According to US census data, an esti-mated 270 313 American childrenwere living in households headed bysame-sex couples in 2005, and nearly twicethatnumberhadasinglelesbianor gay parent.
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Although research hadestablished by the late 1960s that ho-mosexuality is not a mental illness,public opinion has been slow to catchup.
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After homosexuality was re-moved from the
Diagnostic and Statis- tical Manual of Mental Disorders
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in1973, women who had conceived chil-dren in the context of heterosexualmarriage and identified as lesbian at the time of divorce faced stiff opposi- tion in the courts when they sought toretain custody.
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Subsequently, stud-ies have shown that there are no sig-nificantdifferencesinpsychosocialde-velopment between children who arereared in lesbian and heterosexualhouseholds.
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These findings formed the basis of the Technical Report from the American Academy of PediatricsCommitteeonPsychologicalAspectsof Child and Family Health.
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Despite more than 3 decades of cross-sectionalresearchdemonstratingthat the psychological adjustment of chil-dren is unrelated to their parents’ sex-ual orientation, the legitimacy of les-bian and gay biological, foster, andadoptive parenting is still under scru- tiny.
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Contemporary critics point toa dearth of longitudinal studies on les-bian families and limited data on ado-lescents who have been living in les-bian or gay households since birth.
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Withinthecohortoffamiliesheadedbysame-sex parents in the United States, the first generation of children whowere conceived by lesbians throughdonor insemination (DI) is coming of age. This phenomenon provides a richopportunity for social scientists tostudy the well-being of teenagerswho have been raised since birth inwhat is known as planned lesbianfamilies.
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Psychosocial research on young chil-dren in planned lesbian families hasfocused primarily on 4 key develop-mental outcomes: psychological ad- justment,peerrelationships,familyre-lationships, and progress throughschool.
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Inyoungchildren,adjust-ment is largely determined by familyfunctioning: regardless of their par-ents’ gender or sexual orientation,children fare better when their par-ents are compatible, share responsi-bilities, provide financial stability, andhave healthy interpersonal connec- tions.
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During adolescence, peer rela- tions become more important as teen-agers develop a sense of identity, adeeper appreciation of interindividualdifference, and a keener awareness of minority status.
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Teenage chil-dren may be more reflective about theirearlierexperiencesofstigmatiza- tion,
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yet relatively little hasbeen reported about the psychologicalwell-being of adolescents who havebeen raised in lesbian families sincebirth. Studies on the teenage offspringof lesbians are largely based on datagatheredinthe1990s,inwhichthema- jority of teenagers studied were con-ceived in heterosexual relationshipsbefore their mothers divorced andcame out as lesbian.
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These teenagers’ experience differs from that of those who grow up in plannedlesbian families, because having a het-erosexual father may diminish thesense of marginalization that teenag-ers with lesbian parents experience.
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In the United Kingdom, Golombok andcolleagues
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have been conducting acomparative study of children whowere reared in fatherless and tradi- tional families that began when the in-dex offspring was a mean age of 6years. At the third follow-up, the 18young adults with lesbian mothersand the 20 reared by single het-erosexual mothers demonstratedhigher levels of self-esteem than the32 reared in 2-parent heterosexualhouseholds.A recent series of reports on the psy-chosocial adjustment of American teenagers with same-sex parentswas based on the National Longitudi-nal Study of Adolescent Health (AddHealth), for which the data were col-lected in 1994 and 1995.
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Forty-four adolescents who lived with 2mothers were compared with 44 whowere raised by a mother and a fa- ther. No differences between the 2groups were found in peer relations,academic performance, personal ad- justment, and health-related risk be-haviors; however, the parents’ sex-ual orientation was not specified in the Add Health survey, so the analy-ses may be confounded by the inclu-sion of women who live together butdo not identify as lesbian.
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The US National Longitudinal LesbianFamily Study (NLLFS) was initiated in1986 to provide prospective data ona cohort of American lesbian fami-lies from the time the children wereconceived until they reach adult-hood.
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At its inception, all NLLFSmothers identified as lesbian. In thisarticle, the psychological adjustmentof the 17-year-old NLLFS offspringwho were conceived through DI andreared in planned lesbian families iscompared through maternal reportswith those of an age-matched norma- tive sample of American teenagers.Within the NLLFS sample, we analyze the association of adolescent well-being as reflected in Child BehaviorChecklist (CBCL) scores with (1)sperm donor status (having a known,as-yet-unknown, or permanently un-known donor); (2) parental relation-ship continuity (whether the off-spring’s mothers are together orseparated); and (3) experiencesof stigma.
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