Before we get into the “meat” of this book, I’d like to take some time to introducemyself to you. My name is John Alanis, and for the past 8 years I’ve been involved inalmost every method possible of attracting women. I’ve spoken in public from the stage(an amazing way to attract women), written ads and sales letters (and websites) that haveattracted women to me, been interviewed by radio and TV stations, even been in thenewspapers (heck, I once met a girlfriend because she read an article about me).You might say I’ve used every method of attracting women to me, and I’ve beenpretty successful. I get to pick and choose who I want in my life and just as importantly,who I don’t. However, I’m not here to brag about me… I’m here to deliver you goodinformation, information you can put to use immediately to attract the kind of womenyou desire.That brings up an important point. When I say “attract women,” I mean getwomen to approach you. That’s what makes this book unique… it’s all about gettingwomen to approach you first. I rarely walk up and talk to a woman first, unless I see sheis already attracted to me, and wants me to speak to her. I do not approach women… I“set it up” so they approach me first.When you get women to approach you first, your life will change forever. Why?Because you
she is already attracted to you. You make the “rejection decision” nother. You test her, she doesn’t test you. She has to impress YOU. And most importantly,she’s worried about whether YOU like her, not the other way around. YOU are incomplete control of the interaction.During my entire “attraction career,” I’ve found there’s one important element inthe ability to attract women to you, and that’s this: women are naturally attracted to menwho
define authority for them.
If you put yourself in an “authority defining position”women can’t help but be attracted to you.When it comes to attraction, women do not think like men do. Men see aphysically beautiful woman, and they’re attracted. Simple as that. You can take abeautiful woman who does not speak a word of English, put her in a room full of men,and they will hit on her all night long.The opposite is true as well. You can put a physically unattractive woman who ishighly intelligent, has a great sense of humor and is fun to be with in a group of men, andthey will ignore her completely (for the most part… there’s always one guy who will takewhatever he can get).