I already know from the Director of UCSB’s English Language Programthat I will be host mother to a Japanese student whose name means ‘Good fortune, perfect in every way, beautiful happiness.’ She is the onlydaughter and sister of a father and brother that graduated from Harvard Medical School. In addition to certificates in Tea Ceremony and Flower Arranging, she’s just received a degree in economics from prestigiousTokyo University—ranked highest in Asia and 20
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in the world.We stop by home so she can freshen-up and stow her luggage in her roomwith its windows opened to the blue sea and a pocket garden of red-bougainvillea. Back in the car we weave up to El Encanto Hotel at the topof the Riviera. On its terrace--with a sparkling view of the red-tile roofed city and Pacific Ocean—we laugh over cheeseburgers and fries. I discover that our birthdays are days apart and that her father is addicted to Frank Sinatra. I don’t consider what our relationship will be over the next semester, or whether it will abruptly end with her studies, fade-way, or live on. She ishere now and we are simpatico in daily beach walks with Ladd, fireside popcorn and hot cider, laughter, music and conversation, and delicious food at home or out.They say all things point home in old October. With Halloweenapproaching we spelunked in vintage stores for her UCSB costume party.‘How about a princess with a magic wand?’ I suggested. ‘Ahhh,’ she smiled and looked off in the distance as if envisioning the dance. ‘Yes.’ Is it embedded in female DNA to be a princess? Isn’t that the universal appeal of Jackie Kennedy, Princess Grace, Audrey Hepburn or Queen Rania? Truth is Beauty, and Beauty is Truth. You can have an economicsdegree from a leading institution~but nothing trumps grace. Heaventhrives on it and Miyuki has it by a string. We found Shangri-la in the form of a shell pink gauze ball gown with a fitted satin bodice and full skirt dotted with shimmering crystals. With theaddition of angel wings, a halo, and wand—a fairytale materialized.The princess was back in street wear and we were off to the Biltmore for salads on the oceanfront patio. A man at the next table with a Bavarianaccent introduced himself as a Count. If we’d been in Des Moines—that