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Should Parents Smack Children?By BRENT SILBY
PhilosopherUnlimited (UPT) SchoolChristchurch, New Zealand In the year 2007, the Government of New Zealand passed a bold new law:
It isa criminal offense to smack children
. In the months leading up to this lawchange, the country was rife with debate. The newspapers, television, andradio talkshows became obsessed with the question of whether the law shouldbe passed. There were protests in the streets, and people on both sides of thedebate argued strongly for their position. The arguments were heated, andmost of the time rationality was lost in the thick of emotion.But why were people arguing? Well, many parents held (and continue to hold)the view that it is their right to discipline their children in whatever way theysee fit. They suggest that using smacking is the best way to ensure theirchildren behave and keep themselves safe. An often used example runs likethis:
Imagine that your child is heading towards a power socket with a knife. Aquick smack on the hand will deter the child while teaching him quickly that  power sockets are dangerous. A smack is a far less damaging way to teach thechild than allowing them to insert the knife and learn the other way.
Parents against the law change worried that they would be classed as criminalsif they continued to use smacking as a means to modify their children'sbehavior.
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On the other side of the debate, supporters of the new law argued that the lawwould help protect the rights of children and would result in a drop in cases of physical abuse against children. Up until the law change, abusers of childrencould escape prosecution by hiding behind a "reasonable force" clause in thelaw. As it was, the law allowed for reasonable use of force to control children'sbehavior. Now, for most people, reasonable force might be a smack on thehand, but for other people, reasonable force might be a belt across the leg.The problem with the law was that "reasonable force" is a subjective term andopen to interpretation.During the months leading up to the law change, society remained evenly spliton both sides of the debate. The law
did 
change, however, and it is now acriminal offense to smack a child.Recently, there has been a call to revisit the issue. People have beencampaigning for a repeal in the law and a reversion to the old system. Manyparents want the right to smack their children. Now, whenever this type of issue enters the public consciousness, I worry about the level of rationality inthe argumentation. People tend to argue emotively and forget to think thingsthrough. This happens because people care very deeply about their opinionsand personal views. But emotive arguments are bad arguments. They lackpersuasive power and are usually very weak. That is part of the reason whydebates on issues can become heated and go around in endless circles.To throw some rationality into the mix, I am going to take a step-by-stepapproach and look at the issues underlying the "right to smack a child" debate.By looking at these issues in a methodical way, I will demonstrate that as anenlightened society, we ought not to smack children.
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Behavior Modification
When we punish or reward children, we are doing so primarily to modify theirbehavior. It is true that sometimes a punishment might result from the angerof a parent, with not much thought given to the whether the child's behaviorneeds modification. Such cases are reflexive and have not been thoughtthrough, but the result is the same. There will be a modification to the child'sbehavior—especially if the punishment occurs consistently as the result of aspecific behavior. There are different types of 
behavior modification
, and theresult is known as
conditioning
. It is important to get the terminology correct,so that we can talk intelligently about the issue.
Positive Punishment 
Many people believe that smacking (or any sort of punishment) is
negativereinforcement 
, but this is an incorrect use of the terminology. Smacking iswhat psychologists refer to as a
 positive punishment 
. Put simply, it is theintroduction (or addition) of some undesired stimulus into the child'senvironment, with the purpose of 
reducing
a behavior. The word "positive"refers to the addition of the undesired stimulus, and the word "punishment"refers to the reduction of a behavior. The term "negative reinforcement" meansthe
removal 
of something undesired in order to reinforce a behavior. Forexample, imagine a child sitting in a classroom with a cold wind blowing onhim. When the child does something "good", the window is closed thusremoving the cold wind from the child's environment.Positive punishment occurs in nature. Animals will take a swipe at theiroffspring if they exhibit unwanted behavior. You see this when you watch largecats, such as tigers. When a cub starts chewing on its mother's ear, she willflick him away. It hurts the small cub, whose behavior will slowly alter withrepeated punishments. Now, animals are not rational. They simply respond to
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stephinrazinleft a comment

A sound whistle may work most of the time, but what if you don't have a whistle? Suppose your child is beating the dog sh*t out of another kid at the park do you think that whistle will stop them? What if you come home, and your kid is playing with the kitchen knives? A whistle would work to suprise and distract once. Even if you combined timeout, loss of privileges, and other discipline with the

Brent Silby replied:

Well, I don't think the best response to "child beating" another kid is to physically hit the child. That's sort of contradictory really. Its like you are saying "Hitting people is wrong, and I'm going to stop you doing so by hitting you". Better to reason with them. Classroom teachers deal with this type of situation daily, and they do not need to resort to physical punishment.
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stephinrazinleft a comment

I agree that physcial punishment is detrimental in most cases. Still, in some instances in can be neccesary. If a child darts into a road than it may be in their best interest to condition fear of the reprecussions of doing that action. When does a child have rights? Age 3, 12, 15? When does a child have the intellectual capacity to take care of itself in dangerous situations?If coroporal punishm

Brent Silby replied:

I covered this point in the article. If the child darts onto the road, you can train them by using a loud unpleasant sounding whistle. That works and removes the physical punishment.
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Fire Fly in the Liteleft a comment

Thank you for this enlightening article. I totally agree with you. With my own daughter we never used corporal punishment to train her or educate her. All that is needed is to instruct with love. There are many ways to share important lessons with children that work much better when done out of love. Thank you for bringing this to light.

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