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Chapter 10: Dating, Love, Marriage and Sex
Introduction
 
903
 
Meeting, dating, and selecting a lov
er
 
905
 
The nature of attractionand love
 
910
 
o
 
Do we use our heart, genitals or brains in mate selection?
 
910
 
o
 
Romantic vs. companionate love
 
911
 
o
 
Love and infatuation;loveand dependency
 
o
 
Beliefs and mythsaboutlove
 
o
 
Kinds of 
lovers
 
915
 
o
 
Types of love; dimensions of love
 
918
 
o
 
Do men and women love differently?
 
922
 
o
 
Do you have to love yourself first?
 
923
 
o
 
The effects of separation
 
924
 
o
 
Is it true love?
 
925
 
Can marital success be predicted and improved?
 
926
 
o
 
Unconscious needs and motives in mateselection
 
928
 
o
 
What is your lovestory
?
 
932
 
o
 
Projection of traits andfeelings
 
932
 
o
 
Shou
ld we "live together" first?
 
933
 
o
 
Get premaritalcounseling
 
936
 
o
 
Books about selecting a partner
 
936
 
Marriage and Love
 
938
 
o
 
Myths about marriage
 
939
 
o
 
Facts about marriage
 
940
 
o
 
Stages in a marriage
 
941
 
o
 
Types of marriages
 
942
 
o
 
Books about love relationships before an
d after marriage
 
945
 
o
 
Is happiness getting as much as you put into a relationship?
 
948
 
o
 
Marriage and children: Dad's changing role at home
 
949
 
Handling marital problems
 
950
 
o
 
Marital adjustment: What are the common problem
s? 
950
 
o
 
Destructive communication in marriage
 
952
 
o
 
Coping with
communication differences or angry attributions
 
954
 
o
 
Learning to communicate differently requires practice
 
956
 
o
 
Resolving marital conflicts
 
958
 
 
 
902
 
o
 
Power s
truggles
 
961
 
o
 
Jealousy
 
963
 
o
 
Avoiding facing problems
 
968
 
o
 
Loveless marriages
 
970
 
o
 
Unfaithfulness
 
970
 
o
 
Lessons from lasting marriages
 
972
 
o
 
Maintaining intimacy throughout marriage (self 
-
help exercises)
 
974
 
Additional sources of help with marital problems
 
977
 
o
 
The importance of problem
-
solving: The warning signs
 
977
 
o
 
Self 
-
help exercises: Learning to meet each other's needs
 
978
 
o
 
Self 
-
help books for improving a marriage
 
981
 
o
 
Marriage enrichment groups
 
982
 
o
 
Couples or marital therapy
 
983
 
Coping with divorce
 
985
 
o
 
Reasons for divorce
 
985
 
o
 
The pain of divorce
 
987
 
o
 
Ideas and books for coping with divorce
 
988
 
o
 
The negative effects of divorce on children
 
991
 
o
 
Bitter parents (married or not) are very destructive
 
992
 
o
 
Helpful b
ooks for children of divorce
 
997
 
Remarriage and step
-
parenting
 
998
 
Sex and Cultural Taboos
 
1000
 
o
 
Acceptance of our sexual selves and feeling
s 
1001
 
o
 
Masturbation
 
1003
 
o
 
Turn
-
ons: male and female
 
1005
 
o
 
Acceptance of our bodies, sex play, fantasy, etc.
 
1007
 
Choosing your sexual life style
 
1012
 
o
 
Avoiding being forced or pressured by anyone
 
1012
 
o
 
A
young woman's lonely decision
 
1012
 
o
 
What are people's reasons for having sex?
 
1016
 
o
 
What does sex mean to you?
 
About Premarital Sex
 
1023
 
 
903
o
 
Premarital
sex in our time
 
1023
 
o
 
Guard against unwanted pregnancy!
 
1026
 
o
 
Guard against
sexually
transmitted diseases
 
1029
 
o
 
U.S. youth
make
more sexual mistakes
 
1032
 
o
 
Be responsible: don't do it or use contraceptives...abortion
 
1033
 
§
 
Both parties are responsible for avoiding pregnancy
 
1034
 
§
 
Men aren’tthesexual experts
 
1034
 
§
 
Are you mature enough to have sex?
 
1035
 
§
 
We are
uninformed
about sex
 
1036
 
§
 
The morningafterpill and abortion
 
1038
 
o
 
Guard against date rape
--
websites
 
1039
 
Sex in a committed relationship
 
1041
 
o
 
Sexual intercourse: misconceptions about “
making love"
 
1042
 
o
 
Books for improving sex
 
1046
 
Dealing with specific sexual problems
 
1046
 
o
 
Lack of sexual interest and solutions
 
1048
 
o
 
Male problems
--
premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction
 
1051
 
o
 
Female problems
--
difficulty having orgasm
s
or little interest
 
1055
 
o
 
Difficulty communicating about sex
 
1058
 
About Homosexuality
 
1060
 
Sour
ces of information about varioussexual problems
 
1064
 
Introduction
 
 
All the topics covered in this chapter fascinate most of us. Findingand keeping love is an eternal quest. Sex too seems to interest mostpeople. However, if you are working on a specific problem or in aparticular stage, such as dating or divorce, you will find parts of thechapter more relevant to your immediate concerns. Subjects in thischapter range from meeting potential partners to being happilymarried forever or going through a divorce and remarrying.
In
addition, at the end of the chapter, sexual adjustment, sexualproblems, and homosexuality are briefly discussed. This listing of topics should help you find the material you need.
No matter how successful they have been career
-
wise, most
people would say their loves (and the resulting family) were the mostimportant happenings in their lives. Love is fantastic. In the early

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