Relationship Infidelity - 3 Challenges Created by Infidelity in Your Relationship
Relationship Infidelity - 3 Challenges Created byInfidelity in Your Relationship
When in your relationship, infidelity has reared its ugly head, you are faced with newchallenges that you never envisioned facing. With time and commitment to the rebuildingwork on the part of both partners some marriages do survive an affair. However, there maystill be certain problems created by the affair that remain long after it is over.
A baby is involved
is something that you never get over. If you're the injuredspouse, the smallest thing can trigger painful memories for you but you learn how to copeand deal with it, especially if the affair is over and you and your spouse are workingtogether to repair your marriage. But what if there is a child involved? How are yousupposed to handle all of this? Not only an affair, but a baby too! There are things that youcan do to heal and make life bearable again. You and your spouse will want to come to anagreement about preserving your relationship and how to deal with the other person and thechild. You have to start communicating and truly begin talking with each other again.
Rebuilding your marriage when your spouse is miles away
If travel is a major part of your spouse's job and that is how he cheated on you, then youalso dread the time when he or she will be leaving home again. You probably get sick toyour stomach with each business trip your spouse makes, wondering if he is going to meetup with his old flame or start a new affair. So how can you repair the damage from milesaway? There are ways to rebuild and maintain trust even when your spouse is out-of-town.For one thing, if you have the flexibility to travel with your partner, then you should do so.Your cheating spouse would also want to maintain good contact with you by phone or email to keep you updated on his activities.
Crossing paths with the ex-paramour
Your disloyal spouse has ended the affair, it is over, but unfortunately due to circumstances beyond your control, you are thrown into the presence of the ex-paramour – the person whotried to destroy your marriage – on a constant basis. It is hard to heal and repair your relationship when every time you see this person, you are haunted by the affair all over