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LSi: Are you in the SOUP?

LSi: Are you in the SOUP?

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Love Systems Insider
Date: July 2010
Are you in the SOUP?
Have you reached all of your goals with women and dating?Are you dating and sleeping with the type of women YOU want, or are you settling? Is your sex life asgood as you fantasized it would be when you were a teenager?If you've got it handled - or even if you haven't but you're on the right track and you know you'll get theresomeday - great. Skip the rest of this Love Systems' insider and check you inbox in two days for the nextLSi this Thursday.Or is there some REASON why you will never have everything you want?If you think there is, we have to talk.In about 30 seconds, I will go through the most common reasons why guys think they are limited, and tellyou how to overcome each one:
"I'm too short" 
"I'm too old" 
"I'm not good-looking enough" 
"I don't have enough money" 
But before I go into each of those, let's talk about what's REALLY going on - at least for 99% of the guyswho have these "reasons:"
You're protecting your ego.
Saying you're too short or too old or whatever comes from the same place as when a guy says,
"I didn't want her anyway," 
or 
"she's just a bitch" 
when he gets rejected by an attractive woman.Your ego does not like it if there is something you want, something you should be able to do, and youaren't able to do it.Last weekend I was playing basketball with some friends. I had a bad game and missed a bunch of easyshots. It pissed me off. I wanted to make those shots and I should be able to. Then we went for a beer afterwards and played some pool. I absolutely suck at pool, so it didn't bother me or affect my ego.
 
So the guy who convinces himself that
"I didn't want her anyway," 
after she rejected him, is redefining thesituation. Whether or not he could have had her, he didn't want her. No big deal, no damage to the ego.That's shortsighted, of course, because this guy is denying himself the opportunity to improve - to actually be able to get what he wants instead of making excuses about it. If you admit that you wanted her butdidn't have the right technique, then you can fix the technique. And next time it will be your buddies whoare trying to convince themselves that they wouldn't have wanted that "Perfect 10" anyway, before youtake her home.Saying you CAN'T get her, instead of just that you DIDN'T WANT HER, is even more self-destructive. Now you've given yourself permission to compromise yourself and permission to fail. Like I said, I'mreally bad at pool. So I don't mind a bad game and I can take some pleasure in the occasional good shot.That's fine for a bar game I play maybe one a year. It's not fine for life.You've only got one chance at this "life" thing, so for anything important - and dating, sex andrelationships definitely counts as important - you're not here to give up. Giving up is the easier choice for sure - Love Systems is not an easy skill to develop. Being able to pick up gorgeous women wherever yougo takes time and work.But it's worth it.
"Alright Savoy," 
I'm sure some people are saying,
"that sounds very inspiring and all, but the fact is that I actually AM short/old/ugly/poor/whatever and even in theMagic Bullets Handbook you say that height/age/looks/wealth matter. So if it matters but I don't have it, what then?" 
 OF COURSE these things matter. I don't know where anyone got the idea that they don't (probably somedesperate wannabe instructor pretending he has a magic pill that will solve any problem), but they do.But lots of things matter. A nice deep voice matters. If you'veseen me on video,I obviously don't have that (and that's my improved voice, you should have heard it ten years ago).Like I wrote in the introduction to the comprehensive Bible of dating and seduction, the Magic BulletsHandbook, dating beautiful women is not about that one magic thing you can do that changes everything.That's why the book is called "Magic Bullets" to make fun of the idea - pushed by desperate imitators of Love Systems - that there's just one thing you need to do and like magic,
abra cadabra hocus pocus,
 beautiful women appear.It's not like that.
 
There are thousands of things you can do to improve your success with women. You don't have to do themall. No man in history has ever done them all. You just have to do enough of them.You'll see why this is important in a moment. For now, onto the SOUPy excuses!
"I'M TOO SHORT"
 Think of anything that is holding you back in three ways:1. How you can minimize the damage2. How you can turn it into an advantage3. How you're going to deal with itLet's try that out with height. So you're short. You're not going to grow taller, but you can look taller. Getyourself a couple of extra inches of height, easily, by wearing the right shoes. There are lots of fashionable brands that have really thick soles. Check theFashion & Style section of the Attraction Forumsfor adviceand pictures. Subtle vertical stripes in your clothing helps a lot too. So does sitting down.(I don't mean to be glib. There are dozens more tips like these in the audio guide to Overcoming PhysicalObstaclesby two guys who are exceptional ladies men who are much shorter than most of the women theymeet:Mr Mand Keychain
 
)How can short be an advantage? Lots of ways, here's just one - you can "get away" with being a bit moreobnoxious, tease her a bit more, get under the radar screen with her guy friends, etc., than a taller man.Cajunis a small guy and I'm a big guy. If I did the stuff he does to pick up women, I'd look like a clown.When he does it, he goes home with the hottest girl in the club.In fact, a bunch of the more high-energy routines in theLove Systems Routines Manual (and in Volume 2) are especially useful for shorter men.Minimize the damage, take what advantages you can, and then deal with it. About half of the LoveSystems instructors are under 5'10 (175cm). They started right where you are and now they live a life fullof beautiful women.Watch 5'6 (167cm) Cajun pick up women who are taller than him on live hidden camera videohere:

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