PERSONAL RESPONSES

As we all know, raped is a crime, also a sin and it absolutely wrong. It can
happen to everyone around us. Don’t afraid if it happen to someone that close to you.
Right now, I can't imagine what it would be like to have someone force me to have sex
with them. As we go through all this, try to keep focused on the fact that there is hope to
regain a normal happy life. In my opinion, this rapist nowadays should be imposed more
serious legal action.

Nowadays, recently cases of raped become increasing day by day. This is

because the amount of drug addict and alcoholic also increase. I think the government
should do something to make they stop those thing. In the other hand, the government
should add more punishment towards them. The rapist, drug addict also the alcoholic
should be arrested and put them into the prohibition center. The government also
should jail them follow the flow of the cases. The victim should report the cases to the
police immediately. This is because the police can arrest the rapist as soon as possible.

One of the examples that writers give in one of the article is that the victims
should behave their self such as dress decently and modestly. In my opinion, there is no
problem to wear sexy. If wearing sexy cloth become the issues, why there are many
cases happened to women or girls who are dress modestly and used scarf? Why there
are fathers dare to rape their own little daughter even thought they still do not have
figure like a young lady. I think dressing is only the excuses for rapist by blaming the
victims to throw away their guilty.

As we all also know, there are many step to prevent raped from happen in this
article. One of them is avoid keeping late night. I strongly agree with this tip because
night is the best time to do all crimes. I think, girls and women should beware with this.
It is true because when the night comes up, the crimes such as raped, gambling,
murdered, robbing and others crimes can happened. However, if they had to go
somewhere else at night, they should bring along their friends and go in group. At least
two or three people in a small group so that they can decrease the rate of being the
rapist’s victim.

I absolutely agree with statement which is women must fight back when there are
someone to rape you .To do so, the girls should learning martial art to protect
themselves from rapist. By try to learn martial art, such as silat, taekwondo, silambam
and else, they can use those technique they learn to fight back when they are almost
being victims of raped. Besides that, learn martial art also can make them more
confident when facing with this rapist.

As a rape victim, after being experienced some of the terrible things, it may be
difficult for you to believe you can have a happy, healthy, fulfilling life, even an enjoyable
sex life again but you can.  I'm not promising there is anyone or anything that will go
back into the past and make your rape un-happen.  What I am saying is, despite the fact
it happened, you can be made whole.  There is a lot of work you and everyone around
you will do to help you recover. For me, family and friend should give more attention to
the victims because, they only the closer one to the victims.

As we can know in this article, there are effects that can happened to the victims,
such as being in a daze or feel dumb. This is because the victims always think about
the cases and try to remember the parts of the body of rapist, but they can’t remember.
So, the parents, family members and friend should give more support to them. Help
them with forget about the case and try to make they feel happy. They need more
support from the family, and not the doctor because the doctor only helps them to
recover, but for them the family is everything.

The most tips that caught my eyes among the tips are we should more pray to
god. I agree with the writer because the one who can heal you and make you whole is
God.  He made you and knows exactly where you need His help the most.  He can
restore you to a happy and fulfilling life and he will protect us. If we ignore it, the lord are
also ignored us. If like that, it will trouble us because what we need is the blessing in our
life.