You know I was telling my friend about this, and she was saying, whenshe really starts to feel that connection and grow even more attracted,she begins to pay attention in a special way. First, she becomes awareof the rhythm of her breathing the beating of her heart ... and thatsense of growing fascination such that as she continues to BECOME awareof all this, one particular feature of this guys face begins to captureher attention so as she continues to keep looking its like the rest ofthe environment disappears and the entire world becomes this face ..this voice that just wraps itself around her like a pair of powerful butgentle arms .. pulling her in ... deeper ... just allowing that warmthto spread all through her such that you open yourself up completely andallow this person to come inside you so deep releasing all thosefeelings that have been building and building and building you just wantto release those feelings in a flood. I find when I HAVE thoseresponses .. it's like you just let yourself go completely ... and gowild with it ... now that's how I see it so clearly. Now what reallyfascinates me about all this is not just how people connect sopowerfully .. but how people connect with their own needs and wants anddesires .. like think about the difference between compulsion andanticipation.VAGUENESSIsn't interesting how everyone is so different yet in so many ways weare all the same. I mean for example, I don't know what it is you do,when you decide for yourself that you really want to be with someone,and you know it's what you want cause you find yourself imagining it ...you picture it and your mine and you look forward to it for all theright reasons. Reasons that are right to you because you know its whatyou want but I think you know a person can find that when that's what'staking place, wow, what a difference in the way they think and just howreadily you then begin to make time for this special person you are nowconnecting so strongly with. Its a totally different experience itslike you feel almost magnetically drawn to this person you know what Imean? And sometimes I think a person wouldn't even know that that'swhat's taking place until afterwards. And you look back on it as one ofthose amazing memories you treasure/cherish for the rest of your life... now ... with me as I think long and hard about it I think that'sthe process of discovering that a person is being drawn to anotherperson.IDEAL ATTRACTIONYou know, I saw the most interesting show on the discovery channel lastnight. They were interviewing people who make their living designingattractions for amusement parks like magic mountain and Disneyland andUniversal Studios. Wouldn't that be a cool way to make a living?Well, anyway, they were talking about the elements that make up the ideaattraction. (point) They said there are 3 parts to the idealattraction. First, when you EXPERIENCE the ideal attraction, you FEEL AHIGH STATE OF AROUSAL. The idea attraction makes your heart beatfaster, and your breathing gets faster and you just FEEL THAT AMAZINGRUSH ALL OVER.And then they said that another part to an ideal attraction is; it'sfascinating. You just FEEL SO ENTHRALLED that you want to TAKE THISRIDE (point down) multiple times; as soon as you GET OFF you want to GETBACK ON again.