Professional Documents
Culture Documents
In This Issue
u Talking with Korea
u Back from Ghana
u Unfinished Business
in Burkina Faso
u An Ineligible Bachelor
NewsLetter in Madagascar
u 2002 Financial Report
u D.C. Group Activities
February 2003
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ur first issue of 2003 begins with a very timely piece by John Finn on his
experiences with openness with Korean friends. q Rose Rosely, recently
home from Ghana, describes the impact that country and Peace Corps had on her
life. q Another volunteer back from Burkina Faso chronicles his parting with a lover and
friend of the past two years. q Michael Foster writes about life in Madagascar. q Dan Rael
reports some good financial news. q Chris Hrabe brings us up to date on what the D.C.
group plans for Peace Corps Day.
Korea: The Time Has Come to Talk
- John Finn, RPCV Korea
It was a crisp and clear day in early exchange student. After I finally settled for a meeting in San Francisco and spent
March 1970, and our Peace Corps group back home in California, I spent several three days together in April 2002. He was
(Korea 12) had been in country less than years as an employee of the Korean Center the first of my former students with whom
three weeks. I had just been assigned to a in San Francisco. And when my lover and I I talked frankly about my life. At long last
boys’ middle school in Pusan, the Republic moved to Oakland from San Francisco in my self-imposed wall of silence had started
of Korea’s second largest city, and on this 1990, we found that the neighborhood was to crumble. It was a relief.
day teachers and students and I were at a Lee Jung-ho had become chair of his
pier in this port city waving goodbye to department and a specialist in national
South Korean troops embarking for South security issues. We discussed the politics
Vietnam. It was a strange scene for me – I A crisis once again brings of the Korean peninsula, and our open and
was an American urging my new Korean wide-ranging conversation made me reflect
students to demonstrate their support of Korea to the front pages on how much had changed since we had
their country’s soldiers who were off to of our world, and in my first met. The story of another student
fight in a war I opposed. But I didn’t reveal represents for me much of what happened
my political feelings that day. It wouldn’t small universe... over those years.
be the only secret I would keep from my Back in that first year at my middle
South Korean friends. school, a group of eighth graders and I had a
It’s now been 33 years since I first conversation about politics. I asked them
encountered Korea, Korean, and Koreans, giving birth to a small Koreatown. Korea, it about their president (Park Chung-hee) and
and much has changed on the Korean seemed, was never too far away. But in their adherence to the strict anti-Communist
peninsula and in my personal life. A crisis recent years I hadn’t been keeping current stance they were being taught at school.
once again brings Korea to the front pages with Korea or my former students there. One of the more articulate kids, Park Soo-
of our world, and in my small universe, I’ve All that changed because of the Internet. hyun, spoke passionately about his pro-
recently had reunions with and come out to One night last year I had a dream about a government feelings. Eight years later, this
several of my first crop of students. This is student from 1970, Lee Jung-ho. He and same young man – now a university
my cathartic attempt to weave these two his wife had visited my lover and me in San student in Seoul – was arrested by the
themes together. Francisco in 1982 while they were on their Korean CIA for having written the anti-
My connection to Korea began with way to New England where he was to government lyrics to a popular protest
Peace Corps, but it didn’t end there. I become a graduate student in political song. When I heard of his confinement, I
extended my Peace Corps stint and then science. I discovered an e-mail address for feared for his future because at the time
stayed on to do in-country training. In him at a university in Seoul, and I sent him South Korea had a repressive political
graduate school my (still-unfinished) thesis a message. By coincidence Lee Jung-ho and atmosphere. But through the recent visit of
was on North Korean newspapers. I his wife and two sons were in San Diego another former student I learned that today
returned to Korea as an international where he was on sabbatical. We arranged Continued on page 5
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She's Finally Gone Over the Edge - Rose Rosely, RPCV Ghana
Why would somebody quit a perfectly last three years to consider it a wonderful successful. Now, that I’m forty-something
fabulous career working in the animation life. Nothing I have done has compared to I’m courting wanderlust and adventure and
business in Los Angeles, making enough my experience living in a rural community feeling like a rolling stone.
money to fly up to San Francisco every in a developing country. My brain and all Even so, in the beginning, being around
other weekend if she felt like it, to take a my senses were summoned every morning all the volunteers who had just finished
job where she earned about a hundred when the roosters crowed and they were college was not what I was expecting. You’d
dollars a month? Or why give up a spacious working until I fell asleep at the end of the think, from the marketing that Peace Corps
rent controlled apartment at the foot of the day out under the stars. I actually looked does, that the volunteers are just one big
Hollywood Hills, which all her friends forward to the sun coming up, knowing that happy Benetton ad. Or? Most of the
couldn’t believe she got in the first place, it would get hot enough to brew tea on my volunteers are young, white and straight.
for a two-room mud hut? Why sell her front porch. Then there was the long ride to Or? I’d left gay Hollywood, where the
brand new car for half of what it was worth, town 15km down a bush path on a bicycle, queens from South America that lived in
give away or sell almost every possession the soup made from baobab leaves that we my building use to meringue around the
she owned, and kiss a lover of thirteen on- ate from one bowl, the small market that pool on Sundays in heels, and ended up in
and-off again years goodbye promising to the middle of West Africa feeling alone and
write? It sounds crazy ridiculous, down- out of place with one foot back in the
right stupid. If my grandmother were still To feel full up, spilling closet. Horrified that I’d just ruined my
living she would have asked, “Honey, are life, thrown away everything that I’d
you okay?”
over with the everyday of worked so hard to get, I wanted to go home
In retrospect, it all makes sense. I have life, is something that we before training was finished. It took some
found that I love living life one adventure time to find my feet, but when I did there
after another. At the time, though, I’ll admit all chase but rarely have was no more falling down.
it did seem a little absurd. Here I was about the opportunity to catch. I The community of volunteers is like
to turn 40 in a couple of years and all I had marrying into a big crazy family. You hate
was 70 lbs. of material possessions that the ran after it and grabbed ‘em, you love ‘em but no matter what,
airline would allow me to take along to and didn’t let go. you’re stuck with ‘em. So, figure it out. It’s
Ghana, West Africa where I was to be an actually one of the coolest things about
environment volunteer in the far north of Peace Corps. You end up getting to know
the country. My qualifications for being an happened every three days where I could people that you’d never give a second
environmental candidate? Well, I’d had a buy tomatoes and onions, and the women chance to in the States. I’d say that there
few ornamental gardens at houses that I’d who came to the literacy class I started. are definitely some difficult diversity issues
owned along the way and living in LA I Some days you’d reel because you were but most of them are complicated by how
could certainly vouch for the ugliness of a bombarded with too much reality: a kid we ourselves deal with it. For me, once the
smoggy sky. convulsing from malarial fever, a thief being shock wore off, I found myself relaxing and
This article is a result of my response to beaten under the mango tree or a crippled finding my place. I’ve made friends for life
an inquiry on the LGB RPCV listserv from man dragging himself down the road. You and am instantly connected to a myriad of
someone who is considering joining Peace learn to let go, to let the day unravel, to interesting folks because of this experience.
Corps. He was asking our collective exhale, to be blown by the winds from the Now, that I’m back, I’m having to figure
community of RPCVs what we thought Saharan desert during harmattan, to just be. out what to immerse myself in next. It’s not
about his leaving his stable job because in To feel full up, spilling over with the a piece of cake. In fact all the possibilities
his words, “at my age it may be profes- everyday of life, is something that we all make my head spin. My mom says that
sional suicide.” True, but in this day and chase but rarely have the opportunity to I’m like a cat, always landing with my feet
age, some of the things that seem most catch. I ran after it and grabbed and didn’t on the ground. Ground please? And another
stable seem to crumble and fall at our feet. let go. Right before leaving Ghana, I wrote returned friend’s words, “yeah, some of us
Like me, he’s older than the majority of home to friends and family that it was a dream about living but then there’s those of
volunteers who are in their twenties, he’s good thing that stories didn’t weigh us that live like we’re in a dream.” I’m just
afraid of what’s going to happen to his life anything or else I’d have to leave too much accepting that the beginning and the ending
after the two years overseas, and he’s gay. behind. My head and heart were overflow- of things are a bit of a struggle like the
He’s having the last minute jitters before ing with memories and feelings. In the three butterfly emerging from its cocoon just
sending in his application. When I years living and working with another before taking flight. I’m a little stuck at the
responded to him, I’d simply hit reply and culture (the Ghanaian people who are the moment, but not for long.
so everybody else on the listserv got my friendliest people on the planet) was a heart
two cents too. Michael, the editor of this expanding, mind blowing, soul rejuvenating, Rose Rosely returned home last
newsletter, saw it and asked me to self challenging experience that will always November. You can contact her by email-
elaborate. So, let’s go. make me feel full up. rosalala2000@yahoo.com.
Being a volunteer was the most amazing It seems that I’m living life backwards.
time of my life. I left Ghana thinking that if When I was twenty-something I bought my
I died tomorrow, then it would be okay. first house, planted a garden, dug into my
Seriously, because I’d lived enough in the career. It seemed that I was settled and
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Korea...
Continued from page 1 changed. South Koreans were angry that see Seoul chafing at still being regarded as
Park Soo-hyun is a professor of economics the two U.S. soldiers involved in the traffic the “junior” member of the partnership.
back in South Korea after having received accident were not subject to the Korean Just as South Koreans are feeling it
his doctorate in the U.S. His progression justice system. Resentments that had gone necessary to be straight in their political
through the stages of his life mirrors much unvoiced could be stifled no longer. And conversations with Americans, I have found
of what South Korea has seen in the last the more South Korea matured the more it it important for me to be gay in the
several decades. looked for greater recognition from the depiction of my personal life to my former
There was the extended period of United States. Washington, however, students. There will be more reunions as I
rigorously imposed loyalty to the govern- wasn’t ready to treat Seoul differently. plan a return to Korea soon, and it is a far
ment. Despite occasional university All of this is apparent in the current healthier approach for me to be honest and
student protests – in the past these were crisis with North Korea. Regardless of open. I hope for the same in the relations
considered obligatory rites of passage – and what approach one feels is best to take between our two countries.
some labor strife, conformity to government regarding Pyongyang, South Korea’s views
policy was required. While political on the matter have been subordinated to John Finn is LGB RPCVs Membership
freedoms were curtailed, national develop- Washington’s. At a time requiring candid Coordinator. You can reach him at
ment defined South Korea for much of the dialogue based on mutual respect, we can johnnfinn@aol.com.
past 30 years. The world has witnessed the
accomplishments of the South Korean
economy, and the nation’s devotion to D.C. Group – Peace Corps Day Plans
education has been evident in the lives of - Chris Hrabe, RPCV Latvia
many of my students who have become
professors, doctors and government The D.C. group of LGB RPCV’s is from support groups and counseling to
planning to help SMYAL (Sexual Minority creative arts and job opportunities.
officials.
But after years of rule by former Youth Assistance League) in Washington SMYAL has served over 1500 youth in the
D.C. celebrate Peace Corps Day with an past three years. If you are interested in
generals, the political realm was slowly
international event (food, songs, dances, helping out and being part of the celebra-
opened to greater participation, and
political life has become vibrant. This shift photos and information about opportunities tion, contact Chris Hrabe at
in the Peace Corps and LGBT people LGBRPCV@aol.com. You can also reach
has had an inevitable impact on the way
South Koreans see themselves and view the around the world). SMYAL has been active Mike Giordano, SMYAL’s counseling
for over 17 years. They serve LGBTIQ manager (and RPCV Lithuania) at
relationship between their country and the
youth between the ages of 13 and 21. They mike.giordono@smyal.org.
United States. The continued presence of
U.S. troops for many years had served as have a youth center filled with activities,
an expression of American and South
Korean solidarity. Our countries’ soldiers
fought together in the Korean War and the Financial Report / Membership Dues
Vietnam War. (As an aside, my recollection
is that Peace Corps was invited to South
- Dan Rael, Financial Coordinator
Korea in 1966 as a quid pro quo for Korean Although membership remained flat this
involvement in the Vietnam War.) Washing- Income:
year, our financial situation has improved. We
ton was a staunch supporter of each have been able to control expenses. They are Membership Dues
down a bit for the newsletter because we have NPCA
successive government – even during martial $1492.50
law years. Lately, though, the relationship Individual Dues $2100.00
been able to secure volume discounting from
has been fractured. Total: $3592.50
our printer. We are carrying over into the new
As Peace Corps volunteers we are year $1,000 budgeted for a Peace Corps
Expenses:
always uncomfortably aware of the fragile related HIV prevention/education contribu-
relationship between our host country and Newsletter, Recruting & Membership
tion.
our home country – we try to reconcile the Materials $2087.07
With this issue we are asking non-NPCA
noble with the real. So it wasn’t any NPCA Affiliation Fee $218.00
members (belonging only to LGB RPCVs)
surprise that in conversations my former NPCA Dues Rebates $500.00
and others to renew their $15 annual dues. If
NPCA Conference $103.95
students emphasized that Koreans today you are in this category, you will receive a
yearned for greater respect from the United Other (Website, PO box) $55.00
membership coupon and addressed envelope
States. They stressed that the younger Total: $2964.02
with this newsletter. If you are an NPCA
generation in South Korea – a generation I member with LGB RPCVs as your affiliate
have never encountered – was more Balance (12/31/02) $5989.13
group, you will receive a request from the
nationalistic in its thinking and independent NPCA during your membership month.
in its relationships. An incident last year NPCA membership dues have increased to $50 this year. LGB RPCVs receive $15 of this
involving the deaths of two middle school amount. We encourage everyone to join the NPCA or renew NPCA membership.
girls became an extremely sensitive topic for
South Koreans and an example of what has Dan Rael served in Paraguay and can be reached on daniel_rael@hotmail.com.
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What do we do?
u Provide support to our national members and current volunteers.
u Facilitate the creation of regional chapters.
u Actively involve ourselves as an affiliate of the National Peace Corps Association (NPCA).
u Promote policies and projects that support Peace Corps ideals and the acceptance and active
involvement of lesbians, gays and bisexuals within the Peace Corps.
u Take an active part in Gay Pride events around the country encouraging gays, lesbians and bisexu-
als to consider the Peace Corps experience.
u Offer our members as informational resources and mentors for lesbians, gays and bisexuals who
have been offered a Peace Corps assignment.
u Host social events for our members.
u Communicate regularly with our members and others through a quarterly newsletter and our web site.
Phone: E-mail: