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A MAP OF THE JOURNEY
In the same way the person who wants to cultivate his innerqualities must do the same. The two have many similarities.Maybe you know the meaning of the Pæ¹i word
bhævanæ
. Oneof the meanings is cultivation. Bhævanæ literally means to makesomething grow. The root of the word bhævanæ is
bhþ
meaningto grow, i.e. cultivation. When you grow something it impliesthat you have the seed, either in the form of a grain or anotherpart of the plant like a branch. So, you already have somethingto grow. If you don’t have the seed you cannot grow anything. Just to have the seed is not enough; you also have to preparethe land. When you prepare the land first of all you pull out theweeds, clear the land. This is something we should also do in ourlife. It is very natural for weeds to grow. Look deeply into yourlife, into the way you are living and find out what kind of weedsare there. Some of them have been there for a very long timeand have grown strong roots, it might take sometime to dig thoseroots out, just like a bad habit, taking intoxicants, drinking, etc.Pulling out weeds and removing stones is very important.If you love doing something don’t bargain. A lot of peopleask me how long you need to sit in order to develop
samædhi
(concentration), how long do they need to meditate to attain
Nibbæna
. How can anybody tell how long? If you really love doingit, you are happy because you are doing it; this happiness and joygives you a lot of motivation. Please don’t bargain! People wantto give as little as possible and get as much as possible. I thinkthis is not the right attitude especially in meditation. In otherareas of our life as well, like in relationships, if you want to give