Homeschooling and Preparing for a New Baby
I am not one of those superhomeschoolers. I don’t raise my own beef, my children didn’tbuild our house from scratch using how-to books borrowed from the library, and there isno way that I can even consider homeschooling anytime soon after the delivery of a baby.Whenever a new baby comes into my family’s life, formal academics are putaside for at least six to eight weeks. I need to do this so that I can concentrate on mypersonal healing and on caring for my newborn child. I have also found that I need totake time off for the sake of my other children. I believe that it is healthy for us as afamily to focus on our newest member and to spend time getting to know one another.However, it is not a good thing to have a houseful of bored children. Because ababy can only keep his or her siblings’ attention for so long, I do make sure to keep thelearning environment in our home alive. With a little preplanning, and I have severalmonths to plan, children can be kept busy with good educational activities. With eachnew baby, I have sought to provide my other children with the tools necessary to spark their interest in various subjects.
Not Just Fun and Games
When my fourth child, Joseph, was born, I stocked up on board games andpuzzles. Throughout my pregnancy, I kept an eye out for toy store sales, as well as garagesale and thrift store deals.I kept the games locked away during my pregnancy, so that their newness wouldnot be lost. I wanted the children to be enthused about them when the time came. I mustsay that there is nothing like telling a child that he or she cannot touch or look atsomething to peak their interest.After Joseph came home, I introduced the games one at a time. If I brought themout all at once, it would have been overwhelming. The older children entertainedthemselves with Scrabble, Yahtzee, backgammon, and more. The younger children hadfun with jigsaw puzzles and games such as Candy Land.Not only did the children have great fun playing the new games, they werelearning. In addition to reinforcing their math, spelling, and logic skills, they learned howto work together. Well, sort of. Remember, I am not a superhomeschooler and so mychildren do occasionally have, ahem, disagreements. However, if one is to enjoy a gamethat requires multiple players then one needs to learn to get along.
Playing in the Dirt
Baby number five, Gregory, was born in the summer. That year we concentratedon gardening. I helped the children get started, as Gregory did not arrive until June, butthe children had to take it from there. I did not help with the garden’s maintenance. Thesummer was spent weeding, pruning, and watering. Though I did have to nudge thechildren from time to time, they took responsibility of their garden.Of course, when you take responsibility, you get to reap the benefits. The childrenenjoyed picnics in the backyard with carrots and cherry tomatoes sweet as sugar, whileadmiring their beautiful flowers.