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tHe DatinG GaMe
tHe nice GUY
tHe PlaYeR
WHY YoU Fail
Boring & Superficial
no Direction
can’t leaD a Woman
irreSponSiBle paSSive Behavior
can’t make a DeciSion
paSSive-aggreSSive
noBoDy liStenS to you
unrealiStic expectationS
poor expreSSion
can’t get your neeDS met
girlS take aDvantage of you
PooR social inteRaction MoDels
liMiteD social inteRaction KnoWleDGe/exPeRience
WHeRe to staRt
social inteRaction is UniveRsal
PaRt ii: UnDeRstanDinG tHe solUtion
HoW to aPPRoacH social inteRaction
tHe neeD FoR PUblic scRUtinY
satisFaction
tHe caUse oF attRaction
FUnctional KnoWleDGe
attRaction toDaY
too sHoRt, too UGlY, too [inseRt inaDeqUacY]
tHe neeD FoR PRinciPles
oRDeR vs. DisoRDeR
balance—tHe PeRFect aRRanGeMent
DisPositional oRDeR
Positional oRDeR
bRinGinG oRDeR to YoUR social inteRactions
exPosinG DisoRDeR
aDDRessinG DisoRDeR in otHeRs
tRaininG PRoDUces consistencY
liMitation PRevents DisoRDeR
PRoPeR FoRM cReates liMitation
FReeDoM anD liMitation
aUtHoRitY—tHe PRoPeR Male FoRM
PURPose oF aUtHoRitY
societY oPPoses Male aUtHoRitY
aUtHoRitY MaintaineD bY Pain & PleasURe
PleasURe establisHes aUtHoRitY
love
Pain Maintains aUtHoRitY
FeaR
aUtHoRitY ReqUiRes sUbMission
WHY aUtHoRitY belonGs to Men
beinG ResPonsible to tHose UnDeR YoUR aUtHoRitY
PeRsonal aUtHoRitY
social aUtHoRitY
exeRcisinG FUnctional aUtHoRitY
saYinG “no”
leaDinG
HonoRinG vs. obeYinG
GiveR
WHY WoMen PlaY GaMes
initiate
FUnction
bRinGinG otHeRs toWaRD an oRDeRlY state
tHe RelationsHiP betWeen FUnction anD valUe
RestoRinG a PRoPeR vieW oF FUnction
FUnctional DesiRes vs. DYsFUnctional DesiRes
FUnctional socialization
tHe test FoR DYsFUnction
PaRt iii: aPPlYinG tHe solUtion
tHe anatoMY oF an exPectation
GivinG YoUR aUtHoRitY DiRection
RelationsHiP betWeen aUtHoRitY & exPectations
FUnctional & DYsFUnctional exPectations
Passive exPectations
active exPectations
PeRsonal & social exPectations
aDDRessinG FUnctional DesiRes (YoUR neeDs)
enFoRcinG YoUR exPectations
HoW to Get YoUR FUnctional exPectations Met
Pain anD PleasURe
aPPlYinG Pain
HoW MUcH Pain to aPPlY
WHeRe to aPPlY Pain
WHen to aPPlY Pain
maintaining your authority
looking for competence vS. creating competence
hanDling authority violationS
from reBellion to SuBmiSSion, in three StageS
pain vS. reaSoning
attituDe vS. actionS
aPPlYinG Pain Passive-aGGRessivelY
coMPlaininG, WHininG & PleaDinG
senDinG MixeD siGnals
aPPlYinG Pain oPPRessivelY
tHe Pain FallacY
tHReats
RiDicUle
MiscHaRacteRization
aPPlYinG Pain DiRectlY
DisaGReeMent
DisaPPRoval/Rejection
iGnoRinG
enFoRcinG conseqUences
UsinG neGative associations
aPPlYinG social PRessURe
tHe necessitY oF PleasURe
attention
sHaRinG YoUR exPeRiences
aFFection
PRaise
ReWaRDs
GivinG attention
UsinG Positive associations
aPPRoval/accePtance
lovinG
tRaininG YoUR exPRession
ReMovinG DisoRDeR FRoM YoUR exPRession
coMPonents oF an oRDeRlY exPRession
aPPRoacH anxietY
canDoR
eFFects oF an oRDeRlY exPRession
exaMPles oF an oRDeRlY exPRession
WRitten exPRession
oRal exPRession
sPeaKinG WitH aUtHoRitY
boDY lanGUaGe
PHYsical aPPeaRance
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