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Beyond Routines

Beyond Routines

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**THIS IS A GOOD READ**

Before reading any further, you should first understand that I am not going to show you how to "pick up" or "game" women. My approach is not in any way related to seduction or routines.

My focus is foremost, to show you how to have a great life independently of women, and in addition share simple natural methods for interacting with women (without attachment to outcome).


You can go beyond routines and "game" in your interactions with women, and avoid the common pitfalls of men in the seduction community, who are striving to be Pick Up Artists.

It is ironic that the men who pay thousands of dollars to learn seduction are being gamed more than the women in the clubs. In a way, women's value has been exploited to make money in the name of keeping your "genes alive".

Fad marketing has replaced real male role models and the results are a disaster.

But it isn’t just bad news for men.

Some women are being driven to become social recluses to avoid the guys using canned routines.

I hear these stories all the time.

I used to be a part of the seduction community for years and even though I experienced a degree of success my self-esteem was on very shaky ground. I was attaching too much importance to failure and success and despite having better and better "skills" it was not making success any easier. I saw this same pattern in other guys and I knew something was very wrong. I was forced to unlearn all the bad information in my head and make a new foundation for myself.

Luckily there were others like me who experienced the same thing and shared their wisdom. This made it easier.

The big realization for me was that trying to learn specific “steps” to get women makes you lose strength in the long run because it communicates on a deeper level that you need “skills” or “tight game” which may be lacking.

It is true. When you try to follow specific steps to get women you are losing your way as a man.

Fortunately, everything you need is inside you right now. By understanding this you will put things in proper perspective and gain strength in the process.

My 35-page ebook covers all this in detail, including:

• The importance of having standards to improve your quality of life, and not as a technique to get laid

• Removing your needy habits one at a time

• The art of talking about "nothing"

• The fallacy of Survival and Replication (Darwin would have a fit)

• Why in-field instructors tend to be more successful when bringing their students with them to the clubs. It’s not what you might have imagined

• Finding your way in the absence of genuine male role models. In other words, being a man

• The relevance of the "slut defense" (well, it's not really that relevant)

• Why seduction appears to work for some and the "placebo" effect

• The only "pickup lines" to use, which aren't really lines

• Casual hookups versus relationships

• The role of male dominance

• The importance of getting to the point quickly

• Examples from the animal kingdom and history, just to put things in perspective

• Meeting women in bars, clubs and during the daytime

• Online dating
**THIS IS A GOOD READ**

Before reading any further, you should first understand that I am not going to show you how to "pick up" or "game" women. My approach is not in any way related to seduction or routines.

My focus is foremost, to show you how to have a great life independently of women, and in addition share simple natural methods for interacting with women (without attachment to outcome).


You can go beyond routines and "game" in your interactions with women, and avoid the common pitfalls of men in the seduction community, who are striving to be Pick Up Artists.

It is ironic that the men who pay thousands of dollars to learn seduction are being gamed more than the women in the clubs. In a way, women's value has been exploited to make money in the name of keeping your "genes alive".

Fad marketing has replaced real male role models and the results are a disaster.

But it isn’t just bad news for men.

Some women are being driven to become social recluses to avoid the guys using canned routines.

I hear these stories all the time.

I used to be a part of the seduction community for years and even though I experienced a degree of success my self-esteem was on very shaky ground. I was attaching too much importance to failure and success and despite having better and better "skills" it was not making success any easier. I saw this same pattern in other guys and I knew something was very wrong. I was forced to unlearn all the bad information in my head and make a new foundation for myself.

Luckily there were others like me who experienced the same thing and shared their wisdom. This made it easier.

The big realization for me was that trying to learn specific “steps” to get women makes you lose strength in the long run because it communicates on a deeper level that you need “skills” or “tight game” which may be lacking.

It is true. When you try to follow specific steps to get women you are losing your way as a man.

Fortunately, everything you need is inside you right now. By understanding this you will put things in proper perspective and gain strength in the process.

My 35-page ebook covers all this in detail, including:

• The importance of having standards to improve your quality of life, and not as a technique to get laid

• Removing your needy habits one at a time

• The art of talking about "nothing"

• The fallacy of Survival and Replication (Darwin would have a fit)

• Why in-field instructors tend to be more successful when bringing their students with them to the clubs. It’s not what you might have imagined

• Finding your way in the absence of genuine male role models. In other words, being a man

• The relevance of the "slut defense" (well, it's not really that relevant)

• Why seduction appears to work for some and the "placebo" effect

• The only "pickup lines" to use, which aren't really lines

• Casual hookups versus relationships

• The role of male dominance

• The importance of getting to the point quickly

• Examples from the animal kingdom and history, just to put things in perspective

• Meeting women in bars, clubs and during the daytime

• Online dating

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Beyond Routines
www.beyondroutines.com
Giving men back control of their dating lives
Jakob Bachman© Copyright 2007
 
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Table of Contents
Legal Disclaimer.......................................................................................................Page 4
General Overview
 My Introduction To Dating And The Seduction Community............................................6How It Works.....................................................................................................................7
Developing Your Personal Inner Game
 Stop Entertaining Women To Win Them Over.............................................................. 10Have Standards And Screen............................................................................................ 10The Only Pickup Lines To Use....................................................................................... 11The Art Of Talking About "Nothing"............................................................................. 13The Seduction And NLP Gambit.................................................................................... 14The Beautiful Woman And Survival-And-Replication................................................... 15Finding Yourself............................................................................................................. 20Removing Your Needy Habits One At A Time.............................................................. 21Being A Man................................................................................................................... 22Casual Hookups And Relationships................................................................................ 24
Social And Biological Discussion
 The Relevance Of The “Slut Defense”........................................................................... 27Status And Older Women............................................................................................... 28The Patriarchy................................................................................................................. 29Primates And How They Do It........................................................................................ 29Dominance...................................................................................................................... 32Submissiveness................................................................................................................ 33
 
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Strategies To Meet Women
Getting To The Point Quickly......................................................................................... 35Which Women To Approach And Solicit....................................................................... 35Phone Calls And Emailing.............................................................................................. 36Multiple Women............................................................................................................. 36Relationships................................................................................................................... 37Flirting............................................................................................................................. 37Compliments................................................................................................................... 38Bars And Clubs............................................................................................................... 38Online Dating.................................................................................................................. 39A Final Word................................................................................................................... 42

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