What you’ll find different about my guide is that I don’t just lay out broad principles and expect peopleto be able to apply them. It’s not enough to just tell a guy to “Say something to her to show that hertesting doesn’t affect you”. He needs to see examples of WHAT to say to communicate that it doesn’taffect him. Not only do I provide the “what” to do and say in many situations, but I also often providesome ideas of what to do and say if the situationcontinues further.
But before we go further, let me share my story withyou.
I want to make you a true ladies’ man, an envy of all other guys who will beg you for your secrets of attracting women.This will happen to you if you follow my advice.Nearly a dozen years ago I was divorced, thrown into the singles world, and totally unprepared for living the singleslife. I was 30 years old at the time and had no idea on how to meet and date beautiful girls. For nearly five years I visited several singles bars in Lagos nearly every week, sometimes three and four times a week. I never met a girl in a bar. I tried, I really tried.
I went up to hundreds of girls during that time and was rejected by nearly all of them.
A few would dance with me but that’s about all. None would give me their phone number or want to date me. I was completely unhappy and miserable and quite willing to admit defeat.Someone told me about personal ads and how they helped him to meet women. I decided to try too. I gave up the barscene and devoted 100% to the personal ads. I met many girls through the personals and even wrote two manualsabout them. You may have one or both of them. For five years I never went to a bar and stayed with personal ads.But after a period of a time I missed the dancing and music of the bar scene. I knew that many very good-looking girls went to the singles bars. I decided to try again, after all I met many girls through personals and I should have moreconfidence that would help me in the singles bars. I would try the following Friday night.That Friday night I went to a popular club at Ikeja, a place I knew would be filled with sexy looking girls. I was right!There were all kinds of pretty women all over the place. But a strange thing took place. My feet froze to the floor. Icould not gather enough courage to even approach one girl. I was a complete washout in a bar. I stayed nearly all night,holding up the wall and staring at all the beautiful women that were there. I went home completely miserable thatnight.I decided to try again the next night. This time I would ask some of the girls to dance, one or two had to say yes. After acouple drinks I got a little braver and asked ten girls to dance that night. Every one of them said no. I was shocked. I went into the rest room and looked into the mirror. I saw a 42 year-old balding man with a pot belly. The women musthave laughed at me when I asked them to dance. I felt worse than I had ever felt in my entire life and went homedejected and unhappy. After a few days I stopped feeling sorry for myself and knew there had to be a way for average looking guys to meetgood looking girls in bars. I was determined to find out. I owed it to myself and also to the many guys who wrote to mepleading to tell them how to meet the beauties they saw weekly in the bars.
How These Men Changed Their Lives
UCHENNA- "I had terrible luck with Nigerian women. It was terribly hard for meto meet Nigerian women. When I did meet Nigerian women, I couldn't hold theirinterest at all. I would date them once and they would never want to go out with meagain. I was ready to give up on Nigerian girls when Akinloye told me about the "D"technique. I met this sexy looking Nigerian girl at the supermarket. She was one of thecashiers. I just started talking to her one day. I became pretty friendly with her. After talking to her about two weeks I asked her out. To my surprise she agreed. Ididn't want to screw it up so I derided to
the "D" technique that very night. Ipicked her up and she looked absolutely gorgeous. It was going to be hard to follow my plan because I felt like attacking her on the spot. Have you ever seen a Nigeriangirl that looked and smelled so sexy you felt you desired he" so much you'd doanything to make love to her. This is how I felt with Jan that night. I wanted to headright for my apartment. But I restrained myself. We went out to eat and dancing at a local nightspot. When I danced close to Jan my heart was beating as fast as hell. I felt like I was in another world. Could I really goahead with the "D" technique? As Akinloye will explain in detail a little later the"D" technique is the Dangling technique. Let her dangle he says. Easy for him tosay. When you have a beautiful Nigerian sexy girl willing and eager it’s hard tomake her dangle, but I did it. I did exactly as he said and surprised not only Jan butmyself as well. Jan could nut leave me alone after that. She kept calling me fordates. I guess I was the only Any Nigerian Man who ever used that on her and itmade me a challenge. I dated Jan a lot and she fell in love with me. So did dozens of other Nigerian girls I used the "D" technique on. The word got around and beautiful Nigerian girls were asking my buddies to introduce them to me. My fameis spreading and my buddies are amazed because I am a homely Any Nigerian Man.I owe my success to the "D" technique. Thanks Akinloye." Uchenna used the "D" technique with much success. I will explain it in great detailin a little bit and how and why it works. Let's meet a few more Nigerian Men whoselives have changed since they learned how to handle Nigerian women.
NB: “You can include my testimonial on your website. I don’t mind because you have helped me rebuild my life”
Akano K. P., Hotel MGMT. 27Lagos
"Akinloye, I thank you for helping me see value in myself, and that I am worthy of love, acceptance and happiness. I am stronger,wiser and more comfortable in my own skin. With your guidance I now feel in control of my life,successful in what I have accomplished, and I now have a future I look forward to. Thanks so much!"
Ahmed I. O., Interior Decor 28Lagos
"I first started reading
, when I was struggling with self esteem issues as a result of an unhealthy relationship. I wasn’t happy and Akinloye helped me to take control and regain ownership of my feelings. It wasn’t an easy process but
,approached it with a wonderful mix of professionalism, warmth and understanding. I am so thankful for his encouragement and support along the way."
Wisdom F. U., 32 Lagos
"I came to reading
, when I had trouble moving on from a previous relationship. The skills and strategies in the book helped me to develop not only helped get me back on track, but have been incredibly useful in everyday situations as well. As a result I am more confident in myself and have better relationships with those around me than ever before. Thanks, Akinloye."
Chinedu G. A., Spare PartDealer 42 Abia
"I always found your book very supportive of me as someone with potential. I think the big difference between Akinloye and other people is that he’s prepared to say what he thinks and for someone like me that is