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Soulfood for Feb 14

Soulfood for Feb 14

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Published by: adrian_caballero_3 on Feb 14, 2011
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Soulfood for Feb 14: I Still Date My Ex-GF
*I Still Date My Ex-GF** **/Call Me Crazy, /**/But She Still Makes My Heart Go Pumpity-Pump/*I¶m not giving you my usual 8-page article today.Because today is Valentines, let me resurrect an article I wroteabout my Ex-GF. After 12.5 years of marriage, I¶m still crazy for this specialwoman.I realize that being with her is my little piece of heaven on earth.Here¶s my proof: So far, I¶ve had 652 romantic dates with mywife. (Yes, my wife. What were you thinking? She¶s myex-girlfriend, right?) That¶s once per week for almost 12.5beautiful years. And I¶ve loved every single one of them.Our date night is sacred.Unless it¶s an invitation from the President of the Republic, I sayno to all invitations and meetings. Our marriage is what it is todaybecause of those precious 652 dates.Call me corny. Call me deluded. Call me in denial.But I really love being with her.By the way, did you know my wife has magical powers?When I¶m with her, she drains my stress away. When I¶m goingthrough a rough time, all I have to do is share my problems to her,and instantly, I feel so much better. With her, I¶m at home. And Irest.I believe couples need to connect with each other in a deep way, or they will drift apart and look for attachments elsewhere. Aside from our weekly dates, I grab special times I call³spontaneous moments of connection´.*How To Have A Great Marriage*One day, a young husband came up to me and said, ³Bo, I wish mymarriage will be as great as yours ten years from now«´I only had one word for him: ³Don¶t wish. Decide.´In that one line, I gave my secret to success.That¶s what separates great marriages and not-so-great marriages.That¶s what separates successful people from unsuccessful people.Unsuccessful people wish, want, hope, desire for their dreams.That¶s not enough.Successful people /decide/ to make their dreams happen. Period.That means they¶ll do whatever it takes.Nothing will stop them.Failure is not an option.Let me ask you: Will you do whatever it takes?For me as a husband, it means the following:o I practice ³mental´ monogamyo I overlook her faultso I go out of my way to express my loveo I prioritize our dates

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