out of
them by remaining a man of high character. Ultimately you want to take a woman to
her pure natural state of being during seduction and sex.

You’ll be able to tame the wildest of women when you deal with her natural character.
This is your power and by harnessing your natural energy/character you’ll be able to
deliver.

To help bring it out of her you absolutely must isolate her at some point where she is
out of the influence of social environments. Remember that she will be a response to
those environments which o�en put her as a stimulus.

Get her alone as soon as possible and away from her friends (respectfully) or meet up
with her somewhere where the environment is neutralized so she can fully focus on
you and your character/energy without the B.S. of playing her social game.

Then you’ll start to see her for who she really is and o�en she’ll become nervous be-
cause she doesn’t have the crutch of high social status and you’re a comfortable man so
there is no choice but to trust in you.

Being aware that she does INDEED have a natural character by default (biologically) is
proof enough; it’s all you have to know. Just operate with her on that level by not over-
edifying her other characteristics because you will rarely get to sex otherwise.

A lot of the social ‘alpha’ women are quire insecure but you are the ROCK. Be her
escape and tap into her natural character. That’s what she will respond to and open up
to for sex itself once you can get past her socially derived ‘front’.

Seek the natural character out and put aside everything else because you know your
relationship to it. Now you can flirt and tease fearlessly and you’ll start bringing her
natural character and real smile out of her instead of the prickteasing one. Neutralize
the environment and the magic will start to happen.

KNOW THIS: (Again) ALL women have a natural character and feminine energy to
them. Just the same as you were born with a natural masculine character.

Everything else is primarily a product of ‘nurture’ or their social and environmental in-
fluences (and we know where THAT stems from). Remember she would be a different
social creatures if she grew up in another culture; she’d probably be more in touch with
her own femininity and responsiveness.

And being a man who is high in natural character, you’ll find that you know what to
do (esp. because she’s helping you now when in natural character) but the objective is
to get her to your place within 2 dates (a whole different topic).

When you have sex with a woman you will see a whole different side of her, so why
not just play the game naturally in the first place by only dealing with her natural char-
acter and disacknowledging her social status/games?!

Ground yourself in masculine and feminine natural energy so that you understand it,
bring it into focus and can isolate it from the inner and social character of any woman
and you will be a modern day Casanova.

Go through the video exercises to be�er understand how to differentiate her natural
character. And ground yourself in natural energy from the sources I give you and
you’ll be able to have a level of intuition that is acutely aware and can find it within
people and women.

Then you can cherish it, bring it out of her (naturally, teasingly and playfully) and
she’ll be seduced by you.
 Chapter 39

How to Differentiate Social Character

This is an expansion upon what we already talked about on this

This one is quite easy to differentiate and you can pinpoint it immediately in so many
women, yet it is the one thing that holds the power of being a stimulus that men con-
tinue to respond to.

Master differentiating this and it will open up your sex life. You should almost get
bored with the social character of women. A�er all, it’s just this one GREAT BIG
FRONT, that is covering up her true character.

It’s easiest to just go straight to the pop tarts who epitomize ‘social’ character. You
can learn the most by studying the most pure source of this characteristic. Log onto
myspace.com and browse; just browse. Your power once again (as always) is in know-
ing and believing your relationship to that.

Social character can be differentiated just like inner and natural character can be. If
they can be differentiated then they are independent in that right and you can hence-
forth clarify your relationship to the root of that element.

Instead of over-rating and continuing to edify or ‘add value’ to a woman’s social char-
acter, you’ll realize that the entire representation of it is a byproduct of the social ma-
trix itself. The system designed to make billions of dollars by having men ‘respond’ to
the exploitation of her sexuality.

This is all social development and doesn’t exist in nature. If she looks all sexed up and
is a pricktease or flaunting herself, it’s too easy to differentiate it.
That’s her social character and it’s nearly impenetrable to men who remain the drooling
response to her.

You know that you are the stimulus in a�raction (I’m talking the a�raction/mating
process that actually LEADS to sex) and there is no other way; and that’s your million
dollar ticket.

Understand your relationship to her social character is one in which you don’t fall into
the social matrix’ game anymore, you have natural power over her in that you know
how to have the hidden natural part of her respond. Think of it as a gi� that you can
give to women, having them get in touch with their natural character.

They’ll drop the social act and ‘respond’..this is what they really want (and they some-
times hate that they have to follow this social influence and peer pressure). The video’s
will really help you ‘get’ this part because this is the major link to your success and also
why other guys won’t succeed; differentiating her social character.

Remember that her social character (tight clothes, make-up, lipstick, a�itude, dyed hair
and enhanced breasts) is rooted in social influence which is the opposite of nature and
she has become an unknowing pawn or player in the great social game of sexploitation
for the profit of the people at the top.
She would be a different person entirely if she grew up in a culture which didn’t make
it ‘ok’ to exploit a woman’s sexuality. Root yourself in natural character and deal with
her on that level or you won’t stand a chance because by default all men are the re-
sponse to these women unless he is rare enough to deal with her on the natural level.

This is your key to massive success dude so differentiate her social character immedi-
ately and go through the (video) cognition, differentiation and exercise so that you’re
rooted in it and you’ll become not only a lot more comfortable in your own skin, you’ll
actually be able to handle these women and seduce them.

So, once you are aware of those energies and can consistently pick them out and are
grounded in your relationship to them (applies across all women), then you will be
able to just remain your true independent self around women (hmm..like you were
supposed to).

Remember that our grandparents were natural in character/energy and didn’t have to
deal with the powerful forces of social influence as we have now.

The reason so many guys fail all the time (even great catches) is because they’re not be-
ing themselves anymore right when they meet the woman; they’re dropping in charac-
ter even if they were a great guy and they’ve placed her as the stimulus through their
own body language and words.

This is the pure roots we’re talking about yet fortunately it actually does cover ‘what to
do’. Once you change on the inside and are able to NOT drop in character in response
to that superhot girl standing across the room (because you understand your indepen-
dence and your relationship to her 3 energies), you’ll have ‘control’ over yourself.

You’ll be light years ahead of the competition even above much be�er looking guys.
You’ll also be ahead of guys studying just about any other dating program out there as
well.

Think of it as a simple stimulus-response relationship because that’s what it is. No

ma�er a woman’s social conditioning and the behavioral reality (including her actual
social status position), if you put her above you or as the stimulus in the relationship
through your physiological or verbal behavior, she will lose interest or let nothing hap-
pen from the get go.

Your key to fearlessness is understanding your relationship to the 3 feminine energies

and that is all. Your power (which is much much greater than your own Inner and So-
cial character) lies in your natural character; it overrides all of her 3 character/energies.

In women, the 3 energies and characteristics CAN be differentiated. In the video train-
ing, I further teach you to see and sense the female characteristics or energies and I
ground you in your relationship to them.

If you weren’t aware of them, then by default you would likely continue to be the pro-
grammed ‘response’ to the stimulus of the ‘added value’ that society has placed with
great leverage on these women that fall in line to promote their interests (profit).

Ironically, it’s not what women want because the whole system is destroying relation-
ships with great people. It’s up to you to operate independently of that B.S. because
you know the truth and you’ll use it to give these women what they really want; unfor-
ge�able experiences with a man of high character.

I can’t say it enough:

Differentiate and understand her energies and your relationship to them, ground your-
self in it (and your natural energy) and you will be able to handle or seduce the most
beautiful women in the world including diva’s, actresses or models given the undis-
torted opportunity.

If you find yourself slipping into the old conditioned ‘response’, remember that you
are the stimulus.

Re-center your energy by being aware of it and remembering your natural roots and
then sense her energies and remember your relationship to them at that you are the
one with power and without power you wouldn’t have a real chance with her.
Do whatever it takes to be able to differentiate the energies/characteristics of women
and understanding your relationship to them. It may be the most priceless thing you
have ever done because it will put you on a level of being able to handle and seduce
them with ease (once you meet them in a conducive environment). You are the same
high character man, before, during and a�er you meet ANY hot women.

Remember also that women are the ‘response’ so they’ll more easily adapt to their
social environment. As a man it’s up to you to HANDLE IT. Thank God you’re here
because you’re one of the few men with the guts and impetus to take care of things.

You don’t put on your ‘game face’ because you are content; you already know and un-
derstand your relationship to all women and their three different response characteris-
tics so nothing can throw you off. And you’ll easily be able to put them into their place
if they give you drama by le�ing them know that you don’t accept it or flaky behavior.

Because of your power and because you have become what women want, you’re not
afraid to dump girls for their behavior if it isn’t adding value to your life. It’s up to
you to lead as a man and when you are close to NIS alpha you can rest easier anyways
because you can always start new relationships very fast because you have the charac-
teristics that women want.

They’re literally lined up to meet a guy like you. It’s up to you to KNOW your relation-
ship to their energies once again because if you don’t you will start ge�ing bu�erflies
in your stomach and your knees will get weak at just how hot she is.

The answers all lie within Relational Dynamics; your relationship to her 3 characteristic
energies and representation.

Even the new ‘Miss World’ from Czech Republic looks like the popular American ‘so-
cial matrix’ standard

Bad boys, outcasts and jerks intuitively know their relationship to her characteristics
in that they don’t give a damn..they’re going to be their independent selves no ma�er
what.

For the rest of us (who were massively under the influence of the forced reality), differ-
entiating the feminine energies is how we can re-gain our true Alpha behavior to give
women what they really want (a real man who remains the stimulus of a�raction) and
without being a jerk.

Use the audio and video training to really let this SINK IN and ‘see it’ for yourself to
change your reality by being grounded in relational truth.
 Chapter 40

Tri-Characteristic Differentiation & Grounding

The video training is very important but I wanted to have this in writing a bit as well.

When you see a woman’s body that is naked in a photo teasing you or whatever. The
first thing I want you to do is cover up her face and JUST see her body. I want this to
soak in (don’t mind do ya?) and a�er a while you’ll be able to defocus her face despite
whatever pricktease look she’s giving.

She’s exploiting her body for you to look, so enjoy the look but learn to actualize your
relationship to her and then everything will be like a candyland.

A�er all, ALL of these women are biologically female (I hope!) and you’re biologically
MALE. You know that you can stick your dick in them so just look at it on the natural
level. Why not deserve some of the best? There are no limits and when you believe
that you DO deserve the best, you’ll broaden your horizons and be congruent around
those women (when fully applying R.D.).

Denying that they are beautiful or sexy is a dangerous thing..no, just understand your
RELATIONSHIP to it and their power.

Now to help differentiate her natural character I want you to just note her feminine fea-
tures. Her hips, her breasts, her pussy area. Now think of these purely as reproduc-
tive tools. Now, think about yourself.

Note your absence of any of these features (I hope!). You may even want to check in
your pants just to get the point across. Now you can say it however you want (as long
as no one else is around):

“I have a dick. You have a pussy.” or

“I am a man. You are a woman.” “You cannot ever have kids without a man (me).” or
“You can’t procreate without me”

“Those things that I made fun of in grade school (your breasts) are nothing to be afraid
of anymore at all either..”
 “Once we can get past the logic (and B.S.) in your head, the things I’m going to do to
your body for your benefit..”

“I’m be�er than your vibrator because I’m a real man and you know that’s what you
want the most; the real thing and I’ve got it”

“My dick goes there, even there!” “You are pregnant for 9 months and have to go
through labor while I keep going about my business.”

“What on earth am I afraid of? Is it your body? No. In fact, I’m never afraid once I
start kissing and making out because it’s a natural process. I love your body and re-
spect it..I want to please you. I know that if I was afraid of your body there is no way
you’d let me that close anyways.”

“You are not ‘above’ me because you are woman, in fact in the natural order I am
above you.”

What this is clearly doing (which will sink in more through time) is helping you to
realize your relationship to her natural character (or body) and your natural character
focusing on your pure sexual differences and reproductive abilities.

This may seem redundantly obvious to you but it’s an important part of truly becom-
ing fearlessly congruent so uphold the integrity of this exercise and learn to look at a
woman’s body and understand your different relationship to it.

Get this: The Natural (and fearless) act of SEX is called; SEX. It’s about stimulus-re-
sponse, anticipation and synergy between a man and a woman. Everyone can ‘do it’
even without any teaching necessary (Return to Blue Lagoon) because it is the pure
essence of life itself.

All you have to do to get a woman to sex is raise her F.A.R.M. (it’s in the charts) to the
point where she HAS TO have you (her natural biology THANK GOODNESS over-
rides her socially influenced logic).

As a natural you ARE fearless because you wouldn’t be having sex if you had fear. In
the past it’s melted away during an inconsistent history as you fell into your natural
character and she fell into her elevated natural ‘response’ (overtaking logic).

The only thing you have to fear is not finishing this ebook and missing out on your
true power! But what you have feared in the past is the exploitation of a woman’s
sexuality which is all SOCIAL. Nowhere else in nature is it (or can it) be exploited like
humans can do.

Keep things simple; you and her...deal with the power game upfront by applying Al-
pha R.D. and knowing your relationship to her characteristics so you can be equal and
mono-a-mono.

The actions you take from here on out (based on your thoughts) will determine your
future habits and will change and influence your entire lifestyle and destiny.

Do not underestimate the power of a positive step in the right direction. Your success
and ability to have success with women (when you choose) should compound once
you get all of your areas handled (R.D.).

Now, compare women you’re intimidated by vs. women you’re not. Let’s go with dif-
ferent cultures and more natural vs. matrix

8’s vs. 10’s

9’s vs. 10’s

Since her natural character is the only place and time that SEX ITSELF happens (not
the prickteasing which you MUST be able to differentiate), you can visualize escalating
her natural character by playing with her pussy (always works)...YOU have the power
here.

You have the power to give her an uncontrollable, undeniable ethereal psycho-sexual,
physiological experience (esp. as NIS alpha). YOU have the power. All these women
who are exploiting their sexuality for higher social status and a�ention/’power’ will
RESPOND to the few men that can see beyond it and deal with their actual sexual/nat-
ural nature and not it’s economic version (you’re a powerless or confused wimp if you
don’t see through it).

If you deal with her where she has the power socially (even though you don’t buy into
it), it will still be a struggle and challenge. You have to deal with her on the NATURAL
level; this is where YOU have the power and ability to make her respond and melt
away all of the pretentious B.S. of her social persona and it’s overt sexploitation.

Differentiate and realize your power and you will be THE MAN (and without being a
jerk). I should have charged more for this!

You HAVE the power naturally as a man over her. She may seem to socially if you
continue to buy into it but you’ll be able to see right through it all FOR HER BENEFIT.
Someone give me a Pulitzer already or something.

Why would you be afraid of any woman’s body or intimidated by it? Get this straight
now. Covering their faces up, if you’re still afraid of a woman’s body and don’t under-
stand your relationship to it, keep working on it now.

DON’T go back to studying pick up lines for goodness sake. This is everything that
ma�ers right here...it all stems from your natural character or everything else is a waste
of time.

What is it exactly that’s thrown you off before? We have to isolate that. More than
likely it’s been her social development (personality, a�itude) or her socio-sexual exploi-
tation or her social status itself. It’s NOT been her body. Dude, this is EVERYTHING
right here. Get this and the information will be priceless..you wouldn’t be able to sell it
to anyone.

Note the similarities between all of these women; it’s the fact that they are women. All
of their ‘differences’ as far as personality, a�itude, intimidation, or social status/power
is just added on top of her pure biological nature. Sure some women may be ‘natu-
rally’ sexier (of higher caliber and desired for procreation) than others but even that is
nothing to be afraid of.

It’s your logic that spurred increased emotion and ‘added value’ to blow it ALL out of
proportion. I mean, don’t you want to ‘mate’ with the best? Then you’d be�er realize
that you fully deserve that part of a woman’s pure natural being.

You want to get to know a woman for her roots; NOT her social level of distortion or
response. It’s natural character to value and prize the most in a woman followed by
independent (her personality) with social the least important. What do most guys do
who are still stuck in the (influence of) the social matrix?

They ABSOLUTELY hands down value a woman’s social status and exploitation over
her natural and inner character. They are pawns in the big social game and it’s not
even what women want!

It’s all a complete objectification anyways. And when they find a woman who is a
superstar ‘personality’ or strong inner character, they are still thrown off because they
don’t understand their relation to that.

A man must know where he stands and his relationship to all of it if he ever hopes to
realistically be able to ‘handle’ any level of woman.
Let me restate this one as well; I value women first and foremost for their natural char-
acter. That’s what I’m looking for (for long-term hands down). Other guys have it
backwards and that’s why they’re so screwed up; they’re valuing her illusional ‘social’
character.

I reward women who respond to me naturally (because I am now NIS alpha) and that’s
what they are supposed to do but I make it worth their while and will let them know
in some way.

I know that there is that natural and true feminine character within all of these women
and the art of seduction is reaching through to that. It’s easier when you know it’s
there in the first place and you can see through to that part of them (even when they
don’t ‘respond’ upfront).

Grounding yourself in the tri-characteristic reality is so important. No ma�er how

exploited or developed their Inner or Social character is, it’s the Natural character that
ma�ers.

For short-term physical relationships, once you are grounded in your relationship (af-
ter differentiating the 3 characteristics), then you KNOW that what really ma�ers (and
the path to sex) is her natural character.

When you really apply the video training (and audio) you will be able to be playful
and seductive around the strongest of women without ever being thrown off. You can
start teasing them playfully like a disaffected 007.

And you have the character to back it up because you’re grounded in your relationship
to anything she could represent.

The video training will really help to get you cognitive and then grounded in differen-
tiating these female characteristics. You’ll know your true relationship to them so you
won’t be thrown off and then can operate with any woman on earth without having
her sway your energy.

SO...when you ‘know’ your relationship to her and the 3 behavioral characteristics she
represents, you’ll be able to be comfortable in your own skin and retaining of your en-
ergy.

A�er going through the training enough and differentiating around women ‘live’,
you’ll be able to get to the point like me where you fully ‘know’ your relationship to all
three of characteristics. The tri-characteristic differentiation is just meant as training
wheels to get you to that congruent cognition in behavior.

Then you’ll be able to connect with women at anytime because there is no more fear;
it’s up to you! And I do encourage ge�ing around women during the training as you
progress to see the differences. Guys email me all the time saying how they’re chang-
ing and that’s just from the email list.

It’s important to approach but now, when you do it will count a LOT more.

That’s other training from that point but really, this is everything that ma�ers the most
and when you ‘become’ that you’ll see that you can finally just be normal (which is
hopefully intriguing, enlightening and seductive) to women!

Hoo-rah Master Chief.

 Chapter 41

Fearlessness Around Beauty

Remember that these socially edified women indeed ARE the prize socially (unless
you’re a rich Hollywood actor). So if you play the game socially accepting her status
and power no wonder you keep ge�ing shot down!

They’re only socio-Logically looking for men who are at their social status or higher.

And most men just aren’t because any woman can turn herself into a fembot pornstar
clone now and get the social status or a�ention that is promoted by the forced reality.

In all actuality of course she isn’t ‘above you’ but so many guys continue to treat her
like she is because they were conditioned to. This is all the great social scam that is go-
ing on and the people involved don’t even know they’re involved because they haven’t
differentiated themselves from it.

Fortunately you are with Relational Dynamics here.

So if you just don’t have the good looks, money and social status right now then what
do you have? A�er all you have to bring something of value to the table.

The one thing you have (and about the only thing that ma�ers) is your natural charac-
ter. Nature choosing you to be a male puts you by default at the TOP of the food chain.
Throughout history man has been understood and accepted at the top of the food
chain and at the head of the family.

The leader of relationships, the provider and protector. And when it comes to a�rac-
tion, it’s your natural character that reaches to the natural response part of a woman
that causes HER to feel all kinds of things you can’t imagine (well actually you can
because of the fantasy world society helped you create).

For women though, a�raction and sex is best and at it’s most pure with a man of high
natural character (the alpha male). It’s the equivalent of you sleeping with a superhot
woman.

You just have to understand and grow in your natural character to ‘be’ that man and
you’ll find that women will start responding to you more. They’ll notice you more be-
cause you’re comfortable in your own skin and not thrown off around them anymore.

Very few men who are high in inner and social character as well have this high natu-
ral character (NIS alpha). These are the few men that the most beautiful women in
the world wouldn’t want to let go of once they were with him lest lose him to another
(beautiful) woman.

With Relational Dynamics and the rest of my training programs as long as you apply
yourself, you can become NIS Alpha.

It’s not about trick techniques, it’s about REAL character that is like a narcotic when
women respond to it. That is the value you have to offer them. That is why they
would want to sleep with you even if you’re not the best looking guy. It’s all about
how they ‘feel’ when they are around your character.

Don’t trust society. Society has misled and taught you the opposite of what actually
works. Be very wary of it now especially with your cogniton of it.

You were BORN to be the stimulus for women to respond to in a�raction. Society has
just repressed this within you by flipping the power dynamics around to make a LOT
of money.

So just take your power back, apply R.D. to her three energies (until it becomes a ha-
bitual state of mind) and you will be fearless around the most beautiful women.

You have to stop ‘responding’ to the exploitative social character of a woman. That
alone will leap up your results and level of response that women have around you. If
you still have some bu�erflies, you’re not fully there yet so keep working on it.

If you want to be fearless around the most beautiful women there is only one true fix.
Apply Alpha Relational Dynamics and ‘be’ high in character. Be solid in your own
independence and know your relationship to her three energies/characteristics. Then
you will be able to communicate with her without dropping in character.

This is done effectively in the video training portion.

You will be able to be a man she can now respond to. Remember that most men are
conditioned to be ‘thrown off’ or nervous around this energy because they’ve edified it
so much. Looking at the root influence (the social matrix) you can relieve the burden
placed on your ‘inner game’.
Remember that these women can smell any B.S. or incongruency in you which means
your ‘inner game’ has to be ROCK-SOLID and unshakable. In fact it HAS to be in or-
der for her to have room to finally ‘respond’ to a man. This solid congruency can effec-
tively be reached through R.D. and realignment.

She is so used to being the stimulus (which society told her to be because she’s pre�y)
that she wants to be able to finally trust a man so that she can respond to herself. It’s
hard for her to find that man who won’t abuse her.

All the other men will see her beauty and their own character will drop from wherever
it was; they have become the response to her being the stimulus so she won’t give them
a chance. Man must be the stimulus for her to respond to in the game of a�raction and
sex (unless you want to be an Aphrodite’s secondhand husband).

There are processes that she goes through and has to go through in order to reach
orgasm or sleep with a man. Those processes are blocked for any man that puts her as
the stimulus and physiologically ‘responds’ to her.

You don’t have to deny that she’s beautiful (that can be a dangerous fix). No, just un-
derstand your RELATIONSHIP to her beauty, her body, her biological nature and her
social power.

Ground yourself in natural energy both masculine and feminine so that you exude it
and can pick it up fast. See through her leveraged power ratio itself by just knowing
your relationship to it; it DOESN’T MATTER...in fact, you have to take away that social
character and ‘convert her’ over to being in touch with her true natural character - that
is seduction and the path to all sex (unless you’re in a porn contract).

KNOWING YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO HER 3 CHARACTERISTICS AND BEING

GROUNDED IN THEM WILL MAKE YOU FEARLESS AND COMFORTABLE IN
YOUR OWN SKIN.

Things naturally are NOT that complicated. Even bu�-munches have procreated
throughout history yet now we have 40 year old virgins because of one thing; social
influence has go�en in the way of our natural character (in both men and women).

So to have success with women you must deal with the natural/responsive part of
them by first understanding your relationship to her and her social powers. Go
through the video training to learn how to differentiate this characteristic.
It’s truly priceless when you can ‘see beyond’ her wielded leverage b/c you’ll be at least
equal in power by not giving any sign of ‘bowing’ before her as the stimulus in your
nonverbal behavior.

Once you ‘get it’ with relational dynamics you will acquire fearlessness, centered en-
ergy, personal authority and then women will start responding to you more o�en ev-
erywhere you go. In fact, you will closer to sex at ALL times. Isn’t that worth the price
you paid right there?

In dealing with the natural character (the most important for when it comes to a�rac-
tion and sex), other experts were vague on how to tap into that potential. Most of the
training out there is on the social end of things, whereas Relational Dynamics is all
about raising you to BE higher in natural character.

Fortunately (if you’re a man), you are in the right place now to have the greatest le-
verage in your favor. My own level of knowledge and awareness allowed my natural
character to grow and FAST. My entire body language changed, I stopped ‘respond-
ing’ to beautiful women and was peaceful and content around them.

All the pick-up lines in the world may not help you, so this formerly ‘vague’ area of
what women are ultimately a�racted to has finally been isolated. It’s your natural
character and you can differentiate that between your inner/independent and your
social characters.

My Overcoming Fear of Aphrodite’s program goes into a lot of detail in leveraging and
grounding you in fearlessness.

So; apply Alpha Relational Dynamics by knowing your relationship (a�er cognition of
each of them) to her 3 root behavioral characteristics. You will be lacking in any inse-
curity around any woman or person alone (like I am) when you apply the Relational
Mapping technique of embracing and accepting your PURE independence.

Your ‘ability’ to be fearless around even the most beautiful and powerful women in
the world will put the advantage in your favor right upfront where there is that power
struggle you must conquer.

Few men in the world truly ‘are’ at that level. You can out-perform multi-millionaires
by REPRESENTING perfect comfort and leveraged value (your natural character AL-
WAYS overrules a woman b/c of the S-R relationship) around these honeys.

SO GET OUT THERE ALREADY (ok, a�er you’ve gone through the program at least
once!)
 Chapter 42

Dealing with Matrix Women

So you want me to tell you how to succeed with these women? Well, first you have
to differentiate yourself like NEO and understand your relationship to all of the basic
forces of influence including her 3 characteristics (NIS).

But when you really get this, you might think that some of these women are more
screwed up than you ever thought.

You’ll realize how over-rated they are (even the Prada’s in holding long-term relation-
ships) and you’ll start to desire more natural women themselves. Once you get to this
level you will be fearless around these types of women and realize that you can have
them because of your level of natural character.

Applying Alpha R.D. and becoming a man of higher character, you’ll find it easier and
easier to just ‘be’ yourself and connect with women. You’ll be ‘closing’ more o�en than
ever before because you’ll at least be on her power level to start with so she can open
up to you.

Being fearless will allow you to make connections and do all the things you thought of
doing without consequence (as long as it’s in good fun). Of course I’ll have more train-
ing on connecting with women and the ‘social’ end of things but really, once you have
‘this part’ handled, the rest will much more easily take care of itself.

The thing is, the prickteases are so socially oriented that they’ll judge any man on his
social status or subculture FIRST. And if you’re trying to become a certain social ste-
reotype to succeed with these women, then who is being the ‘response’? You are.

You’ll realize there are more important things than going out of your way to capture
these women. And once you know them and how they are around their friends you’ll
realize they’re not desirable that much at all; you’ll see how superficial they are and
that you have higher standards.

You’ll also realize that you couldn’t fathom LIVING with a woman like this. So you
just want to screw a lot of them? Well, that’s understandable because they fell into the
program of being prickteases who accentuate and flaunt their own sexuality.
To succeed with them when you aren’t yet the social alpha within their native environ-
ment (nightclubs), it’s not going to be easy. Why? Because it’s a social situation and if
you’re not the guy who fits within their social clique’s expectation, you’re instantly cast
as undesirable. Then you have to DHV and set yourself up for rejection.

So it would be up to you to get your natural character across and not care about the
outcome. Even be�er would be to meet one of these women when she isn’t in the im-
mediate influence of her peer group of girlfriends.

Yes the Prickteases o�en act like bitches. The solution isn’t necessarily to treat them
like a bitch. Isolate her and always deal with her on the natural level which also shows
her you’re not afraid of her social status because you don’t play their game anymore,
you play your game. WALK away or reject her if she crosses the line.

You can learn to use pick-up lines while taking the social path but she’s already ‘above’
you by default anyways. Play the game socially and you’re just trying to play it logi-
cally by hopefully proving to her that you have higher value. The only guys who are
successful at that ARE at (or near) her level socially and/or have some level of natural
character anyways.

What about rejection?

I don’t deal with rejection or ‘feeling down on myself’ ANYMORE because I’ve differ-
entiated myself to be a fully independent man. Nothing anyone says can lessen who I
am (especially because I’m aligned with universal principles and objectively know the
truth of if they’re right or wrong most of the time).

I can talk more about this another time but you don’t have to experience any rejection.
I don’t ‘run the numbers’ game of fools mate. I make connections o�en socially and
by remaining high in character I take it from there. Start pg-13 and upgrade while she
responds and I lead and we flirt more, etc.

By framing it upfront and le�ing women know tidbits about the kind of lifestyle you
lead, you prevent rejection. You beat them to the punch. There is also the direct-direct
approach which polarizes the female reaction (yes or no) but I don’t currently do that
although it is effective for some tops guys even, they still get rejection once in a while.

I like to lay out my gameplan if I’m not sure where she stands and I can walk away at
any time as there is abundance as well and I’ve become characteristically what many
women want. If she’s doing her part of responding and following my lead which is
what usually happens, then there is no rejection anyways since I have her hooked.
This is an advantage of being high in character; you know that they’re interested and
they are taking actions that obviously show it.

Relational Dynamics may be the only (known) way for real men to (re)gain the level of
natural character that is associated with the bad boys and jerks that women fall for.

You may think that universal or relational dynamics is my opinion and you have the
right to disagree with it...go ahead. If you don’t align yourself with the truth of reality
and relational dynamics, you’re the one who is being repressed.

These are power’s that are greater than I could ever be, I’m just harnessing them and
teaching them to you so that you can maybe align yourself with them as well.

It’s time to start thinking about your influence on the future.

If you’re going to grow tremendously in character to be able to handle and seduce the
most beautiful women, your character must be real and true. You can’t act it. So in
ge�ing there, you’re going to have to face not only the forces that have influenced but
also some of your greatest fears in order to truly ‘go alpha’.

It probably won’t happen overnight but stick to Relational Dynamics and an action
plan and you’ll get there. The time it will take to get to a minimum level of equal
power as these social women may happen overnight for some, for others it may take
months (with cognition).

This really is the fastest way I see possible though; you’re way ahead of the power
curve. Now just work on your social character a bit and make connections. You’ll find
that women respond to you much more readily than they did before because you know
your place in relationship to all the external powers of influence.

When you do approach you’ll find that what you say ‘counts more’. Plus, if you get
into the action and then habit of ‘socializing’ and bantering with women, things will
really start to accelerate in the meta-context; but of course you will be centered in your
energy and bringing value to women which they will see (and social proof of being
with other women always helps).

Follow the 9 step plan. Make connections, showcase true colors and Git’r dun.
 Chapter 43

Relational Model of A�raction

All I’m going to say here is that you should look at my A�raction Defined videos. If
you ordered the full ‘Relational Dynamics’ package, it’s included. Ok, I’ll say a li�le bit
more. A�raction IS logical. And it’s also fairly predictable.

The Relational Model of A�raction is the special relationship that defines a�raction be-
tween men and women. You can’t have sex or get to sex without the woman’s approval
or level of minimum response. All men and women can be plo�ed on the charts (even
if they refuse to or don’t agree with it!)

First is the male Character Continuum. This is what women are looking for and judg-
ing you on when they meet you. Generally, the higher in character you are in each
area, the more options and choice you have of women.

Then there is the F.A.R.M. AKA the ‘Female A�raction Response Model’. This is the
flipside of the Character Continuum because she responds differently to each man (his
character).
The two of these together form the Relational Model of A�raction...>>
I’m not here to train you on that as it’s a separate training program (which you received
with the full package), but it’s a very important ‘model’. It boils down to be the man of
high character and get those characteristics across as soon as you can that are close to
her/all expectational ideals.

‘Remember that the energies I am teaching you to differentiate are the characteristic in
a woman’s F.A.R.M. They are the same as a man’s and we’ll be judging her on those.
These are what you should learn to differentiate if you want to truly be comfortable in
your own skin around them.

It will also give you a great level of intuition as well. You’ll be able to deal with women
and seduce them much more by being aware of their energies/characteristics and edify-
ing what is supposed to be edified (her natural and sometimes independent character).

To succeed with women (in desiring sex) as a man you just have to raise a woman’s
response to your character across all three areas; natural, inner and social.

So the higher in character you are in the first place, the closer you are to her expecta-
tional/ideal of what she is looking for in a man.

That’s why it’s so tough for men of low character and reeking of insecurity; they are
further away from her expectational/ideal so she’s hardly interested in the first place
(and not to mention they drop in that level of character to a level even lower). And
then they try to find the magic pill of a solution to their growing fantasy for women.

The only answer is being a man of higher character; everything else is just a lot of rejec-
tion and fool’s mate at best. High character is how you have consistent success; pri-
marily high Natural character.

The RMA is a stimulus-response relationship. This is a special kind of interdepen-

dency. While a couple can be interdependent and respect each other normally, the man
must still maintain the special ‘stimulus’ aspect in the metaframe of the relationship or
it will fail because she will lost a�raction and interest as a response to him.

In other words, she must be a�racted to or magnetized to HIM. Most short-term re-
lationship failures boil down to a violation of the RMA. She’ll lose interest and stop
calling when his character drops and he puts her as the stimulus in the relationship (ie.
on a pedastal), even if it’s 51% in her favor.

When it comes to sex, all that ma�ers is a woman’s level of interest and a�raction in
you (as a response to your character), because without it you’re not ge�ing anywhere.
So apply Relational Dynamics, understand the charts and you’ll be that man of higher
character and most of your work is done. You’ll be way ahead of those guys who take
in-field workshops and keep trying and keep failing.

Romance is the balanced and rising level of a�raction response in the woman’s
F.A.R.M. to a certain man of character. Not only is her natural/physiological response
there, but she is meeting her social/expectational ideal as well in response to this man
who does everything right (just by being himself in high character).

‘Love at first sight’ is just a woman responding to a man on first extrapolation who is
already at her expectational/ideal across the entire F.A.R.M. spectrum. Her intuition
backs it up that she is likely correct and when he proves that he is (and frames the rela-
tionship properly) she would likely be sleeping with him quite soon unless he sets the
frame of a longer term relationship.

Action Steps:

Go over the ‘A�raction Defined’ videos until you really understand the RMA.

Plot your own current level on the character continuum and then if you want, plot
your c.c. if you know you’ve been ‘responding’ to women and see how far away from
her expectational ideal you have been.

Now take full accountability and apply the rest of this Training and exercises to be-
come a man of higher character who doesn’t drop in response around the women you
desire and you will be far ahead of even be�er looking guys who don’t get it.

Looking at the big picture basics; ‘go alpha’ by continually becoming a man of higher
character and BE the stimulus around women (don’t ‘respond’ physiologically). Then
you can ‘say anything’ and be well ahead of your competition because you are what
women want anyways. There’s millions more for you.
 Chapter 44

Respect

A�er you officially do your leveraged power move through Relational Mapping of dif-
ferentiating yourself from the social matrix, you’ll have a new outlook on life and how
you live.

You’ll be much more clear about the types of relationships you are in and what’s going
on.

Expect respect from others but also give it out. I have a general ‘base’ respect for all
people and I won’t hinge upon their personal freedom because I expect the same my-
self.

True interdependence and win/win relationships are first formed by having respect for
the other party involved. Respect the independence of other’s. You don’t have to co-
erce them and don’t view them as ‘less than you’ either.

I could talk a LOT about respect in R.D. with other areas of life such as business but
let’s keep it tight here.

In the case of success with women, you want to respect the natural and inner character
of her and NOT her social exploitation if she is a pricktease.

You respect that part of her you won’t stand a chance because you’ll come of as a wuss-
bag. Instead, look for the ‘real’ her that is past the social exterior (o�en known as the
bitch shield). Respect her for that but don’t let a woman ever push you around or dis-
respect you.

When you know that you can rock a woman’s world in the bedroom by dealing with
her responsive NATURAL character (which you can differentiate from her social char-
acter which you put in a lockbox where it belongs), it will further ground you in the
strength of your factual reality.

All you have to do is meet new women and develop enough history with them to jus-
tify them sleeping with you because they know that you can deliver the goods.
In fact, the only thing in the way is her social logic and sometimes social distortion but
when she can see that you’re not dropping in character around her and that you’re not
intimidated her natural character will know inside as a response that you can ‘take care
of her’ in the bedroom.

They call it ‘sex life’. Women will ask each other, “How’s your sex life?” The thing is,
(the Prada’s) they treat it as a separate entity. Even if they’re in a relationship with a
guy, the woman will quite o�en want to control if and when she has sex (because it’s
her logical mind thinking).

This isn’t the place to teach this now but when you’ve got several ‘physical only’ type
relationships going, you can have women call you (booty call) when they ‘are’ ready.
And then you can be like ‘come on over’ if you’re free that night.

It’s important to respect the natural character of women. Respect her as a person but
this doesn’t mean over-rating her fascinating inner character or hyped up social exploi-
tation (tight clothes, makeup, a�itude and hairdo).

Jerks seemingly take respect out of the equation but women come back for sex with
them because their secret is that they are respecting her body and natural character
during their many mating phases.

Just because you’re a great catch doesn’t mean you have to become a jerk. R.D. is the
solution for balanced men to have those levels of success. You can give a woman an
even more memorable experience because of your high NIS character by respecting
and adding value to her actual sexual (natural) character.

Thoughts - Actions - Habits - Destiny

 Chapter 45

Personal Power Manifest: Differentiating Yourself from the Social

Matrix

Once you are aware of the Social Matrix and the entire ‘game’ of what is going on, you
will be able to ‘see’. You will have cognition instead of ignorance.

It’s like the story of ‘The Ugly Duckling’. He grew up in a family and social group that
mocked and criticized him because he ‘didn’t fit in’. This really bruised his character
and he felt so WEAK and insecure.

So, biologically (and naturally) he ended up blossoming into a beautiful grown Swan.

HE WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE with the duckling
society. Let alone be repressed and influenced by the ‘social’ norm or standard.

He ended up being more magnificent than any of them once he got away from it and
found others who were truly ‘like’ him.

Biologically you ARE the swan and not the duckling (metaphorically). Your environ-
ment has conditioned you your whole life to believe that you’re an ugly duckling. It’s
up to you to differentiate that and see that it was purely social conditioning.

The social matrix is at the root of your repression. It has affected all areas of your own
N.I.S. character representation.

So, now that you ARE aware of the stimulus-response and conditioning relationship of
the social matrix and it’s ‘programming’, you can make your power move.

You can even think of it as an umbilical cord..you being a�ached to the power and
influence of it. You are so connected to it even in ways that you weren’t aware of (re-
member it IS the root). It even includes the people you associated with in groups be-
cause that is ‘social’ and if they were in this culture, they they were a part of it as well,
and ARE.

If you’re ge�ing caught up in the li�le things, then you’re not fully free. You would
know if you’re independent and I’d bet that you aren’t...even I wasn’t until I could
probably re-frame my relationship with it.

So the goal here is to cut yourself off from any kind of relationship or dependency on
the behemoth of the social matrix. Take one more look at how these relationships are
playing out:

Your power move is really quite simple but it has to be real. I encourage you to of-
ficially do this for yourself when you are ready (and perhaps a�er going over the full
training a few times).

It is essentially just a ‘shi�’. Instead of just being the ignorant, unaware and usual ‘citi-
zen’, you’re going to be fully independent and powerful.

All you have to do is re-frame your relationship to everyone else (and everything that
comes from) the social matrix as an equal exchange of value relationship.

Make a partnership. This is interdependence..it is how you are SUPPOSED to operate.

Only you can fully have this power and you DO.

Just choose to only have win/win relationships or equal exchange of value with all
sources of influence. It’s really not that difficult, you just have to CUT the umbilical
cord of feigned co-dependency.

This is why I recommend to ‘Runaway’ for a while by turning off ALL influences and
ge�ing ‘Environmental Control’. It’s important to be CONSCIOUS of this process until
you can become unconsciously competent like me.

Yes, you will have to work at applying N.E.O. This means being aware of the influ-
ential trajectories (and now you can see them by being further away) and consciously
CHOOSING what sources you let in and what you don’t.

It’s not that difficult. Just look at each of your relationships (like t.v. shows) and ask
yourself who really has the power in that relationship. Remember that I talked about
the ‘hidden and true’ relationships that exist?

Well, there is ALWAYS a relationship. So take accountability and have conscious con-
trol right before or during any stream, channel, or program of influence that is coming
at you to try and influence you.

If I turn the radio on and a d.j. starts talking and I have to ‘listen’ by slipping into that
mode; that is a stimulus-response relationship where I am the intended response. It is
DISempowering if I’m not ge�ing any true value out of it.

If you’re serious about your independence you will go through and reframe everything
you can until you are in full control. This is about your independence and power.

Do the t.v. method that I talk about. I ALWAYS make sure I’m in control and that it’s
an interdependence. There IS a difference because the real relationship does exist and I
encourage you to be cognitive.

But, it’s so difficult you say? Then you’re not fully free. You have to disacknowledge
and walk away from all of those influences. I don’t give a damn what your favorite
show is; that’s where they want you - it’s NOT a dependency unless you make it so.

Runaway until you can truly cut the umbilical cord and then officially reframe every-
thing so it is ONLY an equal exchange of value (for your time). You’re going to hold
integrity to yourself because watching 5 hours of t.v. a night because there is value in
that entertainment doesn’t cut it.

You should only be ‘referencing’ other sources and pu�ing them under YOUR power.
If you’re having trouble, view things from the frame of a producer and someone in-
volved in the industry; an architect that ‘feeds’ the masses.

But it all looks so advanced...well start thinking like a producer who works on a team
with a budget, actors, top of the line cameras, a studio, and all the technical tools and
advances with a programming slot and you’ll start to see it differently.

You could walk into an Annie Leibovitz photo studio that is all prepped with the back-
drop, celebrity actress, top of the line camera and lighting; all you’d have to do is pull
the trigger.

That’s not to say anything against professional photographers (I’ve taken 10,000’s of
shots and I’m still ge�ing there); I’m just saying to bridge the gap and think like an ar-
chitect or at least a high level power-player consumer who has his life under control.

A man who is CLOSE to that much power and influence if he wants simply by differ-
entiating himself FROM the influence so instead of being the ‘response’ and soaking
things up like a sponge can spend his time creating/producing alone or on teams to
add more value TO the social matrix or elsewhere.

No man is an island so make sure that your bridges are under your control. Only op-
erate independently in as many relationships as you can. Abolish all co-dependencies
and other relationships of submission or ‘response’ and you will be like all powerful
people.

It’s imperative to have ‘environmental control’ even if you have to be ‘conscious’ and
think about your relationship with others to always maintain win/win. I go into any
place comfortable in my own skin expecting to be treated fully INDEPENDENTLY.

I respect others (interdependence) and mostly I receive great transactional or be�er

service and response. Don’t base weak self-esteem on your ‘inner game’ issues or any-
thing like that.

As a man and a human being on this earth, you ARE one and a living miracle. Differ-
ent people just have different influences and environments growing up. There is no
excuse to place it on any internal insecurity; remember that we are dealing with rela-
tional dynamics and the PURE ROOT of what influenced that causal behavior in the
firstplace.

Global re-alignment; this is more powerful than ANY amount of ‘inner game’

The rewards? You will have a LOT more power and everything will become much
clearer to you even in your daily life. You’ll stop other people from pushing you down
because they are just in a type of relationship which you don’t accept in your life.

People will respect you and you will get be�er service and response from women. You
essentially ARE on the same level as any celebrity or woman on earth for the simple
fact that you are independent in being and you only operate interdependently with
others.

Don’t let ANY excuse get in the way. I have this amount of personal power because
this is how I operate. These universal principles are much greater and leveraged than
any of us. Embrace your power. And remember...

ONLY WIN/WIN OR TRANSACTIONAL INTERDEPENDENCE with others and other

sources of power or influence. Doesn’t ma�er if they have higher social status than
you; you still treat them as an equal and you’ll find yourself ‘rising’ up with them in-
stead of playing the game on the ‘hierarchy’ where you admit lower status.

Differentiating yourself means you will have a LOT more power and you will be con-
gruent with it because you’ve differentiated yourself from the ROOT (and continue
maintenence with N.E.O.) source of your repression.
Look, it doesn’t ma�er HOW wussy or insecure you are. It ALL boils down to the
social influences you acquired throughout your life. People and programming has just
had a more powerful relationship to you than you had to it. Now you’re just re-fram-
ing it.

This goes even moreso for the wussy guys; DO this and your entire life will turn
around massively. You will become powerful when you relieve the burden by realiz-
ing that is all it was - a repressive burden in the first place.

You just weren’t aware of your true independence and let others have influence ‘over’
you. Unfortunately they didn’t teach you at the beginning but look at our society
now...you have to grab it for yourself.

Now that you know the truth, how could you go back? You’d be ADMITTING you’re
a wuss and failure while seeing WHY right in front of your eyes. There is NO excuse
now. Universal leverage is behind you so go ahead and make that power move and
then maintain relational control with N.E.O.

It will make a HUGE difference in being comfortable in your own skin and success
with women. Remember that their ‘social character’ is also rooted in these environ-
mental ‘powers’ and ‘reality’ that you grew up in, so just know your relationship to
that; you’re win/win only and nothing phases you coming from there because you are
equal or greater than the social matrix (and women) itself.
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N.E.O.

(nano-elemental oversight):
This is essentially seeing, stopping and managing the bullets of influence in their influ-
ential trajectories. Before you were ignorant to the actual relationships that were truly
going on; here you will be cognitive because you are perceptive of what they are and
your relationship to them so you can manage them properly.

N.E.O. I obviously draw from the Matrix trilogy but in this case it can represent: nano-
elemental oversight. I think you might already know what that means. It means an
awareness of all of the elements surrounding you (even broken down to the atoms
though you don’t have to take it that far) and understanding your relation to them.

With R.D. and N.E.O., you are essentially ‘overseeing’ and ‘cognitive’ of the elements
and forces (of influence) around you. Now, granted you don’t have to understand
things at a literal molecular level (that’s going to take me a few years probably even to
see the ‘digits’), but it does ma�er.

Obviously the scene from the Matrix towards the end when Neo finally sees the matrix
and understands his relationship to it is one of the most important things about R.D..
In a way you can even use it to represent Relational Dynamics itself.

You can get different things out of R.D. that will empower you in real life to see much
more success but in a way, this is the central issue.
N.E.O. or being able to understand the elements involved and your relationship to
them.

In the diagram above (which I go through in-depth in your video training), the red
bullets represent (as influential trajectories) any stream of programming that is coming
from the social matrix.

This could be turning on the t.v. or radio, even being thrown off by a woman’s high
social status.

Applying N.E.O. simply means that a�er you differentiate yourself from the social ma-
trix in your big leveraged power move (and reframed your relationship), all you have
to do is be cognitive and aware of your relationship with the social matrix and every-
thing that it is representing or trying to program/influence you with.

You have a conscious power now to stop those influences from ever reaching you by
only le�ing them in if they represent the win/win agreement and relationship that you
have with the social matrix.

When you were in the S-R relationship before, the social matrix was just plugging
away the bullets of influence like Jesse Ventura’s gun in the Predator. It influenced you
massively without your true power in relation to it.
So as long as you are independent, you’re far enough AWAY from the social matrix that
you can finally know (or see) when the influential trajectories are coming at you. Now
you have a choice to make and can stop them all from ever affecting you at the very
start.

Those that you do want to let in will only be if it adds value to your life but you ARE in
control in the context of that relationship. Quid pro quo. No more disempowerment
because in S-R you were the response and less powerful.

By being conscious of what influences you’re accepting and what kind of relationship
you have, you are much more powerful. You will be cognitive immediately when you
know what kind of REAL relationship is going on

For example, you’ll know that right when you turn on the t.v. or radio and you start
‘listening’ and get ‘sucked into it’ you have become the response.

N.E.O. means having the global control over your types of relationships. It’s not that
difficult but will take persistence for your re-framing perhaps. I have total control now
over my relationship with other forces and influences.

As a technique just consciously re-frame your relationship with t.v. through this pro-
gram and also right before you turn it on to truly make sure that you are ge�ing equal
value out of it for your time.

You must uphold the integrity which means that you might only pick 1-3 shows to
watch and strictly control that regimen including turning down the commercials.

The metaframe relationships ARE o�en invisible. You have to remain cognitive and it
helps to be truly independent and runaway for a while so that you’re almost pessimis-
tic about the value ‘it’ offers you anymore.

N.E.O. can be applied for your relationships with people as well. The simplest way to
see it; since you’re independent, always go for WIN/WIN relationships.

If it’s not adding value to your life, get rid of it.

Once Neo saw the matrix and understood that he actually had the power, he could
stop the bullets (of influence) from ever reaching him (instead of damaging him or his
character). In that scene he stops them and they drop to the ground. He is also able to
see Mr. Smith’s punches like it’s in slow motion because he can ‘see’ and isn’t ignorant
anymore.

Most people cannot ‘see’. They only see what they are told to see.

Neo has the power himself when he has cognition (awareness and KNOWLEDGE)
of the matrix and chooses to stop it from influencing him negatively. He takes all his
power back for himself and that’s when his independence is many times more effec-
tive.

He can now use the matrix to his advantage when he unleashes his full level of con-
trol. There are no inhibitions anymore. Remember in the dojo where Morpheus says,
“You’re faster than this.”

It’s the same as your thinking has only been conditioned and repressed within you.
You may think it’s just a cool movie but the truth is, society (the ‘social matrix’ is VERY
real and) HAS limited you.

I was conscious of it even a decade ago and I refused to just become a social stereotype
or follow what others wanted me to do. I retained my free-thinking creativity that I
had as a child. I stopped social bullets of influence from repressing my creativity so I
kept it all these years.

Unfortunately maybe you have been repressed so much that you really have lost sight
of how powerful you are. The Power of One. It’s just going to take you some more
time to sort through it but it’s all here...it’s all in relational dynamics.

The main thing and first step is just to be able to differentiate yourself from the social
matrix by seeing it for what it is and focusing on the interdependent-ONLY relation-
ship you are supposed to have with it.
A li�le more advanced here is to stop the negative bullets of influence that have weak-
ened your character by programming you with their messages where someone else has
the real power.

And instead, start drawing from your own chosen sources (environmental control) in
which you will draw universal/natural and valuable growth from. In the audio and
video I get more advanced into this part.

Ideally you would have full independent environmental control like I have. I wake up
when I want, I work when I want, I don’t listen to radio or t.v. if rarely and even then
it’s under my control.

So step back and take control over your relationship with the powers of influence. You
have a lot of power to be able to step up to the social matrix; the key is to view it as ‘1’
source. It will send billions of bullets of influence at you but it’s coming from that one
source; social power and programming.

Your character growth will accelerate faster by keeping your shield up and stopping
those negative bullets that were disempowering and instead drawing from powerful
sources of influence (like those I recommend or through ‘return to innocence’).
If you don’t take your power back (and by default most people are ignorant), the social
matrix will continue to shoot it’s bullets into your character and repress you from your
true potential and daily independence.

When you can differentiate yourself from all powers that are coming in and have clar-
ity and awareness of them, you’ll be much more powerful. You’ll have control and you
won’t be inhibited by them anymore.

Most people don’t have the power and effectiveness of a NEO because they are ‘pro-
grams’ who have been influenced so much by the social matrix that they are invisible
to it’s power over them. They are ignorant to their ACTUAL relation to the forces of
influence and that is exactly how the architects want it.

They want to be able to influence you to buy certain things and become co-dependent
on them so that you keep buying. They know that they can easily sway most men by
just exploiting the sexual character of women and building it up so much that the only
connection they make to it is to that product which represents that growing desire.

Most people in the social matrix will never be able to differentiate themselves from
such a strong influence because they remain the direct ‘response’. It even took NEO
most of the movie to get there. The influence is so strong even that when natural peo-
ple come INTO the social matrix, they’ll get caught up in it as well. I’ve seen natural
women get corrupted by it pre�y fast.

They’ll meet new friends who go out and party all the time in the clubs and tell them
what to wear and how to behave...it’s only a ma�er of time before they grow further
away from their own natural roots. It’s pre�y sad actually and to know that the archi-
tects have fashioned it this way.

The women especially will become a ‘response’ to this influence because they realize
that they can finally become the stimulus and have power over men which includes
free a�ention, dinners, drinks, etc. They’ll adapt to look and act like what they see in
music videos and follow the lead of other prickteasing women.

It’s an easy trap for a woman to fall into. Now, SHE has all of this power and control
(stimulus) over men and they swallow it up like puppy dogs. If you don’t yet see that
it’s ALL a social CON-struct, then keep referencing this training (awareness) program.
It destroys relationships and marriages even families.

Ironically this a�ention and power is exactly what women DON’T want when it comes
to choosing who they sleep with. Why do you think they choose the bad boys, outcasts
and jerks? DUH.

Those are the guys who aren’t influenced by the social matrix, THUS they still have
RETAINED their high natural character (which is of course what women respond to
beyond their social conditioning even).

Women would RATHER choose a man of balanced and high character like a nice guy
(Prince Charming) but all these guys have lowered their natural character. Unfortu-
nately society has conditioned them so much that they’ve lost a lot of their own bal-
anced response mechanism.

It may take these women (some you could classify as ‘fake’) a lot longer to see a real
man of balanced character simply because they are habitually conditioned to the type
of men they are used to and the fact that they themselves aren’t balanced anymore.
When they find him, they should be concerned about losing him to someone else.

Countless fembot clones have li�le inner character and are just social byproducts them-
selves (prickteases). When you can see past it because of R.D., you’ll realize that most
of them have very weak to li�le actual true personality or character, but if you can find
it that is good.

You will be miles (or even light years) ahead of other men (your competition) when
you are aware of the elements and their relationship to each other in any circumstance.
When it comes to women, apply N.E.O. now and with enough understanding it should
sink in because the power IS in your favor.

So in practical application for becoming an ultimate ladies man, apply N.E.O. (of Re-
lational Dynamics) to your biology, the social matrix and her three energies and you’ll
be able to handle/seduce the most beautiful or independent of women. You still want
‘techniques’?

No...techniques are ‘social’ or consciously developed. And play the game socially
you’re trying to DHV (determine higher value) socially with women; a losing proposi-
tion.

When you really grow in natural character you’ll realize that is all you have to have.
Deal with the women of your desire on the natural level and bring that response out
of them (while disempowering her social exploitation) and the ho�est women will be
a�er you.

I myself have complete control and awareness of all of the forces that are trying to
influence me. How? N.E.O. and control over myself. Is this amount of power scary?
No. Should you ever be scared of it? No, however you must be able to grow into it if
you really want to have a strong, a�ractive, centered character.

You see, in life, everything is related to everything else SOMEHOW even if it’s not re-
lated.

Once you understand how independent you really are and actualize that (and keep
your energy centered), all of the decisions you make will be made much easier. You
will be able to make correct decisions much more o�en.

I want you to view the social matrix as one single independent element or object. Don’t
think about it’s past influence on you, instead with applying R.D. I want you to see it
as one single force instead of the billions of details, flashiness, images, lyrics, emotional
responses, thongs, blonde hair none of that.

Everything that is representational of the social matrix IS the social matrix. View it
like that or you’ll never be able to isolate it and ‘get on top of’ it in order to put it in it’s
proper place.

It may seem stupid to others (‘socially’) but I plug my ears when a REALLY loud
source comes by. I’ve been doing this for two decades. I don’t care ‘what would others
think’ because I’m representing my independence and am congruent with it.

I still plug my ears around overly loud sources to this day because in a way ‘I’m ‘BE-
YOND’ cool’

Seriously, if it’s going to wreck my hearing (adds up over time) or disturb MY reality
(because some dumbass is revving his tires at 3 a.m. from you know exactly why). Be-
sides, that’s a stimulus-response relationship.

I’ll plug my ears in my apartment when really loud trucks come by because of the fact
alone that it is disturbing my control over my tranquility and pure independent state.

While other people will say they’re ignoring it but they let it disrupt their reality for
those few seconds yet that trucker has won in that hidden relationship. If you don’t
see things on a miniscule detailed level (relational dynamics) that I do, you may never
reach my level of personal power (sorry to say)..sometimes I just have to be cocky; it’s
in my independent nature and I have that level of control over the bullets of influence
so that I don’t let others ‘win’ or repress my independence for even a few seconds.

When YOU can reach that level of control, you will be a NEO. When I go out, my inde-
pendence is so STRONG ( it is respectful mind you) that I am aware if anyone or any
source is trying to repress me or influence me negatively.

In fact I usually avoid trouble because people steer clear and recognize my personal
authority and independence. Because I’m universally aligned anyways I almost al-
ways avoid fights as well.

MOST IMPORTANTLY; go through the video training where it will become really clear
as to how to apply this level of relational mastery and power.

Notes:

Like Neo you’ll able to see it (influence) in slow-motion. You’ll be like, “Oh, Hell no
(you don’t).”

You can look at a ‘perfect’ woman in your mind and she’s not even ‘responsible’ for her
good genetics (natural character). The ones that ‘are (produced) lucky’ because their
(natural, not socially exploited) parents came together (R.D.) and now all of a sudden
SHE can exploit her sexuality because of wearing tight clothes and make-up (because
society told her too) to her OWN sexual and relational DISadvantage?!

Once you fully understand this it should be worth more to you than your own net
worth.

You’d be�er understand the truth of what’s going on (that includes bitch-slapping dis-
torted social influence and it’s previous brainwashing of you).

“Remember...who you are” -The Lionking in reference to your TRUE natural character
as man and being on top of the circle of life (even above women). You are the king.
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Silver Bullets of Influence

Find some sources that are of such a strong representational quality or value that you
can continue to draw from in the N.E.O. relationship.

Think of that relationship. It’s a balance. If you want MORE in life, then give more..
it’s that simple. People trying to sue other people or corporations for their own lack of
accountability is foolishness, there’s no balance there.

If you want to be a millionaire then find a way to give more value to more people. If
you unrightfully try to ‘take’ from people, you’re forcing a co-dependency and that is
probably going to come back to haunt you if you have any conscience.

So when it comes to bullets of influence (stemming off of our N.E.O. training). There

is a two way relationship. The bullets of influence that you take in and the bullets of
influence that you ‘shoot out’. The value-adding silver bullets that you choose to let in
will strengthen and grow your capacity to give back out.

It’s a simple win/win synergistic relationship. Once you reach a certain level (it’s hard
to explain) but you’ll feel your energy representing outwards at the same time as you
take it in.

Most people are just soaking in the machine gun barrel bullets (think of the Predator
and Jesse Ventura’s gun) which only create holes in their own character. This means
that it’s hard to give anything of value back out to other people.

They just soaked in the damaging bullets of influence and are acting like a sponge; a
mish mash of social matrix conditioned messages and ‘programs’.

How could they give much actual value back out? Like my dad says, “Garbage in, gar-
bage out.” Notice people around you especially social stereotypes; they’re just byprod-
ucts of their social environment. The way they think, speak and act is based off of how
they were conditioned and their influences; be aware of that.

I am VERY wary of just le�ing in and ‘accepting’ new influences coming at me in influ-
ential trajectories. I’ll o�en test a seemingly high value resource out by le�ing it in, but
it usually goes through an approval process where I continue to realize the value it can
add to my life.

This is where I have control consciously. I am choosing MY influences and they might
make it to silver bullet level where I can gain tremendous value, character growth,
grounding and inspiration from it.

Look at trash t.v. shows and the people who soak all of that junk up everyday. It be-
comes a reflection or representation of who they are or worse; it IS who they are.

You are what you eat I think is just a literal saying because no one looks like a ham-
burglar (actually..). But there is a relationship, so intake healthy, positive value or in-
fluence and that’s what you’ll be able to give out. Plant the seeds and reap the harvest.

In order to take control, don’t let other sources choose when you receive your pure
power. You should have control from the start. Practically this means have the sources
under your control; music player, ipod, computer, dvd player, etc. So that you 100%
choose to start the influence, otherwise with the metaframe of t.v. saying when you
receive takes away your true power in the first place.

Let’s say that you took in silver bullets of value though, you’d be able to give out simi-
lar or positive value once you start synergizing those influences together with each
other.

A musician could have lots of influences growing up, but he synergizes that whole
collective together to form his new, original style or at least new value-adding produc-
tions.

He or she is able to ‘give’ value back out because they chose to be a PRO-ducer and
chose to think independently. If you’re just another person who soaks up the radio and
doesn’t ever behave as the stimulus who has control, there’s no chance you’ll ever be
able to produce or add value back to others. Be a stimulus and your opportunities will
start to open up.

Figure out what kinds of value you want to give to others and think about what kinds
of influence you’re taking in. Always be aware (ideally) of the influence that you let in
and don’t just accept trajectories that want to ‘program’ you.

You have to maintain the N.E.O. relationship a�er differentiating yourself in relational
mapping for a win/win only relationship with the world. Get in the habit of control-
ling the positive bullets of influence and keep everything else win/win.
Practice ‘environmental control’. 007 does this when he orders a drink or meal to ex-
acting specification. One thing you can do is go through fashion magazines with a pen
and start crossing out things you don’t like or that are ridiculous.

I had friends over laughing with admiration that I crossed out certain items on a page.

Put that strategically where a woman can see and she’ll get the message you know
what you like. By developing your independence and taking control more, you’ll start
to see the world from what do YOU like instead of what do OTHERS want you to like.

There IS a difference. Now I clearly go through magazines like GQ and Maxim and I
start saying out loud, ‘THAT’S RIDULOUS..how can they even sell that?! no way. not
for me. that one’s ok. i like that. that’s definitely good. there’s another prada femboy.
yep, there’s some obvious prickteasing. are they ‘trying’ to show us crappy clothes to
program the masses while they retain their own true ‘style’?!”

Start running things through N.E.O. under your filter and control; don’t just accep
things. I’ve got to the point (where years ago I didn’t) that I can now know EXACTLY
if I like something or not when I see it; and o�en things are just ‘ok’ but not good
enough.

A real and cultured man (NIS Alpha) develops this ability. He knows what he wants
and is discerning because HE is in the one in control. Dont’ be afraid to fully develop
your own different tastes and influences.

Silver Bullets are the magical, extremely valuable positive influence that you have con-
trol over (I’m not talking t.v. shows) that you let in your life. I recommend saving them
for special occasions.

It’s ok to build their value up and give them the added value because it’s just a higher
representation of synergy. Don’t intake the ‘best’ everyday, reward yourself for it.

“You should never take more than you give...in the circle of life.” -Circle of Life lyrics,
LionKing
 Chapter 48

Runaway

I think you’ll get the point here as this is a great representation of what’s going on.
Ironically, a decade ago I KNEW there was something there but I couldn’t fully ‘get it’
until recently.

Runaway from the bullets of influence by turning them off and ge�ing control back.
Do the reframing for your life with Relational Mapping. Balance your life out with
more value. Ground yourself in natural and universal energy or sources to balance out
(and runaway) from the coercive influence of the social matrix.

RunAway
Chorus:
Run away, Run away, run away and save your life.
Run away, run away, run away if you want to survive.
Run away, Run away, run away and save your life.
Run away, run away, run away if you want to survive.

Money, sex, in full control, a generation without soul,

perfect people in a perfect world, behind closed doors all in control,
life, in a world of luxury, cold cash money mentality,
you go�a keep the faith, you go�a keep the faith,
you be�er keep the faith and run away.

Chorus

It’s time to break free, oh oh oh oh, run away, oh oh oh oh,

you be�er break free, oh oh oh oh, run away, oh oh oh oh.
Money, sex, in full control, look, big brother is watching you,
unlock your brain and save your soul, no more limits, no more curfew,
life in the perfect system, take a stand and fight for freedom,
keep the faith, you go�a keep the faith,
you be�er keep the faith and run away.

Chorus several times

It’s time to break free, oh oh oh oh, run away,

oh oh oh oh, you be�er break free, oh oh oh oh,
run away, oh oh oh oh
Keep the faith, you go�a keep the faith,
you be�er keep the faith and run away.
Keep the faith, you go�a keep the faith,
you be�er keep the faith and run away.

(lyrics and music coypright O-Jay (Olaf Jeglitza) , Lisa Cork, and Vanessa Mason)

Speaking of Causality, check this out from wikipedia: “...but then Clive Davis at Arista
Records in the USA showed some interest. He had already had success taking Ace of
Base to the States and now wanted to do the same with a re-branded Real McCoy.

A new video was made, another ‘singer’ Vanessa Mason was roped in to form a trio
and the single shot to #3 on the Billboard Hot 100 in late 1994. It also climbed to #2 in
the UK. Follow-up “Run Away” also got to #3 in the USA in early 1995 (and #6 in the
UK”

If you look at the true Architects and power players, everything they do is based on
cause and effect with influence.

This song extends into the universal. It’s a perfect representation of differentiating
yourself from the social matrix so try and get past the mid-90’s social pigeonhole and
get value out of the universal representation. It should blow your mind when you can
be free in that win/win relationship.

Returning to innocence itself does not have to be a challenge. You’ll be able to learn
about yourself a lot faster because your own judgment won’t be clouded or distorted
from social influence or distraction.

Find some hardcore influences that you see great value in and keep that influence to
yourself. I will not watch certain movies or listen to certain songs around other people
because my synergy with that source is so high that it would spoil the integrity to see
someone who doesn’t care or ‘get it’ around.

YES, I have that level of control also. I am adamant about my independence in a

healthy way. It’s part of being Alpha baby.

Notes:
TiVo I guess is a step in the right direction (over giving consumers SOME control) but
still, it’s up to you to have the true control in that relationship.

This is hard to explain but when I’m at a high level of synergy and interdependent ex-
change while listening to a naturally/universally rooted song what I’m listening to is a
reflection of the quality of my life and the level of value I’m going to give out. Seek out
universally rooted sources.
 Chapter 49

Return to Innocence

Return To Innocence
(Curly M.C.)

Love - Devotion
Feeling - Emotion

Don’t be afraid to be weak

Don’t be too proud to be strong
Just look into your heart my friend
That will be the return to yourself
The return to innocence.

If you want, then start to laugh

If you must, then start to cry
Be yourself don’t hide
Just believe in destiny.

Don’t care what people say

Just follow your own way
Don’t give up and use the chance
To return to innocence.

That’s not the beginning of the end

That’s the return to yourself
The return to innocence.

(lyrics and music coypright enigma; cross of changes 1994)

Get that track!

This song itself effectively represents the concept of ‘Returning to Innocence’.

This was a solid (independent in itself as a production) source of influence for me for
many years.

Why is it so effective? Because it represents relational dynamics and universal ele-

ments.

Throughout this information, a major theme you should be ge�ing is how you must
get control over the sources of influence and how they affect you and realize how inde-
pendent you really are. It will blow your mind and it be�er; it does to me all the time.

‘Returning to Innocence’ in the male character continuum is closing off your social

character (and more importantly external social influence) and it’s returning to your
core being; your inner and natural self (or character).

There are parts that are deeper than your own independent/inner self or ‘personality’.
Deeper than your level of self-confidence and beliefs.

You know what it is by now; it’s your natural character. When you can return to the
pure innocent strength of your natural character and deep inner self, you will be feel
renewed and rebalanced.

Some call it meditation. I’ve been doing my own form of meditation for over 15 years.
It’s quite simple and the whole point isn’t to follow some ‘yoga’ trend or any of that
(although it can be beneficial if you choose so), the point is to get in touch with your
natural and inner character. Also known as ‘returning to innocence’.

Children are so innocent because they are close to nature and their biological roots. It’s
through the years that they really start ge�ing all kinds of social influence which even
causes them to hate others. No child is born a racist or with hatred. It is all social influ-
ence that is brought into them; especially when they are impressionable.

As humans, naturally we don’t have to kill each other. All of that influence and idea
stems from our relationship to each other in the social context (struggle for land, influ-
ence and power). I’ll save that discush for another day.

Our natural character is what is PURE and innocent. It is refreshing, humble, yet pow-
erful in resolve and goodness.

You can escape all of the socially derived b.s. and brainwashing by returning to your
more natural state or character.

That’s why Buddhists are generally so peaceful and respectful of others (except when
they have to bring the heat like in ‘The Protector: Ong Bak 2’). They are closer to their
natural character and they are AWARE of it. They have more respect for others than
other types of influenced masses.
I’ve never seen it as ‘I’m meditating’ or falling in line with some new self-help or guru
thing to do...I’ve just done it and found ways on my own. So what I’ve done over 15
years is prevented other forces from distracting or influencing me during this time
alone. I’ll get alone where no one can interrupt me, turn off the cel phone, lock the door
and put on music.

Others would say not to use music but I find it helps me synergize with myself faster
and more effectively because it helps provide one stream of thought (or chosen stimu-
lus track) I can align with instead of being distracted by countless voices in my head.

So set aside some time when you cannot be interrupted.

I use MUSIC and usually my headphones. I have the Sony MDR-V700’s as I take audio
quality very seriously. If I can turn up the volume without any possible interference
from others (ie. neighbors) I will do that but it must be PURE independence. There
cannot be ANY interruptions.

I encourage you to do the same. Have absolute control.

If you try ‘meditating’ without music or subliminal peacetracks you’ll find (until you’re
disciplined enough) that it’s too hard to go deeper or relax because the voices will be
focus on all kinds of things. So use music. Now, what KIND of music is very important.

I will tell you what I’ve listened to as I do think it has an importance here. What you
choose is ultimately up to you of course but make sure that it is basically music that al-
lows you to think INSTEAD OF forcing a direct stimulus-response relationship.

DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT EVER use the radio for meditation (unless it is a nonstop
new age channel, etc.). If you have sirius or XM that have no commercials, that might
be effective but not purely. I usually use digital music or cd’s. It’s important that you
choose and control the music that is being played (unless there is a format that will
synergize with your meditation without interruption).

So, get comfortable by either lying down or si�ing. Breathing they say is important but
I’ve never focused on that. I supposed it’s more important if you’re not using music.
Now to the good stuff. I choose music that allows me to instantly escape into another
world or different frame of mind.

Music that takes me away from the ‘social’ present. I will not choose popular music or
anything being played on the radio.

Let me list some of the direct sources I have used:

 Anything Hans Zimmer: The LionKing, Gladiator, The Power of One
Ennio Morriccone: The Mission
Enigma: Return to Innocence
Anything Enya: you name it

(still my favorite artist b/c received the most value)

Yanni: select tracks (yes absolutely Yanni)
Sarah Brightman: Harem (although at times too thematic)..’time to say goodbye’ is
great amongst others

I don’t have too many others for ‘pure’ meditation other than that because those sourc-
es are trustworthy in their level of representation and synergy for me

However, you can also use:

-other movie soundtracks without lyrics (romance, epics, orchestra-based)

-other New Age music even soundtracks to ‘nature’ that you can find
-Classical music

(just never did it for me though yet because it’s too period specific much of it)
-HoloSync

And a note about lyrics; the lyrics can make something even stronger IF it synergizes
with the music to further promote the (natural) message.

The LionKing is a perfect example of that (ie. ‘Circle of Life’) and also ‘Return to Inno-
cence’. But be wary because lyrics are more intentional and direct...it’s best that they be
universally aligned so can represent and connect with greater forces.

Just a sidenote; musicals can be more memorable than movies when they follow rela-
tional formula/dynamics effectively.

When the music synergizes with (instead of takes away from) the rest of
the movie/theatrical it can be a be�er experience. Back to our main subject here
though:

So what I’ll do is o�en close my eyes and listen to the music. Sometimes I’ll visualize
or start out by visualizing another land or place and then eventually I’ll just start think-
ing deeply or intuitively and asking myself questions.
Otherwise I’ll just be ‘feeling’ the pure natural energy of this music (even though it
was consciously produced it was made to synergize with nature and the elements) and
my connection to nature and the part of me that is deeper and not influenced by social
pressure.

Even the same music will likely mean something much different to you.

I don’t know how long it will take you to finally ‘find’ yourself but you should be
moved to tears almost every time. When you can ‘find’ your natural character, the
purely innocent yet strong part of you Fast, then you are aware of and also raising your
own natural character. Remember, that if you’re not cognitive about it, you’re probably
ignorant and that’s how most people are.

I’ve used this form of ‘meditation’ to IMMENSELY grow in my natural and inner char-
acter strength over the years.

I remember playing the soundtracks in my head to ‘The Power of One’ when I was in
Army basic training standing in the very co-dependent ‘chow hall’ line with my shaved
head, good looks, dog tags tucked in and you couldn’t even look to your side. I WAS
FREE INSIDE and nothing could take that away.

If you can find other music than what I have found, good for you, but find music that
will help you return to your natural character and inner self.

Music that is emotional, pure and raw that lets you ‘feel’ instead of think logically. It
will put you into the proper state to reach your natural state. A�er a while you can
play the music in your head to consciously induce a state of mind or reference your
deep power.

If you can go out in nature with headphones (as I’ve done a few times) it will also help
you as long as you can synergize with the music and nature at the same time. This re-
ally is powerful stuff when done with no interference.

Also, I think you will get good at visualizing when you just let your conscious
or logical mind go and you ‘step into’ the deeper more natural state of mind. Allow the
music and your mind to go free and paint pictures across your mind.

You can also listen to this music at other times but when you consciously set aside time
for yourself to ‘go deep’, that’s when you’ll get the most out of it.

Why are these so specific sounds so effective? Because most of them are synergistic and
representative of nature itself or they deal with the Hero’s journey.
They’re not trying to ‘program you’ into a specific social response. It’s about you hav-
ing the power. That is the difference that makes all the difference.

It doesn’t ma�er if others think ANY of it is ‘uncool’..as long as it ma�ers to YOU. Hey,
I’m still the guy who loves trance, progressive house, hip-hop and other styles of mu-
sic; I just know how to differentiate them and I take a full independent level of value
from each great genre and track.

You WILL grow in personal power and strength when you follow this effective strat-
egy or technique. Do it as o�en as you can to start and then you’ll know when you are
ready for another big re-balancing when other pressures are ge�ing to you.

This is about you and your power. This isn’t about social pressure trying to tell you
what to do. I find that this music REALLY helps take me away by going into a
different frame of mind and allowing myself to turn off social influence and go deep
into my own inner self and natural character where I find new value everytime.

“But I don’t like that kind of music” some might say. Well...they probably don’t really
like themselves either or even know themselves. They probably just like ‘what’s popu-
lar’ or approved my others like their peer group.

You can learn to love many things because they will each add a different value and
kind of influence to your life. The more influences you choose (that are different) to
enter
your life, the more interesting and diverse a person you will be (like me!) instead of
just being a one-dimensional social stereotype like so many people are.

And; you can find value in everything...just look for it. The glass is half full.

I encourage you not just to think about ‘oh that’s a good idea’...you should really do it
or if you have done some form of it, tweak it so that you’re really ge�ing a great experi-
ence out of it.

Audio quality is important to. Why? Because the full level of independence there,
represents and synergizes with the other elements (your hearing and mind) to create a
more powerful experience.

I encourage good headphones (anyways) especially if you have a crappy stereo system.
The Sony MDR’s are great for new age and also hip-hop, house, etc. I’ve tried monitor
headphones like AKG’s before but it’s missing out on the pumped up, full bass experi-
ence.

Koss is also a good brand. You might seriously want to invest in a good pair of head-
phones. It’s worth it as the value you receive is tremendous from your ‘meditation’
experiences. Get quality source material too (digital tracks).

Like I said, I’ve been doing it off and on for at least 15 years and not only has it allowed
me to rebalance and ESCAPE social influence, it’s influenced me in countless ways
as well as tremendously growing my own level of natural and inner character. So get
started already!

On a larger note; I have all kinds of independently chosen independent and valuable
sources I can choose from. I suggest you also create an unlimited variety of sources you
can draw value from that you don’t watch ‘all the time’ but that you can look forward
to on a rainy day or a good night in.

Welcome to the next evolution. We’re on a level beyond 99% of most forced reality
people. I want you to see things and others will question why you’re enjoying it but
you know the real reason because your perception is MUCH deeper into the truth as
theirs is - period. Skeptics would say no one knows anything but I disagree.

What other specific tracks/songs/independent productions have influenced me?

Creed - Higher

This was a HUGELY important influence for me at about the roughest time in my life.
It kept hope alive when I couldn’t see or focus on the light at the end of the metaphori-
cal tunnel.

Watching the music videos kind of initially spoils my interpretation of it but at least I
can differentiate that and not let it influence my ongoing interpretation. I encourage
the same for you. The answer is R.D. once again.

Other good influences?

P.O.D. “Alive”

I don’t even want to mention this one because it is so secret and personal to me, but
because you paid ‘the price’ I’ll tell you:

Sunblind - “Believe”

It’s a new-nrg trance song from the schallpark.de producers.

A perfect production of synergy and then there’s the perfect universally rooted lyrics
on top. Blows me away every time.

I shed everytime I listen to it, although I only listen to it selectively and a few times a
year (as a reward).

It took me a li�le while to set it aside and edify it like that for the super-synergy but I
encourage you to find influences that ma�er TO YOU and learn and grow from them.

Wait-did I just say I cry everytime I listen to it? Yup. EVERY time. These aren’t tears
of weakness, shame or dependency, rather this is the root of strength, inspiration and
overpowering hope. There is a world of a difference.

There’s almost nothing more masculine because I am becoming a stronger man of high-
er character that will continue to influence countless people in the future.

In fact, I o�en ‘cry’ when I feel the natural energy of women in foreign music videos
because I am so sensitive and a�uned to it while still staying Alpha! Aren’t women
saying that’s what they want in a man!?

Why? Because I’ve reached a level of intuition where I can read and feel their souls and
it is the exact opposite of what other women have become. It’s the root of life itself and
it overwhelms me. I hope you could only get close to my level of cognition ;)

Put it this way; if you’re NOT crying and breaking down around certain influences
you’re not ge�ing it and you’re not growing the way you should be; you probably care
too much about how others want to influence and operate your life instead.

It means you’re not le�ing the ROOTS affect and influence you at the level they should.
It should overwhelm you at time to be aligned with these powers that are greater
than yourself that you are harnessing within your character. ESPECIALLY FOR
THOSE OF US THAT GREW UP UNDER MASSIVE LEVERAGED REPRESSION.

This is the liberation. That’s why it means so damn much that others just won’t get
who are shallower.

To put another angle on it, I never EVER breakdown or cry in the middle of a challenge
or extremely tough ordeal. I don’t do that and I’ve been through a lot.

That shows I guess how much of a ‘man’ I am in case you were wondering (and if you
were wondering then you probably don’t get this yet). And leave it to the distorted
media to try and warp the words I just said too (just make sure you include all of it
including this sentence)!
It’s in the self-reflective time that it’s OK for a man to 100% independently ‘be influ-
enced’ and to grow as a man.

Then is NOT the time to keep your ‘defenses’ or ‘cold shell’ up. No way. In fact it
builds your character up for those real-life challenges so that you DO have the intesti-
nal fortitude to carry through.

So don’t go saying that this alpha guy cries and think you’re trying to win more social
approval (like the media). If you don’t respect the differentiation you definitely don’t
get R.D. and you’re not anywhere close to root power itself anyways.

In fact, my independence is so strong that you couldn’t break me if you tried (and
many have tried, ie. the military). So I just want you to get that straight and don’t skew
it like the media would (purveyors of the matrix itself).

I didn’t shed a tear when going through an impassable wall of thornbrush with a creek
and 70 lb. rucksack for 200 meters alone with 0 lume without light or night vision.

When I got through it and rested on top of a hill I made it through that challenge and
shed some tears of relief and powerful growth looking at the moon AFTER I had made
it through.

I’ll admit many weak people would have CRACKED under the pressure at any second
of the way through it. I mean this shit (and much of what we went through) would
make grown men cry DURING it...not me though; not once.

Soon a�er at the top, I realized I lost my map itself with the checkpoints and had to go
back to find it in the thornbrushes...that’s another story.

FDNY firemen didn’t cry when the WTC was struck but maybe a�erwards when they
made it home and realized how precious life was they did. There’s quite a difference
And if you don’t respect the differentiation then you’re just a dumbass.

There are times every man should cry and if he doesn’t he’s just being ignorant. The
last and only time I cried in public was when our cat of 18 years died and that was just
around my family members when we were burying him in the backyard.

What I’m teaching you here is a very independent thing and I encourage you to keep
it for yourself. The only reason I am telling you this is because I am training you so I
have to reveal that so that you can get more value than you would have (because you
paid for it). That is our deal. I never warp it when other men reveal things to me, I
honor it and keep it safe.

I think I got that important point across.

If you study the most influential people you’ll notice that they actually had STRONG
and respected sources of influence in THEIR lives. They had a high level of trading
value (intake and respect) whereas most people just ‘suck up’ every thing that comes
their way leading them to powerlessness.

All great people had great influences - Rion Williams

Get inspired. Find meaningful things to you and if they’re worth it, limit your access to
them until you deserve it as a self-disciplined reward to yourself. This technique will
do WONDERS for you and will inspire you with self-control and hope in your inner
character.

Take your power back first and then grow it from where you’re at here (finally IN the
position to take your power back). For me, I kept growing my power and then it hit
me (took it all back). Unfortunately you probably have a li�le further to go than from
where I was because I was consciously improving myself for about a decade.

If you’re older or have been doing something similar, then you are already a man of
high inner character. If you haven’t and people describe you as ‘boring’ ‘listless’ or
‘apathetic’ (I hope no one does)..it’s time to get interesting. Find some influences that
you like, take control over it and learn from them.

There are influences that affected me (I’ve let in) that I guarantee that have affected no
one else on earth more than it has me. THAT’S the level of character you should want
to be at. That alone says that you HAVE character and you believe in SOMETHING.

“If you don’t believe in something, you’ll fall for anything” -anonymous

So find sources you can ‘return to innocence’ from (green bullets of influence). You’ll
draw incredible amounts of strength, hope and inspiration from them and they will
help you grow your character.

And again, they’ll probably be ‘effective’ and ‘synergistic’ productions that would
(hopefully) represent universal and natural ideals to further ground you in them and
grow in power.

Let them ‘build up’ YOU instead of you just soaking them up powerlessly like 99% of
people do. This is the absolute opposite of listening to the radio.
You are the stimulus and in this exercise you are completely closing off social character
and external influence. You’re going inside and you’ll find your natural character. Do
this and it will also ground you in natural energy as I mention elsewhere in the pro-
gram.

Be aware of the bullets of influence (N.E.O.). It’s about the most empowering thing
you could ever do in your life.

Books:

Awaken the Giant Within (read it twice around 8 years ago)

Rich Dad, Poor Dad series - Robert Kiyosaki (who I met and talked to twice)
How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

The Power Principle - Blaine Lee (I only read it once and went over the highlights twice
and that was about 5 years ago but this is probably the closest thing in line to Relation-
al Dynamics out there..but not nearly the same as in application and esp. with women;)
 Chapter 50

Natural Grounding

Natural Grounding is something that is crucial if you really want to gain true personal
power and a balanced NIS alpha character. Once you are naturally grounded enough,
you will be comfortable in your own skin, high in natural character, more aware and
extremely intuitive.

Add this to your cognition of relational elements in your environment (you’re always
in control of yourself) and = power.

When you are further grounded and aware of your natural energy, you will be able
to sense the natural energy of a woman. You will be able to lead naturally responsive
women through to sex as they will fall into your lead.

You will be able to differentiate the natural energy of superficial pricktease’s and finally
stand a chance with them even if you’re an ugly guy. You’ll see right through their
social ‘game’ representation to the real and innocent girl inside.

Why? It’s all within you and your energy. You will operate with the natural part of her
and disvalue her exploited social character if she’s a pricktease.

People telling you that you’re not “whatever” enough doesn’t even ma�er anymore be-
cause your own power comes from within. You only have to have your approval a�er
all.

You are grounded in yourself and aligned to natural/universal energy and that’s all
that ma�ers. How you relate to others and women is only a win/win interdependency.

First let’s recap your relationship to your biological (or ‘natural’) character.

This is the part of you that was chosen by nature to be a male. Women didn’t choose
what sex they were to become either.

With that biological inheritance comes certain powers and rights. Naturally, the female
is the nurturer and the male is the provider or protector. So when people like Nicole
Kidman are interested in ‘mothering’...their biology is speaking.
When women talk about ‘sex life’ and their experience with a vibrator, that is their
natural character they are reaching into. It’s universal and extends across all cultures.

Men alone don’t want sex. There has to be a duality in order to continue procreation of
life. Women love it too but they have to be more selective about their mates because of
the 9 year pregnancy and then the time onwards (18 years).

This natural process of mating is essentially a ‘stimulus-response’ relationship. It’s not

always as simple as smelling good food and starting to salivate. But I mean the overall
context of the relationship IS that a woman is responding off of the man’s character.

This is why they will act differently around different men and will more readily adapt
to their environment than men will. Being a male is nothing to be ashamed of; you’re
at the top of all species essentially.

It’s the male who fights and wars primarily over power and for the rights of women.
There is a long and noble brotherhood you share with all male species. Accept your
birthright because it’s only social conditioning that has diluted it. I talk more about
your natural character in the ‘Overcoming Fear of Aphrodite’s’ CD set.

Grounding yourself in natural energy is absolutely priceless. Not only is it what men
of potential great character are missing but it’s desperately what these socialized wom-
en are missing. Fortunately it is within us all by default. We all have natural energy
and natural character.

We’ve just grown ‘away’ from it because other forces (social influence) have completely
hidden and repressed this part of you. That’s why natural grounding is essential for
your fast character development (naturally as it’s already there).

It’s the ‘backup’ character growth once you have isolated the social matrix and your
relationship to it. Then you will want to continually (once a week at least) ground
yourself in natural energy (through the exercises and meditation) to keep growing in
natural character and strength.

Doing this will allow your natural character to gain more resiliency and congruency.
Your level of intuition and ability to differentiate natural energy (and seek it out) in
others will grow. You will begin to be able to see right through people to their real
soul.

Your eye contact will be piercing and will probably melt many women in their own
complete physiological response. You will actually be able to hold eye contact with
other powerful people including socially edified women.
I encourage you to play o�en the ‘staring contest’ with women you have recently met.
Get them one-on-one and either take the serious approach or the funny approach but
you want them to ‘crack’ first.

This is a powerful technique because you’ll be backing it up with tremendous ground-

ing...during the serious approach gaze into her eyes to reach her soul..look for it. This
is a great opportunity for her to see your strength of character.

It’s up to you to lead women and let them be aware of your natural character. This is
the part of you that is stronger than her social character and even in the mating game,
YOU are the stimulus or there wouldn’t be any response from women and thus no life.
That is your power. You have the natural power to initiate an a�raction response in
her which leads to ‘mating’.

A response to a man of high character happens by default amongst natural women in

the right conducive environments and may take some extra effort amongst socially ‘de-
veloped’ women. But what’s important is that YOU are always a man of high natural
character.

And if women don’t always respond to you, you’ll know that you’re not the problem
anymore and that part doesn’t bother you or destruct your character like it used to. Be-
cause we were taken away from our natural character virtually by default, re-ground-
ing yourself in pure, natural energy will bring back your powerful masculinity and
fearlessness.

You will be able to draw upon your rooting or grounding and the remembrance of
your natural character in time’s of trouble or confusion.

So. How do you do this ‘natural grounding’? How do you ground yourself in natural
energy to grow your natural character and become a more fearless, powerful and con-
gruent alpha man?

Well, it’s not that difficult. You will find sources of pure natural energy. Sources that
represent and flow of natural masculine or feminine energy.

What is natural energy?

Well, for one thing, it’s the opposite of socially developed or ‘conscious’ energy. Natu-
ral energy is pure. It’s real. It flows. It’s not acting or thinking consciously about what
you’re doing.
It’s the candid, real smile instead of the fake one in a woman. It’s the undiluted and
pure biological innocence within women. In men, it is his core of alpha strength, fear-
lessness and respect for himself; the eye of the tiger in a way.

It’s not caring at all about what other’s think in any environment or needing their ap-
proval. Your approval comes purely from within and no woman can ever take it away
either unless you let them.

Rooting yourself in natural energy and influences allows you to have the character to
retain your character in challenging situations or amongst powerful people or indepen-
dent women.

Are there still natural people in the U.S., Western Europe, Canada and Australia? Yes.
They’re called children. Look at their innocence while they’re still young enough. In-
nocence is pure and natural. The way they smile is real.

The way they are born without hate or prejudice is natural. Everything they really had
to know to survive they learned by kindergarten or they would learn from their pasto-
ral parents.

Through time however that one thing called social influence will take them further
away from their natural roots. You can still find mostly natural adults in some rural
areas but it’s becoming rarer still because television is in 99% of all U.S. households.

For an example. Look at American music videos and the choreography. When Be-
yonce is dancing in ‘Check up on it’ this is social energy. It’s conscious, pre-thought
and prickteasing. It’s self-conscious flaunting and flaunting isn’t natural. Flirting is
natural and real.

Flirting is a natural response and interdependence that a woman has with a man which
is the first action step in the mating sequence. Prickteasing isn’t. Prickteasing is the
social ‘added value’ game.

It’s her thinking she’s above you and that you should ‘respond’ to her which roots from
social influence itself. I’ve said before and will say it again, you have to be able to dif-
ferentiate natural energy from social.

The more you study it and root yourself in natural energy, the more clear social energy
or character becomes. Social energy is what is holding you back from succeeding with
these women because by following that program you’re admi�ing (nonverbally) that
she IS the stimulus.
Note: My use of social character or energy in women is not their ability to communi-
cate and interact with each other, rather the influence of the social matrix on their own
character and how they present themselves to other people

Root yourself in natural energy and women will start responding to you a lot more
because your body language and physiology back’s it up.

So, back to the sources of natural energy. I have found many sources that I use. I make
sure I have my uninterrupted environment so it’s completely independent and then
I’ll just focus on the sources and differentiate the natural energy and draw from it (if it
isn’t pure itself).

See the Chapter and audio on ‘Return to Innocence’ to practically apply natural
grounding. Foreign music videos, enya, hans zimmer, and such are tremendous
sources of positive natural energy that either are synergistic with nature, represent it or
represent and portray natural energy within it’s elements (such as female dancers).

With my examples the best way is to see it. I will show you natural energy if you have
my root examples so you can really start to differentiate it. The video portion on dif-
ferentiating the energies and characteristics of women is priceless.

Then you can watch social matrix programming with a wary eye and easily see how it
is the antithesis of natural energy and how these women are nowhere near their natu-
ral energy.

We’ve become so superficial and restless because we aren’t as connected to our natural
character and we’ve been the programmed response like a sponge for so long that we
don’t know literally which way is the right way to go.

The best place for grounding? Experience natural people (interdependently) your-
self. Meet them, interact with them (especially the women). You should reach a point
where you realize and know that a woman’s natural energy and character (with it’s
ultimate purpose of motherhood and nurture) is what should be edified and rewarded
instead of her socially developed or exploited character.

In fact you will find it more and more renewing to your soul. You will find it to be the
perfect, undiluted balance to your masculine character.

If you want to see and feel real natural energy, get on a plane to a second or third
world country (south America, eastern Europe, southeast Asia, African countries..) and
go into the countryside and interact with the people there.
Put aside “I got to get back to the office” and indulge yourself in your awareness of
their natural energy. Ideally you’d be independent from ‘having to’ BE ‘at the office’ in
the first place.

See the truth and purity of their smiles and interactions. The smallest thing or mis-
understanding becomes more pure and funny than such contrivance in a ‘socialized’
culture.

Your energy and cognition will grow as well. A�er a while you’ll be able to ‘feel’ it in-
tuitively and it will overwhelm you. THIS is the level of what it feels like when (natu-
ral) women respond to a man of high character when they see him.

Before men didn’t have to have this level of intuition that I have and that you may
reach, but in a way we were forced into cognition or otherwise remain ignorant.

It is a priceless skill.

There are great opportunities that abound now. You will be able to easily seduce natu-
ral women and you will know when a woman is flirting with you and when she isn’t.

When she does throw out a li�le S.O.N.A.R.R. back to your character in response, then
you know it’s clear to go in and talk to her and get her information; she’s already inter-
ested.

This is how things used to be in America. If you’re really strong in natural character
this will still happen in certain environments where the women aren’t as influenced or
distorted. Even with socialized women in conducive environments you’ll still be very
effective without trying much at all.

So the actions steps are listed at the bo�om but it’s important for you to ‘take action’
and get involved with sources of natural energy. Create an uninterruptable environ-
ment so that you can have your pure independence.

My most effective method has been meditating to natural music (see ‘Return to Inno-
cence’ Chapter) but differentiating natural energy in foreign music videos is rapidly
gaining ground because of my level of cognition now.

Yes, foreign music videos can be a wonderful source of natural energy even when it is
choreographed because the natural energy still spills through. You watch American
music videos and it’s all ‘acting’..they’ve put on this conscious act or developed a per-
sona that separates them from their real (natural) character.
I encourage using all of the action steps and while doing it, either meditate on the pure
energy or seek to differentiate the natural energy. Once you can differentiate the natu-
ral energy (ie. from the women involved in a music video) you will be able to grow in
strength as it will be a source of inspiration (sexual transmutation) for growing your
own natural character. This is explained more in the video portion if you have this.

You can ground yourself in natural energy of other Alpha males or of the natural ener-
gy of (more pure) women. Look at black and white movies that were in an age before
the social matrix of exploitation (and female empowerment) took over and you will
find a lot (still within our borders).

Cary Grant movies are perfect examples and the LionKing is the perfect analogy for
Relational Dynamics (along with ‘The Matrix’).

The most powerful example of masculine natural character as the stimulus and femi-
nine as the response is the original ‘Swept Away’ movie..the Italian version:

Travolti da un insolito destino nell’azzurro mare d’agosto

This movie will tremendously allow you cognition and grounding in natural charac-
ter perhaps more than any other ‘example’. A student of mine showed me that it was
in line with my teachings. I know true powerful influence when I see it; GET THAT
MOVIE.

Look at how natural the women just ‘are’ and respond to men. Then compare that to
modern t.v. programming and how women are behaving.

In classic movies, look at how the alpha men (lead actors) behave and also how the
women are much more responsive and amicable. The most successful films deal with
natural energy and it’s the hope of that which is missing in the lives of countless mil-
lions now who are under direct influence from the seemingly inescapable social ma-
trix.

Find and bask in natural energy. Ground yourself in it weekly at least through differ-
entiation of it (everywhere you can but esp. from ie. more natural/foreign sources) and
through the meditation technique.

You’ll find that with natural energy you have more in common with people whose
language you don’t speak than with people from your own culture who speak your
language fluently. I knew this a decade ago when I started ‘seducing’ (win/win) inter-
national women and noticed how natural and smooth everything was.
Natural character is to be desired, not a socially upward and distorted one in order to
‘impress’ other people. You may have to be the anti-hero hero.

Seek it out, differentiate it, bask in it and ground thyself, oh student. Natural energy is
very important to your strong natural character development. And yes it can be iso-
lated from the social character of a woman.

It will take practice to differentiate (see my video training) but you will be able to sense
it when you meet women who are or aren’t and you’ll easily be able to go in for the
connection even without knowing their language.

Japanese women are actually quite innocent and natural in their energy despite com-
ing from the technology leader of the world. The point is to draw from and ground
yourself in natural energy which can include surrounding yourself with more natural
people. Thai people are the perfect example. I didn’t say Thai-American either.

The true ideal?

I would say that is of women who are of high natural character AND high social char-
acter (ie. beautiful and desired). This mix of women is SO rare that you cannot find it
within the pure social matrix itself (U.S.A.). Celine Dion is one of those rare women
who will blow your mind if you open up to (listening to) her.

There are plenty of beautiful women in the world but within the Matrix very few of
them have natural character that shines. Seek that out.

Celine IS a high in natural character woman who I would think knows how to balance
being a social superstar and husband/wife. Why? Because she’s not from America
(and under the direct influence) and because she speaks a language (French) other than
English. Trust me; it’s a whole different state of mind (go to Montreal or Paris).

Her time in Las Vegas is probably diluting her natural energy but I still see it’s there.

She has had MASSIVE (and deserves it) success because she is effective at ge�ing
across (and ‘representing’) a woman’s natural and social ideals through her indepen-
dent/inner character.

She really does have a level of natural character that American women/performers
have either lost touch with or are not ge�ing across (they’ve lost touch with it by be-
coming too socialized).
If you want to make history, find a new talent outside the U.S. who can sing and make
her into the next mega superstar. (I’ll do it when I have the financial resources). Be-
cause people can synergize more with a woman who can touch their natural/universal
and raw emotional chords (positive bullet of valuable influence) like a Celine Dion
MUCH moreso than the next Britney Spears or Paris Hilton; a socially developed/
trendy diva pop tart.

In fact society has defined them so much that they would probably reject a return to
natural character from someone as such.

In my opinion ‘American Idol’ is limited and obviously catered to one culture. It takes
someone on the level of a Celine Dion to reach the WORLD on a deeper level (not, ok
it’s another American hit artist). Why?

Because of her high natural character and living reality of that character which is so
evident when you see her or feel her energy. American Idol will never have that level
of superstar drawing from American (socially defined and directed) women who have
lost touch with that raw natural innocent strength and emotion.

If I were them I would find a woman who can sing from a second or third world coun-
try who can retain her roots/natural character (like Celine still has as far as I know) yet
wants to add a tremendous amount of value who really has talent. That’s the only way
you’re going to find someone who makes a lasting impact BECAUSE OF her raw natu-
ral character which in itself can bring you to tears.

But U.S. is where big bucks are at and they’ll sign these artists who are here one day
and gone the next (unless their producer’s for them can keep producing and squeez-
ing more social value out of them). Adri� at the winds of social change, none of these
women can reach the depth and raw level of natural character because it’s just not who
they ‘are’ anymore.

You have to look outside the social matrix completely for that level of impact. And do-
ing that is almost the antithesis of what the social matrix represents; they completely
devalue the prospect unless they are turned into the current social ideal.

If something is ‘really’ good I’ll know shortly a�er I see it (whether I would want to
officially adopt it as a positive bullet). In fact I’ve been able to be such a great arm-
chair A&R rep by calling hundreds of hit songs and recording artists the first time I
heard them because I would probably pinpoint it down to relational dynamics and my
awareness over the past decade.
Thai-Thai women (not thai-american) can put on a brand name clothing, etc. or add
a li�le (SEAsian or Western) social influence and their natural energy will STILL seep
through.

In order for you to understand your relationship to the natural part of a woman (in an
unnatural society) you either have to have already had a lot of sex or (also like me) you
should experience natural women themselves in order to FEEL and see your relation-
ship to the natural part of a woman.

If you can’t break away right now to experience more natural women and are hav-
ing difficulty understanding your relationship clearly to the natural part of a woman
there’s only one direct solution. Go to ethaicd.com and order what I recommend if you
don’t have the special bonus package...

If you say or ask ‘well I don’t know what the lyrics means’ that further proves the
whole issue here and you don’t get it yet. We’re at a deeper level beyond ‘logic’ here so
the dumbass who laughs because I don’t understand the lyrics is actually the ACTUAL
(socially contrived) dumbass (not that it’s you!..I hope not).

I encourage you to also be aware of the ‘bigger picture’ in life instead of seeing just
what’s in front of your eyes being handed to you.

I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY’RE SAYING EITHER and (I’ve been studying
thai language for a long time and just need someone to give me more vocab defini-
tions) but the beauty of it all is you don’t have to and I kind of bask that I don’t ‘logical-
ly’ understand all the word definitions; it’s what makes it part of an ongoing mystery
to me. Words are just a socially contrived function anyway.

That’s why social matrix produced songs with an emphasis on lyrics get old FAST (un-
less they are universally aligned lyrics with a synergistic rhythm and harmony). I’ve
been watching Thai VCD’s for years and I’m still learning (and drawing influence/en-
ergy) from the female natural energy and my relationship to it and I still only have an
idea of what they’re actually ‘saying’.

If you’re nowhere near my level of understanding, you’d be�er get cracking if you’re
serious about this.

Not being in English or instantly socially/logically recognizable allows you to focus on

the natural energy which is more important anyways. Oh, ONLY buy VCD’s. These
are the music video versions of songs and this is what you want to learn from and pick
up; their nonverbal energy and body language (of the women).
Whether you get hooked on thai music at the level I am at all or not is also irrelevant
(for you) but I encourage you to learn from the NATURAL and PURE energy (which
has not been corrupted) of the women in the music videos. It’s value has been immea-
surable on my life to date.

Even in consciously derived environments or with choreography, their natural energy

is unmistakable and it may take a while for you to discern it but your awareness of it
will become stronger through time.

What is the benefit of doing this? Well...you will fully actualize that natural character
and response in a woman (and that part of her) is 100X more important than her social
influence. This means that you will be able to recognize (and seduce) women who are
higher in natural character.

It also means for you (still-limited) guys who ‘just’ want to ‘seduce’ these sexploited
women that you will not give her any leeway in her social character and that you will
find and cherish her naturally responsive feminine energy (and please her sexually)

DISCLAIMER: You MUST look past your initial ‘response’ to these music videos. Just
because they’re not Western or MTV or socially approved doesn’t ma�er. I’m the pro-
ducer here and I know what has potential and what doesn’t for crossover (and I’ll be
working on that); the POINT IS you are gaining more awareness of natural energy...
both in women and in yourself.

I have spent countless hundreds of hours watching and enjoying (primarily Thai) mu-
sic videos and I still can’t get enough. It is an endless root of strength and balance for
me so if the ‘social’ part of you doesn’t approve you are just not ge�ing it. If you turn
BACK to MTV you will be forever lost, I’m afraid. You must be aware of this point.

So in the music videos (and I dare you to come close to the level of appreciation and
respect I have for them), look primarily for the feminine natural energy and ‘feeling it’.
Once you are ‘aware’ of it (because it doesn’t exist or rarely does in the social matrix),
you will be able to differentiate it and begin to grow in it’s awareness and depth.

That’s why you get bored of American-produced videos and just sick of hearing them
a�er a dozen or two times...this is a whole different level. A lot of these videos have
SFX, etc. but to the discerning character, the natural energy just completely OVER-
RIDES the social development (sfx).

That’s the same energy in any woman (her sexual nature once it reaches a certain point)
that overrides her social inhibitions or conditioning/standards/logic and she HAS to
have sex with you.

Become one with this natural energy and character...Learn to look for it. Feminine
natural energy is what you want to come home to, not the social derisions of a pop tart.

Popular music videos are all rooted in consciously developed energy in which the
people have lost root of their natural character. It’s the natural energy primarily that
causes this to be unlimited because I grew up in the social matrix and promoted it. If
you don’t BALANCE OUT, you’ll never reach the level of power or fearlessness that
you can have.

You don’t have to impress anyone in the social matrix.

It’s going back to your natural roots and you ironically have to look OUTSIDE the U.S.
to find it. Why? Because we are all human. I’ve known for a decade that I was inter-
ested more in ‘foreign’ women than American women...it was their natural energy (and
response).

That’s the power that will bring you to your knees and empower you as a man. We
wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for THAT power and NOT this socially/economically con-
trived exploitation.

I’m talking about stuff that you can’t even FIND in America or downloadable.

Natural (energy) is Universal. And we know that universal is the only good stuff that
you can keep watching. Socially derived (or trying to please/fit-in) productions get
old. What is timeless is universal (ie. natural) baby.

Here’s the discipline if you want the real POWER or not...you have to put this natural
influence/energy as priority and you must put social influence (distortion) below it and
in it’s RIGHTFUL PLACE. If you don’t, you will never ‘the power’.

As tempting as watching Beyonce and others shake their ass is (exploiting their social
status and YOU continuing to succumb to it as a powerless ‘response’) without know-
ing it’s real relationship to the powerful you, you’ll be close to powerless.

Real is ‘real’ and mindblowingly real to socially developed people like us (who have
magnitudinal power). I’m not talking african-american people who say they’re ‘real’ (if
they’re ONLY influenced socially and just being congruent with their social character’s
reality) I’m talking the REAL REAL. Pure natural character.
It’s what EVERY man should strive for and edify and desire to live with way beyond
the over-rated out of touch social bitches. I hope that J.Lo was purely singing about
her natural and independent character when she sang ‘i’m real’ because otherwise she’s
a fraud.

You have to help women get over their own social distortion ...

This is about YOUR power and taking back your power. It’s about taking a different
path. Differentiating yourself from the mess by taking a path that may not be ‘socially’
approved, but I think you understand that importance now. If you want to actually be
a stimulus to society instead of just a response, you have to follow your own path and
then you can have that influence.

The more natural (and naturally influenced you are) the more you will see through the
B.S. of b.s. social influence and def. the more you will question it’s worth and integrity.

One of my perfect examples of natural energy: GAUN MA LI BAHN. Will you feel the
natural energy and be overwhelmed by it the first time you see it? No. I can almost
guarantee you won’t.

There’s too much social clu�er and influence to clear out of your way first. I shed tears
of humility literally Every Time I see this music video (amongst a few select others).

Why? Because the natural power of it overwhelms me; the raw purity and honesty
of character and humbleness. In fact, the women that you probably idolize the most
wouldn’t even understand this energy AND THEY ARE WOMEN...

so if you’re still been a ‘response’ to them, you might be really far away but let me tell
you this: when you can truly ‘feel’ the natural energy that is basically DEVOID of so-
cial influence you WILL become a be�er and more humble yet strong man.

Women are the ones with intuition (or supposedly) yet socially developed women have
lost their own intuition and raw power of judgment because they have become TOO
socially influenced. It’s distorted them too much and it’s the sad truth.

They’ve been to influenced by social development that led them away from their natu-
ral roots.

So it’s definitely fair to say that I have stronger intuition than these women because
their intuition/judgment has been clouded over by social influence (and expectation)
and that I have gained a preternatural level of intuition (which has become me) in my
study of natural energy (which has exceeded men because with natural women before
in all of history, men didn’t have to be aware of edify this energy...it was just there for
them...seek and ye shall find).

We’re rooting yourself in your pure natural character.

By understanding the root of raw feminine natural/sexual energy you WILL grow
stronger as a man in your own natural character. Thus you will be closer to sex and at-
traction-response and seduction with women at all times.

You will moreso understand your natural character and your relationship to the part
that ma�ers within a woman..you will be able to find that part of her and give mas-
sively less importance on her socially constructed sexploitation.

You will probably even question why you thought so highly of socially sexploited
women in the first place once you really experience more natural women themselves.

If you’re not from America in the first place you are more than halfway there depend-
ing (can I use that word yet!) where you’re from.

If you are an American (or Canadian) man or even European who has been influenced
by a strong social culture and women who think they’re ‘it girl’ then it’s going to take
a li�le more work to fully get a ‘grasp’ on the social matrix and the fact that it has been
the ONE thing (well a�er influencing yourself) that has repressed you and confused
you.

So keep on studying the rest of this eBook and applying relational dynamics to your
life. Connect with women and comfortably deal with them in high natural character
long enough so that they can get their social blockage aside to realize how much they
want to sleep with you (and this is with good girls).

In different environments you can let a woman know straight up front your reality of
how things are and she can join you or not but this isn’t the place for that discussion.

If you don’t get cultural differentiation you may continue to think that you are the root
of the problem or that it’s you who are screwed up.

No, you do have to be accountable for change and you’re one of the men on the right
path. I think there’s a negative karma that’s going to have to hit all to most of these
American women for who they have become...all of this overrated exploitation and
‘added value’ is going to come back to hit them in the ass because men will finally
realize that these are the women (and the most empowered among them) that they do
NOT want to have relationships with (where they are less than men).
Maybe I’m starting a chain reaction here that will lead to that effect...who knows but
it’d be a long time coming. It’s time men take their lives back and women will respect
them more (short-term) as it’s ‘real’ co-dependent type relationships that are the real
challenge.

Like I said; I recommend going to a second or third world country and experiencing
more natural women in the process of a�raction (of course with respect and adding
value to their lives). If you haven’t yet, you have no idea what you’re missing.

And watch, feel and see the energy of the women and how different it actually is from
socially (matrix) developed women. I’ve been enjoying and studying it for years and
li�le did I know how much of a difference it would make in my life and character.

If you haven’t experienced other women or were even aware that there actually are
NATURAL and RESPONSIVE women out there in the world, you might continue to be
less than a man for countless years or your whole life (like others are doing) because
they’re not aware of the bigger picture (outside the stimulus of a socially contrived
directive influence).

When a woman has a baby and is pregnant..she is still who she is. She has her own in-
dependent personality, etc. but what is happening is that the natural part of her is tak-
ing over. The process of birth is natural (although we have medical technology to help
assist). It’s not something she has much control over.

What the baby was going to look like was pre-ordained from conception onwards, she
can’t do a computer model of what she would like it to look like. The power of nature
is strong and it should be respected. But it’s just important for you to be able to differ-
entiate it from the rest of life and the rest of a woman.

The process of a�raction (or the ‘mating game’) is also a natural process. Yes it has
social influences but it is controlled by our biological nature. This partly means that in
order to continue life a woman must at some point in her life be predestined to DESIRE
to be a mother and/or to go through the process of procreation itself.

It must be a great experience. That’s why sex was created. God had to make sure we
had some way to continue our propagation.

Freud talks about the subconscious id and the sex drive. Well to me, this is just the
natural ‘character’ of a man and a woman. We were pre-programmed to know how
to a�ract and mate because by it’s pure nature, it’s biological. In some cases it’s com-
pletely beyond our logic control, these desires we have within us to basically continue
life on earth (both in man and his desire to sow seed and women to take in the seed of
a high character male).

This is why when a female reaches a certain level of a�raction response she is literally
paralyzed and has to take the male seed..she HAS TO. This is her biological nature
that is taking over and it completely (at this time) overrides ALL socio-logical reason-
ing (even in the MOST socially developed women once they reach this point).

However, in order for a man to get to that point he has to raise her F.A.R.M. from the
point he meets her up until that level. For a woman it just takes time to ensure that this
man can be trusted and is of good breed himself (or high character).

High natural character in a man means the survival of the fi�est and that is what he is
representing. He doesn’t have to be the best-looking guy but he has to be a survivor
and replicator.

What is the peak of natural character in a man? I have to say this; it’s the point where
you’re in bed with a woman and there are powers you feel greater than you that are
driving you to enter her.

When you’re higher in natural character you’ll be ‘closing the deal’ (and she’ll help
you) instead of just not knowing what to do. Everytime a new woman is in my bed sex
is a done deal because of my high natural character. Before it didn’t use to be like that.

This is some of what you have to look forward to and soon! And to her she’ll go crazy.
I’ve had problems kicking women out of my place a�er sleeping with them because
my natural character was so high that they were stuck in the aura of experience.

It’s worth it, you’ll see. That’s Alpha Relational Dynamics.

Henry David Thoreau spent a lot of time in nature. I’m the type of person that it’s
more of a challenge to synergize with nature (in nature) because I view it objectively
and relate it’s components together, etc. It would take some time to really ‘feel’ nature
and get back down to your natural roots without interference of consciously developed
thought.

Another thing you could do to one extreme is study Buddhism. It’s the anti-religion re-
ligion. The main purpose is to achieve enlightenment through stripping all influences
and distractions away so that you are in the moment and completely aware, grounded
in yourself. The goal is to become ‘nothing’ in a sense.

While I don’t agree with everything or even much of it, (because Buddha denies meta-
physics) there is something to be learned about the natural energy and grounding in
it. I have reached a level myself (without studying Buddhism) where I can sense this
energy when it is strong or moderate in others.

It was Buddha’s natural energy itself and his charisma that drew crowds of disciples
and people 15 centuries ago because his ideas were basically banned in India. Where I
immediately don’t agree is that he denies metaphysics. (I think) you cannot find all the
answers within Buddhism because it only looks at the independent self.

It doesn’t teach or explain your relationship to other obvious things or elements that
exist. So from my point of view, the natural energy represented is probably unparal-
leled (in the men whether it’s ‘alpha’ is debatable because it’s very peaceful) and you
can learn from it, however there are no explanations as to the reality of your relation-
ships with everything around you.

A lot has been developed since that time as well and (from what I know right now) it
offers no explanation of how to interact and we just can’t be naive.

Relational Dynamics is about cognition and understanding your relationship to the

other elements in life and in specific relationships...applied metaphysics in a way..the
explanation of all things.

Look at life as a smorgasbord and you can still learn a lot from many different things
even if you don’t agree with them completely.

Natural Grounding Action Steps:

●Check out the audio portion of the training.

●Travel to a third world country and interact with the people

●Date international women who haven’t been Americanized and revel in their energy/
response

●Watch foreign music videos and differentiate feminine natural energy/character

●Watch and learn from natural energy movies:

The LionKing, Cary Grant movies, James Bond movies, Last of the Mohicans, Gladia-
tor, Travolti..(swept away), It’s a Wonderful Life, etc.

●Meditate to select music to ‘return to innocence’ and get in touch with your natural
character (see Chapter)
 Chapter 51

Trial by Fire

When you really integrate a cognitive relational philosophy into your daily lifestyle so
that you are aware of forces of influence and your relationship to them, you will be a
much more powerful person.

Ideally you’ll let nothing ‘affect’ you without your approval first because you’ll stop
that bullet and question it first (see ‘Relational Mapping’).

Throughout this eBook there is a lot of leverage and power which will help you grow
tremendously in natural and independent character.

Use the resources included (if you have the full version of this program) to ground
yourself in natural energy and your awareness of it. Study classic American films from
before the 1950’s and pick up the natural energy and how comforting those women are.

Study the sources of influence included that are from outside the social matrix itself
and learn to pick up and sense natural energy/character and feminine response.

I encourage you to leave the social matrix and travel to a third world country to further
experience nature and natural character (as well as real feminine response). We have
to ground you on it and away from the social matrix influence but it will be up to you
to make that happen.

So get control, shut off the social matrix for a while completely, be proactive and stay
involved in this (growing your character).

But I want you to do more. You can do even be�er.

Diamonds are formed by prolonged exposure of carbon bearing materials to high pres-
sure and temperature. -wikipedia.org

There’s something else I want you to do that you might want to hate me for. I want
you to go through a trial by fire to continue your Jedi training. What I mean is to pick
one of your greatest fears and face it straight on.

Nothing to do with women because by now you shouldn’t fear them at all anyways
(otherwise keep going over Alpha R.D., the exercises and keep meditating THEN ap-
proaching).

Yes, FACE your greatest fear/s.

It could be swimming with sharks, bungee jumping, skydiving, walking on hot coals.
I want you to pick something that is personal to you that you have been avoiding and
take 100% accountability for your conscious decision to do it.

And I want you to have the courage to face it and do NOT back out. Doing this will
increase your natural character tremendously and there is a lot of leverage in it.

For me, yes I skydived (tandem). I’d been afraid of it my whole life but realized that I
just ‘have to’ overcome this fear. Ironically since I KNEW that it HAD to be done, that’s
what made me incredibly calm on the way up. They took us up even higher because it
was the last flight of the a�ernoon.

“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself” -JFK

But the big thing I did which can be called my ‘trial by fire’ is that I joined the U.S.
Army for 4 years of active duty. I consciously chose to and I chose Infantry. Through
all of the psychological and physically demanding pressure, yes I came out much
stronger. And a�er 9/11/2001 on the firing range preparing for anything to happen I
came at peace with myself and war/death.

I’m not encouraging you to join the military or some kind of system that would put
pressure on you. That is fully your 100% decision and there are other ways to rise in
natural character even more than understanding relational dynamics and it’s primarily
through ‘trial by fire’ or ‘hero’s journey’.

You can also schedule exciting or demanding adventures such as going on a survival
training course, rappelling, rock climbing, etc. But I really recommend facing and
overcoming as many of your fears as possible because you will grow much more in
natural character.

Unfortunately the Alpha Relational Dynamics program here can’t do this part for you
but you have to take things to another level if you want to see even more growth. Do
this by making that conscious Independent CHOICE. But do it a�er Relational Map-
ping!

On the more interdependent side, I always wanted to be a youth summer camp coun-
selor. I still plan on doing that one summer of my life.
Find ways throughout your life that will allow your to continuously improve your
natural, inner and social character. Keep on learning.

All the best movies are about a boy becoming a man. It’s when he ‘man’s up’ and steps
into his adult role. No more time for wussiness at all. Women are a�racted to ‘real
men’ and even if it means not ending up with an independent woman (because she
would repress your character), well, you’re more important. YOU are what ma�ers so
‘go alpha’.

The more pressure you go through, the more of a shining diamond you can be. The
deeper your foundation and roots, the higher you can grow.

I chose to go through Special Forces Selection & Assessment because I knew it would
make me stronger in (natural) character. I still haven’t told those stories to anyone.

Challenge yourself to clearly grow in character a�er you center yourself in relation to
the world the Alpha R.D.

Martial Arts are also an excellent area in which to grow in self-discipline (inner char-
acter) and also in natural character by facing confrontation, behaving proactively and
gaining more courage.

There are some other sports as well like kickboxing, boxing, hunting, etc.

Alpha R.D. will take you quite a long ways but it’s up to you to take accountability and
git’r dun as you see fit.
 Chapter 52

Applying Relational Dynamics

Throughout this book I’ve talked o�en about applying relational dynamics to your life.

Relational Dynamics applied to your life means that you understand the relational
formula and you are aware of other independent sources of influence that may have
previously had more power over your actions than you thought.

Your goal is to have a full level of independence in which you quickly and consciously
choose what bullets of influence you let in in order to maintain a win/win relationship
with your environment, other people and other sources of influence.

This can very easily be an active and ongoing conscious process. I do recommend you
make a habit out of conscious being aware of your relationship to other sources of in-
fluence in all things where you might lose your free will.

The ‘bullets’ of influence are essentially any source outside of your (independent) self
that are trying to influence you. You have the full right to be aware of any person or
source and their potential to influence and deciding whether or not to accept that influ-
ence.

If it’s not a win/win relationship you may have to decline and stand up for yourself
to negotiate a win/win relationship. If you know a charge isn’t right on your bill, this
means that you will stand up for it and bring a�ention to it in order to resolve the situ-
ation to make it transactionally interdependent (a basic win/win exchange relation-
ship).

To give you an idea of what you can do with an understanding of Relational Dynamics,
check this out again:

In case you didn’t know, I was (and still am) a professional Photoshop user/teacher/
graphic designer before I got into this industry.

No one taught me any of it either, in fact I taught myself Photoshop for the most part.
No one taught me design at all. My understanding of relational dynamics allowed me
to ‘deconstruct’ all of the elements and their relationships and to flow on that high level
myself a�er a li�le bit of practice.
Had I not had my breakthrough that started ‘mensguidetowomen.com’ a year ago, I
would probably be the most effective graphic designer in the world today right now.
I taught myself how to design effectively in all kinds of fields; movie posters, flyers,
montages, brochures, web design, digital scrapbooking, advertising design, you name
it.

All because of relational dynamics. Because of that I had the leverage to teach my self
by re-constructing the elements and synergizing them together a�er differentiating
them.

h�p://www.photoshopdesigner.com/insidefolio.htm

Awareness alone of the elements involved in anything will put you way ahead of the
competition because most people just don’t have a clue. Seek out the elements in-
volved and be cognitive of them; know them instead of being like most everyone else
who is ignorant and is easy to sway.

Look for the root elements involved in ANY relationship, look at how they relate to
each other and see if it’s a synergy or instead a clashing, co-dependency and you’re on
the road to solving huge problems or creating masterpieces.

I remember being in the #1 marching band in the land my freshman year of college.

There was a whole matrix of what looked like chaos to me because I was ignorant. I
am talking about Mike Leckrone’s grid for the whole hal�ime show which includes the
placement of each band member and their movements at different times.

Unfortunately, no one ever taught me what any of it meant so I was le� to try and fig-
ure things out on my own. I still never really did see the global picture (here I was part
of that co-dependent environment instead of the architect).

Same thing in the U.S. Army..they never gave you your relationship to the bigger pic-
ture of what was going on and it drove me crazy...I was ignorant. When you can see
the big picture and how everything relates you’ll have more power.

You can produce troop movements when you’re in the position of power or the ar-
chitect. You know the relationship of each of the components. I hated ge�ing stuck
where I couldn’t know what was going on. That’s why I like military video games; it
gives me more control and I can see how everything relates and fits together
Don’t underestimate the power of differentiating the elements. Once you are aware of
each independent element and what it takes to produce the most effective result, you
can interplace different elements to end up with different highly effective results.

In other words, whatever your ‘field’ is, you can rise to the top of it once you apply
relational dynamics. Know what the independent elements are and start synergizing
them together (or be aware of what works) and take it from there. An hour ago I made
up a new drink; the ‘Black Pirate’. I simply replaced the vodka with Rum in a black
russian; so I just added kahlua.

Then I added a li�le creme de cacao because I felt it should synergize with the Rum
and also a dash of Angostura bi�ers because it’s from the Caribbean region as well and
voila; a new drink! That’s just with a basic and elemental awareness of the elements. I
want to get you thinking like this.

The SECRET to great production is to have the best possible elements (and then to be
able to synergize them together); all producers know this. That includes cooks (where
R.D. elements become ‘ingredients’), bartenders, graphic designers, music producers,
filmmakers, architects, fashion designers, video producers, you name it. That’s all it is.

So if you’re a pro graphic designer, when you see a kick-ass, beautiful portrait photo-
graph of a woman you know what you can do with it because you already know of the
other independent elements that you can synergize it with.

If you’re a ladies man and you see a woman who is hot and is giving you ‘the eye’ (nat-
ural not pricktease), you know that ‘it’s on’. You can synergize with her in a�raction.

If you saw a woman at a waterfall AGES ago of course you would know what to do to
seduce her; it’s in your natural character and hers. Now...too much B.S. has clouded
your vision and that’s it. Apply Alpha R.D.!

When you know the independent parts of a vehicle motor and how it is supposed to
operate you can begin looking for deficiencies in the relationship to the other parts of
that system and you’ll know what’s wrong and how to fix it instead of remaining igno-
rant to the real cause (or just hire someone in this case but keep that relationship trans-
actionally interdependent so they don’t screw you over).

A fashion designer will take different high quality fabrics and combine them with
other fabrics and relational processes such as outlining, cu�ing, sewing and hemming
in order to create a final product.
A construction manager will organize all of the parts involved in creating a building by
knowing his cra� of all of the relational elements involved and how they are supposed
to synergize together.

For example a few pieces of 2X4 lumber combined with a handful of nails and a ham-
mer can form a frame for a wall. Add in other elements (and relate them properly)
such as sheetrock, insulation, any electrical wiring and paint and you’re producing a
wall.

So: be AWARE of the elements in your field. Recognize and respect their indepen-
dence. Know what works the best for that specific field by learning from the best or
just breaking apart the relationship of the elements. As a professional graphic designer
myself, I’m VERY aware of the independent elements and how to synergize them to-
gether.

This also means that when you see other people’s works, you’ll KNOW what works
and what doesn’t and which is most aligned to the universal elements themselves.
Some quirky dis-synergistic piece might only feel like art in the eyes of a few. You
want the most success, stick to the elements and synergizing them together so that they
complement each other and create a positive result.

You can’t build a house on sand because it’s relationship to the sand is that through
time it will shi�, collapse, sink or who knows what.

With relational dynamics and where you’re at, the shortcut is to just study the absolute
best in your field and break apart what they do. You’ll be able to do it when others
can’t because you are cognitive of all of the elements or actions and how they fit togeth-
er. No one even has to ‘teach you’ once you are aware of the elements involved and the
best way to synergize them.

You will be able to ‘pick up’ things very fast because you’re aware of the elements or
ingredients and how they synergistically relate to each other (and how they shouldn’t
relate). For applying R.D. myself, I’ve been able to learn new skills I’d say faster than
98% of the population.

Relational Dynamics is really just an awareness of the elements involved in any situa-
tion, production or interaction. The ideal of anything is always a win/win situation; it’s
not where one person has power or takes advantage over another. Instead it’s where
they both win.

Don’t let other people use you anymore unless you both get a win/win situation. They
should respect you for being independent and you have the right to be independent
even around the most powerful people in the world (or most beautiful women).

As far as applying R.D., throughout this special eBook there are action steps at the end
of several Chapters which will help you immediately applying R.D. The audio pro-
gram has many exercises as well as the video.

Consciously being aware of what other people are saying about you or to you or how
they are trying to influence you will provide you with a level of personal power (when
you hold that integrity) that you have never experienced before.

You will be able to get a lot more out of life, solve problems faster, develop solutions as
well as be able to a�ract and handle a�ract beautiful women.

In essence, you will be alpha because you have claimed (and now keep) your own
power for yourself and you never let others turn you into their puppet. You have the
last word on anyone who is negatively trying to influence you or create a co-dependent
or coercive relationship. You’re also not afraid to stand up anymore because you’re
aligned with powerful universal truth and knowledge (and knowledge that the other
person is violating the truth).

It’s really about claiming your independence and being aware of your independence
and how other sources are trying to influence or relate to you. Cognition and aware-
ness is your strength and through time you will be able to more clearly see what and
who is trying to influence you to their advantage without your conscious approval.

A big part of gaining your power back (so you have that level of independence of an
Alpha, powerful male) is being able to differentiate the powers that have influenced
you so far and maintaining control over their further influence.

This may mean dropping or controlling sources that have influenced you previously
beyond your full control. You may be shocked at how actual li�le control you had in
many relationships (ie. with t.v. and radio).

You should also be able to differentiate the natural, inner and social characteristics of
women and fully understand your relationship to them if you want to be able to a�ract
and seduce beautiful women (to give them a win/win experience for both of your plea-
sure). With the video training, we go through those practical exercises to get you up
and running.

You can become a rare man of character in a confusing social culture that is overloaded
with machine gun bullets of coercive influence but you have power over that because
you have power over yourself; the power of one. You have the ability to choose wheth-
er you accept them anymore and HOW you accept them (I recommend retaining your
independence and only dealing with those sources for an exchange of positive value or
win/win relationship).

By taking your power back through applying the exercises in this program, you’ll be
able to influence more people than ever before and get much more out of life instead of
just le�ing people influence you without your cognition of it.

To make your independence even stronger, make sure you have a clear destiny or pur-
pose in life which will strongly guide you forward. This will further a�ract the right
people and women into your life for your (and their) benefits (Law of A�raction).
Make sure to use the action steps located at the end of Chapters throughout the ebook
in further applying Relational Dynamics to your life.

I encourage you to be cognitive of your relationship to everything (it can and should
become a habit especially when a force subtly tries to influence you without your ap-
proval), because if you don’t you will likely slip back into a powerless lifestyle where
you will do things that others want you to do without your own approval or aware-
ness.

In fact, if you DON’T be conscious of your own independence in social-driven cultures

(because the forces of influence are SO strong), by default you will become a end of the
line ‘response’ who is being programmed more than you can imagine. You in a way
‘have to’ reclaim your independent awareness back in such a society.

When you realize you don’t ‘need’ other people or the type of women that society pro-
motes then you’ll actually stand a chance with them. The Relational Model of A�rac-
tion is another study entirely so I barely went into it here but I encourage you to find
out more about it if you want to understand how women respond and how to have
more direct information on how to succeed with them.

As a business owner you should only operate interdependently with people and other
sources as well. Everything including the right decisions and answers will become
quite clear when you view it through this elemental mindset.

You’ll KNOW when an outsourcer or a supplier is trying to screw you over because
your pure interdependence will be violated and in your own independent reality of
knowledge you will know that you can’t let ANYONE get away with B.S. so you will
hold them accountable to your same high standard.

You, a�er all ARE independent yourself so when a waitress doesn’t bring back the
change from your $20 bill for one beer, you’ll point it out to her to resolve the situation.
Align yourself to the universal principles by keeping your relationship with others a
win/win. People will respect you a lot more and you will have undeniable confidence.

Power, sex and influence can be yours when you apply relational dynamics to your life
and keep only win/win relationships with others; it’s basically that simple. It will also
save you a TON of heartache and frustration in life because you’ll stop doing many
stupid, powerless things or ge�ing into (co-)dependent relationships.

Remember that with women it is a special kind of relationship that is not bought with
money, power or gi�s but with your character and her ‘a�raction response’ to your
character (see the RMA videos). Understand your relationship to it all and you will be
massively effective as a person.

You have the tools to design and sculpt your lifestyle of power and influence. You also
have the knowledge to be at peace with yourself and thus, affecting your entire physi-
ology.

Refuse to be anything but independent in everything you do. If someone tries to co-
erce you to do something, they’re having power over you. EVERYTHING must run
past you for your approval first. GIVE yourself the power, because if you don’t, some-
one else will and they’ll use or influence you to their advantage.

With independence comes responsibility. You’re going to have to ‘step up’ and be ac-
countable for your actions but you’ll be exercising your power and you’ll feel good
about it.

Ground yourself in natural energy and understand the enemy (the social matrix) so
that you can use it to your advantage by only operating win/win with it if you can get
some value out of it or exploit it to add ‘good’ to other people’s lives.

You have the power to stop the bullets of influence and reject the ones that don’t add
real value to your life. You just haven’t exercised this fully yet because you’ve been
conditioned to just ‘accept’ whatever comes at you.

No longer should you ‘know thyself’, you must also ‘know’ your relationship to other
forces of influence so that you can regain and then preserve your true independence
and power. You are a man apart, so revel in your strength, pride and humility.

Everything can be broken down to the elements and that’s why R.D. is so effective.
We’re dealing with the root issues of influence and pu�ing them into proper align-
ment. Essentially it’s not that difficult of a process once you clearly understand that
you deserve your true independence and it’s yours for the taking.
Some examples of Relational Dynamics.

For example, watch the live music video of U2’s (Pride) In the Name of Love. When
you understand relational dynamics and can see the world through the basic elements
you’ll realize what’s going on. 4 guys are having an unlimited influence of adding
positive value.

They are onstage led by Bono being the pure stimulus and the entire stadium is the re-
sponse. Talking about it doesn’t do it justice because it’s an experience, but being able
to just be aware of the elemental dynamics of the reality of what’s going on will liberate
you. It will give you power. And once you understand that you will begin to to ‘feel’
what it’s like to be at that level of power and influence. You start to BE fearless

Look at the beginning of Time ‘Ma li bahn bahn’ or the beginning of U2’s ‘With or
Without You’ music videos (launchcast on yahoo). This is humble, natural, yet high
character.

MOST influences are go�en across in the form of an independent production (ie. com-
mercials, music videos, songs, movies, products, etc.) but other influence gets across in
the forms

Going back into your acquired habits and becoming a ‘response’ to beauty and all of
the stimuli out there will keep you powerlessly WEAK.

Go through the entire program and apply the audio and video training to your life and
you’ll notice immediate and leveraged changes.

Notes:

Every song you hear is a synergy.

METALLICA. Awesome case study of relational dynamics.

If someone claims something as ‘fact’ who is quite opinionated be wary and get a sec-
ond opinion unless you know that they are aligned to universal principles. This is why
I rarely if ever ‘stupid’ things, have ethnic outbursts like some people do or welcome
negative karma.

Cherish and edify a woman’s natural/sexual character. This does NOT mean cherish-
ing her socially exploited sexuality which she is representing.
Living with a cat is like living with an (independent) adult and living with a dog is like
living a kid under the age of 18 (because of their dependency and response). Being a
parent is a dependent relationship with your kids.//

Movers and shakers are independent. They represent. They are the ones people look
up to.

Every day I wake up when I want. That my friend is Independent control over my
reality.
 Chapter 53

How to Get Over an Ex

Relational Dynamics. First you have to look at the elements. Who is she? I’m talking
what level her 3 characteristics represent at? Most likely she had the 51% edge in the
relationship or you wouldn’t be thinking about her anymore habitually.

It’s nice to look back upon the good points of a relationship but generally, the one who
does the thinking about the other partner the most, that’s the one who doesn’t control
the relationship.

In the way of a�raction, a woman has power and choice in this aspect; she is the one
who chooses and if she doesn’t ‘feel anything’ for you (contracts aside) she will move
on to someone she can ‘feel something for’ (or who she can act like she’s feeling for if
he has lots of money if she’s a gold-digger).

I have a good friend who keeps talking about his ex. Why?

To keep a story shorter, she keeps telling him she loves him and then goes out to party
with her girls in the clubs, etc. and calls him at odd hours with other voices in the back-
ground. Without knowing it she’s pulling his strings. She may actually love him when
the only relationship is her and him; stimulus-response...but enter social influence and
everything is thrown off track.

She can dress sexy and go out and get free drinks and a�ention from all kinds of guys,
why not? I mean it’s being offered to her. Li�le does she know that she grew up away
from what he fell in love with her in the first place for; her natural character.

If American (and other) men could just wake up and realize that these women are actu-
ally dangerous for your relationship health, maybe they would stop edifying the part
of them that doesn’t deserve it. He’s still in love with her old self; the natural woman
he met who was responsive to him.

She’s from another country so she actually had traditional values and natural energy
and then basically she got corrupted by the social matrix (how else is there to say it?).

So to ‘get over’ an Ex, use relational dynamics. Understand that the only way (besides
a contract busting at the seams) to keep a relationship is for one partner to ‘lead’ and
the other to follow (usually man woman but now sometimes aphrodite woman - wussy
man).

Countless marriages the man will just say ‘go ahead honey’ and continue his own path
to repression. His character drops as she fulfills her independent desires but feels
empty because he’s not being a man. Li�le does she know that her social development
disallows her from holding the relationship ideal that she was also taught. It’s near
impossible.

If she met her match (ie. a man like me), she would be a�racted to him but it couldn’t
last because her social development has grown too much, she has too many demands
and has become too much like a man.

Ok, so going back to ‘how to get over an ex’ if this is you (or you’re counseling), look
at who she is. Most likely she is one of these women who society has allowed to ‘de-
velop’. She was given opportunities (and that’s great because she ended up in a culture
that ‘let’ her) and became this ‘wonderful’ woman who positive a�ributes ‘apparently’
still overwhelm the reality that the man is still hung up on INSTEAD OF the relational
reality and his own character/freedom.

To get over any girl in your past or who you’ve just broken up with but just somehow
keep going back to; apply relational dynamics. It CANNOT work if you put and keep
her as the stimulus in the relationship. I’m talking about your own male repression.
Do NOT make it a co-dependency.

Remember how independent you actually are and that co-dependencies are dangerous
and don’t work out DESPITE the emotional (or historical) a�achment you have to her.

See it in the eyes of interdependence and knowing that you both had your disagree-
ments and couldn’t work things out, there’s no chance for a win/win situation/relation-
ship, therefore you will retain your independence and move on. And you’ll let her
retain her (obvious) independence and move on.

Here’s the one thing that’s different and I have to bring it up; masturbation. Why?
Freud references it in our inner conscious and subconscious desires. It’s a part of us
and the driving force of our natural character. In a sense, nature is stronger than our
own logic (that’s how you can bed women when you override their logic) and hence it
is a part of us that CAN overpower our own developed logic (that’s how corporations
make billions, by exploiting it).
Because it is a part of our own innate nature, it can be looked at a li�le differently
(hence the RMA charts). In other words, you were born with a sex drive and to know
how to go through (innately) the mating process (and so were women). You weren’t
born to ‘take on’ these socially derived and produced dependencies. Cigare�es and
beer are NOT a part of your innate nature. Therefore you have your own indepen-
dence and power over them because they are separate independent elements.

You can only CHOOSE to let them in. Differentiate yourself from it by seeing yourself
as purely independent (and knowing it because you ARE) and viewing the object of
your conditioned response APART because it IS a separate and independent element.
Then ask yourself if you really ‘need’ it. No, of course not as you don’t ‘need’ anything
because you are independent and only operate in win/win situations which will add
value to your life.

But even keep that as an interdependency. Keep it win/win. Your dick doesn’t have
control over you, you have control over it (except when you reach a synergistic point
of interdependence with a woman it’s going to go where it’s going to go and she wants
it to but that’s because you’re at a high character and interdependent in the first place,
not rape).
 Chapter 54

R.D. for Relationship Counseling

Another distinct advantage of understanding relational dynamics is you will actually

be able to give uncertified yet qualified and real advice to someone when it comes to
relationship counseling.

I have seen both men and women take on characteristics of the other sex. I’ve given
advice to women and I’ve empathized with men; primarily because of the role rever-
sal/change in relationship dynamics.

But when it comes to dispensing advice, when you are aligned with the root behavioral
elements (including a�raction), you can judge and gauge a situation properly.

You will be able to tell a guy or girlfriend whether they should break it off with a per-
son they are seeing. Plus you’ll have the leverage to be able to help them get out of
that situation.

Perfect example. I have a new friend who continues to let his X girlfriend drag him
along. She tells him she loves him one day and the next day is out in the socially dis-
torted club environment a�racting a�ention from other guys. I don’t doubt that she
did love him but this further proves my point of social influence.

When she gets in that kind of response environment she becomes a stimulus by default
so she can get a�ention and social status from other people. This destroys everything
natural about not just her but countless women who do the same thing (for at least
during that time period).

She was a beautiful woman who used to be innocent and came to America and now
has her own ideas of how things work. Of course he should drop her but he keeps
hanging on for the emotional rollercoaster ride of her pulling him along. But listen to
the words he’s saying “she made me like this” “I’m like this because of her”...these are
words of: you guessed it ‘co-dependency’.

He is not acting independent and neither is she but it’s up to him to let her go. So how
do you overcome the level of emotion and drama when you’re involved in a relation-
ship as such? Well, fortunately the power of logic and conscious ‘yes I should break it
off’ isn’t alone. It IS backed up by the leverage of universal principles themselves.

So if you want to be an effective relationship counselor (for singles) you would encour-
age that person to ‘see’ exactly what is going on. Explain what’s going on and that it
isn’t ever going to work out. Fast forward the pain you’re experiencing and the nega-
tive feelings now into the future and think how it’s going to be.

Tell them how predictable the cycle is (which I told him the first time we talked about
it). It will be up to them to accept the change of moving on but you’re not really ‘losing
them’ if it was interdependent in the first place. In business, you take suppliers and
you can switch to different suppliers with li�le hurt feelings at all.

Am I saying that relationships shouldn’t be emotional? No, that’s a beauty of it but if

you want a healthy life you’ll know when someone (or you) has been behaving less
than independently.

Look at these love song lyrics that make me sick to the stomach; “I’d die for you” “I
need you”. No, you’re independent. They are too if they’re an adult.

You don’t need anyone (as harsh as it may sound but remember we’re not on that level
of most people intellectually anymore). Even for women, you can move on and find
love elsewhere..you’re not ‘stuck’ with someone just because you have an emotional co-
dependent relationship.

Be aware of what’s going on and let that person know what’s going on and they’ll
probably agree with you because it is the right thing to do and does make sense.

You’ll just have to use some more leverage and then have them make a commitment to
officially move on from that point by not contacting that person again. There’s no pain
of loss when they came frame the relationship interdependently (the only way it would
work anyways).

So with my friend at the point of this writing, he’s still too a�ached emotionally so I’m
going to have to go over and do some more consulting/talking with him.

If you can be a problem solver like this, you can prevent future strife and by offering
good counsel to people (even up the social chain) you will be able to get further in life
as well as raise your own karma and social networks.

Yes, relational dynamics can be used to diagnose relationships. Am I talking about

marriage counseling here? No.
The one thing that gets in the way their is the social development of the woman so
everything becomes a difference of opinions, tastes and personalities because it’s all on
the socio-logical level.

When a man chooses and empowered woman who has her own set of demands and
expectations, he’s going to have to live with that additional drama and baggage even
though she is fascinating and intelligent on her good side.

Dealing with the root behavioral characteristics and knowing the relationship between
men and women will help you deal with a lot of issues and problems.

Dealing with impure relational elements such as a woman’s massive inner develop-
ment (which never was natural compared to men’s) and her socially leveraged charac-
ter are just things that get in the way and cloud the picture; ‘what do I do if she says
this or acts like this?’

With Alpha R.D. in the rest of the program, you should be able to see the root of all
action that defines anything she says. Who knows, you may dispense more accurate
advice than most relationship counselors out there (as well ;)!

Does it solve every problem? No, because if you choose an inner character ‘alpha’
woman like a Hillary for President, then you’re going to deal with the behavior that
comes from that and your relationship to it.

That’s why short-term and drama-free relationships framed by you are o�en a good
choice for win/win value.
 Chapter 55

R.D. Applied for Business Success

Interdependence is HOW business is done.

A-1 is how STEAK is done. (That’s interdependence to).

If there are failures of any kind in business it means one independent source (or more)
have stopped pulling their full weight. I have countless examples of this because I’m a
business owner myself.

Let me say this; EVERY single supplier, shipper, outsourcer or source has failed me at
least once. All of them have. Fortunately, they don’t do it too o�en or it would be a
dependency and that is completely unacceptable.

When you are fully independent and take full responsibility for your work you actual-
ly get more work done and are proud of it. You also expect others to uphold the same
standard as you do. You deliver and you expect others to as well and you don’t have a
problem doing so because of your commitment to win/win or transactional exchange.

It will be CLEAR to you when others aren’t pulling their weight and if you’re a busi-
ness owner you will be aware of the SMALLEST representation of a failure as long as
it’s in front of you. Even in corporate America, managers go through this all the time.
In fact the greatest challenge is o�en just ge�ing everyone to pull their own weight.

My father is still a construction manager and he says it’s like an ‘adult day care’. Espe-
cially working with some union workers who have an entitlement mentality (that’s my
words although they’re not all like that).

Entrepreneur’s HAVE TO BE independent and accountable.

If you’re not aware as a manager (or producer) of each person’s independent tasks and
abilities they could be using you just to milk money from you without ge�ing any real
work done or doing an improper sub-standard job.

As manager, contractor or producer you MUST know the expectations of each inde-
pendent team member in relation to the overall project (or at least have someone else
making sure for you).
HIRE independent, proven go-ge�ers if at all possible. If you feel any draining energy
on their part, your gut instinct is probably correct. It’s be�er to turn people down until
you can find the right person instead of having all kinds of people keep screwing up
(or not caring) the same project.

The greatest challenge of any manager or producer is running the tightest interdepen-
dent (relationship) production/team as possible. This means ideally keeping everyone
at a full and independent operational level (of skill-competent people).

This is why I will let people know in establishments if they are taking an lazy, unac-
countable, co-dependent a�itude towards everything (ie. “it’s the bosses fault”). I will
let them know because if I were in their shoes it would all be ‘squared away’. I deliver
results and I expect others to.

I uphold people not to an unfair standard of quality but when they violate the basics of
interdependence itself (such as not bringing the food out a�er taking an order, going
on breaks taking their time when the line is a mile long, etc.) I’m not afraid to let them
know.

For you it will be more clear when you are fully independent and reframe your life-
style only as interdependent wherever possible. If you’re an entrepreneur you proba-
bly already know what I’m talking about and there is no room for performance-lacking
co-dependencies.

You expect your suppliers and system providers to uphold their independent end of
the deal because if they don’t, it slows everything down.

It’s difficult to get teams to get much done when the teams are compromised of bu-
reaucratic, lazy, unaccountable people who don’t take responsibility or care.

Entitlement mentality also reeks of dependency. Give me this this this and that and
then I might think about ge�ing some work done for you. So many people have be-
come lazy and because they are not at full independence themselves and accountable,
they choose to RELATE to others in a co-dependent fashion as such and it really hin-
ders the effectiveness of business that could be done REALLY fast by competent, inde-
pendent professionals.

You will be a be�er President, manager or producer by understanding and applying

relational dynamics for win/win ONLY. I don’t have to tell you about your own spe-
cific (socially developed) skillset; that’s unique to your situation. You just have to keep
the components working as synergistically together as possible to complete the task.
People won’t get away with B.S. because you’d see it from a mile away. You’ll uphold
others to the standard you expect with the universal leverage to back your character
up. The entire team will be more efficient and respectful of you provided you give
them the independent respect and nurture an interdependent win/win environment.

I’m not dependent on others. I’ve closed to eradicated ALL dependencies from my life
(food and shelter I’ve reframed as transactional with earth or resources).

If someone says “Oh, I can make you a star/I have all the right connections/Let me
finance your next thing” (which has been literally said to me) it doesn’t throw off the
truth of what I know about my independence and value when those sources ‘fail’ or
lower their independence and don’t commit (remember, I’m ok with it all because it’s
NOT a dependency).

Nothing can change or shake it because I have true faith in myself and that I will be
a multi-millionaire someday (level of freedom). You should have this level of faith in
yourself and the value you have to bring to the table.

Take care of yourself and BE the best and through time (and proactive effort and mak-
ing connections, etc.) your vision will come true but don’t EVER doubt it.

Know what your destiny is. It should be summed up in a single sentence if at all pos-
sible. I know what mine is.

It’s not about ‘me’ per se, it’s about ge�ing the value out that I have to positively influ-
ence other’s lives (chaos theory). That’s the meaning of life or as close to it as real.

In fact, I’m SO independent that I just have to get out there more amongst other inde-
pendent and powerful people (which I haven’t done in a while) and then high-level
interdependence will happen. Just as an example, get me in the v.i.p. with sco� storch
or diddy and see what comes out of it.

I’ll be doing things on this level but I’m not in that much of a hurry. So for you, when
you are super-independent and can represent the value you have to offer and speak for
it; then it’s just ge�ing around other high level independent (influential) people, le�ing
them feel your independence, respect and vision and then taking it from there.

You’ll be able to operate on the same respect level with anyone on earth and aren’t
thrown off by their level of social status or power when you apply relational mapping;
you are ‘one’ and only work transactional or win/win in business.

This is simply how you become a powerful negotiator as well. You’ll have the guts to
stick to your standards and work on a fair deal without them ‘pressuring’ you or hav-
ing a different type of relationship ‘over’ you.

This will help you in all areas of your life and even daily doings.

Don’t take a deal where someone basically ‘buys you out’ unless you want to be. Al-
ways retain your independence (in negotiation). They’ll respect you more for being in-
dependent but you should be that guy who really backs it up; which proves our point..
just make sure you ARE and know it and are congruent with it.

Let’s look at the elements some more. There is ‘sense’ in everything by the relational
numbers. Even thoughts themselves are transmi�ed to words or action to be dealt
with in SOME kind of relationship with others; whether it’s influential, transactional,
inspirational or disempowering, etc.

Learn to see relational dynamics in everything and it will help you understand the
world. Such as “Text messaging is exploding, with 25 billion messages sent each
month.” in an article about China on msnbc.com. Look at it.

Can you see the independence in it? Say you’re in Beijing and a text message is inde-
pendently sent from the new friend you’re with to another friend to meet up that night.
Well that is just one of the 25 billion messages sent that month. But the point is that
you can start to get a handle on what’s going on.

Everytime that happens constitutes one of those 25 billion messages because they’re
just SMS’ing a friend or acquaintance..it’s now not just some random number or statis-
tic that seems out of reach; you understand the concept of what’s going on.

That is the logic; relational dynamics. It IS the structure out of random chaos if you
don’t understand it. Look at a NYC sidewalk at lunch hour. Countless thousands of
independent people going to their own independent destination.

Look at business which ‘interdepends’ on customers...phone and utility companies

working with millions of customers and each has a (interdependent: transactional rela-
tionship) connection just like you.

This ability to look at anything through the eyes of relational dynamics will allow you
to see the trees from the forest and also the forest from the trees. It gives YOU power
and it helps you understand the world much faster and much easier.

And any source that denies (transactional) interdependence you will be able to clearly
see and negotiate or work with them to resolve your situation because there is no mo-
nopoly (shouldn’t be!) in a consumer society.

Recently I have seen steps taken by big corporations to pad their pockets to the disem-
powerment of the consumer. How am I aware of this? Oh, I’m aware esp. because of
relational dynamics; I’m aware of anything that would throw off our win/win transac-
tional agreement and if it sways more towards their favor and less in mine (even incre-
mentally), I am aware. And you should be too.

For example, I’m not the only one but Chase is taking over about all of my former cred-
it cards and banks. They’re slowing ‘taking over’. I don’t have to get into conspiracy
theory or anything but the fact that I’ve never been late on a payment and have a flaw-
less credit card history (despite high balances at times) over the past 8 years and I’m
now stuck at 30%+ interest rates just isn’t right. It makes me sick because it’s not good
debt, it’s bad debt (mostly invested into my business).

Although the relationship involves independent elements (me and the bank), that is
NOT true interdependence; that’s barely transactional anymore.

That’s leaning towards the exploitation and social control over people’s independent
realities and that’s why I’m paying off these (business) debts and fast to reframe my
financial relationship VERY differently to use even more credit leverage to my advan-
tage.

Check your credit card statements and see what kind of ‘under the radar’ stuff is going
on. It’s probably a repressive relationship where you would have tremendous power if
you get truly be in a win/win relationship there instead (debt-free and open credit).

Then they would be callin you in to open new lines of credit and MUCH lower interest
rates, etc. because you have independence (and thus, power). Then you have leverage
to negotiate on your terms if you choose.

If you’re an entrepreneur just check on how your suppliers are ‘somehow’ finding
ways to charge you more money without your direct knowledge. It’s happening and
you should be aware of it.

You see how important financial independence is? Freeing yourself from all co-depen-
dencies? I can’t even represent the importance of this and the level of power it brings.

It’s been my second biggest goal for about a decade. It brings massive freedom. It’s not
about higher social status rooted in a social culture that would trigger that in the first
place; it’s about true freedom and independence. It’s more power to ‘operate’ and add
more value in the world.

But with the banks, first you must have the mindset of pure independence to know
that what’s going on and ‘their’ making up interest rates and ‘control’ (out of pure
transactional balance) isn’t right. And you’ll know it’s time to take power back for
yourself.

Unfortunately these large companies are pigeonholing millions of Americans right

where they want them; into higher interest rates and debt that is VERY difficult to get
out of (esp. with a mortgage) when you’re stuck in the rat race of the traditional/corpo-
rate job system.

Keep your relationship with credit a win/win instead of a co-dependency and you’ll be
fine. Have the independent integrity to never miss a payment and pay off balances if
at all possible.

It’s important to talk a li�le more about our relationship to money. The idea that you
have to go to school, get an education and work for a company is all just social pro-
gramming in the first place itself.

In the early 19th century, most people were business owners who worked interdepen-
dently with others. Entrepreneurs, like myself HAVE to be accountable and indepen-
dent so we can work interdependently with customers and others to add value to their
lives.

But looking at your relationship to money. What kind of relationship is it?

I mean what would you REALLY do if you financially independent? Would you think
twice about continuing the habits of working wherever you are? Are you living just to
make money?

What if you could just take money out of the equation entirely; meaning that it would
all be ‘handled’. That is one way to find out more of who you really are pre�y fast.

True independence would be that you wouldn’t be co-dependent on ‘working’ for a liv-
ing...resources would be there for you to completely break off any kind of relationship
where you ‘have to’ work just to make money.

It truly is another level of thinking. Someone once said, “Money can’t buy you happi-
ness, but it can buy you freedom and freedom is everything.”

Think about the rare people who live like this, where money doesn’t get in their way.
So many wealthy people are worse off if they are leveraged with liabilities. I challenge
you to see it pure and simple; if you’re going to be debt-free and financially free, be
aware that you have a high level of independence and freedom. Don’t just get con-
fused of ‘having a lot of money’.

Read the Rich Dad series and you’ll understand it more. View it as an ultimate goal;
financial independence because on top of living an independent state of mind, you
will be very free and very powerful. You won’t be limited by work anymore. Is this
the place to learn how to go financially free? No but just view it as an ultimate form of
independence, a higher form of pure independence.

Most people are just living social responses, influenced by all kinds of forces and they
are just swaying around like sailboats waiting for whatever wind of change carries
them along next. They’ll o�en just work for a living because that’s what they were
taught.

There are a few others however who have a specific destination and goals. These are
the ships that are much more likely to end up going where they want to go. They are
independent and self-directed.

Apply R.D. to business by only accepting win/win relationships with others. Uphold
them to their standards and you can synergize to achieve a lot more. Financial in-
dependence will take your own independence to a MUCH higher level because you
won’t be co-dependent on much of the other things in your life (like a j.o.b.b.) - so I
recommend going for it.
 Chapter 56

How to Quit Smoking or Overcome Dependencies

Relational Dynamics and Relational Mapping. That’s the answer in which you can
overcome any dependency. All you have to do is take 100% conscious accountability
for your actions and differentiate yourself from the other independent ‘power’.

Then look at the elements that are involved. Put a cigare�e or beer can in front of you
and realize that it is also a 100% independent element. You can even look at the ingre-
dients and do research on where they came from.

You can replace the social matrix (stimulus) with your stimulus and sever the umbilical
cord of being a response or ‘needing’ it.

Here are some affirmations that you can say that will help you realize how much pow-
er you have and that you CAN quit:
 “I am independent.

Only I can choose to drink this drink.

I have power. I have self-control.

The beer is a beer.

This substance is independent and away from me, it cannot possibly control me as long
as I choose not to take it.

Since I only have win/win relationships with anything in my life, I’m going to modify
my use of this substance and take conscious control over when and how much I choose
to have.

I am taking complete accountability and stepping aside from a habit of dependency.

I choose win/win relationships and if there is no way that I can get value out of this
(damaging habit), then I quit. My conviction to live the truth and have power for my-
self overrules the habits of my lack of true self-control in the past by forming it into a
dependency in the first place.”
For more serious situations, your body has adapted physiologically as a response to
the stimulus of ie. the cigare�e. Once again, the only true and permanent solution is
applying relational dynamics. If you can get value out of it and keep it interdepen-
dent, fine otherwise quit.

Here though, it will either require more leverage or more of a drawn out process (for
weaker minded folks or stronger dependencies). I’ll admit Tony Robbins has a great
technique as well but this isn’t what I teach. His technique (which is quite effective) is
to put as much pain as you can and associate it to the action of smoking. In one case he
had a guy smoke so much that he got sick of it, right during the session.

“When the pain is great enough to change you’ll make the change.” Even in that case
you’re looking at influence. If you smoke long enough it will influence your lungs to
turn black. Or ‘how will this influence my long-term health?’ ‘how much time am I
taking off of my life with each pack of smokes?’

Just view each of the elements involved clearly. Separate them and gain cognition.
You are more powerful than the pack of cigs and you’re taking your power back, that’s
it. You’re not going to let a pack of cig’s control you.
My relationship to alcohol has always been an interdependency. Sure it may ‘influ-
ence’ me but it’s a positive synergy.

Not ironically, when you’re aware of your own independence and that you’re con-
sciously ‘choosing’ to have another interdependent brewskie you actually DO have
more self-control and relational awareness as compared to someone who treat’s it as a
dependency (aka. the beer has power over me and my decision-making at all times).

I consciously chose to start drinking in order to ‘open up’ and I used it synergistically
in a win/win relationship to that effective end back in college. I never caved in to peer
pressure of ‘substances’ throughout school.

In overcoming any dependency, what you’ll want to do is look at it through ‘relational

dynamics’. Isolate the elements, look at each element and it’s characteristics.

You vs. a cigare�e

You vs. a beer

I personally have chosen to consciously rid of all dependencies from my life. This
would be another ultimate goal of yours through this program to apply to your life.
In fact, you have so much power that INDEED you DO have control over what you
choose to let into your life.

The next cigare�e, the beer, the whatever, if it’s a dependency then get dependency out
of your life. Ask yourself if you really want to quit or if you want to stop the depen-
dency.

Now here’s the thing, so many people will not be able to have the personal power to be
able to differentiate between a dependency and an interdependency.

Basically, a dependency is “I have to have it and right now.” And then taking the ac-
tion. And interdependency is where it’s a conscious choice and you have control over
your actions, ie. “I enjoy it but not right now because I have power over it and in fact
I’m going to cut down quite a bit. I take full responsibility for the outcome whatever
may happen.”

Be conscious ‘every’ time that you take a drink or that you consciously choose not to
when the urge hits you. It’s all about living a lifestyle of self-control and power. When
you make it a habit of having control over your choices and actions, then you will be
able to apply yourself to much more demanding or greater things in the future.
Any producer who says they have a drug or alcohol dependency I think is lying (or
just not being accountable). They live their life through interdependence; it’s how they
make tremendous money.

To me, it’s B.S...you can’t get it through me because I’m the male B.S. detector (you’ll
become it too). You can say you’ve struggled with it but that’s still not taking full ac-
countability.

Even celebrities will say things which basically lead you to believe that the alcohol is
overruling their decision. B.S. It’s complete B.S. if they’re a producer especially. A pro-
ducer is someone who takes full accountability and does it habitually. He HAS to.

So don’t even try to place the ‘blame’ on the ‘substance’ because it isn’t above you..
you’re above it. Heck, humans created most of these substances which proves we’re
above it. And we all have conscious CHOICE whether to let that influence in or not.

THE BUCK STOPS WITH YOU

You can stop ANY dependency by applying relational dynamics and accepting full
independent accountability. Just to the same exercise (in the videos) of differentiating
yourself from the social matrix by moving yourself from response to the stimulus to
independent ‘control’.

People are just being weak-minded, unaccountable and powerless in ‘le�ing’ things
happen to them. Know in your independence that you have full accountability and
full responsibility for the choice that you make. Powerful people TAKE accountability.

That beer didn’t just somehow slide down your throat on it’s own accord, trust me.
The cigare�e can’t jump into your mouth and light itself.

If anything, by investing in this program you’re probably someone who CAN differen-
tiate between a dependency and an interdependency but take accountability for your-
self.

If you feel you can’t just ‘quit’ cold turkey (and you can actually), then work towards
making it a win/win relationship where you limit and moderate yourself and resist the
‘response’ you think you ‘need’. You don’t need anything just take control and keep
things win/win.

In the future I’m going to teach applying relational dynamics to overcome all social
anxiety such as fear of speaking. I’ve been in Toastmasters and there is still the anxiety.
Well, with Alpha R.D. coming up...I predict I’ll be breaking new ground that has never
been broken before.

I’ll be able to take a student and work with him in relational mapping to understand
his relationship; he’s the stimulus, they are the response, etc. for massive change there.
Hmm..maybe some money to be made there as it’s supposedly the #1 fear of people.

It’s easy to see why; we’re all so caring and ‘careful’ about what others think. We don’t
want to ‘rock the boat’ because we’ve been repressed and conditioned our whole lives.

Anyways, these diagrams are priceless so apply them.

 Chapter 57

Your Newfound Alpha Power

This is a powerful thing; when you feel yourself ‘growing’ in character and your physi-
ology itself changes. You’ll find that women will start noticing you more and that they
will become more responsive than ever. You worked for it (and will continue to) so
enjoy it.

It’s a liberating feeling knowing that millions of women around the world want what
you have. Now, just apply yourself by continuing to grow and ge�ing out there and
making connections with women. The rest of the Model Magnet training will definite-
ly get you there.

Here’s a recap of some of what we have learned:

Consciously choose your influences and if someone or some source is trying to influ-
ence you, be consciously aware of it and make sure you retain your full independence
(to keep that source of influence independent itself instead of trying to repress your
independence by your disacknowledgement of it).

Why would you lose your own center, your own energy and drop your character (in-
dependence) for ANYONE? They don’t respect you as an equal if you do. With wom-
en you have to at least be ‘equal’.

You as a man are the stimulus in the realm of a�raction and the mating game. It
doesn’t work the other way despite the brainwashing of society (which is socio-LOGI-
CAL).

Notice how you’re comfortable when you’re having sex? That’s because it’s ‘natural’...
the process is natural. So when you objectify a woman’s (socially exploited) sexual-
ity and give it so much value like society has taught you, you end up being nervous
around her because you’re relationship in your mind is that she is WAY above you and
you would do anything just to get close to an internal fantasy of yours.

You’ll find that the higher in natural character you become the easier it will be to take
women to sex because your biological nature is overwhelming desiring to sow more
seeds and it will guide you in taking the right actions. This is why pick-up lines aren’t
necessary when dealing with natural success with women.

If you have social anxiety (once again R.D. is the solution) around women; this is a
problem for you because you’re ‘dependent’ on what others think or what she thinks.
It’s difficult to be interdependent (ie. having SEX) with a woman when you are less
than independent in the first place around her (character drops) or you’re just ‘low’ in
character to begin with.

That’s why so many men are still virgins..they care about what society thinks and what
the women think..they’ve become co-dependent on it and have lost their own true
independence in which case they’d be fine. The guys who are ‘scoring’ the most, don’t
care what society thinks; they keep their power for themselves.

You have to be independent (so she can trust you) in order to go through the interde-
pendent process of sexual communication, flirtation and sex with a woman..otherwise
it’s fools mate. It may happen now and again but not very o�en (and when it does
your natural character rose ‘enough’ for her to go through with the natural response
part on her end, ie. once you start making out, etc.).

Your goal should be to be NIS Alpha...truly independent and competent in each of the
three areas of your character and to stay there at all times (especially when around
beautiful women). Then, everything becomes smooth and easier so that all you have to
do (like me) is build enough history with a (any) woman in order for her to justify hav-
ing sex with you.

Becoming Alpha is the path. So to raise your natural character I talk about that in the
Character Continuum, but that is what will get you at full Independence. Then you
don’t have to ‘try’ lines or anything with women, you just ‘be’ and all you have to do is
make new connections with women (fearlessly of course because you will be/are) and
build enough rapport with them because a�raction on your part is already taken care
of by being high in natural character (what we’re doing here).

Well that doesn’t ma�er anymore because you’re INDEPENDENT and you only oper-
ate interdependently with them. They can’t ever lower their perception of you because
you never give your power away for anyone.

Applying Relational Mapping, you will be CLEARLY aware of when people are trying
to ‘use’ you. You will be justifiably skeptical for things that sound too good to be true.
You will be able to see through to the actual truth of just about anything by under-
standing Relational Dynamics and probing further.

‘Going Alpha’ also means that your physiology and nonverbal body language will
CHANGE from the inside out. You will find yourself becoming a much stronger man
by applying the leverage of Relational Dynamics( and then doing other things such as
grounding yourself in natural energy and going through trials by fire) that will further
that growth.

Regaining your power and being able to be comfortable in your own skin and having
the ability to make women melt when they see your character is priceless. Sex itself
becomes be�er and you don’t even have to learn any fancy techniques because sex is
always best for women with a man of high natural (alpha) character.

Remember that when you connect with women you are looking for their natural char-
acter.

With enough practice in differentiating (from photos, videos, internet and ‘live’) you
will be able to reach a level of intuition where you can actually SEE the ‘real’ inner girl
inside despite her social character.
You can even compliment her on it because you’ll be doing it from the powerful frame.

They have to be able to ‘trust’ you first to ‘be yourself’ and you are when you are high
in natural character and keep your power for yourself.

Ultimately look for the goodness and feminine nature of women and play with that
part of them. That’s what the greatest seducer’s do. Everything else has just go�en in
the way for both of you but you know where you stand so you can cut right through it
all even before PRE-GAME.

Life ISN’T a spectator sport, so get involved and exchange interdependent (win/win)
value from other sources and people. The most powerful are those that have the most
interdependent connections. Start making them!

Make connections with women and subtly showcase your true colors and value by
being that man of high character to begin with and then giving her clues that lead into
figuring you out more.

You are more fearless, more proud yet more humble, more centered, and lacking in
insecurities. Keep on growing!
 Glossary

(not in any particular order)

Relational Formula

Relational Dynamics

Relational Model of A�raction

Dependence

Independence

Interdependence

Synergy

Transactional Interdependence

Transformational Interdependence

Co-dependency

Antilogy

A�raction

Character

Character Continuum

F.A.R.M.

Cognition

Ignorance
 Chaos Theory

de oppresso liber

Power

Influence

Elements

Forced Reality

Universal

Elemental

Trial by Fire

Perception

Extrapolation

Judging

Indifference

The Social Matrix

Natural Character

Inner Character

Social Character

NIS Alpha

Alpha Male

Deconstruction

Cause - Effect
 Differentiation

Causality

Free Will

Cultural Differentiation

S.O.N.A.R.R.

Sexual Transmutation

Production

Habits

Effectiveness

Duality

Destiny

Fate

Stimulus - Response

Supplication

Wussboy

I’m not going to go over these although I will reference some of them throughout the
program, I just wanted to include them here for your reference. Some of these are
taken from the online Wikipedia.org

Karma
Karma is the belief held by some major religions that a person’s actions cause certain
effects in the current life and/or in future incarnations, positively or negatively.

A�ribution
A�ribution theory is the theory concerning how people explain individual occurrences
of causation. A�ribution can be external (assigning causality to an outside agent or
force - claiming that some outside thing motivated the event) or internal (assigning
causality to factors within the person - taking personal responsibility or accountability
for one’s actions and claiming that the person was directly responsible for the event).
Taking causation one step further, the type of a�ribution a person provides influences
their future behavior.

The intention behind the cause or the effect can be covered by the subject of action
(philosophy).

Aristotle
In Metaphysics and Posterior Analytics, Aristotle stated: “All causes of things are be-
ginnings; that we have scientific knowledge when we know the cause; that to know a
thing’s existence is to know the reason why it is”. With this, he set the guidelines for all
the subsequent causal theories by specifying the number, nature, principles, elements,
varieties, order of causes as well as the modes of causation.

metaphysics

n : the philosophical study of being and knowing

Relational Formula

Consists of Dependence, Independence, and Interdependence. Essentially defines the

context of all elements and/or their relation to each other.

Relational Dynamics

Cognition of the elements involved in any situation or relationship and how they affect
the outcome, result or behavior. Can be re-applied for an intended pure power effect
or result

Relational Model of A�raction

The special mating relationship of stimulus-response between a man and a woman

involving the extrapolation and idealization of natural, inner, and social characteristics.
Female will only allow sex when she reaches a certain level of response to the tri-char-
acteristic representation of a male.
Dependence

n: the state of relying on or needing someone or something for aid, support, or the like

Independence

n: freedom from the control, influence, support, aid, or the like, of others

Interdependence

n : a reciprocal relation between interdependent entities (objects or individuals or

groups). can consist of win/lose, lose/win, win/win, transactional and transformational
types of interdependence

Synergy

The interaction of two or more agents or forces so that their combined effect is greater
than the sum of their individual effects

Transactional Interdependence

a basic level of exchange between two independent parties ie. paying for dinner at
mcdonald’s

Transformational Interdependence

a win/win type of relationship the empowers or improves one or both parties involved

Co-dependency

Mutually dependent.

Antilogy

a contradiction in terms or ideas

A�raction

the quality of arousing interest; being a�ractive or something that a�racts;

A force acting mutually between particles of ma�er to draw them together and to resist
their separation;
Duality

The quality or character of being twofold; dichotomy

Character

the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or
thing (man)

Characteristic

Being a feature that helps to distinguish a person or thing; distinctive

-what women are generally looking for in men with a preconceived notion

True Colors

the ability of a man to clearly get his 3 characteristic traits across to a woman or others,
o�en in a short amount of time; honesty with congruency

Congruency

Agreement, harmony, conformity, or correspondence with one’s inner thought process-

es which reflect in his nonverbal and verbal behavior

Character Continuum

the live representational status (which may fluctuate) of a man’s 3 primary characteris-
tics (and thus, desirable qualities); natural, inner and social

F.A.R.M.

Female A�raction Response Model

the representation of a woman’s social, personal & natural character expectations &
true response plays out in reality to each potential mating partner

Cognition

The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, rea-
soning, and judgment.
That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowl-
edge.

de Oppresso liber

(latin); to free the oppressed / u.s. special forces mo�o

Behavior

n: The actions or reactions of a person or animal in response to external or internal

stimuli

Ignorance

the state or fact of being ignorant; lack of knowledge, learning, information, etc.
The condition of being uneducated, unaware, or uninformed.

Chaos Theory

;also referred to as non-linear dynamics, chaos theory is a mathematical concept ex-

plaining that it is possible to get random results from normal equations. The main
precept behind this theory is the underlying notion of small occurrences significantly
affecting the outcomes of seemingly unrelated events

Power

The ability or capacity to perform or act effectively

Strength or force exerted or capable of being exerted; might
A person, group, or nation having great influence or control over others

Influence

the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce ef-

fects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others

Elements

A fundamental, essential, or irreducible constituent of a composite entity

Forced Reality

(also known as the ‘social matrix’)

the dominating socio-cultural influence on earth that has grown far beyond natural
and communal dynamic of more organic social cultures

Universal

Of, relating to, extending to, or affecting the entire world or all within the world;
worldwide

Elemental

of the nature of an ultimate constituent; simple; uncompounded

Trial by Fire

the process of going through a set of tremendous challenge and pressure in order to
come out on the other side a stronger person (generally, man). sometimes a�ributed to
as initiation rituals or ‘coming of age’ from adolescence to manhood and thus, accep-
tance by other adult members of the society

Perception

1. the act or faculty of apprehending by means of the senses or of the mind; cognition;
understanding.

2. Psychology. a single unified awareness derived from sensory processes while a stim-
ulus is present.

Extrapolation

the process of inferring or estimating by extending or projecting known information

Indifference

lack of interest or concern:

The Social Matrix

(also known as ‘forced reality’)

the dominating socio-cultural influence on earth that has grown far beyond natural
and communal dynamic of more organic social cultures; originating from American
social culture

NIS Alpha

a man who is peaked in the level of character and congruency of excellence across the
character continuum.
he is what women want. the male equivalent of a very beautiful and desirable woman

Natural Character

the representative and purely biological characteristic within male or female species;

Inner Character

the representative and unique characteristics a�ributed to an individual; may in-

clude personality, self-belief, interests, habits, education, etc. that are o�en influenced
through environment, relationships, upbringing and growth throughout life

Social Character

the representative characteristic a�ributes within a male or female influenced or deriv-

ing from their social or environmental culture, relationships or upbringing; o�en the
root of behaviorism around others including the definition of who they are in relation
to others

Alpha Male

In social animals, the alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community
whom the others follow and defer to. Where one male and one female fulfill this role,
they are referred to as the alpha pair;

the male of the highest pedigree or representational characteristics of survival,

strength, wisdom and/or dominance in relation to other members around him

Deconstruction

n : a philosophical theory of criticism (usually of literature or film) that seeks to expose

deep-seated contradictions in a work by delving below its surface meaning
Cause - Effect

(see causality)

Differentiation

To perceive or show the difference in or between; discriminate

Causality

The principle of or relationship between cause and effect;

a relationship that holds between events, properties, variables, or states of affairs. Cau-
sality always implies at least some relationship of dependency between the cause and
the effect;

/..Causality is the centerpiece of the universe and so the main subject of human knowl-
edge; for comprehending the nature, meaning, kinds, varieties, and ordering of cause
and effect amounts to knowing the beginnings and endings of things, to uncovering
the implicit mechanisms of world dynamics, or to having the fundamental scientific
knowledge

Free Will

(see bo�om)

Thought
The faculty of thinking or reasoning

Action

something done or performed; act; deed

effect or influence

Cultural Differentiation

the ability to see and know (have cognition of) a different & existent socio-cultural
reality in comparison to the one primary socio-cultural environment a person grew up
in; this may include different language, different thoughts, different behaviorism and
influences

S.O.N.A.R.R.

Science of Natural A�raction Response Reality

generally the initial and growing process of natural a�raction and mating from the
stimuli of male to the response of female; a purely biological function o�en disturbed
by social & environmental influences

Sexual Transmutation

the ability to change or convert sexual energy to inspire, motivate, frustrate or repress

Production

n: the act of producing; creation; manufacture

Habit

A recurrent, o�en unconscious pa�ern of behavior that is acquired through frequent

repetition

Effectiveness

adequate to accomplish a purpose; producing the intended or expected result

Destiny

an event (or a course of events) that will inevitably happen in the future

Fate

something that unavoidably befalls a person; fortune; lot

Stimulus

something that incites to action or exertion or quickens action, feeling, thought, etc.:
Something causing or regarded as causing a response.
/any stimulating information or event; acts to arouse action
Response

A reaction, as that of an organism or any of its parts, to a specific stimulus

Supplication

the act of communicating with a deity (especially as a petition or in adoration or contri-

tion or thanksgiving

Wussy

wimp + pussy = wussy

Definitions of nature and nurture

Nurture - Although “nurture” may have historically referred mainly to the care given
to children by their parents, any environmental (not genetic) factor also would count as
“nurture” in a contemporary nature versus nurture debate, including one’s childhood
friends, one’s early experiences with television, and one’s experience in the womb.
Indeed, a substantial source of environmental input to human nature may arise from
stochastic variations in prenatal development. Additionally, although childhood expe-
rience (especially early childhood experience) is o�en regarded as more influential in
who one becomes than post-childhood experience, a liberal interpretation of “nurture”
might count all life experience as “nurture”.

Nature - Genetic and various inborn biological factors affecting overall development.

Free will
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Free will is the philosophical doctrine that holds that humans, and other sentient be-
ings, have the power to determine their own beliefs, desires, judgements and actions.
Such a doctine is held to be indispensable to moral judgment by many religious au-
thorities and is criticized as a form of individualist ideology by writers such as Spinoza
and Karl Marx. As typically used, the phrase has both objective and subjective connota-
tions, in the former case indicating the performance of an action by an agent that is not
completely conditioned by antecedent factors, and in the la�er case the agent’s percep-
tion that the action was incepted under his or her own volition.

The principle of free will has religious, ethical, and scientific implications. For example,
in the religious realm, free will may imply that an omnipotent divinity does not assert
its power over individual will and choices. In ethics, free will may imply that individu-
als can be held morally accountable for their actions. In psychology, it implies that the
mind controls some of the actions of the body. In the scientific realm, free will may
imply that the actions of the body, including the brain, are not wholly determined by
physical causality. The existence of free will has been a central issue throughout the
history of philosophy and science.

Powerful, independent people who are differentiated from the social matrix or a con-
tributor to it can easily exercise free will because they have the position to do so. They
are not repressed or stuck in disempowering co-dependencies.

The Law of A�raction is an idea that is widespread in New Age philosophy. It posits
that a mental disposition will a�ract equivalent external circumstances and events.

Esoteric teacher Dick Sutphen states:

The Law of A�raction states, in a nutshell, like a�racts like. In other words, we are like
a walking magnet that draws to us anyone or anything that is on the same wavelength.
If you’re radiating positive energy, you a�ract positive people and experiences. If
you’re radiating negative energy, you a�ract negativity.[1]

Part of this is because you are aware of the elements involved so you’ll know them
when you see them. Also, since other people are similar they’ll know that you would
make a synergy together. Like a�racts like and it may sometimes seem magical but it
is still R.D.

For example my new good friend approached me a�er reading my body language, im-
age and energy at a club. He’s a high class, smart guy and noticed that I was like him
in that way so that was the Law of A�raction. By being who I am you could say that I
a�racted him into my life.

There are signs of this everywhere you look. It’s really the forming of new interdepen-
dencies (or co-dependencies) because your own independent energy and what you
represent is shown in the world for other similar people to connect with.

A hilarious example is in the movie, “Not another teen movie”. The superwussboy
best friend races the Alpha jock and runs into the closed door. The jock makes it across
the busy street and the wuss and his low character a�racts cars who start honking and
people yelling at him “She doesn’t feel a�raction for you.”

Then he gets hit by a bus and is limping into the airport (it’s a comedy) and his rela-
tionship to the people in the line is that he is so low in character and needy that they
won’t help him out like they did by le�ing the jock through. Law of A�raction in ac-
tion.

Being high in character will get you through a lot of situations with others because
you’ll have favor on your side..I’ve done it a lot, including not paying cover, ge�ing on
standby flights when others were waiting, ge�ing upgraded, etc.

Further Definition: Relational Dynamics

(isn’t in the wikipedia):

Relational Dynamics is an understanding of the relationship of the elements and con-

structs of life in a particular relationship, production or situation.

Your ability to understand your relationship to the elements of life and influence will
consequently determine your level of power, influence and control in life.

dependent words and emotions; fear, response, necessity, heartbroken, helpless, victim,
weak, weak-minded, incognisant, unaware, repressed, oppressed, unhealthy, imbal-
anced, prisoner, jealousy, sullen, sulking, abused, violated,

hopelessness, lust, traumatized, beaten, used, uncontrollable, ignorant, incompetent,

violence, imprisoned,

independent words: power, free, independent, fearless, dominant, authority, pragmat-

ic, cognitive, perceptive, control, one, whole, grounded, stimulus, cause, competent,
magnet, imminent, producer, influence, value, power

causal words: [cause, make, create, do, effect, produce, occasion, perform, determine,
influence; construct, compose, constitute; provoke, motivate, force, facilitate, induce,
get, stimulate; begin, commence, initiate, institute, originate, start; prevent, keep, re-
strain, preclude, forbid, stop, cease]; ii) a set of causative names [actor, agent, author,
creator, designer, former, originator; antecedent, causality, causation, condition, foun-
tain, occasion, origin, power, precedent, reason, source, spring; reason, grounds, mo-
tive, need, impulse]; iii) a set of effective names [consequence, creation, development,
effect, end, event, fruit, impact, influence, issue, outcome, outgrowth, product, result,
upshot].
 Unabridged Thoughts

logic is social and women acting illogical. well we know that women are natural in
a�raction and o�en acting what society promotes (logical)...their confusion between
their nature and nurture makes them seemingly illogical. when they do act naturally
they ARE acting logical..and it’s men who are acting socially/logically conditioned. it’s
time for a major paradigm shi�

a�er all, a�raction IS logical (rma)

SCIENCE CHANNEL: HOW IT WORKS and see relational dynamics in action

Was Suri Cruise photo with-holding all planned?

Sure. Once you understand Relational Dynamics you’ll be able to figure out that the
people in social power have a choice to make;

Let it all out now and continue the media overcoverage or

let them wonder if she even exists for a few months and completely build
up the positive value of Tom Cruise again. It’s all consciously planned and
if you can’t see that these people are smart enough to manipulate the media
to your advantage, then you’re just part of the salivating ‘response’.

/The synergy of Last of the Mohicans final sequence.

Great people had great influences

when you can do elemental deconstruction on the best of the best

you’ll realize that their secrets are already exposed. that’s power.
it’s out there in the open

when seeing the ultimate beauty or match, it’s not to edify her more it’s to become the
man that’s actually worthy of her

/the ho�est music video you see.. remember that someone is on top of it producing it

/ur not aware of the level of their power b/c they’re NOT going to just STOP the pro-
gramming...they’re making 2 much money
GET THIS; KELLY CLARKSON IS NOT HOT. SO MANY OF THESE GIRLS ARE ‘UP-
GRADED’ SOCIALLY ALONE BY PUTTING ON MAKEUP PERIOD. YOU HAVE TO
SEE THROUGH THAT.

/Kelly Clarkson is actually around a 7 but ‘made-up’ (socialized) she looks like a 8.7
imho
at least she has some ‘inner character’ of talent. that’s more than many of these wom-
en

Escapism is a good thing if it doesn’t cloud your vision.”

surround yourself with high quality elements such as great music

/u ARE being influenced (beyond your recognition)

/if you admit that you are representing only ‘1’ and nothing else..watch out. she is
representing much more than herself. ultimately you can make your representation
greater than yourself.

/though it may look like the weight of the world is now put on your shoulders it isn’t...
just know your relationship to what’s going on and you’ll be free and powerful

/ALL I MEAN ALLLLLLLL OF THIS PROGRAMMING COMES FROM SOME-

WHERE. THAT IS WHERE THE TRUE POWER LIES. Every song you listen to, every
new hot t.v. show or actress. It came from somewhere and someone that is the true
power and stimulus.

/1:18 am. history is being made right now -rw

/take the most intimidating production showcase of women and reframe it. instead of
being the ‘response’ be the producer.

/Production = Power

/the powers she’s represents in leverage is greater than ‘1’...it’s > herself. what do you
REPRESENT?

/12:29 a.m. 9/23/06 it just hit me. your independence DOES represent more than ‘1’.
ievis. soldier placement within the ba�alion for a division ceremony near the schofield
commissary
hs. inner character ISN’T enough

/’above the game’ = producer/architect

...put names ie.s sco� storch, timbaland, redstone..they create the stimulus to feed to
the response mass

you notice that when lyrics start in a song that you become the response and somehow
‘have to listen’

women have grown so much (and men have been repressed), it’s time for you to catch
up AND FAST. R.D.

it’s ok for man to have used women and the edification as hope and inspiration but the
current level of sexploitation has completely changed the dynamics

iz; can you hear the ukulele.. now add his voice.. now add scenic helicoptor scenes
of the hawaiian islands..now add ...........can you see how each independent element
represents itself at the highest quality. try bringing in impure elements like amateur
singer and it’s not as eff. what i just told you is worth a million dollars. you know how
to produce.

there is a great divergence. all of these beautiful and now socially aligned and edified
women and yet few real balanced men.

/ROCK STAR DYNAMIC

vin diesel in pitch black

007 synergy with the tux by making him sleep in it before production on Dr. No

/ONG BAK 2 LEVERAGE IN THE s.C.

/should you argue with women in a long-term relationship?

a: yes, you should put them in their place when they deserve it. i disagree with the
men who say never argue with a woman..that right there is giving her the power
a good q; if u were alone in bed with a woman would your natural character take over?
As long as i can remember, everytime a woman is in my bed there is sex. Would that
natural character and it’s energy start reaching out and progressing your inherent de-
sire to git’r dun?

If it isn’t, then it’s just the social (followed by inner) repression. You can be aware of
this energy and develop it by ge�ing rid of what’s repressed it.

If you aren’t aware of your natural character or don’t ‘have it’ in the bed where it
counts (b/c that’s where you want to end up), how on earth are you going to (consis-
tently) get any women there?

All of these guys will study pick-up lines and how to meet women but if they don’t
have the natural character present, they’d be lucky to reach that point.

be wary of anything anyone offers you that has root/causal social influence. why?
because it means the focus is on you developing and applying social techniques.

i was a part of a business opportunity program for a long time and had a hard
time cold ‘approaching’ anyone about it because I didn’t feel it was the right
thing to necessarily do. I felt that if people were interested they should be
approaching me.

I just COULDN’T align myself to that social concept of cold approaching people
who wouldn’t be interested in the first place. I also didn’t agree with anyone
saying that I and others like me were a failure for not doing so.

If you look at what is really going on. It’s all rooted in social influence.

I could try and sell you a training program but all you really had to do was
‘apply it’ by doing a certain amount of steps which included approaching 15
women each day.

I couldn’t do that. Why? Because it’s socially developed and unnatural itself.

EVERYTHING that has to do with making money and becoming successful is socially
derived. It’s unnatural and you probably will NOT like to hear this:
I have painfully spent YEARS of my life trying to become financially independent.

And what will the experts say? You’re not working hard enough. BULLSHIT. I’ve
busted my ass all of the time and I’m still not there. Fortunately, I’ve been the
‘best squad for years’ and I have the wherewithal to see it through so I know I’ll
make it but it’s been challenging.

What does this have to do with success with women? You’ll see shortly as it will
all pull together.

When applying to women and taking the social approach; you’re not ge�ing out there
enough. You’re not approaching enough women

Let me say this, ‘approaching’ 15 people to go ‘go-ge�ers’ was about the hardest
thing I’d done in my life at that point to show people my business plan. And all
along I knew something wasn’t ‘right’ about it...if anything they should be coming
to me.

VERY IMPORTANT: when you’re in social environments don’t just ‘follow along’
without at least conscious awareness. for example if i really DON’T agree with some-
thing a speaker or a preacher says i will NOT just fall in line with the others and clap. i
will not acknowledge stimuli that violates my and universal principles.

so differentiate yourself. be the guy who DOESN’T clap if you don’t agree with any-
one. can you beat that kind of pressure? or are you privy to the ‘social’ group? if
something is worthy of praise then promote it and represent it like i do but don’t just
be one of the sheep...be very wary of groups of people in large numbers and the type of
relationship that really exists

Same thing with a�raction in a similar way though you may have to ‘spur’ the connec-
tion itself.

multiple personality and *schizophrenic/toure�es..

know y guys hurt ..

the biological process of sex has crossed over into the social realm - clearly. it
is now used and exploited to manipulate or influence men.
Women like guys in bands because of the social status and the fact they are and act
like the stimulus.

Why inner game isn’t enough

We all want the ideal specimen; the alpha standard

So when we fix your ‘global’ game, your ‘inner

game’ will be back in re-alignment and more powerful
than ever before b/c otherwise you’re probably just
wasting time approaching so many women.

I am Not a ‘pick-up artist’...I am a ladies man (and man’s man)

or seducer who praises a woman’s natural character. You can
apply things the way you see fit.

Social influence spirals in it’s own direction. Developing more and faster so that you
need a stronger ‘kick’.

Things that weren’t accepted are now accepted as it morphs into even more extreme
levels of conscious development. This is why people feel so shallow and fragmented
looking for the next ‘kick’; they’re too dependent on the social matrix. It’s time to re-
turn to natural roots; the one that is always there beneath it all.

One fleeting example (in the grander picture of the social matrix) is Coldplay. Finally a
down-to-earth natural and effective band which was the antithesis of the upward and
chaotic spiral of the social matrix. Their influence is only fleeting when viewed in com-
parison to the near-absolute power of the social matrix...even they pale in comparison
to it but they can represent their own and differentiate themselves independently from
it in order to make a positive and more natural influence. U2 is a primary example
before them.

If you want tremendous and more lasting success or impact, have the balls to take a
natural approach like a Coldplay or a Celine Dion. You will have to keep producing
effectively in order to have greater and greater impact. But it will take a lot of us to
turn the sway of the entire social matrix back over to the good side of the Force.

When Pink is singing about ‘Stupid Girls’ yet is identifying herself as one of them (look
at how much she enjoys pretending to be Jessica and Paris in the video), that’s kind of
ridiculous and ‘ironic’. Someone who is that much a proponent of the social matrix
herself isn’t doing anything to help the problem. Look at her picture at the awards
show:

Image: Jamie McCarthy/WireImage.com)

Talk about the divergence of energy in African-American males. In fact it’s o�en refer-
enced within subcultural programming. It’s otherwise known as ‘fronting’. The strong
black guy who puts on a threatening or vicious front yet is a so�, humble guy on the
inside. Some of these men have developed this social character so well that it takes
over most of the time (ie. Tupac) yet even Tupac had a relatively so�er and more hum-
ble side to him. In many people the social front is just a hard outer persona they use to
protect the fragile inside and the more they front, the shallower they are on the inside.

I used to think that trading gi�s and money for a woman’s time was the thing to do..
a�er all it seemed to make sense because society taught me it. If this is the way you
thought, you just have to understand the deeper reality and relational dynamics. In
the RMA, a woman has three different areas she’ll respond to in a man and it’s the
natural that is the only one that works for her true a�raction response. Gold-diggers
are a social response to a high status/rich man.

So when a girl you met online wants to visit you on condition that send her money up-
front for a taxi ride from Atlanta to Houston you’ll be able to clearly not fall for it. Es-
pecially when she says she’s still living with her dad at the age of 26. What a complete
co-dependency right there. I said, I’ll pay for your one way Greyhound ticket once you
get here and your ride back but that’s it.

I wouldn’t even send that money upfront because it clearly violates win/win. I won’t
give up my independent power and control for anyone where they could abuse it. Un-
fortunately many men might actually be duped by a situation like this in the hope that
‘ge�ing some’ would make up for being used (even if she did show up).

My father was duped by a Russian bride scam and he sent thousands of dollars over
when I told him the huge red flags and warning signs but he did it anyways. This was
a woman who was independently using different dating services to con money out of
men. They’ll show a tremendous interest upfront. Just view it all through relational
dynamics.

If she’s saying she ‘needs’ money or a husband, that’s trying to force a co-dependency
and you can tell she has a motive. Not that all Russian women are like this, but the
ones I knew were at least as Aphrodite as American women (and that’s not good for re-
lationships). I think you’re be�er off in that case with an Eastern European woman un-
less you can find one that doesn’t have such a strong motive (and meet her in person).
If a woman has intimacy issues, she’ll be gone a�er four dates at the latest with me
and this includes the balanced, relationship-expecting women. If you let her lead the
relationship or try and withhold sex from you, your power drops in the relationship.
It’s time to let her go. With all of the popularity of ‘Sex and the City’, sex is still such a
logical thing for so many women.

They get so used to their vibrators and fantasies that it becomes an independent thing,
separate from actual intimacy with men. Quite o�en their logic will just overrule their
own powerful response even when with that man, so it’s up to you in that case to de-
cide whether you want her witholding her own pleasure in relation to you.

the beautiful thing is that women ‘know’ (when there’s no social distortion basically)
and that either works for you or against you

ur either raising her F.A.R.M. or lowering it

..we’re gonna look at asses, tits, personalities, faces and natural response and I’ll help
you differentiate them to

overcome your fears and truly ‘get it’ internally. You MUST understand your relation-
ship to it or you WILL CRUMBLE

under it’s powerful, beholding influence and you will become the response and never
stand a chance with this level of woman.

When you ‘get it’, they will know and you’re in.

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The one book that will ROCK your entire reality and raise your entire character
faster than anything else. Once you can understand your relationship to women, your
biological nature, and your relationship to female social power you will have the only

TRUE resolution to the confusing struggles.

You will be centered and a fearless Alpha.
You will be the model of a�raction for women and the good news is that they are born

to pick up this quality. Your natural character is the most important and this is the fast-
est
way to leveraging your natural character to BE an alpha male in reality and in life esp.
around women.

Finally there is a real solid ‘inner game’ program. You see, I can’t tell you ‘how’ to be..
each person
is different but when you can get your ‘global’ issues sorted out, then you’ll be free to
finally BE yourself.

I have watched and studied the other ‘experts’ and I still shake my head that they still
don’t
‘get it’. I mean the reasoning, the ROOT underlying cause of what’s going on. So
many sociologists
and other ‘experts’ all deal with the surface BYPRODUCTS of the interfering forces
because
they don’t yet understand it themselves.

Understanding relational dynamics is the most simple and yet advanced social/life sci-
ence
you could every study and learn.

NO NLP. No mindtricks. No hypnosis. Those are all socially contrived anyways.

No surface-level positive distorted affirmations. Just the TRUTH (and

for the first time in history).

Align yourself with universal principles and you will be a lot more a�ractive and inter-
esting person.

the more influence u have, the more you (can) REPRESENT

I have some news for you: you HAVE been repressed and more than you can ever real-
ize right now.
/my secret? I really want to pleasure and take care of my women by adding value. but
they have to be open to it and then I will take care of them

whenever i see the world ‘need’ i replace it with at least something like ‘have to’

/The reason I like international women in the first place is b/c of their natural energy.
Don’t you get it? The one thing that binds us ALL together? Natural stimulus (mas-
culine) and response (feminine) is a biological function. It extends Beyond ALL socio-
CULTURAL development which includes different races. We’re all human.

Of course I’m saying that as a man you can find a more natural woman who is COM-
PLETELY different than your own socio-cultural development or ‘race’. And she will
fulfill her role more than the women in your own race. It would blow your mind to
see it because she’s rooted in the one thing that ma�ers; natural energy and response.
She’s so close to biology and nature itself that her ‘competition’ of a socially developed
woman of your own race is actually FURTHER away from being a perfect partner.

/A feminine natural energy is NOT about ‘let me fuck you now’ (that’s social represen-
tation/exploitation). It’s about ‘wow’...I can live off of this and live with it.

Producers..the one’s who have the most influence in life understand the elements.
They

know how to pull them all together.

What is interdependence? The elements of life are ALL around you.

Cooking to music to products to architecture...everything is interdependent whether

created
by nature, animals or man.

In a sense you could say that there is a ‘force’.

/Difference between flirting and prickteasing girls

/as a producer making musicals are risky b/c your success or failure will ‘depend’
upon the synergy of the elements. ‘Grease’ is a perfect example of pre�y excellent syn-
ergy that has gone on to influence countless millions of people..partly b/c it effectively
deals with universal themes (love, social hierarchy, status and challenges and joys of
teenage life representationally - at every high school).

the end scene if it was just a movie (without music) the carnival would seem ok or blah
but it’s their using of adding the synergistic music (with meaning behind it in the lyrics
and developed relationships) and editing that really propels it.

I am not afraid of any woman on earth. Why? Because of relational dynamics alone
(and this was the ONLY thing that did it). Nothing else could do it and it took me 30+
years to find the elemental truth and let it hit me.

I am not afraid of (any) powerful or beautiful woman because I understand my rela-

tionship to her and her powers. Any other ‘fix’ is a fluke and a waste of time and mon-
ey. If you don’t understand relational dynamics you are less than the man you should
be (and I used to be) and you can’t be Alpha (if you grew up in a forced reality) and
that is why you’ve had inconsistent success with women.

I’ve heard founders of the seduction community (and other TOP leaders) say there will
always be fear (in approaching)...umm, no - there isn’t anymore, nor in communicating
and accelerating to sex with any level of woman. And these are guys who’ve studied
NLP and hypnosis. Who do YOU want to learn from?
Compared to hypnosis. This is the leverage to change your thoughts because if you
believe something is the actual truth it will form a stronger neural pathway. Hypno-
sis can be effective as it deals with helping you create the conscious and subconscious
thought pa�erns of beliefs that you want to adopt but if you still really don’t believe
it’s the truth, then hypnosis may never work because your conscious mind will pre-
vent you from making that change. Relational Dynamics shows you what is the truth,
therefore making it possible to make an instant and leveraged change into the system
you want to adapt.

Feminine natural character is to live and die for; it’s what makes the world go ‘round.

This is the global perspective and clarity (once you understand it) that you have
dreamed of searching for.

You only need reflect on it and apply it to your life. I am the messenger, the Rafiki.

For the first time EVER released....the only 100% pure and REAL solution to so many of
life’s problems.
I am SO excited about this. If you want the greatest leverage to RAISE your own abil-
ity to a�ract women, make the right decisions and succeed in life you are in the right
place.

Fixing Marriage Relationships: Give each other independence to keep your time to-
gether win/win. Get away from each other. Volunteer to sleep on the couch

Man can search his entire life and not find himself. What women want simply and
purely is men of high N.I.S. character.

Remember ‘survival of the fi�est’. For women they want to choose a man who is clos-
est to the ideal in the areas that ma�er (NIS).

This is the puzzle put together. When you can see the puzzle in it’s entirety instead of
not knowing where
all of the pieces go (which is the default), everything in life will seem to fit together
more and you’ll actually be able to make forward progress.

I’ve said this before; if you’ve taken one ‘for the home team’..that’s about how o�en a
woman will choose a
man of low character (insecure, no personality, no social skill or status).

If you’re NOT this man to begin with, everything is working against you and you will
have inconsistent success with women at best.

Understanding your relationship to what’s going on in your life is the actual secret to
personal power and freedom.

When you can become this man of high character, you will BE what women want and
they will know it shortly a�er meeting you. This is how my close ratio is skyhigh and
under my influence because you can get 100’s of phone numbers and get nowhere.

It’s time men regain their own personal power and awareness to give women choices
of real men.
It’s not just your ‘inner game’. It’s really in understanding the universal principles of
life and your relationship to them (including sources of influence and other people).

I believe this is the only pure and real fix there is and no one else is teaching it because
they’re not aware of the most simple yet profound truths; their relationship to other
sources of power and influence.

It’s not boring, it’s exciting because we have to go on an educational detour here in or-
der to actually fix or realign everything, thus it CANNOT be like any other training out
there (and it ISN’T).

We’re going to be going through actual exercises. I’m going to show you the different
types of female energy and how to differentiate them for yourself. I will GROUND
you in your alpha power as a man. This isn’t just a discussion, this is the Jedi training
on how to practically become Alpha.

We’re going to fix your entire inner game. We’re going to massively raise your natural
character through relational dynamics.

You know that feeling you get when you approach a beautiful, hot or sexy woman?
The bu�erflies start flu�ering in your stomach and you are just in awe of her beauty
and you’re trying to remember what to say?

I used to be there too. In fact, several industry-leading experts have said that fear
never goes away and you just have to ‘deal with it’. WRONG. That fear is gone. I am
completely lacking in insecurities around women and have no fear of the most beauti-
ful (or independent) women on earth. How?

The ONLY thing that allowed me to (instantly) overcome ALL incongruencies was rela-
tional dynamics.

The clarity that I was trying to pinpoint in all of my teaching’s has arrived.

You know, and if you AREN’T fearless around the women you approach or desire
THEY KNOW and that’s why you’ve been inconsistent AT BEST with them.

When natural women see me they melt. When girls I met online meet me at Starbucks
they have a physiological reaction like they were punched in the gut (in a good way)
with their mouth wide open and smiling. When socially influenced/distorted women
see me, it takes a li�le longer for them to wipe away their own social distortion but
they see that ‘I am the man’ because my character doesn’t ever drop for any woman; I
am the rock and they are in the presence of a real man.

I didn’t use to be at this level at all. I was like countless millions of other men who was
just confused and frustrated. Those days are forever over and it is a priceless peace of
mind. I want you to have the power for yourself. To be able to control and choose the
relationships you want as well.

You can study and use pick-up lines until the cows come home (and keep coming
home) but if you want to actually be able to make progress with women and live a
lifestyle that’s under your control you must have a strong character. If you don’t get
relational dynamics you will forever be influenced by the opposite forces of a�raction
which leads to sex itself. Even the other top experts I would daresay are not at this
level of clarity.

The one man who might come close is Steve Piccus. He did a hardcore soul gaze when
I met him, didn’t find any fear and broke it off to massage a mic girl in the foyer. There
are other role models of rock-solid character but I would bet that even they don’t ‘clear-
ly’ understand their relationship to everything to unleash even more of their potential.

I’m going to take you to a level of accurate intuition about women that rivals that of
women. If you aren’t cognitive of relational dynamics your entire life will continue to
be repressed and influenced beyond your full control. Relational Dynamics will give
you the power of Neo to stop the bullets of influence, understand your relationship to
them and give you ten times the strength and power you had before as a man.

With the level of effectiveness and power within this program, I should not sell it for
less than $999.

I’m planning on even giving you the exact specific influences/resources I use that have
grounded me in DEEP natural energy and strength. I also guarantee that you have no
idea what they are either.

My whole life I thought that there HAS to be REAL answers to life’s most pressing
questions including female psychology and a�raction. I have found those answers and
they are still not within what other’s are teaching from what I’ve seen. They still have
answers that are hazy, technique-oriented or surface guesses that sidesteps the actual
truth because they can’t see it yet. Cognition of the elements of life and their relation-
ship to each other is everything. You can have 100 times more power and effect if you
are clear on Relational Dynamics. All real ladies men abide by R.D. even if they aren’t
cognizant of it. All Producers abide by R.D. and ARE cognizant of it.
The power of Relational Dynamics is the root of power and influence itself and I will
show you how to have and live this, especially with women. You will have more ef-
fective knowledge than even other guru’s out there on important subjects. You will be
able to run circles around sociologists as well if you choose. This information will be
for guys who know that real success with women (and consistency) is primarily about
a man’s natural character, level congruency and her response.

The power of this information will not be cheap and I am limiting it’s release by weed-
ing out guys who aren’t serious about MASSIVELY leveraging and improving their
own character and success with women. I’m talking about being able to approach,
handle and seduce the most beautiful women. You will have that power because for
the first time in your life, you’ll be at a level of power, congruency and character that
allows you to live a lifestyle of power where pick-up lines become obsolete, closing to
sex becomes smooth and your close ratio’s skyrocket (hey, like mine).

This is NOT for guys looking for the next hot pick-up line. This is about REAL POW-
ER, real roots, real understanding, real character and real change. This is stronger than
ANY possible ‘inner game’ program because it deals with the only things that ma�er
anyways (Relational Dynamics). Other programs are designed to improve your ‘social’
skills/character and your ‘inner game’. This is the one program that improves the most
important one of them ALL, your natural character...which is your level of alphaness,
fearlessness, personal authority, congruency and centered energy. All of this is done in
alignment with your inner game (self-beliefs, personality, self-control) which will mas-
sively grow as well.

Yes it will include actual ‘techniques’ as well.

Others will say there’s still fear, so just approach anyways and you’ll get over it. Obvi-
ously they’re not dealing with the root of the issue probably because they haven’t dealt
with it themselves or even knew how to deal with it. Well I never ‘got over it’ before
my breakthrough of R.D. and seeing the matrix. The fear was still there when I was
around the most beautiful women before and I usually se�led for second best because I
just didn’t get over my final incongruencies.

Hypnosis may not even work on you a�er R.D. and that’s fine because you won’t need
it. Hypnosis is just a deepened state of suggestion and if you’re cognitive of the fact
that you’re ‘going under’ your mind can prevent anything from happening because
you know it’s B.S.

Yes, I was hypnotized before and with my level of cognition I knew it was all just sug-
gestion. I played along with it because we were ‘performing’ in front of a crowd. It
may have some effect on weaker minds but not mine.

Can there still be some practical uses for it? Probably but I would say don’t spend your
money on it because you’re still going to struggle with incongruencies between your
subconscious and conscious mind.

With R.D. we deal with the cold-hard sober truth which has been hidden. You don’t
need to try and ‘work on’ your subconscious mind, because there’s nothing to hide
from when you know the upfront conscious truth (though it may shock you at first).

Your conscious mind will comprehend and realign itself and when you fully believe it,
it will synergize and integrate into your subconscious as well. This is when true con-
gruency and your physiological changes will really occur.

I think hypnosis is ineffective in so many people because though it may reach their
subconscious, their logic-conscious mind is struggling with certain things that still
don’t make sense, so they know it’s kind of B.S. because there is still that incongruency
there.

They WANT to believe but they just can’t because they don’t understand the clarity of
each of the elements involved and their relationship to it.

Sex is a synergy. Rape is a co-dependency

pure independence is freedom...abolishment of all co-dependencies and disempower-

ing relationships of or between other people, ideologies, and money. -rion williams

Defeat the social matrix once and for all

Leverage your entire natural and inner ‘game’ or character

in one shot

Handle yourself around the most beautiful women

Stop your uncontrollable emotional response to beauty

Defeat rejection
Live in your own strong reality

Be comfortable in your own skin around all women and people

(it’s priceless)

Be a natural

Empower your own inner game

Be fearless, confident and lack insecurity when you approach

and deal with women

Increase your close ratio’s dramatically

Get you much closer to ‘being’ Alpha Male

Improve your entire physiology and NV body language

Allow women to respond to you

Cut out the unpredictability of pick-up lines

Have women wanting to sleep with you

Be�er sex because higher natural character

Change your reality upside-down

Approach, a�ract and seduce the most beautiful women

Well by now you should realize that your ‘natural’ character and it’s (high) level is
what women respond to physiologically and sexually. You can use all the pick-up lines
in the world, keep ge�ing rejected or keep working on your social ‘game’ when you
could be sleeping with women instead because of your newfound and real alpha-pow-
er through relational dynamics (through much higher close ratios).

Ge�ing to Alpha or high character can take YEARS of approaching 1,000’s of women
and going out day and night-gaming 4 times+ weekly. I didn’t have time for ANY of
that. Do you? You know they’re working backwards on the character continuum,
right?
Being Alpha in character is ultimately what those guys are going for because that’s
when the results consistently happen. You can fool women once (fool’s mate) and it
will take dozens of rejections to ‘get one’ but if you want consistent, predictable suc-
cess with women you HAVE to be a man of high (natural) character. Then the game is
so much smoother and easier anyways because the women are the one’s interested in
YOU.

When I meet any new woman (ie. on a follow-up), she’s basically IN my lifestyle rota-
tion (if I keep her there) because of Relational Dynamics.

Isn’t time to address the root issues themselves (instead of surface issues) and get your
behaviour aligned with the ideal that women want? I’m talking about the fastest way
to actually ‘become’ a man of alpha character.

I’ve found a way to leverage that power to shoot any man up to an Alpha level and
I’ve finally made it ‘clear’ and concise. In fact, if you DON’T understand (or apply)
R.D., you will always have less than full power to a�ract and seduce women anyways
- AND in life itself.

If you’re a virgin, if you’re already a ‘player’, if you just want a higher close ratio, if
you want to be a natural, if you want more and be�er sex, if you want women respond-
ing to you, if you don’t want any more flakes, and if you want sex with the women you
desire...Relational Dynamics is the solution that will leverage your natural character
and FAST to decimate everything that has stopped you. This new program will deal
with every angle so be prepared to change and grow into a strong, powerful man.

When R.D. ‘hit me’, I lost all fear and incongruency in my energy and character (and
thus around women) instantly. I am now fearless of any woman on earth because I am
cognizant of Relational Dynamics (aka my relationship to the forces of influence). I can
engage and talk to any woman I so choose without any sign of fear. You can study ev-
erything else out there and I guarantee you will never get the clarity of life and seduc-
tion itself as you do from Relational Dynamics (and most importantly, the results).

There was no shortcut to being a REAL strong man of character that women are drawn
to and respond to; now there is. Relational Dynamics may not be a shortcut for all of
my students but it is for those who are ‘ready’ to go Jedi and can become cognizant
fast..other students will take a li�le more time to grow to Alpha level. R.D. will be per-
haps the only real training on this subject (be all and end all?!) and there is a tremen-
dous amount of leverage that (has repressed your character on all levels that) will get
you to Natural Alpha and to keep growing from there.
So, as I’m still producing ‘Relational Dynamics’ and finishing up ‘Natural Success with
Women’ send me your questions about R.D. and for right now I’ll leave you with a
li�le list of what R.D. can do for you.

With Relational Dynamics ((the next and the last (!?) Hot thing in the industry!)) you
can

--

You already know what to do; approach and connect with women and lead things to
sex. Then why is it so inconsistent or why do women keep flaking? Those answers
will be there.

If people understand Relational Dynamics, we would have a lot more men of high and
powerful character. There wouldn’t be a need for NLP, hypnosis, addiction, therapy,
counseling or any of that junk. You have WAY more power within you than you real-
ize and through R.D. you’ll raise your character to a level that you could only dream
of...and fairly fast because of the leverage involved - that is, if you’re READY to change
and can handle yourself being a powerful man who makes women’s hearts skip a beat
(instead of the other way around).

This is the power to take a Beta or Omega and turn him Alpha in the absolutely most
leveraged and fast way possible. It’s uniquely human to have the possibility to even do
that.

There’s SO much stuff out there on the ‘social’ end. Finally there is an actual training
program for going Alpha and ‘how to be’ a natural.

My whole life I thought that there HAS to be REAL answers to

life’s most pressing questions including female psychology
in a�raction.

I have found those answers and they are still not within
what other’s are teaching from what I’ve seen. They still
have answers that are hazy, technique-oriented or surface
guesses that sidesteps the actual truth and real power
because they can’t see it yet or thus explain it.
Cognition of the elements of life and their relationship to
each other is everything. You can have 100 times more power
and effect if you are clear on Relational Dynamics. All
real ladies men abide by R.D. even if they aren’t cognizant
of it.

All Producers abide by R.D. and ARE cognizant of it. The

power of Relational Dynamics is the root of power and
influence itself and I can show you how to have and live
this, especially with women.

This information will be for guys who know that real success
with women (and consistency) is primarily about a man’s
natural character, level of congruency and her response,
because without it, he’ll keep failing and be wasting his
time and money around women.

The power of this information will not be cheap and I am

limiting it’s release by weeding out guys who aren’t serious
about MASSIVELY leveraging and improving their own character
and success with women.

This is about ‘going Alpha’ and R.D. training will not be

released in the podcasts (though I’ll refer to it, etc.)

Yes,

I am working on the Relational Dynamics program now and it

will include an audio version (or portion) as well as an
undistributable ebook.

It will be released probably sometime in September but I’ll

keep you posted.

There will also be direct sources of natural influence as

well as videos of women where I’ll go through helping you
overcome your fears through my secret techniques. Yes,
we’ll be looking at T&A because we have to deal with reality
and put it completely on your side.

With Relational Dynamics...

I’m talking about being able to approach, handle and seduce
the most beautiful women. You will have that power because
for the first time in your life, you’ll be at a level of
power, congruency and character that allows you to live a
lifestyle of power where pick-up lines become obsolete,
closing to sex becomes smooth and your close ratio’s
skyrocket (hey, like mine).

This is NOT for guys looking for the next hot pick-up line.

This is about REAL POWER, real roots, real understanding,

real character and real change. This is stronger than ANY
possible ‘inner game’ program because it deals with the only
things that ma�er anyways (Relational Dynamics).

Other programs are designed to improve your ‘social’

skills/character and your ‘inner game’. This is the one
program that improves the most important one of them ALL,
your natural character...which is your level of alphaness,
fearlessness, personal authority, congruency and centered
energy.

All of this is done in alignment with your inner game

(self-beliefs, personality, self-control) which will
massively grow as well.

This is the one set of answers you have been looking for
and a�er the product release I will probably double the
price.

So what to do now?

Send me your questions about Relational Dynamics to

rion@modelmagnet.com or go to the forums and talk about
it (and other dating subjects) there:

h�p://www.modelmagnet.com/forums/
Keep your own independence and don’t let any forces interfere or come out on top.

Look at the desire of people and women to climb social hierarchies. ieref the new lead
singer for INXS. If you were just watching the music video you’d think it was all him.
Wrong. Yeah he may have value to add but he wasn’t the producer. If you ‘didn’t
know’ you’d just soak up what they’re showing you like a sponge.s

Are you a social byproduct? If not, well...how much do you think you HAVEN’T been
influenced socially?

For most American men, social influence is the ONE thing that has repressed them
(and furthermore their own inner character think that it’s them that’s the problem be-
cause they can’t see any way out or anything else)

Documentary vs. (Conscious) Production

See if you can catch the influence in this article: h�p://www.msnbc.msn.com/

id/14592938/

Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Rousseau saw a fundamental divide between society and human nature. Rousseau
contended that man was good by nature, a “noble savage” when in the state of nature
(the state of all the “other animals”, and the condition humankind was in before the
creation of civilization and society), but is corrupted by society. He viewed society as
artificial and held that the development of society, especially the growth of social inter-
dependence, has been inimical to the well-being of human beings.

Society’s negative influence on otherwise virtuous men centers, in Rousseau’s philoso-

phy, on its transformation of amour de soi, a positive self-love, into amour-propre, or
pride. Amour de soi represents the instinctive human desire for self preservation, com-
bined with the human power of reason. In contrast, amour-propre is not natural but
artificial and forces man to compare himself to others, thus creating unwarranted fear
and allowing men to take pleasure in the pain or weakness of others. Rousseau was not
the first to make this distinction; it had been invoked by, among others, Vauvenargues.

In “Discourse on the Arts and Sciences” Rousseau argued that the arts and sciences
had not been beneficial to humankind because they were not human needs, but rather
a result of pride and vanity. Moreover, the opportunities they created for idleness and
luxury contributed to the corruption of man. He proposed that the progress of knowl-
edge had made governments more powerful and had crushed individual liberty. He
concluded that material progress had actually undermined the possibility of sincere
friendship, replacing it with jealousy, fear and suspicion.

to go back to nature means to restore to man the forces of this natural process, to place
him outside every oppressing bond of society and the prejudices of civilization

The seduction community itself is a byproduct of sexploitation and the forthcoming

repression of men rooted out of the social matrix/forced reality. It was founded by men
who were severely frustrated and made it their purpose to figure it out. Relational Dy-
namics is great for these guys as well as the mainstream majority of men who just have
to clarify their relationship to everything that’s going on (generally) in order to increase
their success with women and in life.

LMR

What I call justify-her’s must o�en be dealt with in order for a woman to sleep with
you (or a man). Society has told her to be a good girl, etc. (actually this is changing).
She has certain things in her mind that are logical which will come up and have to be
dealt with. “Will he respect me in the morning?” “Will I see him again?” “What will
my friends think?”

Women who have the social/logical expectation of a longer term relationship can still
be bedded (for their own sexual pleasure). It just might take a li�le while longer if
you’re being part of that balanced expectation to get her into bed - because remember
she’s likely not going to sleep with you the first night because she is defining herself as
a good girl (I’m talking about meeting her in an open environment or online).

You will be able to understand criticism and put it into it’s place. You will be able to
filter out what messages are coming at you and how they help or hinder you.

They’ll still be afraid of her, treat her like a Queen when she didn’t do ANYTHING to
deserve that level of treatment

Rapport is the inner/personality synergizing process of mating. What kind of per-

sonality traits do they have? Are they interesting? What are their skillsets? Are they
funny or boring? etc.

So you want to ‘seduce’ the socially extorted bitches? Well...first of all, they’re over-
rated.

Basically I could really use a full-time publicist. Interested? Let me know.

Remember that ‘He with the most toys wins’ poster? With the Lamborghini’s parked
in the multi-car garage at a sunset in California or something? It’s been around a long
time. Well I remember that poster and maybe you even had it as a kid. I was thinking
‘yes I want those things’ but something inside didn’t feel right about it. I was being in-
fluenced back then. The shiny red Lamborghini..it rarely truly represents anyone’s AC-
TUAL personality (if you REALLY put social influence aside), it’s just a socially desired
status symbol. If I felt weird buying a $300 pair of sunglasses to ‘show off’ my senior
year in high school before I graduated, on the SMALLER things..it’s the same thing (ex-
cept more hollowness) on the larger things. I traded those in (with a huge rebate) for a
pair that more represented my personality and took the focus off of the ‘object’.

Who is driving that anyways? L.A. women will objectify a status symbol like that and
not even care who the guy is, they’ll just want to raise their social status...the focus is
on the social status symbol itself and NOT the man. Sure he could ‘trade’ it for sex (if
he has any ‘skills’ and the cars) but it’s all too shallow for me. I’m not saying I want to
be poor. I know I will be mega-rich but I will be in ‘control’ of it and everything I own
will be an extension of ‘my’ power and influence. Don’t design your lifestyle so that
you have to ‘please’ others because then you’ll find you are surrounded by shallow
friends who’ll leave you for the next higher status thing or person.

However you don’t have to be a starving artist either. Use your financial power for
freedom and expanding your positive influence.

In fact the desire for social status or conspicuous consumption

People will email me all the time saying they ‘need’ me to tell them this one technique
for my Photoshop business. I roll my eyes at that. They don’t ‘need’ anything. They’re
trying to make it a co-dependency. They’re not dependent on me. Point is; I want you
to become aware when people say things like that to you just so you see where they’re
coming from and what type of relationship you want to have with them because they
might just keep sucking your energy away.

Women don’t like men who are co-dependent, who edify them on a pedestal and drain
their energy like leeches calling all the time and ‘whatever you want honey’. This
drains a woman’s general independence. Independence represents confidence and
that’s sexy in a man.

When you look deep into a woman’s eyes you either have shallow influence or you
have a deeper character of rooted independent and natural strength which is the stim-
ulus the resides over her; and it’s fearless and the essence of what millions of women
want.

When you understand relational dynamics you are tapping into the root of power of
everything that exists. Be humble with that power and understanding that is yours.
Don’t turn to the dark side or anything.

When you understand relational dynamics you are above those who don’t (including
super-producers and high social status people or women).

So instead of soaking things up like a sponge as the stimulus, YES you’re going to start
building up value within yourself that has nowhere else to go but outwards

Understand clearly that the social matrix IS the source of all of these problems; her ex-
ploitation, her power, her a�itude, her demands, your repression, her repression

If you want soul, if you want real character you can have it (although you’ve missed
out on years of it), you can use where you’re at to your advantage but you have to
take full control back over your life. You MUST put the social matrix into it’s bitchbox
where it belongs. You have to know your relationship to it and have control or you
will forever be a response to it.

Co-dependency..if you’re still being held back or influenced by forces outside yourself
beyond your true control, then you don’t have full control or true independence. Sort
out yourself from the muck and the mire.

I’ve noticed that I’ve rarely been angry since my breakthrough of seeing the Matrix.

Let’s edify a woman’s motherhood (abilities) instead of her sexploited status or even
her overpowered personality. And I don’t mean edify it from the feminist perspective
either.

If I see value, I’ll let that bullet in. to b&b in 3 seconds

In fact, choosing such diverse influences (and not being pigeon-holed by any single
social group or subculture) has been a huge part of why I’m so damn interesting and
cultured. Taking the time to also think for myself (and turning off other influences) has
allowed me to grown into my own strong and diverse independent person who now
has unlimited value to offer the world. If you haven’t done much of that, I’m two de-
cades ahead of you but you can start!

People only see what’s in front of them and usually just ‘respond’ to it. If you can get
a global sense and see outside of that, your character and strength will grow as a man/
person.

Making big decisions.

A aphrodite diva who actually does ADD value I commend. Social byproducts women
who don’t add any value, well I don’t want to be in serious relationships with them.

When someone says they ‘don’t like’ an influence that means so much to you, it doesn’t
bother you. Because you’re aware of your independent and that is all you have that
ma�ers. You don’t fall under their short-sighted lack of value seeing and it doesn’t
bother you.

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