An Open Letter to Inactive Catholics
BY BISHOP THOMAS J. TOBIN12/9/10My dear Brother or Sister: In the spirit of the Advent and Christmas Season, and as the Dioceseof Providence nears the end of its “Year of Evangelization,” I’m writing this letter to inactiveCatholics of our Diocese – perhaps you’re in that category – to let you know that we miss you,we love you and we want you to come home to the Church.The first dilemma I faced in writing this letter was how to describe you – an “inactive Catholic,”a “fallen-away Catholic” or a “former-Catholic.” I chose the first option.I decided against “fallen-away Catholic” for it suggests someone falling off a fence or out of atree. The image isn’t helpful.And there’s really no such thing as a “former Catholic.” If you were baptized a Catholic, you’rea Catholic for life – even if you haven’t been to Mass for years, even if you’ve renounced thetitle and joined another Church. Your baptism infused your soul with Catholic DNA – it defineswho and what you are.Thus, I’ve chosen the title, “inactive Catholic,” because even though you haven’t been “active”in the Catholic community for awhile, especially by attending Sunday Mass, receiving thesacraments and otherwise participating in the life of the Church, you’re still a Catholic. Sorry . . .you’re stuck with us!Perhaps the exact name isn’t very important though. What’s more important is why you driftedaway from the Church, why you stopped coming to Mass, and what we can do about it.Did you leave the Church because you disagree with some of the Church’s teachings and practices; or because you found it boring and “didn’t get anything out of it”; or because someonein the Church offended you or disappointed you; or because you just got a little complacent,spiritually lazy, in the fulfillment of your obligations? Let’s look at each of these reasons.If you left the Church because you disagree with the fundamental teachings of the Church I’mafraid there’s not much I can do to help you. The essential teachings of the Church on matters of faith and morals aren’t negotiable – they weren’t made up arbitrarily by human beings but, infact, were given to us by Christ. They can’t be changed, even if they’re unpopular or difficult tolive with. I hope that you’ll take some time to really understand what the Church teaches andwhy. Sometimes, we find, good folks get bad information and that leads to confusion and thenalienation.If you left the Church because you found it to be boring and “didn’t get anything out of it,” well,I understand. Sometimes, it’s true, leaders of the Church haven’t fed the flock very well – sometimes we haven’t provided sound and challenging teaching and preaching, and sometimesour worship has been banal and bland. Perhaps we haven’t been very kind or welcoming. Iapologize for that; we can and should do better.