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Life in Iran with My Two Sons

Life in Iran with My Two Sons

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Published by Diane Tober
In 2002, Dr. Diane Tober, a Medical Anthropologist, lived in Iran for 6 months, while conducting research among Afghan refugees and low income Iranians. This book is an account of her time in Iran, as a single mother, and explores Iranian daily life and culture through the lens of her and her children.
In 2002, Dr. Diane Tober, a Medical Anthropologist, lived in Iran for 6 months, while conducting research among Afghan refugees and low income Iranians. This book is an account of her time in Iran, as a single mother, and explores Iranian daily life and culture through the lens of her and her children.

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