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Dating Tips

Dating Tips

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Dating Tips and Advice for Singles
Whether you are new to the dating scene, are reentering the dating scene, or are a serial dater,you can use dating tips and advice. No one is a dating expert ± even the most beautiful andwealthy people all struggle with matters of the heart. Everyone can learn something about how todate more, how to attract the types of people we want to attract, and how to make sure initialchemistry blooms into an enduring relationship.The truth is, there are no magic formulas, no fail-proof tricks, no cunning ways of trapping Mr.or Miss Right. There are however some essential facts that you should always bear in mind alongthe way. Dating tips are just that -- tips, not one-size-fits-all guarantees. Different tacks will work for different people. It depends on the situation, who we are, where we are in our lives, etc.However, there are some threads of advice that are fairly universal and can benefit anyone who practices them:
Top 10 Dating Tips
et prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready tocommit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won¶t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about whatyou want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.2.
et your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read healthmagazines, get fit and start a diet.
et your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you willfeel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.3.
o shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look.
et your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you¶re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate thatyou demonstrated some effort.4.
Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do yousee yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If youare more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honestquestions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex thenask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.5.
Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the firstfour tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don¶t sabotage this by sitting aroundwith friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Startattending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner  parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
Choose those you have a good chance of dating. Be realistic. In other words, your datingis based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you arelooking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous, great!Just know that others will expect you to be the same.7.
Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups -- anything that might help you meetlike-minded potential partners. You will not meet people by staying indoors and playingvideo games ± many have tried and failed at this approach.8.
Take time off from dating occasionally if it¶s not going well or causing dating fatigue.Recharging your batteries and keeping confidence and optimism levels high is anabsolute must. We all hit rough patches, but don¶t let your search for love become a deathmarch. Date in phases if necessary.9.
Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending timein the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not play a bigger part in your life down the road. The fact is, most people have something interesting to offer. Whileyou may not be out on the dating scene looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.10.
 Never make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of thechase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not sleep with your dates earlyon. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likelythat love may blossom. (And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If the chemistry peaks too early, your emotions may never have time to catch up and the relationship willeventually wither away.
Is she ready for THE kiss?
Don't wait on her to make a move, she wants you to lead her...
Start with simply touching her clothes then her hair and escalate slowly. Whenthe time comes for the kiss, it will be much less awkward. Make it natural, likemaking a comment on her clothes as you touch.
If she plays with her hair, looks at your lips, breathes more heavily or touchesher neck, you're on your way for a good time!To learn the exact techniques I and countless others have used, click on the link  below for a free video now...
How to Turn a Woman from Friend toLover
 by Ron Louis & David CopelandYes it is possible to turn a woman from a friend to a lover, if you know what to do-- but even then, it won't work every time.Some women keep you as a friend because you've been too scared to make your romantic interest known, or you've made a bunch of bonehead mistakes, andalienated her (at least temporarily) from being romantic. Perhaps you've made fart jokes, said callous things, or treated her like a buddy; nothing too serious. Theseare women you've got a shot at changing into lovers.Other women have you squarely in the "just friends" category, and you ain't goin'anywhere, pal.These woman may be married or in relationships, may be difficult high-maintenance women, or -- the sad fact -- simply may not like you very much, andkeep you around for when they have nothing better to do. You are unlikely to turnthese women into lovers, but by trying, at least you'll get them out of your life,and clear some psychic space for women who do want to be sexual with you.So what can you do to get "just a friend" to become your lover? Let's look at the basic primer on friends-to-lovers, Louis and Copeland style.
1) Pursue other women.
 If you want to turn a friend into a lover, it is crucial beyond words that she not beyour one-and-only-hope for sex. You MUST be pursuing other women, flirtingwith other women, romancing other women, and being sexual with other women.Pursuing and being successful with other women is the only way to have realfreedom around the "friend" woman you are trying to seduce. It will give you asense of patience with her, remove any sense of desperation you may be havingwith her, and make you less available -- and thus, more attractive -- to her.
2) Act like a lover, not like a female friend.
 Pop quiz, hot-shot: What does a man who becomes a woman's "friend" dodifferently with her than another woman would? Answer: nothing.Moral: If you want a woman to see you as a sexual man, rather than basically asan ugly woman, then you must act differently than another woman would. This istrue for woman you are just meeting, as well as for women who have known youfor a while and already think of you as a "friend."Bottom line: you must flirt with her, weird as it may feel to you the first time you

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