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1. Reality of Life
For at least two decades, Family Law has been experiencing a much different scen
e from that of the past and from that one imagined.
There is still a much puritan, sacred and monogamous family view, which does not
coincide with a social reality. Thus, we cannot simply close our eyes and do no
t admit these new family configurations as integrating reality.
Society is changing and hymenolatry has given place to the search for happiness
and Law cannot turn a blind eye to reality.
Loss of virginity before wedding, homosexuality, divorce and other themes treate
d as taboos are part of people’s lives now.
From a legislation that, at first , wouldn t admit the break of the matrimony bo
nds, we, over the time, had the acknowledgment by the courts of the effects aris
ing from the homoaffective relationships , the adoption of a child by homoaffect
ive couples and, most recently, the acknowledgment of concurrent relationships
, to which we shall further refer in this document.
A life marriage of the last century is not perpetual anymore and parallel relati
onships (affective parallelism) have been analyzed and recognized in Brazil.
Monogamy, even yet in a certain way imposed by law, is not anymore something soc
ially or morally relevant.
Now, we question: how to proceed before so many new ways of relationship? The ma
in question is how family relationships and assets disposals will be dealt with
from now on.
We already know that the idea of family is different from the one we had decades
ago, this is no news. Father, mother and children are not only the sole manner
of constitution of households.
And what to tell about the cases in which there is a household coexisting in a s
ame family? Fiction? No, reality.
This work will tell about the socio-affective relationship in the kaleidoscope f
amily, limited to the theme, in which it is also relevant property and inheritan
ce issues. For that, we shall make brief considerations and comparisons with oth
er families.
In the affective parallelism, it has been admitted the existence of parallel rel
ationship. The Court of Justice of the State of Rio Grande do Sul, when judging
the appeal n. 70015693476, unanimously kept the recognition of double relationsh
ips, as per decision issued by the 1st Probate Division of Porto Alegre.
The Reporting Judge himself emphasizes “this present case is the total evidence
that one person can keep two families in parallel, and evidences the affectio m
aritalis with both, and it seems that only some people have the ability to divid
e between such families as if they were two people, and not only one”.
The news recently published in a famous website in the area is entitled “A man,
two women, three kids, two beds” which tells about a suit for recognition of a
co-habiting being developed in the Circuit Court of Porto Alegre, as this sectio
n of the initial petition: "It arises clearly from this the coexistence of two f
amiliar cells for 17 years. The deceased was formally married since 1961, relati
onship that resulted in the birth of a son. Simultaneously to this marriage, in
1987, the man started another family, with his first child born in 1985, i.e., b
efore the initial milestone of the second relationship and when he only dated to
his second wife. Other situation is the fact that both women knew the existence
of each other. The son of the first marriage also knew about his father’s relat
ionship, as well as the existence of brothers born from it. There is a photograp
h (enclosed) of the three children together. All got on well with each other: th
e deceased (when alive), both women and the three children generated from the tw
o different beds".
Basically, there is nothing to do with accepting or rejecting the new constituti
ons for family, but to find paths for eventual problems that might arise from th
em.
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