says, he may just be saying on order to get me into bed. In the end it is my decision and if I am feeling pressured, I should just say “no”. Being “in love” may cloud my judgmenton this subject, so what I would do is make sure he knows that I am not going to doanything till I am ready.
If I was being pressured, I would defiantly take the time to go through and make afinal decision by sitting down, and writing down what the pros and cons to the situation.Taking time to make is a decision is a wise move. Making a spontaneous decision couldlead me to regret it later (or sooner then I think) in my life. In my decisions I would think of what I was raised to believe, like my morals and ethics. Whatever decision I wouldmake would be my final decision. Like I said before, I have control over my life, and my body. Nobody is going to force me into doing something I am not willing to do. The wayI would handle this is by sitting down my boy-friend and explaining how I feel to him. If he really “love’s me” as much as I love him, he would be willing to wait for me. If he isun-willing to wait for me, then maybe it is not love after all, because how could he loveme and not respect how I feel?
My decision to not have sex with my pressuring boy-friend comes from theunderstanding I have of how life works, and I was raised to believe I have to save myself for a special person. It is important that he knows that I was raised a certain way and I believe in the thought to wait to have sex to get married. Honestly, I have my whole lifein front of me to have sex, and experiment with many things. Living one’s life is the mostimportant thing a person can do. If a person lets another person live their life for them