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The Intelligent Dating Manual

The Intelligent Dating Manual

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The Intelligent Dating Manual:How to think, act and feel your way toMr. Great
Copyright 2011 Happily Ever Afters 1
 
Table of Contents
Getting your Head Screwed on Straight.................................................................................................... 3Make your Man List..............................................................................................................................3Would you be a great wife?...................................................................................................................5Making Space in Life and Home...........................................................................................................7Why we're lucky men like hot women..................................................................................................9Three immediate appearance items to consider ..................................................................................11Losing Weight to Date.........................................................................................................................12Eating for Pretty – 5 Easy Ways..........................................................................................................15Pay attention to what is feminine........................................................................................................18A word about Gold Diggers.................................................................................................................20Especially for the Successful Women................................................................................................. 23Especially for Women over 40............................................................................................................ 25The Final and Most Important thing to Get Straight in Your Head!...................................................27How to Find the Men...............................................................................................................................2910 Simple Tips to Online Dating.........................................................................................................29Top 20 Most Common Online Dating Photo Mistakes.......................................................................313 Ways to Date Via Referral – Be your Own Matchmaker!................................................................34Now that you're on a date.........................................................................................................................37Focus on the Things You Like.............................................................................................................37Shut off your Cell Phone.....................................................................................................................39The Case for a Second Date................................................................................................................40Get off of the Romance Crack and Listen to What's Coming Out of His Mouth!..............................43Men can't read your mind!...................................................................................................................45Don't Date for Potential ......................................................................................................................47Let your old crap stay “old crap”........................................................................................................ 49Do not Lie to your Date!..................................................................................................................... 51The Case for Learning to Cook...........................................................................................................53My Services.........................................................................................................................................55My Gratitude....................................................................................................................................... 55Copyright 2011 Happily Ever Afters 2
 
Section IGetting your Head Screwed on Straight
Make your Man List
This exercise is one of the most misunderstand efforts that I have women work through. It'salso incredibly eye opening and exceedingly important. Women are notorious for makingmental and physical lists about everything that they're looking for in a husband to be. Often,these lists keep women single, while they go about proudly wearing their badge that says “I'mjust too picky!” Uh...yes, you are. But I don't say this because you have standards. I onlysay this (lovingly), because you're probably focusing on the wrong things. You're focusing onyour wants, not your needs. The other thing that I find most interesting about women's lists, isthat although we insult men for being too physically focused, I find that women's lists areVERY focused on superficial things! Especially appearance! Most women forget that theyprobably started constructing the bulk of their list when they were heavily dating, in their mid-twenties. And then, many of us get serious about what we're suddenly looking for in ahusband in our mid-thirties. Or, we're divorced and thrown back into the dating pool in our mid-forties or fifties. News Flash! Prince Charming that you made up in your head doesn'tlook the same anymore. Neither do you.So, here's your exercise.1. I want you to make a list. A ridiculous one!Every fantasy in the book!2. Take your list down to 10 items only, and notone of these traits can be physical or superficial.They must be things like “kind, generous, fun,addiction-free, reliable...” Get the picture? THIS,is your list for the Universe. THIS is the list thatI want you to hang up on the wall next to your 
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