What the Medium SaidHi. Its Sarah. We have an appointment by phone at 2?Right. Well start. Ill put the tape on so that I can send this to you. Its going to go quiet for a bitwhile I engage and then Ill share that comment with you? OK?OK. Sarah is nervous and she pushed the phone harder against her ear. The comment is she is at the biggest crossroads shes ever been at. Now do you understand whatthat means?Yes. I doNow I also need to explain that Ive set the intent that information I will give you will be foreveryones highest good - that means for all of us and I ask our guides to work together. Itsprobably with my guides as they know my body but theyll be working with your guides. To theseguides there isnt a right or wrong - theres no judgments but its not wrapped in cotton wool either.Its just the way it is. OK?Yes. Sarahs voice is quiet.Theyll give you an opportunity to ask specific questions, OK? So Ill get on with it and let them dothe talking.Sarah waits in anticipation.We shake our heads, Sarah. You have a great deal of knowledge. You understand you are a spirithaving a human experience, yes?Yes. Sarah says. Shes not sure she does but in that moment she thinks its possible.
And yet you struggle to respect yourself. This spirit has come into this particular lifetime to helpyou to understand your power as a woman. Right. And to do that you have to be able to functionequally at a physical, emotional and physical level. Now for you to respect yourself, you have to firststop judgement of yourself, Sarah. There is no good or bad or right or wrong way of doing anything.But you have a need to prove yourself to others. And that comes from many lifetimes of being judged by others and you taking on those judgements of yourself. Now just because other peoplewant you to do the impossible by this time next week does not mean you have to demand that of yourself. But that seems to be how you function. You are very hard on that little girl in your heart.She is a very sensitive vulnerable child and she grew up in an insensitive family a family that didnot deal with emotion. And that is female energy. So you were brought up to hide what you werefeeling and be their version of Sarah. And yet that is not who you area. Confrontation is still difficult.Loving confrontation is to be able to say, what works for you doesnt work for me. Goodbye. Or yourway isnt my way, good bye. You are a woman of integrity. You give your promises in words and youhonour those promises in action. So what is the point in honouring your promises to people whobreak their promises to you. Youve done it all your life and that to us is called self abuse. What youare doing is saying you can behave in any way you wish, I will be honourable. So if they are beingdishonourable and you are being honourable where is the balance in that? How do you fight that then?. Sarah is curious.You make promises and honor them in action, until you observe that someone else is nothonouring their promises to you and then you go, excuse me this is not ok because now I do nottrust your word. Now that isnt saying they have to change, it isnt saying they have to do it your wayeither. But what you are saying is there is no point in my trusting what you say because its not whatyou do and therefore I dont trust you. When you feel anger it is the emotion of betrayal. You didntget what you expected.If you were to observe to how people are they are either let their emotions control them or theycompletely deny their emotions so they dont even know what that information theyre telling them.Then here are you so sensitive with need for emotions but no one was listening to you. We dontwant you to make any suggestions to anyone unless they ask for something and you have resolvedyourself and so you can honestly tell them what helped you but please dont be naive enough thattheyre going to do anything to change it because most people just want to be the victim whowinges and whines and doesnt want to do anything different. So we realise that doing what youvealways done is going to get you what you always had and expecting something different when youredoing what youve always done is madness.You cannot deal with anger because your self respect is not anchored. We say to every spirit when itchooses to come into this life, please remember you have the right to be just the way you are, youhave the right to your need physical, emotional and spiritual you have the right to have those
needs fulfilled and all at those levels and we are not giving you the responsibility to create your ownmeaningful life and at the end when you come home, we say well what did you learn of yourresponsibility of your physical emotional and spiritual and mental welfare and what did you teach bythe example of your lifetime.Now most people dont even understand the question. You understand the question. So somepeople would tell us some amazing fairy story and we would listen to these fairy stories and then wetell them what we watched. And they go oh well I didnt know you were watching and we say, yeswe were watching but we werent judging. We dont judge anybodys life. We dont have anyauthority. We have given you free will. We cannot work out why most people struggle to deal withtheir emotions in balance with their thoughts. So you have a thought that says anger is wrong andbad. Because you were brought up by parents who didnt deal with their anger constructively sothey certainly didnt want you to express yours. So the only way they could deal with that was to saythat you were not allowed to express your anger. So what you do with it is just push it down, andpush it down and push it down till it is unmangable and even then you dont deal with itconstructively. Youd be better to go into the middle of the woods and scream.And what is the ongoing creation of the anger is your unrealistic expectations of people.That means you put the energy into things that give you dont get energy back from.You must deal with your emotions as indicators of things you have to deal with in your life. Sosadness says there is something missing or leaving your life.So you take all these enigmas into these relationships and you choose men who are unemotionallyavailable to you. And you choose men who do not understand how to deal with your emotionalneeds. And what does that do for you. So thats whats familiar. You must learn to act differentlyby using the relationship with your father.We say you are someone who is in the rescue business. Your very good at listening to people wingeand whine and youre good at the because you grew up doing that. So thats familiar too. Yourevery patient, listen and you may suggest changes. And hey presto youre surprised in six monthstime when theyve done nothing so if youve listened to it once and then you listened to it again insix months and theyve not done anything that thats it, youve heard it. You say I dont need tohear it again, I now need to know what you are going to do about it. And most people wont likethat so theyll just disappear out of your life and they wont be wasting your time. And Sarah theycan only do that if you allow it. So if you respect yourself you wouldnt allow it because your time is
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