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Y
oni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "sacred space" or "SacredTemple." In Tantra, the
Yoni 
is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is particularlyimportant for men to learn. Before beginning the
Yoni
Massage it is important to create a space for the woman (the receiver)in which to relax, from which she can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experiencegreat pleasure from her 
Yoni
. Her partner (the giver) will experience the joy of giving pleasureand witnessing a special moment. The
Yoni
Massage can also be used as a form of "safe sex" andis an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex therapists use it toassist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma. The goal of the
Yoni
massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the
Yoni
.From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry aboutachieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, moreintense and more satisfying. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return, butsimply allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself.
T
he Massage Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees willalso help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. This position allows full access tothe
Yoni
and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to breathe deeply, slowly and withrelaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathingagain if the receiver stops or begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, nothyperventilating, is most important. Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to encourage thereceiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching her 
Yoni
. Pour asmall quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the
Yoni
.Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers theoutside of the
Yoni
. Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the
Yoni
. Spend time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving themassage.Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down theentire length of each lip. Do the same to the inner lips of the
Yoni
/vagina. Take your time. It ishelpful for giver and receiver to look into each other's eyes as much as possible. The receiver should tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc. need to be increased or decreased. Limityour conversation and focus on the pleasurable sensation, too much talking will diminish theeffect. 
 
T
he Crown Jewel The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male's glans, butsurprisingly - up to
our 
times more sensitive. The glans portion of the clitoris holds 6,000 -8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. Thishypersensitive node has only one purpose:
 pleasure
. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive andtransmit sensations of touch, pressure or vibration. The glans are the "crown jewel" of the clitoralsystem! Stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gentlysqueeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and notto get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become veryaroused but continue to encourage her to relax and breathe. Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right handinto the
Yoni
(there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the
Yoni
withthis finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary thedepth, speed and pressure. It is important to remember that this is a massage inwhich you are nurturing and relaxing the
Yoni
. With your palm facing up, andthe middle finger inside the
Yoni
, move the middle finger in a "come here"gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, "
the
 
 sacred 
 
 spot" 
. She may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort or most hopefully pleasure. Vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky.Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulationfrom two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. [In Tantra, it is saidthat when your pinky is gently massaging her anus, the next finger and middlefinger in her 
Yoni
and your thumb on her clitoris, "
You
 
are
 
holding 
 
one
 
o
 f 
the
 my
 steries
 
o
 f 
the
 
universe
 
in
y
our 
 
hand 
."]You can use your left hand to massage her breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage theclitoris it's usually best to use the thumb in an up down motion, with therest of the hand resting on, and massaging the mound. The dual stimulationof right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver.Continue massaging, using varying speed, pressure and motion, all thewhile continuing to breathe deeply and looking into each other's eyes. Shemay have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathingand be gentle. Some women have been sexually abused and need to be
 
healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of immeasurable value to her. If she has anorgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur,each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "
riding 
 
the
w
ave
."In ending the massage, slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to relaxand enjoy the afterglow of the
Yoni
massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. Asyou learn to master the
Yoni
Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn agreat deal about feminine sexuality.
A
lthough it is rarely considered or appreciated, the face down position is perhaps best for massaging thefemale body. This is not to imply that the front should be neglected, only that the back should be paid moreattention.Why is the back so important? There are two primary reasons. The first is simply a design of nature. In thenatural world males always approach (and join) with the female from the rear. Evolution has designed thefemale genitalia to be entered from the rear, as opposed to the face to face, western "missionary" position. Nerve endings of the female genitalia are genetically arranged to be most responsive from the rear. Theinside of the thighs and labial lips are more sensitive to touch, when stroked from the rear (as opposed to thefront).Some would argue that face to face intercourse is more intense and fulfilling. This may be true on a purelyemotional level, even without optimizing the physiological connection. It's simply a matter of which is moreimportant, the mind or the body. During love making the mind is often capable of reaching significantlyhigher levels than the physical being.Another reason that massage from the back may have an advantage, is that a woman often feel morecomfortable and relaxed, as her body is less exposed. The feeling of the "face down" position is conducive infostering a sense of well being, which in turn makes it easier for the woman to "let herself go".A carefully arranged and nurturing atmosphere is essential to achieving the greatest possible pleasure. Planon at least one hour (at a very minimum) of completely undisturbed and uninterrupted time. The massagecan be conducted on a reasonably firm bed; a platform design is still better. The room should be warm anddraft free. A significant amount of oil (1-3 oz.) should be expended during the massage. Always keep inmind that you can never apply too much oil. Do not spare the oil, lavish it! Use only specially formulatedmassage oils [we use citrus scented water soluble grape-seed oil in our studio]. A wide range of scents areavailable, of which the most pleasing should be selected. Be sure to arrange a number of bath size towels to protect the bedding from the excess oil. Soothing music and candlelight will greatly enhance the atmosphere.Turning off the telephone is absolutely essential! Prior to the massage, it may be desirable to take a shortshower, as opposed to a hot bath. A bath often tends to loosen the outermost layer of skin, which whenwaterlogged will shed (creating gritty particles) and interfere with the massage. 

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