18 Sexy Movies for Grown Women
Jed Diamond, Ph.D. has been a health-care professional for the last 45 years.He is the author of 9 books, including
. He offers counseling to men,women, and couples in his office in California or by phone with people throughoutthe U.S. and around the world. To receive a Free E-book on Men’s Health and afree subscription to Jed’s e-newsletter go towww.MenAlive.com. If you enjoy myarticles, please subscribe. I write to everyone who joins my Scribd team.Sex can be wonderful, but it isn’t always easy. When we’re young, we get turnedon easily. We don’t need any external support. We just think about our partner or a sexy image and we’re hot and bothered. But that feeling doesn’t last. As weage we need additional stimulation. But how do we find erotica that we canshare? Here’s what Dr. Barb DePree founder of MiddleSexMD has to say.As a general rule, women over 40 need more stimulation to become arousedenough for good sex. When we were young, just thinking about making love withour partners may have been enough to arouse us physically, but as we growolder, as sex hormones decrease and distractions build, it takes more. But nottoo much more. For some of us, reading a steamy novel will do it. For others,visual stimulation works better. A hot movie, for instance.Ever since I first conceived of MiddlesexMD, one of my goals has been to gather a tasteful collection of erotica, visual and verbal art that will stimulate arousal inolder women. All we had to do is find it, right? How hard could that be?None of us at MiddlesexMD had really explored the world of erotic art. So we setour product buyer to work, buying up a sampling of the “state of the art,”beginning with films. She studied and chose a good selection, from how-to filmsto soft-boiled, story-centered erotic movies. We chose films targeted at women.And films targeted at older women. As the DVDs piled up in our product room,we decided to take an analytical approach to our selection.Sort of analytical. We each invited a few girlfriends over for glass of wine, aviewing and a discussion.Our goal was to review these films to gather criteria and characteristics of filmsthat most appealed to our friends — some way to inform our buying choices for the store. Which would they use? Which would they recommend to their friendsor watch with their partners? How would they rate them? What, specifically, didthey like about each? We had our notepads and our pens poised. We hadpoured the wine, curled up in front of the TV… And then, showtime!