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Rumah Tangga Nabi Nan Berantakan

Rumah Tangga Nabi Nan Berantakan

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uslim sering sesumbar dan berdalih bahwa di tengah iklimpoligami pun, istri-istri Muhammad tetap bahagia dan rumahtangganya sakinah, mawaddah dan warohmah. Konon tak adaketidak-puasan diantara mereka. Bukti-bukti berikutmembungkam mitos tersebut!
Abu Bakar menempeleng Aisyah dan Umar menempeleng Hafsah.Muhammad cuma tertawa:
 Jabir b. ‘Abdullah (Auwloh be pleased with them) reported: Abu Bakr (Auwloh be pleased with him) came and sought permission to see Auwloh's Messenger (may peace be upon him). He found people sittingat his door and none amongst them had been granted permission, but it was granted to Abu Bakr and he went in. Then came 'Umar and hesought permission and it was granted to him, and he found Auwloh's Apostle (may peace be upon him) sitting sad and silent with his wivesaround him. He (Hadrat 'Umar) said: I would say something whichwould make the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) laugh, so hesaid:Messenger of Auwloh, I wish you had seen (the treatment meted out to) the daughter of Khadija when she asked me some money, and 
I got up and 
HER on her neck. Auwloh's Messenger (may  peace be upon him)
and said: They are around me as yousee,
asking for extra money 
. Abu Bakr (Auwloh be pleased withhim) then got up went to 'A'isha (Auwloh be pleased with her) ANDSLAPPED HER on the neck, and 'Umar stood up before Hafsa and slapped her saying: You ask Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be uponhim) which he does not possess.They said: By Auwloh, we do not ask  Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) for anything he doesnot possess. Then he withdrew from them for a month or for twenty-nine days. Then this verse was revealed to him: "Prophet: Say to thy wives… for a mighty reward" (xxxiii. 2 . He then went first to 'A'isha(Auwloh be pleased with her) and said: I want to propound somethingto you, 'A'isha, but wish no hasty reply before you consult your  parents. She said: Messenger of Auwloh, what is that? He (the Holy Prophet) recited to her the verse, whereupon she said: Is it about youthat I should consult my parents, Messenger of Auwloh? Nay, I choose Auwloh, His Messenger, and the Last Abode; but I ask you not to tell any of your wives what I have said. He replied: Not one of them will ask me without my informing her. God did not send me to be harsh, or cause harm, but He has sent me to teach and make things easy.
(Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3506)
 Muhammad melanggar sendiri Quran surat an-Nisaa’ 4:3 denganpoligami lebih dari empat. Menurut Qurat surat al-Ahzab 33:51,Muhammad boleh memilih semaunya kapan dan dengan istri yangmana ia mau menghabiskan waktu sekehendak hasratnya. Akibatnya,Aisyah, istri kanak-kanaknya, merasa tertekan atas perilaku egoisMuhammad dan betapa gegabahnya si Auwloh memenuhi kemauandan nafsu nabinya:
Narrated Aisha:I used to look down upon those ladies who had given themselves to Auwloh’s Apostle and I used to say, "Can a lady give herself (to aman)?" But when Auwloh revealed: "You (O Muhammad) can postpone(the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives), and you may receive any of them whom you will; and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you have set aside (temporarily)." (33.51) I said (to the Prophet), "I feel that YOUR LORD HASTENS in FULFILLINGYOUR WISHES and DESIRES." 
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 6, Book 60,Number 311)
Narrated Muadha:’Aisha said, "Auwloh's Apostle used to take the permission of that wifewith whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go toone other than her, after this Verse was revealed:--’You (O Muhammad) can postpone (the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives) and you may receive any (of them) whom you will;and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you haveset aside (temporarily).’" (33.51) I asked Aisha, "What did you use tosay (in this case)?" She said, "I used to say to him, ‘If I could deny you the permission (to go to your other wives) I would not allow your favor to be bestowed on any other person.’" 
(Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume6, Book 60, Number 312)
Istri-istri Muhammad Protes dan Ngambek!!
… Then ‘Umar went on relating the narration and said. "I and an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiya bin Zaid who used to live in‘Awali Al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turns. He used to go oneday, and I another day. When I went I would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the instructions and orders and when he went, he used to do the same for me. We, the people of Quraish, used to have authority over women, but when we came tolive with the Ansar, we noticed that the Ansari women had the upper hand over their men, so our women started acquiring the habits of the Ansari women. Once I shouted at my wife and she paid me back in my coin and I disliked that she should answer me back.She said, ‘Why doyou take it ill that I retort upon you? By Auwloh, THE WIVES OF THE PROPHET RETORT UPON HIM, AND SOME OF THEM MAY NOT SPEAK WITH HIM FOR THE WHOLE DAY TILL NIGHT.’ What she said scared me and I said to her, ‘Whoever amongst them does so, will be a great loser.’ Then I dressed myself and went to Hafsa and asked her, ‘Does ANY OF YOU KEEP AUWLOH's APOSTLE ANGRY ALL THE DAY LONGTILL NIGHT ?’ She replied in the affirmative. I said, ‘She is a ruined losing person (and will never have success)! Doesn’t she fear that  Auwloh may get angry for the anger of Auwloh's Apostle and thus shewill be ruined? Don’t ask Auwloh’s Apostle too many things, and don't retort upon him in any case, and don't desert him.Demand from mewhatever you like, and don’t be tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e.

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