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ackies taste guided my mother, as she set out to renovate and redecorate ourhouse. It was a California-style redwood ranch --unusual in the small New
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erseytown where we lived -- so much so that it had been featured in an article in the localnewspaper entitled, Meet the Krupnicks, as if our house were our identity. Most houses in town were classic two-stories or the utilitarian split- levels that werepopular with nuclear families. We were the only family I knew who lived all on onefloor.My parents took weekly trips to New York to find the precise furnishingsthey wanted. The custom-made kitchen cabinets, the captains chairs and the baseof the round dining table were all finished in matching antique navy blue. Therewere navy blue wine bottle labels on the kitchen wallpaper, which also featuredclusters of burgundy and rich green grapes. There were chandeliers and Tiffanylamps, antique butcher block side tables and a powder blue Louis XVI formal diningroom. The sunken living room was still empty, aside from two large French arearugs with patterns of roses snaking along a pale blue background. Im sure myparents had exquisite plans for that room. But for my brother, my cousins and me, it was the ideal place to play indoor touch football or set up the tracks for our Hot Wheels cars.I spent my days in the backseat of my mothers brown Fleetwood Cadillacaccompanying her on errands. We went to the gas station, the bank, the post office,the architect and to countless suppliers of home renovation products. Years later,when I am a mother, shepherding my kids to playdates and dance classes in mydirty minivan and saving the errands for my alone time, I am struck by something I