Preface….............................................................................................................................4I. PREPARATION: Philosophy and Mindset........................................................................5Origins..................................................................................................................................6The Limits of Intuition.......................................................................................................8It’s Not Just About the Girls…...........................................................................................8But They do Have a Comparative Advantage….............................................................9Who Wins?........................................................................................................................10And…..................................................................................................................................10Conquering Fear...............................................................................................................12Mojo...................................................................................................................................13The Difficulty with Groups...............................................................................................14So, Where Are They?.......................................................................................................15
Bars/Nightclubs
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Structured Environments
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A Grocery Store
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The Subway
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The Street
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A Bookstore
..................................................................................................................17Windows of Opportunity..................................................................................................17II. ENGAGMENT: Bringing Her into Your Reality..............................................................19Now, a Word or Two on Approaches…..........................................................................20Words Three and Four on Approaches…......................................................................20What Killed the Samurai? Hesitation...........................................................................21Is She with Him?..............................................................................................................22The “1-Minute” Movie Trailer Concept..........................................................................22But…Why Not Stay Longer to Build Rapport? .............................................................23A Little Thing Called Women’s Pride............................................................................25Verbal Game… There’s No Other Kind..........................................................................26So, What Do You Say?.....................................................................................................27Female Short-Term Memory and the Generic Objection...........................................27Emotional Kinematics.....................................................................................................29Rejection and How to Deal with It.................................................................................30Missed Opportunities and Global Population..............................................................31Pipelining..........................................................................................................................31A Side Note: Presentation..............................................................................................32Looks.............................................................................................................................32Style...............................................................................................................................33Grooming......................................................................................................................34Scruff.............................................................................................................................34Fashion..........................................................................................................................35Hygiene..........................................................................................................................36III. MIDGAME: Moving Beyond the Digits..........................................................................37The Idea of Discipline......................................................................................................38Phone Game & Volume Texting ....................................................................................43The 11% Rule...................................................................................................................45The Spreadsheet..............................................................................................................47