I got up and
HER on her neck. Auwloh's Messenger (may peace be upon him)
and said: They are around me as yousee,
asking for extra money
. Abu Bakr (Auwloh be pleased withhim) then got up went to 'A'isha (Auwloh be pleased with her) ANDSLAPPED HER on the neck, and 'Umar stood up before Hafsa and slapped her saying: You ask Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be uponhim) which he does not possess.They said: By Auwloh, we do not ask Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) for anything he doesnot possess. Then he withdrew from them for a month or for twenty-nine days. Then this verse was revealed to him: "Prophet: Say to thy wives… for a mighty reward" (xxxiii. 2 . He then went first to 'A'isha(Auwloh be pleased with her) and said: I want to propound somethingto you, 'A'isha, but wish no hasty reply before you consult your parents. She said: Messenger of Auwloh, what is that? He (the Holy Prophet) recited to her the verse, whereupon she said: Is it about youthat I should consult my parents, Messenger of Auwloh? Nay, I choose Auwloh, His Messenger, and the Last Abode; but I ask you not to tell any of your wives what I have said. He replied: Not one of them will ask me without my informing her. God did not send me to be harsh, or cause harm, but He has sent me to teach and make things easy.
(Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3506)
KETIDAKPUASAN ATAS POLIGAMI MUHAMMAD
Muhammad melanggar sendiri Quran surat an-Nisaa’ 4:3 denganpoligami lebih dari empat. Menurut Qurat surat al-Ahzab 33:51,Muhammad boleh memilih semaunya kapan dan dengan istri yangmana ia mau menghabiskan waktu sekehendak hasratnya. Akibatnya,Aisyah, istri kanak-kanaknya, merasa tertekan atas perilaku egoisMuhammad dan betapa gegabahnya si Auwloh memenuhi kemauandan nafsu nabinya:
Narrated Aisha:I used to look down upon those ladies who had given themselves to Auwloh’s Apostle and I used to say, "Can a lady give herself (to aman)?" But when Auwloh revealed: "You (O Muhammad) can postpone(the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives), and you may receive any of them whom you will; and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you have set aside (temporarily)." (33.51) I said (to the Prophet), "I feel that YOUR LORD HASTENS in FULFILLINGYOUR WISHES and DESIRES."
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 6, Book 60,Number 311)