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June 2, 2011 By Tom Matlack 21 Comments
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What does the rapid increase in
breast augmentation say
about all of us?
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While some experiments with breast augmentation
date back to the 19th century, the first widespread use
was during the 1940s, when Japanese prostitutes
began to have their breasts injected with substances
such as paraffin in the hope that American
servicemen stationed there after the war would favor
them with larger breasts.
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The CEO of a chain of strip clubs told me that 90
percent of his dancers have breast enhancements.
But, he said, “It is more about the stripper building her
self-confidence and feeling good about herself, and
less about the demand from the customer. Usually if
the girl is unhappy with the size or shape of her
breasts, she will opt to have implant surgery to be
better able to compete with the other entertainers in
the industry to make more money.”
I asked him about the women who get what appear to
be particularly grotesque large implants and the
motivation behind that. “Feature entertainers are
performers who have established themselves in the
industry by appearing in adult magazines and films,
therefore receiving credits. They are paid to travel to
gentlemen’s clubs to perform as a headline
entertainer on stage. Since they really need to stand
out from the ‘house dancers,’ they usually opt to go
larger than normal.”
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I asked a bunch of guys what they thought about
breast implants in order to get a random sampling of
what men really think.
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way real breasts look, move, and especially how they
feel,” he told me. “I mean, with my girl on top, real
boobs swaying and bouncing, life is good! While fakes
may look great to fill out clothing, they just don’t look
right naked.”
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turned on by big, hanging, natural udders.”
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Jenna spoke eloquently about how important it is to
feel good in your own skin and how she thinks that if
there is anything holding you back from being
confident and happy, there’s nothing wrong with
changing it—with or without plastic surgery. She
admitted that some male perceptions of the perfect
female body include big boobs, but she maintains that
she got her surgery for herself and only herself.
“I certainly do not believe in the ‘perfect body,’ nor do
I think it’s necessary for women to get a breast
augmentation solely for attention; however, if it is
something that will make you a happier person inside
and out, I don’t think women or men should be
judgmental about it.”
♦◊♦
Pablo Solomon is a 63-year-old sculptor of some note
who has been studying women’s bodies now for four
decades, in his studio just north of Austin, Texas. He
is internationally known for his drawings and
sculptures of dancers, many of whom are nude.
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be fit and balanced with that something special, which
is often hard to define.”
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"Nude Figure Study" by Pablo Solomon
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Grace Gold, 28, author of a book titled The Boob Job
Bible, is a journalist covering the beauty industry.
Jene’ Luciani, 33, is a well-known style correspondent
and author of The Bra Book. Both have had breast
augmentation. They are both experts in female beauty
and style in general but have faced the issue of breast
surgery in their own lives for different reasons.
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golden era, from Marilyn Monroe to Jane Russell to
Sophia Loren,” she told me.
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the surgery. “Women as sexual beings,” she says,
“feel a lot of pressure to have perfect bodies and
perfect breasts. This unattainable idea of perfection is
dangerous, especially to young girls.”
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country, I still firmly believe that we should all take the
obsession with fake over real when it comes to
gender relations as a red flag. It shows that we aren’t
really willing or able to deal with each other directly—
unfiltered, middle-aged body to middle-aged body.
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"The Prayer" by Pablo Solomon
1. Huh? says:
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Men overwhelmingly prefer natural breasts. Men
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don’t bear any responsibility for the plastic surgery
that women chose to have done because guess
what? Women are adults, just like men.
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o Amber says:
June 2, 2011 at 9:53 am
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I’m completely against augmentation, but whether
fake or natural, both men and women need to learn
how to accept women as they are. I’m not bothered
by men who have preferences, but men who press
natural breasts on women are just as bad as men
who press women to get augmentations. I also notice
that men who say they prefer natural breasts prefer it
for selfish reasons: they’re bouncy, soft, blah, blah,
blah. They don’t prefer them for any reasons that
have to do with women’s comfort.
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Go to says:
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June 2, 2011 at 2:28 pm
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Amber, you just have a low opinion of men and an
over inflated opinion of women.
If they prefer natural, they are bad, if they for some
reason prefer fake they are bad, if they prefer natural
because they feel and look better, they are bad.
And in your book whats acceptable is men basing
their preferences on what evers more comfortable
for women, but in reality, I think you would find men
with no minds of their own and like or don’t like
things based on whats best for you pretty creepy and
unattractive,
For someone who claims to be a humanist and not a
feminist, you come out with some very feministy
things.
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2. Margaret says:
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How
about http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2
011/06/perverse-incentives/8489/
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3. TheBlended says:
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Thank you for this balanced article…I truly enjoyed
reading it. Not everyone was born into the “ideal”
body, but it’s what you make of it, right? I’ve met the
kind of girls that have implants who sort of wear them
like a badge and it seems to be the ruling force in
their lives, and then I’ve met women who you
wouldn’t know have implants because they didn’t get
them for anyone else but themselves. I think that’s
the difference in the way I feel about it. One side of
the story makes me a little sick while the other side of
the story makes me respectful of their very personal
choice.
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4. Daddy Files says:
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I love natural breasts. Fake boobs are terrible. But my
wife has always wanted breast augmentation surgery,
and very well may get it someday. I’m against it
because I think she looks perfect the way she is, but
if she wants to do it then ultimately I’ll accept it and I’d
never forbid her to do something just because I didn’t
like it.
But I don’t think men bear any responsibility for the
increase of fake boobs. These are adult women with
their own thoughts and opinions. They’re doing it, not
men. I think you can easily subtract men from this
whole equation.
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5. Danny says:
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Daddy Files:
But I don’t think men bear any responsibility for the
increase of fake boobs. These are adult women with
their own thoughts and opinions. They’re doing it, not
men. I think you can easily subtract men from this
whole equation.
Agreed. Trying to hold men responsible for that would
be like trying to hold women responsible for the
advent of penis elargement junk emails.
Personally I don’t care much about the size of a
person’s breasts in and of themselves. Although I
admit that I do notice their size in relation to the other
parts of the person’s body but even then its not like
its a deal breaker. Its a preference not a requirement.
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When the hell will women have to take full
responsibility for the choices they make? Seems like
every article on this site perpetuates this idea that the
“evils of patriarchy”, and the “Male Gaze”, and male
this and that etc. are the very least equally
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responsible for decisions that women make. You
would think from reading this site that women had
absolutely no agency whatsoever.
Are women THAT insecure and easily influenced by
male opinions?
Are men THAT overbearing and hell bent on
controlling every aspect of female existence?
Hell no!
Bottom line women who get augmentation for
whatever reason CHOSE to do so. THAT person and
ONLY THAT person opted to go under the knife.
Also, where is this notion coming from that the
majority of men like large or enhanced breast?
Maybe, just maybe a large portion of the 300,000
women who opted to get augmentation last year
thought THEMSELVES that bigger/augmented breast
were better under their own volition.
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the site and what we are trying to do. I personally
have a pretty strong bias against breast
augmentation as a phenomenon not only because
fake over real isn’t something I find aesthetically
pleasing in pretty much anything, but because as a
father of a 17 year-old girl and wife of a 46 year-old
women I am sensitive to the pressure the women in
my life are under as they walk around a world that is
dominated by porn, swimming pools populated by
augmented breasts, and the like. I wrote the piece
because I saw a women I care a lot about who got
plastic surgery I really think out of a kind of despair
that made her look, in my personal view, worse not
better. It made me really sad. That’s why I decided to
write the piece. What I found in doing the research is
that like so many other things when it comes to
gender there is no easy overall conclusion to be
made about augmentation. And frankly in the end,
yes, these are adult women making decisions about
their own bodies for better or worse.
But I don’t think this discussion somehow leaves men
completely innocent nor do I think it is intended to
highlight the evils of patriarchy. It was intended to
present the issue in as balanced a way, from as
many perspectives as I possibly could, to promote a
thoughtful discussion.
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o Clark Kent says:
June 2, 2011 at 12:34 pm
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I’m basing this response on this ^^^ particular
response you’ve posted.
If you and I and (I believe the majority) of the
American male population find natural breast more
aesthetically pleasing, where then is this pressure
coming from for women to opt for augmentation?
Also where is this obsession coming from? And, why
is that obsession being insinuated as male-centric?
Also, from your statement: “I wrote the piece
because I saw a women I care a lot about who got
plastic surgery I really think out of a kind of despair
that made her look, in my personal view, worse not
better. It made me really sad. That’s why I decided to
write the piece.”
Do you believe women (or the majority of) who do
augment do so because of some sort of
esteem/insecurity issue? Why isn’t as much
credence given to the idea that women themselves
choose to augment because THEY find it more
attractive?
No one would dare blame women for the “male
enhancement” craze of the last decade or so. The
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vast majority of people would agree that it is due to
male insecurities and not pressure from women
saying bigger is better. Why can’t that same
argument or logic be applied to breast
augmentation?
I think that’s where many people’s (or at least my)
frustration comes from this article.
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etc…is that you really can’t generalize. Just like I
wouldn’t want to speak for all men on what it means
to be good I really can’t say why all women, or even
most women, get breast augmentation.
All I said was taken as a whole the trend is troubling
to me personally as I would like to believe that
natural beauty is better than something that is
artificial. That’s why I chose to use art for the piece
because artists in general try to get at what is the
essence of the human form, not some crazy cartoon
character version. I also do think that the prevalence
of porn and acceleration of breast augmentation are
related. There has been quite a bit of research done
which indicates that men who watch porn regularly,
in general, become inclined towards cartoon style
artificial breasts. Not everyone but more than the
average population.
Believe me I am not man bashing here. I am just
trying to lay out there that breast augmentation is
happening, it has a variety of reasons, and has real
consequences, and its worth talking about.
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Well I definitely appreciate the fact that you take
time out to participate in discussions in the
commenting section. Whether or not we agree on a
certain issue it is refreshing that you make yourself
available in such a way.
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Tom: I’m curious about the porn angle.
Why are we so quick to blame adult movies for
society’s ills? What about actresses with boob jobs
in mainstream movies? Or how about the fact that
going under the knife for elective surgery is thought
of as commonplace now? I think those things have
much more to do with the prevalence of plastic
surgery than porn. And if I am gawking at fake tits in
porn, it’s probably not because I’m attracted to them.
To the contrary, I’m probably flabbergasted at how
huge, hard and nasty they look and I’m viewing it
like a carnival sideshow.
And lastly, I truly believe women are out to impress
other women far more than they’re out to impress
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men. Just my two cents.
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8. Amber says:
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I will readily admit men are not at all at fault for this.
It’s mostly women who pressure each other to have
enhanced breasts. I have never once heard of a man
pressuring his wife or girlfriend or whatever to have
enhanced breasts. In fact, on an episode of True Life,
the women who wanted breast implants did so
because either their mothers or their friends were
pressuring them. Their boyfriends were just fine with
the way they are and tried to discourage them from
doing so, but they kept claiming it’s a confidence
thing–or even a bullying thing. Confidence doesn’t
come from such artificial remedies as breast
implants. Confidence comes from within and is the
ability to accept yourself. I mean, I try not to judge
women who choose to get breast implants, but it’s
very hard to not get upset at some of the reasons
they posit because there is no true rationality behind
their reasons. Sure, their choices don’t effect me, but
they only feed into this perfect body situation and
serve as another example of the supposed female
plight.
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9. Go to says:
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Tom Matlock
Are you serious, you don’t like the fact that men don’t
share collective responsibility and guilt for womens
vanity and their decisions to get breast
enhancements?
You are more than welcome to languish in the
feminist constructed, oppressive prison of collective
male guilt, but don’t expect the rest of us to join you.
Let me know when you get out, and I’ll buy you a pint.
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Instead of being so quick to respond defensively to
something that apparently is a big issue for women,
perhaps a better way to look at this issue is to take a
step back and as a man, not blame women for their
choices or automatically make the connection that
women are blaming men for their choices. I’d be
more encouraged to hear from men: “women do face
a lot of pressure and I can understand why they do or
don’t get breast implants.” Instead of some of the
defensive this-is-all-women’s-fault-and-women’s-own-
issue-to-deal-with attitude that doesn’t really help
men and women bridge body image gaps.
I’m small chested but my mom is quite busty. It never
bothered me until I started learning more about the
types of media that interested men, the types of
women that were represented in that media and the
comments that I heard in general from male friends
and boyfriends about my own chest size and other
girls. I am NOT blaming men. I am responsible for my
own self confidence. But men comment on breast
size. Breasts matter to men. This isn’t a secular
issue. Men have an impact here. There is a big focus
on breast size for women then there is for penis size
in men. Because quite simply, breasts are
everywhere in media and commercials on a level that
male penis size doesn’t reach.
And honestly, from my perspective, men send such
double messages here. You can’t say you like the
way fake breasts look but not feel and think that’s
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suppose to make women feel good or be less
confused. So we are only suppose to look like the
fantasy but feel like the real thing. That’s an
impossible standard to meet. As a woman, it often
seems like you’re suppose to possess the super
human confidence to not worry about the way your
body looks, or not buy into the images that the media
sends about your body; but it’s okay for the men in
your life to buy into the exact images you try to fight
against. And I don’t think that’s fair. I am never going
to get breast implants, my size fits who I am. But I will
be damned that I’m told that I’m suppose to be so
uber confident to not let these images affect me while
men continually buy into them by staring, purchasing,
commenting or paying money to see them. This
needs to be a joint effort. If you are a man that likes
real breasts, saying things like fake breasts look good
but real ones feel good doesn’t help the case for real
breasts. If you are a man that likes real breasts,
spending money on strippers with fake ones because
it’s something new, doesn’t help the case for real
breasts.
Women might get breast implants to make
themselves more confident. But that’s only because
they previously bought into an idea that their bodies
aren’t good enough as they are. I don’t believe that
any woman gets breast implants just for themselves.
They get them because they believe their bodies are
not appropriate the way they are. That they are aren’t
proportionate. But what is proportionate? How has
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that idea of changed through the years and why?
Look at women in old paintings and most of us would
probably think they aren’t proportionate. And yet, they
were painted because they were thought to be
beautiful. Our ideas of what “proportionate” is today is
the real question.
But of course, women naturally play a huge part too.
(However, this shouldn’t be used as an excuse for
men to obliterate any responsibility for the messages
they send about what they like in women’s bodies.) I
remember my one girlfriend being upset with a friend
of hers that got breast implants. This same girlfriend
had a baby a year ago and was talking about how
she might get her breasts lifted after she was done
having kids. I was a little flabbergasted with her at
first because she was critical of her friend that got
breast implants. And she was only critical of that
friend because she knew that the desire for the
implants was born out of insecurity and she felt sorry
for her friend. And I know that her desire to fix her
breasts after having kids is born out of her insecurity
as well.
We all know what men like. We all know what men
pay attention to. Women want men to like them, to
still be attracted to them. And if men show they are
attracted to a certain body type, women will strive to
be that body type. Women live in a world that reminds
them everyday how much they lack. Then they go
home to their partners who more then likely, are
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downloading images of other girls with or without
implants. Women can’t get away from the message
about their bodies. I am not asking men to take the
blame for this. I am just asking that men try to
understand where women are coming from here.
Penis size isn’t as nearly represented in media like
boobs are. But women have a resonsibility to
themselves to learn real body confidence. Then
women need to reject ideals about what makes them
women, that bigger breasts make them more
womanly and men need to reject mediums that
support the most shallow parts about women and
send false ideas about what a real woman’s body is.
Until that happens, a lot of men are going to see their
daughters and wives struggle with the way their
bodies look.
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o Makenzie says:
June 2, 2011 at 6:32 pm
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AMEN. Thank you for such a thoughtful response.
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11. Go To says:
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I’m sorry Erin
But the crusade by privileged american feminists to
get men to believe that grown women should be
pampered , molly coddled and fathered by men as a
group is totally and utterly unreasonable.
You’d just like to “get men” to think this, understand
that, take responsibility for you, to control men and
manipulate them into the role of your father and
protector and whipping boy.
If women have a problem with the media, stop
worshiping it, celebrities and taking your cues from it,
disconnect.
If you have a problem with beauty standards, stop
competing with each other and driving them up.
If you have a problem with vanity, fall out of love with
your own reflections.
Date within your league instead of using fakery to aim
above it.
The first step for feminists in this regard, is to stop
blaming men and “patriarchy” for their neurosis and
weaknesses and every other little thing, because
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otherwise its impossible to conceptualize talking
responsibility for yourselves.
Paternal men, like some of the ones writing for this
mag. are responsible too, for encouraging and
enabling it.
You’ve got to chose between equality or being
children, you cant expect to be treated like children
and expect equality, its one or the other.
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1) Just as the size of a man’s penis or muscles can
make him feel more/less masculine, so the size of a
woman’s breasts make her feel more or less
feminine. I have always been very small on top, and it
makes me feel less womanly. Working for a plastic
surgery review site, I have come across many women
who say the same thing. Having full breasts is one
thing that has always made women different from
men, so it seems only natural that we feel a desire to
enhance that distinction.
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2) Regardless of who started it (men or women), a
woman’s breasts have long been put on display.
Even in historical clothing, corsets and dresses were
designed to push ‘em up and out. For whatever
reason, breasts are a focal point in our culture, and
probably always will be. Why should a woman feel
bad for wanting to enhance her focal point?
3) Regarding the “natural” vs “fake” debate. The
problem with asking men this question, is that many
men associate fake boobs with what they see in porn
and Hollywood. The reality is, a lot of women opt for
small (C or less) implants that the naked eye wouldn’t
notice if done by an expert surgeon. Of course one
might prefer a natural looking B-cup to say, Holly
Madison’s rocks. But the more important question is
would you prefer a barely-there, all natural AA, or a
slightly enhanced C that still had the slope and curve
of natural breasts? The latter is entirely achievable
with a good doc.
I do think it’s odd when women choose implants that
are too large for their body, ala Pam Anderson.
But just as women prefer bigger penises (it’s not a
deciding factor, but she’s lying if she says it’s not a
plus), so do most men prefer breasts that are full and
present. A too large penis uncomfortable, as too big
of breasts could be awkward and get in the way.
It’s not about porn star knockers, but just having
*something.* I’ve never had anything but
compliments on my breasts-that-disappear-in-a-bikini,
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but I can’t imagine any of my exes being upset if they
were suddenly a little larger. These features are what
set our sexes apart, so why wouldn’t we be
genetically inclined to look for someone who has the
most to offer? Watch one episode of “Life” or “Planet
Earth” and it’s clear that many animals choose mates
in similar ways.
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Natural is more beautiful. Surgery is okay by me if it
is to repair a problem. I had a friend in college with
mismatched boob sizes, and I thought she looked
great. (We went to a college with a lot of nude
sunbathing. We weren’t lovers.)
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