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Ijustranthroughmyhistoryofex'swonderingandevaluatinghowIwasineachoftherelationshipsandhowIinteractedwithwomenthenitdawnedonme...Iactuallyhavegreatrelationshipswithgirlswhohaven'thadafatherfigureintheirlives,astrangerevelationIknowbutitsquiteaseriouspoint.IrealisedIhadbeenoutwithmorewomenwhoHAVEN'ThadafatherfigureintheirlivesandnotedLOADSofdifferencesinhowtheyrelatedtomeandthedynamicoftherelationship.Womenwhohadfathersfellheadoverhealsalotslowerandaffectionwasfractionallylessweightyintermsofnecessityallthetime.Theyneededlessaffirmationandmoreoftenthannotdidn'tbeginourearlydayswithmakingsureIwasn'tcheatingorlikedanyothergirlsontheside,thisincludesChristiansandnonChristians.Ihavealsonoticedgirlsemotionalprocessdoesntchangemuchwhengirlsgetsavedtoo,exceptforthefactthatgirlssometimesdevelop'Christianitis'acommonandannoyingafflictionthatbringsboutsofnonsenseinspiredbyrandomcomparisonandutopianidealsofthekindofmantheywantandhownonoftheguysthatlikethemfitthebill...butthat'sawholeotherarticlealltogether!Bytheway,menget'Christianitis'too,thesymptomsjustdiffer;menstartimaginingsomeangelicbeautywiththeperfectphysic(specificallycreatedforthem)whoisamazinginthekitchen(andwe'llleaveeverywhereelsetoimagination).OHyeah,andthattheyaretheDICTATORSinthefamilyandrespectismandatory,notearned.ANDshe'sjustgonnaglowinthemidstofacrowdandGodwillsay"Thisistheonemyson..."-[yeahright!!!]ItalsohasotherweirdstrainswhichIwilldefinitelygointoanothertime,butletsgetbacktoourtopic...Itsnotanunknownfactthatgirlslookforelementsoftheirfathersinthementheygooutwithandifhewasneverpresentthensheoftendevelopsadistortedviewofmenwhichmoreoften'falls'outofhermouthinsentenceslike"thatsjustwahtmenarelike"and"youjustcanttrustmenthesedays"andothermanifestationsofTHEIRlimitedexperiencesmixedwithstereotypesand'haggardaunties'additions.Butatthesametimehumanbeingslearnfromexperience;eitherfromtheirownorotherpeoples,sometimesthestudydoesntgofarenoughtogivethemabalancedviewbutthatitselfisanexperiencethatwillteachthemalesson,Ikeepdigressing...Mostofmyex'shavehadnofatherandthatcreatedasomewhatuniquecollectionofbaggageinwhichInoticedatrendandhavefoundmyselfparticularlygiftedatmanagingnow,thatsallIreallywantedtosharebutitssomethingI'mgoingtolookmoreintoandtouchagain.Therearesingleguysreadingthisandhavealwayswonderedwhysomegirlshavealwaysbeenalittlemore'special'thanothersandthereareguysinrelationshipswhohavehittheir'eureka'momentastowhytheirgirlactsinaparticularwhyintermsofhowtheyinteract.Thereareevengirlsreadingthisthinking'doIhavefatherissues?'andIcanhonestlythat'thelackofafatherHASaffectedyoutosomedegreeanditsabou
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