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LSi: Get the women YOU want at holiday parties

LSi: Get the women YOU want at holiday parties

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Published by: Love Systems on Feb 26, 2011
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Love Systems Insider
Date: December 20, 2010
In this issue:
New - Meet and attract the women you want at 2010 holiday parties
Proven text messages to get the girl; Getting makeouts at the club but not dates?; Whatare the "basics" of dating and attraction? Happy Holidays from Love Systems! Let's get straight to the mailbag - there are some crucial questions in there about
meeting andattracting beautiful women at holiday parties
this year. 
Dear Savoy, Are Christmas and holiday parties good places to meet women? Do you have any special advice for these? I have trouble approaching women I don't know and I don't want tomake an ass of myself around people who I do know.
- Cameron F., Evansville, IN 
   Hi Cameron, Holiday parties are GREAT places to meet women. People are happy and social, and singlewomen want to meet men. Women you won't normally meet during the year still go out duringthe holidays. And there are lots of parties. In other words, it's easier. There's more variety. And the quality is higher. What more could aman want? For you, with "approach anxiety" one benefit of parties is they make it easier to startconversations with women. At parties, people are SUPPOSED to meet each other. It's not like acoffee shop (where people might be busy) or a nightclub (where people pretend they are notthere to meet each other). Some of my best holiday pickups have started with: 
"Hi, I'm Savoy. How do you know [name of the host]?" 
 Or, even better, get your friends to help. At parties, most people are connected in some way, sofind someone who knows that hot girl you want and get them to introduce you. Done. A couple tips to make approaching at parties even easier:1. Never be alone for more than a few seconds. It's bad enough to be by yourself at anightclub, but at a party it's a social kiss of death. Plus, people at parties are connectedand talk to each other. Make a great impression on those random people early in thenight and you might find out later that night that one of them is the brother of the hot girlyou're trying to take home. Makes everything a lot easier, doesn't it?2. Don't go into a party "cold." Put yourself in an outgoing, talkative mood first - ideally bygoing to the party with people, or, if you're going alone, stop by a bar or restaurant onthe way and do some "warm up" approaches. It's tough to avoid being awkward if youjust dump yourself into a big social situation when you haven't been talking to people.3. Start with a bunch of short 5-10 minute conversations at the beginning of the night,instead of a couple of long, intense ones. Try to meet everyone at the beginning. Thatwill make women more interested in you. Women love to compete for a man's attentionand women like men who are well-connected and have social intelligence. Once you'vemet everyone, re-initiate conversations with the women who most caught your attention.Good luck, and happy holidays, Savoy   
Dear Savoy, My brother recommended theLove Systems interview seriesto me a while ago, and I'mhooked. I've been a subscriber for almost a year and I get theold volumesfor anything that is holding me back. I've listened to your interviews on Social Circles and on "WarmApproach" and they've helped me a lot, but what would be really useful would be aninterview that just goes through the differences between nightclub game and party game.I know that I, and a lot of my friends who are also subscribers, would really appreciatethis! 
- Christopher P., Brighton, U.K.

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